“It’s not worth doing it, eventually you get caught”... what about you don’t do it because you hurt people, and it’s despicable! Not because you get caught!
@@skiptrack326 He'd been talking tho about how he had to take a class in which he had to try to see things from the victim's perspective. He recited some things that were probably told to him by the instructor, but it's clear that the fear of "getting caught" was his main reason to avoid doing it in future. So the class is of negligible utility. They should just post the pictures and names of every perpetrator on the evening news. Then watch as every girl on his school gives him the evil eye and runs to the other side of the room whenever he entered. That's a better punishment than a class in which you're taught to say the right thing to get out of trouble.
I agree with the girl the best way to shut down these guys is to post their real info online so that they see how it feels on the receiving end of the abuse. These guys have no right to privacy.
Sadly, this is also a prevailing issue in South Korea. I've seen a similar documentary about it YEARS ago. It is frustrating and paranoia-inducing to watch as I am a woman myself... We have to be cautious in using the restrooms, staying in a hotel, or even just RIDING an escalator. Like jeez, give us a break! 🤷🏻♀️
My husbands uncle and aunt, mom and dad, and sisters came up in the past when we were only dating for a few years and his uncle put his cellphone on video record and left it in the bathroom aiming right at the toilet hiding behind stuff on my shelves. I remember it was New Years we all celebrated with some drinks and he got really drunk but I was still disturbed. I saw a flash of something while I was pn on the toilet and called my boyfriend in and he then showed his dad, which is his uncles brother. I was so disturbed and pissed and even my bf and his dad was shocked. His dad had a talk with my bf’s uncle in the morning and he (uncle) claimed he was trying to catch his own wife as a joke but cmon we are all having drinks and go to the bathroom more often too big of a risk at someone else’s home.
With 4 granddaughters and a couple of great granddaughters, I wonder what the hell kind of world I have brought them into? Micro cameras everywhere and perverts willing to put this crap on the internet. I'm no saint and sometimes even look at porn on the internet (yes my wife knows) but kids and up skirts I don't get it. I'm just very sorry kids and young adults must worry about this crap on a daily basis.
I had my face photoshopped onto a person wearing lingerie. Over 20 years ago. My boss asked if it was me, and showed me. That’s the only reason I knew. Was embarrassed even though it wasn’t my body. Then it made it weird thinking they are thinking of me that way.
I'm afraid that's going to be the future - even if people are careful about what they post, perverts will be able to digitally add your face to any porn actor's body and photoshop anything to look disgusting. No one will be able to tell what's real and what's not anymore.
Yes I think its right to let the world know who the perpetrators are!!! Victims should not suffer while perpetrators living their life fully & looking for the next victim. For all the victims, BE STRONG.
It’s the Illuminati. If you watch “fall of the cabal,” you’ll find out the truth about our reality. It’s 3 hours long, and you won’t find it on RUclips because they censor it, go to BitChute to see it.
No matter how much you love and trust your partner male or female NEVER let them take sexual photos or videos of you. You never what will happen in the future!!
Good for you guys! Thank you, White Hat hackers. Our laws haven't kept up with cyber-crimes. We need younger politicians who are aware of crimes being committed via internet technology.
alvinology.com/2018/04/23/who-is-joal-ong/ Ya - this dude deserves to suffer for what he did to her. I mean - sure she shouldn't have let it happen but he should be held entirely liable. Name is Joal Ong
They should post his picture and labelled it as the biggest perverted jerk. I wonder what he will feel if the same thing is done to his mother or sister. He should also be jailed for a long time. What is the government doing?
Due process. Obviously, the perpetrator should be punished, but until there is a trial, those charged need to be considered innocent until proven guilty. What if they got the wrong guy, he's found not guilty, and you've now dragged an innocent person's name and image through the mud? Probably not likely in this case, but it's good to have these standards in fair justice systems.
@@kirtipuri1681 I think his point is that men/boys are mostly excluded when these issues come up because of assumptions like yours. There are less male victims by report data simply because its not socially acceptable for us to be victims. You usually hear this phrase said from people to men: suck it up and be a man. I think it stems from the belief that men on average are stronger than females and by default cannot be victims. But the thing is, we are put in a more precarious situation if we get physical with women. I'm not saying that we should be disregarding female victims. But don't exclude us.
@@cherylblossom3394 That's understandable. You're a woman so it's only normal for you to be more aware of the burdens women carry. I'm a man therefore i am more aware of the burdens men carry. This is a very complex subject matter. I just wish people would stop viewing things in black and white lenses.
@@cherylblossom3394 I have a daughter, i love women.. but i do not trust the system. I cant afford to.. the worst most expensive business decision a man can possibly make is to get married. and the reverse might be true for breadwinner women too. Women get a bad deal.. but inside the divorce court it is a different world.. men paying child support for kids who do not share their dna. Nothing happening to women who commit paternity fraud. women having right to abort when men do not have the right to financially abort. It is kind of like having to pay taxes when you do not have representation. I'm all for the equal rights amendment.. where 50% of men can get custody, the house the possessions etc in a divorce. till that statistic is a fact.. only a foolish person could even possibly consider the foolish investment of marriage. The harmful idiocy of "violence against women" when the real battle cry should be "violence against anyone" we'll never end violence absolving 50% of the human race from committing it. MWGTOW seems to be the only solution till robots are indistinguishable from humans.
