3 Signs She SECRETLY Wants You (MAKE THE MOVE!)

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025

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  • @PsychologyOfTheFight
    @PsychologyOfTheFight 4 года назад +406

    1. The Touch Test
    If a girl is actively touching you, she's into you. Girls love to touch the neck, bicep and inner thigh. However, most girls are not going to initiate the touch and break the touch barrier, they want the guy to do it.
    It's important to do a few touch tests.
    -Shake hands and hold it for slightly longer than usual. If she pulls away, she's not into you.
    -Give a girl a hug when you meet her for a date. If she wraps her arms around you and gives you a warm hug, that's a good sign. If she's stiff and uncomfortable, it's a bad sign.
    -Position your leg so it touches against hers. If she allows that contact to remain, it's a good sign.
    -During a high point in the conversation, try a playful shove. If she reciprocates and pushes you back, that's a good sign. If she gets stiff or disengages from the conversation, that's a bad sign.
    The touch test is a simple low risk way to gauge her interest in you.
    2. Uncomfortable?
    It's normal for both parties to feel nervous during the first interaction with someone. It's important to distinguish whether she's a good nervous (excited) or a bad nervous (uncomfortable)
    Signs a girl has positive anxiousness (Excitement):
    -She's asking questions about YOU.
    -She's complimenting you.
    -She's holding a lot of eye contact with you and when it breaks, she looks over your shoulder as opposed to all around her.
    -She's touching herself in the neck area, lip, or playing with hair. These are subtle signs she is attracted to you.
    Signs a girl has negative anxiety:
    -If the conversation feels forced.
    -She gives short answers
    -She's constantly looking at her phone (texting, scrolling, etc). She's more interested in her phone than you. Get out.
    - She's picking at her fingers or tapping her leg/hand. She is anxious/uncomfortable.
    3. Lack of Resistance
    Girls are never the ones who escalate things or make the first move.
    If a girl is interested in you, when you make a move, she will give a positive response (I'd love to hangout, etc) and not put up resistance (I'm busy, etc)
    She's either down or she's not. Go for it and she will make her interest (or lack of) abundantly clear. If a girl is interested in you, she will actually be totally fine with you messing up. She will appreciate that you went for it and cut you some slack.
    There's either attraction or there's not. Maybe 1 out of 20 girls will initially be a no but let up if you persist, but it's a waste of time and energy. Go for those who are not giving you resistance.
    Assume every girl is attracted to you until she gives you a sign that she's not, then cut your losses and move on.
    If a girl is on the fence about you and you cut communication, she will come back to you. If she's on the fence and you're blowing her up, she will run away.
    Don't pursue girls that you need to play games with to keep interested. This will lead to a toxic relationship down the line.
    You DON'T need to win girls over. FOCUS ON YOURSELF. Put all your energy into fitness, career and evolving yourself.
    With girls, don't overthink things: either she's down or she's not.

  • @anoomondi4298
    @anoomondi4298 4 года назад +270

    David's consistency is just Beastly

    • @micoferdinand
      @micoferdinand 4 года назад

      to the roof 💯

    • @rogersantosprojects
      @rogersantosprojects 4 года назад

      It is really respectable, life throws a lot of unexpected things at us, and even with the problems and stress that he might have behind the cameras, he keeps posting.

    • @Matija1990
      @Matija1990 4 года назад

      Theres two pains, pain of discipline and pain of regret. David chose the bitter/sweet, but the right one and that makes him successful

  • @ham111097
    @ham111097 4 года назад +150

    David is like the older brother I never had. So glad I found his channel... stay beastly!!!

  • @Buubje13
    @Buubje13 4 года назад +322

    Me: about to do a 'touch test'
    Corona: *am I a joke to you*

  • @jake.larsen
    @jake.larsen 4 года назад +123

    When I see a How To Beast video, I sometimes click before I read the title.

