spend the week with me - being alone + discussing the future

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @toriamatthews9335
    @toriamatthews9335 2 года назад +858

    Perfect timing bestie

  • @yes-jy8lr
    @yes-jy8lr 2 года назад +600

    2:08 what you need to understand is that all we want is that too, fit checks, hauls, literally random vlogs of you existing.. makes me happy a lot!

    • @emreads
      @emreads 2 года назад +58

      This. I came for books, I stayed for total vibes

  • @joand.7809
    @joand.7809 2 года назад +159

    Omg, stephhh. I miss youuu. A week without you is a week not well spent. I'm so excited, gonna watch this before I attend class. Know our priorities, in short, you. Love you!

  • @indirabello13
    @indirabello13 2 года назад +124

    I had the worst day, and you just made it better. This is a comfort place, so thank u!

  • @rachael.m.
    @rachael.m. 2 года назад +90

    I love going to the movie theatre by myself. I started doing it to help conquer an anxiety about doing a social activity like that by myself, and now I don't even think twice about it :)

    • @r.22r
      @r.22r 2 года назад +5

      Try doing other things too! I go for walks, meals, plays, concerts and everything under the sun! Sometimes the best thing is ones company!☺️ literally no one cares.

    • @rachael.m.
      @rachael.m. 2 года назад +2

      @@r.22r Yes I agree, and do all those things too! 😊No one bats an eyelid haha.

  • @danyizhang5560
    @danyizhang5560 2 года назад +179

    thanks to you steph ive normalized taking myself on dates

  • @darinab1571
    @darinab1571 2 года назад +24

    This whole video felt like talking to my long distance bff and I love Steph for that and the crippling anxiety when it comes to important matters and putting them off is soo relatable

  • @rhyannonsparks1457
    @rhyannonsparks1457 2 месяца назад +1

    I love rewatching your videos from before Charleston. You had no idea!

  • @oliviaclairexo
    @oliviaclairexo 2 года назад +49

    ily steph, you always help us feel less alone too

  • @hannahdigitals
    @hannahdigitals 2 года назад +83

    I relate so much to the issue of moving every year, it’s exciting at first but I just crave stability these days. I made a video about it recently too

  • @giannaxoxo444
    @giannaxoxo444 2 года назад +7

    been struggling with being alone in college, your videos always help and make me so happy. thank you for being you

  • @brookewarren6362
    @brookewarren6362 2 года назад +17

    Please post as many vlogs as you can! I'm a very a very similar age and stage of life but I've recently been through a break up of my long term relationship so I love keeping up with everything going on in your life and how you make your time alone so enjoyable.

  • @vaishnavitipireddy6450
    @vaishnavitipireddy6450 2 года назад +11

    I relate to the anxiety over things I have to do and putting them off. I got much better about it by not doubting myself on whether I’ll do things I should be doing. I took a ‘take it easy’ approach and just let things that need to happen happen naturally, without me having to think and plan for them

  • @geenakayla
    @geenakayla 2 года назад +14

    steph you're my comfort youtuber. your videos bring such comfort to my life and you feel like a friend. thank you for this, i love you!!💗

  • @directedbylola
    @directedbylola 2 года назад +14

    It’s so cool to cherish mundane things and seeing beauty literally everywhere. Steph you’re literally goals

  • @alanalevine3375
    @alanalevine3375 2 года назад +3

    this video brought me so much comfort. I just started dorming with new roommates who said I was very weird for choosing (and arguably liking) to stay home and read (over going out), and this brought me a lot of joy and comfort I have been missing I love being alone. Not because I am anti-social, in a bad way, but because it so comforting to have that time, especially living in a big city, which constantly overstimulates me. Thank you for this reminder that it is okay

  • @boxofsoapia
    @boxofsoapia 2 года назад +3

    steph listening to you discuss your future was really comforting to me. Lots of people feel the same way so just know that you are not alone. Wishing you the best of luck!!! You can do this

  • @shayanijones
    @shayanijones 2 года назад +5

    I love that we can all hang out watching Steph’s videos whilst doing mundane tasks. I was just watching this and cleaning my room, feeling less alone :)

  • @mia3343
    @mia3343 2 года назад +23

    These types of videos are my favs!! they're so comforting to me tysm steph

  • @v.eronica
    @v.eronica 2 года назад +7

    I've missed your vlogs like this so much, as someone who lives a very boring life at home, these videos are so so comforting (especially when I'm feeling lonely), so thank you for making them💗💗
    also to answer your questions: yes I also get super anxious over important things and procrastinate doing them/ thinking about them until the last minute, it's actually the worst thing ever and is a part of why I recently decided to take a break from doing school because I'd always do that with assignments, causing my grades to majorly suffer🙂
    also since I get very anxious all the time I have a lot of fears, but the main ones are driving, also getting kidnapped, heights, being in very deep water too, and failing at life basically (like never being truly happy with my life, never having stability, always having a job I hate, being in an awful relationship, etc.)