@@cherylblossom3394 all humans should be equal.. invaluable.. their value only diminished by the amount they infringe on the rights of others. No one should inflict violence on anyone else.. no one should suffer slavery.. whether chains or debt or wage slavery. no means no.. and in fact unless it's a clear , written in stone, public witnessed legal consent type "yes" it should STILL mean no. And anyone who does not get that should spend some years in jail. Any religion, custom, social norm, law.. that diminishes one innocent human over another is wrong.. and should not exist and frankly should not be tolerated by ANYONE! Keep in mind tho this only works.. it's only valid.. if we're civilized humans and not animals.
I feel so bad for these people, and women are the ones who get affected mostly, no one cares about the guy in the porn even if their face is shown but to a woman it could ruin her entire career (except Kardashian of course). This is so sad
we're all adults.. we all make decisions. in a free society there are risks and dangers. Protect the children, the rest of us can protect ourselves with common sense, good judgement and a good lawyer.
Brofessor Zweistein clarify for me please, I have no idea where children came from and where the idea they can protect themselves (who?) and who talked about protecting anyone? I’m confused
I think people need to change their perspective about these stuff. Currently, if a sex video or picture is leaked out, the women always get shamed and her career is destroyed. Why? it's because of societies love shaming women about anything sexy. However, it takes two to mingle and a lot of people seem to forgot about that. If not mingle, it takes two to get something private. And in the case of the spy camera, I always think it's the person who's using the camera is the creepy twisted one. Why is it always the victims who have to pay the price? Is it because they are women? I feel bad for everyone involving this kind of stuff. People need to stop this and should learn how to be more respectful. I have a hard time respecting anybody who tries to leak private things, like sex videos and pictures, for any reason. Some do it for revenge, some for fun, some for money, some for attention. This is so twisted
This is why you should not agree on filming yourselves while having sexual intercourse with your significant other. Doesn't matter whether your partner will just keep it to themselves or not. We're all vulnerable whenever we browse the Internet.
"Yea, BellyWellyJelly, who willingly chose to film her sex acts and not even hold legal copyright of the footage. In her specific case, it was due to a hacker. But if her boyfriend had chosen to release the footage (back in that era before the revenge porn laws), what exactly did she expect to happen? I think she is responsible for her own troubles, unlike the other victims who were innocent"
I will definitely educate my daughters on these taboo issues next time. If my daughter ever become a victim, the perpetrator better prayed hard that the law caught him first. Singapore Geylang & Orchard Plaza so many choices, and you go voyeur innocent girls, then ones need to pay the price for being brainless. Of course, there are many "open-minded" girls in SG too... The famous one Alvin T & forgot the girl's name... South Korea these incidents also very rampant.
What goes around will come around. Karma will get back at those who disrespect a person. So, before you do anything, think hard and long, is it worth suffering long term for some short term relief sexually if you're ever caught by law enforcement and the society online? I hope these people would stop doing this and find other healthy ways to deal with this kind of urges. That's all. Save the tax payer money for helping impoverished, marginalised and underprivileged individuals and families instead of wasting court's time in prosecution and sending you to prison. Respecting one's privacy is so much easier than you having to face shame and stigma.
lol keep believing that rubbish.. biden.. clinton.. trump.. wheres that karma? they are above hte law.. they have been on epstiens lolita island.. they are not in jail.. they are among the richest people on the planet.
Hello 👋 Showing intimate photos of a PERSON REGARDLESS OF GENDER Without their consent Is or should be an sexual Offence. Why only women? Do you think Males aren’t “sexually assaulted” when the exact same thing happens to them?
@Sophie S I've never shared a naked photo of anyone to my friends, and I've never met another man that does so. so what sort of widespread are we talking?
@@butwait there were some boys in my highschool who did this tbh. It was awful because there was this one really pretty chick that dudes were literally paying for her photos without her consent. I wasn't even a talkative person but it blew up. I'm not saying all dudes do this but it's awful when it happens regardless. Only time I've heard of a female talking about exposing a man was jokingly because he sent her something unsolicited. Because I went to a small school news spreads quick, did anyone else have multiple teachers that had relations with students? One of our teachers was literally fired for watching porn, he forgot to turn the audio down.... between this crap and the drugs what the hell was wrong with my school lmaooooo
Lynching/Mobbing has always been humanity's worst feature, it evolved to a point that it is accessible thru socmed and none of these mofos get punished. They aren't called villagers with pitchforks and torch for nothing.
@@Awesomeboyscout exactly... Witch burning was a way to keep women from standing up for themselves in the past. Some European villages burned every woman over the age of 15 as a witch . Suicide was made an unforgivable sin by the church because so many women were killing themselves rather than bear a child by the rapist conquerors that were commonplace.(Vikings, Anglo Saxons, etc.) It was a political statement no man wanted to hear, especially conquerors. The church wanted no power to go to women in any form.( like midwives, medical, even child production, so it was best to get rid of resistant or powerful women and condemn to hell women who would kill themselves rather than submit to evil men ).
not really about the internet but more to do with social media. Uploading pics has become a habit for most of these girls, when you upload pics and information, you are also storing your information on the internet meaning anyone can have access to your pics creating fakes or whatsoever. i do feel those over exposed insta pictures attracts hackers too. You can upload but do know what you are dealing with, the internet is indeed a blackhole
Once you posted any photos on line you automatically open an invitation for all kinds of abuses for all .Personally I do not understand why today's society are to eager to exposed themselves on social media 24/7 .Privacies are golden !!!
There was a case in our neighbour university, where a group of guys went to a house party and secretly put a camera in the shower of that house. The house was an all-girl flat. They only discovered that a few months later and they all got deported. But it's still a disgusting thing to do.
