I Got Rid of It All - Things to Declutter before 2024 for a calmer life

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  • Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
  • #extrememinimalism #cottagecore #financialfreedom
    It's time to make room for the life we want to live, not the one we see passing us by!
    I Got Rid of It All - Things to Declutter before 2024 for a calmer life
    You might not have time for a huge decluttering project before the Holidays, that's why I thought I'll walk you through little things you can easily declutter now, you won't even miss them in 2024!
    Minimalism is a personal journey that taught me to honor the current version of ME instead of the one I was or wish I could be :)
    SAY HI! honeyandlavendercottage@gmail.com
    Thank you all so much for being here!
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Комментарии • 62

  • @gramarye_cottage
    @gramarye_cottage 10 месяцев назад +58

    I just did a massive declutter of my cottage. I went from max to min in just a few weeks. I now have empty spaces that my mind is slowly adjusting to. I also have a capsule wardrobe, my entire wardrobe (all 4 seasons) is just under 30 pieces of clothes I actually wear. I’ve saved nothing for ‘maybe or what if’. I’m loving my space now, I feel free. My possessions no longer own me, I own them and they all have a purpose. I kept absolutely nothing that was ‘just for show’ 👌

    • @thatswhatisaid8908
      @thatswhatisaid8908 10 месяцев назад +6

      Oh, very well done! Go you! That's inspirational!

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад +4

      Aww... I'm so happy to hear that making room helped you find balance! That's right where I was... I like a cozy, clean space! It helped me with reducing my anxiety😊
      Life feels like a canvas, ready to be filled with things we love!

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад +2

      I'll have a everything I own ( wardrobe edition ) coming up after my next video! I hope you'll enjoy!🙏🌿✨️

    • @Lulu-sv6rt
      @Lulu-sv6rt 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m dying to reach this stage. I’m doing one bit at a time. I still have so much to go. It might take me a year.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  8 месяцев назад +4

      @@Lulu-sv6rt dear Lulu! First off, I LOVE your name! My baby's name is Luana and we call her Lulu☺️✨️I wanted to quickly share an insight on my journey that might help with yours...🙏
      I had to reach the bottom first, I had to feel really exhausted, frustrated so that I could find out the root of these self created feelings! I had to show up to myself and seeing decluttering and making room for my actual life, as an act of self care!
      It helped so greatly with being able to say no to everything that wasn't a firm Yes!
      As I was progressing and getting confident at it, my life started to feel lighter, like a white canvas I could write my days as I pleased! I started to feel more spontaneous etc...
      It's a silly way to describe it but my point is, take the courage and trust yourself during the process because you'll get to know your true self as you go, your style, what you truly enjoy doing etc..
      Sending a big hug!✨️🙏🤗💝

  • @annievaningan
    @annievaningan 10 месяцев назад +21

    I tell my husband all the time I could have two cups two bowls two plates. I could have like five items in an empty home lol. Stuff overwhelms me. I like the peace empty shelves and empty space brings.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      Oh girl, I truly hear you!! I'm the same way!😅 I'm an introvert, yet very spontaneous person when I'm in nature and with people I love!
      Minimalism helped having more resources and time available to go and watch sunsets, take a drive to a new place, sit by the ocean and feel the breeze! It's been life changing to be able to give myself permission to be more and want less❤😊

  • @user-iy4nd8ge2r
    @user-iy4nd8ge2r 10 месяцев назад +21

    Oh the everyday joys in: painted nails, using a favorite sweater, drinking coffee or hot cocoa in a beautiful mug, book piles with books you really love. String lights or candles. And you are such a gentle teacher when it comes to everyday magic and finding the joy in the ordinary!!!

