Doctor Reacts to Will & Grace (Has She Got Borderline Personality Disorder)
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- Опубликовано: 17 сен 2024
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This Doctor REACTS video is one of the most famous gay shows ever, it's Will and Grace, and I'm watching the episode "Crazy in Love" which is all about whether Grace has been actually diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, which is a common mental disorder and hugely stigmatised and hugely misunderstood, so on this video we get to disentangle what it is and how it affects people.
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as a closted gay man in ultra concervative enviorment, this videos are my way to remaind myself I'm not briken. So thanks dok🏳🌈
Nothing broken about you. You should live the life that makes you happiest without harming another person... Your partner and your sexuality does not change who you are, it's ridiculous people believe they should put their noses into someone elses life, to have the need to judge someone who has a different sexuality than them... Even if I did not believe in pride (which I do), I'd never be against it... Who someone dates does not affect me nor harm anyone y'know xD Too many people get angry about the wrong things.
I hope you're able to get out of that environment and find true happiness.
🏳️⚧️ 🏳️🌈 just wanted to comment to say that I love how you use 'we' when describing conditions. I recently saw a video on autism where the speaker used 'they' a lot which made it seem like the info was about autistic people but not for autistic people. I think your use of 'we'makes the information more accepting and inclusive as it implies that a person with that condition could be in the audience and part of the community ❤❤
I saw a Quote this morning. "You don't have to be gay to support LGBT. You just have to be human". 🌈
"I was unaware that similarity was required for the exercise of compassion."
@@InvisiblerApple It shouldn't be.
I was diagnosed with BPD a few years ago. I was devastated with the diagnosis because I've so frequently seen BPD linked to anti-social PD and psychosis. Now that I've taken the time to research LEGITIMATE sources and educate myself, I've learned to accept myself, try to recognize when I'm behaving impulsive, and to give myself space and time to settle my mind. It's led to a much happier existence.
Good for you for seeking out assistance and educating yourself! It must have been a difficult journey to get to a diagnosis and was clearly difficult when processing. You are doing a great job. Good luck taking care of yourself.
You're doing great. I think changing the name to Emotional Dysregulation disorder is so important.
I found it deeply ironic and funny that telling someone with BPD they have something wrong with their personality just, so effed up. I don't know how to word what I'm trying to say.
I have BPD, thank you so much for your empathy. I wish all psychiatrists could be like that.
The thumbnail literally calls u 'crazy'
@jadebel7006 i know I'm not though, so not bothered.
🌈 ally here (my wife is bisexual). Love your content and your insight into mental health
I'm a medical student in Louisiana in the USA, and you're right that things are extremely variable between states! Specific terminology is variable and does depend on the law, but the general term I've always heard is "involuntary commitment."
In Louisiana, any physician (a single physician is enough, you don't need multiple signatures, although this process is most commonly performed collaboratively) can detain a patient who is a danger to themselves, to others, or at risk of "grave disability" due to either mental illness or substance use (very uncommon, mostly for mental illness) for up to 72 hours using a Physician's Emergency Certificate (PEC). If the involuntary commitment needs to continue for longer than 72 hours, the Coroner's Office for the given parish will evaluate the patient and can grant a Coroner's Emergency Certificate (CEC) if the patient remains at risk of harm to self/others/risk of grave disability. The CEC can last up to 15 days. I have no idea why this is the responsibility of the Coroner's Office (which mostly does autopsy/death investigation) but that's a quirk of the law here in LA haha. Beyond 15 days, a court order is needed to continue involuntary commitment.
So if we need to involuntarily commit someone, we'd say we're gonna PEC them. I used to live in Massachusetts and worked on an ambulance there, I'm less familiar with the law but involuntary commitment in MA is defined by Section 35 of one of the MA laws, so up there we'd say we're gonna section a patient who needs involuntary commitment. I'm sure things are a lot different in other states!
Thanks for another great video 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈 :)
In the US anyone can call 911 to get someone committed for 72 hours by saying they're a danger to themselves or someone else. I don't know exactly the evaluation process after EMS / the police kidnap you, but you can be released early of course once someone either is convinced you're not a risk or someone comes to take you home (usually the emergency contact, family, partner, etc.). I worked at an in and I watched this happen to a couple of our longer term boarders.
As a straight man, I started watchin Will & Grace in 2009 or so and fell in love with it. While I couldn't relate directly with the issues gays and lesbians dealt with, personally, I have gay and lesbian friends who do, who are awesome and who I love very much 🥰 Certain aspects of the show are bit dated but I really loved the witty humor and particularly Karen and Jack's antics lol. I found that I could still heavily relate because many of the issues the characters dealt with on the show, including relationship troubles, were simply HUMAN issues that affect all gay, lesbian and straight people alike.
