how to get rid of TOXIC friends
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- Опубликовано: 11 окт 2024
- After discussing whether or not Manny and Laura could win Survivor, the Fools answer audience questions and give advice on cutting off toxic friends, getting over a breakup, financial tips, and much more!
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Laura cracks me up!!! The “don’t be asking me where Manny is cause he is in the streets and I am asleep” part was hilarious!!!
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Advice starts at 29:30 🤣
Perfect❤😂🎉
Thanks perfect!!! ❤❤❤❤
Necessary time stamp😂😂😂
😂😂😂 lovee❤
As a mom of two toddlers , you NEVER feel like you have done enough . Every night you always think of what you could have done more of or you should have been nicer . It’s exhausting & draining . But it’s also so rewarding to watch them grow . A piece of you growing , literally something you created . 😭❤️
Thisssss
Awwe!!! 🥹🥹
LAURA NOT A RAT TURD😭😭 you guys just made my drive to work 100x better!!! thank you for always entertaining us 💗
hahahhahah rats 🐀
Can we have a survivor influencer edition!!?!? You 2 gotta be on it 😂😂😂who else should be on it….
@jackieaina
@macdaddy
@gabrielzamora
@misterpreda @katy @dezi @jaclynhill 😂
@jaclynhill
Personally I grew up as the big sister with little siblings that I had to care for like my own, and now as an adult I have 2 daughters. I’ve never known any different. I think being a parent means just being extremely selfless sometimes even to a fault! ❤
I don't usually like to comment on anyone's relationship as far as influencers or celebrities even when I really love the relationship, bc we hear about how many people feel really stuck or guilty about wanting to leave a relationship bc their fans really love &support it, but honestly it makes my heart soo happy to hear Laura talk about Tyler randomly buying her flowers recently, I've always loved yalls relationship so much and always get the vibe that yall are meant for each other when he's been in videos so it deff made me smile 💜💜
I "broke up" with a toxic friend. It was very difficult but I felt SO AMAZING after she was out of my life!
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Laura’s outfit, hair, makeup.. everything 😍😍😍 🔥
YES! Loving her look 😍
Chef's kiss😘
I had my kids in my 20’s. They’re 7 years apart, once my second son was born my first son had a built in friend. I still did everything I wanted to. I had my parents to babysit when I went to work and when I wanted to go out. Honestly, I love being with my boys so I didn’t feel like I was missing out on anything. My friends brought their kids to my house or we went there. It’s not that hard to still have time for yourself
These last few episodes Laura had been SLAYINGGG her looks😮💨😍✨ & Manny is looking stunning as alwaysss❤️🔥
EVERY SINGLE QUESTION that you guys talked about is something i needed to hear.🥺❤️
Mannys stories always get me together! I always end up having to get up and walk away to process what I just heard lol ❤
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I think it can be normal to have a period in your relationship where you are roommates. Sometimes life problems can cause curve balls especially kids. When my son was born, we had and still have to actively choose each other everyday. It doesn’t always mean fancy date nights but it can mean a hug and 5 min talk when you get home from work, serving each other, etc. it doesn’t have to be this huge thing AND your relationship isn’t necessarily in jeopardy if you are experiencing this
I never looked at it this way. Never heard someone view it as normal. Interesting.
To the girl who’s husband was cheating…I want you to know emotional cheating can sometimes be worse than physical cheating. Emotions & feelings are involved. If your married and have kids..you definitely CAN make it work but it’s going to take time and lots of honesty. But if you don’t choose that, I don’t blame you either. ❤
When your talking about the toll on mothers. I am 31 and when my daughter was 4 I decided to go back to school. 2 weeks after I started school I found out I was pregnant with my son. But here I am. Half way through nursing school with a 6 year old and one year old. Some days are HARDDDDDD. Many nights I do not sleep but I love my kids so much and school is my thing I am doing for me. It’s hard to explain but whenever it gets fucking hard and I wanna give up I remember that I want my kids to have everything I didn’t have. ❤
You got this! My son is almost 3 and I’m thinking about going finally going to college!
The beginning of this was so amazing hahaha the survivor talking and Manny’s hookup. Dead lol 💀😆😶🤭
I really loved all the things you spoke on today. Felt like a therapy sesh.❤
Love you.