@shayna hence the deportation. Pretty sure they can never set foot in the EU as it's a criminal offence to film non-consensual porn. So if your friend cannot fly to some countries, it might be worthwhile to ask for the reason why
By exposing those who are caught doing this kind of actions, it will be a small measure to returning to them what they did to others. Make these perpetrators "famous". Don't know what kind of possible employer would want somebody like this working for them. If they've been caught doin this kind of thing then prospective employers will definitely second thoughts about employing them.
At this modern days people who are heartless to have done this to you. I feel sad and angry that those who set up this app should help those victim to arrest those culprits.
It's an offense to the " beauty " in life ? The spiritual portion of life we are responsible 🙏 to uphold. So perpetrators are hurting them selves as well . Please all pray today 🙏 for our survival and preservation of " Holiness beauty " .
Glad for the people who fight for this issue. As tech world grows, this will be a serious issues to women around the world. It is a serious disturbing issue and scary.
I've seen a docu that did that. I think it was a documentary about the same issue but in South Korea. Spycams is such a big issue in S. Korea too... One way is to turn off the lights in the room and some spycams have this weak red glare that you can only detect in the dark. I think they also used flashlight in the dark because you can detect camera lenses with its glare if you happen to shine a light on it.
@@flayful Yup. I can't remember where I got that info. but thanks... Another one which is not practical is, some spycam are wifi build-in... there's wifi signal tracker in the market that can trace, but who's gonna bring that when travelling???
WoW😳 that is terrible. Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness Hope all is better now , and you are right , must move on and take care of yourself😔👍🏼🙏🏼
Those that are filmed in public bathrooms or in public places doing normal day to day stuff then it is no fault of their own. Those that let some man film them even if "private", they are just reaping what they saw. Why letting any man that is not your husband fill you? And a decent husband would never film his wive in this way because he would fear the content could somehow be hacked. To those that commit fornication and do those sins outside of marriage, nothing good will ever come out of it. Intimacy is something to be cherished and only be shared in marriage, nowhere else.
This is the thing, selfies and other materials are used. The internet providers don't care. Sex is best kept in the bedroom, between the persons involved, not because I'm Conservative but because of all the heartbreak it causes. People are not to be trusted, they don't respect themselves and don't respect others privacy. The lesson here is don't share online it's just sad that our world is like this.
There is a common denominator in all social diseases: As long as we continue to misunderstand that solutions to the issues are in attacking symptoms, rather than understanding the actual cause, then the problems will continue to compound. The distance between symptom and cause is too vast to see the reality.
Filming without permission is illegal. However, if you are filming some crime taking place is legal. However, you must be very careful not to let the criminal see you. If so, you life is at stake.
It's the person's phone, computer.. personal.. No one has a right to it! So, stop blaming the victims! What right someone's else has to hack into the personal computers and phones??
I believe Singapore should make spry camera , Hidden capture recording devices or a camera that is smaller than a GoPro Hero camera illegal to own it or use it. Unless you obtain special license. plus I recommend that Singapore should introduce a new privacy law that which makes it legal requirement that all camera, Mobile phone and recording devices which is sold in Singapore must have label or symbol which say " Filming recording or photo without consent is illegal ".
She needs to use it to her advantage that’s how Kim Kardashian became a billionaire do it you will be laughing all the way to the bank but also governments need to come up with laws and long jail sentences 25 years to life is appropriates for these perverts
God bless her and watch over her and the many girls that have been traumatized by this. Use your voice! Warriors they are and you also. Keep up the good work ur doing so it doesn't continue. Inspiring story for women across the world. We (women)are stronger than we think!!🤟❤👋🙃🤗
we cannot even use public toilets nowadays as it is far too scary and embarassing, with all these busybodies perverts.And i love it the fact,the victims are made to pay for something which is not their fault,pay to remove their contents,which was unlawfully uploaded without their consent,when it is the other way around a woman's content in the internet is instantly removed,without a trace of it again.
No one deserves to go through this!! It is sad that there are a lot of disgusting ppl like this and there's a lot of victims,it's just very disgusting and gross... 😢🤢😡
Ok, I am on board with the video in general. The exception is BellyWellyJelly, who willingly chose to film her sex acts and not even hold legal copyright of the footage. In her specific case, it was due to a hacker. But if her boyfriend had chosen to release the footage (back in that era before the revenge porn laws), what exactly did she expect to happen? I think she is responsible for her own troubles, unlike the other victims who were innocent
how sad it is that this documentary is 3 years old and your leaked videos are still available online Christabel Chua. That's why girls, have self respect. Just because your man says they're going to tape a video of your intimate moments and keep it for themselves isn't an assurance it won't be leaked outside. Remember Hayden Kho?
If sex is being used as an act of violence it is VIOLANCE. Sex in itself cannot be violence if it is intend to be used as an act of love. VIOLANCE is VIOLANCE. Please use it as such.
You can not make the weak strong and you can’t build character where there is none. Of course there should be consequences when one’s privacy is taken but it’s more important that the victims don’t waste their emotional energy and life’s precious gift of time on these sub par human beings. Move forward towards the light and leave those that are damaged and flawed in the dark.
Tip: Don't be on social media. Be aware of anyone who is taking your picture, and if you allow it to be taken, make sure they know your rules. Mine are that they can't upload them to any form of social media or internet video services. If you are on social media, set strict settings and accept only real friends that you have met in person and trust. Hidden cameras are a different matter.
Why is it that leaking non consensual videos is illegal but watching it isn’t? Porn should be illegal, consensual or other wise. Porn is gross. Also, the sale of spy cams should be regulated, if it’s being abused more and more.