In 1999 I legitimately got out of jury duty by calling and discussing my severe ADHD symptoms and that sitting on a jury would be emotionally intolerable for me and that I’d make a terrible juror because of my extreme difficulty focusing on things that don’t interest me. I just had to provide proof of diagnosis which I did.
For context, Will and Grace dated when they were young and Will was either still in the closet or didn’t realize yet he was gay (can’t remember which since it’s been a long time since I watched the show). He came out to her, and they remained best friends
Happy Pride Month!! 🏳🌈 Even tho I've always known I was gay, I grew up in a traditonal, Catholic, Italian family, so that wasn't going to fly. I conformed & married a guy.....but I have 4 fabulous kids! Now that I've been divoreced for a while, I'm living my true life! 🏳🌈 Thank you for all the wonderful reactions!
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Love the channel.
Love to my LGBT colleagues, and to everyone else around the world struggling at the moment.
🏳🌈 Ally here. Flying this on behalf all y'all but also all my LGBT+ colleagues. :) Btw., I love that you are watching older shows. Shows how we have evolved and what those differences are. It's important to know these things too. That whole "to know where we are going, we must know where we have been" thing. :)
So, as an RN in the states- I’ve seen this from both ends. We have laws that a doctor can involuntarily hold a patient for 72 hours before requiring a judge’s order to extend the stay. But the same holds true if a patient voluntarily agrees to inpatient (if they want to leave AMA, they can’t for 72 hours, to allow time for a judge to hold them involuntarily if the doctor believes the patient is at serious risk of harming themselves or others).
But from the patient end- doctors will take family opinion into account, even if their statements are directly in conflict with the patient’s account. It’s for legal reasons- nobody wants to release a patient whose family states is suicidal. Because the family will definitely sue if the patient commits suicide.
@Doctor Elliott. I was involuntarily hospitalized earlier this year in the US (and have BPD). All it took was a RN Nurse speaking to me for 15mins in the ER (A&E as you know). I was in the ER for suicidal Ideation and evidence of self-harm. Because I went in after normal hospital hours, they decided to hospitalize me. They didn't consult my psychiatrist, which he wasn't happy about since he works there. It took a week for them to finally agree to release me.
About Being committed/sectioned in the US. I had that happen 2 years ago in the state of Michigan. My therapist made a petition to probate court saying I was a threat to myself. The probate court judge signed off on it. 3 members of the city police came to my apartment and detained me and took me to the local hospital emergency room. There, one stayed with me for several hours. The ER doctor came in and asked some questions that are from a script but then followed up based on my answers. He determined that I was a threat to myself. Then local community mental health did and evaluation and asked more scripted questions. They determined I was a threat to myself. I was held in for four nights as they tried to find placement in a mental health facility. I was then driven about 547 kilometers (340 miles) to the facility with a police officer in the vehicle. Because I had been fully cooperative and calm during my hospital stay they chose not to handcuff me for the ride. I was also fortunate that when initially detained the officers allowed me to bring my already packed emergency clothes back pack so I had changes of clothes.
After several days at the mental health facility I could have had a hearing before the local probate court. I was offered a form agreement with the probate court with all of the typical requirements the court to avoid the probate hearing. I chose that because it would allow me to leave the facility faster and they would have imposed those conditions anyway.
I came across your channel fr the first time today and can't stop watching your videos! I'm getting ready to go back to school to get my degree in mental healthcare services. Thank you for sharing your insight, I love hearing your perspective from a professional point of view.
About the controversy around BPD I feel like it’s such a big issue and greatly appreciate you mentioning it having an intersection with autism. I only learned I m autistic in 2021 at the age of 25 and prior to that a friendship with someone who I know with BPD ended very poorly because of issues relating to siding with a mutual friend and bunch of other negative things. Since then I’ve learned more about both my autism and BPD in general which among a lot of other things makes me realise the harm that how I reacted back then likely had on her and in a weird way might help heal that friendship.
Kim Chi and Eureka together in the background omg so messy 😭 i love it, happy pride 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️!!
