Why I feel guilty for doing jigsaw puzzles

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @KarenPuzzles
    @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +84

    Do you ever feel guilty for doing jigsaw puzzles? I'd love to know if anyone can relate to what I talked about here!

    • @jenmckitrick
      @jenmckitrick 5 лет назад +25

      Thank you for talking about this. I feel so guilty when I'm doing jigsaw puzzles, thinking that I should be doing something more productive, that I start feeling bad about myself, and then I can't even enjoy it. I am a philosophy professor, and I there is always more reading and writing I could be doing instead.

    • @pulgamecanica
      @pulgamecanica 5 лет назад +7

      Yes!!! Sometimes I reduce my study time (not great) just to finish my jigsaw puzzles!!!

    • @Poppaea13
      @Poppaea13 5 лет назад +28

      I'm new to puzzles and I don't feel guilty. I chose this as an activity to calm my mind and relieve anxiety ,among other things, and it's working wonders. Being productive is all good of course, but in a world where everything is an explosion of stuff and productiveness I think it is nice to step back and just enjoy something for the sake of it. Puzzles remind me a little of those Buddhist sand mandalas, a symbol of the transitory nature of material life. Anyways, any good tips on good crime podcasts?

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +3

      I love Casefile and My Favorite Murder!

    • @Poppaea13
      @Poppaea13 5 лет назад

      I will check those out! Thank you!

  • @marksteele2336
    @marksteele2336 3 года назад +96

    I'm a 75 year old retired man with emphysema. I cant do a whole lot that requires physical activity. My Wife bought me a couple of jigsaw puzzles this last Xmas. Been loving it. One day I was wondering it there are better methods of doing puzzles so I checked RUclips and found your channel. I just love your channel. Keep it up!! Thank you.

  • @surrendersweet
    @surrendersweet 5 лет назад +269

    I never feel guilty for doing a jigsaw. I do it as a distraction from anxiety, so it’s something that helps me. I hope you do more jigsaws for yourself.

    • @veenahanssineeraj9640
      @veenahanssineeraj9640 4 года назад +7

      Omg i thought i was the only one who felt that way. For some reason it just helps with my anxiety

    • @blainevanity6
      @blainevanity6 3 года назад +8

      It helps my anxiety too! When anxiety is high, puzzlin’ is nigh.

    • @flordmaria7698
      @flordmaria7698 3 года назад +3

      Doing puzzle help my with my anxiety, is like disconnecting

  • @lydiajoy1823
    @lydiajoy1823 5 лет назад +170

    Interesting video! I'm a knitter and it's not uncommon for someone to see a finished project then say "Gee, you must have lot of time on your hands." But they are often folks who watch 3 or 4 hours of TV per day, so I'm not fussed. To each her own! I'm glad I started doing a few puzzles, I find it to be a great stress-reliever.

    • @sth.777
      @sth.777 5 лет назад +14

      I know what you mean! I do a lot of crafts, though my main work is as an author (fiction); I've had people comment that writing is a nice hobby, but not a real job. Whatever. I don't watch TV - I create, whether with words or with yarn or cloth, and even puzzles!

    • @pierQRzt180
      @pierQRzt180 Год назад +6

      the amount of time spent on mindless videos/TV is huge yet no one realizes it, they are all ready to negatively judge more active hobbies.

  • @nancymandle5215
    @nancymandle5215 5 лет назад +95

    Dear, sweet, Karen - you are one of my favorite youtubers. Please try not to feel guilty about your hobby. We don’t think that tv viewers or movie-goers are selfish or non-productive. And those who love to “sleep in” aren’t considered as such, either. I consider your puzzling hobby to be far more than the obvious activity. You are using your brain, improving your creativity by being in the zone, and you are keeping your body and soul healthy. So puzzle on, dear karen - I’ll bet most puzzlers agree with how much this hobby enhances our lives.

  • @sth.777
    @sth.777 5 лет назад +87

    Our world is too busy; we've forgotten the art of stillness. Doing puzzles help me focus on something creative, and brings me to a state of stillness. It gives me time to percolate, to think of the little things or of nothing, and gives a fresher perspective on my list of things to do afterwards!

  • @Novaximus
    @Novaximus 5 лет назад +291

    Never feel guilty for doing something that makes you happy as long as it's legal, healthy, and doesn't interfere with "must do" responsibilities.

    • @Novaximus
      @Novaximus 5 лет назад +19

      you do realize that most guys spend like 3 hours a day playing video games right? :D

    • @a.neko.77
      @a.neko.77 4 года назад +2

      I was going to say that but you said it first

    • @Alex_Off-Beat
      @Alex_Off-Beat 2 года назад +2

      Exactly, don't ever feel guilty about doing what you love! It's your life and you should do whatever makes you happy! If puzzles make you feel happier and less stressed then you're not wasting time any more than someone obsessed with running is wasting time by going for a jog. Working out your mind and mental health is just as, if not more, important than working out your body and physical health!

    • @LuluTheCorgi
      @LuluTheCorgi Год назад

      Replace legal with ethical. Only fools blindly follow the state, plenty of unjust laws around, especially if you go back in time a bit.

