@Alexander the question is why should woman care about making guys look good and behave like perfect superhuman angel like creatures in public, what is their benefit of doing that? In the past this behavior was obviously forced by society it was never natural and we can clearly see this in modern societies where woman are just as free as man and now often behave in even way worse ways than most guys do. In general clearly woman don't have innately superior morals than guys they are just the same flawed humans as everyone else is and now they have the freedom to show their true colors and because woman are just as selfish as we guys are as long as their is not a huge benefit for them to behave like woman in the past did I don't think that there is anything going to revert
Thinking that you by yourself can change someone else's entire identity and character is foolish and egotistical. People hold such a high opinion of themselves and their feelings, logic, and assume its all correct. Find someone who you have the same values as, simple.
@@eastpontiff why do think women like Beauty & The Beast or 50 shades of grey? They eat it up. Their reaction Nice guys.. ewww. Let chase the abusive, alcoholic, philandering guy.
@rajakghosh6602 I think that there is some merit to women liking "the bad guy" only because men find it difficult to be both strong and dangerous and confident as well as nice and loving and calm. Most guys stick to an extreme and out of the two extremes, women will gravitate to the bad guy. Men should stop whining about being "nice guys" and learn how to do the things that "not nice guys" can do. Learn to fight, get strong, gain some confidence, etc. Be capable of being a "bad guy" but one who keeps it under control. That's what women want.
@@rajakghosh6602 Yeah, and what happens? Bad boy Tyrone comes into the bedroom, they have sex a few times, and then he gets bored and moves on. Then they waste their 20s chasing these men, sometimes their 30s too. Then, having forsaken the nice guys with good values, they don't come back in her 40s, so she lives out her days from 50s onwards with a horde of cats, depressed and bitter because she didn't find a guy with good values while she had the chance. They eat it up foolishly, without foresight.
@@rajakghosh6602Because such a guy can still produce genetically high value offspring. While the party girl or garden tool likely wont be a good mother.
This is the kind of comment that after reading you hear a clicking sound in your head. It really puts things into perspective in regards to how men and women can complement each other and produce synergy.
Cant cook? Cant clean? No problem! Perfect time to learn. Whats that? You dont want to cook? You dont want to clean? Gtfo outta my apartment. You take a little; you give a little. This aint no one sided BS.
@@SIGSEGV1337 No its pretty easy to trap u there. Ill explain why. Say u get a toxic woman pregnant. Whats to stop her from using the children against u in court?
My son and daughter in law did choreographed dance at their wedding. Fine, that is their thing. They insisted, however that my wife and I do a dance as well. Fortunately, I had ankle surgery before the wedding.
When Lewis & Clarke crossed the country to the Pacific Ocean in 1804, they knew having Sacagawea in their expedition would show they were not warriors and came in peace. Women have forgotten their true value in society.
Its not about household chores. Its about creating a safe and peaceful environment to empower him to face the world and excel. Thats what they dont get.
Exactly!! I’m a homemaker and i say that and not stay at home mom because it is my job to make this house a home. A safe, peaceful and loving place for my husband and family.
@@elizabeththompson9570 To be fair, we guys are terrible on the whole about articulating this. But, yes. I handle 80% of the household chores in the 15 minutes after I walk in the door after work thanks to the delights of a vacuum cleaner, a dishwasher, and a washer/dryer. The housework isn't the issue. It's whether the house feels like my respite after a hard day. It's whether the house feels like it is recharging my batteries instead of draining them further. If I have to walk in, do the housework and get berated for it, while being asked to tackle another project that she saw on Pinterest and wants, it's not a home. Thank you for how you treat your husband and kids!
Houshold chores are the key service in creating a safe and peaceful environment. My husband never washed a dish, never did a load of laundry, never swept a floor for the first 16 years of marriage. He dropped his clothes on the floor wherever he took them off and I had fresh clothes out on the bed for him. That's how I wanted it. Until the kids were self sufficient and I started working outside the home. Now he's mostly retired and I am working. So our sons and him do most of the household chores now. Wow, it is so obvious how much it means to the person working!