  • @Chloecrs
    @Chloecrs 2 года назад +2

    steph this type of videos is so comforting and really helps us going through lonely times so thanks a lot for that

  • @xQueenOfDarknessX
    @xQueenOfDarknessX 2 года назад +9

    Thank you for making this. It is so refreshing to see a RUclipsr show their everyday life and hear your worries about the future, and even your fears of getting older, etc. I could relate to everything.

  • @heyhimichelle
    @heyhimichelle 2 года назад +11

    I love these vlogs, they make me feel okay with myself and my repetitive days ❤ they're so comforting.

  • @armyst_0797
    @armyst_0797 2 года назад

    My comfort yt channel 💖and my comfort personnnn🦋✨🥺😭❤❤❤❤🫂

  • @laceyb7074
    @laceyb7074 2 года назад

    Always post I love just watching your routines. I moved to a new city for college and it is so isolating sometimes and I just don’t have any energy to make new friends. I have moved over 16 times in my life and I know I have more moves in the future. I hate moving and I don’t feel at home anywhere. I hope I do one day. Please keep making videos it always reminds me people struggle with the same things and I’m not the only one.

  • @user-kc8eb3kl2s
    @user-kc8eb3kl2s 2 года назад

    fr i love your vlogs sm maybe even more than book recs (which are still amazing but I'm trying to get out of a reading slump so I have a lot of books waiting tbr)

  • @9i4nna
    @9i4nna 2 года назад +1

    i needed this reminder that it’s okay to be alone and spend time with yourself:,) i’ve been feeling really sad lately and this just made my day ily steph

  • @tiyakaraouni7355
    @tiyakaraouni7355 2 года назад +2

    these are literally my comfort vlogs. love you steph

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites 2 года назад +1

    Hi, I always journal in the morning every day and try to read if I can :) try to go for more walks as well. Thanks for the video!

  • @juhibarai2169
    @juhibarai2169 2 года назад

    off topic but your hair looks so pretty!! haircare routine?? maybe like a self care vlog? love you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @zoe-hd1si
    @zoe-hd1si 2 года назад

    never ever stop posting these vids they literally are the best comfort

  • @ivanafayzieva2535
    @ivanafayzieva2535 2 года назад +1

    Amazing vlog! Thank you so so much. It was so warm, relaxing and comforting for some reason. We do really enjoy your daily vlogs Steph and appreciate the recent consistence of posting 😊

  • @nicol_6957
    @nicol_6957 2 года назад +1

    steph you don't even know how much better your videos make my day, especially the vlogs, I think I love watching them more than you love making them

  • @amandanovoa8768
    @amandanovoa8768 Год назад

    this brings me sm comfort including all ur videos ( im glad im finally getting the chance to watch the ones ive missed)

  • @cindy80srings
    @cindy80srings 2 года назад +9

    steph you have no idea how comforting your videos are to me

  • @aurelie6577
    @aurelie6577 2 года назад +1

    Watching this video just gave me so much comfort. This is the first vlog I watched of urs and instantly fell in love with u. I already loved ur book videos and just found more videos to relax to.

  • @goldrushs
    @goldrushs 2 года назад

    ur extremely real for this video. love ya steph, ur soul is so pure and beautiful

  • @VianncawithaV
    @VianncawithaV 2 года назад +1

    Omg I also saw Avatar alone, I loved it so much I was gonna do it again but got lazy 😂

  • @lisaslobodianski8223
    @lisaslobodianski8223 2 года назад

    Omg the way I have literally the same fears wthhh like every single one i could relate 🥺😭💓 love your vlogs btw sooo so much, such a comfort to me

  • @via1598
    @via1598 2 года назад +1

    these r my favorite vlogs cause it's a reminder that being alone is important.. love you

  • @angieannerose
    @angieannerose 2 года назад

    ok steph bc ur alone vlogs r my favvv!! ily bae keep up the good work 🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @jasminei
    @jasminei 2 года назад

    I LOVE AVATAR SO MUCH OMG STEPH I'VE WATCHED IT 3 TIMES AND IT STILL MAKES ME CRY EVERY TIME.