  • @freshbloominclothing
    @freshbloominclothing 5 лет назад +115

    I don't think I have ever put a puzzle together. Your channel was recommended to me last night as I couldn't sleep for a third night in a row. You beautifully explained why you puzzle and it made sense to my brain. After downloading the app I Love Hue, it also clicked for me. To organize one small thing makes me feel like I have control over one small area. My world was made better because of you. Your puzzling has impacted others. Thank you for all the work that goes into sharing yourself with us!

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +10

      That makes me so happy to hear! I hope you get some real life puzzles too and that they can help you calm down and get some sleep 💜

    • @ryuksparkle2019
      @ryuksparkle2019 4 года назад +1

      Hey same hahaaaaaha 😆

  • @kathlenabreu5397
    @kathlenabreu5397 5 лет назад +61

    I suffer from anxiety disorder so it constantly feels like my brain is on over-drive. I’m always thinking about a million things at once, worrying about so many things. I love puzzles because it’s the only activity that make my brain “slow down” and focus only on one thing. Like you, I shut everything else out and focus on only what’s in front of me. In a world where we’re constantly bombarded with information, constantly late for everything, and always have millions of things to do, finding ways to “slow down” is actually good for your mental and physical health. This is why people meditate, workout, so yoga, paint... you should never feel guilty for doing something that helps keep yourself “together”. ♥️

    • @faithgermany
      @faithgermany 3 года назад

      I would like to recommend Jon Harris's art therapy videos on RUclips, but he doesn't seem to be posting any at the moment. However, his channel has lots to offer.

  • @juliewilburn2942
    @juliewilburn2942 3 года назад +15

    That’s why they call it a hobby! Everyone needs one as an outlet! What’s wonderful is that you share it with others who enjoy it too. - maybe they discover a new outlet because of you - keep it up 👍🏻

  • @Sentient_Goose
    @Sentient_Goose 11 месяцев назад +5

    This was my favorite video of yours, and I've binged MANY! Please keep bringing your beautiful, bold, brilliant and vulnerable self to the channel ❤

    • @butlerspaeth
      @butlerspaeth 9 месяцев назад +1

      This 👆🏼

    • @EmilyCate2650
      @EmilyCate2650 8 месяцев назад

      I recently discovered both puzzles and this RUclips channel and I’m binge-watching Karenyvideos!! So much fun, right!?

  • @GDF2011
    @GDF2011 Год назад +4

    And now … years later … you created something much bigger. A wonderful place for people to gather and watch your videos and discover the new puzzles, learn about things and have joy. THANK YOU SO MUCH.

  • @alikigeorgiou8499
    @alikigeorgiou8499 3 года назад +4

    Never feel guilty about taking time for yourself... Rediscovering puzzling during these difficult times has helped to ease stress and anxiety and I realise how Mindful puzzling proves to be. I've glued a couple of puzzles together and framed them and given to my two little nieces who were so happy to have their own picture "made" by me for their room. Finding your RUclips channel has been brilliant and you are an absolute delight to watch - just enjoy the moment and You time!

  • @christopherwarwick5956
    @christopherwarwick5956 10 месяцев назад +1

    Neither you nor anyone else has to justify how you spend your time. Im 63 now, and sort of retired, and I have a number of interests. Ive never been into jigsaws before now, but I find the practice of building a picture slowly, being able to drop out and do some housework, very psychologically beneficial. There's so much pressure on your generation to produce instant results that the gentle art of puzzling is more needed than ever. I love your channel!

  • @coehorn
    @coehorn 5 лет назад +31

    Karen, I am retired and I have a lot of time to do anything I want to do. A friend gave me a puzzle of a map of our hometown, Knoxville, Tennessee recently and I completed it with NO illustration. I enjoyed it so much that I have bought other puzzles. I enjoy your website because you have taught me the brands of jigsaw puzzle to buy. You see, I dislike cheap puzzles. I now only buy good quality brand puzzles; that I learned from you! Keep up the good work! Thanks you very much.

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +2

      That makes me so happy to hear! Have fun with your puzzling!

    • @Schneu369
      @Schneu369 3 года назад +1

      The puzzle map idea is absolutely brilliant!! I struggle with learning geography, so I had previously looked up world maps to do as a puzzle, and unfortunately found no good candidates... Local/regionial maps would be so cool! Now if only this puzzle renaissance hadn't caused them all to be sold out... will have to keep looking or make my own...

  • @rosysky02inphoenix11
    @rosysky02inphoenix11 2 года назад +5

    Just came across your channel. Love it!! I just started doing puzzles with my 80 year old mom, a Dr recommended it and I have seen an improvement in her mood!! I love doing them in the evening with her. She tells me stories and we’ve been bonding!! We’re on our 3 rd puzzle!! I have noticed that I’m less stressed and look forward every evening even for an hour I can decompress!!

  • @emiliana1767
    @emiliana1767 2 года назад +4

    The most comforting aspect to me is the certainty of a puzzle. So many things in life are in a constant waiting mode, where you have to just hope they work out at possibly a random time in the future. You have so little control over them and they could very well not work out, no matter how much time & effort you invested and no matter how important they were to you. But with a puzzle you KNOW it will work out, you will make it to the finish line and that feeling of completion is your gratification. Its so comforting to be absolutely sure, that no matter how big or complicated a puzzle is, you will reach the goal eventually 😉

  • @elliotelliott901
    @elliotelliott901 5 лет назад +69

    We keep a jigsaw puzzle on a table in the house and use it for stress relief. It gets worked on by various people and we always get excited when we see progess......We never feel guilty.....😯

    • @pulgamecanica
      @pulgamecanica 5 лет назад +8

      Same at my house, well, besides my own personal jigsaws!