@@amylee6038 Women are a net tax burden, a permanent leisure class and they take the kids half the time. Chores take no time and no effort and women don't pay men's bills. I'm glad marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows because it means some women will have to pay individually for exploiting men on an institutional level.
And they haven't been, since about 1970. For the last 50 years, most men have been improving... because we've been holding them even *more* accountable. At the same time, we've been holding women *less* accountable... and spoiling them.
I meet them here and there. And to be fair women can ask a similar question. "When was the last time you met a gentleman" and come to the same conclusion. Cultural degradation didn't bypass men.
Oddly enough, when I worked in the barbershop, I heard a girl say to her man who was acting up, "when we are in public or if I'm not around, you represent me, you represent us"....that was some heavy bars....I use that with my GF
@@mosampson8862 Most of these "redpill scholars" end up going full circle and re-start spreading those old, false myths in spite of knowing damn well they're the specular opposite of truth. I suspect they do so as a way to attract symphaty from female audiences.
My then GF once treated my disrespectfully in front of one of her friends. I yelled back at her as I had never done before in my life, also in front of her girlfriend. She never again dared talk to me like that in public.
Yeah i think this was a fair response,. Most people would be rightfully angry if u have a partner insulting u in front of everyone either u or her knows.
You should not have lots you emotions and yelled at her but later in private you should have told her how she was wrong and that she was going to have to submit to you giving her a spanking to pay for what she did.
Young men and adult males, Two things you should do as and when required, 1) let silence speak for you, while you regulate and be in your stoic frame, 2) walk away, as and when required, be it a short shock or permanently, Guys we cannot always fix it,
First point is so true. They hold no real power except shaming. That is how they have evolved. If you maintain a stoic demeanor then you take away their power.
@10:15 What kind of argument is that? "What if he doesn't deserve respect, what if he treats me poorly, what if he is a douchebag?" I would ask, why are you with him them? This is the same question that is being asked of men when their women don't respect them. If you truly are an upstanding, providing and loyal man, you don't need that type of woman in your life. On the other side of the coin, if your man is treating you poorly, why stay ladies?
The interesting thing is men should do the exact opposite. They should avoid speaking about their private life with their woman in private conversations with others. As far as everyone else is concerned your wife or girlfriend is a non-sexual being in your conversations.
I was raised that when we left the house, we represented my father and that we didn't dare disrespect them or make them look bad. I always took that into my marriage. My mother always worked to keep herself looking good and kept our house clean and cooked. My dad always said he couldn't live his life if he didn't have her doing everything for him. I do the same for my husband. And he makes my life wonderful. He goes to work this so that I can stay home with our kids. I don't understand how these women complain about not wanting to do something for the man they chose to spend the rest of their lives with. No one forced them. Why would you spend the rest of your life with someone that you didn't want to take care of and love? I don't understand
I think we, as a society, made it to where if a woman does something nice for her man then she's being taken advantage of. It's unfortunate that we can't even do nice things for someone because we love them.
I think they (men) were trying to condition the ladies with those types of statements. Problem with American society today is, shaming or encouraging women into good behavior is deemed unacceptable.
christian people raised their daughters to be the fairer sex. secularism, social media, and marxist teachers are all working hard to undue everything christian culture has built.
This extends into something subliminally extremely violent in preferential treatment of women at the work place (all in the name of not submitting her): as a boss you then look the jerk if when a woman fails you give her homework to make it good or suggest a new workaround or more user-friendly workflow ensuring she can do the job (she ends up sad and crying). In other words, if she fails, YOU SHOULD FEEL ASHAMED, not her, for not taking up the burden for her that she could not muster. That violence of shame flipping rejecting growing up as adults together is the worst. The only thing women are expected to do at work is to fill the "plantation-roster" of the manager to make him look good on his resume. Basically it is a slippery slope to harem type Hoedom. It gets worse in the military because the job is so brutal there that you look 10 times the jerk for asking her to help. It really is 5th column. And now add to that the trans woke movement and we are in trouble.