    • @jake.larsen
      @jake.larsen 4 года назад

      @Zero Cool 90 That's where David comes in ;)

    • @Joshyboi99
      @Joshyboi99 4 года назад +2

      The titles are always click bait anyway

    • @psychoreble8313
      @psychoreble8313 4 года назад

      Saaaaaaaammmmmmmeeeeee!!!!!!!!!😎😎😃😃

  • @GiveMeMore
    @GiveMeMore 4 года назад +95

    The moment Julia shut down david with "lasting for ever" Huge. Greetings from CZ

    • @gameofstones6560
      @gameofstones6560 4 года назад +3

      She shit tested him! Now he must shun her with silence

    • @martinhosek1317
      @martinhosek1317 4 года назад +10

      Yeah!! Czech team here!!✊🏻✊🏻

    • @Akhillees
      @Akhillees 4 года назад +8

      That was obviously set up for that sponsor transition

    • @Godletrich
      @Godletrich 4 года назад +3

      @@martinhosek1317 Nice to see Czech people here, zdravíčko from Slovakia:)

    • @jozkomrkvicka6877
      @jozkomrkvicka6877 4 года назад +2

      Vsade sme :D

  • @henryjimenez204
    @henryjimenez204 4 года назад +8

    Aye man, that’s some solid advice and exactly what I preach. Absolutely no reason to be chasing someone who you don’t connect with naturally. There’s too many girls out there to be seeking the validation of the one that isn’t interested. Great post

  • @urbansoulsteve
    @urbansoulsteve 4 года назад +6

    Mainly because of your advice, David, I'm no longer ashamed to touch a girl I've just meet and I have also a lot more confidence to talk to attractive women who visit our store as customers (I work in a big shopping mall) - and their reactions are so far a lot more positive as I've expected earlier. What you tell us is the truth, women mostly like it, when a guy approachs them in a friendly, respectful and flirty way. It's good for their self esteem too and I already got 4 Phone-Numbers / Insta-Messages in the last weeks from young woman I've met at work for the very first time, just because I've builded a good vibe between myself and them with some of your recommendations.

  • @dannyquest828
    @dannyquest828 4 года назад +1

    Julia made this channel better.. She's the reason why we Beast !

    • @dannyquest828
      @dannyquest828 4 года назад

      She's also gotten so much more comfortable being in front of the camera..

  • @razrsliq7623
    @razrsliq7623 3 года назад +2

    I just forget about asking girls out and focus on making myself better. Physically and mentally.

  • @TheKyoteX
    @TheKyoteX 4 года назад +5

    Women who like you will MOVE mountains to be with you. It's also that simple.

  • @imocarneiro7537
    @imocarneiro7537 4 года назад +1

    Especially in the final part of this video, truths has been spoken.
    Focus on yourself from day one. The rest will follow

  • @vegasskidd7081
    @vegasskidd7081 4 года назад +1

    The way you keep leveling up every video is motivation you guys are killing the game

  • @gmdwill
    @gmdwill 4 года назад +3

    Agree 100% with Tip 3. How you bring a girl into the relationship is how they will act once they are in it. If I really make a small mistake that loses the girl, maybe I just filtered out a bad prospect.

  • @ShogunOrta
    @ShogunOrta 4 года назад

    That last part about she won't care if you eff up if she likes you is good to hear. For the longest time, the thing that made me hesitate to talking with a hot girl is that I thought I had to come up with something witty to say. When really, I should have just been myself.

  • @nicbell8090
    @nicbell8090 4 года назад +1

    Either she’s down or she’s not. So true. I swear girls have this sixth sense and can tell when you’re trying to hard, and the flip side when they see you don’t need their validation. Still working on it lol. Good video

  • @jibeshshakya2761
    @jibeshshakya2761 4 года назад +15

    1:39 "That was your favorite??" 😂

  • @laurencechien
    @laurencechien Год назад

    I really like how you take dating to the level where it’s like a business approach. It’s like you don’t waste time and just keep on going.

  • @rasheemthebestfirstone3274
    @rasheemthebestfirstone3274 4 года назад +1

    Idk something about David’s channel is just wholesome and not too intimidating. Like just the perfect balance 💯👏

  • @charliewilkinson3953
    @charliewilkinson3953 4 года назад +22

    There is only one girl I ever dated a few years back that made the move first.
    Looking back at that it's quite unusual now.

