i’ve never related to someone so much before, i feel this on a whole other level. i have these breakdowns too. and you’ve got nothing to even be sad about but you need to let it out. sending so much love to you skye 💗 we need to remember we aren’t the only ones that feel like this it’s refreshing 🙃
Been watching those perfect clean with me videos with women who have it all together this was so refreshing. Totally related to this too ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Skye for posting, lots of love hun
I’m a working mum with ADHD too. I read somewhere that having a cleaner is a reasonable adjustment so don’t feel guilty getting someone even to mop the floor and vacuum. I have also thrown out 80% of my stuff, and live minimalistic- makes life so much easier. I also the most disorganised woman on the planet- the amount of things my daughter has missed out on because of my condition is next level. You aren’t alone and thanks for sharing!!
Hey Skye! I have ADHD as well and I can relate so much to everything your saying especially the emotional breakdowns due to overwhelm 😅. I’ve only just recently been medicated and honestly I cannot recommend it enough!! I was the same as you and I was worried that it would have an effect on my personality or cut out my weird quirks and make me numb but it doesn’t do that at all. The main thing it does for me is helps me to organise my thoughts. When I’m not on medication I feel like all my thoughts are just in one big massive scramble and it’s so tricky to make sense of them and prioritise them. But once I take the medication all of the thoughts start to line up in an orderly fashion rather than one big scramble. The amount of relief I got from my anxiety by taking ADHD meds has changed my life and I still am 150% myself and I’m able to be an even better version of my already fun personality. My psychiatrist who prescribed my meds is actually based on the Gold Coast as well! He specialises in ADHD. I’d definitely also highly recommend having a psychologist to talk to regularly because talking through the things I’m stressed and overwhelmed about helps me so much and my psych helps me come up with strategies to manage it. Just remember that you’re absolutely killing it. I have ADHD and I only have to take care of myself … I can’t even imagine what it would be like to also be responsible for two little humans 🤯🤯. I grew up with a mother who went undiagnosed and unmedicated with her ADHD until I was an adult and although our lives at times were complete chaos I still had the best childhood and I love my mum and have the best relationship with her so don’t be too hard on yourself. Your boys love you and you’re an amazing Mum. You got this 🙌🏼🙌🏼 but never be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
SKYE! You said exactly how I feel about having ADHD and anxiety! It is the smallest things that throw me off and I will be having the best day and then all of a sudden I burst into tears! You are doing so amazing! I don't even have a partner or children! You are killing it!! You are so strong! Sending love from Norfolk Island 🇳🇫 xx
I know it gets overwhelming, but reflect on how incredibly well you’re doing Skye. You and Lachie are both such hard workers in your careers, fun parents raising 2 boys in an absolutely beautiful home at such a young age! You’re inspiring to so many Skye! Your motivation is second to none 🙌🏽
Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable 💜 Mum of 2, suffer anxiety and OCD tendencies and can 1000% relate to you feeling overwhelmed and when the house is chaos your head is chaos. Being a Mum is the hardest job and as you showed in this video, it is so full on there is always things that need doing whether it’s sorting their clothes they’ve outgrown or picking up after them for the millionth time. Don’t feel like a shit Mum because you’re not “organised”, you’re so many other things that your boys would adore and appreciate like fun, patient, present, hardworking etc. Go easy on yourself!
Totally relatable sky, when my head gets overwhelmed by mess. I get so emotional and cry. You are a great mum sky. And you are doing such a amazing job. 💕
Skye thank you!!!! Thank you for showing what it’s really like I had this playing whilst I cleaned and prepped dinner and it made me not feel so alone in the craziness of motherhood. It is sooooo overwhelming 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I’ve never watched something so relatable! Mum of two boys, living in a Reno that’s always messy and emotional problems to work through.. Thank you for being so raw and open, it’s really nice to not feel alone. You’re doing amazing and you need to give yourself so much more credit. Sending love xx
Skye…thank you for this video! I am also a mom of two boys, living through and remodel AND pregnant with our third! I have adhd 100 percent and some days feel the exact same way. I totally understand the overwhelmed feeling!! Remember it’s hard to be organized in a reno as well :) it will get there!!