A lot of truth to this. I’ve seen the most toxic women coworkers get preferential treatment when at the best they do nothing. At the worst they drag the whole team down.
Modesty is simply an endearing quality in a woman that appeals to ANY man worth his salt. All these women that expose themselves online for the simps and $ are heading for a car crash. Of course they'll laugh at that while listening to advice and paying people who will tell them exactly what they want to hear. The Internet is for life baby and all that stuff you post won't fall off a cliff when the limited online shelf life has run its course.
“…my husband has not touched a dish in 10 years” Call me old fashioned but I can’t help but think that a woman that claims to be traditional wife would .. I don’t know … wear a wedding ring?
Two words beginning with the letter "s" have a triggering effect...figuratively like in (old) movies when the hero brandishes a cross in the face of a surprised Bela Lugosi/Christopher Lee in his role as Dracula: Submissive/submissiveness and Settle/Settling. For awhile I've been considering an endeavour to request people to supplant "submit" with "cooperate," but I've reconsidered--doing so would prohibit me from enjoying witnessing a panoply of psychotics, narcissists, egomaniacs and other Cluster B babes just lose their propaganda-programmed minds over it.
I don't know. Never had a girlfriend who changed a tire on my car, or did a brake job, or changed the spark plugs. Never had a girl who worked construction for 14 hours while I sat at home with the kids. Never had a girl who risked her life for me on a near daily basis to support me. But I have done all of those things for the women in my life. And I did them for decades.
I’ve noticed that when I moved into a new neighborhood and was knocking in doors and introducing myself to neighbors, or for any reason like picking the olives off the tree for curing, I’d always ask my wife to come with me and when she does, ALOT more doors open. Especially if you take a few big steps back from the door.
It's a fact that a man that is openly disrespected by his girlfriend/wife looses most if not all respect of the men observing it. Just imagine a CEO of a huge international organization with big money. Now think of him being disrespected by his wife in public. You can't help but think of him being less now.
Same as when men publically disrespect their GFS. It makes people think less of the woman. Women should never put up with disrespect from men. It should be instantly nipped in the bud or he should be dumped.
0:28 - washing a dish is a “cross to bear”? So glad I am single. Washing my own dishes is a picnic in the park compared to dealing with such psychopathy.
Mark: omagawd uguyz she doesn't nuke her reputation or live in squalor! Ima give her all my money to stay home! If I'm fortunate, she won't even use those feminist laws traditional women love! Aren't I so lucky?
It’s about cooperation with each other to make a marriage / common law relationship work. Not a comparison / contest of who does more or less. These women’s mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers GET THIS. You treat your man like a King, and he’ll do everything he can to treat you like a Queen. You get what you give.
2:25 Women are taking this duty already seriously, just in a different way. If you say something negative about women or criticize them (even if it's true and constructive criticism), she will immediately stop sanitizing your imagine and will probably be very, very pissed. That's why average men fear to criticize women, even when they deserve it, because then they lose access to not only their woman, but all of them.
Great video Alexander, more people need to hear this even if it's not what they want to hear, happier and more fulfilling lasting relationships will result! As a female listener, here were my key take aways. Be your best version of a kind, self respecting, high quality femenine woman a man would be honored to be with. Choose a high quality masculine man, who has integrity and good character, so you can genuinely be proud to be with him, show him off and make him look his best. The two of you will be happier and helping each other be and look your best, also serving as great examples for others to follow. Lead by example! I am grateful to have learned so much from your channel over the years, it has helped me in doing exactly this, and am happily engaged to an amazing man who I have been with for over 4 years :D
@@forgottenfuryan only because men let them. That is the failing of men not leading by example. In maturity levels, generally, it is Men, Women and Children, in that order. Men teach boundaries and dispense, higher scale discipline. Men have been reduced by law, society and education to be submissive to Women. Every piece of knowledge from history, from any culture, overwhelmingly says this is a bad idea. #bringthepimphandback !
@@liannemarie2504 Wealthy men and beautiful women are very happy. Half of generation X women are childless and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows. I can't afford to buy a woman so the laws can be as draconian as princess pleases.
