Living Alone in NYC
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- Опубликовано: 4 июн 2022
- My first time living alone in NYC + a few thoughts on being "alone." I have a lot of thoughts about being by yourself - something I think is important to learn how to do since there will be times in life where you'll inevitably be alone. But you're never really alone if you have yourself, so might as well make yourself good company :)
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It's hard for introverts to navigate in a predominantly extroverted society. We are expected to mould our attitude so we can comfortably fit in. I hope one day introverts can be truly seen and appreciated for who they are.
kind of funny that introverts don't want to be "seen"
Normalise being the silent kid… not that kind of kid but you know what i mean
I am happy to see that introverts can express themselves more nowadays and are better understood. I have always been an introvert but I never admited because people would assume I am shy and lonely which is wrong. Being an introvert just means I prefer to be by myself than with a lot of people. That's how I feel comfortable and what makes me happy but I am still able to talk a lot and share and express with strangers if I connect with them. I will not waste my time with shallow relationships and meaningless situations. I honestly can be a week without any human interaction and I don't feel sad or alone at all but sometimes I also force myself to go out and be with more people cause I also see benefits in it.
Right 🔥🔥 AN introvert takes control their lives not life taking control them out
me toooo
You could even enjoy being with a lot of people sometimes but we introverts just need alone time sometimes bc thats how we recharge 🙈 i live in a dormroom with 4 super sweet girls but sometimes i really need to be in my room alone or else i wont have any energy left
SO TRUE , EXACTLY
so trueeee
"The universe truly interacts with you differently when you're alone" okay I'm going to cry now. That's all I needed to hear. Thank you
The transition at 10:22 was so clean and smooth 😭
Had lots of convos with my mom like this growing up. She really pushed the “when you make commitments that affect other people, you can’t let them down” (unless of course you’re sick or have a legit reason) and I still live by that to this day. So I find that when I make a commitment to another person, I always follow through because I don’t want to let anyone down
You know what, you’re kind of like the girl version of Elliot. I like those vloggers who talk about their plans in life and at the same time giving out advice to their viewers.
I know you struggle with self-doubt. Don't. It's tough seeing "good" people limit themselves. Your job is not to please us, not to please me, the person behind the screen or anyone around you. You're a good person with a good intentions. Chase your dreams at any cost. I know this seems like I'm saying "disregard people's feelings", but that's because i know you're a good person, I know you can recognize mistakes, and how to rectify them. After all, you know that more than anyone. You know who you are, your mom knows who you are. She knows what you're capable of. YOU have to see it, and BELIEVE it. It's not if enough to know what you must do, truly believe it. I wish I could meet you to tell you this in person coz it's hard to convey through a comment. There is beauty in the struggle. You're a human after all, you're allowed to feel any way you feel. You're allowed to takes risks and fail. You're allowed to keep it safe and sit alone for hours. The choice is yours. As my dad would tell me, when i used to coup in my room for days to hide my eczema from the world. "I understand why you feel intimidated by the world but but I also can't defend your behavior." Please don't be afraid to share your ideas and ambitions with the people around you and chase them unapologetically. It's not meant to be sunshine and rainbows all the time, but when they come, it's because the universe is rewarding you. Cheers to you annemarie!!! YOU GOT THIS!!!!
Nice to see a different nyc neighborhood! So cool that you offered the Aladdin ticket and now have a new friend in Christine! As a fellow introvert, when I’m with extroverts, I often default to following their lead. But when on my own, I end up taking more initiative and giving my own preferences and rhythms space to come forth, and I’ve come to appreciate that. 😊
right! they are a hidden gem, we are lucky to find out about them.
I'm enjoying watching you go through this transition :) Transitions aren't usually easy, but with intent and patience you'll get a lot out of it and grow from this. Im excited to watch your next chapter unfold and see where you end up! My wish for you: that the universe will watch over you as you grow and learn in these upcoming weeks/months ♡
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can validate that annemarie surrounds herself w the most wonderful people cause i have met some absolute GEMS of my life thru her 😙
As someone who used to work in the service industry, I just love how Annemarie pays attention to the people in the background. She's always smiling & interacting and I'm sure they appreciate it.
Just you picking up the camera, just waking up… and doing the little things… is winning. Annemarie 💗💗
im really proud of you for stepping outside of your comfort zone! its honestly so scary but im so excited for you & new adventures!! 🫶🏻
Yees🙌🏻
I don't usually comment on videos but this one was so beautiful and inspiring. There truly is something special in the air that the universe will conspire when you are alone 🙌🏻
Ahh thank you so much for this 🤍 some of my most synchronous moments and meetings have come when I was alone!