Oh my Goodness, I can't even have my own braveness to watch this documented video til the end. How on earth these sickening tricks exist. I'm not too naive not to believe that these dirty hidden cams are placed everywhere in no predictable places like those. As a man, watching the two ladies found out some of the hidden cams in the room and in the shower physically brought me in tears of frustration. Besides, as my knowledge, not only women are their victims, men are too. It is so much disgusting! Ladies let's spread the awareness, and be careful whenever and wherever you can!
The idiots who follow and comment in those kind of groups should be punished too, or at least publicly criticized and exposed! Let’s see how after that they can face their moms, sisters, daughters, wives! 😡
I think it’s happening all over the world unfortunately. I think those who do this should serve life in prison or die. It would be a much better world if people like this were wiped off the face of it. My assumption is that they frequently change their servers or have multiple people who take turns doing this to avoid detection. Sick.
This is a global problem. The bad news is that you can't control something's movement once it's on the internet. You have too many computer pros, as well. Good news: ppl's attention spans are shorter than ever. Most people just click on a video and move on, not even focussed on who is in the video. It is certainly still wrong, and should be reported, but "showering" is mundane and easily forgotten.
"Ivan" was pretty lucky getting off with just probation & community service. He apparently did it for revenge so I wonder what she did to him that made him take the actions that he did.
She doesn't need to do anything. He might have been angry if she refused to date him. It's not always the woman's fault for being hacked. Hackers are sometimes mentally disturbed individuals who get off on intimidating others.
Yeah some times it’s as simple as a breakup or a refusal to date and they’ll go into crazy mode and find ways to do these things. You almost sound like you’re on the verge of victim blaming Adam.
those 53 people who clicked "unlike".. are those the perpetrators themselves? Good video, raising awareness. You miss out one question - i would like to know what those girls got to advise the other girls out there, moving on..
we got nurse/other neighbours who keep kicking wall and want to complain that neighbour filmed them using camera...they don't live in the house. How women own spycam to check if their drink got spiked by malaysian excolleague got to do with peeping tom?
When female was violated, they have higher chance of being consider to be true. On the other hand, if it happen to a Male gender, the damage is much much worse. Specially when it was done to cover up another more devious crime, or just to prevent you from taking and retaliation, or to give you a chance to proof your innocence, and allow anyone to suspect the true criminal mind behind. Specially when it was done by your own blood, what hope would you have to trust in humanity again. Today I can only be angry at God, why cant he just let me die. May be neither heaven nor hell can believe my story.
Yes there are just as many male victims/survivors as females but it’s not spoken on as much for many reasons. A state trooper once said women are always innocent when it comes to domestic violence cases or what have you that’s similar even though it’s not always the case.
“It’s not worth doing it, eventually you get caught”... what about you don’t do it because you hurt people, and it’s despicable! Not because you get caught!
He is talking from HIS point of view
@@skiptrack326 He'd been talking tho about how he had to take a class in which he had to try to see things from the victim's perspective. He recited some things that were probably told to him by the instructor, but it's clear that the fear of "getting caught" was his main reason to avoid doing it in future. So the class is of negligible utility. They should just post the pictures and names of every perpetrator on the evening news. Then watch as every girl on his school gives him the evil eye and runs to the other side of the room whenever he entered. That's a better punishment than a class in which you're taught to say the right thing to get out of trouble.
This video is respectfully done. Tt's rare to find these documentaries that address the issue so well. BTW, that hacker needs to rot in jail.
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But BellyWellyJelly also at fault lah. 2 hands to clap, in this case. Shouldn't put all the fault on the criminal only
I agree with the girl the best way to shut down these guys is to post their real info online so that they see how it feels on the receiving end of the abuse. These guys have no right to privacy.
This is why my sis doesn't use social media and refuses to let friends upload photos with her inside. Some people are truly disgusting
none more so than the govt and corporations controlling and exploiting you.
Respect for the girl who flipped the issue on it's head by exposing the guy who filmed . Taste of his own medicine
Sadly, this is also a prevailing issue in South Korea. I've seen a similar documentary about it YEARS ago.
It is frustrating and paranoia-inducing to watch as I am a woman myself... We have to be cautious in using the restrooms, staying in a hotel, or even just RIDING an escalator. Like jeez, give us a break! 🤷🏻♀️
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My husbands uncle and aunt, mom and dad, and sisters came up in the past when we were only dating for a few years and his uncle put his cellphone on video record and left it in the bathroom aiming right at the toilet hiding behind stuff on my shelves. I remember it was New Years we all celebrated with some drinks and he got really drunk but I was still disturbed. I saw a flash of something while I was pn on the toilet and called my boyfriend in and he then showed his dad, which is his uncles brother. I was so disturbed and pissed and even my bf and his dad was shocked. His dad had a talk with my bf’s uncle in the morning and he (uncle) claimed he was trying to catch his own wife as a joke but cmon we are all having drinks and go to the bathroom more often too big of a risk at someone else’s home.
With 4 granddaughters and a couple of great granddaughters, I wonder what the hell kind of world I have brought them into? Micro cameras everywhere and perverts willing to put this crap on the internet. I'm no saint and sometimes even look at porn on the internet (yes my wife knows) but kids and up skirts I don't get it. I'm just very sorry kids and young adults must worry about this crap on a daily basis.
Never let yourself be filmed unless an academy award is on the line
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I had my face photoshopped onto a person wearing lingerie. Over 20 years ago. My boss asked if it was me, and showed me. That’s the only reason I knew. Was embarrassed even though it wasn’t my body. Then it made it weird thinking they are thinking of me that way.
Now you have advanced AI software. Just upload a womens pic and it sends back a nude image of her. Within seconds.