Less is more. Minimal space, minimal stress. Love how real and authentic you are. Relate to your ADHD and anxiety ‘break down.’ so many of us appreciate your raw and realness. X
You are definitely not alone feeling this way! I'm currently half way through my second pregnancy and I also have a 1 year old and we are both sick. The house work gets too much and works me up everytime. I'm glad you made this video cause I feel I'm not alone! Xx
Hey Skye, you are doing an fantastic job. Being a mum is the hardest job in the world and you are also working same time. So give yourself some credit for that *Not to mention how beautiful you look also 😍 omg
Love seeing a cleaning video from you 😍 Start your mornings with making the beds and doing a quick tidy of each area. The organising and decluttering can be done later in the day when the house is tidy IF you get time to get it done. Beds made and a little clean each day will make your brain feel a bit better. Being a mum of two is full on. I'd love to see more cleaning videos.. filming it might be something that keeps you focused and motivated to get these small tidy ups done each morning 🥰 loved seeing the real mum life video 💕
My husband has adhd and has only gotten diagnosed 4 months ago at the age of 31. For him, and I think in general adhd medication doesn’t numb you. He still gets all of his amazing/creative ideas but he says it just calms his brain. And he has gone from unorganised, hopeless and exhausted to the complete opposite! If you are struggling, it’s definitely worth a try! ❤️
You are beyond relatable and such a raw human being, I cannot thank you enough. I struggle with your same struggles just in a different situation, but that doesn’t mean yours is less of a struggle. Thank you for being you. Thank you for sharing. I love you ❤️
I really enjoyed this video Skye. Thank you for being so honest, open and relatable. My toddler daughter watched some of it with me and she was excited to see your sons’ bedrooms. Your vlog was refreshing and lovely to watch. I feel ya honey. Emotional breakdowns minimum once per month.
Skye this might help with the cleaning feeling scattered! Before cleaning write a list. This means you don’t have to think as you go and can just follow the list of what needs to be done. Hope this helps xxx
This was so raw and so relatable Skye, thank you! Often I find myself waking up with this wild idea to spring clean. 20 mins later im sitting on the couch scrolling through pinterest of all the perfectly clean houses. Then I cry, and get so frustrated at myself. I too want the minimalist life I just dont know where to even start most days 😭 Im so glad I'm not the only one struggling ❤️
Taking a moment to be able to just cry, for what may seem to be for no real reason....has gotta be done. It's so overwhelming being the matriarch of the fam ... even though we wouldn't have it any other way. What a satisfying clean. You go girl. Your beautiful..inside and out x
I suffer with anxiety and depression and right now it’s at its worst that it’s ever been and I don’t see an end to the negativity. Really at an all time low so know how you feel
I love you Skye. Thank you for being real and honest. We are all so similar. We just hide it different and cover it up then one day it all just comes crashing down. I adore you ❤️
Everything you feel is valid Skye❤ you work so hard 24/7, OF COURSE some things will be overwhelming. You’re doing your absolute best and that’s what matters💖💖💖💖 sending you love mama💞
You're an amazing Mummy Skye💖 and have such a BIG heart❤I know things can be overwhelming at times and you're doing the best that you can..I was a single mum of three and two of my Kiddies had special needs..I just don't know how I did it..but that was 36 years ago and now my Children have their own children. Sometimes it's just one day at a time..don't be too hard on yourself Sweetie..Love you Skye and take care.❤🙏🏼XO
🙋🏻♀️ I hear you! I love my house clean I feel so much better when it is but it RARELY is clean. Single mum working full time with 2 teenage boys and a toddler boy. I ain’t got my shit together and when my toddler asks for dry pasta for dinner I put some veggies on the side and call it winning! I was most jealous in the video when you were sitting there crying your eyes out! I can’t remember when I last cried I wish I could just have a huge release and let it out. Our kids are fed loved and have a roof over their heads! We are doing great I say 💞
Oh my this gives me anxiety to the max, feel your pain just finished renovating our house been a year and pregnant with fifth child so it's definitely Cray Cray Big house equals more work that's why we have decided to sell our house I was no joke always feeling crap about not having time to spend with my kids because I was always cleaning and things were never ending. Selling up is the best thing for my family I can feel it being so much better for us
Oh Skye, you cleaning Forests room made me laugh! You've got this!!!!! You are amazing and funny and the best mum and person actually, you are here your living your life with your boys and partner. 💕💕💕
Hey Skye, I was literally watching this as I cleaned my kitchen I have never related so much to someone honeslty thank you. I have really bad depression and I can’t keep up. I don’t have kids but I live with my brother and he has kids they are pretty messy and don’t tidy up after themselves this is the adults I’m talking about so I clean cause I can’t handle the situation there’s shit everywhere I look I just want to throw it all out it’s so overwhelming it’s not even my stuff which makes it worse 😭 So thank you so much for keeping it real always. xx Love you girl ❤️
Love you Skye, you’re doing absolutely amazing! You’re such a great mum and you should give yourself more credit. Thank you for sharing this, and being so real! Xx
Love this. Not that some of us go through it but just too relate & somewhat be at ease with that. We are too hard on ourselves. I cannot stand my house messy. I have my off days & weeks. It's all about discipline & routine for things to work or the kids take over. I have 3, single mum & back to work now so it's full on as I have no family at all near me
Please don't cry ☺️. I to have those days being pregnant and with a 4 year old is not a easy job also dealing with PTSD. Promise that it will only get better ❤️.