It’s energetic to be able to watch young adults have fun and do crazy things without a care in the world but it is inspirational to watch people like yourself navigate life and share your thoughts like how a friend does.
As a 29 yo, this is the content I can relate and enjoy so please keep them coming!
Your mom is so cool! I’m also a huge introvert but my parents are the opposite to them opportunities means pursuing an education and doing all the right things. This has prevented me from wanting to connect with people bc I just don’t know how at this point at the back of my mind I’m just always thinking the worst. I hope as I get older I learn how to just live.
She seems like a travel vloger. The vibe is like that of a travler. Diggin it.
I would love to manifest this hehe thank you
@@annemariechase ahhhhh! Omg Hi! I love your channel! 😁🥰
Hey Annemarie! Any tips for “being alone in a safe way as a woman” like you mentioned? I’d be super interested in your take on differences in “safe” practices between NYC and Alaska (like city vs rural even)! I’m 25 and my dad’s advice for me being alone is “don’t” lol.
this!!! im hoping to move to NYC from rural TX in about a year or two and am really looking for safety tips being a woman and navigating the city alone.
Eee I hope she replies to this one! Great question :)
You can never be too safe! Some things that make me at least feel a sense of control: I usually carry around pepper spray in my fanny pack, if it's night, I'll hold it in my hand/pocket. I am always aware of my surroundings (I don't listen to music/podcasts when I'm walking around or using public transportation) and I don't tell people I don't know well where I live. I try my best to avoid exposing that on social media too! Always keep my phone charged and share my location with some friends and family so they know where I'm at. And if I get sketched out by an Uber/Lyft driver, I share my trip too!
momma chong phone calls would make excellent song intros
The transition in the girl singing was amazing and didn't expect it. Congratulations on your achievement so far anne marie, take care always
as an introvert, i hate making friends within a group of people, however!! i love hanging out with 1-2 persons at a time lol i tend to reach out more directly instead of “vibing” in a group if that makes sense
You really out there THRIVING girl! So happy for you, I hope this universe takes you exactly where you’re meant to be and gives you all the tools you need to get there 🥰
10:22 That transition tho🔥
This is why I love your vlogs. You keep it real. I think some time in our 20’s and up there’s always a challenge-something that makes us uncomfortable to force us to change or reflect on who we are. It’s cool you get to explore new places while still be able to come home. There are people in NY who you can grow with. In Alaska, you have people who’ve known you for years and you can find comfort in their presence. It’s a balance between growth and knowing yourself. Take care!
In watching your videos I think your strength is your transparency in your feelings about your journey. When you authentically share with us, it resonates a lot! Rooting for you! Keep going!
I love seeing you in Alaska! Feels like the vibe there fits you better than in NYC. Your old Alaska friends' videos were so calm and unique! Miss them! 🥺
May have more of them coming soon then hehe :))
@@annemariechase awww that’d be so nice! Imma huge fan of Alaska🙌 can’t wait to see more of it!
In one sentence : Don’t look towards what others are looking at, you are you own answer and you might need some lone time to understand the task you’ve been given. May have to do w helping introverts feel more comfortable and accepted in life and on RUclips but you only know. Think think think.
This message my benefit others too.
I think you are wandering a bit because you are a feeler and it’s hard for you to make decisions. Your profile is not very common so it’s not easy for you to “really” get along or connect with most people.
The thing is that you don’t really need to.
Maintain that glow of mysteriousness you have.
Let’s say the higher you vibrate the higher you’re frequency is.
These are just my personal thoughts :
Let’s say you vibrate at 1111hz (you probably got the invisible world send you me with this sign) but most people vibrate at 400-800hz.
You can mingle with these people (85%) and share good moments with them, but you can’t (and don’t need to) best friend them, you might only be able to best friend people who vibrate like you. You’ll find a few of the latter ones at successive stages of your life or some life-long ones.
As a matter of fact hanging out with people who vibrate lower and joining them in their activity will likely be a draining experience. You have to be very self-aware.
You have been endowed with a +400hz differential that allows you to sit back and relax and see worldly interactions with quite an objective mind while growing your strengths.
You have already arrived. Just get comfortable with yourself.
By entering the illusion that you need to learn something new or force something you might actually be trying to lower your vibration by trying to do worldy things that don’t match your energy level.
Most people don’t have enough spirituality and get bits of truth at random moments that help them do a few tasks, or get in the right path. You already have the truth inside as a god-given ability, so you don’t need to take the road most people take.
Financially speaking high frequency people can do many different jobs, but we are very picky, because we have a different call.
But the thing, is the higher you are, the more probability you have of money being given to you. I think the right occupation wil find you, but you surely have ideas about what you are naturally good at.