@forgottenfuryan I don't know if I call myself beautiful and I definitely agree that my husband was not wealthy when we married. I don't know if I call him wealthy now but we're doing a lot better than we were.🤷♀️
I used to think things like that went without saying. I mean, if anyone criticized a woman I was hanging out with, I defended her. They weren't women who loved me or women I was dating. They weren't interested in me. But anyone criticizing them to my face was questioning my judgement, and I knew they were too foolish to do that. When women didn't treat me well, which was usually, I presumed they weren't saying anything good about me. If they chose to spend their time with me and they didn't speak well of me, weren't they just telling others they were foolish about how they spent their time. I would be pissed off to hear a woman I was with speak of me in a disparaging fashion. I would tell her I didn't like her attitude, and that she disgraced herself more than me. But women who couldn't stand the way I talked avoided me. They were crazy if they put down the person they chose to spend time with. I heard women say disgraceful things to and about their boyfriends all the time. I always wondered what was wrong with them that they chose those guys. Do women still get triggered by that. My mother used to try to get me to pursue women who already had boyfriends. I considered adulterous to attempt to lure someone out of a relationship. My mother said women usually didn't like their boyfriends and were looking for another. I said I didn't want a woman who was so weak and unsure of herself. I used to make my mother insane with feminist rage. It helped get me used to facing female rage and violence, which could happen all too often. I think my mom wanted to train me to fight with women, without hurting them. But their feelings were hurt all the time.
One more thing. I had an instinctively negative reaction when a woman talked down or talked down to any man. There was always outrage if I judged any woman or women, so why shouldn't I resent them when they did the same. How were they qualified to judge a man, especially when they usually showed such bad judgement in boyfriends? At least my judgement of women was consistent across the board.
I recently watched a short video where three hit white girls were dancing to the margaritas song! It blew me away that these ladies at the top of the desirability pool would deliberately degrade their desirability!
0:50 they want men to be traditional and provide, and even more these days while they are doing less, not being supportive and nurturing. to heck with that when it comes to me.
My wife and I have been married for 29 years. 24 of those years, I was in the US Air Force. She has always been my budget officer 😂 who oversaw and paid all our bills while she was working also during my many deployments for 1-2 years working 12-18 hours a day, she got the money. To this day I don’t know if I have $100 in our bank account or $100K in our bank account but I trust her. She is still pays the bills and does research on our financial growth as we got older. We currently own 2 houses in England and 1 in Smyrna, Georgia. Good times. Cheers from England! 🇺🇸🏴
It's been my personal experience that women shouldn't drink to excess. Under the influence of alcohol, a woman will act in a very inappropriate manner, coming on too strong to a man. That's when I act like a gentleman and don't let them do anything that they will regret. Women Under the influence of alcohol need to be protected and respected.
The next video on my list for today is a 35 yr. old who wonders why she isn't married when all of her friends are. I would bet it has something to do with how she acts.
I may be pissed at my hubby but would never degrade him in public! It looks bad not only on him but on me as well. I may talk to some trusted girlfriend provately but NEVER to a male friend- that is asking for trouble. Grace and etiquette are lost in this generation.
My ex wife lived to berate and emasculate me in front of people. Honest to God, I think she really got off on it. If I had any kind of defensive reaction I was the asshole.
@@gwills9337 There's a difference between complaining to gfs & seeking advice from another wife who can help you solve an issue in a positive manner. I said nothing about complaining. There is nothing wrong with seeking wise council for an unexpected challenges.
@@gwills9337 There's a difference between "complaining" & seeking advice from another wife on how to positively manage a challenge in one's marriage. I said nothing about complaining. There is nothing wrong with seeking wise council, if needed, to maintain a healthy marriage.
@@darkstar92772 I imagine that may be why she is an ex. Marriage does not give a right to abuse another. A good marriage is hard work but also rewarding. Hope you find someone who treats you with kindness and respect!