I'm afraid that's going to be the future - even if people are careful about what they post, perverts will be able to digitally add your face to any porn actor's body and photoshop anything to look disgusting. No one will be able to tell what's real and what's not anymore.
Yes I think its right to let the world know who the perpetrators are!!! Victims should not suffer while perpetrators living their life fully & looking for the next victim. For all the victims, BE STRONG.
We live in a very sick time, Camera's everywhere, Words hurt, Situations hurt. What the hell happened? I don't see it getting any better!
It’s the Illuminati. If you watch “fall of the cabal,” you’ll find out the truth about our reality. It’s 3 hours long, and you won’t find it on RUclips because they censor it, go to BitChute to see it.
Modern technologie leads to this. Everything is in your face.
Humans suck. Need a comet to come wipe the earth
It doesn’t have to be outsiders. SOMETIMES YOUR BOYFRIEND OR FRIEND will do it
Dont take intimate photos with your phone. Dont put anything personal on social media.
The problem is if your friends or family take a photo and put online. Its the same her in Australia.
Stay OFF social media. I don't have a Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or Snapchat account.
@@raccoonchronicles5134 but you do hv youtube acc,that great
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RUclips is not social media. It's a viewing and entertainment platform.
Yes because that will stop it all. 🙄There is no way to place hidden cameras in public restrooms and stuff.
No matter how much you love and trust your partner male or female NEVER let them take sexual photos or videos of you. You never what will happen in the future!!
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@@kptan9511 No there shouldn't be any explicit photo of either party
Good for you guys!
Thank you, White Hat hackers.
Our laws haven't kept up with cyber-crimes. We need younger politicians who are aware of crimes being committed via internet technology.
Why is the culprit’s face not shown? They upload every victims without shame!
alvinology.com/2018/04/23/who-is-joal-ong/ Ya - this dude deserves to suffer for what he did to her. I mean - sure she shouldn't have let it happen but he should be held entirely liable. Name is Joal Ong
@@anonymousdevildog1406 this guy is the one who upload it?
I agree.
They should post his picture and labelled it as the biggest perverted jerk. I wonder what he will feel if the same thing is done to his mother or sister. He should also be jailed for a long time. What is the government doing?
Due process. Obviously, the perpetrator should be punished, but until there is a trial, those charged need to be considered innocent until proven guilty. What if they got the wrong guy, he's found not guilty, and you've now dragged an innocent person's name and image through the mud? Probably not likely in this case, but it's good to have these standards in fair justice systems.
What’s the highest jail term for non-consensus porn in Singapore? I hope it is as serious as rape, because it is equally horror to the victims.
Just to let you know, non-consensual victims are not just females but males as well.... so it could happen to anyone.
@@kirtipuri1681 I think his point is that men/boys are mostly excluded when these issues come up because of assumptions like yours.
There are less male victims by report data simply because its not socially acceptable for us to be victims.
You usually hear this phrase said from people to men: suck it up and be a man.
I think it stems from the belief that men on average are stronger than females and by default cannot be victims.
But the thing is, we are put in a more precarious situation if we get physical with women.
I'm not saying that we should be disregarding female victims. But don't exclude us.
ya but the laws and public outcry only stand on the womans side.. men are screwed.
@@cherylblossom3394 That's understandable. You're a woman so it's only normal for you to be more aware of the burdens women carry. I'm a man therefore i am more aware of the burdens men carry.
This is a very complex subject matter. I just wish people would stop viewing things in black and white lenses.
@@cherylblossom3394 I have a daughter, i love women.. but i do not trust the system. I cant afford to.. the worst most expensive business decision a man can possibly make is to get married. and the reverse might be true for breadwinner women too. Women get a bad deal.. but inside the divorce court it is a different world.. men paying child support for kids who do not share their dna. Nothing happening to women who commit paternity fraud. women having right to abort when men do not have the right to financially abort. It is kind of like having to pay taxes when you do not have representation. I'm all for the equal rights amendment.. where 50% of men can get custody, the house the possessions etc in a divorce. till that statistic is a fact.. only a foolish person could even possibly consider the foolish investment of marriage. The harmful idiocy of "violence against women" when the real battle cry should be "violence against anyone" we'll never end violence absolving 50% of the human race from committing it. MWGTOW seems to be the only solution till robots are indistinguishable from humans.
@@cherylblossom3394 all humans should be equal.. invaluable.. their value only diminished by the amount they infringe on the rights of others. No one should inflict violence on anyone else.. no one should suffer slavery.. whether chains or debt or wage slavery. no means no.. and in fact unless it's a clear , written in stone, public witnessed legal consent type "yes" it should STILL mean no. And anyone who does not get that should spend some years in jail. Any religion, custom, social norm, law.. that diminishes one innocent human over another is wrong.. and should not exist and frankly should not be tolerated by ANYONE! Keep in mind tho this only works.. it's only valid.. if we're civilized humans and not animals.
I feel so bad for these people, and women are the ones who get affected mostly, no one cares about the guy in the porn even if their face is shown but to a woman it could ruin her entire career (except Kardashian of course). This is so sad
we're all adults.. we all make decisions. in a free society there are risks and dangers. Protect the children, the rest of us can protect ourselves with common sense, good judgement and a good lawyer.
stumpedII lol are you ok?
@@BarakaAndrew He's fine. Doesn't what he said make perfect sense to you?