11:10... For the most part being involuntarily checked into a BMed unit gets done by the hospital themselves though can also be done by the police as well but a majority of the time what will happen is the police will force the initial hospital visit and then the hospital will force the stay. The two main reasons for that is because if forced in by the hospital it is a 24 hour forced before you get the "option" to "voluntarily" check in, if they feel the 24 hours was enough then they won't force you to "voluntarily" check in but if they feel you need more time they will before the 24 hours is up make you do a "leaving against medical advice form" at which point the doctor has 24 hours to respond to the demand and if they don't agree the hospital can hold you for up to 72 hours longer, basically meaning if the hospital does it the required time to be in is between 1-5 days, where as if the police do it then the initial forced part is 72 hours and then all the rest applies as well making the forced stay 3-7 days instead of 1-5 days but in both cases at the end of the forced time a patient can choice to voluntarily check themselves in and then the stay can be longer though the average stay for people who go in voluntarily is 4-6 days though some people can be there for weeks depending on what they are struggling with. The longest I have been in was 1 hour shy of a week after my "extended nap" attempt a few days after I was the victim of a hate crime (my autistic brain decided to be very people pleasery and basically go "oh you tried to kill me because I am trans, well I don't want you to be uncomfortable so let me help you out with that").
Regarding sectioning/psych holds: it depends on the area! Most time it is the psychiatrist that is on call and evaluating someone if they are taken to the ER for being at risk to themselves or others, then when they find a psych ward for you, you are transferred under the care of the psych there. I was threatened with a month long hold when I was on a hold, even tho my psychosis was due to an allergy to gabapentin. If my FIL wasn't a lawyer, I don't know what would have happened.
But yeah, it's hard to explain the differences in different areas of the US, but ultimately it's up to the psych who is in charge of the patient and to get longer holds than 72 hours against the patients will, you petition the court.
In the US version of Queer As Folk theres an episode in Season 2 after Justin gets bashed where we see how Bryan handles it by essentially not handling it and showing some VERY intense coping mechanisms. Id be curious to get your feedback. Just be warned it is not easy to watch.
Justin also has ptsd issues. At first the memory of the night is blocked, but later he remembers, which is pretty intense, but during the "amnesia" he struggles to control his temper (getting a bit violent and frustrated with his physical therapy) and has trouble with intimacy - all results of trauma. So, that's also interesting to explore.
🌈 I love your channel and learn a lot from it. The first thought that came to mind re mental illness on a queer show was Villanelle from Killing Eve who is supposed to be a primary psychopath (I’m guessing that’s probably not correct terminology) I’m thinking in particular of her “I’m so bored”…”I don’t feel anything” speech when she is infiltrating an AA meeting. I can’t remember off hand which episode - something in season 2.
I love your videos. It's so refreshing to have videos from a professional that are informative, measured and kind ❤🏳️🌈
Agender double-demi Autistic here! I appreciate the inclusivity of the channel and the safe space. 😊
Happy Pride Month everyone! 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
The 3rd series of the Norwegian TV show Skam (which has had a version in nearly every European language afterwards) centres on gay teen romance, and has a very prominent mental health theme (which takes some time to become apparent) 🌈
I was “committed” sort of. During a period of depression, I became suicidal. It got to the point that I was obsessing over a plan, and I was up all night obsessing about it for days. Finally one morning, I asked my wife for a ride to the ER. The second I got there and told them I had plan to kill myself, I was put in a room with a guard and had to change into some kind of “safe” outfit. After I spoke to the doctor, I was “pink slipped” under a 72 hour hold, transferred to a temporary psych ER room with my wife there with me. Once they got a room sorted out that evening. I was transferred upstairs to the psych ward, and my wife left. They eventually let me sign “voluntary” papers, but I wouldn’t have been allowed to leave until the 72 hour hold was up. I’ve always said I signed myself in- as an abuse survivor, it feels important to have made the decision for myself. I still evade questions when I’m afraid of being committed against my will because having some power of choice feels important to me. but technically, I was “committed.” In the end I stayed 6 days. I don’t know if I could have signed myself out earlier, but I just wanted the help at that point.
I had worked in mental health and addictions for many years prior to my own hospitalization and had a few experiences with clients being admitted to hospital. In my state, an individual could be “pink slipped” on a 72 hour hold if they were a threat to themself or someone else, or unable to care for themself due to their mental illness. I think any doctor could fill out the pink slip, but it was generally a psychiatrist. If the client showed up at the community mental health center, they could see a psychiatrist who would fill out the pink slip. If they were suicidal out in the community, I could end up driving them to the ER with another case worker. I had a couple teenage clients who attempted suicide in residential treatment, and they would be taken to hospital by ambulance. I did have to sit with one client in an ER overnight until she was admitted. I had a friend threaten suicide on the phone to someone. She called the police and we headed to her apartment together. We were there when the police showed up basically to give info and support. The police knocked on her door and took her to the hospital where she stayed for 3 days.