Aww Skye thank you so much for this, realising im not the only one which I've thought I've been this whole time and its so isolating! I'm the same and have days where I feel so unsettled and frustrated for it! but we just need to allow time to feel all the feels and know that it all passes
I know this is so relatable for a mum. But girl, you will feel so much better getting rid of most of that stuff on tables that are completely untouched.
Aw Skye, I just want to fly to Australia, give you a hug, clean and organise your house and just help you out. This looks so overwhelming but you're doing amazing xx
Oh honey I cried with you. I’m an unorganised mum too and it is so overwhelming but I can’t get my shit together. I feel like such a failure to my son. But we are getting by day by day. Love you girl
Girl no one is perfect & even the people who portray a super tidy home and organised life probably still go through these emotions. You’re doing a great job to do it all & still provide for your kids. But I agree with living minimal in an apartment that is literally all I want to, I feel like if I have a big house I just fill it with stuff and it never ends lol & I hate throwing stuff away so I’m full of clutter too. It’ll all work perfectly, one second at a time 💕
Omg, I have complex ptsd + probably other shit (only diagnosed with cptsd so far) but I find this so fucking relatable it's literally crazy! Just before I watched this I was spiralling thinking what's wrong with me and do I need serious help but this really has made me feel not alone and not ashamed to express these parts of myself! Thank you Skye!
In regards to hiring a PA, I suggest you do it. Just to clear up time for you to do what you want. The PA is basically a second brain and with adhd, it will help that stuff. I also recommend you hire someone who consciously aware of mental health issues. I find people like this are more easy going and understanding which is helpful for people with mental health stuff. Xxx
I can totally relate my adult daughter has ADHD and BPD and I have chronic pain with fibromyalgia and depression/anxiety disorder so when all of that is affecting us you can more than tell by the state of our home 🏡
Chat to your doctor babe. My son has ADHD and we were very skeptical about putting him on medication for the same fears you have but after he struggled for so long we decided to try it (cause you can always stop taking the meds) and after a few tweaks with his dosage he is sooooo much happier!! Feel better soon
I feel so sad for you. I totally relate to how you are feeling. Medication changed my life. It can help you feel so much better and then be a better mum. Please talk to your GP, just go in and have a conversation. You’ll feel so relieved I promise!
Good on you Skye you did a great job, it's a lot for anyone being such a big house plus 2 kids and all you have going on. Take care lovely, sending you big hugs x
Aww your beautiful, honest and raw love that! And what an amazing job you did 🙏I totally agree my brain doesn’t think with things are everywhere too xx 😘
Thank you so much for posting this, there are so many days that I try to do little things and even that gets to me because I can’t focus. I’m scared to go to a doctor because I hate feeling like I can’t get it together and need help. Can definitely relate💙
There’s nothing more I want than to come around and help you clean and tidy up I feel you I’ve been there And hats off to you You are doing fabulous I’m Mum of 2 boys here also plus my hubby, he’s basically another child too 🥲💕
I'm so glad you are speaking about being overwhelmed emotionally. I've been feeling the same too, and just cry for days. Have you thought about doing affirmations and mirror work? that will help with the negative and the racing thoughts. It's great and has really helped slow down the racing thoughts :)
I feel like this is literally me and you shouldn’t feel guilty for getting help at all it will help a lot. I find it hard to get organised too and I take forever to do things like I get really distracted
fuck I feel this so much babe. you got this. honestly i just live in my parents basement, and granted I have some debilitating probs, but you are a queen for being a mother of two and seriously hilarious, beautiful, and true to yourself. thank you for that.
100000% can relate to this video wowwww crazy that I'm not the only one!!! I let everything build up too then break down in tears every now and then and I haven't even been diagnosed for ADHD but I'm certain I have it haha. Life is tough though, esp with kids x
Wouldn’t the priority be to clean the 💩 first. I would make a list of priorities. Kids rooms are the bottom of the list I feel. Being a mum is hard and it’s easy to get distracted and not have energy or motivation.
This is so me! I get so overwhelmed and so overstimulated that my brain goes into a haywire and then just shuts down. Then shit gets unorganised and my brain gets overwhelmed and I need to clean and it’s just a suffering cycle.
