50-Year Study Finds Spanking Doesn't Work

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 10

  • @merissamakesstuff
    @merissamakesstuff 2 года назад +7

    Why should we teach kids to respect their elders? Teach them to respect people who are respectable. Teach them to respect everyone until they show they are not respectable, then teach them to use their brain to determine how to handle disrespectable people on a case-by-case basis. Not all "elders" have their best interests, and teaching anyone blind respect is risky for the person's safety.

    • @Lilith-cosplay-world
      @Lilith-cosplay-world Год назад

      Respect is earned, I don’t respect someone when they don’t respect me, You want respect you give respect

  • @ryan0348
    @ryan0348 6 лет назад +11

    many of the stereotypes of parents who spank hold true. religiosity, low education, haven been spanked as a child, black parents.
    @2:20 the reporter acknowledges that he doubts that this research will have any effect on parents because they are "entrenched". sad world

    • @BriLoveMusic
      @BriLoveMusic 6 лет назад +2

      ryan0348 Just like many people will never respect science in relation to homosexuality. We use science when we want to huh? You're right, it is a sad world . . .

    • @pallavisreetambraparni6995
      @pallavisreetambraparni6995 4 года назад +3

      Very true. People don’t want to believe research and that is sad

    • @marclabrie6027
      @marclabrie6027 2 года назад +1

      @@pallavisreetambraparni6995 what research and who was it made by and who manipulated it and lied to them

  • @tiffytoo
    @tiffytoo 2 года назад

    I do not spank that's a lack of self control when you hit another human being. My children are corrected via the rod of correction described in scripture just like God corrects me when I'm wrong. My children are very very well behaved and smart. I always get compliments on how well behaved they are and I do not spank. They use manners. My theory is you remove the child from the harmful behaviour and give them two alternative options or choices they cld have picked that wld have worked. If they defy that they then loose internet privileged and that pretty much always works. Don't tell them you'll take something and then don't. Your training your children to trust what you say. So in the grocery store when they get out of hand I can say ok guys here's our one chance to reset our behaviour or you guys can wait patiently at home next time. They know I'm serious. I studied how to successfully parent my children. I have one job on this earth that is TRULY mine and that's to be their mom. To teach them and guide them and to give them all the tools they need to make their own adult decisions. I don't want to screw this one up and I want to know I did my best. Makes me sad to see ppl spanking. I used to until I grew as a parent.