He didn’t come clean though, he got caught. BIG difference. He would have never told her if the mistress didn’t DM her…. He’s trash and he will more than likely do it again. Forgive but if she can’t forget, she’s got to move on. Just my opinion of course and speaking from experience. 🙏🏼
LAURA! I just choked on my dr pepper when you hissed talking about being hungry on survivor 😂
Going home to be a parent to my two year old after working all day is seriously a struggle every single day. I call it second shift 🫠
And in regards to “you chose this” I do want to say that I had no idea just how hard being a parent would be. I feel like I didn’t choose THIS 😂 but rather the idea of what I thought parenting would be like. But I always love ya’ll’s view on parenting and children!! It really seems like you get it and have empathy for us
Having to cut a toxic boyfriend out ur life is hard but what I did is focus more on myself. I have focused alot on self care and self love. Makeup, hair skin care. Things that I have neglected being in a toxic draining relationship. Being alone with myself and loving myself again. Watching yall and especially watching Laura with her vlogs. Cleaning organizing and self care has helped me alot. ❤
I love Laura and Tyler's marriage. It reminds me so much of my husband and I. We've been together almost 19 years married almost 10. He was my best friend/neighbor first and I truly think that's eat helped us so much. It's def a blessing. I love him more daily and it's crazy to me because I never felt this way before. Everyone deserves this kind of love in their lives.
I have 3 kids, a single mom here and yes, your heart grows. My kids are my motivation, they make me grow as a person. Needed more space, bought a house, needed more money, got a better job. They are so much work, but it's so freaking worth it, the love is tremendous. And that's what keeps you going.... we're exhausted yes, but our hearts are so full ❤❤
I could watch you two for hours upon hours upon hours. Thank you so much for being such a delight in our lives and for giving really solid advice. ❤
My sister has 3 kids and her youngest was in camp for a week during summer and we had lunch - she was SO grumpy and I asked her what was wrong and she said “I HATE summer” 😂. You give up a LOT with multiple kids. I have one - he’s 22 now and I’m loving life 😂😂😂 AMEN on what family is
I have three not a fan of kids but have unconditional love for my minions 😂
I’m from the Caribbean and it’s a village that had a helping hand which includes aunt, uncles, siblings, grandparents and all great mentors
Your heart grows with each new addition. This is a personal point of view ❤❤
Love you guys
This is by far my favorite episode. Everything about it just hit so hard on very important life lessons. I needed to hear the motivation/career part so bad. Im 28. Got my esthetician license in March. And the job market is horrible. I've had 2 jobs, but one closed it's business and the other was a hair salon and I need to be surrounded by Estheticians to learn techniques. I introduced myself and gave my resume out to the places I applied yesterday, and they all literally handed my resume back and told me they will call. Everything is online now. My initiative means nothing 😭 y'all better pray for our generation.
The toxic family remembers part i went through for very long time .one day i got tired of it so i moved and cut them off it hurt but life so much better .
your advice is literally better than so many self help gurus and coaches out there. very practical and insightful!
Dang y’all! This episode rocked and kept me locked in the whole time. Definitely my favorite one so far💗Love you both!!
I have no kids but I wanted to chime in... when my older sister had her first child, I loved that baby with everything in me. I remember thinking, 'Will I have enough love in my heart for any other kids?' And let me tell you, I now have 3 nieces and 6 nephews and the love is infinite ♾️ Sooo, I can only imagine it's like x infinity for parents as they MADE those humans!❤
My peak: I'll have the house to myself for a bit tonight and most of tomorrow. My pit: I started my period today. The cramps freaking suck. Just binged a few episodes of the new season of Ragnarok on Netflix, so y'all posting came at a great time for a little break from that show. It's really good. A lot just goes down and it gets kinda intense at times.
I have to admit that my hubby and I have watched 42 out of the 43 seasons!!!
Can’t wait for the new season!!!
Laura should be a motivational coach. I’ve never heard advice said in the ways she says it about motivation and life and it’s never clicked for me in 29 years like when she talks about it!
We need Manny and Laura camping!!!
I teared up when you guys were acknowledging how hard we have it as parents - I have 3 kids aged 5 and under and my life is chaotic but I love it. Thanks guys! 🩷🤍
Oh my gosh, I love that y’all are going to talk about this! It is so hard to get rid of toxic friends. Love y’all for this ❤️
LOVE the survivor convo. It’s such an underrated show. Enjoyed the strategy talk. And Laura you would look sooo beautiful on survivor all natural! Almost every time people look better than when all done up, to me at least
Lol on the kids convo. All good points. Its like anything in life, until you experience it, you really can't ever imagine how it will impact your life. I am a single mom of two, work full time and I am also currently in school full time. It's a lot and most days go by so quickly. Kids are definitely a handful but its the sweetest moments they create with their thoughts and watching them learn and grow, it's literally what gives me the strength to get through every day! I think without my children I wouldn't be as filled with love, worry and stress haha but I also wouldn't know a love like this. My children changed my life. I know everyone says that!but its true you really don't know sacrifice, or worry like this until you experience parenthood. It helped me grow up so much. Definitely nothing wrong with not having kids. I think before it was the ideal dream because the mom was home to tend to the kids. Now everyone works and can go in so many directions that the dream is more personalized!
laura is stunnin in that outfit girl that color on you!!! and manny looking buff okay i see you period
Becoming a parent just changes you. It’s the hardest job ever, and it seems unfathomable as to why someone would do it.. but once you take it on, you’d never take it back. My kids have opened a side of life and a type of love that can’t be unlocked in any other way.