    • @susanweller2121
      @susanweller2121 10 месяцев назад +1

      Bella Grace magazine in video form. 🙂

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад +1

      Your kindness and support is so dear to my heart!! I wish I could give you a big hug!!
      Thank you so much for being a huge encouragement!!!😭🙏

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      @@susanweller2121 hi sweet Susan! You ladies are way beyond amazing!!
      I don't deserve your precious words!!
      Thank you so much for being here as I learn to improve!😭🙌

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      My dear friend!!! You won the cacao mix giveaway!!🎉🎉🎉🎉
      Make sure you email me at honeyandlavendercottage@gmail.com so I can send you your goodies!!
      Thanks for being here!❤

    • @dyamome
      @dyamome 9 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @cristinas4398
    @cristinas4398 10 месяцев назад +5

    🍄 ... Hmmm... The more intentionality you create in your home (and mind, thoughts), the less you look for something to fill that void elsewhere or in the stores. ... We shop, snack, etc, because we are uncomfortable with the moment of stillness. We exist instead of living, because we are comfortable with that. ... Would love to hear more about letting our minds wander. I used to do that so much as a child and teen, until the call to "be productive" became the overpowering voice

  • @flamingofan5411
    @flamingofan5411 10 месяцев назад +12

    Im definitely not a minimalist but I do like simple living and recently went through my closet (again) and also went through a lot of my home decorations. I gave away a lot of really beautiful things but I don’t miss them a bit. I’d rather have space than stuff.
    Beautiful video!

  • @valerierogers9609
    @valerierogers9609 9 месяцев назад +6

    I'll be making a long distance move ~1700mi. Considering cost of movers, and I'm already what some consider minimalist anyway, thinking of just packing my suv and hit the road. Watching more videos for inspiration.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад +2

      Hello Valerie! So nice to meet you! Sounds like you have a plan!!
      That's exactly how I accidentally became a minimalist! We had to move and realizing that hauling our stuff wad almost more expensive that what we have was an eye opener! We sold everything we could and started to live more minimally and intentionally!
      Oh, you'll love that feeling of freedom from realizing you never needed much in the first place! It could be so empowering!😘🤗🙌

    • @valerierogers9609
      @valerierogers9609 9 месяцев назад +2

      @HerCupOfSIMPLE Thank you for the response. Most don't realize what encumbrance belongings are and how it holds us back. Conventional living is indeed a trap. That uncomfortable feeling of major change - the tornado effect - is what they try is avoid. Hardest to make first step, the life-changing and anxiety-inducing decision. Make friends with anxiety; have courage to Let It Be. The accidental minimalist is a new story yet to be written. God bless ✨️

  • @thatswhatisaid8908
    @thatswhatisaid8908 10 месяцев назад +3

    🍄 making room for who I am now. YES! Not who I once was or all the people I might have been, and still may be. Just me, now! Thank you!

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад +1

      I sincerely loved your comment!😊
      It really came down to want to be more of who I am!!😊❤

  • @simplelifestylewithavin-eh5yl
    @simplelifestylewithavin-eh5yl 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you for your perfect new video dear colleague 🥰

  • @raisingthepauls
    @raisingthepauls 9 месяцев назад +2

    beautiful! love all of this video. I'm hoping to get started on decluttering my home before the end of the year!

  • @jokegoeree5335
    @jokegoeree5335 10 месяцев назад +3

    Lovely video😊
    I just filled up a donation bag with linnens and am going to look inside my kitchen cupboards to see if I can let go of some more things❤

  • @yarning4asmile
    @yarning4asmile 9 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 loved seeing the yarn, the peace and the possibilities. Thank you

  • @ATravelerOfWorlds
    @ATravelerOfWorlds 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Alessandra and beautiful family! It's absolute wonderful to see how you're thriving here on youtube and in life, while sharing such an important message of simplicity, family and creating beauty in every day life. I love what you said about creating room for the version of me that I am now! I will remember that for sure!

