the 20 things I wish I knew in my 20’s.
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- Опубликовано: 17 янв 2025
- thank to hinge for sponsoring today's video! check it out here: hin.ge/elenataber #hingepartner :) There's been so much growth over the years and I wanted to talk about 27ish things I've learned in the last 27 years...so here's some advice for you 20's your didn't ask for but I think you need to hear. What do you wish you knew in your 20’s?
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I'm 41, but I have never stopped feeling like 20. I wish you the same, Lena! My life has been very lonely, but I've never been miserable, always seeing the light ahead.
Another failed attempt to legitimize her childless, lonely depressive life as a modern woman.
Well, this is why we have cats for.
i used to watch you in high school and am revisiting as a 23 year old, i remember watching you at that age. still love you & appreciate this ❤
"sit with your uncomfortable feelings" resonated with me a lot, especially since turning 25 and realizing a lot of the things from my childhood still linger in how I interact with the world till this day. I used to think that with time, things heal naturally but I've come to understand it takes more active work which is why I'm making it a priority in the next year to seek therapy and put more effort into dealing with uncomfortable feelings.
Lonely, and depressed modern woman in Paris.
1) stay curious
2)you can’t control how people might perceive you
3) redefine success
4)body is temple
5)it’s okay to not do it alone
6) dating is self discovery
7)more reading
8)tune in more (be present atm)
9) don’t rush
10)seek friendship that uplifts you
11) you are yet to meet so many cool people
12) more reading
13)call your parents
14) be selfish with your time
15) choose your battle wisely
16) go at your own pace
17) it’s okay to feel lost
18) take accountability/ responsibility
19)trust your gut / feel the fear / process it don’t bottle things up
20) quality >>> quantity ( high quality; longetivity )
21) indulge yourself in luxury
22) be bold ( take risk)
23)treasure you desire to know you
24) don’t settle for less
Classic childless, depressed and lonely modern woman.
I bet she gona make a video about her cats back in US soon.
@@desmomotodesmomoto2033you are just soo bitter fr
@@desmomotodesmomoto2033 lmfaoooo "my life is so miserable i go online and see women doing well in their lives and leave a bitter comment projecting my fears and shortcomings" ass comment
I first used a dating app on a trip to Paris when I was 27, with the romantic notion that I'd meet my life partner travelling (like how my parents met in Tbilisi). Instead, I ended up meeting him on a dating app at home in Canada, at age 31, during the pandemic! While I wouldn't change a thing, I'd say people in their 20s should live with intention, but with an openness to the right things taking time. Like you said, without rushing life along! 💛
I listed these in a word document, printed it out and put on my wall (for real). Some of these advices are really good, I have learned many of them on my own but it is hard to not forget and stick to it sometimes😅
I’m 42 and can still relate to all of these so much. For anyone who thinks they will have it all figured out just know that you won’t. Lol and thats not a bad thing! We just continue to learn and grow and even as you age deep down you will still feel like you’re 20 and figuring it out. But I will say 40’s are amazing. I love your page so much and you are such an old soul. Wise words, thank you for sharing!
I reality felt like your were reading my mind! You are a very special human being Elena. You make me bolder ❤️
Hey can you give me your Instagram and whatapp number because I want to chat you beautiful girl
She is the next cat woman.
Childless and depress. Typical victim of modernism. Enjoy your cats.
Redefining "success" is a life essential. The minute you started making coffee at the beginning of the video, I knew you meant business ☕
Gotta tell ya, I’m 54. This is good advice for ANY age. I’m so impressed that you have already gained this much clarity. Well done. And happy birthday 🎉
Right ! I felt the same way listening
She should go get a cat just like the rest of lonely, depressed and childless modern woman.
I turned 20 just a few months ago, so this video has come at the perfect time ❤ Thank you Elena! I've definitely been going through a lot of emotions about what being in my 20s means and how I should live my life now. This video definitely made me feel better.
another failed modern woman. Childless, lonely and depressed, with a cup of liquid drug.
Enjoy your cats.,
Currently 25 and trying to work on lesson #3 (redefining success) -- This was actually a lovely video with amazing advice. Thank you, Elena !!
10. Seek friendship that uplifts you.
As a 21 year old freshly out of uni and unemployed it’s been so hard. I struggled through uni with depression, managed to get a first but have found it really difficult to job search and keep going. Cant even find a single job that would take me and it’s draining and so exhausting
it’ll get better! ❤ keep going
ya, exhausting. remind you here, keep up with your personal oral cares ❤ makes eating my favorite snackies more aumazing when i keep up with oralcares❤
Advice №27. While you are young, don't be afraid to take risks. You gave the good advice!
Yes take chances while you have less responsibility.
Love this video!! We’re in the same season of life so it’s amazing to be able to go through the things together.
