Fr. Some friends at work set me up with an older guy in another department: "Pleeease go out with him, he's soooo lonely"... Turns out he was actively going through a divorce. First, he took me to McDonald's and after that, we went to his Saturday evening AA meeting. It was a Country & Western dance. A lot of coffee was flowing.... I was pretty uncertain how to react, as I was 23 and never lacking for attention or dates and this was turning into an oddity. He took me back to my apartment. When I opened the door, he threw himself down on his knees, wrapped his arms tightly around my legs and begged me not to make him leave. It was like extracting myself from a sweaty boa constrictor.
@@jenniferlloyd9574oh my goodness, I wouldn’t have minded going to McDonald’s and I love country and western dancing but his AA meeting is a little strange and the begging definitely seals the deal for the majority of us sane people.
I wouldn’t suggest HD as they are notorious for treating their female customers badly. If you can buy something at Ace, go there. I’ve always been treated well at Ace. If I need something from HD, I ask my husband to get it for me so I don’t have to deal with those horrible people anymore.
One of hubs and my first dates was Builders Square (big box HD type store). Did you know that small plumbers' helpers (red plunger) will stick to a bald man's head, and that he can chase you around a building big box store, declaring that he is a unicorn? Together 25 years. Married 23 years. Still having fun. 😊
You don’t get it the only options that are left are taking her shopping😂 I’m sorry I just met you. I’m not taking you shopping. You’ll be lucky if I take you to a park especially knowing you don’t want me to take you out to eat.😂
Take a tour of your county morgue. Tell her you're showing her love life. ...put her in the fridge... leave alone. Some hints need to really settle in the bones. 😇
Unless you don’t like coffee. I mean, that in itself is a red flag, but I’m somehow making it work with a boyfriend that doesn’t even like it’s smell. He’s missing out big. 😂
I believe D&B was like the third date for my woman🤔. Won a lil ducky with a crown out of the claw machine on the first try. She still has it 5 years later, lol.
This answer is hilarious because there is an unusual amount of women that have obsession with skeletons/ skulls. I have no idea why this is a thing for women. New meaning to the phrase "skeletons in the closet"
I agree, even though I have never even been on a date I always liked the idea of going for coffee instead of food since I don't like eating and talking, lol😂
That’s what I did and how I met my wife. My reasoning was why pay $100 for someone I don’t even know I’ll like. $15 max and Finding out I don’t like them I’m not out a lot of money.
Splatoon pfp 👍 And yes I agree I think the only places I wouldn't want to go with a date is somewhere that we can't bond or interact very much (like the movies) but I'd still go if there wasn't any other options or if they really wanted to go
YES. The 1st clue she is batshit crazy..never be happy or satisfied..and it will always be about her..her..HER. Hit it if ya can. Then run like hell. She is nuts.
Some people are competitive with bowling so they might come off as aggressive on a first date. Same reason why Monopoly is banned places. People get in fights. You don’t want that to be your first date.
My husband took me to Chilis for our firat date, every year for our anniversary dinner we go to Chili's . We got married on our 7 year anniversary and we had our wedding dinner at Chili's. I wouldn't change a thing.
I understand the one that requires a long drive because if you don’t know the person and you get in their car, if they turn out to be a creep it’ll be harder for you to get away from the situation.
Modern females think basically everything a man does is creepy... women have a problem with almost everything that happens anymore.. I mean you guys put 20 lb of makeup on your face.. so no one gets to see what it really looks like.. and then have the nerve to think everything is creepy.. and then the guy has to pay.. he loses out.. while the female doesn't have to spend any money as usual.
She still has following options: -her house. -picnic (seems like she don't like most food, so she can make the sandwiches). -playground (act like a kid, play like one). -zoom meeting
Why does it have to be a 5 star joint? Why not take her to a local restaurant that has a live music, karaoke, comedy, or poetry night? Like, how are SO many of you dudes so boring and bland? Do you just not go out anywhere or do anything? No hobbies or interests??? How do you guys live?
@@Alysan216 Well, for me personally, I love movies, but that's a no-go on the list. Also love cooking and routinely host board game nights with my friends at my place and whip up a good meal, but that's also out, according to the list. My small town don't have local restaurants with bands or whatever, but I think I live pretty well, no long drives required. Maybe, if the gal with the list wants to be so picky about where she wants to be, maybe she should plan the date. That'd be a nice refreshing change of pace, don't you think?
@@cirious327 Maybe no live music, but a romantic enough scene for a nice meal and good conversation will do for a pleasant first date. Expecting a woman to go into a strange man’s house is poor manners on your part. Especially if you expect a woman to eat and drink things you’ve personally made. She doesn’t know you and expecting her to trust you’re not a murderer is really rude. Meeting in public is the polite thing to do until you’ve proven yourself to be a trustworthy individual. Inviting a woman to your house the first date is rude in general, but it also is basically assuming she’s promiscuous which is also pretty insulting. If you’re just looking for casual sex it’s waaaay more polite to meet in public first so she can decide whether or not to go home with you. You seem to not grasp basic common decency in regard to women’s safety. That’s probably why you’re single. Coming from the fact I HAVE a bf, no. I’ve never asked a guy out and never will. Men who take the initiative make the best partners. My bf has our next MONTH of dates planned. It shows he’s competent, romantic, thoughtful, courteous, reliable, consistent, and generous, which are the perfect personality traits when looking for a husband. The list is a great way to weed out low effort guys. There’s SO many wonderful first date options that a guy can offer that are better than greasy fast food, gross chain restaurants, or coffee. I dunno. I personally prefer comedy clubs as having a matching sense of humor is a big deal. I see where the list lady was coming from. No guy offering a date on the list is gonna treat me the way my bf does. My bf personally asked me out to a nice steakhouse and made the reservations. Guys can hate on it and say he was “doing too much,” but seeing him dressed up, smelling good, mixed with the romantic ambiance of a delicious candle lit dinner made a wonderful first impression. He walked me out to my car and opened my door for me. He was a total gentleman. Our second date was planned and reserved before I even drove off. Like, there is a certain kind of woman who’d prefer to take the initiative and that’s fine. She’d most likely also find a guy like my bf to be the worst as he enjoys spoiling me rotten and certain kinds of women hate being treated kindly by men. They find it rude and condescending which baffles me but to each their own. If you like the list for casual encounters keep using it, but if you’re looking for a gf try leveling up your first dates! Your first impressions matter, even if ppl insist they don’t.
It’s more like, a list of dishes a girl can’t order/they won’t pay for at the steakhouse/ high end restaurant they so obviously want to go to with this list.
As a woman, I say “don’t trust a women who makes these kinda lists” lol. My first date with my husband was a coffee date that morphed into Buffalo Wild Wings… it lasted 8 hours long and we’ve been together 12 years now.
That is so funny! I met my husband at Buffalo Wild Wings, we worked together. My first date with him was red lobster. And in honor of our 10th wedding anniversary we went back to Red Lobster. And we also went to Buffalo Wild Wings on another day since that’s where we met 😂 We’ve also been married 12 years now.
"#7 your house" is honestly a good one for this list. NEVER go to someone's house you don't know. It's not just a safety thing but also that you could get sucked into whatever collection he has. A simple Diner or restaurant is the best bet. If she's too good for that, chances are she's not good for you...
Just because it’s a first date doesn’t mean you don’t know them. I am not in the dating scene anymore, but I didn’t date people I didn’t know, so going to there house or them coming to mine wasn’t a danger.