  • @kaitlynthomas8448
    @kaitlynthomas8448 2 года назад +2

    You’re my hands down, 100%, forever and always my comfort watch. I love you so much, steph. The vlogs!! This was just so special and amazing. Such a simple video yet I am thinking of it hours later. You make every day you upload (and rewatch on the days you don’t) better for me. Thank you for being the safest place. Another banger of a video!!! 🥰🤍

  • @r.t.laurila
    @r.t.laurila 2 года назад

    Where is the zip up from at 19:00? Ur videos always calm me down. Something about just doing ur little tasks is so comforting

  • @elenniimiraa8232
    @elenniimiraa8232 2 года назад

    i LOVE your vlogs

  • @femsfables
    @femsfables 2 года назад +1

    these vlogs are absolutely perfect! you are just so comforting to watch

  • @06charlotte
    @06charlotte 2 года назад +1

    oh my god steph im so glad to know that im not only one who is scared of being chased. i used to have recurring nightmares that someone was running after me

  • @kaatherineco
    @kaatherineco 2 года назад

    i swear we’re the same exact person it’s crazy hahahahah i find so much comfort in ur channel

  • @camilla9196
    @camilla9196 2 года назад +2

    Ok personally your blogs are my favorite content that you make! Even if you feel like they are boring i eat it up every time

  • @shegogreen
    @shegogreen 2 года назад

    these kinds of vlogs bring me so much comfort. thank you

  • @m4nini
    @m4nini 2 года назад

    this might just be my fav vid of urs after the italy vlogg

  • @brooklynburns1381
    @brooklynburns1381 2 года назад +2

    you posted this at absolutely perfect timing! My school just got cancelled for three days, so now I can add this vid into my “eat, sleep, watch Friends, repeat” cycle 😄 PS if u decided to become a full time vlogger i wouldn’t complain bc im obsessed with them lol

  • @Andrea-ik6bf
    @Andrea-ik6bf 2 года назад +1

    why was this literally the most peaceful thing I've seen in my entire life

  • @lounaguez5279
    @lounaguez5279 2 года назад

    I love your vlogs so much, knowing you enjoy this probably what makesyour vlogs fun to watch, I really wish you will follow up on that thought and vlog as often as you want

  • @ritaoliveira1365
    @ritaoliveira1365 2 года назад

    i just love watching your videos while i do my daily routine, it brings me so much comfort and reminds me how being alone isn’t necessarily bad

  • @ilanakroner1226
    @ilanakroner1226 2 года назад +1

    these are my fav types of videos 🤍. love u steph!!

  • @alanag04
    @alanag04 2 года назад +1

    my favorite type of videos fr!!! i love uuu

  • @abbysmith4176
    @abbysmith4176 2 года назад +1

    i just started watching your channel this week and i’m obsessed!! you genuinely seem so lovely, i love your videos can’t wait for your summer vlogs and more book recs 🫶

  • @m4nini
    @m4nini 2 года назад

    my daily routines r drinking a cup of lemon tea in the evenings n reading before bed!

  • @sidneykaelin
    @sidneykaelin 2 года назад +2

    I’m literally terrified of suffocation. Like an avalanche of snow falling on me?? It’s so impractical but the thought of it makes my heart race

  • @05spring
    @05spring 2 года назад +2

    these are my favourite videos u do! i could watch hours of them 🫶

  • @nalaitela6703
    @nalaitela6703 2 года назад +2

    The vlogs are honestly my favorite type of your content

  • @islanancyPA
    @islanancyPA 2 года назад

    everybody loves your vlogs there so comforting i would definitely love to see more!💗💞

  • @mellrobert3811
    @mellrobert3811 2 года назад +1

    I discovered your channel a few days ago and I've been OBSESSED with your vlogs so I'm so happy you posted one! 💕

  • @giannatrip9080
    @giannatrip9080 2 года назад

    steph!! i love your vlogs and i love that you love making vlogs, ive tried watching other vloggers but they never are as good as yours

  • @bellamaclusky
    @bellamaclusky 2 года назад

    i love love love your vlogs pls keep posting them, genuinely prefer them to any other content u do

  • @beatrizzneves
    @beatrizzneves 2 года назад

    Please continue to do vlogssss! It is my high point in the week ( yes i know today is tuesday), but i just love this type of content. I hope you continue doing this!!

  • @aafraraisa
    @aafraraisa 2 года назад

    LOVE WATCHING YOUR VLOGS🤍💗🫶🏻✨

  • @idgiveyouthemoon
    @idgiveyouthemoon 2 года назад

    steph i adore your videos. ive been struggling so much with being alone recently and your videos are so comforting to me so thank you

  • @paigemarie5586
    @paigemarie5586 2 года назад

    she’s looks so much like Stephanie Seymour ⭐️⭐️ I love this so much

  • @arielmarie8493
    @arielmarie8493 2 года назад +4

    Your vlogs always make me feel better 🤗

  • @Malak11.11
    @Malak11.11 2 года назад

    Your vlogs give me positive energy like you wouldn’t know .. I literally look forward to them ♥️

  • @asiavxv
    @asiavxv 2 года назад

    girl i love avatar too the first and second one are truly amazing!!