Unfortunately, clients really didn’t stay beyond 72 hours if they didn’t want to. The hospital had to petition a judge to keep a client longer, and typically they didn’t try because the bar was so high for an involuntary stay. I saw multiple schizophrenic clients released into the community after 3 days and hospitalization would become a revolving door for them. It was really sad. Other clients would only stay if they had been admitted to a hospital they liked because they could smoke or their kids could visit. Many of my clients were involved in treatment as a condition of probation after criminal conviction, and one schizophrenic client with a history of violence ended up getting arrested because she refused see a doctor on her own after threatening homicide. I had more than one client end up being in jail and very unwell-basically kept in the hospital wing in a “pickle suit” for weeks with very little treatment.
I ended up feeling very conflicted about clients being court ordered to treatment-especially as a condition of parole or the mental health court system. With limited community resources, it often meant that clients with criminal conviction got priority access to treatment they didn’t want while others in the community couldn’t get treatment at all. Some clients were really manipulative and used up a lot of resources avoiding going to jail or participating in treatment,
But some of the clients really did need better care than they got in jail.
What a shame that The Devil You Know isn't available on Audible UK :(
Are you sure? I had the book, but decided to listen to it via audible? Excellent book.
🏳🌈love your channel. I'm an ace cis women struggling with severe mental health issues.
I've allways considered myself as an ally until I found out about asexuality in my early 30ties. Finally had a label for my experience.
Happy pride month to all queeries and allys!
🏳🌈🏳⚧ Cis Pansexual here. Trans/NB Ally (married a TW)
Once dated a woman with BPD. She would say to me out of the blue: "You're probably gonna dump me because of XYZ" when the thought hadn't even crossed my mind. She also had a problem with conversation reciprocation (give and take).
How can u be dating a tw and still not understand discrimination, unfair judgements and stereotypes n how not all ppl are the same despite any medical or mind differences to 'regular ppl' ..is ur gf just like every other tw are they all the same...at your age u should know better
Love, Love LOVE your channel and your commentary...🥰 I am learning so much from you!
Here's a HUGE Hug from Denmark and Happy Pride to all of us!!!🏳🌈😍
Will & Grace was my favourite after school show to watch! I definitely had a crush on Megan Mullally
🏳️🌈 bi, poly, aro, my phone is old and doesn't have the fun flags lol.
My story from the US (east coast) in the 2010s sounds like it's out of the 60s or something, but here are some vague basics from my many scrapes with the psych hospitals lol.
But to get someone committed, you call the cops and say they are a danger to themselves or someone else. Then they get arrested and taken to be evaluated, from what I understand. It is usually weaponized when I have been around it, for myself and others. And I have been able to talk the cops out of taking me, which is NOT what they are supposed to do, so I'm not sure what that says about the system, but the person who called them on me didn't help themselves.
I have gone to the psych ward voluntarily for a 72 hour hold, and you are supposed to be able to sign a paper to leave after the 72 hours are up. Because you are there by choice. But the nurses threatened me a lot, and said that if I tried to sign out before the doctor told me I was ready, they would have me locked down for even longer.
I was there to keep myself safe from me, and I knew when the danger had passed, but they didn't let you out unless you did all of their activities and ate all of the meals. Kind of like prison. I went 5 times, one was at a cool one that let you outside and you could smoke (also kinda like prison lol), but things went a little sideways and stuff got locked down over me. Oops. I didn't know better. But the last time I went (about 10 years ago), they had me on thorazine for my depression and PTSD, and ECT was apparently next up on the list, because they were bringing back girls younger than me. I was 23, and that was the best psych institution in the city (second largest city in the state). There were other times I needed to go after that, but couldn't, because I couldn't risk that happening to me. And they could keep you locked in there if you didn't agree to treatment, so it was scary. Which was also why I made sure to talk the cops out of taking me. We have a one night stay place that I had to use after that, but it was shared by some homeless people (not a problem), which meant that with the lack of filter, dangerous people did get in, and you would be sleeping on the floor with them if you were one of the majority who did not get a room. So actual gang members and people right out of prison who hadn't figured stuff out just yet were there to bother you, and they took away anything to protect yourself, and it was not divided by gender. So I had to run away when a man decided he owned me... not great. The floor was not ideal considering my health problems either. But if you got a room with the little couch in it, you could charge your phone, lock the door, and pass out.