With that being said, it’s VERY hard. I fully respect those who choose not to as well.
"my orifices are going through the gigs" I'm dying 😂😂
Thank you for making my day! I just had a falling out with my sis and it just ruined friday. Watching you guys is making me forget about it.
🤣 MANNY-“HOW IS THIS YOUR PEAK?” As HE SCRATCHES HIS HEAD CONFUSED… LIKE?!!
Not Manny saying my favorite quote as a therapist... "feelings are not facts!" Yes, I love Manny even more.
I loved all the advices given especially when it come to not putting up with toxic friends, family or significant other. Cut them out. I did that to a couple "family" members and man do I feel more at peace.
23:09 the gasp 🤣 guys until you truly want a family you won’t understand but it’s not that difficult to understand. Being a parent is the best gift in the world❤️ right now you live for yourself, when you have kids you live for them. So nothing you do for them is a hassle or impossible.
Such an important topic I wish I had podcasts to listen to like this in my early 20s!!! Hearing real life examples of toxicity makes it click even more that something is wrong. I had to cut some toxic people out of my life and it’s for the better! Can’t wait to listen to the full podcast!!! ❤❤❤ @foolcoverage
That sounds like an adventure!! So glad you had a fun night Manny!🌈💖
My husband and I have been together for going on 25 years,we got together when we were teenagers. There's times when we co-exist and there"s times when we are co dependent with each other. It fluctuates.There's loyalty, trust,and love for each other no matter what❤
Speaking of Laura on a flight back from Alabama & also being a gal from the deep south…. My ENTIRE being for the longest has wanted to witness Laura take Manny back to her roots for a trip & film a vlog. Why do I feel like it would be giving Simple Life? I would love it SO much! 😂🤣
The way I’m cracking up with you guys at the beginning tells me we would be good friends 😂
LOVE THIS EPISODE 🩵 and you guys 🥹
Laura said if she had 4 kids no birthdays or Christmas lmao😂 love u Laura. Love seeing new podcasts and vlogs from u and manny ❤
Working and busting your ass off at work non stop THEN coming home to a HARDER JOB is wild to me. I have a son & I consider myself the best mom so it’s fkn HARD! And giiiiiirl when you’re SICK, I literally wanna cry all day because as a momma YOU CANT BE SICK!! It’s wild af, I’m still shook 😂
😂😂😂‼️ I’m just now finishing this episode and “Who are you?! Where did you come from?!” is WILD! 👶👧🧒👦👀 25:30
My father-in-law always said "opinions are like assholes, everybody's got one"😂😂 1:08:21
I love when Laura goes off on a topic, she gets SPICY 😳😳😳
Love y’all so much. You guys balance each other so well. Amazing advice all around and super relatable! Thanks for your constant honesty and positivity ❤
Y’all talking about the kids was SO DAMN FUNNY. Mom of one, so I feel you. I always wanted more though but I didn’t work out. That was so damn funny to me though! 😅❤
The emotional cheating one is so hard. It’s ok she’s feeling torn & it’s easier for us to judge and tell someone what to do, but it’s true at the end of the day it’s whether or not you want to deal with that for the rest of your life. What he did was not ok regardless. Emotional cheating can lead to other things & he only came clean because he got caught.
It’s so much harder because now kids are involved and tbh it’s always harder for us women to make that hard decision. We always think of our families, but he didn’t think of that when he went to that other girl.
So definitely take your time to really think of everything and whether this will workout again.
fool coverage is always the PEAK of my fridays
35:37 yaaaas Laura with the advise on how to move on, everything she said 🙌🏾
O M G !!! LAURAAAAAAA!!! “DID IT HURT TO POOPY?” 💀 🤣 SHE SAID IT LIKE A MOMMA TALKING TO HER TODDLER! 😝
30 days into survivor and Manny becomes Bear Manny, his final form, lol
Can we just say that Laura’s outfit is SLAYINGGGG!! 🔥🔥
The segment of taking things personally and who you take criticism from; I worked in retail and now hospitality and it reminds me…the amount of customers every day who say, you should do this or you shouldn’t do that gets annoying. We don’t have our jobs down perfectly but we are professionals in what we do because we do it 30+ hours a week, the customers don’t, so taking it personally is pointless because we do in fact know. If it’s a manager, that’s different, because they do know a better way a lot of times and it’s good criticism or feedback.