    • @loveluvleelove
      @loveluvleelove 4 года назад +7

      That is like is my first experiences with jigsaw puzzles. My mom worked at a fancy retirement home when I was in elementary school and I would often go to work with her and make friends with the old folks. they had a billiard room and they would leave puzzles out for anyone to work on and I would just go in there and puzzle and residents would come in and out helping with the puzzle. That’s also how I learned to play checkers lol

  • @Mudd_1969
    @Mudd_1969 2 месяца назад +1

    And now here five years later you have made so many friends, gone to worlds, placed in competitions, and never forget your own puzzle creation as well as being featured in a prominent newspaper!❤️❤️❤️. It all started with a girl who loved to puzzle😉

  • @mikerousseau4936
    @mikerousseau4936 4 года назад +56

    When we first got married, jigsaw puzzles were actually a very inexpensive way to spend time together relaxing. Never really thought of them as the playthings of the wealthy.

    • @mpetersen6
      @mpetersen6 4 года назад +11

      When they were handmade they were expensive. To my knowledge the jigsaw puzzle as we know it today was born during the depression as cheap entertainent

    • @LuluTheCorgi
      @LuluTheCorgi Год назад +3

      I used to live in poverty as a child, my mom would have never had multiple hours of time to waste for putting a picture back together
      Its not really puzzles specifically, it's really just any hobby

    • @LisaSimpsonRules
      @LisaSimpsonRules 7 месяцев назад

      And also puzzles require a lot of space. I explained why in another comment. ​@@LuluTheCorgi

  • @pegatheetoo1437
    @pegatheetoo1437 2 года назад +1

    Jigsaw puzzles are so great as something to pass the time for people who can't or don't get out much, like seniors, (especially in these covid crazy days).

  • @beckinevison-smith1025
    @beckinevison-smith1025 3 года назад +7

    I know what you mean about the feeling that we should always be productive or helping someone else. I used to feel guilty about playing games on my phone or watching easy going RUclips videos (about jigsaw puzzles ha ha).. and my partner asked me if I felt anxious while doing them things. I said no. She stayed that in that case I was being productive and helping someone else at the same time. As I was taking time to relax and not being anxious, it was productive as it is self care, and because I was relaxed and not anxious, she didn't have to worry about me. So a win win...

  • @garykirkland3981
    @garykirkland3981 5 лет назад +8

    No guilt, a puzzle and the time to put it together is a gift I give myself. Making order out of chaos is definitely part of the attraction. At it's nice to hear someone else admit to puzzle possession. How many times have I told myself "I'll go to bed when I find one more piece," and two hours later I'm still at it. And puzzling is a good diet aide, when I'm engrossed in a puzzle, I'm not snacking.

  • @Widestone001
    @Widestone001 3 года назад +9

    After completing a puzzle and putting it back into the box, ready to be puzzled again what have you accomplished?
    Simple: You had a good time without lessening anyone else. That in itself is a skill that has been forgotten by most, which is one of the reasons so many people are so miserable.
    And you've rekindled my old love for puzzling. I am turning 43 this year and I too have partially forgotten the aforementioned skill for the past 2 decades. However, this year I've been remembering and I've been doing better than in decades. For that I thank you. :-D

  • @waxenapple1195
    @waxenapple1195 4 года назад +5

    I found your channel because I started doing puzzles while being stuck at home during coronavirus. It's been such a nice distraction to binge watch your videos while puzzling! Glad I found these videos when searching for tips and tricks.

  • @cheryll3448
    @cheryll3448 5 лет назад +27

    I can relate to the "sorting out the chaos and putting it in order" satisfaction that comes from jigsaw puzzles. So that line from the buzzfeed article really hits home:
    *JP won't solve your problems, but a JP is a problem you can solve*
    Each life has its unique pressures and complex issues that need dealing with. For people who innately enjoy JPs, times spent puzzling feels like a productive (yes, productive) break from the demands of life.

  • @yellowct
    @yellowct 4 года назад +5

    I quit puzzles years ago because I found this hobby to be expensive and non challenging and non productive. Your channel reinvigorated my love for puzzles. Now I find them a relaxing escape. Still expensive though.

    • @beaulieuc8910
      @beaulieuc8910 8 месяцев назад +1

      i go to charity shops for mine

  • @GraemeRobinson
    @GraemeRobinson 3 года назад +3

    Karen, you have stumbled across a truth most never comprehend in a lifetime - the importance of an activity that induces 'slowtime'. The ability to be able to step out of everyday activity/productivity and steal some space and time is invaluable for mental health. I have always enjoyed activities that send me into this state - jigsaws are one excellent method but there are many others. When busy we are merely someone else's tool, but when we contemplate and listen while puzzling we are our own independent entity. I love podcasting while puzzling also - I get losing track of time with that. So many thoughtful comments, thanks for sharing.

  • @stevewoodard527
    @stevewoodard527 Год назад

    I've been watching your videos for the past couple of years, so found it interesting to see this older video. Making order from chaos is definitely why I've been doing jigsaws for the past 65 years. Interesting to see how successful your channel has become over the past few years,

  • @amandah2490
    @amandah2490 5 лет назад +80

    Do people feel guilty for watching tv every evening or playing video games or reading a book? No, of course they don't so why should anyone feel guilty for doing a jigsaw instead?