Getting out of the psych ward/mental hospital was always a huge system failure as well. Because the meds given in the hospital never lasted long enough, even if you went to the outpatient they told you to. Their psychiatrist still took too long to get to. It was purposely scheduled that way for some reason. So a lot of people would end up right back in the hospital.
I went to a group therapy place where one of the doctors tried to diagnose everyone with schizophrenia, which was.... malpractice, I'm sure?
And one girl who had an eating disorder was forced to eat sonething in front of people, which was horrible.
I was hospitalized on a floor for eating disorders, and someone was so bad she needed a feeding tube, and she cried all night. My roommate broke off her engagement. It was really intense.
I also ended up on a floor that was almost exclusively guys who had just turned 18 and were in prison as kids, but needed to be evaluated before going out to the outside world. One guy would get drugged by staff regularly because he would have violent and threatening outbursts. Accidentally fixed his behavior, which is good in the long run I suppose, but sucked at the time. He just had a wall up. Turns out I would probably do well in a prison hierarchy, which is good to know, I suppose.
But never, ever give someone your phone number or address if you end up there. People are much more open on social media these days, so those are your call, but I still wouldn't. It feels great when you are healing. They feel like your best friends. You can't imagine making closer friends, or making friends that understand you the same way, or your other friends won't have this shared experience. But those friendships can go really bad, really fast, and you need to focus on healing you, not healing you and someone else. It sounds harsh, but I made the mistake many times.
And make sure you connect with a pcp as well as whoever they are sending you to, at least you will have a backup for medication that way. As well as have another way to access your medical records. ❤
I’m not gonna lie, when I saw the video title I thought this would be one of the Molly Shannon episodes 😂
As far as I know, the victim can request assistance from the police officer. They can request that the loved one causing bodily harm be a Baker Act. Typically it's for 72 hours there have to be reasons a person should be baker act such as causing bodily harm to the victim or self.
I was diagnosed with BPD quite a few years ago now. It didnt strike me as surprising. While it was being described to me i couldn't help but think, "yup, thats me to a T." So i guess in that way ive always known i had it, i just didnt know it had a name. I happen to be a self-destructive borderline, and my BPD also has hyper empathy coupled with it. Not all individuals with BPD also have hyper empathy, and not all individuals with hyper empathy have BPD, but it is not uncommon for there to be both in an individual that has one or the other. I also have PTSD, two different forms of depression, and generalized anxiety disorder. Needless to say it has made life difficult, especially in connecting with people. In fact, because of what happened in my last relationship ive kinda self isolated purposefully. As someone with BPD i have a very unstable sense of self, so when the woman in my last relationship went from being warm and embracing to cold and distant, all because i told her i was falling in love with her - and subsequently went from acknowledging me to pretending i dont exist, it really had a cataclysmic effect on me. Because it was so devestating, i found the risk of it ever happening again to be unacceptable and because there is always risk, the only way to avoid it was to shut myself off altogether.. The idea that someone that warm could turn that cold so quickly has really made me think that the likelihood of ever finding a partner that sees my humanity past all the bullshit is highly improbable. So as a result, ive lost my hopes that i will ever have the kind of companionship that i want, that i need, and without any hope, ive lost my motivation to make even the slightest effort. And since i cant stand to be alone, to feel alone and disconnected, im just waiting for some policy to be changed in Canada in 3 years so i can just have myself medically euthanized..
Yeah, BPD can be a rough diagnosis. The only stigma or discrimination I have faced because of it has been entirely from medical professionals. Like, I've had a doctor who saw the diagnosis and before meeting me decided what he thought. One of the first things he said to me was "well, BPD means you're very manipulative" and so - with that prejudgement - he looked at everything I said or did not at face value, but with the assumption that it was intended to manipulate him in some way.
I still love Will and Grace, most of the show is still quite funny & the characters are all quirky in their way, but there was still a heart in their friendships...
As for reacting to other Queer shows that have some mental illness, I can't think of much right now that would be accessible. But I would love it if you could react to Sense8 - one of the characters, a trans woman Naomi, is almost forced into unnecessary surgery by a doctor (who has ulterior motives) & her mother (who still deadnames her & doesn't want to recognise that she's a woman). They basically want to cut out a part of her brain which probably gives her the special "sensate" abilities. It takes her girlfriend & everyone in her sensate group/cluster to break her out of that hospital. There are interesting thoughts there: like, is she really ill & hallucinating all these people (who are mentally connected to her) because there's something wrong with her brain, or should she trust her instincts that tell her to run... Yes, the show is scifi, but the exploration of human psyche is pretty deep & beautiful. It's really about human connection, empathy, and of course the journey of self discovery for all the main characters.