P.s your eyes look incredible in this
So much love from Vancouver ❤
Elena, I’m loving your chatty videos! 😍 Also, I have to say, you’re absolutely glowing-Paris clearly suits you so well. Sending loads of holiday vibes your way! 🎄🎅
Thank you for this video! I turned 20 in January so I’ll complete my first year of my twenties soon and I honestly struggled so much this year. I finished my bachelors in July and moved overseas and am now working and having to do stuff on my own without my friends and family close by and also no partner has been tough. But it was so good to hear everything you said and just reminding myself that life keeps going and eventually all these things I’m currently worrying about, will lie in the past :)
We have cats for narcs like her. Enjoy your lonely depressed, childless life.
This video should be watched and re-watched. You get out of it feeling hopeful and at peace. Thanks Elena :)
Are you a lonely, childless and depressed modern woman?
Get a cat to cope. Anothetr victim of modernism.
I think you are living the right way in your 20s. And I'm confident that you will continue it. Just think. You will have to go through 12 more Halloweens just until you are 40, and you will still be very young!
This is what, I wana be a independent as a modern woman looks like.
Childless, lonely and depressed. Enjoy your cats.
loved it so much, i´m turning 20 in a few weeks and it felt like a big sister advice to watch this video, thank you!
this was beautiful and a great reminder of things I already learned for myself and things I want to think about more. I think I'm gonna watch this again. thanks elena! ❤
Beautiful cope for a childless, lonely and depressed modern woman. Get a cat.
Elena, you are the best! Also, you are so so so gorgeous!
I adore your channel, thank you for sitting down.. felt like I was listening to a big sister. lots of love and a happy 2025!!
Elena so happy to hear as it has made many things clear to me and thank you for sharing 🌹 Wish you happy holidays 🤗
Clear that she is a childless, lonely and depressed woman in Paris.
You and I are on the same path, continents apart. I’m turning 28 soon. Left my corporate law job in a city I loved, streets bustling always something to do. I have no clue where I’m headed. Not applying for jobs anymore. Travelled to Spain and Portugal. Will to Indonesia and Australia soon. Am single since the last 2.5 years and haven’t been dating intentionally. Mostly because I didn’t know where I wanted my roots to be or what I wanted to “become” in life. Lowkey I’d love a long term relationship now. Finally made a list of don’ts and feels so good, it’s progress. Shifted back to my parent’s for a month, shifting to a beach town soon to try out living by a beach finally :) allowing myself to feel everything and experience different lifestyles. I probably sounded crazy to many of my friends and family but so many people tell me how bold I am. More than anything, I don’t care about what anyone thinks anymore as long as I got me. I go through the same pain of living in two different places - loving the hustle of Bombay whilst still not calling it “home” anymore. Miss my friends but I remind myself that I gotta give in to my gut telling me to explore and run free for some time atleast! This video is so well thought out, kudos to you and I hope to meet you somewhere across the world :) Love, Saumya
I love how you used the word 'shifting' - it makes it feel like a gentle transformation, change, a curiosity, rather than like any feelings of shame or embarrassment about living back at your family home. We would love to have you in Australia! I hope your journey is a fruitful and grounding one for you :)
Are you a childless, depressed, and lonely modern woman too?
Get a cat.
@@RaizadaS97 I asked a simple question. What is with all this word salad to accept your depression? How many cats you have?
@@laurakorn4486 aww thank you so much :)
Hey Elena,
As an owner of the same coffee machine, one recommendation - get a proper, metal, tamper. It really makes a difference. :)
Cheers!
Why you drink a liquid drug?
Are a depressed, and childless person in Paris? Get a cat like the rest.
Then elena for sharing your life experiences so honestly, you are very inspirational and speak words of wisdom ❤
Have a happy new year Elena Taber
I agree with you 100%, Elena!!!!! I wish I would have had a video like this instead of learning the hard way. I really have nothing else to add.
Like that you got straight to the point! And also thumbs up for the vulnerability! :)
Superbe vidéo comme d'habitude :). We search and search for fulfillment and answers in a world where we will never find what we need until we look within and realize we've had everything inside us all along. Living from this perspective, in the present moment, makes life magical no matter where you go or what you do.
Wise young woman,,,,there are insights and lessons for all ages. Thank You...many good reminders.❤🙏
You deserve to share your life with someone who makes every day feel like a celebration; maybe it's time to find that 'forever person'."❤❤
Yeah, sharing her depression and a lonely childless woman. Enjoy your cats.
Aw I turn 28 tomorrow and I think my list would be very similar to this ! Going to treat myself to making a list like this for myself tomorrow - thank you so much for this lovely video ❤
Wow such good advice, they reflect your amazing character and development through your twenties! My thoughts throughout the video: who ever ends up with elena must be the a lucky man! (Thats me saying as a straight woman lol) and I believe you are not religious but I still wanted to share this quote I love: your soulmates name has already been written next to yours by (who ever/ what ever you belive in), so I just think we have to be patient and know deep down that the right one will cross our path in the right time
Basically she is a depressed, lonely and childless woman.
