The Power Of The Takeaway

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  • How to properly use the power of the takeaway when trying to set dates with women who have low interest in seeing you to change their perception of you, find you more attractive and become eager to set and keep dates with you.
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Комментарии • 165

  • @arthurjackson8302
    @arthurjackson8302 6 лет назад +245

    One of the reasons why I trust Corey over other coaches is the fact that less women agree with him.

    • @bro.mediocre
      @bro.mediocre 4 года назад +9

      Arthur Jackson bahaha 🤣 funniest thing I’ve ever heard, but so true

    • @ishan_murjhani
      @ishan_murjhani 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @adday.
      @adday. 3 года назад +7

      I agree with Cory 95 % . Don't know how most men could get away with texting so little as Cory recommends.

    • @adday.
      @adday. 3 года назад +1

      @Jan draq It's a good test. I know of a dentist of a friend's cousin's dog sitter who maybe could pass the test.

    • @awilliams310
      @awilliams310 3 года назад +5

      The right ones do agree. That's the key

  • @marianomanto
    @marianomanto 7 лет назад +370

    My girl dumped me 2 days ago.
    She: I just dont feel the same anymore
    Me: lets work it out
    She: I cant
    Me: I suppose we should break up then since Im putting all the effort and you are not giving me what I need.
    Hug, kiss, good bye.
    Three days no contact and I feel stronger than Ive been in months. Silence plays to our advantage guys, we are just stupid enough to not use it.
    You either get her back, or you get someone better.

    • @LQ1F2M
      @LQ1F2M 6 лет назад +4

      Amen buddy.

    • @grandoldsoul4691
      @grandoldsoul4691 6 лет назад +6

      you got a great mindset. it's hard sometimes especially if you deal with inescutires/ doubts from the past as corey said. it's a challenge. congrats bro.

    • @EssDubz
      @EssDubz 6 лет назад +1

      Mariano Manto updates??

    • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
      @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 лет назад +1

      LEGEND

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 лет назад +2

      Mariano Manto updates?!

  • @thesmalllebowski284
    @thesmalllebowski284 5 лет назад +43

    The takeaway is the most powerful tactic i've ever experienced. I'm dating this beautiful girl and when i asked her out for the first time she was like: '' yeah i'm pretty busy, but maybe thursday next week (that would be in 9 days)''
    I did not act on her thursday ''offer'' .I just replied with: ''Why don't u hit me up when figured out your schedule''
    Within 30 minutes she texted me saying she could meet up in two days... then i told her I"m having dinner with a ''friend'' (total lie), and met up with her the day after that.
    So what I learned from this situation is when u come across like u don't care and aren't available, she will immediately care and become available.
    (Ive experienced this with several girls over the last couple of years)

  • @RobertWilliamsRDubJr
    @RobertWilliamsRDubJr 8 лет назад +50

    Corey is correct. A historical example: The Reykjavik Summit. President Reagan walked away from the negotiation table from Sec General Gorbechev. Later, Gorbechev credits this summit as the breakthrough in ending the Cold War. A real woman will respect the strength of walking away, and it will change the dynamics of the relationship....for the better.

  • @Snacks014
    @Snacks014 9 лет назад +59

    You sir have won the internet.

  • @TheArthrighteous
    @TheArthrighteous 8 лет назад +31

    This is also a precursor to being placed in the friend zone. This guy realized that he was an afterthought in her mind, and didn't want to stay latched onto something that was going nowhere. I've recently done the same thing with a chick, and you gain your self power back. It may not workout, but at least you're healthy and happy.

  • @tubenachos
    @tubenachos 9 лет назад +78

    I actually tried this on a woman who gave me "maybes" for dates and it really worked holy shit!

    • @codemiesterbeats
      @codemiesterbeats 8 лет назад +10

      yea I just tried it on a chick and she explained her maybe lol (I am thinking it was not a bullshit maybe) Her eyes had swollen up as a reaction to some makeup and didnt want to go out till the swelling went down. I bet I woulda screwed it up if I hadnt seen corey's videos lol I just said sounds like your busy lets do it when you have more time, she said "Oh im not doing anything I just have some problems with my face etc... can we wait until next week sometime?" lol I told her to let me know when she gets that sorted out... lol

    • @joshuawoodfolk8202
      @joshuawoodfolk8202 4 года назад +1

      @@codemiesterbeats How did that work out, man?