@@GeoRedtickit just depends on the kind of person you’re going on dates with, maybe you guys have been friends beforehand so going to their house isn’t a dangerous choice to make but if you haven’t known eachother that well then it’s just not a good idea
@@GeoRedtick hence why I threw in the wording regarding people one doesn't know. If there's a pre established relationship albeit friends or whichever, then yes it's disregarded. Maybe read through it thoroughly, might catch missed details. Just a thought with good intent.
Yup, true story. Years ago on some dating app some dude messaged me saying I'm beautiful blah blah blah and wanted me to come to his house for coffee. I was like nah I can meet you at Starbucks and he was really insistent. Got a bad vibe, checked his profile. It looked normal except for his pic, the pic was a full body shot in front of a car far enough away that you can't see his face clearly at all. Gave me sex trafficker vibes. I ended up reporting his profile as a possible sex trafficker. #7 on this list is absolutely legit and no woman should ever go to anybody's house if they don't know or trust them.
I think is is great... IF (and that's a big IF) , she didn't go to dudes houses on the first date during her "experimentation" phase. You shouldn't expect men to pay $400 for what some other guy got for free.
Idk man, I've even invited girls out to my mining claims and they didn't even like that. So I don't even think they wanna dig gold anymore. I'm not sure what they want honestly
I’m so glad I’m married and don’t have to deal with this bud anymore. I’m 45 and I can’t even imagine what modern day dating would be like. It seems absolutely exhausting.
@@kingschen1394 I feel for you bro. I wish you the best of luck and don’t settle for anything less than a good woman. These 304’s out aren’t worth the ground that walk on.
It's actually a list of places to invite a girl on a date. If she actually wants to get to know you she'll go to the Cheesecake Factory and say thanks.
All I could think is 'hotel/motel' is not on that list... like girl's filling this out just wants to be picked up and hit it at neutral ground and forget you?
@@evelgreytarot8401is it really extra points if it’s required? Sure a well thought out idea is nice but it isn’t exactly realistic to expect that from someone who probably barely knows you.
@paudan1284 well it's not about them trying to impress me. It's about if we match up for who we are. And dating me isn't a requirement, it's totally voluntary
Coffee dates???? Are you kidding me? Cafes are literally the best place to go if you're going out with someone you don't know very well. It's casual, cheap, plenty of options, and if either party is uncomfortable it's reasonable to leave early instead of having to sit through a dinner you don't want to be at. Whoever wrote this list is genuinely delusional.
Ahh. You stated the reason why they won't accept coffee dates right in your statement...'cheap'. Too many women today only care about how MUCH you are willing to throw at them to buy their 'affection'.
@@obewiseThen don’t date them. As the man you have the power of choice, whether it be time, when it takes place or where it takes place. Women almost always give up those rights
First date with my husband was at an Applebees. We closed the place down and the servers thought it was our anniversary and kept calling us 'cute' - even got a dessert to share out of is - talking. Then went out to my folks land, laid on a blanket, stared up at the stars and he suddenly kissed me and then said "It's too soon, I can't say this again for awhile, it's not something I'll say yet again, but I love you" (we had been close friends edging towards this for months). ..... I moved up to his city and got an apartment down the street from him 2 weeks later after every call and text ended with a shy 'I love you'. We've been together 19 years and married for almost 17. I happen to thin AppleBees is a damn good place for a date!
@@richa.s9912 I’ve never heard of anyone trying it, but fried turkey drumsticks sound amazing! If you try it, let me know how it goes! Edit: I just found several recipes online! They look delicious!
My husband took me out for ice cream on our first date. AND it was a day date. I remember everything about that day. We got ice cream and then we sat on a bench near by and people watched while we got to know each other. It was one of the best days of my life. I left that date knowing I had found the one. We’ve been together for 14 years, married for 10. That list is dumb. 🤣
Notice how None of the expensive nonsense Restaurants are on it. This list was written by a gold Digger. Also do dates in the cemetery count since they are not on the list.
@@FabianDialer-vw1zk I mean, imagine buying her a plot with the site pre dug out and a headstone all set for her. Call it her forever home as you show it to her. Of course, it would probably get misconstrued as you wanting to murder her, but considering you're not allowed to take her to the Cheesecake Factory, this was really the only other viable choice...
Here’s a real list of places not to take an average girl on a first date: 1. Your/her house 2. Any all-day activity 3. Anywhere too loud/busy for talking 4. Graveyard or hospital 5. Private family or church event 6. Any place at night with no people Basically, an ideal first date is casual, low pressure, inexpensive/low effort, easy to converse, in a public place for accountability, and easy to end early or extend depending on how it goes. But if you both share a niche hobby (e.g. bowling) or favorite food (e.g. waffles), go for it! I know sometimes men want to go all out and be super romantic but it can be intimidating and off-putting if she’s not into you yet. The safest place is a coffee/snack shop or lunch. Then graduate to dinner and activities. Then double-dates and group events. And eventually family and church events.
Solid advice! I’m stealing this. I have two 13 year olds-a son and daughter, a 12 year old son, and a 5 year old son. Your wisdom will surely be passed on at least one generation lol.
@@kaitlanparks8061 Good on you! I hope your kids appreciate you for it! I can't claim credit for this advice. I have very loving parents who saw me through my dating days until I got married last year :) And I work with youth who have very loving parents as well. Seeing how they coach their kids too, I've decided. I don't have kids yet, but if I thought they were mature enough to date as minors, then I WOULD want them to come over to my home and keep the doors open and interact with the family at like a movie night. My "1 Your/her house" rule is more about keeping the single adult woman safe so she's not pressured in the guy's home and she's not endangered by letting a stranger know where she lives. But anyway. God's blessings and protection on you and your family, mama!
I went on a date with a girl once . When I picked her up ,she said she wasn't hungry. Baffled, I sayed then what do we do? She wanted to toss tortillas off the bridge. 😮 Most fun I've ever had on a date . We dated for about a year after that.
ive talked with old friends and girls today are just mentally inable to be in a relationship, i monitored girls in my classes over many years and there hair doesnt grow long enough for prince charming to climb it they dont need men, just need friends to join them at target
@@Kevin_Billyparked up at the park 😂😂 because your there to talk, then.... talk and eat when you hit it off special world, russians think where soft and aliens know we are smooth brained
I don’t spend more than $10 on a first date to get to know whether I like a girl or not. And I love this idea. Because when I suggest ice cream and she refuses because of this, then I know I don’t like her already and it cost me $0. Women literally working against themselves day by day.
FOR FUCKING REALLLL! Like bro, take me fishing, bowling, maybe your fave nature park as a kid,etc... Its the smaller things that mean so much more to us.
@@USE_YOUR_BRAIN Well, here in Hungary you can still have a date at a park for example, and if it works, it works. If it isn't, then it wouldn't last long anyways. OFC there are some that picked up the american trend. The winter is coming.
Fr. Like, I’m not a girl, but if I was, I wouldn’t be mad if a guy took me to Olive Garden for instance. Like that’s actually a nice restaurant and considering the prices, shows he actually cares.
95% of those places are fine. You can see how a guy is going to treat you & talk to him just as easily over pancakes or noodles as you can over filet mignon
The problem is the modern woman wants you to drop a couple 100s on a meal and "an experience." The man doesn't know he's at an interview instead of a date where the woman wants to see how much he makes, how much he's willing to spend on her, and how she can hide all of her red flags to entrap him into a relationship before he knows what hit him.