Get a good man and have children, or cope for the rest of your life in depression like her.
Just what i needed
5 and 19 are the hardest for me, but I thankful I learned the others around 22
This was such a nice video. It also gave me some New inspiration for my goals in 2025. thank you ❤
Hi elena 💓 I'm 38. But now I'm become more calm person. I don't care people 🤷 who judge me. I'm very focused and caring nature person. Love ❤️ you dear.
Are a depressed, childless and a lonely modern woman?
How many cats you have. Not to care is a good cope.
twenty-one forever!!!
I truly love watching your videos they are amazing and inspiring just like you are ❤😊
always interesting advice and tips from your vlogs. Very interesting always!
Ur style is so different here🤍🤍🤍🥹 very interesting
okay but julia fox's memoir was one of the most fascinating and entertaining reads ever
Good cope for childless and depressed.
oooh is this Nathaniel's apartment? So cute thank youu for the lovely advice
Hey! Will you do a tour of your favorite book stores in Paris please? 🥰
Thank you for sharing Elena! ❣
I feel like so many girls don't know the secrets they deserve to know. I found this book,' The Irresistible Seduction Formula' by Olivia Simmons and it’s literally life changer. Has anyone else heard of it?
Keep reading, to cope with your childless, lonely and depressive life.
Get a cat and call it a life. A victim of modernism.
enjoyed this so much
Wise lessons from a life well lived ✨️ Trying to also live the best twenties I can 😊
Loved this ❤
omg you’re soooo gorgeous!!!
love your energy ❤❤❤❤
Wait until you’re 60! Your reflections become even more important.
Turning 20 in less than a month thank you!
i sruggle to brush things off easily as someone who is raised in a perfectionist household etc and now is very hard on herself, and stuggles with the battles in her mind. I find it hard not to be so reactive and angry all the time, and i don´t know how to stop it i used to be so happy and playful when i was younger. i just wish people could love me the way i am now, i wish i could love me the way i am now even when i am reactive and angry but i don´t know how
I love you and I love your content. If you ever wrote a book, I’d be the first to pick it up :)
Loved this video!! Good thoughts
I’d love to hear what you wish you knew in your 20’s!
Excellent. You have everything going for you.
More power to you in 2025! 🙂
Where is your shirt from? So pretty!!
Have A Magical Holiday Elena and I am always always waiting for your new Vlogs and I am always looking forward to your vlogs May God Bless You Always Always sending you lots of love to you 💫🥹💗
All these things still ring true for me and I’m 8 years older than you
You are beautiful !! I'm so happy for you that you're in Paris!
I wish I knew at 20 that at 40 I would be so unhappy with my life I would be watching videos about things I wish I knew at 20
Great video
When you make video during travelling any country then make long videos and you are very beautiful
where is your top from i adore it
Nice kitchen and wild hair fringes...
It looks like you've accomplished a great diet, fit as expletive!
Aloha that was a good advice on this video
Howdy Elena. 😊
As the days pass, my feelings for you grow deeper, like a fine wine that matures with time. I can't fully explain it, but each moment with you makes my heart swell with more love and admiration. 💖🍷
This looks like Nathaniel Drew's Paris apartment 🇫🇷
🤍🤍 great video
I like your videos
incredible
What's your ethnicity? Just curious.
I love you
You are a very special very sweet very talented very beautiful God's given gorgeous woman and your all talents and skills are amazing and unique just like you. Your all videos and vlogs are outstanding. Weldone ❤❤💞💞🧡🧡🧡👌👍You are one in a million and the best among all the best May God bless you with the best May God Keep you smiling and healthy always,Stay blessed ❤❤❤😊😊😊🎉🎉
Does anyone know where I can find this top please? It's gorgeous 🥰
Success can only be defined by yourself and what makes you happy. Are you thinking you are happy because other people told you to achieve certain things? Did you want to achieve them? Use that knowledge to game the system but continue to push towards what you want. The old phrase of US capitalism is broken
There's a picture missing 😉
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Did your ancestors ever live in Poland?
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You are very pretty and healthy. Theres a alien white light to you. I think you are going to heaven. Pretty sure.
Thanks, Dua Lipa :)
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Did you mean to say “I recently turned 20” at the start of the video?
Or did you say 28 and I just missed the 8 lol
Why? Aren't you still in your '20's? 😉
28 -> HELL NAH
U look 22 madame.
wow😂
Hate the term “girlboss”. You would never refer to a man as a “boyboss”. Same goes for “woman engineer” or “mum-prenuer”.
Beautiful blue eyes. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year in the LORD year 2025! Rudi.
BUENAS MADRUGADAS, BUENOS DÍAS BUENAS TARDES, BUENAS NOCHES, ME LLAMO MILAN, IMPRESIONANTE BELLÍSIMA MUJER,UNA MUÑECA.
Wait, did I hear it wrong? You said you just turned 20?😮
28
That's what I heard. She really needed that coffee.
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