    • @MaxineAnne77
      @MaxineAnne77 3 года назад +4

      Perfect response!

    • @DLRudder
      @DLRudder 3 года назад +4

      I do feel guilty when I'm watching tv, doing video games or playing puzzles because i should be reading a book and studying...

    • @amandah2490
      @amandah2490 3 года назад

      @@DLRudder 😃

    • @jana-dy5et
      @jana-dy5et 3 года назад +1

      @@DLRudder the answer is doing jigsaw puzzlea while listening to an audio book, that's what i always do

    • @rosiefay7283
      @rosiefay7283 2 года назад

      @@jana-dy5et But if you really wanted to do the puzzle, you'd turn the audio off so that you could concentrate on the puzzle. Or if you wanted to listen to the audio, you'd leave off puzzling to do that.

  • @MissGenXr
    @MissGenXr 2 года назад +4

    I never had time for jigsaw puzzles in my younger days. I'm (currently) a disabled veteran (1987-1990 active duty U.S. Air Force and Oregon Army National Guard 2004-2007). Jigsaw puzzles are my way to distract myself from outside issues.
    Thank you for your channel; you're a wonderful person for sharing your hobby with us.

  • @vibcgal1026
    @vibcgal1026 4 года назад +4

    You bring much joy to the 🧩ing community ... don’t ever stop having fun, as we look forward to each and every one of your videos 🙂

  • @CraftyKarin
    @CraftyKarin Год назад +2

    I can relate so much to much of what you were saying. The organization things (but not being neat all the time), the organizing by color and good hue vision. I love colors, the right color combination can make me so happy. And also the creative process vs 'mindless' activities, the ones where you don't have to think about the end goal, there's no real decision making (sure, there are different ways to go about getting to the end, but there is only one correct end result, so how you want to get there is just preference). Realizing this helped me understand why I've done a lot of jigsaw puzzles in different stages of my life - to help my mental health. Other activities I've found that work in the same way for me are Diamond Painting and games like Powerwash simulator.
    The whole constant productivity mindset really doesn't help us. It steals the joy out of things, joy and relaxation that we need in order to be productive as well. Burnout is no joke. Most of us are not aware of how we're depriving ourselves of what we need to keep functioning for the sake of productivity, career advancement, living up to society's norms, until it's too late and the system just shuts down. Unfortunately that was the case for me. My concentration just broke. And I've put a lot of pressure on myself to try and get better so I could be productive again. It only hindered my recovery. Now I'm slowly, step by step, regaining my focus, exploring what I really want under all those layers of expectations and judgments I put upon myself. I'm using jigsaw puzzling in that process of rebuilding my concentration and focus.
    Activities we enjoy, we do just for ourselves, may not be productive in the strictest sense of the word. But they help us to remain productive, in whatever way feels right to you, in the long term.

  • @simplecookin6997
    @simplecookin6997 5 лет назад +18

    Omgosh!! The way you explained how you get in that puzzle mode. That is sooo me lol the house can burn around me but I have to find that next piece.

  • @darkgirl131313
    @darkgirl131313 5 лет назад +8

    I get into the zone a lot with puzzles and forget about things a times but it hasn't affected much. I take care of my Grandma 24/7 as job and she's always telling me she glad not out on drugs, puzzling can't get you into trouble. I haven't felt guilty about doing them it so relaxing and keeps my mind off a lot of things. You shouldn't either it's a wonderful hobby should be proud of. I did get burned out last year on the 2000 piece one I was doing because of how dark the colors where but finished it almost 3 weeks ago and already finished like 11 or 13 since. Thanks for sharing these.

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +1

      Your grandma is a smart lady! I'm sure my grandmother would say the same thing!

  • @OfficialMerilette
    @OfficialMerilette 5 лет назад +21

    As a poor person who is never bored - that quote is not true! Try not to beat yourself up :) everyone needs time for themselves - jigsaw puzzles help me clear my head so that I CAN create things. I have severe mental illness and puzzling helps me so much.

  • @jelissab
    @jelissab 5 лет назад +7

    There is jothing like an awdsome puzzle, tea, and a good audiobook! I agree you go into a trace.

  • @AuntGrace
    @AuntGrace 2 года назад

    💕Thank you for sharing. Right now we all need extra self care. I just started puzzling and found your Chanel like others looking for tips. I have mine set up and it gives me a break to be able to clear my mind for awhile or listen to something and work on my puzzle. You sound like you keep it in balance most of the time. 💕An you do make a difference 🤗 Just enjoy.

  • @alexia6678
    @alexia6678 3 года назад +4

    Hi Karen
    I am going to write an article for my English homework, and I am going to choose “puzzle” as my topic
    I remember watching this video when the time you uploaded it, and I am rewatching it now because it gives me so many ideas
    Thank you for all of your videos and bring us together ❤️
    By a person who watches all of your videos but rarely leaves a comment.

  • @beckytheobsessedstitcher1170
    @beckytheobsessedstitcher1170 3 года назад

    Karen - I have been watching many many of your videos - I have not left comments .. shame shame. I have really enjoyed your channel and have been getting into puzzles for the first time (in my late 50s). Your videos have been enjoyable to just listen to and get tips from while I'm SLOWLY puzzling. Thanks for the content!!! Your channel is really great!!