You are your own guide so you won’t need my help. But you know how to do.
Writing this email helps me, so no worries about giving back (if that helped). Feel free to connect, even by telepathy, no worries.
There is a bank of thoughts that I can access up there in space. Actually many people can too.
All the good to you and your community. You are special and more likely to create something completely new than others (it’s a bit more lengthy, and hard but hey) helping society progressing in a new era.
Luck !
Anne, I'm happy for you. Seeing you like this is really fun for all of us
There's something so calming and grounding about your videos 💕
To see you thriving and getting all of these opportunities has absolutely made my day! I wish you the best in all of your future endeavors annemarie you got this
I’m so excited for everything ahead of you. Leaving a newish situation is never easy for anyone and you’re showing how difficult decisions can birth beautiful transitions. Go girl 🙏🏼
Watching a broadway show with someone is such a bonding experience, I hope you two can keep in touch!
As a fellow introvert, I feel so connected to you and your journey right now! I love being a homebody but also recognize that being "extroverted" or putting myself out there can be good for me in the long run too! I wish you the very best during this transition stage, Annemarie. You are doing great things and I'm so excited for your future videos!! Remember to take care of yourself and give yourself some time to breathe when you need to.
I love this so much the editing is impeccable and also the video had such an important message, you aren’t alone if you love your own company and putting yourself over any situation is always priority 🙌🏻❤️
this video was so so so good!! I loved the story telling, the vulnerability, and taking us into a bit of your life, seeing the people and the scenes you see everyday. such a dynamic vlog, good job Anne Marie.
Fellow introvert here :^) thank you for being so open about your experiences, I know how hard it can be to step out of our comfort bubble and interact with others. Seeing you out there gives me that gentle push to go out more and talk to new ppl (even tho I find it nerve wracking 🥴)
So happy for you to see you move out, you can finally ‘be yourself! Hope the ‘new life ‘is getting better and better
the most down to earth person ever, your videos are the absolute best annemarie!!!!!
I was so excited to see this post!! 🥰Looking forward to seeing where this next chapter of your journey takes you!
Also, I'm happy the comments are open, so everyone please support our queen AM and remember to be kind 💞
Dude I was just talking to my friends that how I used to be such an introvert to the point that when somebody acknowledge me or even try to talked to me I would cry and it really made me realize more now that yes I’m not that person as I was before but how I still tend to go back to that not fully and how I’m trying to make myself more of an extrovert because there are times I do say no to a good opportunity to meet new people that can help me make my career/make good friendships
This is officially my favorite vlog, I love it so much. I'm so happy that you're happy and making all these great memories. I hope you'll continue to grow, learn and make new friends while you're in NYC.
Sometimes being alone isn't that bad~
Love your wholesome and pure vibe Anne Marie!
I really like these hybrid approach to vlogs! This style is so oversaturrated, but I really resonated with the thoughts you shared on being alone, especially in a large city. so thank you for that!!
I love that you invited someone out to see the play with you!! def an experience that would make me uncomfortable, but seeing you do that, inspires me to step out of my comfort zone 🥺 love the vids annemarie looking forward to more ☺️☺️
Proud of you Annmarie. Your videos are always so inspiring!
Proud of you !!!! I literally cannot wait to live alone and I love seeing your progress as a person ❤ love your videos so so much!
Hi Annmarie I like your content and how you speak in camera it's very natural and clear. I'm excited for your podcast😍
I’m very happy I found your channel you are very inspirational and you make me see things in a different point of view at times. Keep it up you got this
So exited for your new chapter. Thank you for the video.
Your mom is a real one! I love it
Woooow! That was a great video: perfect time (not to long), with a great message and montage and energy. Annemarie you’re getting soooo much better! I love this video!
I can relate so much. Sometimes you need to be away from other people so you can truly be yourself. It’s nobody’s fault, just something that is needed sometimes. I’m also an introvert and had to once live with extroverts. They’re great, we’re still friends, but I was definitely changing my natural behaviour whenever I was with them. It was so tiring and stressful. Wishing you the best!
Okay review wise I love you music selection. Continuing adding to the vibe of the vlog. Love it. Proud of you girl.
Change is never easy and when you are an introvert it gets even more difficult. But I am proud of you for not giving up and trying things out of your comfort zone. You’ll do wonders Annemarie ❤️❤️
And what a way to end the week😍
This is my favorite video so far 🥺 love watching her live her life so healthily. Absolutely thriving 💜
Being an introvert in a city will help you learn so much about yourself. I’m so excited to see your channel transfer to a place that express truly who you are. You should visit Toronto someday!
i love how you always make us feel seen with your advice
you are so real that's why u are different than others , keep it like that !
im loving every second of this new chapter in your life, i can see that things has been harsh but you are growing and glowing so much
I’m glad that you are back in New York and back on your grind. Can’t wait to see more of your content.
omg what a nice mixmash of events!! yes get out more!!! even if it is to just go on walks and go to barrys!
