With highly ignorant narcs and insecure bullies who failed in life. No harm or hate towards any of them, even if they hate me back (and bluntly ostrichized me/made it very clear that they don't like me/revile me), yet all I ever did was greet them with compassion and a smile. They're SO WEIRD (VERY WICKED).
I hate when the older workers act like children and get mad because the younger ones are more mature. I’m going through that now and it absolutely drains me at times. People be pushing 40 acting like my 11 year old.
You are not lying about this one! Had an older woman call herself telling on me to my supervisor because I got to work “too early”. Like y’all should be glad I’m here at all lol.
Been there experienced that. When I graduated high school nine years ago, my mom said and I quote “ that I will finally be able to interact with people on a more mature level. And because I tend to gravitate towards people who are slightly older than me I clung to that … she came back and apologized to me…
I get hate from older and younger coworkers-when my younger coworker found out that I wrote better progress notes, she started lying about what time I was going to lunch-and started to lie about what work was assigned to me 😢
I've seen this at my current job, especially when its new young ppl starting too. Some of the older ones are unhaply at home & low key insecure afraid the new young ppl will take their lil job sad but true smh
I’ve noticed people try to slick get in your pockets by talking about “payday”, asking about your prior job, trying to find out if you live alone, etc. They will share things about their own finances hoping you will share about yours. They want to see if you complain or if you’re good or even will share the amount. They’ll look at your car, your clothes, and get jealous and make stupid assumptions. Ex. Some people are so wicked and basic they assume if you dress nice you make a lot of money or worse that you spend all your money on clothes. I shop sales and thrift and I have natural style. Women will say things like “You make us look bad”. How is what I put on my body making you look bad?! Women are CRAZY and INSECURE. I’ve had a man make a comment about my car at the time it was new and he had an old car and I could tell he was like how she got a new car and I make more money than her. Like people don’t think…they just get jealous or they think someone who they think is beneath them shouldn’t have nice things. It’s evil wickedness and it’s of the devil. I keep to myself and I know it bothers people but I’m willing to take the risk because if you talk more you get involved socially the easier it is to get caught up in mess. And you find out that alot of people live trash lives and you don’t want to be connected to them anyways.
Deuteronomy 31:6 ~ Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
Thank you for acknowledging that age-based hate is a two-way stream! I am experiencing it on my job and I am taken aback and don't know if I should be tickled/flattered or annoyed, but these young girls are ruthless. What's crazy is at 46, I am old enough to be their mother. I'm slim, dress very nicely, am educated/smart, have a lot going for myself, and have no drama. One would think those characteristics would make me an ideal mentor, which I would love to be, but nope, they'd rather be nasty little witches. I firmly believe that some of the issue is because I am black with these qualities. People hate seeing black women w/peace and winning...smh.
@@Yaya-cl3tu True they don’t like to see normal put together black women they’d rather you be ratchet and hood. They’re more comfortable with the stereotypes than the real thing.
Dont even tell mfers when you leaving the company or transfer. I sensed some weirdo vibes and walked out that bih they thinking imma be there next week 😂. Get ready to be shortstaffed and find somebody new to hate on lmao. on to more money and better days
It's important to keep to yourself around narcissists but you can loosen up and be yourself around cool people. When you study narcissism they become real transparent and you see what's really happening
It was mostly the females who were 30 and up at my last job low-key who use to downplay the fact because I was 27 at the time (currently 28) and that I looked way much younger/youthful than them, can pass to be 22-24 full of energy, and had fun while on the job. But had grown man knowledge, wisdom, intelligence, experience, and raised on certain code of ethics and boundaries that they couldn't test. Plus I have a silly, mysterious, and confusing aurora about me that they couldn't figure out 😁😁😁
But younger coworkers get hella jealous when they realize that you do not envy them-I have a younger coworker that talks to me on every day except casual Fridays-when she can barely even look my way-and gets mad when people give me compliments about my fits 😮
sorry but you are way too close to 30 yourself to be serious "competition" for people who think this way. your age obsession actually shows up in this comment. scared for the next couple years?
Very common in the infantry of the US Army , I got no kids , no wife , and I’m on my way out of this job and they can’t stand the fact they gotta stay cause their contract ain’t over yet .