Brofessor Zweistein clarify for me please, I have no idea where children came from and where the idea they can protect themselves (who?) and who talked about protecting anyone? I’m confused
I think people need to change their perspective about these stuff. Currently, if a sex video or picture is leaked out, the women always get shamed and her career is destroyed. Why? it's because of societies love shaming women about anything sexy. However, it takes two to mingle and a lot of people seem to forgot about that. If not mingle, it takes two to get something private. And in the case of the spy camera, I always think it's the person who's using the camera is the creepy twisted one. Why is it always the victims who have to pay the price? Is it because they are women? I feel bad for everyone involving this kind of stuff. People need to stop this and should learn how to be more respectful. I have a hard time respecting anybody who tries to leak private things, like sex videos and pictures, for any reason. Some do it for revenge, some for fun, some for money, some for attention. This is so twisted
This is why you should not agree on filming yourselves while having sexual intercourse with your significant other. Doesn't matter whether your partner will just keep it to themselves or not.
We're all vulnerable whenever we browse the Internet.
"Yea, BellyWellyJelly, who willingly chose to film her sex acts and not even hold legal copyright of the footage. In her specific case, it was due to a hacker. But if her boyfriend had chosen to release the footage (back in that era before the revenge porn laws), what exactly did she expect to happen? I think she is responsible for her own troubles, unlike the other victims who were innocent"
I will definitely educate my daughters on these taboo issues next time. If my daughter ever become a victim, the perpetrator better prayed hard that the law caught him first. Singapore Geylang & Orchard Plaza so many choices, and you go voyeur innocent girls, then ones need to pay the price for being brainless. Of course, there are many "open-minded" girls in SG too... The famous one Alvin T & forgot the girl's name... South Korea these incidents also very rampant.
What goes around will come around. Karma will get back at those who disrespect a person. So, before you do anything, think hard and long, is it worth suffering long term for some short term relief sexually if you're ever caught by law enforcement and the society online? I hope these people would stop doing this and find other healthy ways to deal with this kind of urges. That's all. Save the tax payer money for helping impoverished, marginalised and underprivileged individuals and families instead of wasting court's time in prosecution and sending you to prison. Respecting one's privacy is so much easier than you having to face shame and stigma.
Karma is just pure superstition, there are thousands of unsolved murder cases. What goes around just keeps going around.
lol keep believing that rubbish.. biden.. clinton.. trump.. wheres that karma? they are above hte law.. they have been on epstiens lolita island.. they are not in jail.. they are among the richest people on the planet.
Hello 👋
Showing intimate photos of a PERSON
REGARDLESS OF GENDER
Without their consent
Is or should be an sexual Offence.
Why only women?
Do you think Males aren’t “sexually assaulted” when the exact same thing happens to them?
Gender issue
Double standard
when in public you have no reasonable expectation of privacy. So dress and act accordingly and there shouldn't be a problem.
@Sophie S I've never shared a naked photo of anyone to my friends, and I've never met another man that does so. so what sort of widespread are we talking?
@@butwait there were some boys in my highschool who did this tbh. It was awful because there was this one really pretty chick that dudes were literally paying for her photos without her consent. I wasn't even a talkative person but it blew up. I'm not saying all dudes do this but it's awful when it happens regardless. Only time I've heard of a female talking about exposing a man was jokingly because he sent her something unsolicited. Because I went to a small school news spreads quick, did anyone else have multiple teachers that had relations with students? One of our teachers was literally fired for watching porn, he forgot to turn the audio down.... between this crap and the drugs what the hell was wrong with my school lmaooooo
I appreciate her. She is brave to open up about what had happened on her.
I feel the people spreading and hating the people who get scandaled are equally responsible for the crime.
Lynching/Mobbing has always been humanity's worst feature, it evolved to a point that it is accessible thru socmed and none of these mofos get punished. They aren't called villagers with pitchforks and torch for nothing.
@@Awesomeboyscout exactly... Witch burning was a way to keep women from standing up for themselves in the past. Some European villages burned every woman over the age of 15 as a witch . Suicide was made an unforgivable sin by the church because so many women were killing themselves rather than bear a child by the rapist conquerors that were commonplace.(Vikings, Anglo Saxons, etc.) It was a political statement no man wanted to hear, especially conquerors. The church wanted no power to go to women in any form.( like midwives, medical, even child production, so it was best to get rid of resistant or powerful women and condemn to hell women who would kill themselves rather than submit to evil men ).
not really about the internet but more to do with social media.
Uploading pics has become a habit for most of these girls, when you upload pics and information, you are also storing your information on the internet meaning anyone can have access to your pics creating fakes or whatsoever. i do feel those over exposed insta pictures attracts hackers too.
You can upload but do know what you are dealing with, the internet is indeed a blackhole
Once you posted any photos on line you automatically open an invitation for all kinds of abuses for all .Personally I do not understand why today's society are to eager to exposed themselves on social media 24/7 .Privacies are golden !!!
Some people are disgusting af
once it's online, there is nothing you can do
There was a case in our neighbour university, where a group of guys went to a house party and secretly put a camera in the shower of that house. The house was an all-girl flat. They only discovered that a few months later and they all got deported. But it's still a disgusting thing to do.
@shayna No, it's a UK uni
@shayna hence the deportation. Pretty sure they can never set foot in the EU as it's a criminal offence to film non-consensual porn. So if your friend cannot fly to some countries, it might be worthwhile to ask for the reason why
I like the hacker that got the information on the people involved in the website that was abusing people's consent rights and gave it to the police.
but why are security cameras in stores not as good?
By exposing those who are caught doing this kind of actions, it will be a small measure to returning to them what they did to others. Make these perpetrators "famous". Don't know what kind of possible employer would want somebody like this working for them. If they've been caught doin this kind of thing then prospective employers will definitely second thoughts about employing them.