I always feel better after a cry too😂 It’s good to get it out for sure! Also you’re not alone in the way you feel. I’m sure a lot of mums can relate without having ADHD, I get it’s probably more intense for you. But you’re not alone and I loved watching this video, it’s like a little insight into your brain! And believe me you radiate positivity and good vibes more than you probably realise❤
You may have post-partum depression. My symptoms were not diagnosed until my child was 1. It honestly felt like what I think bipolar would feel like. Up and happy one minute and overwhelmed and can't handle anything the next
Oh Skye, if only you could see what a beautiful mumma bear you are. Your happy children are because of you! As a mum with older children and who generally has her shit together I too feel very overwhelmed with the day to day chores when a big home and nothing having a place. My mum taught me to make the beds and clean the kitchen everyday and then try and choose one more thing whether it’s so the washing, clean the toy room but that’s it. You cannot do it all in one day. Just start on one room at a time. Being a mum is so hard, but don’t forget you need an outlet too. So make the bed, tidy the kitchen one more job and then have the afternoon with your own time for mental health before picking up the kids. Lots of ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Sorry your going through this! Please get some one to come in a clean Atleast once a week! There is someone you just have to take the time and look. This will help you unload a lot of things. You can still clean/organize during the week and have someone to the rest on another day
I have OCD… so my house never gets like this (no judgment btw) but I have a daily routine that I stick to but I also don’t work my partner works and I do the house stuff and look after the kids… I Dyson every day like morning and night, make beds, do dishes, poop scoop litter trays, empty bins… try setting yourself a daily to do list maybe.. there’s just too much to do here in a short time without causing you stress…
You’re a mum hun, life is hard, so it’s ok to cry. We all do it. I sometimes hide in my bathroom with the door locked to just cry it out or drive down to Burleigh beach for a breather.
You are not in the headspace to clean babe, go get yourself a coffee, play some bangers on your phone and have a shower. You cannot pour from an empty cup chook xoxoxox
When you buy your child all these things and live to regret it later when you’re cleaning it all up all the feels mumma you totally need Kahla and mumma Wheatley on Monday’s pull in the help 💕 Naww I really wish I lived close to come help :( much love you to mumma you’re doing great!
I would be a total bitch to live with if my pets were Putting shit all through the house.I also have two little boys aged 2 and 3 and I have two cats - thank god my cats are toilet trained. I reckon you should hire a dog trainer and get them inside toilet trained cause that’s just not good what’s going on there…
I’ve had the same breakdowns it’s so hard when you’re a mum of young kids and have a lot of stuff. It weighs me down a lot. I feel everything needs to be perfect and it never can be so I just feel so depressed! Mum life and perfectionism doesn’t work 😂 a therapist will help you a lot!
I have adhd n I feel same way when kids are at school though yesterday I was so burnt out I napped n didn't feel bad about it but I hate how I feel I wasted a day doing so
i’ve never related to someone so much before, i feel this on a whole other level. i have these breakdowns too. and you’ve got nothing to even be sad about but you need to let it out. sending so much love to you skye 💗 we need to remember we aren’t the only ones that feel like this it’s refreshing 🙃
Been watching those perfect clean with me videos with women who have it all together this was so refreshing. Totally related to this too ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you Skye for posting, lots of love hun
I’m a working mum with ADHD too. I read somewhere that having a cleaner is a reasonable adjustment so don’t feel guilty getting someone even to mop the floor and vacuum. I have also thrown out 80% of my stuff, and live minimalistic- makes life so much easier. I also the most disorganised woman on the planet- the amount of things my daughter has missed out on because of my condition is next level. You aren’t alone and thanks for sharing!!
Hey Skye! I have ADHD as well and I can relate so much to everything your saying especially the emotional breakdowns due to overwhelm 😅. I’ve only just recently been medicated and honestly I cannot recommend it enough!! I was the same as you and I was worried that it would have an effect on my personality or cut out my weird quirks and make me numb but it doesn’t do that at all. The main thing it does for me is helps me to organise my thoughts. When I’m not on medication I feel like all my thoughts are just in one big massive scramble and it’s so tricky to make sense of them and prioritise them. But once I take the medication all of the thoughts start to line up in an orderly fashion rather than one big scramble. The amount of relief I got from my anxiety by taking ADHD meds has changed my life and I still am 150% myself and I’m able to be an even better version of my already fun personality. My psychiatrist who prescribed my meds is actually based on the Gold Coast as well! He specialises in ADHD.
I’d definitely also highly recommend having a psychologist to talk to regularly because talking through the things I’m stressed and overwhelmed about helps me so much and my psych helps me come up with strategies to manage it.