21:06 You are wise! Yes, the spirit of jealousy is real, so is the spirit of oppression. Satan is a hater and accuser. Always looking for who he can use to attack the people of God.
Keeping this one bookmarked!!! I swear that part about people mad you keep to yourself...biggest lesson I've learned about corporate America- high school after highschool. If you get alot of hate at work, find a company mostly made up of attractive "cool kids," if that was your vibe when you were in school.
I have never been the type. to accuse someone of being jealous of me because I try to always be down to earth and approachable so when I receive that reaction from men and women alike, im stunned and confused…..
I ain’t gon lie, I battle with low self-esteem, anxiety and depression… I would come to work with a attitude, but stayed to myself and still got a lot of attention and hated on smdh
I could not stand a coworker but if somebody at work gas lights and start talking about this person i cant stand i will say something very positive 😂 about the oersin i cant stand and this is why i think im not liked at work ❤😂
I had one where i was new on the job. Graduated University, i couldnt find the job i wanted so did some restaurant/bar work and one of the girls in particular liked me but i wasnt feeling because like i said i didnt even want to be there. She was cool though however another colleague wasnt and it turned out that this colleague liked the girl that liked me and he mad that im the new guy getting attention from her. 😂😂😂
Yup same thing happened to me! Really pretty girl that everyone at work wanted was into me. Can tell she loved attention from all the other guy co workers but honestly I wasn't feeling her. 2 weeks in most the my male co workers were spreading false rumors about me that I'm weird and shitt. Then the girl starts telling everyone I'm gay because I wasn't into her. Like god dam bro lol
Yep, indeed. I have heard rumors, I live with someone else when i live alone and they even slander my name and another coworker that we were sleeping together because we were cool. It’s always lies or something bad about me that’s not true.
I don’t know if this is a generation thing. Especially with Gen X. Im young (Gen Z) I have done worked 3 different jobs in the past 2 years where I’ve been done dirty by the older folks. Probably because they known as the latchkey kids they didn’t get no discipline in their lives so they feel like they above the youth so they treat us like animals because some of us had good upbringing. But in my life most of the people who done me dirty were Gen Xers. Not to throw an entire generation under the bus but off my personal experiences this is what I been thru. Especially with the women (40s and up) acting like they still in high school. One even tried to falsify evidence to have me thrown in jail all cuz I called her out on something personal she said. She blew up at me and tried to have me locked up. Then laugh at my face cuz I showed fear. Now I know not to get involved in anything no matter what cuz people who try an act like they nice and all turn out to be hackstabbers especially early 40s to middle aged women. It’s disgusting. 🤮
I hate to say but you are RIGHT! I'm a Gen Xer in a new job and ALL my stress and drama come from the 45+ mean girl middle age gang. All the young ladies from Gen Z are the mature respectful co workers. Baffling and infuriating!!
@@marciaanderson2298 Right and it's embarrassing. The company I worked for, my supervisor was a young 18 y/o boy fresh out of HS. He was actually more mature than the older adults working there. The 50 y/o lady would gaslight me, take stuff from me, give me the empty spray bottles and the filthiest rags and take the clean ones from me leaving me to do a shit job so she can get the praise and get me in trouble. Straight up childish shit. The audacity to project that I was acting like her granddaughter throwing a tantrum is something I will never forget. While she was raising her voice crying about me to my supervisor. In fact I should have recorded the interaction as I sat there quietly as she was unleashing on him complaining about me being lazy and a whole list of lies she made up against me. Mind you I only went to do just my job. Im already a quiet person I don't talk to anyone I have no need to. I don't like drama. But this woman would not stop her nonsense to get me fired. Its obvious she hated me with her guts and she'd brag about taking her husband's paychecks and snarl at me when I call her out on it saying she's married she can do whatever TF she wants to him. Shit like that.
Ohh yea I deal with the intelligence part I have people of other races who are shocked that I’m well spoken I know about things and I know how to make money … I’m sorry I don’t fit your narrative
@jenniferb3052 thanks for your comments. But I do have internal demons I fight with. I'm not perfect. Very intelligent ppl always have a dark side unfortunately
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HEAVY on the being attractive, keeping to yourself, and REJECTION! Weird ass coworkers HATE THAT!