*I see Humans, but no humanity*
right on !
me? the very first thing i did, is to tape my webcam when i bought my laptop...
At this modern days people who are heartless to have done this to you. I feel sad and angry that those who set up this app should help those victim to arrest those culprits.
It's an offense to the " beauty " in life ? The spiritual portion of life we are responsible 🙏 to uphold.
So perpetrators are hurting them selves as well .
Please all pray today 🙏 for our survival and preservation of " Holiness beauty " .
20 years in jail will get the message across.
I don’t tolerate such threats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don’t tolerate such threats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is reality and it hurts
Want me to send you some tissues?
Glad for the people who fight for this issue. As tech world grows, this will be a serious issues to women around the world. It is a serious disturbing issue and scary.
They should have companies like Google to help find all the offending images using a reverse image search.
Google is in "bed" with these people.
Is it possible to have the expert or someone teach how we can identify and check for hidden cameras effectively?
I've seen a docu that did that. I think it was a documentary about the same issue but in South Korea. Spycams is such a big issue in S. Korea too...
One way is to turn off the lights in the room and some spycams have this weak red glare that you can only detect in the dark. I think they also used flashlight in the dark because you can detect camera lenses with its glare if you happen to shine a light on it.
@@flayful Yup. I can't remember where I got that info. but thanks... Another one which is not practical is, some spycam are wifi build-in... there's wifi signal tracker in the market that can trace, but who's gonna bring that when travelling???
@@tcruise77 true...
It's really problematic...
It’s been discussed in Asian Boss
WoW😳 that is terrible. Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness Hope all is better now , and you are right , must move on and take care of yourself😔👍🏼🙏🏼
You can sell spy cams for “security” reasons. But it doesn’t stop people from using it for the wrong reason.
Don’t make such threats against me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of many reasons why I always wear shorts underneath my dresses or skirts. It’s sad I gotta do stuff like that 😕
Those that are filmed in public bathrooms or in public places doing normal day to day stuff then it is no fault of their own. Those that let some man film them even if "private", they are just reaping what they saw. Why letting any man that is not your husband fill you? And a decent husband would never film his wive in this way because he would fear the content could somehow be hacked. To those that commit fornication and do those sins outside of marriage, nothing good will ever come out of it. Intimacy is something to be cherished and only be shared in marriage, nowhere else.
This is the thing, selfies and other materials are used. The internet providers don't care. Sex is best kept in the bedroom, between the persons involved, not because I'm Conservative but because of all the heartbreak it causes. People are not to be trusted, they don't respect themselves and don't respect others privacy. The lesson here is don't share online it's just sad that our world is like this.
Helpful video.
It's very terrible.
Thanks dear CNA Insider !
There is a common denominator in all social diseases:
As long as we continue to misunderstand that solutions to the issues are in attacking symptoms, rather than understanding the actual cause, then the problems will continue to compound.
The distance between symptom and cause is too vast to see the reality.
Filming without permission is illegal. However, if you are filming some crime taking place is legal.
However, you must be very careful not to let the criminal see you. If so, you life is at stake.
WHY would anyone have intimate pictures of themselves on PC or mobile? MADNESS. Thats what memories are for?
mi haj just bitchy .... you ask for it
It's the person's phone, computer.. personal.. No one has a right to it! So, stop blaming the victims!
What right someone's else has to hack into the personal computers and phones??
@@kptan9511 you a cat person or just an animal.
Facts
There seems to be little privacy in the digital era.
I believe Singapore should make spry camera , Hidden capture recording devices or a camera that is smaller than a GoPro Hero camera illegal to own it or use it. Unless you obtain special license. plus I recommend that Singapore should introduce a new privacy law that which makes it legal requirement that all camera, Mobile phone and recording devices which is sold in Singapore must have label or symbol which say " Filming recording or photo without consent is illegal ".
She needs to use it to her advantage that’s how Kim Kardashian became a billionaire do it you will be laughing all the way to the bank but also governments need to come up with laws and long jail sentences 25 years to life is appropriates for these perverts
Consent and privacy in social media,is that a joke or something?
This documentary is created by oxymorons.
God bless her and watch over her and the many girls that have been traumatized by this. Use your voice! Warriors they are and you also. Keep up the good work ur doing so it doesn't continue. Inspiring story for women across the world. We (women)are stronger than we think!!🤟❤👋🙃🤗
As a guy myself this really does make me feel sick. I feel so so bad for those girls affected
She is brave. Very brave to face this & share her experience. I have full respect.
What a pitiful public comment
stumbled upon this docu while watching vids about the nth room sokor controversy. some people are monsters
The spycam uncle looks very experienced
He probably has the largest collection of them all.
Sweetheart stay strong you are very brave and you know you have done nothing wrong These creeps will get what they deserve, hopefully
ive always checked for cams since i was 12 man lmfao
Maybe because you're paranoid?
A 'Hacker' .....once upon a time this meant 'to cut to pieces'.
True to this day.
That's why premarital sexual relations is a sin. If u don't commit why be afraid. Morals are degrading.
39:48 - DUDE!! Why would you put the glass of water there near books?? This video was anxiety-inducing enough for me without the need to see this XD
we cannot even use public toilets nowadays as it is far too scary and embarassing, with all these busybodies perverts.And i love it the fact,the victims are made to pay for something which is not their fault,pay to remove their contents,which was unlawfully uploaded without their consent,when it is the other way around a woman's content in the internet is instantly removed,without a trace of it again.
Nobody should have to be so wary of their surroundings the moment they need the toilet or a shower or just exist. Wtf!