Can I just say the advice you gave Ms. Girl who’s husband had an emotional affair was SPOT ON. It sounds like she is feeling torn that she “should” want to move past this with hubs but doesn’t. In life there is no should! If you’re betrayed, no matter how big or small, and you feel like you don’t want to be in that spot again- don’t feel guilty. The world and society will tell you you “should” give him another chance and no one is perfect but giiiiiirl. You have one life. If in the future you want to give it a shot again- you can! Don’t pressure and manipulate yourself to feel a way that doesn’t feel right in your gut.
LaurA’s fits are always the moment !!
I love the friend advice because i truly needed it. I have been friends with a group since i was 15 years old and we outgrew each other & i found out through another friend they were all talking bad about me. It broke my heart, but at almost 30 years old i need to let go of them. I don’t want to get to a point of hating them so i want to let go now. While i still have good memories.
Petition for survivor to do an influencer season! We want Laura!!
The survivor talk literally killllled me you guys are hilarious LMFAO
I loved this episode, y’all were driving the nail home with the letting go of toxicity 🙌🏽, please do more!!!! Love you guys 🩷🩷
I'll be honest.. I'm a mom of one. She'll be 10 this year and I love her with my whole heart! But I'd be lying if I didn't sometimes wish I didn't have that responsibility. Sometimes I wanna feel free to do whatever I want, whenever I want. Lol. I'm a one and done baby!!!
I literally love you guys and this pod. I listen on my way home and had to pop on the video while at the gym to finish. I love the perspectives just like you said. ❤!
BOTH OF YALL NEED TO GO ON BIG BROTHERRRR at least watch it!!! I love it so much. Davonne is my fav player ever
Crazy title after Jen’s interview on The Sesh about Jaclyn 🫣 I’m glad Manny & Laura have each other!
Thank you for acknowledging the 2nd shift..It’s hard but I wouldn’t change it for anything ❤(mommy of 3)
The first 16 minutes have me crying of laughter I’m sooooo dead I love you guys😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
COMPLETELY agree on the kid front! I have 2, obviously love them to pieces, but anymore and I would literally be insane!!!!!!
lemme tell about my families’ and i bdays 😂
my mom - june 14
my older sister - june 16
my brother - june 19
my niece - july 1
my grandma - july 6
mine - july 7
my other niece - august 3
my nephew - august 18
my younger sister is in november and my dads is in december
the financial STRESSSSS i get during the summer all bc of birthdays is definitely criminal😂 four children in a family is definitely too much💀
30:42 I cut off my friend with no explanation and what gets me is she never reached out and asked why... so I guess I made the right decision even though it hurt
I'm 47 and have 5 kids and two grandchildren. You make it work and you somehow find it in yourself to give it all to them. You do lose yourself and have to find a new you. But it is rewarding. Definitely not for everyone. Lol. And definitely a lot of chaos. But I would do it all again.❤
The feedback on this video was amazing!
I had a”friend”that was so nice to my face, but if she thought I was going to get a second more attention than her, she’d find a way to try to upstage me. If I got my hair done, she’d do hers, or if she didn’t have the money to, she’d talk crap how she was so mad, she even got pregnant because she couldn’t stand all the attention another friend of hers got. Literally…
Lithium is really important for many with schizophrenia and bipolar II disorder. It’s a mega mood regulator. Pretty messed up that survivor doesn’t allow it because you can’t cut lithium cold turkey and some who are prescribed it have extreme suicidal thoughts without it.
I loved the advice on not taking things personally. Always a good reminder! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us.
HUNNIIIII!!! That pink outfit was made for you girl 🩷
Just imagine Laura shitting in the sand like a cat in a litter box, hissing at the other survivors, and climbing trees🤣🤣 absolutely feral!!
Not Manny saying I am walking a little funny today 😂😂😂😂
Mannys outfit today and Laura’s is definitely giving 2 pretty best friends!😍
Laura’s sound effects kill me! 😂😂 I love it 😂
Omg I laughed sooo hard in the beginning I spit my water out! 😂😂😂😂
About 10 years ago i realized my "best friend" really just wanted to be on the front row and the first to know everything in my life.
Be careful who you trust.
Mandy's peak had me shook lmao but the rat turd got me all the way together!!!!...y'all are so damn funny lmao 💜💜
I think this was my favorite episode so far! I was cracking up watching lol love you guys!
Laura’s face when manny is giving her the tea😂😂😮
Me in the talking stage to a man I just met:
Am actually looking for something serious.
Him: 16:39
17:32 I love how manny is so open about his sex life. 😂