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Nah it’s a trap, the set up!
The workplace is a cesspool of wickedness.
With highly ignorant narcs and insecure bullies who failed in life. No harm or hate towards any of them, even if they hate me back (and bluntly ostrichized me/made it very clear that they don't like me/revile me), yet all I ever did was greet them with compassion and a smile. They're SO WEIRD (VERY WICKED).
For real!
I hate when the older workers act like children and get mad because the younger ones are more mature. I’m going through that now and it absolutely drains me at times. People be pushing 40 acting like my 11 year old.
You are not lying about this one! Had an older woman call herself telling on me to my supervisor because I got to work “too early”. Like y’all should be glad I’m here at all lol.
@@subtlebeauty6375 🤣🤣🤣 not too early. That’s a true hater!!
Been there experienced that. When I graduated high school nine years ago, my mom said and I quote “ that I will finally be able to interact with people on a more mature level. And because I tend to gravitate towards people who are slightly older than me I clung to that … she came back and apologized to me…
I get hate from older and younger coworkers-when my younger coworker found out that I wrote better progress notes, she started lying about what time I was going to lunch-and started to lie about what work was assigned to me 😢
@@mandywindwalker6207 lol it’s something about the notes that trigger people. I write them as well and people get mad cause I get them done on time. 🤣
This brotha is bilingual. He speaks English and truth!
😂😂😂😂
People def dont like seeing people wity good attitude and level headed. They want someone to commiserate with
I love people at work with a good attitude, it cancels out my bad attitude most of the time.
"females using dudes for work attention" THIS!!! 💯💯💯💯
those work gangs are serious man, currently dealing with this situation right now smh.
Who knew they were gang banging at work🤷🏾 People used to be friends at work but social media changed that forever.
This is what’s happening to me right now… but it’s about three people … but I’m letting GOD handle them and I’m staying in peace …just subscribe
I've seen this at my current job, especially when its new young ppl starting too. Some of the older ones are unhaply at home & low key insecure afraid the new young ppl will take their lil job sad but true smh
Thisss
I’ve noticed people try to slick get in your pockets by talking about “payday”, asking about your prior job, trying to find out if you live alone, etc. They will share things about their own finances hoping you will share about yours. They want to see if you complain or if you’re good or even will share the amount. They’ll look at your car, your clothes, and get jealous and make stupid assumptions. Ex. Some people are so wicked and basic they assume if you dress nice you make a lot of money or worse that you spend all your money on clothes. I shop sales and thrift and I have natural style. Women will say things like “You make us look bad”. How is what I put on my body making you look bad?! Women are CRAZY and INSECURE. I’ve had a man make a comment about my car at the time it was new and he had an old car and I could tell he was like how she got a new car and I make more money than her. Like people don’t think…they just get jealous or they think someone who they think is beneath them shouldn’t have nice things. It’s evil wickedness and it’s of the devil. I keep to myself and I know it bothers people but I’m willing to take the risk because if you talk more you get involved socially the easier it is to get caught up in mess. And you find out that alot of people live trash lives and you don’t want to be connected to them anyways.
Absolutely!!! 💯
Heavy on the CRAZY and INSECURE 😮
Deuteronomy 31:6 ~ Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
Amen❤ In Jesus Name, Praise The Lord🌺💐💯🙏🏼🙏🏼
THIS! 👏👏👏👏👏👏🤜🤛❤️👍
Amen.
Yea, bro, coworkers are just that, your coworkers and nothing more.
Thank you for acknowledging that age-based hate is a two-way stream! I am experiencing it on my job and I am taken aback and don't know if I should be tickled/flattered or annoyed, but these young girls are ruthless. What's crazy is at 46, I am old enough to be their mother. I'm slim, dress very nicely, am educated/smart, have a lot going for myself, and have no drama. One would think those characteristics would make me an ideal mentor, which I would love to be, but nope, they'd rather be nasty little witches. I firmly believe that some of the issue is because I am black with these qualities. People hate seeing black women w/peace and winning...smh.