  • @jasandper
    @jasandper 3 года назад +5

    You can argue that your puzzling brings you the happiness and clarity that allows you to contribute positively to the world in other ways. You gotta take care of yourself before you can take care of anyone else.

  • @WhattheBeck
    @WhattheBeck 5 лет назад +86

    I thought you were going to say "i love the puzzle community to bits and pieces" lol

  • @auntiedoodles6898
    @auntiedoodles6898 5 лет назад +10

    I look at it as a form of meditation. I wrote this just as you were talking about being in a trance. And it does help anxiety. I also like to listen to podcasts or you tube videos while puzzling. I've been getting good puzzles very cheap from Goodwill. I've had good luck with the pieces being there, especially with the ravensburgur. I found a cool older Milton Bradley that I took a chance on, and my friend asked me if I would be mad if all the pieces weren't there. I said, "no, I will have gotten $2 worth of entertainment from it" But, all the pieces were there! So, yay!

    • @melvinmcdougal6226
      @melvinmcdougal6226 5 лет назад

      I was reading this just as she mentioned being in a trance.

  • @arioctober
    @arioctober 11 месяцев назад

    I'm years late to this video but im glad i found it anyway... it makes me so happy that you were able to turn puzzling into a career now. Im hoping its not turning it into a chore for you!
    Puzzling is something i only got into as an adult over the last month but it has been kinda literally saving my life. I have extreme anxiety amongst a lot of mental health issues and puzzling helps soothe me like nothing else ive ever tried.
    Puzzling is also, for me, the best way to consume art. I actually spend time pondering over the details and really absorbing this piece of art someone poured so much time, energy, love, etc into... so much better than viewing for 5 seconds, hitting like, and then continuing to scroll...
    I went to a concert for the first time in my life last month, and that experience made me really realize that producers are nothing without the consumers. Artists are nothing without their fans! So much of what is fun about a concert is feeling the energy in the room of all the people who are so happy to be there. Music artists literally thrive on that energy. It's what keeps them going.
    So consuming the art that is a puzzle, and also the art that makes up the puzzle image, It's just part of the natural give and take of this world. It's just as important as the time we spend being creative ourselves.
    🧩

  • @KittyxKult
    @KittyxKult 3 года назад +6

    When you make a puzzle, you may not be solving any major problems of the world, but you are simultaneously exercising and relaxing your brain. You are using problem solving skills, trying new things, testing your patience and resilience. And, of course, self care is just as important as saving the world! Can’t help others if you can’t help yourself.

  • @barbieshatky5682
    @barbieshatky5682 3 года назад +2

    💚💛❤️💙💜
    You change the world with your kindness , your happinness!!!
    You have helped me with your beautiful channel, to stay calm doing a puzzle, and to love puzzles!!!
    So I love You!! 😍😘

  • @priscilla4822
    @priscilla4822 5 лет назад +7

    Puzzles and listening to National a Public Radio is the perfect combination. I think that tiny little click when you find a fit is addicting.

  • @arupian666
    @arupian666 3 года назад +1

    11:03. It is selfish, That's what a hobby is. You're doing something that you enjoy, for your pleasure. Hobbies are all about YOU. And that's 100% OK. My time for being productive (actually, in my job it's more like making sure other people are being productive) is from 9 to 5. Mon - Fri. All other time I feel ZERO need to be productive. That's when I enjoy my hobbies. Listening to some of my collection of vintage radios, looking after my tarantulas, playing survival games, enjoying my cigar collection, playing through classic chess games, it's all "me" time... ME ME ME ME !!!!! hahah.. and now having just watched you for almost 6 hours putting together your "dream puzzle", subscribing to your channel and enjoying your content, you're one of my new hobbies... it's been a while since I did a jigsaw... do I have time ? With all that "nothing" on my calendar that I have to fit in...

  • @UC6FtDxCT934Dt
    @UC6FtDxCT934Dt 2 года назад

    I loved this video, very interesting introspection regarding the idea of "monetizing your hobbies" I totally understand your feeling!

  • @brettallenthomas
    @brettallenthomas 5 лет назад +21

    Thanks Karen for sharing...
    A couple thoughts..
    Never feel bad for relaxing.. a person who doesn't slow down some times isn't going to be healthy.
    I don't think Jigsaw Puzzles are a hobby only for the rich.. comparatively they can be very inexpensive (cost per hour) compared to many other hobbies, and used puzzles cost almost nothing...
    Don't ever feel like you "need to create content", just to satisfy viewers... Unless you need the income from RUclips, just post when your'e in the mood. Your sub's won't abandon you for some other "fancy Puzzle Channel", if you take a break from posting..

  • @melissalee2286
    @melissalee2286 5 лет назад +5

    Oh my goodness! I'm only 6 minutes in to this video and I'm nodding my head in agreement with every word. I finally have the words to explain why I love jigsaw puzzles so much and why scrapbooking is enjoyable when I begin a layout, but it turns frustrating the more I add to it. I can't ever feel done with craft projects unless I'm copying something, and there's no satisfaction in that.

    • @koibuesi
      @koibuesi 2 года назад

      Never agreed this much with a three year old comment.