Wow, this video could not have come into my life at a better time, I practice a lot of self insolation as a defense mechanism to feel safe when life is too overwhelming for me, but lately I've realized that my solitary practices have affected me more than they helped me to be comfortable as before, I need a change in my life in that aspect., thank you Annemarie for speaking about it you made me feel understood.
I moved to seattle and am living by myself and some of your words really brightened my day :)
The Luke punch transition is my new favorite
Thanks for doing this vlog, I’m at a very uncertain point in my life and don’t know if I should just have fun or wallow myself in work. Though, seeing this made me form some connections in my own life that I should tell myself to pursue.
❤Really LOVE your channel❤. I can listen to you talking literally all day!!! 🥲 can relate 100% to being more of an INTROVERT & finding and creating healthy community. As a youtuber from South Africa 🇿🇦, it's not possible to find community cause so many people don't understand what a youtuber even is where I stay. Like I'm literally the only youtuber in my entire city. So it's really hard to vlog here cause in most shops you're not allowed to even take videos. Has been challenging not having an in person community for support. Literally facing that struggle as I'm typing.
But it's somehow motivating to see some one like you have the privilege of being in and around a content creator place. It doesn't make me question where I am it just motivates me to continue and maybe oneday I'll be living in a place that allows me that community too
Love and light ✨️
energy is everything, life always balances out through inevitable ups and downs.
love you, keep your head up and focus on the today more than the future!
Love your insights on this vid 🥺 this gave me encouragement to not be so bothered about going to places alone.
I love your new direction ❤️ You got this!
the transition in the final was fire !!!
i see so much growth and light from annemarie and this video made me smile
I love you, thank you for existing ❤️
I’m so excited to see you on this new journey 💙
"sponsorhips can wait, it's all what's in here" i think ur the first youtuber who ever said that 👏👏👏
We love you annemarie, do whatever makes sense to you💕
Im depressed and your videos help, change is scary but I guess sometimes its necessary when things are not working for you , stay strong and always keep evolving, life is long and its what youuu make of it so make it yours and make it beautiful and make it prosperous, good luck to you and your cosmic personal garden I know it will bear good fruit
I’ve been struggling with depression for about 2 years now too, and I agree! There’s something very calm and comforting about seeing her authentic life and it’s not so emotionally draining for me. I hope things improve for you, and though it’s not such happy news I also hope you find a little bit of comfort knowing that I’m going through it too, because I know depression can feel so isolating. Like you said, live a prosperous life and find fulfillment in what you do. Hope everything is better soon 💜
Yes...i waited for this to comment..rooting for you my big sister..🥰 🇵🇭
You are amazing. Keep going Annemarie 🤞🏽
THIS VIDEO IS AN UPGRADE from the others keep developing on your filming and editing and especially thumbnails you have good content but not so good thumbnails and channel view i love you helping u build to be one of the best it just a point of view ❤️
love these raw vlogs!
Love you!! Hope you feel well❤️watching from France and send you all my love and courage!
you are so inspiring to me :*) such positive vibes and calming at the same time !!
love how you are creating a safe space for introverts and showing us you can have a great time living in new york as an introvert!
The transition though😭❤️.
I love your videos Annemarie!!
Yay! Occupational therapy! I'm an occupational therapist woot woot glad you liked the OT class at USC. They have a top tier program and facilities there!
I am, too, an introvert and can definitely be by myself for long periods of time but the universe definitely has a funny way of introducing new connections each time I actually step out of my comfort zone
the plane/concert was so cool!
Side note- that apartment is so beautiful! I feel like you always make your spaces look so lovely!
I’m sorry I didn’t know about your content until after ur moms house. I love your videos. So proud of you 🤍🤍
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Girl this new video is a vibe
Tbh I'm really happy that you invited this subscriber, she is very cute and wholesome. I even smiled watching her smile😀
Great video Anne Marie! Really appreciate your vibe and content, can't wait to see you grow internally and in your career
Your smile is literally beautiful specially dimples on your chick and relax you are doing great, peace.
annemarie i love this video!!
this video was so calming and reassuring to me :). i'm currently stuck in my room with COVID, but i needed to hear this!
Wow. there were some sick transitions there and camera work. looking forward to more videos
Great video!
Love you Annemarie
anne marie ur my inspiration!!!