@@Yaya-cl3tu True they don’t like to see normal put together black women they’d rather you be ratchet and hood. They’re more comfortable with the stereotypes than the real thing.
🎯🎯🎯🎯
Dont even tell mfers when you leaving the company or transfer. I sensed some weirdo vibes and walked out that bih they thinking imma be there next week 😂. Get ready to be shortstaffed and find somebody new to hate on lmao. on to more money and better days
It's important to keep to yourself around narcissists but you can loosen up and be yourself around cool people. When you study narcissism they become real transparent and you see what's really happening
It was mostly the females who were 30 and up at my last job low-key who use to downplay the fact because I was 27 at the time (currently 28) and that I looked way much younger/youthful than them, can pass to be 22-24 full of energy, and had fun while on the job. But had grown man knowledge, wisdom, intelligence, experience, and raised on certain code of ethics and boundaries that they couldn't test. Plus I have a silly, mysterious, and confusing aurora about me that they couldn't figure out 😁😁😁
But younger coworkers get hella jealous when they realize that you do not envy them-I have a younger coworker that talks to me on every day except casual Fridays-when she can barely even look my way-and gets mad when people give me compliments about my fits 😮
This comment, lol I knew it was this with me but the people are Caribbean and Jamaican, being a Jamaican man , I choose to not engage. Weird people
sorry but you are way too close to 30 yourself to be serious "competition" for people who think this way. your age obsession actually shows up in this comment. scared for the next couple years?
@dojacow7235 You just wanna troll. Your opinion is your opinion. NEXT!
Very common in the infantry of the US Army , I got no kids , no wife , and I’m on my way out of this job and they can’t stand the fact they gotta stay cause their contract ain’t over yet .
21:06 You are wise! Yes, the spirit of jealousy is real, so is the spirit of oppression. Satan is a hater and accuser. Always looking for who he can use to attack the people of God.
Keeping this one bookmarked!!! I swear that part about people mad you keep to yourself...biggest lesson I've learned about corporate America- high school after highschool. If you get alot of hate at work, find a company mostly made up of attractive "cool kids," if that was your vibe when you were in school.
I have never been the type. to accuse someone of being jealous of me because I try to always be down to earth and approachable so when I receive that reaction from men and women alike, im stunned and confused…..
That’s the point, confusing people is there only game plan. Hoping to make you feel like they do less than.
The Wild Wild Wilderness of "Work" 💥
I ain’t gon lie, I battle with low self-esteem, anxiety and depression… I would come to work with a attitude, but stayed to myself and still got a lot of attention and hated on smdh
Why it look like you talking to me in the middle of a class while teacher tryna teach 😂 appreciate the msg though 🫶🏼
@@jaxknyx lol
Fantastic video. I've always wondered why some people in my office have acted hot and cold around me over the years. Now I know. :)
You right bro 🎯
You have listed all the reasons I'm going through and has all ways been through with females that are younger and older 😊
Man! You're a true psychic!
💯 my life!
Salute Bro. Nothing but straight facts. I'm definitely agree and I'm living proof of these reasons 💯
I could not stand a coworker but if somebody at work gas lights and start talking about this person i cant stand i will say something very positive 😂 about the oersin i cant stand and this is why i think im not liked at work ❤😂
I had one where i was new on the job. Graduated University, i couldnt find the job i wanted so did some restaurant/bar work and one of the girls in particular liked me but i wasnt feeling because like i said i didnt even want to be there. She was cool though however another colleague wasnt and it turned out that this colleague liked the girl that liked me and he mad that im the new guy getting attention from her. 😂😂😂
Yup same thing happened to me! Really pretty girl that everyone at work wanted was into me. Can tell she loved attention from all the other guy co workers but honestly I wasn't feeling her. 2 weeks in most the my male co workers were spreading false rumors about me that I'm weird and shitt. Then the girl starts telling everyone I'm gay because I wasn't into her. Like god dam bro lol
Big facts bro. I get, "You're so quiet "
Yep, indeed. I have heard rumors, I live with someone else when i live alone and they even slander my name and another coworker that we were sleeping together because we were cool. It’s always lies or something bad about me that’s not true.