  • @stephaniehung8081
    @stephaniehung8081 4 года назад +2

    Hey Karen - I just found your channel and I love you and your videos! This video resonated with me so much. I’ve always been casually into puzzles but recently I’ve been so entranced by puzzles that I’ve done at least one 1000 piece puzzle almost every week. I get into that trance-like state that you’re talking about, where nothing else matters but the puzzle, and the guilt is so real. I’ve decided not to buy another puzzle until I’ve completed some of the other tasks in my life so things are under control. But just want to say thanks for sharing this video and sharing your process with us.

  • @marieketrompert4387
    @marieketrompert4387 4 года назад +1

    Please don't feel guilty for doing something 'unproductive'. It is the most important thing in the world to let go and just be, enjoying something that brings you flow. I think it is a disease of the modern society to feel that everything has to be productive. As if you are worthless when you aren't. But you are inherently so worthwile because you are alive!! Please enjoy life doing what you love. Jigsaws! :-)

  • @Kimberly-wt1nu
    @Kimberly-wt1nu 5 лет назад +9

    Monday I dropped my kid off at daycare and did a puzzle all day. I felt a bit guilty, but sometimes I have to do something just for my own peace.💝

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад +1

      Yes, sometimes it's ok to take a day off!

  • @india239
    @india239 5 лет назад +11

    When my mental health plummets was I do a jigsaw. I can’t read vexatious forget, get lost, mind wanders off. Not enough concentration. But a puzzle needs enough concentration to stop my anxiety/obsession but if I find my mind has wandered it’s easy to get going again

  • @guidotenaglia3332
    @guidotenaglia3332 5 лет назад +5

    I've been doing puzzles for over ten years, almost every day. I garden , I paint (oils), I watch movies, and I never feel guilty. I'm retired, and it doesn't bother me if people think I'm wasting my time. It's my time to use, whatever others might think, and puzzling is my way to relax and unwind. Keep up your hobby - don't worry about what someone else might think. I really enjoy your videos, too!

  • @annamaria54321
    @annamaria54321 5 лет назад +4

    Karen, that was a great video! I totally understand what you are saying. Puzzles are a great way to stay out of trouble, lol. Some people don't "get" the draw of puzzling, but there are plenty of things most folks do that I don't quite "get" either. To each his own.

  • @KathisEvoli
    @KathisEvoli 5 лет назад +3

    Everytime i doing a jigsaw puzzle i think a lot about my life. Where i am standing, what i wish for my future life, how i can change it if i feel bad and so on. It reall gives me the time to think about myself, which i wont do in my "normal" life. So the only thing i feel guilty about is to use our table where we normally eat. It helps me a lot to get lost into the jigsaw puzzle, think about stuff and finish it off. It feels like you completed something. (The same reason why i only play videogames with an end screen or credits. Otherwise it will feel like its not over yet even you are at the end.)
    I absolutely love this feeling: Happy about finishing it and at the same time sad because finishing it. Its a great but strange feeling. :D

  • @22shrimpie
    @22shrimpie Год назад

    Hi Karen, really appreciate your honest sharing. I recently got into puzzles - just a few days ago - and am delight to hv discovered your channel. Glad you are able to share your joy. And it's ok to not be productive!! I am learning that self care is one of the most important things.

  • @fryingpan552
    @fryingpan552 5 лет назад +2

    Can relate! I usually listen to audiobooks or put on youtube videos in the background (like right now) to "stack" my non-productive activities together and ease the guilt

  • @ACDBunnie
    @ACDBunnie 2 года назад

    I'm not into puzzles myself but I like watching your videos when I'm depressed or am doing homework. Even though I'm not a puzzle person I can watch people do them when it's sped up and I like people nerding out and doing hobbies that are uncommon

  • @ButOneThingIsNeedful
    @ButOneThingIsNeedful 4 года назад +1

    Some good points that I too resonate with. Specifically, 1) great quote from that article, 2) love "order from chaos"; with ya'!, and 3) find it very satisfying that there is a "right answer" and also a definite "ending/solution", rather than a vague open-endedness.

  • @mrelling5
    @mrelling5 Год назад

    Hi Karen and thank you for sharing these words with us. Please don't feel guilty. you are bringing so much joy in our lives and when you finished a difficult puzzle, you are an idol for me. Im doing jigsaw puzzles every day to relax myself and it works. So thank you for everything.

  • @laurah6381
    @laurah6381 5 лет назад +4

    My kids are away at college and when they come home for breaks we do a jigsaw puzzle! I've never felt guilty because it's great bonding time for us! 💙💚💜

  • @achild4363
    @achild4363 8 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t feel guilty for loving jigsaw puzzles. I love spending time on them it’s keeps me feeling good.

  • @josephhaschka8192
    @josephhaschka8192 3 года назад

    I don't recall doing jigsaw puzzles anytime in childhood. I may have, but memory fails. Now, at 72 and in retirement, I took the hobby up two years ago to keep the mind active. That's the simple reason why and I don't need to overthink it. It is an addictive pleasure, indeed.

  • @roxanatheresa
    @roxanatheresa 5 лет назад +3

    OMG! I was so glad to stumble upon your channel. I love doing puzzles. Like you, I have enjoyed doing them as a child as well. I try to encourage my kids as well as the kids I work with to do them. They’re minds need a break from cell phones and electronics!

    • @KarenPuzzles
      @KarenPuzzles  5 лет назад

      Yes, it's so nice to look at something outside of a screen for a while!