    • @Julian.Jerusalem
      @Julian.Jerusalem 4 года назад

      I guess that´s more of the dominatant female type

  • @packetshark
    @packetshark 4 года назад +3

    I just love how he keeps the ads so short and the content so much more! And the way he says browwwww. =D

  • @CarlosPerez-yi3dq
    @CarlosPerez-yi3dq 4 года назад

    1:52 I love the background it seems so peaceful. Out on the porch drinking coffee ☕️ the birds are a plus

  • @imraannasir8071
    @imraannasir8071 4 года назад

    very straight, it's either they are attracted or they not, there is no winning if they are not attracted and rightly said if you do get them to fall for you eventually, you will see the need to constantly seek their validation which is toxic in the long run.

  • @ThisisEnzoman
    @ThisisEnzoman 4 года назад

    Life is based on change whether you like it or not ,from Austin to Houston, how many of you still not figure it out all these years while watching how to beast videos

  • @Cadelifestyle
    @Cadelifestyle 4 года назад +2

    Last one is so true, it can really save many toxic relationships, if only I knew this at 14 I wouldn’t of made that mistake but you learn from it🤷‍♂️better to learn young than further down the line 💯

  • @sirloinofbeef120
    @sirloinofbeef120 4 года назад +1

    She's so pretty

  • @LawDescendant
    @LawDescendant 2 года назад

    Eyyy shoutout from NC, Wilmington here. I'll say for the most part this is all on point. I've definitely had some of these signs and it still go nowhere but it least these are good indicators of things you should look for and if you see/don't see them then handle yourself accordingly. All in all I'm 34 been single a while and am at the best stage of my life financially and fitness wise. I'm about to start my dream job and I'm breaking PR's in the gym( after lifting since I was 19) and if someone wants to join me on that path cool if not I'm going to keep making a better life for me and those around me. That's what it needs to be about guys if someone doesn't want to join the shine and grind your really not missing out KNOW THAT guys.

  • @souravsarath310
    @souravsarath310 4 года назад

    Things I get from David's videos
    1.Advice
    2.Confidence
    3.Dope tracks
    Dope tracks I repeat!

  • @justinarias88
    @justinarias88 4 года назад

    Once the fear of rejection is conquered the possibilities are endless.. You learn from your mistakes and move forward.

  • @HanginWithSnakes
    @HanginWithSnakes 3 года назад +1

    This is really good advice. You don't have to execute steps perfectly...like Julia said, if you at least make the move and she's already into you, you're in.

  • @nkululekogoge1364
    @nkululekogoge1364 4 года назад +5

    I miss the intro we used to have David bring it back! Dope content!💯

    • @harrissonprins9206
      @harrissonprins9206 4 года назад +2

      I think he'll make a new one once he settles in his new house and town for new drone and gym shots

    • @lakerzrchamps4life
      @lakerzrchamps4life 4 года назад +1

      @@harrissonprins9206 Hopefully same song tho

  • @davidj.espino2435
    @davidj.espino2435 4 года назад +1

    Man! How can I stop falling inlove with these channel?! You two are the best man, Stay BEASTLY!!!🇵🇭

  • @frankkuper9861
    @frankkuper9861 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much man, it will definitely help me a lot! Focus on yourself and with girls make it simple. Rather she is down or not. Very helpful advice.

  • @TheJCghost
    @TheJCghost 4 года назад

    That last one is really well said and got a deep messages behind it

  • @pedrolopes1564
    @pedrolopes1564 4 года назад

    back after months in your channel: Julia is really confortable and is more natural than ever! Congratz! :)

  • @krabb1584
    @krabb1584 4 года назад +1

    David always has the sickest music in his videos!!

  • @devinopepino
    @devinopepino 4 года назад +65

    “babe take off that turtle neck, I’m gonna take a thumbnail pic.”

    • @michmurda7366
      @michmurda7366 4 года назад +2

      💀 he's farming the girls out for views

    • @Lightningkuriboh
      @Lightningkuriboh 4 года назад

      @@michmurda7366 I mean she gets the money too so

  • @gregglira9947
    @gregglira9947 4 года назад

    Dave you speak the truth man, I'm focusing on my goal and getting stuff done on my goals.

