I’ve been watching since episode one! Life changing for me as I’ve been caught in that victim trap for more than a decade and finally been set free ! Thanks for this online counseling Pastor Brandon.
my Mum died in hospital because they punctured her heart during a pacemaker procedure. they knew at 7.30 pm that she had fluid around the heart but did nothing until she went into cardiac arrest at 10.15 pm. i lost her because of many mistakes, even the nurses told the specialist their concerns about a punctured heart. it’s been just over a year and still can’t get over it as i lived with her 😢😢😢
Is there anything impossible for God ?God closed the lion's mouths for Daniel, parted the Red Sea for Moses, made the sun stand stil for Joshua, opened the prison for Peter, gave Sarah a baby, and raised Lazarus from the dead. Nothing you'll face today is beyond His control. Have Faith in Him!!
I would love for you to be able to include a link to PART 1 to videos that have multiple parts. :) Love your teachings Brandon! Thank you for all your time, efforts, care and obedience to the Lord!
I married a Christian 3 years ago (he said, he believes in the saving blood of Jesus) - but it turns out in retrospect he's a narcissist, I'm shocked! I was told - narcissists (like Jezebel, Judas Iscariot, Saul... ) cannot be saved... but what about the Power of the LORD? I am on my knees ... I am praying for him... my luck isn't important, my life doesn't matter ...it is destroyed anyways... but not my soul... this narcicisst will not get my soul ... Jesus is my owner !
Narcissists can still be saved, because we are saved by faith & not by works (performance, behaviour which we must orient towards God following salvation). Saul was saved, he believed in Yahweh but was disobedient. Sorry about your situation, may God bless you.
I wanted to get remarried but was afraid I’d repeat old patterns just like this. I think I’ve come to the conclusion that being alone is better than sharing my life with someone like you mentioned above and I don’t want to share the time I have left here with someone that’s going to drag me into their drama emotionally abusive mentally spiritually unstable environment.
@@godisholy7067 Yes, actually I never wanted to get married either... I even took 1.5 years to think it over... but this person pushed me into the marriage so to speak... I thought the success of the wedding plans against really great resistance was God's approval...that's how one can go wrong ...
I really needed this pastor! My hurts go back with my husband more than 40 years and I know I need help but I have not found any good counselors that can give the advice that you’re giving. I eagerly look forward to the next session and hope it’s coming soon because I’ve been at the end of my rope recently. I am mid 70s
It is only by God’s direction that disappeared today because I see that it was given quite some time ago. It popped up on my screen as being 21 hours old. So I am listening now to the next session.
How does one deal with chronic illness and isolation from the body and people in general? I'm homebound and bed ridden. I've dealt with my horrific childood and have moved on. Thank God! Now this. This feels harder in some ways. No one ever teaches how we are to conduct our lives under my conditions. I am aware of God's grace but never being around Christians is so very upsetting.
same here yeah, ...isolation...this is the devil's success in isolating us... actually it is the duty of churches and Christians to visit the elderly, the sick and the isolated, but most Christians have a lot of work to do by taking selfies and going out for dinner ...or going on vacations to disney world and all that junk... I'm sorry, but it is so, Jesus told us...that in the last days love will grow cold and disappear...because of all the selfishness and lawlessness
What about pain that is hidden in the subconscious mind? You have an idea of what happened but your subconscious mind is afraid to release the painful memories, thus you are unable to get healing.
I appreciate the sentiment in recommending pastoral support, but in my experience, Pastors have zero ability to provide spiritual guidance for dealing with deep grief and trauma in the way you are describing. I was actually advised by a PASTOR to STOP PRAYING because, due to my trauma, he said I had a negative connotation to prayer. The only person who could actually help me.... the Pastor advised I stopped talking to. And, I've been far too intimidated and fearful to tell anyone in the church of this. So....it's one more thing I'm dealing with on my own.
I hope you didn't listen to that pastor - what idiot advises to stop praying? if psychologists advise this, understandable, they don't believe that GOD exists - but pastors do? that's the bottom of the barrel... keep praying, God hears us... he knows how our men treat us... it's like between Gomer and Hosea only in reverse... By the way, my Christian husband is a NARCISSIST, ... we women have to deal with abominations directly from hell... but I'm sure - God is behind us and He is helping! I've heard it multiple times...
Gomer did the same with Hosea...she always disrespected him... in the end he still had to buy her free on a slave market and had to spend his last money on it...
I’ve been watching since episode one! Life changing for me as I’ve been caught in that victim trap for more than a decade and finally been set free ! Thanks for this online counseling Pastor Brandon.
Thanks pastor Brandon. This was very insightful and informative. Bless you man!
Excellent wisdom Pastor, character can be built if we submit to The Lord no matter what Satan planned out.
100% agree
my Mum died in hospital because they punctured her heart during a pacemaker procedure.
they knew at 7.30 pm that she had fluid around the heart but did nothing until she went into cardiac arrest at 10.15 pm.
i lost her because of many mistakes, even the nurses told the specialist their concerns about a punctured heart.
it’s been just over a year and still can’t get over it as i lived with her 😢😢😢
I’m so sorry.
Thank you Pastor Brandon for this message. I pray many hurting can start to apply the Biblical counsel you have brought to us.
I trust my Lord to help me and my husband.
Is there anything impossible for God ?God closed the lion's mouths for Daniel, parted the Red Sea for Moses, made the sun stand stil for Joshua, opened the prison for Peter, gave Sarah a baby, and raised Lazarus from the dead. Nothing you'll face today is beyond His control. Have Faith in Him!!
