The only reason why someone might feel sorry for Lila is if they truly believe that she discovered her feelings for Ethan after it was too late. The fact of the matter about this situation is that no one should feel sorry for her. Ethan tried to make her happy in one life, but couldn't. He let her go only for her to selfishly cling to him because she only liked the fact that he liked her and nothing more. Besides... why did she REALLY not tell Sam about her feelings? Was it really because she realized that it was admiration and not love, or could it have been her own cowardice to take a chance on someone else when she had the opportunity? She never shown her feelings for Ethan once in his previous life. Now that he had gotten a second chance to make things right, she is getting jealous that Ethan is getting closer to another girl and no longer showing the kind of feelings of love that made her feel secure. When she tried begging Ethan to stay with her, she asked HIM to continue liking her. She didn't say that she was disappointed in herself for not recognizing her feelings for the MC far too late which probably would have landed Ethan's sympathy and started them back together. To finalize this point, if Lila truly loved Ethan, then why can't she seem to say the three simple words that Ethan had been waiting to hear for two lifetimes.
No no no no… you can’t pin Lila with doing bad things the second time around. While yes she did treat him poorly in a completely different life, the Lila of this life has done nothing wrong. She was a little girl with no mother or father or felt obligated to be forced into a marriage she didn’t want. The Mc is far more guilty the second time around for never explaining his true feelings to the girl in a way she could understand. That he truly did care for her and her happiness. Just not romantically. Had he made that clear early on they could have had a great relationship. There are literally TONS of reasons to feel sorry for her. She wasn’t a bad person. The letter she wrote to sam was when she was 16. You going to hold that over the head of a parentless 16 year old girl her entire life?? 😢
@@greyfolded77 Actually, yes. I can pin the bad things on her still. The MC clearly shown some interest in her in the past when they were kids especially up to the point when he was reborn which was clearly sometime after she wrote her love letter. He gave her up saying that he wanted her to be happy as a way of showing his feelings of love for her. Never once did she try to acknowledge these feelings before he gave her up in the second life. She was always acting cold and ungratefully dutiful as if repaying a debt to the MC's father. If you can't see the similarities between the two lifetimes, then you are blind. She didn't love the MC, only his security and the security of his family. She treated him coldly after she started having feelings for him and even kept a secret love/infatuation for Sam which is why the love letter was made. The MC hadn't been hiding his feelings. Lila was the one doing just that. Can I blame 16 year old Lila for that? Yes, because it already happened.
She just got punished for what she did not do, at least in the current lifetime and honestly i can't blame her. You can see from her perspective it all stemmed from the fact that she was trying to please the family that adopted her. The MC should have tried to put himself in her shoes before behaving like he knows it all and its selfish. All the knowledge from the rebirth was wasted. And all the decisions he took was was selfish and based on revenge.
He got a second chance and basecly wastet it again. Instead of using his knowledge that she was emotional trapped trough her situation and build a honest relationship as siblings or friends. And help clear missunderstandings between her and hos father. He completly cut her off and disguised it as help her to be happy. Same with the other girl, his whole interaction was build on his expierence from the past, instead of using knowledge to improve relationships and avoid missunderstandings. He could have build rocksonid connections with all close people in his circel, but basecly forced everyone apart. No wonder his marriage failed in his first life, the one in his second life will fail too. 😂😂😂
It ain’t his job to “clear up misunderstandings” …. He can live his life the way he wants and choose to interact with the people he wants to interact with …. Pretty sure his marriage will succeed cause even in his previous life he never left his wife until death ….
@@hanmitch457 in his first life, he had only stairs as option to climb to the top. In his second life he could use a elevator, but he still used the stairs. To make his life as unconvieniet as possibel,. Thsts just dumb.
I SUPPORT HIM YOU MUST CLEARLY CUT YOUR SELF FROM SOMEONE WHO HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR YOU SHE WAS COLD TO BEGIN WITH WAS IT REALLY LOVE,WHEN SHE LIKED SOMEONE ELSE AND LIKED HIM ONLY BECAUSE OF HIS DAD SHE JUST MAD CAUSE HE DON'T FAWN OVER HER ANYMORE DON'T PUT YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET J IF THEY EMOTIONALLY NOT WITH YOU IT DON'T MATTER EVEN IF YOU MARRIED IT JUST LIKE LIVING WITH A STRANGER.
You should rewatch the video and pay attention. Lila was cold, impatient and annoyed by him in their past life. She only stayed with him because she felt that she owed his father that. She only started liking Ethan, in the new life, after she saw him with another girl. Lila is being selfish. She didn't even say that she liked him, she asked him to keep liking her; in other words she enjoyed having him chase her like a loyal dog. When she had Ethan she had Sam in her heart; now that she has Sam, she wants Ethan to keep on chasing. It was right for Ethan to cut her out of his life. Only thing he did wrong was take her letter, even though he had good intentions of setting her up with Sam.