  • @TheNiiiNjAClan
    @TheNiiiNjAClan 5 лет назад +4

    Karen, love doing puzzles, some of my favorite jigsaws are the minature world's smallest 1000 piece puzzle. They come in a tin so pieces are safe. I have redone these puzzles many many times. Even to the point of using a magnifying glass.
    I love these, you should give one a try,

  • @a-little-sunshine
    @a-little-sunshine 4 года назад +1

    I'm so glad you share your hobby with us, Karen. Thank you for this video.

  • @elsageldhof7403
    @elsageldhof7403 5 лет назад +2

    Don't feel guilty for doing something you love and enjoy so much .Just take your pleasure wherever you find it.I love your channel and your personality is simply super.You are bringing a lot of fun to a great many people.Just keep doing what you love and the rest will follow.Many blessings to you,you are very sweet and unspoiled .Love you.

  • @noellupa4849
    @noellupa4849 4 года назад +2

    Even before creating these really good videos, you were creating some "time and space" for yourself. Don't feel bad of being "selfish" to do something you love and have been doing for so long. If you are a good person, who respects people and have empathy, that's already revolutionary in the world we live in. Keep doing what you love! - and keep puzzling!

  • @maggardyful
    @maggardyful 4 года назад

    I feel the same way about jigsaw puzzles! Getting into the puzzle zone is wonderful! Keep puzzling Karen!

  • @thekellydennis
    @thekellydennis 4 года назад +1

    I totally loved this! So there IS a definition for why I get so entranced into puzzles! Yay! There were so many things I thought to comment on while watching this vid, but now forgetting! But you are doing a LOT of good by sharing these vids with us!

  • @dawnpiccolo7044
    @dawnpiccolo7044 5 лет назад +1

    Hi there Karen my favorite youtuber! A great way to double up your productive time while puzzleing is listen to books on tape. The library rents them out for a little small fee. Also I have found several new puzzles still in the wrapper at goodwill and thrift shops. Most of the time all the pieces are still there which is super surprising and so good. Happy puzzleing!

  • @hwilliams1709
    @hwilliams1709 4 года назад

    Your explanation of your love of puzzles, the Zen you find in them and the guilt is so spot on to my thoughts, down to the pic of you doing puzzles as a little one.
    I recently found your page and LOVE it! Keep up the awesome fun. 😁

    • @hwilliams1709
      @hwilliams1709 4 года назад

      Also, check out "Small Town Murder" podcast.

  • @kittikat4124
    @kittikat4124 4 года назад

    I just found your channel and I agree on so many points. I don’t do jigsaw puzzles, but I love building lego sets. Theyre so great and basically just mindless bliss for me. I’m also an artistic type and it’s so nice to leave my piano, guitar, musescore, logic, etc behind for an hour or two and just build something. I always get so excited to finally get to the end result, even thought you know from the picture on the box what it’ll look like in the end, it’s so fun to finally get there and see it for yourself

  • @amiteliyahu
    @amiteliyahu 5 лет назад +4

    Thank you so much for sharing! Your channel is what got me into puzzles & it’s super inspiring! I feel that the way you’ve described yourself and the enjoyment of being fully submerged in the puzzle is totally me!! Thanks for expressing this so precisely! Keep on doing so great, and I hope you’ll keep enjoy puzzling as much as making these awesome videos. Xoxo

  • @DrRaguy
    @DrRaguy 4 года назад

    Ok this video is so old but I relate, so much. I'm an artist/graphic designer and I got sooo burn out at one point... I still wanted to make things but didn't have the creative boost to make something new, so I bought myself some small lego projects. I would assemble them exactly how it says on the box and it help me feeling like I did something without taking up too much brain energy. It's way for me to recharge while still making something.

  • @dawnpiccolo7044
    @dawnpiccolo7044 5 лет назад +1

    Hello again. I'm loving your videos! Sometimes I feel a little guilty for spending time puzzleing. So the way I justify is doing puzzles that match a holiday that's coming up. Then I can frame them and use them for home decor. This gives me a twofold win win and more puzzleing fun! Keep up the good work Karen!

  • @awkward567
    @awkward567 5 лет назад +3

    YES BEAD SORTING! I had tons of beads as a kid and I rarely made any actual jewelry with them but I would sit and sort them for hours! There was also a neat board game/activity called Playful Patterns where you used colorful foam shapes to recreate pictures and I could do that for hours too! Now all my color/puzzle/activities are digital.

  • @tinapeterson7502
    @tinapeterson7502 5 лет назад

    You can always choose a volunteer job in-between puzzles. You need the puzzles, it helps you, then do something that helps others beyond creating these videos. That's productive and useful to your community. Honestly, I am glad you are here because I have always loved putting together puzzles and your enthusiasm is infectious. I saw the movie "Puzzle" and enjoyed it. Thanks again for your videos.

  • @vernawelch1539
    @vernawelch1539 Год назад

    I also love doing puzzles and needlework. I have had a lot of surgeries due to polio and post polio syndrome. I try having a puzzle on my puzzle table all year round.

  • @GreatGarloo
    @GreatGarloo 5 лет назад +4

    I never feel guilty while doing a jigsaw puzzle. I also collect comics so I'm always going out to find them. Some of the best times I've had has been at a comic book convention. Being around other people that share your interests is great! I'm also trying to arrange a trip to Monsterpalooza in Pasadena next month.

  • @lmichelle7418
    @lmichelle7418 4 года назад

    You’re very lucky that your family brought you up loving a hobby and supported your hobby. I spend most of my time studying or television. But I am getting into puzzles now!