    • @michaelthem3
      @michaelthem3 4 года назад +3

      It worked for me as well, a time ago, but I realized she had low interest, so went in other directions. 💪🏼

  • @frankies1245
    @frankies1245 10 лет назад +27

    The woman I've been talking to. I felt like she's testing a bit. When Skype date came up she said she's sick and all the other bs and maybe later blah blah blah. I stand up for myself and told her I don't work with maybe dates and I said you let me know when you're free and feel better and then we'll talk. My point is I am getting alot better at standing up for myself and hope you guys do the same. Coach says this in the book! "ALL WOMEN TEST". And I'm prepared for it :)

  • @janpietzoon
    @janpietzoon 5 лет назад +14

    I love the james bond personification, everything sounds so logical and naturally from that perspective haha

  • @TravelandBang
    @TravelandBang 5 лет назад +14

    If you ever encountered flakey chicks or being friend zoned then be sure to read Corey's book "The 3% Man" and make it your bible. It's changed my life, it's refined my game arsenal and my flake rate went down to 2%. A masterpiece book, a must read!

  • @inderjotsinghh
    @inderjotsinghh 6 лет назад +12

    Did it today, it was not fun. But prolly, did the right thing. Feeling weak, since we were not hooking up I had to say that it is not what I want. But gotta, hold my ground!

  • @supremeaction9026
    @supremeaction9026 5 лет назад +18

    The Take Away worked for me 3 out of 3 times this month. Thanks Coach!!

    • @jjw3956
      @jjw3956 3 года назад +4

      100% of the time it works every time !

    • @johnbingaman3645
      @johnbingaman3645 2 года назад +2

      @@jjw3956 yes, when you do the takeaway all of a sudden they get interested don't let them give you that bull crap of maybe I'll let you know excuse which means no State what you want and they will come running great job

  • @firstchushingura
    @firstchushingura 5 лет назад +7

    All you need to do is to Love yourself first then others. Put yourself first. You deserve it.

  • @greensky01
    @greensky01 8 лет назад +7

    I have been stumbling, tripping, and falling on my ass even when I was with someone. Realizing that I wasn't happy with who and where I was negatively reinforced my behaviors. I know now that I must focus on myself first and foremost. Believe in myself. I must be the best I can be and be content. Then will I truly be found by someone whom I had in visioned to be with.
    Thank you CW for guiding the maze with your insights.

  • @soldaris12
    @soldaris12 6 лет назад +13

    Corey probably one of the best videos of your's that I have seen, the take away strategy has helped me not just with women but also with job offers etc. I've read your book ten times and watched many of your videos, thank you!

  • @ryan5713
    @ryan5713 6 лет назад +8

    Lmao this girl tried to delay date for half an hour which is not what I wanted, so I told her I had something planned for later so I would have to pass. Then all of a sudden she had a change in attitude and was afraid to lose me right away. Good advice. The art of negotiation

  • @LiquidRush
    @LiquidRush 9 лет назад +16

    You're a legend mate, keep the videos coming. Just met a girl i REALLY like, she was into me too. We met up, got drunk, made out, almost had sex (no location), now she's a bit hesitant to meet up.....weird.....gotta takeaway!

  • @frankies1245
    @frankies1245 10 лет назад +45

    Success depends upon prior preparation :)

    • @n1ghtmare724
      @n1ghtmare724 5 лет назад +3

      And without such preparation there is sure to be failure :)

  • @guessabdjalil1869
    @guessabdjalil1869 8 лет назад +24

    thanks sir , i got my ex back haha that's one of the greatest things in life , you have been taught by someone , you apply what you've been taught , it works wonders , thumbs up corey , keep up the good work

    • @SmileyMT
      @SmileyMT 8 лет назад +1

      Haha well done you can you explain how you managed that? in the same situation.

    • @ThatKidBryan
      @ThatKidBryan 6 лет назад

      Guessab Djalil still with her??

  • @grandoldsoul4691
    @grandoldsoul4691 6 лет назад +13

    when i was younger my gf's always said i love you first. i said it back to be nice. over time i would trick myself into believing i was or i thought i was. like i would like them more and more as time went on. but now when i think about it idk if i ever really been in love.

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 5 лет назад

      Me too.

    • @gurgamous
      @gurgamous 3 года назад

      if youre unsure about having been in love then you never have been. Being in love is totally unambiguous

  • @OVOXO334
    @OVOXO334 10 лет назад +17

    Today I am taking my ex out to eat and ,hopefully doing more things because of this man I don't brake eye contact and always know how to make a girl smile or laugh and ,how to keep a conversation going hopefully I'll see important or interest from in me thx coach

    • @michaelmiller8455
      @michaelmiller8455 5 лет назад

      @@kenvr2287 Lmao. I'm sure it's not his command of the English language that attracts the ladies.