The only reason why someone might feel sorry for Lila is if they truly believe that she discovered her feelings for Ethan after it was too late. The fact of the matter about this situation is that no one should feel sorry for her. Ethan tried to make her happy in one life, but couldn't. He let her go only for her to selfishly cling to him because she only liked the fact that he liked her and nothing more. Besides... why did she REALLY not tell Sam about her feelings? Was it really because she realized that it was admiration and not love, or could it have been her own cowardice to take a chance on someone else when she had the opportunity? She never shown her feelings for Ethan once in his previous life. Now that he had gotten a second chance to make things right, she is getting jealous that Ethan is getting closer to another girl and no longer showing the kind of feelings of love that made her feel secure. When she tried begging Ethan to stay with her, she asked HIM to continue liking her. She didn't say that she was disappointed in herself for not recognizing her feelings for the MC far too late which probably would have landed Ethan's sympathy and started them back together. To finalize this point, if Lila truly loved Ethan, then why can't she seem to say the three simple words that Ethan had been waiting to hear for two lifetimes.
No no no no… you can’t pin Lila with doing bad things the second time around. While yes she did treat him poorly in a completely different life, the Lila of this life has done nothing wrong. She was a little girl with no mother or father or felt obligated to be forced into a marriage she didn’t want. The Mc is far more guilty the second time around for never explaining his true feelings to the girl in a way she could understand. That he truly did care for her and her happiness. Just not romantically. Had he made that clear early on they could have had a great relationship. There are literally TONS of reasons to feel sorry for her. She wasn’t a bad person. The letter she wrote to sam was when she was 16. You going to hold that over the head of a parentless 16 year old girl her entire life?? 😢
@@greyfolded77 Actually, yes. I can pin the bad things on her still. The MC clearly shown some interest in her in the past when they were kids especially up to the point when he was reborn which was clearly sometime after she wrote her love letter. He gave her up saying that he wanted her to be happy as a way of showing his feelings of love for her. Never once did she try to acknowledge these feelings before he gave her up in the second life. She was always acting cold and ungratefully dutiful as if repaying a debt to the MC's father. If you can't see the similarities between the two lifetimes, then you are blind. She didn't love the MC, only his security and the security of his family. She treated him coldly after she started having feelings for him and even kept a secret love/infatuation for Sam which is why the love letter was made. The MC hadn't been hiding his feelings. Lila was the one doing just that. Can I blame 16 year old Lila for that? Yes, because it already happened.
This MC Is The Dumbest And Most Naive Person
Gave Him a Chance
Wasted Twice
He doesn't deserve a third chance
Begone
I think Ethan just should have told Lila the truth about their past life and move on without so much drama.
She just got punished for what she did not do, at least in the current lifetime and honestly i can't blame her. You can see from her perspective it all stemmed from the fact that she was trying to please the family that adopted her. The MC should have tried to put himself in her shoes before behaving like he knows it all and its selfish.
All the knowledge from the rebirth was wasted. And all the decisions he took was was selfish and based on revenge.
He got a second chance and basecly wastet it again.
Instead of using his knowledge that she was emotional trapped trough her situation and build a honest relationship as siblings or friends. And help clear missunderstandings between her and hos father. He completly cut her off and disguised it as help her to be happy.
Same with the other girl, his whole interaction was build on his expierence from the past, instead of using knowledge to improve relationships and avoid missunderstandings.
He could have build rocksonid connections with all close people in his circel, but basecly forced everyone apart.
No wonder his marriage failed in his first life, the one in his second life will fail too. 😂😂😂
It ain’t his job to “clear up misunderstandings” …. He can live his life the way he wants and choose to interact with the people he wants to interact with …. Pretty sure his marriage will succeed cause even in his previous life he never left his wife until death ….
@@hanmitch457 in his first life, he had only stairs as option to climb to the top.
In his second life he could use a elevator, but he still used the stairs. To make his life as unconvieniet as possibel,. Thsts just dumb.
I think he took the steps bc he didn’t want to die in an elevator and start over 😂
I don't like Ethan..he manage this situation like a jerk.
I SUPPORT HIM YOU MUST CLEARLY CUT YOUR SELF FROM SOMEONE WHO HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR YOU SHE WAS COLD TO BEGIN WITH WAS IT REALLY LOVE,WHEN SHE LIKED SOMEONE ELSE AND LIKED HIM ONLY BECAUSE OF HIS DAD SHE JUST MAD CAUSE HE DON'T FAWN OVER HER ANYMORE DON'T PUT YOUR EGGS IN ONE BASKET J IF THEY EMOTIONALLY NOT WITH YOU IT DON'T MATTER EVEN IF YOU MARRIED IT JUST LIKE LIVING WITH A STRANGER.
@Believe--..This comment needs punctuation and propper capitalization. In its current form its just alphebet soup and very difficult to read
You should rewatch the video and pay attention. Lila was cold, impatient and annoyed by him in their past life. She only stayed with him because she felt that she owed his father that. She only started liking Ethan, in the new life, after she saw him with another girl. Lila is being selfish. She didn't even say that she liked him, she asked him to keep liking her; in other words she enjoyed having him chase her like a loyal dog. When she had Ethan she had Sam in her heart; now that she has Sam, she wants Ethan to keep on chasing. It was right for Ethan to cut her out of his life. Only thing he did wrong was take her letter, even though he had good intentions of setting her up with Sam.
She played a stupid game and got a stupid prize