  • @jennybutler9084
    @jennybutler9084 4 года назад

    I do sometimes feel guilty doing puzzles if I need to get to something else. But I find them to be very calming, and great stress relief. I love listening to podcasts too while puzzling.
    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this.

  • @headachegiverknouse3953
    @headachegiverknouse3953 Год назад

    Like you, I have been doing jigsaw puzzles for decades ... long before they were cool. They are the best diet plan ever invented since I can work for hours and forget all about lunch and work in the evening and forget about a late-night snack! Don't feel any guilt ... you are majorly contributing to educating and enlightening other puzzlers and I think our community is a pretty big one and of all ages.
    I helped my sister in the nursing home (suffering with Alzheimers) put many puzzles together. Her verbal communications were not frequent and she was in the seventh and final stage of the disease. I watched how she decided where puzzle pieces would fit. That part of her mind still worked.
    I wrote to Buffalo Puzzles asking them to design and promote puzzles for folks with Alzheimers. The ones we could find and purchase for her were often childish images. I think images from when these elderly people were younger that they could relate to would be better and suggested Buffalo Puzzles could consult with the Alzheimer's Assn. of America, getting their input. SIGH. No response.
    Love your vids; keep them coming.

  • @tracywatson7776
    @tracywatson7776 4 года назад +4

    I totally zone out like you described. I love going into “puzzle mode”. It’s the only time I can focus on 1 fun item, and everything else in my mind just fades away. 🧩. Question. Do you have a favorite mat you use to use to roll up and store while working?

  • @Novaximus
    @Novaximus 5 лет назад +5

    What's your take on jigsaw puzzle games you can play on your computer? Do you play them? Do you think there's something lost taking it to that medium? any other thoughts you might have on them? I know there's some jigsaw puzzles you can find on "steam" if you're familiar with them.

  • @snoringcatP
    @snoringcatP 5 лет назад +7

    You can make the same argument for people who sit and read books. Which I do. Don't stress about it. Life is short.

  • @fernandafibla885
    @fernandafibla885 3 года назад

    I don't feel guilty because we all need time for ourselves and we do have the right to do whatever we want to do with our free time. Besides that, we're living in such a chaotic century, I think everyone needs a hobby like puzzling in their lives! About puzzling been a "rich people hobby", I'm a middle-low class brazilian living with a little bit more than minimal wage and I'm puzzling! Puzzles are for everyone! Also I appreciate your chanel so much and I hope that you continue to feel good about working on it. Hugs from Brazil 🤗

  • @Jess-se4re
    @Jess-se4re 3 года назад +1

    omg this is the first time i’ve seen someone else with the game “i love hue” i love it so much

    • @ceemar2621
      @ceemar2621 3 года назад

      I play it too... it’s addictive! 😄

    • @sunnyscott4876
      @sunnyscott4876 3 года назад

      I like it too but I can't get past Level 5.
      . I just keep playing the first 5 levels over and over again!

  • @oldbmyoutube-donotuse1542
    @oldbmyoutube-donotuse1542 4 года назад

    Live your rambling. Good reminders about why I like to puzzle too

  • @MissVindicat
    @MissVindicat 3 года назад

    Hey! You just made me realize I am very good with colors too! I just thought it was the same for everybody, minus a couple of colorblind people? So I have a superpower and I didn’t even know? ✨✨✨

  • @jesss2297
    @jesss2297 4 года назад +1

    I’m late to the game, but I found this channel and this video especially resonated with me! Thank you so much for sharing this 💕

  • @carolinefry3275
    @carolinefry3275 4 года назад

    I love the puzzles and I feel so identified with your feelings. I am 58 and dont feel bad for doing what you love. That is something that not everyone is able to do. Enjoy it! Ypu do it very well!

  • @karinheart
    @karinheart 4 года назад

    I can relate so much to why you do puzzles. Love it and gave tips to help me do puzzles without guilt

  • @bkackman
    @bkackman 3 года назад

    That was great to listen to. Thank you.
    So many of us haven't a clue what it is that makes us happy and it was insightful to hear you able to articulate what puzzling does for you. I found myself internally defending you against your guilt. You have noting to apologize for in finding something that provides you so much satisfaction. And I appreciate that you've found a way to share a little of that with us. You are a delight to watch and listen to.
    Puzzling filled a lot of the down time during COVID and I appreciate that. And in the course of doing those, I discovered you. So that's two wins.
    Thank you for articulating your feelings about puzzling. That was really interesting to hear.

  • @Meekachii
    @Meekachii 4 года назад

    I love that you brought back the doll joke!! I laughed so hard. I’m glad you share your hobby with us! It’s so much fun to watch!

  • @icturner23
    @icturner23 3 года назад

    You’re winning me over to jigsaws but the other types of puzzles are more what I’m into. I used to work on a puzzle magazine cresting and solving them all day, and my master’s thesis was on the syntactic structure of cryptic-crossword clues.

  • @fothrmuckr
    @fothrmuckr 2 года назад

    I feel guilty sometimes because I get anti social when I'm doing puzzles. I just want to be left alone so I can make the order out of the chaos. It's so satisfying to snap that last piece in and watch the image come fully to light. I love your channel and im so grateful I found it about six months ago. I either listen to true crime or watch your channel while I'm puzzling.