Anyway, happy pride!
I think you might appreciate the show Feel Good. It's on US Netflix now, but I'm pretty sure it was produced for and aired on Channel 4 in the UK
For schizophrenia I've also thought about how dopamine can be related to creative processes in the brain and maybe a kind of overactive imagination or malformed version of normal thinking. In normal thinking, jumping to conclusions requires on some level a degree of connecting two unrelated things together to form a delusion. The idea that there are evil people in the world and that they could be out to get you with this idea of some unseen or undetected method of observing you in the cases of stalking delusions, at least requires you to create that situation (but then also to believe it is actually happening despite the counter evidence). The problem with unfalsifiable methods of observation is that they're pretty resistant to being challenged due to the nature of not being able to observe them.
This is where atheist thinking can kinda help. The idea that there is an all-seeing all-knowing entity that can see you at all times and knows all of your thoughts and can torture you is hard to disprove. But then again, besides the culture of people who believe in such an entity, there isn't any real reason to say there's more or less evidence for that being than a pink unicorn, some beliefs are absurd on their face, to me, those kinds of all-powerful beings might help someone cope with the idea that the universe's problems may have some explanation on some level and thus can be controlled, but they aren't real.
Maybe in the case of things like psychosis with adjoining depression, you are more likely to believe in evaluations of your situation which are negative because that's part of the depressive symptoms as well, so you have created an evil monster and because the view is that the world is depressive, it probably exists and even more alarmingly that you may think you deserve to suffer. In my case an intrusive thought can sometimes become too loud to dismiss, some days it can be ignored, on others I can practically feel a person in my head angrily screaming into my face in anger and zoning out any other distraction but that thought. It becomes impossible to ignore. Usually that's when I think about tranquilizers, at least that would quiet the mind.
I’m panromantic asexual 🏳️🌈 and non binary and I have BPD so thanks for reacting to more BPD content
*LOVING* the captions. I dont know if they are new as of this video or if I just missed it, but gosh its so great to have. I don't *need* them persay , but my life is better when i can have them. 🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
In the US laws do vary but generally a legal or medical entity can hold you against your will for 24-72 hours. During this time you do not have the right to a lawyer or to leave AMA (against medical advice) after this window has expired there are 3 options: 1. You can voluntarily sign yourself in or agree to stay if a doctor thinks it is warrented. 2. They can continue to hold you but then you must be given access to an attorney who will work within the legal system to advocate for your release. 3. You can be released if a medical profit agrees you are not a threat to yourself or others.
"medical profit" I love the freudian nature of that type. lol
Omg autocorrected professional to profit.
@@irmenotu Yeah, between that and the auto moderation, it's getting really bad.
🏳️🌈 Bi and Borderline! I'm here for this video! I appreciate your content!
the person in question would have to sign over all decision making regarding health care to you in order to make any decision like having them put in a hospital, but they would need insurance and drs would need to approve how long the stay is, usually around 3 to 5 days,
Bi/queer 💙💜💖 Happy Pride 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ Wishing everyone joy and safety 🌈 I appreciate your analysis and discussion about BPD
Please, evermore Will & Grace, aka: The Jack & Karen Show! Your deluge of Latin words & Greek terms of psychological insights distract me from the too many voices in my "brain". Thank you! 🤞
What I don't appreciate about using a section is that the NHS still supports quackery in medicine, it undermines my confidence in a medical institution to do its job when it gives credence to bollocks ideas and has a terrible track record of how it treats people.
I came out as bi not long ago🏳🌈🏳🌈 and I love these videos , teaches me a lot about (my) behaviour.
Usually a family member and a mental health professional get a judge to sign a warrant for a 72 hour hold for evaluation, then hold a hearing to determine the issues such as competency, treatment, etc.
From a non doctor in the states, on of the redder states - I tried to baker act (have him committed) my husband after he described in detail several ways in which he had thought about killing himself.
They basically told me that without an attempt or actions towards suicide, they wouldn’t/couldn’t do anything.
Two weeks later he jumped off a bridge and all I can do is be thankful that he didn’t take our child with him.
Also - just an ally 🏳️🌈
I have found that my mental health conditions have been useful for me. I had a room to myself at the domestic violence shelter, because a lot of people were afraid of me. I kept my symptoms to myself and I was in control of my moods. I have autism, BP and I used to have Dissociative Identity Disorder.
In Florida the most recent term I've heard is being Baker Acted. Not sure if it's used in other places.
My sister has borederline...and actually fits almost every said symptom - but i forget she has it...at least till it get really bad.