  • @vladimirgarcia7601
    @vladimirgarcia7601 6 лет назад +6

    Can you start referencing page numbers or chapters when you say "I talk about this in my book." I have listened to the book once since I found your channel 3 weeks ago. I am working on the fundamentals, while trying to apply your information to my current situations. Thank you for the work you do!

  • @Trevorl-fo7vr
    @Trevorl-fo7vr 6 лет назад +45

    Wishy washy people particularly women... Next. Another bus will be pulling in soon.

  • @godrink69
    @godrink69 6 лет назад +5

    This video made my day, i`m applying the takeaway right now with a girl i`m crazy about!!

    • @materiialart8226
      @materiialart8226 3 года назад

      Did it work?

    • @godrink69
      @godrink69 3 года назад +1

      @@materiialart8226 Mmm i think so man, I married now 😅

  • @alphacentary
    @alphacentary 10 лет назад +9

    Hey Corey, I had an amazing experience last night having taken what you said to heart and having read your book and still reading it.
    I started small talk with this girl I met when I went out to grab something to eat at the University I go to. I first see her sit down a seat away from me. So I say "Hi whats your name" she responds and we talk for a little bit. I eventually ask for her number and she says "I am a little shy so I don't think so". So I withdraw the offer and talk to her a little more. 5 mins later she slides her phone over and I give her my number and then I get hers.
    Next thing to do is to make the date. Going to do that with a call this afternoon. :)

  • @malikadams590
    @malikadams590 10 лет назад +2

    coach corey you are great with this stuff, changed my life!

  • @AscendedWarriors
    @AscendedWarriors 10 лет назад +62

    there was this russian girl in my college class who had lost interest in me but then saw two other girls flirting with me and the next day she sat next to me and was all over me

    • @fearlessbetz
      @fearlessbetz 5 лет назад +14

      Then she's not a quality person. If she only wants you to compete with others, she doesn't value you as a person.

    • @Jaz3930
      @Jaz3930 3 года назад

      @@fearlessbetz you don’t understand women then.

    • @fearlessbetz
      @fearlessbetz 3 года назад +2

      @jaz3930 ah, always the struggle to understand oneself. I just know if she only wants you when she perceives a threat, she doesn't truly like the person. She only wants him when she feels she can't have him. What happens when she gets bored? She'll be on to the next challenge. Not a quality person for the long run, maybe just a short sprint.

    • @AscendedWarriors
      @AscendedWarriors 3 года назад +2

      @@fearlessbetz yes true. Dam i made that comment 6 years ago. Really takes me back.
      Now i live in S america where its a struggle to stay with only 1 girl lol

    • @Jaz3930
      @Jaz3930 3 года назад +1

      @@AscendedWarriors you’re surrounded by beautiful women!

  • @KryptonKr
    @KryptonKr 5 лет назад +6

    At around 15:40 after he said the train part. There’s like a train honking in the distance. What a coincidence lol

    • @Mr_Nailon_93
      @Mr_Nailon_93 5 лет назад +3

      And soon after that, he says there's no such thing as a coincidence 🤣😂

  • @redbrimstone8701
    @redbrimstone8701 6 лет назад +1

    Great video! Focus on yourself. Number 1 priority.

  • @berineayala4767
    @berineayala4767 5 лет назад +2

    Good stuff thanks again man you rock !

  • @EagleLogic
    @EagleLogic 9 лет назад +15

    You're the fucking man coach.

  • @gambit_toys6554
    @gambit_toys6554 6 лет назад +4

    What Corey said at 15:35 a girl change her religion, country, etc if she's attracted to you enough.
    Yup look at the news and how women join the taliban....they act masculine. (Even though they're malevolent)

  • @lashonagerdine904
    @lashonagerdine904 9 лет назад +4

    You definitely Deserve the best!!

  • @Xxxxxrrr6464
    @Xxxxxrrr6464 Год назад

    Great success story thanks Corey

  • @Boomsauce11
    @Boomsauce11 10 лет назад +1

    Hey Corey, awesome information as always. Is your book available in audio format? Thanks!

  • @arherrington
    @arherrington 8 лет назад +11

    16:30 lmfao!!

  • @edwingaldamez7043
    @edwingaldamez7043 7 лет назад +9

    Shit I missing the indoor olympics at the moment 🤔😂💆🏻‍♂️

  • @austinnguyen9107
    @austinnguyen9107 3 года назад +2

    3:14 Time scarce, you really want to spend your time with someone who really likes you, wants to see you, who's enthusiastic about you. and then you have someone ehh, idk, basically can you be my backup, i'm not really sure if I want to spend time with you.