  • @georgesparks7833
    @georgesparks7833 11 месяцев назад

    Dude thank you, you are 100%.
    Cut your losses and move on quick. If you have an active life and you got your hobbies and friends than a girl should be third or fourth in your life, not number one.
    Also, my experiences if a girl's super into you too quick run. She's probably got BPD or some other mental condition that you're going to regret.

  • @tomturner2656
    @tomturner2656 4 года назад +3

    Fired up about the house for you guys!
    The energy that you will have in that video is gonna be awesome!

  • @tylerlumpkin8869
    @tylerlumpkin8869 4 года назад +2

    Can’t wait for the new intro!!!!

  • @gerardomtz92
    @gerardomtz92 4 года назад +76

    Girl: Shakes hands with me.
    Me: Doesn’t let go ever to let her know I like her. 😂

  • @JBizzle822
    @JBizzle822 Год назад

    This is actually really good, down to earth advice.

  • @brandonledwaba618
    @brandonledwaba618 4 года назад

    The way he still gives dating advice is beastly

    • @Julian.Jerusalem
      @Julian.Jerusalem 4 года назад

      That´s why his channel is called how to beat lol

  • @pixelcharlie
    @pixelcharlie 4 года назад

    New subscriber here. I just wanted to drop in and say it only took one video, this video, to convince me of subscribing. I like your mindset. It's very practical and no-nonsense. I'm sick of all the "PLAYAHS" and PUAs who feed other men lies and impossible ideals and targets for themselves. I also like the format on how you make your videos. I think it's also a brilliant touch that you added your woman's point of view to reinforce what you're saying. More power to your channel!

    • @howtobeast
      @howtobeast  4 года назад

      Welcome to the channel bro!

  • @icefireicefire105
    @icefireicefire105 4 года назад +1

    Beast-The Wise One Speaks... Great knowledge you have blessed us with!!

  • @EliteXZaka
    @EliteXZaka 4 года назад

    fuuuck i needed that last one been dating this chick for a few months and the energy hasnt been the same and feeling like more mind games going on than ever thanks homie

  • @joeybyrnes3466
    @joeybyrnes3466 4 года назад

    That last point is so facts and very well said. You’re a beast David. Thanks for spreading good advice and vibes

  • @tacituskilgore288
    @tacituskilgore288 4 года назад +85

    I think something's gotta be up with David wearing a regular cap instead of a snapback lol

    • @yashvashisht1805
      @yashvashisht1805 4 года назад +2

      Hmm

    • @gagestanifer7240
      @gagestanifer7240 4 года назад +11

      David, If something's wrong, wear a yellow hat in the next video :)

    • @ImagineAkira
      @ImagineAkira 4 года назад +1

      @@gagestanifer7240 LOL!!!!!!!

    • @anishachani9583
      @anishachani9583 4 года назад +1

      I don't care about the comment..I just liked it because of the red dead redemption profile picture

    • @thomasbeckett-allen7418
      @thomasbeckett-allen7418 4 года назад +3

      Nice to see another how to beast/red dead fan!

  • @zefov.
    @zefov. 4 года назад +72

    Who is here because the thumbnail?

    • @city_hippie1017
      @city_hippie1017 4 года назад +7

      Probably everyone 😂

    • @phoobodinburanabun7484
      @phoobodinburanabun7484 4 года назад +9

      Those are huge !

    • @itstymyguy
      @itstymyguy 4 года назад +25

      Kind of wack how he uses his girl’s body in every fucking thumbnail to get people to click, but hey, here we are 😂

    • @city_hippie1017
      @city_hippie1017 4 года назад +7

      @@itstymyguy I actually came cause I was curious what he had to say lol thumbnail was a bonus

    • @Hockey_00002
      @Hockey_00002 4 года назад +1

      BOOBS

  • @Energizer97
    @Energizer97 4 года назад +1

    Good luck on the move Dave!!

  • @nischalmaharjan169
    @nischalmaharjan169 4 года назад

    This type of video is really good. Actually showing the signs in person.

  • @pelealexandru
    @pelealexandru 4 года назад

    Late to the video but man virtually hanging with David and Julia, such an exciting way to start Friday morning.