Just remember that you’re absolutely killing it. I have ADHD and I only have to take care of myself … I can’t even imagine what it would be like to also be responsible for two little humans 🤯🤯. I grew up with a mother who went undiagnosed and unmedicated with her ADHD until I was an adult and although our lives at times were complete chaos I still had the best childhood and I love my mum and have the best relationship with her so don’t be too hard on yourself. Your boys love you and you’re an amazing Mum.
You got this 🙌🏼🙌🏼 but never be afraid to ask for help when you need it.
I just wanted to say - your presence & love as a mother tops ANY type of organisation & you’re doing an amazing job ❤
SKYE! You said exactly how I feel about having ADHD and anxiety! It is the smallest things that throw me off and I will be having the best day and then all of a sudden I burst into tears!
You are doing so amazing! I don't even have a partner or children! You are killing it!! You are so strong! Sending love from Norfolk Island 🇳🇫 xx
I know it gets overwhelming, but reflect on how incredibly well you’re doing Skye. You and Lachie are both such hard workers in your careers, fun parents raising 2 boys in an absolutely beautiful home at such a young age! You’re inspiring to so many Skye! Your motivation is second to none 🙌🏽
You need to vlog more.Soo real and genuine
Thank you for being so raw and vulnerable 💜
Mum of 2, suffer anxiety and OCD tendencies and can 1000% relate to you feeling overwhelmed and when the house is chaos your head is chaos.
Being a Mum is the hardest job and as you showed in this video, it is so full on there is always things that need doing whether it’s sorting their clothes they’ve outgrown or picking up after them for the millionth time.
Don’t feel like a shit Mum because you’re not “organised”, you’re so many other things that your boys would adore and appreciate like fun, patient, present, hardworking etc.
Go easy on yourself!
One of the realest and most raw RUclipsrs I’ve come across. Thank you for sharing this xx
Totally relatable sky, when my head gets overwhelmed by mess. I get so emotional and cry. You are a great mum sky. And you are doing such a amazing job. 💕
Also putting music on while cleaning helps me too. 💕
@@nicolerichardson4124 YES!!
Skye thank you!!!! Thank you for showing what it’s really like
I had this playing whilst I cleaned and prepped dinner and it made me not feel so alone in the craziness of motherhood. It is sooooo overwhelming 🤍🤍🤍🤍
I’ve never watched something so relatable! Mum of two boys, living in a Reno that’s always messy and emotional problems to work through..
Thank you for being so raw and open, it’s really nice to not feel alone.
You’re doing amazing and you need to give yourself so much more credit. Sending love xx
Skye…thank you for this video! I am also a mom of two boys, living through and remodel AND pregnant with our third! I have adhd 100 percent and some days feel the exact same way. I totally understand the overwhelmed feeling!! Remember it’s hard to be organized in a reno as well :) it will get there!!
Thanks babyy so much love for you xxx I'm glad I'm really not alone here! X
Less is more. Minimal space, minimal stress. Love how real and authentic you are. Relate to your ADHD and anxiety ‘break down.’ so many of us appreciate your raw and realness. X
You are definitely not alone feeling this way! I'm currently half way through my second pregnancy and I also have a 1 year old and we are both sick. The house work gets too much and works me up everytime. I'm glad you made this video cause I feel I'm not alone! Xx
Hey Skye, you are doing an fantastic job. Being a mum is the hardest job in the world and you are also working same time. So give yourself some credit for that
*Not to mention how beautiful you look also 😍 omg
I felt like i was watching myself..we are here for you Skye, you’re doing the best you can. one day at a time 🤍
I relate to this so much. Thanks for being real, Skye. You’re doing amazing ❤️
Love seeing a cleaning video from you 😍 Start your mornings with making the beds and doing a quick tidy of each area. The organising and decluttering can be done later in the day when the house is tidy IF you get time to get it done. Beds made and a little clean each day will make your brain feel a bit better. Being a mum of two is full on. I'd love to see more cleaning videos.. filming it might be something that keeps you focused and motivated to get these small tidy ups done each morning 🥰 loved seeing the real mum life video 💕
The realist youtuber, she is a bloody legend! Obsessed with her, greatest video
Skye you are the most down fo earth influencer.
Watching your videos you can tell when you start something you do it 100%
Always go the extra mile
My husband has adhd and has only gotten diagnosed 4 months ago at the age of 31. For him, and I think in general adhd medication doesn’t numb you. He still gets all of his amazing/creative ideas but he says it just calms his brain. And he has gone from unorganised, hopeless and exhausted to the complete opposite! If you are struggling, it’s definitely worth a try! ❤️
You are beyond relatable and such a raw human being, I cannot thank you enough. I struggle with your same struggles just in a different situation, but that doesn’t mean yours is less of a struggle. Thank you for being you. Thank you for sharing. I love you ❤️
I am a mum with ASD. I can relate to all of this so much. Thank you for being so real.
