Right she said she didn’t want anything to do with what we were going through. She said didn’t care about about are problems but as soon we family court it was a different story...
His troubled childhood is what kept me hooked on “helping” him. I was his security for 8 years and it changed literally nothing but left me completely battered and numbed to my own basic needs and desires in life. As a kid, his dad passed, his mom was dependent on men & neglectful, and step dad very much a narcissistic abuser himself. He idolizes this step dad to this day and he’s also one of his fav sources of narcissistic supply. I feel sad for his mother regardless of her faults as she is kind and is surrounded by these toxic types. Too weak and tired to stand her ground :(
Shit girl that's alot. I was the best daughter in law until I said I wanted a divorce. I then turned into the crazy black chick......and you are so right the mothers man they sometimes enable this behaviour. Funny enough the ex left home to live with his grandmother too and se was a heartless cold woman .....thanks for sharing your experiences 🙏
Wow… mine gave his mother a heart attack shouting at her …. She told him she was struggling to swallow after and died Ron heart attack hour or after his rage. He now tries to do with me …. Of course he blames me because he didn’t see her that day, No way is he going to kill me at 60 😅
Right she said she didn’t want anything to do with what we were going through. She said didn’t care about about are problems but as soon we family court it was a different story...
His troubled childhood is what kept me hooked on “helping” him. I was his security for 8 years and it changed literally nothing but left me completely battered and numbed to my own basic needs and desires in life. As a kid, his dad passed, his mom was dependent on men & neglectful, and step dad very much a narcissistic abuser himself. He idolizes this step dad to this day and he’s also one of his fav sources of narcissistic supply. I feel sad for his mother regardless of her faults as she is kind and is surrounded by these toxic types. Too weak and tired to stand her ground :(
Shit girl that's alot. I was the best daughter in law until I said I wanted a divorce. I then turned into the crazy black chick......and you are so right the mothers man they sometimes enable this behaviour. Funny enough the ex left home to live with his grandmother too and se was a heartless cold woman .....thanks for sharing your experiences 🙏
This sounds exactly like my exes mum!
Wow… mine gave his mother a heart attack shouting at her …. She told him she was struggling to swallow after and died Ron heart attack hour or after his rage. He now tries to do with me …. Of course he blames me because he didn’t see her that day, No way is he going to kill me at 60 😅