@@onendfan525 and they are the ones to avoid hard, at least they let know you from the start they arent worth it though; saved you time and energy. for me the best first date would be going to the park/beach :D
This reminded me how my husband knows I hate really hotdogs but everytime we get in the car to go to Costco he says he will buy me one so I punch him in the arm 😅. But he just keeps doing it.
going to the movies is a good first date for introverts, it gives you something to talk about afterwards and you’re not as nervous after being in their presence for an hour or so lol
My first date ever was at cheesecake factory.....shes right, dont go. Youll end up eatting delicious food with someone you fall for and laugh all evening, then you'll end up married for 10 years and have 2 crotch goblins you love and go back every year on the anniversary of that first said "mistake" 😂.... Bonus points if you go pick up cheesecake and eat it in the car on a random date night.....so tragic ❤
I've had only one first date and it was at a buffet. Now we're happily married with kids and looking back it didn't matter where our first date was. There are things that matter more in life.
I always say coffee dates are ideal 1st dates. There’s way less commitment, you can go in the middle of the day, and if things go well you can decide to go somewhere else to continue the date.
Agreed but you CAN get to know a person after the movies. For an autistic socially awkward person like myself, how the movie was afterwards makes it so much easier for conversation to flow otherwise the date might be like an interview session of googling "fun questions to ask your date"
I hate coffee so I am on the no coffee date train. Though the ice cream date is speaking my language. My husband did mini golf and cheesecake factory as a first date. I love the cheese cake factory ever since.
@@MarkoLomovic I am referring to the reply from @happy153ful, claiming “I hate coffee so I am on the no coffee date train”. They then state that they like ice cream dates so for them it clearly is about what is being consumed.
Man, I can't remember how many first dates we went roller skating on, course that was 40+ years ago, and girls were real and had reasonable expectations
This is actually so good. Both can really enjoy themselves even if they are terrible rollers, and put that guard down and be real. I can imagine it, and I am awful with blades. I just tried the lined ones twice or thrice when I was a kid, and that didn't work, and then I grew up and the blades didn't fit my feet no more 😅
My husband and I had our first date at Olive Garden and my sister was our hostess 😂 she saved us a great seat and checked in every once and a while. We got married seven months later! Best date ever
The movies is the most perfect place to truly know the person you are going out with on the first date. The guys seem to show who they truly are in theaters. They just don’t hold back, phones on during movie, loudly talk, feet up on the seat in front of them, throwing their trash on floor, having to pick the movie they are going to see, and so on. So I say if the girl wants to see how her date really is, the movies is perfect.
I have a 14, 17 and 20 year old. I have always told them that the 1st dates should always be something like coffee or lunch. That way if things just aren't clicking, you're not stuck for an entire meal sitting in awkward silence or forcing conversations. Then, if things go well, go out to dinner. I have also raised my daughters to be appreciative of whatever there date plans and focus on the time spent together because that's what's important.
Women who value relationships don't care where you take them honestly. Hoes, now hoes care. They must not want their only fans fans to see their on a date.
I agree with #7 being a no for a first date. That’s seriously a dangerous idea; unless you’ve been friends for a long time first. For both men & women.
Yes that's true... It's a risky one, depends on the level of friendship and if the girl doesn't feel like to go to the public... There has to be mutual trust and understanding for this... And if they have met up before at home then it won't be a problem for the date... Well technically,. It wouldn't be a first date😅
We should have a list like this just to specify how to safely date online. Modern dating is far more dangerous than it's ever been. Predators can hide among regular men, and it's no surprise women feel uncomfortable with it. After using tinder for a while, I noticed that all the dates I had were anxious to some extent. It makes sense, considering I'm a complete stranger. The date is the first time they're ever hearing my voice, let alone seeing what I look like in person.
I love coffee dates, you can talk and there’s usually a variety of delicious desserts to choose from. Also it’s a public space, so good for dates with someone you don’t know and trust yet
The lady who made that list only wants fancy, expensive restaurants. It's food prostitution. If it doesn't work out, she's at least guaranteed a $150+ meal for her time. Her date simply loses.
@@farmerBob12😂😂 So it's not just that the guy is absolutely losing because he has to make every date a Disney Vacation, but also, the woman who created the list is the most boring and insufferable human alive! Who doesn't like a live sports event or IHOP? Half of those "dates" are great places to get a sense of if the other person is compatible. I'll take cheesecake factory anytime. That list maker doesn't know what fun is!
Funny story, I told my friends that I was going to use a gift card I got for Cheesecake Factory on a first date, and one of my female friends said that's a terrible idea.
@@LumaroooHonestly, anywhere that isn't rat infested that we can be together, just the two of us, maybe eat something and talk. Maybe a few activities, like a carnival or something, but just a sweet little place for the two of us. (And, to be clear, going to someone elses house on the first date is not good, nor is inviting other people. Just my opinions, though. )
As a Man, yes it is. I do agree with the Movies though. Not on a first Date. It's hard to get to know someone if you're just silently watching a Movie in public. At home you can at least talk to each other during.
I think it’s more like whoever made it is saying ‘take me to “worth” and spend lots of money on me’ expecting to be taken to a 5star restaurant.. while being a McDonalds dumpster type of person
You know guys specefically take their girls to Cheesecake Factory now because of this list, just to see if the girl will have a problem with it. It’s a great way to get red flags out in the open early.
I present a very warm and wholesome thanks for all the ladies that contributed to this list. Never once known to man has such a well thought out and concerted effort been made in helping men identify gold diggers, high maintenance and arrogant women by producing such a list. From the bottom of my heart, truly, I thank you ladies for snitching out on yourselves, thank you.
As a woman, we dont claim whoever tf even made this list in the first place
Xactly💯💯i looove ice cream dates
Exactly I love most of the places on this list!! Guess these women aren't getting into any relationships any time soon 👀
I don't know what women expect. Guess sitting in the car with Ramen noodles is a must.
Fr. Some friends at work set me up with an older guy in another department: "Pleeease go out with him, he's soooo lonely"... Turns out he was actively going through a divorce. First, he took me to McDonald's and after that, we went to his Saturday evening AA meeting. It was a Country & Western dance. A lot of coffee was flowing.... I was pretty uncertain how to react, as I was 23 and never lacking for attention or dates and this was turning into an oddity. He took me back to my apartment. When I opened the door, he threw himself down on his knees, wrapped his arms tightly around my legs and begged me not to make him leave. It was like extracting myself from a sweaty boa constrictor.
@@jenniferlloyd9574oh my goodness, I wouldn’t have minded going to McDonald’s and I love country and western dancing but his AA meeting is a little strange and the begging definitely seals the deal for the majority of us sane people.
Clearly, Home Depot is a winning choice.
😂😂😂
I wouldn’t suggest HD as they are notorious for treating their female customers badly. If you can buy something at Ace, go there. I’ve always been treated well at Ace. If I need something from HD, I ask my husband to get it for me so I don’t have to deal with those horrible people anymore.
I'm actually all for that if have a project in mind. 😅
One of hubs and my first dates was Builders Square (big box HD type store).
Did you know that small plumbers' helpers (red plunger) will stick to a bald man's head, and that he can chase you around a building big box store, declaring that he is a unicorn?
Together 25 years. Married 23 years. Still having fun. 😊
Costco when the free samples are out.
“What options are left?!” Taking her to the insane asylum cuz she clearly lost her mind 😂
I’m wheezing 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
THATS SO REALLL LMAOAO 😭😭
You don’t get it the only options that are left are taking her shopping😂 I’m sorry I just met you. I’m not taking you shopping. You’ll be lucky if I take you to a park especially knowing you don’t want me to take you out to eat.😂
LOL correct! 😂
Thank you, now I'm confident in inviting her for a mental-hospital tour
Make sure she likes horror movies. XD
@@avivagodfrey
Do you like horror movies?
“Hi, so this is the mental ward, and if you’ll just sign right here, thank you. ALRIGHT BOYS, HERE’S YOUR NEW PATIENT.”