Thanks pastor for this video ..from Germany
I would love for you to be able to include a link to PART 1 to videos that have multiple parts. :) Love your teachings Brandon! Thank you for all your time, efforts, care and obedience to the Lord!
Here’s part 1
ruclips.net/video/6A4BfelU_EM/видео.html
@@truthgardener9983 thankyou!
The state government took my daughter away from me for Lies. I’m thankful to be alive
Thank you Pastor. This message blessed me. Looking forward to Part 3
I married a Christian 3 years ago (he said, he believes in the saving blood of Jesus) - but it turns out in retrospect he's a narcissist, I'm shocked! I was told - narcissists (like Jezebel, Judas Iscariot, Saul... ) cannot be saved... but what about the Power of the LORD? I am on my knees ... I am praying for him... my luck isn't important, my life doesn't matter ...it is destroyed anyways... but not my soul... this narcicisst will not get my soul ... Jesus is my owner !
Narcissists can still be saved, because we are saved by faith & not by works (performance, behaviour which we must orient towards God following salvation). Saul was saved, he believed in Yahweh but was disobedient. Sorry about your situation, may God bless you.
@@godwillbosama4289 thank you for your WORDs, I was so sad...
I wanted to get remarried but was afraid I’d repeat old patterns just like this. I think I’ve come to the conclusion that being alone is better than sharing my life with someone like you mentioned above and I don’t want to share the time I have left here with someone that’s going to drag me into their drama emotionally abusive mentally spiritually unstable environment.
@@godisholy7067 Yes, actually I never wanted to get married either... I even took 1.5 years to think it over... but this person pushed me into the marriage so to speak... I thought the success of the wedding plans against really great resistance was God's approval...that's how one can go wrong ...
My husband gets drunk and talks to me like a dog. Not even day. Once a month, always. He is a Christian and also has diabetic rages.
Gosh, I know the feeling and feel your tears, I'm so sorry. I get it from mine and he's sober.
I feel sorry, narcissism is very bad... one can really hope that he is at least honest about God...
I really needed this pastor! My hurts go back with my husband more than 40 years and I know I need help but I have not found any good counselors that can give the advice that you’re giving. I eagerly look forward to the next session and hope it’s coming soon because I’ve been at the end of my rope recently. I am mid 70s
It is only by God’s direction that disappeared today because I see that it was given quite some time ago. It popped up on my screen as being 21 hours old. So I am listening now to the next session.
How does one deal with chronic illness and isolation from the body and people in general? I'm homebound and bed ridden. I've dealt with my horrific childood and have moved on. Thank God! Now this. This feels harder in some ways. No one ever teaches how we are to conduct our lives under my conditions. I am aware of God's grace but never being around Christians is so very upsetting.
same here yeah, ...isolation...this is the devil's success in isolating us... actually it is the duty of churches and Christians to visit the elderly, the sick and the isolated, but most Christians have a lot of work to do by taking selfies and going out for dinner ...or going on vacations to disney world and all that junk... I'm sorry, but it is so, Jesus told us...that in the last days love will grow cold and disappear...because of all the selfishness and lawlessness
Draw close to Jesus. He never disappoints. I pray you can process this with the Biblical counsel in this YT message.
Off topic but sharing this found on our uk government website
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What about pain that is hidden in the subconscious mind? You have an idea of what happened but your subconscious mind is afraid to release the painful memories, thus you are unable to get healing.
I appreciate the sentiment in recommending pastoral support, but in my experience, Pastors have zero ability to provide spiritual guidance for dealing with deep grief and trauma in the way you are describing. I was actually advised by a PASTOR to STOP PRAYING because, due to my trauma, he said I had a negative connotation to prayer. The only person who could actually help me.... the Pastor advised I stopped talking to. And, I've been far too intimidated and fearful to tell anyone in the church of this. So....it's one more thing I'm dealing with on my own.
I hope you didn't listen to that pastor - what idiot advises to stop praying? if psychologists advise this, understandable, they don't believe that GOD exists - but pastors do? that's the bottom of the barrel... keep praying, God hears us... he knows how our men treat us... it's like between Gomer and Hosea only in reverse... By the way, my Christian husband is a NARCISSIST, ... we women have to deal with abominations directly from hell... but I'm sure - God is behind us and He is helping! I've heard it multiple times...
The loneliness and separation is real
I can't find part one anywhere
rock-harbor-church.subspla.sh/qz3tcfv
this is also a 6 part series. follow the link I left you above and it should take you to all of them.
Brandon, does this apply to our current situation of being hurt?
I don't want to divorce my husband cause I love him. It is hard. I wish he could just respect me.
Gomer did the same with Hosea...she always disrespected him... in the end he still had to buy her free on a slave market and had to spend his last money on it...
Where can we find Part 1 of this series? I looked on the main YT page, but couldn't find it.
Same here. I looked too.
@Christine Lamb you have a cool name! Christ... Lamb. Was that intentional?
@@TerriW1203 That's actually my real name! What a blessing, right? 🤗✝
Poor me poor me pour me another drank
My Christian husband ridicules me all the time.
I wish Brandon would adress this. I'm seeing a theme here.
as Gomer ...with her husband...
It’s hard to forgive the spouse that you can’t get a breather from. Unless you can move out of the house to let them get their act together.