I really enjoyed this video Skye. Thank you for being so honest, open and relatable. My toddler daughter watched some of it with me and she was excited to see your sons’ bedrooms. Your vlog was refreshing and lovely to watch. I feel ya honey. Emotional breakdowns minimum once per month.
Skye this might help with the cleaning feeling scattered! Before cleaning write a list. This means you don’t have to think as you go and can just follow the list of what needs to be done. Hope this helps xxx
I have ADHD too girl and honestly I go to a physiologist and it has helped me so much! Highly recommend. You are doing amazing ❤️
Okay yes I definitely need to find a good one !! Can you recommend any on the GC
who else loves her more on youtube than on instagram? love you, skye !
I don’t know why I found that whole “catch me outside” segment hilarious 😂
What a great day for you to upload Beb! Just passed my final exams and now having a chill afternoon watching your vlog 👌🏼💕
Love your rawness, this is mum life! I have two boys 4 & 2 and a half and there’s always so much to clean!
This was so raw and so relatable Skye, thank you!
Often I find myself waking up with this wild idea to spring clean. 20 mins later im sitting on the couch scrolling through pinterest of all the perfectly clean houses. Then I cry, and get so frustrated at myself. I too want the minimalist life I just dont know where to even start most days 😭
Im so glad I'm not the only one struggling ❤️
Taking a moment to be able to just cry, for what may seem to be for no real reason....has gotta be done. It's so overwhelming being the matriarch of the fam ... even though we wouldn't have it any other way. What a satisfying clean. You go girl. Your beautiful..inside and out x
I suffer with anxiety and depression and right now it’s at its worst that it’s ever been and I don’t see an end to the negativity. Really at an all time low so know how you feel
I love you Skye. Thank you for being real and honest. We are all so similar. We just hide it different and cover it up then one day it all just comes crashing down. I adore you ❤️
Everything you feel is valid Skye❤ you work so hard 24/7, OF COURSE some things will be overwhelming. You’re doing your absolute best and that’s what matters💖💖💖💖 sending you love mama💞
You're an amazing Mummy Skye💖 and have such a BIG heart❤I know things can be overwhelming at times and you're doing the best that you can..I was a single mum of three and two of my Kiddies had special needs..I just don't know how I did it..but that was 36 years ago and now my Children have their own children. Sometimes it's just one day at a time..don't be too hard on yourself Sweetie..Love you Skye and take care.❤🙏🏼XO
🙋🏻♀️ I hear you! I love my house clean I feel so much better when it is but it RARELY is clean. Single mum working full time with 2 teenage boys and a toddler boy. I ain’t got my shit together and when my toddler asks for dry pasta for dinner I put some veggies on the side and call it winning! I was most jealous in the video when you were sitting there crying your eyes out! I can’t remember when I last cried I wish I could just have a huge release and let it out. Our kids are fed loved and have a roof over their heads! We are doing great I say 💞
Oh my this gives me anxiety to the max, feel your pain just finished renovating our house been a year and pregnant with fifth child so it's definitely Cray Cray
Big house equals more work that's why we have decided to sell our house I was no joke always feeling crap about not having time to spend with my kids because I was always cleaning and things were never ending. Selling up is the best thing for my family I can feel it being so much better for us
Oh Skye, you cleaning Forests room made me laugh! You've got this!!!!! You are amazing and funny and the best mum and person actually, you are here your living your life with your boys and partner. 💕💕💕
I’m currently struggling so bad in every aspect of life, Thankyou for your videos Skye, It helps me so much get my mind off things ❤️❤️🥰🥰
Thankyou for being so real and raw!! You are a legend honey 🧡
Hey Skye, I was literally watching this as I cleaned my kitchen I have never related so much to someone honeslty thank you. I have really bad depression and I can’t keep up. I don’t have kids but I live with my brother and he has kids they are pretty messy and don’t tidy up after themselves this is the adults I’m talking about so I clean cause I can’t handle the situation there’s shit everywhere I look I just want to throw it all out it’s so overwhelming it’s not even my stuff which makes it worse 😭 So thank you so much for keeping it real always. xx Love you girl ❤️
Love you Skye, you’re doing absolutely amazing! You’re such a great mum and you should give yourself more credit. Thank you for sharing this, and being so real! Xx
Love this. Not that some of us go through it but just too relate & somewhat be at ease with that. We are too hard on ourselves. I cannot stand my house messy. I have my off days & weeks. It's all about discipline & routine for things to work or the kids take over. I have 3, single mum & back to work now so it's full on as I have no family at all near me
Please don't cry ☺️. I to have those days being pregnant and with a 4 year old is not a easy job also dealing with PTSD. Promise that it will only get better ❤️.