It's not nuanced at all. I was brought up to understand that family business is just that and should never be discussed with anyone outside of the family, i.e., blood relatives.
Mhh. this can only get worse if you start a family with her.... chances are this behaviour will take place infront of the kids and lead to them "being encouraged" to disrepect you. Argue in private not infront of the kids... YOU (woman or Man) are starting to distroy the family by undermining your respective parental roles and authority. Divorce just around the corner.
I just commented “a good women won’t let me touch a dish or a vacuum” in a women’s Instagram dating advice channel for men. The women in the comments are steamed.
The same as how us guys know we have to be a certain type strong protective guy, to help show off her status of being valuable because she got herself a great guy.
Alex, the ideal woman you speak of is a product of a bygone era. I was raised by my mom in that era and the qualities you speak of are what were instilled in me as to what to expect from a partner as a young man growing up. It's unfortunate that there has been a coarsening of values and morality the world over in the past couple of decades. But as they say about anything of utility these days, "they don't make them like they used to." The same goes for the modern woman.
Relating to the clip @ 5:38. One time I went on a date w a hot Latina & we were walking through the street. Some muscular asshole guy who was also Latino tried to talk to her as we were walking, telling her to come chill w him(as in to drop me to do so). She technically had no obligation to me, as we were not dating, but she said no & we continued to walk. This made me respect her a lot & made me feel good about myself, as that other guy was bigger & better looking than me. I don’t talk to her anymore & have since got into a relation, but I think of this experience from time to time & wish her well, as she was a very genuine & nice girl.
I think we need to soften this argument so its more palatable to everyone - compromise is the path to moving forward. Men submit to the family too. Its just that our means of submission comes in the form of financial and physical security. Both parents play roles which are NOT FUN to have to live....just be accountable.
4:03 Oh great. So what the hell is a guy to do when there is NO girlfriend for that? I guess we're doomed to the assumptions made about us by onlookers.
2:24 - “ this woman is vouching for this guy, I guess this must all be great ..?” Works on every level, even to the horrific examples of Rosemary and Fred West !
Interesting. I work church security every week. If there is a guy that walks in that I have never seen. The threat perception is way lower if he walks in with a woman vs by himself.
I am struggling to understand that a church requires security? And that a man walking in by himself to a church is perceived to be a threat? Not that I am ever likely to be a church goer, but if I entered a church and saw that they had security, I would turn around and leave immediately as I wouldn't feel safe. And what do you do if you see a man walk in be himself, question/interrogate him as to why he is going to church? What a messed up world.
@@IainThomson-km3hk active shooters in church. Google it. I watch the weird unfamiliar single guy closer. Observe his dress. Is he carrying a book bag or anything that’s odd.
I am a man 55 years old and happily married for over 25 years. I recently broke my arm and my wife didn’t know how to make coffee or most of the meals we eat. I have been doing the home duties because she outearns me and we are a team. We both submit to each other to make sure we are happy. It’s great and I am proud she has never made her own coffee
I mean no disrespect but I don't think it's a good idea for a man to take on a woman's role for something as frivolous as money. Masculinity does not stem from how good a slave to society a man is. It stems from being as little a slave as possible. This is why we have the term 'beta bucks'. But that doesn't only refer to non-masculine men 'winning over' women with their money. It really refers to all men who think their masculinity is tied to money in a significant way.
As long as She gives you the respect you deserve as a man it doesn't matter if she outearns you. Most women nowadays become so egotistical and arrogant just because they make more money than some men sometimes. If she makes more money than the man it's all well and good as long as it doesn't go to her head.
2:22 It's a more than just "he's safe because a woman is with him". The data on in-group preference shows that women's preference for other women is significantly stronger than men's preference for other men. We would approach women for a street interview in the same way that we would approach man, but they consider it differently.
As an older man, married many years, the idea that women even desire to post their nudity to random men seems simply astounding. That they would do so while married, still seems to me, simply irreconcilable with the notion of monogamy, propriety, and a serious life. O Brave New World! But, I don't have to date, marry, or pursue these women at my age, and wouldn't at any age.