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      You're a true friend, Fredericke!! I've been watching your precious videos, sweet girl!
      I'm so happy to see you've found a direction for your creativity!!😊

  • @9FatraBbits
    @9FatraBbits 10 месяцев назад +4

    🍄🍂lovely video again. Forest walks and warm drinks time. I’ve just pared down my sweater situation to four plus one that’s more of a jacket. Two warm hats. I like your dried oranges! Thank you.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      You always make me smile so big! Your kindness and your precious, encouraging words you are willing to share!🥺🙏

  • @KT-rh7hq
    @KT-rh7hq 9 месяцев назад +2

    🍄 Loved this video, thank you! ❤

  • @ushakrish_
    @ushakrish_ 10 месяцев назад +2

    Decluttering is so liberating! It's amazing to watch your vlog 🤩🤩

  • @Julie-si3hi
    @Julie-si3hi 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hi new subscriber...absolutely loved this so peaceful i am going to take inventory of my home and start to declutter for a nicer 2024

  • @KristenMelissa
    @KristenMelissa 10 месяцев назад +2

    🍄 Another Beautiful video full of helpful ideas! Thank you Alessandra! 😍🍂☕️💕 Those sweaters and blankets look soo cozy! I finished my declutter pile this week and we take it to donate tomorrow!! I am so excited to free up so much space! ✨️ Sending you lots of love friend!

  • @user-us6un4hi1w
    @user-us6un4hi1w 10 месяцев назад +2

    🍄🍄Empty spaces would be nice. Thank you for such a calming video. :)

  • @minimalistsmanaged
    @minimalistsmanaged 9 месяцев назад +1

    Beautiful video 🥰 Thank you for sharing ❤

  • @XammoX89
    @XammoX89 9 месяцев назад +1

    I have the same little heater, in the cream color.

  • @Carole616
    @Carole616 10 месяцев назад +2

    Well said and great advice.

  • @dyamome
    @dyamome 9 месяцев назад +1

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much!!!🙏💝

  • @stefaniamarmugi3872
    @stefaniamarmugi3872 9 месяцев назад +2

    🍄Grazie per il video pieno d'ispirazione

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      Ciao Stefania!! Grazie a te per l'incoraggiamento!!! Spero di parlare con te di nuovo al piu' presto!🤗

  • @evergreenqueen13
    @evergreenqueen13 10 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 So sweet! ❤

  • @jaymeshumblehome
    @jaymeshumblehome 9 месяцев назад +1

    Love everything about this video and you Alessandra 💓

  • @daisy_c_m
    @daisy_c_m 10 месяцев назад +1

    So lovely 🍄

  • @ruthmcgreal9615
    @ruthmcgreal9615 9 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 sorry I hit the wrong button ! haha just wanted to say I've just stumbled on your channel, what lovely content! thank you :)

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      Sweet Ruth! Thank you from the bottom of my heart! It means so much to me!!
      Thanks for sticking around as I grow and learn to improve!😭🙏

  • @84sandre
    @84sandre 10 месяцев назад +1

    Very sweet video!🍄

  • @julesy6171
    @julesy6171 10 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 just found you and love your vibe!

  • @TheMennomilist
    @TheMennomilist 10 месяцев назад +2

    Aww your kids are so cute. This was a nice video and I so felt cozy. Cocao with mushrooms?? That sounds very interesting to me!!! I am a cocoa all year round drinker.

    • @cristinas4398
      @cristinas4398 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, all year here too!

  • @melissasheridan5660
    @melissasheridan5660 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is an absolutely beautiful video

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  9 месяцев назад

      Melissa, I can't thank you enough for your kind words!!😭🙏

  • @rashellrice4745
    @rashellrice4745 10 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 another great video

  • @estherkasprzyk3823
    @estherkasprzyk3823 10 месяцев назад +1

    🍄 great video

  • @stefaniebowers7084
    @stefaniebowers7084 9 месяцев назад +1

    🍄

  • @teresasmith2161
    @teresasmith2161 10 месяцев назад +3

    Music is distracting. I couldnt watch.

  • @sharonreah8610
    @sharonreah8610 9 месяцев назад +1

    🍄🍄🍄🍔☕🍷🍪🍦Calming spaces!!!

  • @ruthmcgreal9615
    @ruthmcgreal9615 9 месяцев назад +1

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  • @michellekrance
    @michellekrance 9 месяцев назад +1

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  • @nimahamehameha
    @nimahamehameha 9 месяцев назад

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  • @txspacemom765
    @txspacemom765 10 месяцев назад +1

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