😂😂❤
Gentlemen, if she pulls out this list, RUN!
This!
thank her for not wasting any of your time then run.
As a woman, I agree. Aint nobody got time for that!!
Nah just tell her I guess tge dates at your house then
Take a tour of your county morgue. Tell her you're showing her love life. ...put her in the fridge... leave alone. Some hints need to really settle in the bones. 😇
A coffee date is a PERFECT first date. This is your first chance to figure out if this is a decent human and it's easy to leave if need be.
Unless you don’t like coffee. I mean, that in itself is a red flag, but I’m somehow making it work with a boyfriend that doesn’t even like it’s smell. He’s missing out big. 😂
I mean, wouldn't text patterns be the first chance to figure out if they're a decent human being? Like before meeting up?
@@am3thystshey! I love coffee smell but Im a supertaster and cant have it since its too bitter for me it makes me throw up😢
Also the caffeine is a good social Lubricant.
@@am3thystsmost coffee shops also serve tea/softdrinks...
As a woman I will ONLY accept a date to the local swamp thank you very much
I'll go with you if there's a chance to get some ass... We could call it swamp ass
Time to drain the swamp wink, 😉😉
But both parties are leaving them after, right?
Well, crap, that’s a long drive
I go to mine often you In nor California?
"Get dressed... We're going to Dave and Busters"
Dude found a loophole.
He11 yea let’s go
Unironically where I took my girl on our first date
I believe D&B was like the third date for my woman🤔. Won a lil ducky with a crown out of the claw machine on the first try. She still has it 5 years later, lol.
lol
“What options are left?”
✨cemetery✨
Based
“Ayo Wassup, wanna go get a drink?” Nah man let’s go resurrect my grandma
Could work lol
@@cringlescangoogle doesn’t think ur comment is in English😭
This answer is hilarious because there is an unusual amount of women that have obsession with skeletons/ skulls.
I have no idea why this is a thing for women.
New meaning to the phrase "skeletons in the closet"
So basically just don’t go anywhere that’s affordable 👍
Alleyways weren’t listed,And are free.
@@anotherHelldiver She belongs to the streets!
Yachts
It means don’t take her out.period.
This generation is ridiculous. I support passport bros😂
I second that
Coffee shops are one of the best first date locations to get to know someone
I agree, even though I have never even been on a date I always liked the idea of going for coffee instead of food since I don't like eating and talking, lol😂
Except if you're Dutch. 😂
I agree. No getting drunk, just coffee and talking. Tf are women on these days?
That’s what I did and how I met my wife. My reasoning was why pay $100 for someone I don’t even know I’ll like. $15 max and Finding out I don’t like them I’m not out a lot of money.
Totally agree! I also like bowling and or pool/billiards.
“Why aren’t men interested in dating anymore?”
“I think hooters is open”
Underrated comment 😂
😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
“Come for the jugs stay for the food” - me
Imma be real, I wouldnt hate a Hooters date, the food kinda slaps ngl
You can take her to a therapist for her first date. 💀
Amen
Underrated comment lol
@@tayamikamandawala2711That ain't allowed according to whoever made that.
Honestly, not bad.
alright free therapy! jk! lol she will come out confused about if they are or are not even a human female. lol@@xiongray
the option that is left:
picnic at the park
But only the parks that are walking distance from her house are considered safe, see the long drive rule.
@@ericfleming5522just abandon her ass in the woods and call it a picnic 😂
This i like. Especially if were both dog owners. If our dogs dont get along, neither will you and I haha
That's going to be a short date at -40 😂
the arcade my number 1 go to
Imagine a high schooler taking his date out and she hands him this list 😂😂😂.
My first thought would’ve been, “how are we only in highschool and this chick has already been around the block like the village bicycle?”
I’d tell the kid to hand her back the list, get out of his car. Open her door and help her out and then drive away.
So this is why teenagers hang out at the mall
If I was his dad I'd use this as an opportunity to show him that women are crazy and sometimes you just gotta cut your losses and move on
Oh thank God, I couldn't afford these anyway.
This should be a list called “women who don’t want a relationship”
lmfao
Pro tip: if someone says that to you, don’t go on a date with them
Splatoon pfp 👍
And yes I agree
I think the only places I wouldn't want to go with a date is somewhere that we can't bond or interact very much (like the movies) but I'd still go if there wasn't any other options or if they really wanted to go
YES. The 1st clue she is batshit crazy..never be happy or satisfied..and it will always be about her..her..HER. Hit it if ya can. Then run like hell. She is nuts.
@@Lostbrevayes I love the Splatoon pfp too lol
The level of Entitlement here is crazy. If im paying for the date ill take you where ill take you if you dont like it bye.
Take them to a bar that has food and live metal bands, lmao.
Another reason why Mini Golf is the greatest social event ever
You learn a lot about a person playing mini golf. Don't know why bowling is on that list. Bowling is great. You can play pool at bowling alleys too.
Mini golf was the first thing that came to my mind shortly into the list!
@@christinaburney5935mini golfing is way easier
Disc golf, darts,...
Some people are competitive with bowling so they might come off as aggressive on a first date. Same reason why Monopoly is banned places. People get in fights. You don’t want that to be your first date.
My husband took me to Chilis for our firat date, every year for our anniversary dinner we go to Chili's . We got married on our 7 year anniversary and we had our wedding dinner at Chili's. I wouldn't change a thing.
I had a similar with Panera bread. First date and that was our anniversary spot
Basically translation is “We ain’t goin on a date”
I think they mean by that " take me to a 5 star restaurant" because i want a free expensive dinner.
@@rudys.5503this is the one
Real 😭
@@rudys.5503if they pay for their own meals and thing during a date, they prob going to mcdonald for a date😂
At this point I’m more interested in the “what is okay” list 😂
Pizza hut
Probably anything with 5 stars
there probably isn’t one 😂
McDonald’s
The beach
The key takeaway here is: if you can’t have fun doing basically anything then we are not a match, thank you for the warning
I see, picnic in the park, wasn't ruled out
@@thefryinator7774you can have the date at her house
But like .... why gym?
I understand the one that requires a long drive because if you don’t know the person and you get in their car, if they turn out to be a creep it’ll be harder for you to get away from the situation.
Modern females think basically everything a man does is creepy... women have a problem with almost everything that happens anymore.. I mean you guys put 20 lb of makeup on your face.. so no one gets to see what it really looks like.. and then have the nerve to think everything is creepy.. and then the guy has to pay.. he loses out.. while the female doesn't have to spend any money as usual.
*“I WORKED 10 HOUR, ALL I WANT IS WINGSTOP!”*
😂😂😂 that vid is absolutely amazing.
Fucking drive!I ate nothing nothing! Nothing nothing nothing!
Haha 😂
Yeah squiddddd!!
yes lol
She still has following options:
-her house.
-picnic (seems like she don't like most food, so she can make the sandwiches).
-playground (act like a kid, play like one).
-zoom meeting
There is also going shopping at the mall or something
Exactly what inwas thinking, & you think she'll be okay with her house
You could also go to Leon’s depending on the season
Zoom meeting 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I realize that things change. But my first date with my now-wife was at my home. Now more than 30 years later, she's still there.
"Whats option are left??"
Streets😂😂
Back alley with a clean dumpster
Where I meet the women who made this list? That's fair.
🤣😭 looks like we getting mugged
playgrounds, military bases, er id required. police stations, hospitals, though you should talk to the admittance dept to get her after care lol
Mental Institute 😊
They skilfully eliminated every option except "5-Star Restaurant".