Like this video overall, but disagree slightly with the idea of how a women should dress. If your girl is hot and she dresses a little sexy, that can make other men jealous, and you look like a boss. She’s not doing it for them, she’s doing it for you. If you have her locked down and you love each other, it won’t matter. The idea of controlling how a women dresses stems from weakness.
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Please, do you have the original source of the 5:30 video? Thanks in advance!
@Alexander the question is why should woman care about making guys look good and behave like perfect superhuman angel like creatures in public, what is their benefit of doing that? In the past this behavior was obviously forced by society it was never natural and we can clearly see this in modern societies where woman are just as free as man and now often behave in even way worse ways than most guys do. In general clearly woman don't have innately superior morals than guys they are just the same flawed humans as everyone else is and now they have the freedom to show their true colors and because woman are just as selfish as we guys are as long as their is not a huge benefit for them to behave like woman in the past did I don't think that there is anything going to revert
Thanks Alex. !
Trying to change a party girl into a faithful wife is same like women trying to change an abusive and unfaithful guy into a faithful and nice man.
Thinking that you by yourself can change someone else's entire identity and character is foolish and egotistical. People hold such a high opinion of themselves and their feelings, logic, and assume its all correct. Find someone who you have the same values as, simple.
@@eastpontiff why do think women like Beauty & The Beast or 50 shades of grey? They eat it up. Their reaction Nice guys.. ewww. Let chase the abusive, alcoholic, philandering guy.
@rajakghosh6602 I think that there is some merit to women liking "the bad guy" only because men find it difficult to be both strong and dangerous and confident as well as nice and loving and calm. Most guys stick to an extreme and out of the two extremes, women will gravitate to the bad guy.
Men should stop whining about being "nice guys" and learn how to do the things that "not nice guys" can do. Learn to fight, get strong, gain some confidence, etc. Be capable of being a "bad guy" but one who keeps it under control. That's what women want.
@@rajakghosh6602 Yeah, and what happens? Bad boy Tyrone comes into the bedroom, they have sex a few times, and then he gets bored and moves on. Then they waste their 20s chasing these men, sometimes their 30s too. Then, having forsaken the nice guys with good values, they don't come back in her 40s, so she lives out her days from 50s onwards with a horde of cats, depressed and bitter because she didn't find a guy with good values while she had the chance. They eat it up foolishly, without foresight.
@@rajakghosh6602Because such a guy can still produce genetically high value offspring. While the party girl or garden tool likely wont be a good mother.
"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved!"
Wise words
A man is supposed to keep everything running. A woman is supposed to keep the man running.
I Second that statement!
A woman is a butt and an orifice nothing else
This is the kind of comment that after reading you hear a clicking sound in your head. It really puts things into perspective in regards to how men and women can complement each other and produce synergy.
Exactly !!
Absolutely 💯 Very well said
Cant cook?
Cant clean?
No problem!
Perfect time to learn.
Whats that?
You dont want to cook?
You dont want to clean?
Gtfo outta my apartment.
You take a little; you give a little.
This aint no one sided BS.
💯%
idc about any of that stuff as long as she pops out as many kids as i want, i can get a maid for the other stuff
@@SIGSEGV1337 this is actually reckless. U are extremely easy to trap into a toxic relationship based on what u just said there.
@@anthonym840 i'm hard to trap into a toxic relationship because i'm reckless
@@SIGSEGV1337 No its pretty easy to trap u there. Ill explain why. Say u get a toxic woman pregnant. Whats to stop her from using the children against u in court?
If my wife performed a choreographed dance like that, ON OUR WEDDING DAY, I’d be out the door before the cake was cut.
I'd take the entire cake with me, to be honest. And then gtfo there. 😂
@@the_rover1exactly because why waste a good wedding cake?!
My son and daughter in law did choreographed dance at their wedding. Fine, that is their thing. They insisted, however that my wife and I do a dance as well. Fortunately, I had ankle surgery before the wedding.
I'd take the cake and run off with one of the cute bridesmaids...lol
@@oldguy7402 it's not their thing... it's your daughter in law's thing that is forced on your son.