  • @adityabisht961
    @adityabisht961 4 года назад +1

    Best advice - DON'T TRY TOO HARD LET IT BE SIMPLE IF SHE GETS IT U WON IF NOT THEN END IT AND GO FOR ANOTHER ONE ❤️
    STAY BEASTLY 💪🏻 .
    LOVE WATCHING HOW TO BEAST

  • @The1Boone
    @The1Boone 4 года назад +1

    Coming thru clutch with this one, David. I just started talking to an amazing lady and haven't made a move yet.

  • @minsookim13
    @minsookim13 3 года назад

    bro you are one of the best advice youtubers ever and thank you for your hard work, come to Manhattan, New York, love to see you in the future

  • @willjohnson7392
    @willjohnson7392 4 года назад

    yo - when you say you need to cut people off and cut communication, i get that but can u make a vid on the best ways to do it or answer it in a q and a or something? love the vids, keep up the great work bro!

  • @asantewaamundia1223
    @asantewaamundia1223 4 года назад

    YOUR APPROACHES ARE THE BEST DROP MORE OF THOSE

  • @georgevlastaris4688
    @georgevlastaris4688 4 года назад

    12:00 to 12:35 is is the most solid piece of advice every guy on this planet should follow.

  • @cliffordtemple6751
    @cliffordtemple6751 4 года назад +1

    Someone give this man an award for that ad, was entertaining 😂🔥

  • @JuanPerez64215
    @JuanPerez64215 4 года назад

    H-Towns happy to have you David! Thank you for the content!

  • @debrabardensteele9942
    @debrabardensteele9942 4 года назад

    The camera work is flawless

  • @adrian_lor
    @adrian_lor 4 года назад

    I don't usually comment on David's videos, but these are BIG FACTS what he was just saying

  • @g_dub
    @g_dub 4 года назад

    At first I wasn't sure if I was gonna like you, but you were straight up n real in this video. Keep up the good work man

  • @ChrisGouge
    @ChrisGouge 4 года назад

    Loved the rant at the end! Best advice ever! Wish there were more people on RUclips like you

  • @jamzytomusic7491
    @jamzytomusic7491 4 года назад +2

    This channel made me a confidence man before I knew it

  • @manueljarrin4582
    @manueljarrin4582 Год назад

    this video helps! yeah girls make it easy for you if they like you

  • @jarradhurley4866
    @jarradhurley4866 4 года назад

    Have to agree a lot with this video. Attraction isn't a choice, and it usually happens pretty instantly. The girl is down or she isn't.

  • @josekadia1381
    @josekadia1381 4 года назад +2

    Thanks Mr Beast, helps alot.
    Please do more dating advice tips.
    Thank you bro.
    And to everyone else STAY BEASTLY!!!!

  • @allmenanswers4208
    @allmenanswers4208 4 года назад +2

    If she wants you to be in her life, she'll pull you there. You shouldn't have to play games to get there! Just be noticed by grabbing her attention. 👍
    Good luck on your move you two.🙏

  • @PlanBpt
    @PlanBpt 4 года назад +5

    Focus on yourself, take good care of your health, develop your style, advance yourself on your career path and then with girls, make it simple. 👌🙏

  • @FroodyIchigo
    @FroodyIchigo 4 года назад +1

    Fairly new to the channel and gotta say this is my favourite video by far, really helped to break down alot of my preconceptions about things.
    Great content!!

  • @robbiejones9340
    @robbiejones9340 4 года назад

    Peace out Blueberry! Time to level up to the new crib, all the best to you guys!

  • @jameshumphries5059
    @jameshumphries5059 4 года назад +42

    Holding a girls hand for 15 seconds? I can assure you no girl wants you to do that.

  • @abelsantaca4889
    @abelsantaca4889 4 года назад

    The "either she's down or she's not" part hit Louder💥

  • @ryanegot6171
    @ryanegot6171 4 года назад

    This is valuable info right here definitely gunna save this one. Thanks bro.

  • @lilpeekz6563
    @lilpeekz6563 4 года назад

    Intro song is lit!! thats my boy scope him out !

  • @modemaranquiles5760
    @modemaranquiles5760 4 года назад

    David really saved the best for last at this one.