Except where I’m from, going to a 5 star restaurant means a long drive, so it’s still out of the running. 😂
Why does it have to be a 5 star joint? Why not take her to a local restaurant that has a live music, karaoke, comedy, or poetry night? Like, how are SO many of you dudes so boring and bland? Do you just not go out anywhere or do anything? No hobbies or interests??? How do you guys live?
@@Alysan216 Well, for me personally, I love movies, but that's a no-go on the list. Also love cooking and routinely host board game nights with my friends at my place and whip up a good meal, but that's also out, according to the list. My small town don't have local restaurants with bands or whatever, but I think I live pretty well, no long drives required.
Maybe, if the gal with the list wants to be so picky about where she wants to be, maybe she should plan the date. That'd be a nice refreshing change of pace, don't you think?
@@cirious327 Maybe no live music, but a romantic enough scene for a nice meal and good conversation will do for a pleasant first date.
Expecting a woman to go into a strange man’s house is poor manners on your part. Especially if you expect a woman to eat and drink things you’ve personally made. She doesn’t know you and expecting her to trust you’re not a murderer is really rude. Meeting in public is the polite thing to do until you’ve proven yourself to be a trustworthy individual. Inviting a woman to your house the first date is rude in general, but it also is basically assuming she’s promiscuous which is also pretty insulting. If you’re just looking for casual sex it’s waaaay more polite to meet in public first so she can decide whether or not to go home with you. You seem to not grasp basic common decency in regard to women’s safety. That’s probably why you’re single.
Coming from the fact I HAVE a bf, no. I’ve never asked a guy out and never will. Men who take the initiative make the best partners. My bf has our next MONTH of dates planned. It shows he’s competent, romantic, thoughtful, courteous, reliable, consistent, and generous, which are the perfect personality traits when looking for a husband. The list is a great way to weed out low effort guys. There’s SO many wonderful first date options that a guy can offer that are better than greasy fast food, gross chain restaurants, or coffee. I dunno. I personally prefer comedy clubs as having a matching sense of humor is a big deal. I see where the list lady was coming from. No guy offering a date on the list is gonna treat me the way my bf does. My bf personally asked me out to a nice steakhouse and made the reservations. Guys can hate on it and say he was “doing too much,” but seeing him dressed up, smelling good, mixed with the romantic ambiance of a delicious candle lit dinner made a wonderful first impression. He walked me out to my car and opened my door for me. He was a total gentleman. Our second date was planned and reserved before I even drove off. Like, there is a certain kind of woman who’d prefer to take the initiative and that’s fine. She’d most likely also find a guy like my bf to be the worst as he enjoys spoiling me rotten and certain kinds of women hate being treated kindly by men. They find it rude and condescending which baffles me but to each their own. If you like the list for casual encounters keep using it, but if you’re looking for a gf try leveling up your first dates! Your first impressions matter, even if ppl insist they don’t.
Imagine if a guy boldly posted online a list of dishes he is NOT going to tolerate his girlfriend to make for him in the kitchen lmao
Why would you want to cook something your husband /boyfriend doesn't like?
It’s more like, a list of dishes a girl can’t order/they won’t pay for at the steakhouse/ high end restaurant they so obviously want to go to with this list.
Nah, fam we done went past that. In response to this list some guys posted a list of women not to ever Dat ya ought to check it out.
Not on the first meal 😭
Indubitably. That would make US superficial and shallow...
"Where you have in mind?
Nah, here's the list..."
As a woman, I say “don’t trust a women who makes these kinda lists” lol.
My first date with my husband was a coffee date that morphed into Buffalo Wild Wings… it lasted 8 hours long and we’ve been together 12 years now.
What a date that sounds lovely
Ideas for my future date 💀💀💀✌️✌️
That’s so adorable! I hope you guys have an amazing life :))
Wings are very damn good though that's a nice dinner!
That is so funny! I met my husband at Buffalo Wild Wings, we worked together. My first date with him was red lobster. And in honor of our 10th wedding anniversary we went back to Red Lobster. And we also went to Buffalo Wild Wings on another day since that’s where we met 😂
We’ve also been married 12 years now.
@@Kouvierl_Elliysehope they go well
"#7 your house" is honestly a good one for this list. NEVER go to someone's house you don't know. It's not just a safety thing but also that you could get sucked into whatever collection he has.
A simple Diner or restaurant is the best bet. If she's too good for that, chances are she's not good for you...
Just because it’s a first date doesn’t mean you don’t know them. I am not in the dating scene anymore, but I didn’t date people I didn’t know, so going to there house or them coming to mine wasn’t a danger.
@@GeoRedtickit just depends on the kind of person you’re going on dates with, maybe you guys have been friends beforehand so going to their house isn’t a dangerous choice to make but if you haven’t known eachother that well then it’s just not a good idea
@@GeoRedtick hence why I threw in the wording regarding people one doesn't know. If there's a pre established relationship albeit friends or whichever, then yes it's disregarded.
Maybe read through it thoroughly, might catch missed details. Just a thought with good intent.
Yup, true story. Years ago on some dating app some dude messaged me saying I'm beautiful blah blah blah and wanted me to come to his house for coffee. I was like nah I can meet you at Starbucks and he was really insistent. Got a bad vibe, checked his profile. It looked normal except for his pic, the pic was a full body shot in front of a car far enough away that you can't see his face clearly at all. Gave me sex trafficker vibes. I ended up reporting his profile as a possible sex trafficker. #7 on this list is absolutely legit and no woman should ever go to anybody's house if they don't know or trust them.
I think is is great... IF (and that's a big IF) , she didn't go to dudes houses on the first date during her "experimentation" phase. You shouldn't expect men to pay $400 for what some other guy got for free.
“What options are left”
What they expect us to go to an expensive restaurant
Just to own the lady who made that list, I’m going to do every date idea on this list.
I AM DYING THANK YOU
I NEEDED THAT I AM SO STRESSED RN
Yes!! Do it!! That list sounds like a short guide on how to have a successful relationship. Haha enjoying the dating! 😊
Please document your progress
I'm commenting to hopefully be notified of the future success of this man
Gals, let’s get together and do this. Get as many girls and gals in on it 🗿
Went to church on our first date. Been married 35 years.
Best thing I've heard in a long time :)
This made my day 😂
your the Man this is your world and we all life in it well done soldier 🤝🏻
Date? 😐 how can church be a date 🫤 I’ve been married 15 years but even if I was 80 & had been married 50 years I wouldn’t consider church a date 😅
@@MissEddieBlueKawaiiKrafts bro is sharming beyond your lvls he can turn getting arrested into a date put some respect on my homie
Proves that woman who made that list is a gold digger
Nope, you could go to the park
Fair
Idk man, I've even invited girls out to my mining claims and they didn't even like that. So I don't even think they wanna dig gold anymore. I'm not sure what they want honestly
@@mountaetnablacksmithing1693comedy
I’m so glad I’m married and don’t have to deal with this bud anymore. I’m 45 and I can’t even imagine what modern day dating would be like. It seems absolutely exhausting.
I’m 45, recently divorced & single now 😂 So hard to even get a date these days.
@@kingschen1394 I feel for you bro. I wish you the best of luck and don’t settle for anything less than a good woman. These 304’s out aren’t worth the ground that walk on.
Modern day dating is non-existent 😂. It’s a bunch of casual hook ups 😂
@@Demochose well I’m glad I’m not having to deal with that. I had plenty of that back in my 20’s and it’s a pretty lonely life.
@@Demochose Only the younger people, They all have body counts above 50 😂 which is disgusting 🤢
These women aren't looking for relationships, they're looking for an expensive meal, courtesy of the man.
They are looking for a free personal atm.
F a B
This is true the dating sites are all about the free meal for the women.