I would love for you to watch episodes where Will often struggles with his homosexuality compared to Jack’s acceptance of his
As a gay man born in the late 80s, I saw plenty of this show growing up!
Hated it! Still hate it, for that matter. As a kid I noticed very early that girls weren't interesting to me as they were with other boys my age. But then I watched Will & Grace and I knew I was nothing like Will, and I was DEFINITELY nothing like Jack - who at the time were considered to cover the spectrum of gay existence. Every time it was on I just felt.. mildly uncomfortable? I recognize this as a progressive stepping stone for the time, but my god I'd rather leave this show buried in the past.
I also loved watching WWF when I was younger. 🔥
🏳️🌈🇦🇷 A "not gay enough and not straight enough" (yes, you guessed it, I'm bi) from Argentina. Happy pride 🎉
It varies from state to state but *generally* police can hold a person they deem at risk at a hospital for a limited period of time (a couple of days) the hospital can extend it longer-against their will. If the hospital and the police go to the state/District Attorney then go to the court, they need to petition the court to involuntary "commit" the person. The most common way this happens is when a crime happens and the family can't take care of the person anymore. There was a case not too long ago where a woman would repeatedly illegally drive after already causing property damage and almost killing a person. It was dementia but within the criminal justice system. That's relatively common- that kind of situation. In the alternative, a family member can petition the court at any point to restrict the rights of the mentally ill, but courts are very seldom to do that. It is a high standard. Usually, the court will want to appoint a 3rd party neutral evaluator. And many times "committed" doesn't necessary imply a depressing assylum. In the US, in patient hospitals range from quality to very nice & fancy to really sketchy. if Karen's mom went to one, i surprise it was a nice one.
🏳️🌈 bisexual lady here
Also really love the subtitles you added to this 🫶🏽
🏳️🌈 Long time subscriber, always love the content and community notes quizzes ^.^
My ex was diagnosed as Borderline after we'd broken up. It certainly explained some stuff. Though I was also diagnosed as Schizoid some time after that, which explained the rest!
A healthy and stable relationship (for either of us) that was not! 😂
You've got a bit of a retro vibe today. It's nice!
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Check out the TV show House, season 6 episodes 1-2. House voluntarily admits himself to a psych hospital. It's an interesting take on a semi modern psych ward. Bonus-Lin Manual Miranda is House's roommate.
I'm queer and italian, thank you for calling out the pope!! ❤
Couldn't help but notice, where did the yellow lego man out of your rainbow go?!🔎
Flag for Asexuality Spectrum and Aromantic Spectrum, both which I figure I'm part of. Remember folks, it is LGBTQIA+, don't forget any of the letters. Anyway I'm not familiar with that tv show, I haven't watched tv regularly in several years, so I'll not be finishing the video but I wanted to post a comment because my understanding is that helps channels get exposure if I understand correctly how youtube does things.
Also to folks living in the US like myself, vote, and vote Dem, and keep pushing them to enact good policies, and Biden 2024. Because the former guy is a mortal threat.
thank you for these videos 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
my best buddy at university was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and it was a bit of a struggle sometimes
My mother had BPD. She had to suffer a fair share of abuse growing up, and I really felt for her. The issues weren't "easy to deal with for any one. She died last november, and despite all the things she "screwed up"(so much for generational trauma), I still loved and miss her.
For my part of the family tree, I won't have kids and break the cycle.
My sister has two girls (1 1/2 and 4 yo), and it worries me like some bad patterns start to sneak into her parenting. It's not an easy position to be in, being concerned about my lovely nieces wellbeing and being scared to "meddle in" and to confront my dominant sister. I'm sure keeping an eye on the situation.
If you want kids but are afraid to have them because you think they'll get BPD too, remember what Elliott said about the padlock. While he was talking about violence I think the principle applies in other ways as well. They won't have BPD unless all the numbers align. Your DNA is only half of your mother's and your children's would only be one quarter. In all fairness some mental conditions can cause offspring to be more likely to have the same condition, but it's simply more likely, not set in stone.
Moreover even if they get BPD they won't necessarily be broken people. Lots of people live just fine even with different mental conditions, including BPD.
If you just don't want kids pay my words no additional thought. But if you do want them and are afraid because of the cycle, I would say don't be. My children have improved my life in a way I cannot calculate. I wish you the same if you want it.
@@TheNewRobotMaster Hi, thank you for your considerate answer.
You are absolutely right about higher risk not necessarily meaning that potential kids will really have the issues.
I myself have menatl health issues too.