  • @MindsAblaze
    @MindsAblaze 10 лет назад +4

    Hey Coach thanks for all your videos. Could you make videos with one of your girlfriends and act out / explain interactions. Such as walking up and introducing yourself, asking for the #, setting up a date, first date, second date, sexual advances etc? Go through the potential reactions the girl might have. I think that would be very helpful to a lot of guys to actually see it unfold before them, instead of just talking about it, and I would love to see the master in action!

  • @jetclntn
    @jetclntn 3 года назад

    You’re absolutely right, I appreciate You

  • @damien4v3
    @damien4v3 4 года назад +6

    Just used this on my girl that’s become cold and distant . She’s gone from wishy washy to sending me 4 messages in a row in panic mode

  • @rickolsen5299
    @rickolsen5299 7 лет назад +2

    im watching this video for the 3 time in a roll. haha. Its awesome.

  • @yolofullsend
    @yolofullsend 4 года назад +4

    I had to use this yesterday on a girl who seemed disinterested... i ended up cancelling the date that she seemed begrudgingly ready to go on... shocked the crap out of her lol..id have prefered she be excited for the date but thats out of my control.
    I didnt win...but i didnt lose either.

  • @chimkinNuggz
    @chimkinNuggz 10 лет назад +6

    I never had a gf until i was about 22. I used to worry alot about that but now i think it was a blessing in diguise because now it takes a while for me to get attached and i know that if the girl breaks up with me ill be fine since im used to it, wich in return i come to find out the ladies love that and end up chasing me. Granted i never told them how long ive been single lol but for now ill just roll with the benefits.

  • @Nadehj
    @Nadehj 9 лет назад +3

    Can your advice be used by women on men as well? Seems like it to me, but just checking.

  • @alexzamoraclips
    @alexzamoraclips 5 лет назад +1

    Numero uno!!! You are my fucking hero!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽👊🏼

  • @ralpharances
    @ralpharances 6 лет назад +1

    I love this

  • @marks9948
    @marks9948 4 месяца назад

    breakfast, lunch and dinner! 😂😂

  • @dancastor2164
    @dancastor2164 6 лет назад +1

    Great advice videos though

  • @michaelcopeland7577
    @michaelcopeland7577 9 лет назад

    Thanks.

  • @rahmanmd9891
    @rahmanmd9891 5 лет назад

    coreys facial expressions are awesome

  • @OwenWai
    @OwenWai 6 лет назад

    Breakfast, lunch and dinner !!!! HAHA ! Classic Coach Corey

  • @timwinkel6655
    @timwinkel6655 3 года назад

    Corey I wish you would do a video about being in a relationship with a single one parent mother that will use the sitter backed out as an excuse ALL THE TIME!

  • @roberthoogenboom4429
    @roberthoogenboom4429 6 лет назад

    LOL! Great stuff, Corey!

  • @Jubeyy5
    @Jubeyy5 10 лет назад +3

    Hi Corey, would all of the advice you are giving out to males apply to females as well?

  • @dancastor2164
    @dancastor2164 6 лет назад +2

    Corey,did you possile get coaching tips from James Bond....lol

  • @stanj-p9507
    @stanj-p9507 4 года назад +3

    She’s not abandoning her kids bruh

  • @troytroy4191
    @troytroy4191 7 лет назад

    Very gooood info

  • @vincentsweetman5686
    @vincentsweetman5686 5 лет назад +1

    I had a date with a really hot girl, but she stood me up even though she knew for sure the time the day and place

  • @bladoubam8050
    @bladoubam8050 10 лет назад +3

    Coach Corey, my gf who planned marriage with me broke up with me because i was needy during her holidays week, after 3 weeks of our breakup she started dating and i stopped contacting her, but the problem is that i talked abt my feelings to her bestfriend, u think i can fix things by just cutting contact with this bestfriend and walkaway for real ?

    • @michaellmocanu8429
      @michaellmocanu8429 5 лет назад +2

      nah, just keep contacting her every half an hr, she'll eventually come to your place to do laundry due to her panties being too wet.

    • @Blodia1990
      @Blodia1990 2 года назад

      @@michaellmocanu8429 😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣👌🏿

  • @salmansheikh9917
    @salmansheikh9917 2 года назад

    i love my coach

  • @JCRockfeider
    @JCRockfeider 7 лет назад +6

    what if she says "ok" after u do the "Takeaway?" Now, what?

    • @MCiupeiu
      @MCiupeiu 7 лет назад +33

      You move on and never look back

    • @JCRockfeider
      @JCRockfeider 7 лет назад +1

      Thx.