Thank you for the awareness.
No one deserves to go through this!! It is sad that there are a lot of disgusting ppl like this and there's a lot of victims,it's just very disgusting and gross... 😢🤢😡
Ok, I am on board with the video in general. The exception is BellyWellyJelly, who willingly chose to film her sex acts and not even hold legal copyright of the footage. In her specific case, it was due to a hacker. But if her boyfriend had chosen to release the footage (back in that era before the revenge porn laws), what exactly did she expect to happen? I think she is responsible for her own troubles, unlike the other victims who were innocent
how sad it is that this documentary is 3 years old and your leaked videos are still available online Christabel Chua. That's why girls, have self respect. Just because your man says they're going to tape a video of your intimate moments and keep it for themselves isn't an assurance it won't be leaked outside.
Remember Hayden Kho?
If sex is being used as an act of violence it is VIOLANCE. Sex in itself cannot be violence if it is intend to be used as an act of love. VIOLANCE is VIOLANCE. Please use it as such.
You can not make the weak strong and you can’t build character where there is none. Of course there should be consequences when one’s privacy is taken but it’s more important that the victims don’t waste their emotional energy and life’s precious gift of time on these sub par human beings. Move forward towards the light and leave those that are damaged and flawed in the dark.
Istg, if someone did this to me and I found out who did it, I’ll punch them square in the face until they get a nosebleed.
Tip: Don't be on social media. Be aware of anyone who is taking your picture, and if you allow it to be taken, make sure they know your rules. Mine are that they can't upload them to any form of social media or internet video services. If you are on social media, set strict settings and accept only real friends that you have met in person and trust. Hidden cameras are a different matter.
Why is it that leaking non consensual videos is illegal but watching it isn’t? Porn should be illegal, consensual or other wise. Porn is gross. Also, the sale of spy cams should be regulated, if it’s being abused more and more.
being a woman means you can't even walk in public without fearing things like this :(
Don’t store intimate material of any kind on phones or computers ever!!
I don’t tolerate such threats!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh my Goodness, I can't even have my own braveness to watch this documented video til the end. How on earth these sickening tricks exist. I'm not too naive not to believe that these dirty hidden cams are placed everywhere in no predictable places like those. As a man, watching the two ladies found out some of the hidden cams in the room and in the shower physically brought me in tears of frustration. Besides, as my knowledge, not only women are their victims, men are too. It is so much disgusting!
Ladies let's spread the awareness, and be careful whenever and wherever you can!
The idiots who follow and comment in those kind of groups should be punished too, or at least publicly criticized and exposed! Let’s see how after that they can face their moms, sisters, daughters, wives! 😡
I think it’s happening all over the world unfortunately. I think those who do this should serve life in prison or die. It would be a much better world if people like this were wiped off the face of it. My assumption is that they frequently change their servers or have multiple people who take turns doing this to avoid detection. Sick.
This is a global problem. The bad news is that you can't control something's movement once it's on the internet. You have too many computer pros, as well. Good news: ppl's attention spans are shorter than ever. Most people just click on a video and move on, not even focussed on who is in the video. It is certainly still wrong, and should be reported, but "showering" is mundane and easily forgotten.
"Ivan" was pretty lucky getting off with just probation & community service. He apparently did it for revenge so I wonder what she did to him that made him take the actions that he did.
She doesn't need to do anything. He might have been angry if she refused to date him. It's not always the woman's fault for being hacked. Hackers are sometimes mentally disturbed individuals who get off on intimidating others.
Yeah some times it’s as simple as a breakup or a refusal to date and they’ll go into crazy mode and find ways to do these things. You almost sound like you’re on the verge of victim blaming Adam.
@@KagomeYasha023 No. Just curious to know more of the story, that's all.
Good that the hacker got caught. Hope he ROTS in jail.
Feel it shouldn't happen to each of us. This is bad. How bad is the cost to the victims are having on going issues.
in Korea, you could watch live, and tons of people have been watching though the money you had to pay was 100dollars.
those 53 people who clicked "unlike".. are those the perpetrators themselves? Good video, raising awareness. You miss out one question - i would like to know what those girls got to advise the other girls out there, moving on..
Sadly some celebrities in my country made their own videos which continuously leaked
This video is well done.
They have been give free eyes but don’t deserve for all the crimes they committed that started from looking and then doing illegal actions.
we got nurse/other neighbours who keep kicking wall and want to complain that neighbour filmed them using camera...they don't live in the house.
How women own spycam to check if their drink got spiked by malaysian excolleague got to do with peeping tom?
It's even more difficult to catch these hidden cameras in Japan.
Luckily Tumblr have banned such that... I can use Tumblr safely...
When female was violated, they have higher chance of being consider to be true. On the other hand, if it happen to a Male gender, the damage is much much worse. Specially when it was done to cover up another more devious crime, or just to prevent you from taking and retaliation, or to give you a chance to proof your innocence, and allow anyone to suspect the true criminal mind behind. Specially when it was done by your own blood, what hope would you have to trust in humanity again. Today I can only be angry at God, why cant he just let me die. May be neither heaven nor hell can believe my story.
Yes there are just as many male victims/survivors as females but it’s not spoken on as much for many reasons. A state trooper once said women are always innocent when it comes to domestic violence cases or what have you that’s similar even though it’s not always the case.
So.
What should b done to these men? To criminals?
Society, by and large, believes criminals to b human.
I. DO. NOT.
15:28 You see... I prefer anime art~ XD
As much is the person who uploaded it to blame,so are the people who watched it
in this digital world, if you want to video yourself like that, don't be surprise if it is on the web.