This is powerful!!
Its definitely number one lmbo 😂 but nah you stating facts
Thank you for this message. You know 100% all about Haters. You're a Wise Young Man keep doing what you do. You're Appreciated!
Real shit.
You're the first one I hear this from!
All the above except the advances ,
Bro this is so facts so true
Everything you said down to the T bruh is true! Thank you for this. You are wise beyond your years 💪🏾
Good spit brother, sad but true.
Omg! You are on point. Glad I found your channel!
You are spot on!!!!!!
Facts! 💯🎯💪🏾
Great video all of your points were valid I always stay to myself and show I am not intimidated by anyone no matter what position they hold 💯
I love how...this isn't really a racial issue, more like mean while it's a sexist problem in the work place .
Nah other channel is no more. Addressing your comment from the other video
These are facts ...
Facts
I really love this video and the way you communicated this aspect. I wish I’d have heard this some years ago. I know you’ve helped some folks out.
You hit it on the nail for me! 💯. Thanks
Micromanagers I hate being watched
This was a great and helpful message! Awesome! 👍👏👏👏👏👏💯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯
Nun but wisdom 🙌💯
Great insight and well said Brutha!
I really enjoyed this video and it was a good watch. But you nailed everything to the point.
Yoy are on. Point
All of this!
Damn brooo! I know im liked but hated at the same time and sometimes dont know why????
I stay to myself and dint gossabout any co workerz is why i think im not liked
thank you x
Totally true
Thanks for the video
I don’t know if this is a generation thing. Especially with Gen X. Im young (Gen Z) I have done worked 3 different jobs in the past 2 years where I’ve been done dirty by the older folks. Probably because they known as the latchkey kids they didn’t get no discipline in their lives so they feel like they above the youth so they treat us like animals because some of us had good upbringing. But in my life most of the people who done me dirty were Gen Xers. Not to throw an entire generation under the bus but off my personal experiences this is what I been thru. Especially with the women (40s and up) acting like they still in high school. One even tried to falsify evidence to have me thrown in jail all cuz I called her out on something personal she said. She blew up at me and tried to have me locked up. Then laugh at my face cuz I showed fear. Now I know not to get involved in anything no matter what cuz people who try an act like they nice and all turn out to be hackstabbers especially early 40s to middle aged women. It’s disgusting. 🤮
I hate to say but you are RIGHT! I'm a Gen Xer in a new job and ALL my stress and drama come from the 45+ mean girl middle age gang. All the young ladies from Gen Z are the mature respectful co workers. Baffling and infuriating!!
@@marciaanderson2298 Right and it's embarrassing. The company I worked for, my supervisor was a young 18 y/o boy fresh out of HS. He was actually more mature than the older adults working there. The 50 y/o lady would gaslight me, take stuff from me, give me the empty spray bottles and the filthiest rags and take the clean ones from me leaving me to do a shit job so she can get the praise and get me in trouble. Straight up childish shit. The audacity to project that I was acting like her granddaughter throwing a tantrum is something I will never forget. While she was raising her voice crying about me to my supervisor. In fact I should have recorded the interaction as I sat there quietly as she was unleashing on him complaining about me being lazy and a whole list of lies she made up against me. Mind you I only went to do just my job. Im already a quiet person I don't talk to anyone I have no need to. I don't like drama. But this woman would not stop her nonsense to get me fired. Its obvious she hated me with her guts and she'd brag about taking her husband's paychecks and snarl at me when I call her out on it saying she's married she can do whatever TF she wants to him. Shit like that.
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Ohh yea I deal with the intelligence part I have people of other races who are shocked that I’m well spoken I know about things and I know how to make money … I’m sorry I don’t fit your narrative
What is your sign? Because you are so wise for your age😮
@@jenniferbgorg aquarius
@@NtrissOfficial that makes a lot of sense, intelligent, observant, very insightful and wise. Hopefully you are not a dark sided Aquarian man.
@jenniferb3052 thanks for your comments. But I do have internal demons I fight with. I'm not perfect. Very intelligent ppl always have a dark side unfortunately
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You are talking so low a person can't hear you
It's not meant for you to hear then. Only for the chosen few 😌