  • @graziellanshimiyimana2874
    @graziellanshimiyimana2874 2 года назад +1

    Steph, ur vlogs are literally the best thing ever

  • @isabellarayball7412
    @isabellarayball7412 2 года назад

    This was exactly what I needed ❤️. I was also wondering what college you go go

  • @lizrosas1327
    @lizrosas1327 2 года назад

    The amount of times I’ve rewatched ur past vlogs🤞🏼def most moreee

  • @sashabowerbank5445
    @sashabowerbank5445 Год назад

    London, Uk. On a day out here i would take you to Camden to see the Harry merch stalls. Grab some food from the market and then go to hampstead heath Park and have a picnic in the sunshine while we read and blast taylor music with iced lattes and people watch making up stories about them. Watch the sunset listening to fine line before we go home. Bonus points if we randomly bump into Harry on a walk while we were there 😂

  • @AnnaSophie-ss6vz
    @AnnaSophie-ss6vz 2 года назад

    i‘m the same!! putting off important things that i should do, like why is it so hard to answer a text message when it‘ll only take u a few seconds??

  • @indi2544
    @indi2544 2 года назад

    hey girl, ive been feeling super lonely the last couple days and ur keeping me company right now so thank u. parasocial friendships > real ones

  • @leahfornoff2454
    @leahfornoff2454 2 года назад

    Your vlogs are the reason I am alive rn. I truly live for them.

  • @jordyn.renee.w
    @jordyn.renee.w 2 года назад +2

    I soooo needed this ❤ I just came down with COVID and have been alone as well. Making matcha at the beginning of the vlog encouraged me to eat since I’ve had no appetite :)

  • @noa8160
    @noa8160 2 года назад +4

    ARE WE NOT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE BURNT COOKIES!?!?!?! LOL

  • @3st3rr
    @3st3rr 2 года назад

    Your vlogs make me so happy! Pls keep doing them!

  • @Maty7041
    @Maty7041 2 года назад

    Please please do more vlogs 🥺 I will create a tiktok account ( I don't have one yet ahaha) just so I can comment and ask for more vlogs, if necessary 🤗 your vlogs are a boost of good vibes and love. It just feels like we are besties having a chat and hanging out. Thank you Steph ❤

  • @darlingswiftie
    @darlingswiftie 2 года назад

    Not me binging your videos because I was down and then you post omg best day ever ily Steph 💗

  • @victoriaam.1039
    @victoriaam.1039 2 года назад +1

    Just what I needed this week omg!!! Please post more vlogs, they literally bring happiness to my day!!

  • @lauragremme8187
    @lauragremme8187 2 года назад

    this vlog is really great i really enjoyed watching it and the movie you mentioned in the vlog are really great i am a harry potter fan myself🤍⚡

  • @giulibenitez5158
    @giulibenitez5158 2 года назад +1

    I love these kind of vlogs, please we need more!!

  • @niki.mouse_clubhouse
    @niki.mouse_clubhouse 2 года назад

    babe how do u have the most perfect videos for specific times in my life

  • @annabellehilder
    @annabellehilder 2 года назад +1

    YES I HAVE BEEN WAITING ALL WEEKEND FOR U TO POST

  • @MaisieEllenCarroll
    @MaisieEllenCarroll 2 года назад

    i needed this reminder! your videos are beyond comforting and a safe space always

  • @litsiegs
    @litsiegs Год назад

    I’m cleaning my bathroom watching this!

  • @lesleyxesty7332
    @lesleyxesty7332 2 года назад

    was just watching your old vlogs steph ❤ we love the vlogssss

  • @ellafloral245
    @ellafloral245 2 года назад

    i come home and steph posts 30 minutes before?? this day just became amazing. love you steph

  • @irammahmood9083
    @irammahmood9083 2 года назад

    Hi Steph...I am completely, totally and absoloutely NOT your target audience, but I love watching your videos...i'm in my 30's and mum of 2 south asian, living in UK, but really enjoy watching your videos. I enjoy the fact that you like your own company as much as your friends' and I wish I didn't feel guilty for wanting that when I was your age...look forward to more videos from u xxx

  • @Lisa-ni2tg
    @Lisa-ni2tg 2 года назад

    please never stop those vlogs

  • @kaaaaaaaaadi
    @kaaaaaaaaadi 2 года назад

    thank you so so much for talking about doing things alone

    • @kaaaaaaaaadi
      @kaaaaaaaaadi 2 года назад

      I'd love if you did even more reading updates in your vlogs :)

  • @triniidadcastro
    @triniidadcastro 2 года назад +2

    I really love this kinda videos of you

  • @itsbeamilas
    @itsbeamilas 2 года назад

    your vlogs are so ❤️‍🩹, you radiate so much comfort. i love you

  • @maryloupinn
    @maryloupinn 2 года назад +1

    these vlogs are my favourite videos ever. you made my day