I'm a #3. Losing my job. Heartwrenching. Addressed this with therapy, hypnosis, and life coaching, but ironically ran out of TIME before I could get a hold of it. Late people DO NOT like being late.
True. I'm late to everything, regardless if I want to be there or not. In fact, I often miss things I've been looking forward too because I'm just too late to make it. I just hate having structure and rigid schedules. It makes me crazy.
I had a former Girlfriend who was chronically late EVERYWHERE! If she said she would be somewhere at 2:00 it would be 4 or 5 if she got there at all. I used to tell her that her actions showed me more about her than anything else, and that if it was something that was really important to her she would be there on time. I look at it now and to me what she was really saying by her chronic lateness was that I wasn't that important to her. Hard lesson for me, but I did say my FORMER girlfriend.
Ah ha..Iv'e been chronically late all my life. My mum was chronically late as well. I feel like a mix of all 3of those :D It was all emotional reasons. It has become better recently though. I realised its quite alright to drop it, drop the identities. Ive got some peaceful space now. :)
This is one of my favorite videos! I have been wrestling with the concepts of it for a week now and am just starting to see how I could fit into these categories, since I do have a chronic lateness problem. At first I didn't see it at all....I really thought it was poor time management...if you are usually late you MUST watch this!
I think I could fit into the attention and narcissistic one as I just didn't care enough but that's because I seen my mum always late and it was ok my dad loved being on time though I dont want to be like my mum anymore
I'm a #3. Losing my job. Heartwrenching. Addressed this with therapy, hypnosis, and life coaching, but ironically ran out of TIME before I could get a hold of it. Late people DO NOT like being late.
True. I'm late to everything, regardless if I want to be there or not. In fact, I often miss things I've been looking forward too because I'm just too late to make it. I just hate having structure and rigid schedules. It makes me crazy.
I had a former Girlfriend who was chronically late EVERYWHERE! If she said she would be somewhere at 2:00 it would be 4 or 5 if she got there at all. I used to tell her that her actions showed me more about her than anything else, and that if it was something that was really important to her she would be there on time. I look at it now and to me what she was really saying by her chronic lateness was that I wasn't that important to her. Hard lesson for me, but I did say my FORMER girlfriend.
Ah ha..Iv'e been chronically late all my life.
My mum was chronically late as well.
I feel like a mix of all 3of those :D
It was all emotional reasons.
It has become better recently though.
I realised its quite alright to drop it, drop the identities.
Ive got some peaceful space now. :)
This is one of my favorite videos! I have been wrestling with the concepts of it for a week now and am just starting to see how I could fit into these categories, since I do have a chronic lateness problem. At first I didn't see it at all....I really thought it was poor time management...if you are usually late you MUST watch this!
What a cool guy.
I think I could fit into the attention and narcissistic one as I just didn't care enough but that's because I seen my mum always late and it was ok my dad loved being on time though I dont want to be like my mum anymore
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Ooo! I'm definitely #1 & #3. Might be #2. Uh oh