They should be looking for a pay check if they want to go to expensive restaurants
Where? This list has most of the common Expensive Date locations. We talking 5 Star Restaurants where you get a single puck of meat for $50?
It's actually a list of places to invite a girl on a date. If she actually wants to get to know you she'll go to the Cheesecake Factory and say thanks.
Yep. Casual fine dining like this are nice amd good places to spend the night talking to someone.
Maybe not a family gathering though, dont try that one.
@geraldtheoctopus1594 depends on the occasion as my family did 4th of july cookouts for years and having random friends and family wasn't abnormal.
Too bad it's 2023
@@geraldtheoctopus1594My brother-in-law took his 'plus one' to my wedding for the first date. Now they are happily married - you never know 😉
An option left is to not date that woman 😂
Bro she wanna go to mars or something
Or go to hospital... I mean it's not on the list...
All I could think is 'hotel/motel' is not on that list... like girl's filling this out just wants to be picked up and hit it at neutral ground and forget you?
Basement is still available
Facts I quit dating the female species last year. Best decision I’ve made.
As an Italian never take us on a date to Olive garden.
Understood. You are all food snobs. If Grandma didn't make it, you think it is crap. If Grandma cooks so well, where is her restaurant?
@@TheAstilesus It's not that deep, friend.
Pineapple on Pizza it is then.
That’s like taking an Asian to Panda Express 😅
Say you wanna be alone and single without saying you wanna be alone and single 😂
😂😂
Cutting off every option and STILL expecting a date is wild
I did not expect the riot I have made
It didn't cut every option out by far. Creativity gets you extra points
@@evelgreytarot8401is it really extra points if it’s required? Sure a well thought out idea is nice but it isn’t exactly realistic to expect that from someone who probably barely knows you.
@paudan1284 well it's not about them trying to impress me. It's about if we match up for who we are. And dating me isn't a requirement, it's totally voluntary
@@evelgreytarot8401 😂😂
@evelgreytarot8401 I'm amazed you're still single.
Coffee dates???? Are you kidding me? Cafes are literally the best place to go if you're going out with someone you don't know very well. It's casual, cheap, plenty of options, and if either party is uncomfortable it's reasonable to leave early instead of having to sit through a dinner you don't want to be at.
Whoever wrote this list is genuinely delusional.
Facts I agree with the movie on there but bowling like come one that is great one to be on a date with
Ahh. You stated the reason why they won't accept coffee dates right in your statement...'cheap'.
Too many women today only care about how MUCH you are willing to throw at them to buy their 'affection'.
@@obewiseThen don’t date them. As the man you have the power of choice, whether it be time, when it takes place or where it takes place. Women almost always give up those rights
FR as a guy who has never been on a date I would love to have my first one at a Cafe, the atmosphere is amazing and chill plus coffeeeeeee
Clearly, my basement is the winning choice
And she will have company with your 27 previous dates... Some of them stink a bit now, but that's the life cycle... 😁😈
Got it. First date will be robbing a bank together.
So you have the money for the $500 dinner, good thinking. Adventure and then getting to know each other over drinks neither have to pay for
🤣👍
Then if you get caught, go to prison and surprise them with housing.
@@Conopy. ...and food included. When released the list will look high class lol
First date with my husband was at an Applebees. We closed the place down and the servers thought it was our anniversary and kept calling us 'cute' - even got a dessert to share out of is - talking. Then went out to my folks land, laid on a blanket, stared up at the stars and he suddenly kissed me and then said "It's too soon, I can't say this again for awhile, it's not something I'll say yet again, but I love you" (we had been close friends edging towards this for months). ..... I moved up to his city and got an apartment down the street from him 2 weeks later after every call and text ended with a shy 'I love you'. We've been together 19 years and married for almost 17. I happen to thin AppleBees is a damn good place for a date!
❤❤❤
That’s so sweet lol. I’m happy for u ❤
Oh my God that's adorable I want this
"I heard Walmart has rotisserie chicken..."
(Great Value rizz)
Such good chicken... PICNIC!!!
I’m down! But could we make it fried?
The woman who made this list would pass out if she heard that😂
@@bree_nicoleDoes anybody else makes fried turkey 🦃 ? I love to try it out. Thanksgiving Day is Coming up next month November
@@richa.s9912 I’ve never heard of anyone trying it, but fried turkey drumsticks sound amazing! If you try it, let me know how it goes!
Edit: I just found several recipes online! They look delicious!
I agree with the movies and family functions as a no go first date
So…. Does she not want a date? Cause that’s what it sounds like to me. 😂
hospital sounds about right 😂
@@ripturha3867 specifically the psych ward.
@@garybicknell2135not even the psych ward can help her😂
@@eliashuapilla Bella is that you down in the basement hospital ? Nevermind I just met Freddy Cougar bye
Seriously though! 🙄
My husband asked me to church for our first date. Married almost 19 years. I'm glad I said yes. 🥰
Glad it worked out. This weird cheapskate asked me to go to his church. He weirded me out
yesssssss!!!!
Yes! Amen sister! I love it ❤️
Ahhhh🎉❤
I guarantee if you found him attractive enough you would not have found it creepy. So please.
My husband took me out for ice cream on our first date. AND it was a day date. I remember everything about that day. We got ice cream and then we sat on a bench near by and people watched while we got to know each other. It was one of the best days of my life. I left that date knowing I had found the one. We’ve been together for 14 years, married for 10. That list is dumb. 🤣
My first date with my wife was an ice cream date too
Big fan of day dates. It's less pressure on everybody, easier to arrange.
A few are reasonable, but most listed are dumb.😅
Notice how None of the expensive nonsense Restaurants are on it. This list was written by a gold Digger. Also do dates in the cemetery count since they are not on the list.
@@FabianDialer-vw1zk I mean, imagine buying her a plot with the site pre dug out and a headstone all set for her. Call it her forever home as you show it to her.
Of course, it would probably get misconstrued as you wanting to murder her, but considering you're not allowed to take her to the Cheesecake Factory, this was really the only other viable choice...
"What options are left?"
Fishing on the river bank!
Here’s a real list of places not to take an average girl on a first date:
1. Your/her house
2. Any all-day activity
3. Anywhere too loud/busy for talking
4. Graveyard or hospital
5. Private family or church event
6. Any place at night with no people
Basically, an ideal first date is casual, low pressure, inexpensive/low effort, easy to converse, in a public place for accountability, and easy to end early or extend depending on how it goes. But if you both share a niche hobby (e.g. bowling) or favorite food (e.g. waffles), go for it! I know sometimes men want to go all out and be super romantic but it can be intimidating and off-putting if she’s not into you yet. The safest place is a coffee/snack shop or lunch. Then graduate to dinner and activities. Then double-dates and group events. And eventually family and church events.
Solid advice! I’m stealing this. I have two 13 year olds-a son and daughter, a 12 year old son, and a 5 year old son. Your wisdom will surely be passed on at least one generation lol.
YES
@@kaitlanparks8061 Good on you! I hope your kids appreciate you for it! I can't claim credit for this advice. I have very loving parents who saw me through my dating days until I got married last year :) And I work with youth who have very loving parents as well. Seeing how they coach their kids too, I've decided. I don't have kids yet, but if I thought they were mature enough to date as minors, then I WOULD want them to come over to my home and keep the doors open and interact with the family at like a movie night. My "1 Your/her house" rule is more about keeping the single adult woman safe so she's not pressured in the guy's home and she's not endangered by letting a stranger know where she lives. But anyway. God's blessings and protection on you and your family, mama!
Bring back #graveyarddates jk lol😂
The list in the video was nuts, but I’d still avoid buffets since staggered food trips totally kills conversation.