  • @kebman
    @kebman Год назад

    This is really smooth advice, and also very true. I've used that prolonged handshake _a lot_ and it has brought me a lot of happiness and joy. ;)

  • @calebjones8487
    @calebjones8487 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Beast for motivating me to get my lazy ass back into the gym😂

  • @oceansfinest
    @oceansfinest 4 года назад

    Glad you gonna move into the house man!!!! Can't wait for the next video Stay Beastly! 💯👌🏻

  • @NLZource
    @NLZource 4 года назад

    Me waiting for that minute he will talk about about their home 🏡
    I'm so happy for both of you. More great things to come 💖💖💖

  • @raisingkings8767
    @raisingkings8767 4 года назад

    How to Beast always killing it with interesting advice. Stay beastly.

  • @phoenix-king779
    @phoenix-king779 4 года назад

    danm i had a pretty good birthday then one of my favorite youtbers decided to upload to end the night good. Thanks bro

  • @cosmo3130
    @cosmo3130 4 года назад

    I like how these vids are like vlogs but also good advice

  • @dehhota
    @dehhota 4 года назад +22

    This guy David really told the chickfila employee "Thank you for the gains"... lmao bouta start doing the same

    • @iwrin
      @iwrin 4 года назад +1

      Lol right. Then paused and added bro as he was driving away

    • @benjaminbrown1523
      @benjaminbrown1523 4 года назад +1

      That was too funny cause I say it in public as well

  • @cristhianmedina243
    @cristhianmedina243 4 года назад +2

    Bro i really like your content. Keep the good work man!

  • @MakeItRain420ify
    @MakeItRain420ify 4 года назад

    Great production on your videos everything ties together very well

  • @danielchatshorror8539
    @danielchatshorror8539 4 года назад

    Super awesome intro David 10/10 and I do look forward to seeing ur office if it’s ready in the next video 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @olvensdelice9731
    @olvensdelice9731 4 года назад

    I like the way you explain in details

  • @Julian.Jerusalem
    @Julian.Jerusalem 4 года назад

    And once again, another value bomb right there. Appreciated!

  • @abemunoz2238
    @abemunoz2238 Год назад

    you two are a great team.

  • @entertainerd6767
    @entertainerd6767 4 года назад

    Can't wait for the house in Houston ❤🙏

  • @Redrash12
    @Redrash12 4 года назад

    Besides AMS's content, this is hands down one of the best video on game ive seen. thank you david, all of these are absolutely good tips

  • @vazquezcarlos
    @vazquezcarlos 4 года назад

    I've been working on doing these things and it's been a good indicator if the girls interested right away. It's just hard now with covid, no one wants to get that close. There is a girl in a group setting I know, who I've done all these touching things with and she didn't reciprocate, but she also didn't back away or complain about it, and she still messages me and I tease her some. Been confused and just taking my time with her, and telling myself I'm using it as practice.

  • @jonah5580
    @jonah5580 4 года назад +26

    "If it feels like its pulling teeth, it ain't for you chief"

    • @sole__doubt
      @sole__doubt 4 года назад +1

      Thats the right channel for advice on how to deal with women. This video on the other hand is terrible and its obvious David's struggling to come up with ideas for videos. I love this channel too, videos like this have no value.

    • @dpitter9133
      @dpitter9133 4 года назад +1

      Darius keeps it 100%. Love that channel

  • @rubeng9329
    @rubeng9329 4 года назад

    Good advice my man, I can definitely tell you I had that weak mindset of trying to win girls over. Stay beastly.

  • @Chris-nq3ri
    @Chris-nq3ri 4 года назад +1

    Yes sir. Totally understand. I've been practicing that at bars (not touch as much necessarily) but only with girls who seem not as busy or open to friendly talk like I feel waitresses are better to approach since bartenders are busy with beers at bar table but bartenders, got no issue being casual with them, simple friendly and I let bartender get her air instead of cutting her off her business no matter how exotic she looks important step in my experience. Rejection hurts but I just smiled and pretend nothing bad happened man. I accepted Rejection yes but I never quit; I moved on to others.

  • @pinkz3041
    @pinkz3041 4 года назад +15

    The part were she says last for every lol

  • @vishnukesavan8116
    @vishnukesavan8116 4 года назад

    Can't wait for the house tour