Aww Skye thank you so much for this, realising im not the only one which I've thought I've been this whole time and its so isolating! I'm the same and have days where I feel so unsettled and frustrated for it! but we just need to allow time to feel all the feels and know that it all passes
I swear, I have never laughed so much in my life!! I'm stuck at home with covid and you are beyond hilarious!!!!
I know this is so relatable for a mum.
But girl, you will feel so much better getting rid of most of that stuff on tables that are completely untouched.
Aw Skye, I just want to fly to Australia, give you a hug, clean and organise your house and just help you out. This looks so overwhelming but you're doing amazing xx
You are so strong Skye!! 🌸💕 thanks for being so real and raw! We all struggle with this, you are not alone
Oh honey I cried with you. I’m an unorganised mum too and it is so overwhelming but I can’t get my shit together. I feel like such a failure to my son. But we are getting by day by day. Love you girl
Girl no one is perfect & even the people who portray a super tidy home and organised life probably still go through these emotions. You’re doing a great job to do it all & still provide for your kids. But I agree with living minimal in an apartment that is literally all I want to, I feel like if I have a big house I just fill it with stuff and it never ends lol & I hate throwing stuff away so I’m full of clutter too. It’ll all work perfectly, one second at a time 💕
Omg, I have complex ptsd + probably other shit (only diagnosed with cptsd so far) but I find this so fucking relatable it's literally crazy! Just before I watched this I was spiralling thinking what's wrong with me and do I need serious help but this really has made me feel not alone and not ashamed to express these parts of myself! Thank you Skye!
In regards to hiring a PA, I suggest you do it. Just to clear up time for you to do what you want. The PA is basically a second brain and with adhd, it will help that stuff. I also recommend you hire someone who consciously aware of mental health issues. I find people like this are more easy going and understanding which is helpful for people with mental health stuff. Xxx
Ugh this was so relatable😩thank you for posting this🙏🏼 I am not alone 🥲
I lost it when she said the part about the dogs going ham on the rug 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can totally relate my adult daughter has ADHD and BPD and I have chronic pain with fibromyalgia and depression/anxiety disorder so when all of that is affecting us you can more than tell by the state of our home 🏡
With a house as big as yours Skye and your busy work schedule you definitely deserve a cleaner 👌👍
Chat to your doctor babe. My son has ADHD and we were very skeptical about putting him on medication for the same fears you have but after he struggled for so long we decided to try it (cause you can always stop taking the meds) and after a few tweaks with his dosage he is sooooo much happier!! Feel better soon
I feel so sad for you. I totally relate to how you are feeling. Medication changed my life. It can help you feel so much better and then be a better mum. Please talk to your GP, just go in and have a conversation. You’ll feel so relieved I promise!
I loooove that you shared this 🤍 so relatable
Good on you Skye you did a great job, it's a lot for anyone being such a big house plus 2 kids and all you have going on. Take care lovely, sending you big hugs x
Love this realistic mum life vlog Skye 🧡 we want more 💐
Aww your beautiful, honest and raw love that! And what an amazing job you did 🙏I totally agree my brain doesn’t think with things are everywhere too xx 😘
“Its a fucken chaos party really” 🤣😂😂 Im literally dyinggg.. I love this
Thank you so much for posting this, there are so many days that I try to do little things and even that gets to me because I can’t focus. I’m scared to go to a doctor because I hate feeling like I can’t get it together and need help. Can definitely relate💙
Mum life is chaos and you’re a great mum being organised is over rated 😉❤️
There’s nothing more I want than to come around and help you clean and tidy up
I feel you
I’ve been there
And hats off to you
You are doing fabulous
I’m Mum of 2 boys here also plus my hubby, he’s basically another child too 🥲💕
I'm so glad you are speaking about being overwhelmed emotionally. I've been feeling the same too, and just cry for days. Have you thought about doing affirmations and mirror work? that will help with the negative and the racing thoughts. It's great and has really helped slow down the racing thoughts :)
I feel like this is literally me and you shouldn’t feel guilty for getting help at all it will help a lot. I find it hard to get organised too and I take forever to do things like I get really distracted
Love this hunnie, you’re doing an amazing job as a mother 💜 appreciate you 😘
Girl I have ADHD and I completely understand how you feel. The thoughts you said you have I was like omg that’s me!
fuck I feel this so much babe. you got this. honestly i just live in my parents basement, and granted I have some debilitating probs, but you are a queen for being a mother of two and seriously hilarious, beautiful, and true to yourself. thank you for that.