And it's okay. I don't want kids, could not easily perceive and carry a pregnancy, never even had a romantic partner AND I would be worried to be a bad mother.
@@mangantasy289 I gotcha. My aunt is 70 years old now and never married or had kids. Some people are just like that. It's not bad if you don't want kids. I wish you the best of luck in your life.
@@TheNewRobotMaster thank you. Good luck to you as well.
Hello. May I say how much we enjoy your programme. Have you ever done one on Princess Alice? Did she have schizophrenia or something else? Thank you.
I wonder if he will cover Lost Boys and Fairies that starts tonight (Monday)?
Hey hey a new Netflix show with British actor Benedict Cumberbatch just released recently dealing with mental heath issue and more called ERIC you should definitely do a reaction to the series it’s very short only 6 episodes and it’s riveting it’s a masterpiece in acting when it comes to Benedict and a few others please react to it on your channel 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Are you going to comment on the Kim Chi vs Eureka beef? I think both sides are in the wrong for different reasons and I'm curious if you agree?
Happy Pride. Thank you for the video.
In the US, it's often a voluntary 72-hour hold. Most insurance companies won't pay for more in-patient treatment than that. If an individual is in-patient for two weeks, they can petition the courts for release. I'm from Ohio, so rules might be different in other states.
I had a great-great grandmother who was institutionalized in a state hospital from 1904-1934 when she passed. I toured the facility, and it was devastating to think of anyone living there for more than a few hours. 🏳️🌈
I think you mean "involuntary," right? It has more to do with state laws rather than medical insurance. To be held longer usually requires a court order. Again, depending on the state.
72 hour holds are not voluntary. That's why it's called a "hold".
@@sdigf3167 You can"commit" yourself and then be held involuntarily for the 72 hours if the doc considers it necessary. Two people in my family have done that.
@@teri2466 Still not voluntary. The trip there is. After that, no.
Loved Wil and Grace. Jack is fantastic 😂. Happy pride month for everybody who celebrates it
Karen has always been my favorite character on the show.🌈🌈
I was served with a jury duty summons a month after I left my wife. I used the mental health reason for not being able to attend. They didn’t even ask for proof, but said I would be put back in the pool. That was almost a year ago. I could do it now.
The video "ADHD but medicated" by the channel "Ice Cream Sandwich" might be a good video for you to react on. About the nuance of being on different medication.
🏳🌈Love your analyses of all these shows.
I would like to call it extreme dysregulation. Dysregulating every aspect of life.
Love from Ireland Gay guy with bpd so it's nice you noting the stigma attached to it as an cluster B type it has Lead several psychologist's doctor's and nurse's treat me like I'm inherently manipulative despite most bpd people hurt themselves 40 percent more on average according to the general statics office I would like to ask maybe an unpopular pattern I've noticed most gay or queer people I know also have bpd or several of the symptoms associated with it more than in the past or maybe people are more open about it now
Should Alimemazin still be prescribed?
I have a queer son, and I have borderline personality disorder 🌈🏳️🌈 happy pride month all🎉
🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈 I hope will and grace has more mental health episodes so I can watch you watch it!
I LOVED this show growing up 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Does this mean we get another Hannibal Episode?
I'm LGBT+ *and* have Borderline Personality Disorder, so this video is perfect for me lol
🏳️🌈Thank you Dr C!
Can you do Dancing with the Devil next?
🏳️🌈Right beside you guys
Happy Pride!😵💫😱🥰🤗🌞🪻🌳🌈🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🫒🎛🖥💗
What happened to baby reindeer? Am I tripping, I could’ve sworn he did a vid on it?
I'm a neurodivergent bisexual 🩷💜💙 and ally 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ always have been, always will be
Showing some love to the lgbtqa+. Have friends and close friends that are gay, trans, bi, asexual, kinksters and others. Some of the best people I have in my life
🏳️🌈 Have you seen In the Flesh? It's a zombie show, but as a metaphor for queerness, race/immigration, mental health, etc in rural areas. Also deals with PTSD, depression, institutionalized mental healthcare and re-integration into society, guilt about crimes committed in an altered mental state, cults vs activist groups, and national/global scale vs community reactions to a mass crisis both during and after the event.
(Also, only 9 episodes total)
🏳️🌈I’m only just realising there are very few pride flag emojis 🤷♂️
Right?!
🏳️🌈 just came out about a month ago
Congratulations!! It sure isn’t easy!
🌈 could nt get a flag on kindle lol i grew up on this show and it helped me come out along with queer as folk
Please do Modern Family!
I love Mitch and Cam ❤️