“Buy a dog; die alone.” - Kevin Samuels
Been living that life for the past decade 😂😅
It is not good that man should be alone
@@sincerelyrob4240
Men are always alone.
buy a motorcycle, enjoy live alone
@@sincerelyrob4240better to be in Hell than with my ex
Should be named “Women Who Don’t Want a First Date”
Ikr, my parents even said, when I go on my first date I should pick somewhere like Olive Garden
and the reason why most men date other guys or just stay single
Just gon on the second date why start with the first
Huh you right
@@lunascarletsapphire5300i love Olive Garden
The last option we have: none we have no chance anymore 😂
I had a first date at chipotle. Now we’re married. Checkmate internet lady 😂
I went on a date with a girl once .
When I picked her up ,she said she wasn't hungry.
Baffled, I sayed then what do we do?
She wanted to toss tortillas off the bridge.
😮
Most fun I've ever had on a date .
We dated for about a year after that.
@@TheDollAdvocatenot tortillas 😢😢😢
If a woman has this list and requires me to abide by it, she ain’t for me. I’ll go get wings and have a blast
ive talked with old friends and girls today are just mentally inable to be in a relationship, i monitored girls in my classes over many years and there hair doesnt grow long enough for prince charming to climb it
they dont need men, just need friends to join them at target
Can I join?
Edit: I have money
True.
Where am I even supposed to go 💀 idk anywhere else good
@@Kevin_Billyparked up at the park 😂😂 because your there to talk, then.... talk and eat when you hit it off
special world, russians think where soft and aliens know we are smooth brained
That list should be renamed to "Reasons these women will be single for the rest of their lives."
😂😂😂facts
I don’t spend more than $10 on a first date to get to know whether I like a girl or not. And I love this idea. Because when I suggest ice cream and she refuses because of this, then I know I don’t like her already and it cost me $0. Women literally working against themselves day by day.
Who made this list? Who decided they could speak for all of us? More than half of these make for really good dates 😭
FOR FUCKING REALLLL! Like bro, take me fishing, bowling, maybe your fave nature park as a kid,etc... Its the smaller things that mean so much more to us.
@@USE_YOUR_BRAIN
Well, here in Hungary you can still have a date at a park for example, and if it works, it works. If it isn't, then it wouldn't last long anyways.
OFC there are some that picked up the american trend. The winter is coming.
@@USE_YOUR_BRAIN100% they fucked it up for everybody 😂
@@imjustapotatoleavemealonecool but we're not in Hungary 😂😂😂😂
Fr. Like, I’m not a girl, but if I was, I wouldn’t be mad if a guy took me to Olive Garden for instance. Like that’s actually a nice restaurant and considering the prices, shows he actually cares.
95% of those places are fine. You can see how a guy is going to treat you & talk to him just as easily over pancakes or noodles as you can over filet mignon
The problem is the modern woman wants you to drop a couple 100s on a meal and "an experience." The man doesn't know he's at an interview instead of a date where the woman wants to see how much he makes, how much he's willing to spend on her, and how she can hide all of her red flags to entrap him into a relationship before he knows what hit him.
@@onendfan525 and they are the ones to avoid hard, at least they let know you from the start they arent worth it though; saved you time and energy. for me the best first date would be going to the park/beach :D
@@onendfan525modern single women I can say entitled brats.
As a girl, bro this girl is on something. I'd be so down for dinner dates or bowling!!!
Same!!
Same
Exactly!!
The girl is ok with dinner dates. Just not at The Cheesecake Factory, IHOP, Olive Garden, Red Lobster, etc 😄
Even worse if you or your date partakes in bowling league meet nights.
I carry a 155 average in leagues.
Bro just called out every place in human existence
Moral of the story they don’t want to go on a date
Take her to Costco for the hotdog and a drink special.
Darn I was going to say that!
@@lornaackerman7022 Damn I did say that in a different comment!
This reminded me how my husband knows I hate really hotdogs but everytime we get in the car to go to Costco he says he will buy me one so I punch him in the arm 😅. But he just keeps doing it.
I wouldn't mind that. 😊
U smart! (DJ Khalid pointing to his head) 😂
going to the movies is a good first date for introverts, it gives you something to talk about afterwards and you’re not as nervous after being in their presence for an hour or so lol
Had a great first date at the movies! It also taught me he didn't talk through movies so I was happy! 😂
Oh no I will nerd out on the movies
Imagine you’re talking during movies(especially the ones you like) and go on a date with someone who also talks…
Yes
Me and my bf went to the movies for our first date and we had so much fun so I don’t see the problem with going to the movies honestly
"What options are left???" Adorable 🥰
The only things left are
- Fancy Resturants
- Designer stores
- any stores
This a gold diggers list
Local spots.
Exactly. Straight from the Golddigger manual.
The pool
Yep, this list is "literally buy me expensive stuff/food or I'm out"
Picnic
“Why am I still single”
*pickier than a 3 year old when eating vegetables*
Frrrrr
If I said the park she would still probably decline
My first date ever was at cheesecake factory.....shes right, dont go. Youll end up eatting delicious food with someone you fall for and laugh all evening, then you'll end up married for 10 years and have 2 crotch goblins you love and go back every year on the anniversary of that first said "mistake" 😂....
Bonus points if you go pick up cheesecake and eat it in the car on a random date night.....so tragic ❤
So devastating 😢 I hope in another life you won't have to face so much punishment 🙏
Crotch Goblins i cant 😂😂😂😂
@@Hitokiri1912 thank you for concern, it is a sacrifice
@@kojinomaru7429 lol 😂🤣
A true victim of cheesecake factorarchy, as always :-|
Who ever made this straight up roasting restaurants and venues for no reason
I've had only one first date and it was at a buffet. Now we're happily married with kids and looking back it didn't matter where our first date was. There are things that matter more in life.
A buffet first date tells me y’all are probably pretty cool together lol would totally be down for a buffet first dinner🫶🏽🤘🏽
I always say coffee dates are ideal 1st dates. There’s way less commitment, you can go in the middle of the day, and if things go well you can decide to go somewhere else to continue the date.
If they have an issue with a coffee date, they don't want to get to know you. They want to get to know your wallet.
Exactly! Coffee or Ice Cream dates are relaxed and can give really great opportunity for talk.
Exactly! Coffee dates are so great. And if one of the people don't like coffee it's ok because most coffee places offer more than coffee.
Exactly, coffee dates are great first dates. Bowling can be fun, along with mini golf, lots of time to talk, get to know someone.
@micwclar I forgot about mini golf! I think that's next date night. Thanks internet stranger!
Bowling is one of the best dates to get to know someone, while getting a laugh
Agreed but you CAN get to know a person after the movies. For an autistic socially awkward person like myself, how the movie was afterwards makes it so much easier for conversation to flow otherwise the date might be like an interview session of googling "fun questions to ask your date"
I scored a 45 when my husband and I started dating.
I warned him I was bad 😂😂
I dated some lower who was terrible at bowling.
Stuck up snobs is way too polite to use here 😂
I thought coffee dates are really nice. You get a relaxed atmosphere and the ability to leave whenever you want to. No pressure, only good vibes
I hate coffee so I am on the no coffee date train. Though the ice cream date is speaking my language. My husband did mini golf and cheesecake factory as a first date. I love the cheese cake factory ever since.
@@happy153ful Coffee date and ice cream date are basically the same though.
@@B1gLupuyeah, they just said they don’t like coffee though, so they’d rather an ice cream date.
@@Apple_Slices. you are not very bright are you? It is type of date not what you are drinking....