Aww Skye, I also have ADHD and I totally get it all
This is too relatable😂thanks for keeping it real skye!!
I’ve just sold my house and EVERYTHING I own, bar the essentials… it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. We just travel now 😍
100000% can relate to this video wowwww crazy that I'm not the only one!!! I let everything build up too then break down in tears every now and then and I haven't even been diagnosed for ADHD but I'm certain I have it haha. Life is tough though, esp with kids x
It's big, house such a big job. Keep a nice basket at the bottom of the stairs to throw stuff in to take upstairs
Wouldn’t the priority be to clean the 💩 first. I would make a list of priorities. Kids rooms are the bottom of the list I feel.
Being a mum is hard and it’s easy to get distracted and not have energy or motivation.
This is so me! I get so overwhelmed and so overstimulated that my brain goes into a haywire and then just shuts down. Then shit gets unorganised and my brain gets overwhelmed and I need to clean and it’s just a suffering cycle.
I always feel better after a cry too😂 It’s good to get it out for sure! Also you’re not alone in the way you feel. I’m sure a lot of mums can relate without having ADHD, I get it’s probably more intense for you. But you’re not alone and I loved watching this video, it’s like a little insight into your brain! And believe me you radiate positivity and good vibes more than you probably realise❤
Love the cleaning vlog sky so therapeutic. 😍 Your house is beautiful xx
You may have post-partum depression. My symptoms were not diagnosed until my child was 1. It honestly felt like what I think bipolar would feel like. Up and happy one minute and overwhelmed and can't handle anything the next
You should try white light candles & gifts candles! They are organic and can use them as a massage candle
Oh Skye, if only you could see what a beautiful mumma bear you are. Your happy children are because of you!
As a mum with older children and who generally has her shit together I too feel very overwhelmed with the day to day chores when a big home and nothing having a place. My mum taught me to make the beds and clean the kitchen everyday and then try and choose one more thing whether it’s so the washing, clean the toy room but that’s it. You cannot do it all in one day. Just start on one room at a time. Being a mum is so hard, but don’t forget you need an outlet too. So make the bed, tidy the kitchen one more job and then have the afternoon with your own time for mental health before picking up the kids. Lots of ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Sorry your going through this! Please get some one to come in a clean Atleast once a week! There is someone you just have to take the time and look. This will help you unload a lot of things. You can still clean/organize during the week and have someone to the rest on another day
I have OCD… so my house never gets like this (no judgment btw) but I have a daily routine that I stick to but I also don’t work my partner works and I do the house stuff and look after the kids… I Dyson every day like morning and night, make beds, do dishes, poop scoop litter trays, empty bins… try setting yourself a daily to do list maybe.. there’s just too much to do here in a short time without causing you stress…
You’re a mum hun, life is hard, so it’s ok to cry. We all do it. I sometimes hide in my bathroom with the door locked to just cry it out or drive down to Burleigh beach for a breather.
You are not in the headspace to clean babe, go get yourself a coffee, play some bangers on your phone and have a shower. You cannot pour from an empty cup chook xoxoxox
You rock.. Love to see ya back on BigBro , Skye.. Which you should've won!.. Cheers
When you buy your child all these things and live to regret it later when you’re cleaning it all up all the feels mumma you totally need Kahla and mumma Wheatley on Monday’s pull in the help 💕 Naww I really wish I lived close to come help :( much love you to mumma you’re doing great!
aw im sorry to see you upset
Love you so much girl! So relatable
You are less alone than you think babe 😘😘
You are doing a great job skye
I would be a total bitch to live with if my pets were Putting shit all through the house.I also have two little boys aged 2 and 3 and I have two cats - thank god my cats are toilet trained. I reckon you should hire a dog trainer and get them inside toilet trained cause that’s just not good what’s going on there…
im so obsessed i love love love your vlogs!!
I’ve had the same breakdowns it’s so hard when you’re a mum of young kids and have a lot of stuff. It weighs me down a lot. I feel everything needs to be perfect and it never can be so I just feel so depressed! Mum life and perfectionism doesn’t work 😂 a therapist will help you a lot!
If you read this, please look up doctor Joe Dispenza on RUclips. Or his books ❤️ he changed my mindset
Thank you baby definitely going to look into this Xx
I have adhd n I feel same way when kids are at school though yesterday I was so burnt out I napped n didn't feel bad about it but I hate how I feel I wasted a day doing so