    • @JCRockfeider
      @JCRockfeider 7 лет назад +3

      Ok cool. Let's see what transpires. Loll.

    • @JCRockfeider
      @JCRockfeider 7 лет назад +6

      In the interim, reading 10-15 times. Thx for the reply.

    • @JCRockfeider
      @JCRockfeider 7 лет назад +2

      Lol...sounds exciting.

  • @varunshridhar1310
    @varunshridhar1310 4 года назад +1

    It's not as much your presence as your absence that creates the effect :-D

  • @thebeast-xg8uu
    @thebeast-xg8uu 3 года назад

    Men you are class

  • @SrGuindaste
    @SrGuindaste 6 лет назад +3

    this kind of content divides men into those who can use the internet for its bigger purposes and men that use the internet for fail videos

  • @troytroy4191
    @troytroy4191 7 лет назад

    Cory yooooou the best

  • @Dinowrestler
    @Dinowrestler 7 лет назад +1

    I'm struggling like a dog. I'm just got to man the fuck up. and learn. my ex has all the power now. and think I can't stick to what I say. her birthday is in a few days. I told her I'm not going to contact her anymore because she never tries to contact me. so fuck it same as she gone none anyways

  • @miles5341
    @miles5341 6 лет назад

    I fuckin love the coach.

  • @michaelmiller8455
    @michaelmiller8455 5 лет назад

    Hey Corey...did you steal the indoor Olympics from Craig Kenneth or vica-versa? I'm thinking he appropriated it from you as your videos are older.

  • @1908prettylawyer
    @1908prettylawyer 9 лет назад +21

    I was with you until "...abandon her children & break you out of prison..." WTF?!?!?

    • @johnbell6443
      @johnbell6443 7 лет назад

      1908prettylawyer when are you free to get together. handsome cop

    • @carloscabrera5311
      @carloscabrera5311 7 лет назад +2

      1908prettylawyer believe it or not, some women would do stuff for a man that will leave the world shocked..."abandon her children ?" I know women that have done it. They left their children to their moms or someone else in the family to start a new life...

    • @mookieblaylock2227
      @mookieblaylock2227 7 лет назад

      carlos cabrera yep, or they even let them do things to their children to appease them. some people are fucking selfish in the most evil way and don't deserve the gift of children

    • @msdee2you148
      @msdee2you148 6 лет назад

      1908prettylawyer he says woman are going to do for the most mystrrious??? Really why would you do that if your looking for love..does he think all woman play games? I just don't get it

    • @will4evermoore
      @will4evermoore 6 лет назад

      It’s true.

  • @Pachi4026
    @Pachi4026 2 года назад

    “Testicle fortitude” lol

  • @MEMO9999
    @MEMO9999 10 лет назад +2

    Hi Corey, I love to have the monster spirit inside of me like I most of the time do ...but after my marriage happened I started to feel like a bitch sometimes ..so after looking up I found your work and watched your videos to help me have the monster spirit again

  • @flexkitten
    @flexkitten 6 лет назад +1

    16:30 made my day!

  • @brunobrunosjourney9944
    @brunobrunosjourney9944 3 года назад +1

    Damn. 8-10 phone sessions?! You’re a $1000 an hour. My man spent almost $10k.

  • @alejotrejozarco363
    @alejotrejozarco363 7 лет назад

    do u have the book on Spanish,??

  • @crystalgerace5395
    @crystalgerace5395 6 лет назад +6

    honestly she was probably making dates with him when she was fighting with her bf

  • @jimysanyu6061
    @jimysanyu6061 8 лет назад

    hi Corey.
    how can I date a broke girl without paying for trasportation costs and stuff and not feeling like being gold digged?
    it seems the more I buy the more she demands and this kills the mood an excuse of sex prohibitation

  • @worldhistorylhsn
    @worldhistorylhsn 10 лет назад

    do you work with david deangelo/double your dating?

  • @manny-world
    @manny-world 10 лет назад +1

    coach could you give out some advice for someone who is still in highschool, since we go to the same school we see each other a lot. she's been chasing me like walking with me in the hallways everyday but idk if I should try to avoid her or keep this seeing us everyday.

    • @koDiacc
      @koDiacc 10 лет назад

      dude check out the podcast about highschool from tucker max on matingrounds .. just google it. maybe it will help you?

  • @spraycheese743
    @spraycheese743 4 года назад

    Testicle fortitude

  • @rickysbrutal
    @rickysbrutal 2 года назад

    i just assume they like girls and move on

  • @ertwro
    @ertwro 3 года назад

    6-8 sessions. Well that's an interesting investment.