@@MarkoLomovic I am referring to the reply from @happy153ful, claiming “I hate coffee so I am on the no coffee date train”. They then state that they like ice cream dates so for them it clearly is about what is being consumed.
“where do you not wanna go on a first date?”
“…yes.”
Yes but no
That list basically said ' these women don't date, they just video chat.'
I think they’re just hammering home that there will be no date.
I didn’t see “The backseat of your car” on the list!! 😈🤣🤣
Or a walk in the park
Or McDonalds
im adding to my list now
@@DefaultName-ms2bbfast food chains would include that
“Get in babe, we’re going roller blading”
Man, I can't remember how many first dates we went roller skating on, course that was 40+ years ago, and girls were real and had reasonable expectations
This is actually so good. Both can really enjoy themselves even if they are terrible rollers, and put that guard down and be real. I can imagine it, and I am awful with blades. I just tried the lined ones twice or thrice when I was a kid, and that didn't work, and then I grew up and the blades didn't fit my feet no more 😅
I work at Olive Garden and when I tell you most girls love when their bf’s bring them to eat there that’s an understatement 😭
My husband and I had our first date at Olive Garden and my sister was our hostess 😂 she saved us a great seat and checked in every once and a while. We got married seven months later! Best date ever
@@faithvu623seems like no women want quick marriages anymore, I’m glad you and your spouse made it work!
@@faithvu623my goodness wow! That's cool!
The movies is the most perfect place to truly know the person you are going out with on the first date.
The guys seem to show who they truly are in theaters.
They just don’t hold back, phones on during movie, loudly talk, feet up on the seat in front of them, throwing their trash on floor, having to pick the movie they are going to see, and so on.
So I say if the girl wants to see how her date really is, the movies is perfect.
I have a 14, 17 and 20 year old. I have always told them that the 1st dates should always be something like coffee or lunch. That way if things just aren't clicking, you're not stuck for an entire meal sitting in awkward silence or forcing conversations. Then, if things go well, go out to dinner. I have also raised my daughters to be appreciative of whatever there date plans and focus on the time spent together because that's what's important.
solid advice 👍
Exactly. You don't have to go anywhere crazy if you enjoy spending time with someone. You're there for them 😭
And theyre the same girls complaining about guys not making an effort to take them out.
Women who value relationships don't care where you take them honestly. Hoes, now hoes care. They must not want their only fans fans to see their on a date.
Most likely
It’s literally one girl lol
I agree with #7 being a no for a first date. That’s seriously a dangerous idea; unless you’ve been friends for a long time first. For both men & women.
Yes that's true... It's a risky one, depends on the level of friendship and if the girl doesn't feel like to go to the public... There has to be mutual trust and understanding for this...
And if they have met up before at home then it won't be a problem for the date... Well technically,. It wouldn't be a first date😅
Same with the long drive
@@lkctom2546 oh, I didn’t see that one. Yes. Definitely
@@lkctom2546in all fairness though, if you don’t trust them don’t get in the car with them. Drive separately
We should have a list like this just to specify how to safely date online.
Modern dating is far more dangerous than it's ever been. Predators can hide among regular men, and it's no surprise women feel uncomfortable with it.
After using tinder for a while, I noticed that all the dates I had were anxious to some extent. It makes sense, considering I'm a complete stranger. The date is the first time they're ever hearing my voice, let alone seeing what I look like in person.
Middle of nowhere in a dark forest seems like an option.
I love coffee dates, you can talk and there’s usually a variety of delicious desserts to choose from. Also it’s a public space, so good for dates with someone you don’t know and trust yet
The lady who made that list only wants fancy, expensive restaurants. It's food prostitution. If it doesn't work out, she's at least guaranteed a $150+ meal for her time. Her date simply loses.
@@farmerBob12😂😂 So it's not just that the guy is absolutely losing because he has to make every date a Disney Vacation, but also, the woman who created the list is the most boring and insufferable human alive! Who doesn't like a live sports event or IHOP? Half of those "dates" are great places to get a sense of if the other person is compatible. I'll take cheesecake factory anytime. That list maker doesn't know what fun is!
BRO IF SOMEONE TAKES ME TO THE CHEESECAKE FACTORY THEN MF IMMA BE THE ONE PROPOSING WTF 😭💀
The chicken Marcella (think I spelled it right) definitely does hit different
@@zennie7036the chicken Marsala is the only thing I order 😂
@@andrewbobat hell yeah
Funny story, I told my friends that I was going to use a gift card I got for Cheesecake Factory on a first date, and one of my female friends said that's a terrible idea.
As a woman, this is insane.
On behalf of women for benefit of men where would you like someone to take you?
@@LumaroooHonestly, anywhere that isn't rat infested that we can be together, just the two of us, maybe eat something and talk. Maybe a few activities, like a carnival or something, but just a sweet little place for the two of us.
(And, to be clear, going to someone elses house on the first date is not good, nor is inviting other people. Just my opinions, though. )
As a Man, yes it is.
I do agree with the Movies though.
Not on a first Date. It's hard to get to know someone if you're just silently watching a Movie in public.
At home you can at least talk to each other during.
With how majority women are today, I rather get couple of my guy friends and go on a road-trip across the country than go on a date.
Who ever goes to the gym for the first date really wants to put the power in power couple
I like how you legitimately almost have no option but to be really creative for a person that you barely even know in the first place.
I think it’s more like whoever made it is saying ‘take me to “worth” and spend lots of money on me’ expecting to be taken to a 5star restaurant.. while being a McDonalds dumpster type of person
@@seventeencord2176 i keep saying it but A WALK IN THE PARK IS FREE (bonus if they have ducks/swans you can feed with peas)
@@Adrienne327” with our cat”
Can’t wait to back to your place to see it 😏😏
Make sure to trim it beforehand. 😏😏
As a woman who was raised in the south, if you take me to Waffle House we might as well get married then and there
What if there are no Waffle Houses where you live? Are there other options?
@@McKavian bojangles, if there’s no bojangles, then any bbq restaurant or Cheesecake Factory 🏭
@@McKavianat least 1 in 3 restaurants in the south is a waffle house
Trust the stats
@@Splatbro24 I'm in Alaska. There are no such things.
Same, can't go wrong with waffles
Imagine library date.. just sit next to each other for 8 hours in silence while you finish your books
Library date for me is maybe we read a book together then like discussed while having fun and laugh?
My husband and I had many dates at the library in college. We'd sit and do homework while IMing each other across the table.
A true Whisper of the Heart experience sounds lovely
Why are we working a shift at the library?
my kinda date tbh
As a man, what the hell is there left?
a Motel
5 Star Restaurant...
Skydiving
Paintballing
MMA Spar
Shooting range
Hunting
Fishing
WW2 museum
Golf
Bungee jumping
The gun range sounds nice. Especially if he is paying for the ammo. Don't need a rental, have my own.
Cracker Barrel
A nice picnic has never let me down.
You know guys specefically take their girls to Cheesecake Factory now because of this list, just to see if the girl will have a problem with it. It’s a great way to get red flags out in the open early.
Then, on behalf of all girls who love cheesecake, I thank the maker of this list.
Not a bad idea honestly. I will happily avoid anyone too uptight for Cheesecake Factory.
cheesecake factory is crazy nice where i live. Its hard to get in there some days.
I present a very warm and wholesome thanks for all the ladies that contributed to this list. Never once known to man has such a well thought out and concerted effort been made in helping men identify gold diggers, high maintenance and arrogant women by producing such a list. From the bottom of my heart, truly, I thank you ladies for snitching out on yourselves, thank you.
As a woman I agree, nobody in their right mind want to waste their time on a person like that.
My parents saw a movie on their first date, but they went out for dinner first. Together to this day.