"You mean it's _NOT_ a woman's job to make a man look bad???"
-any blue-haired feminist
Blue haired feminists don't have a man, for more than forty minutes.
Feminists dont even understand how they make women look bad.
No, we're completely capable of doing it ourselves.
@@rey_nemaattori Except that we do it often respectfully, jokingly and to ease the mood. Women do it purposefully to hurt emotionally.
When Lewis & Clarke crossed the country to the Pacific Ocean in 1804, they knew having Sacagawea in their expedition would show they were not warriors and came in peace. Women have forgotten their true value in society.
That was a brilliant calculation on their part, if intentional.
No they haven't. All women do is exist and men praise them for the barest minimum.
The expedition also expected to find mastodons in the interior.
Their place is to turn sperm into babies.
@@annsheridan12
You're just mad because you can't get pregnant since no one trusts you.
Its not about household chores. Its about creating a safe and peaceful environment to empower him to face the world and excel. Thats what they dont get.
Exactly!! I’m a homemaker and i say that and not stay at home mom because it is my job to make this house a home. A safe, peaceful and loving place for my husband and family.
Sounds like a vacation. Marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows.
@@elizabeththompson9570 To be fair, we guys are terrible on the whole about articulating this. But, yes. I handle 80% of the household chores in the 15 minutes after I walk in the door after work thanks to the delights of a vacuum cleaner, a dishwasher, and a washer/dryer. The housework isn't the issue. It's whether the house feels like my respite after a hard day. It's whether the house feels like it is recharging my batteries instead of draining them further. If I have to walk in, do the housework and get berated for it, while being asked to tackle another project that she saw on Pinterest and wants, it's not a home. Thank you for how you treat your husband and kids!
Houshold chores are the key service in creating a safe and peaceful environment. My husband never washed a dish, never did a load of laundry, never swept a floor for the first 16 years of marriage. He dropped his clothes on the floor wherever he took them off and I had fresh clothes out on the bed for him. That's how I wanted it.
Until the kids were self sufficient and I started working outside the home. Now he's mostly retired and I am working. So our sons and him do most of the household chores now. Wow, it is so obvious how much it means to the person working!
@@amylee6038
Women are a net tax burden, a permanent leisure class and they take the kids half the time. Chores take no time and no effort and women don't pay men's bills. I'm glad marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows because it means some women will have to pay individually for exploiting men on an institutional level.
the fact that most women are indeed not "morally superior to men" was a hard pill to swallow
Agreed
Agreed
You were blind from birth that's why you don't see anything
And they haven't been, since about 1970.
For the last 50 years, most men have been improving... because we've been holding them even *more* accountable.
At the same time, we've been holding women *less* accountable... and spoiling them.
@@Nyet-Zdyes
Women were always morally bankrupt but simps say anything to get some attention. Never trust someone wearing a mask.
How can women today sanitize anyone's public image when they cannot even care enough to sanitize their own?
I’m 63. I asked my friend who is 57, “When is the last time you met ‘a LADY’?” Neither of us could think of a single one. Ever.
There are some. But cant expect to find them out and about.
I meet them here and there. And to be fair women can ask a similar question. "When was the last time you met a gentleman" and come to the same conclusion. Cultural degradation didn't bypass men.
@@alterego157 exactly
@@alterego157There are lots of gentlemen around , it’s just women have no interest in them .
@@allseeingotto2912 Ladies do.
"Morally superior" is a logical trap and should be viewed with the same derision as any other feminist nonsense.
Oddly enough, when I worked in the barbershop, I heard a girl say to her man who was acting up, "when we are in public or if I'm not around, you represent me, you represent us"....that was some heavy bars....I use that with my GF
We have so little shame in todays society and so many false affirmations. People arent fully maturing anymore.
Thank God someone is making a video about public decency in the age of social media.
"Women were perceived to be the gentler sex"... 😅😊😂😆🤣😇
Once upon a time
Even the devil won't go that far in telling lies. 😂
@@mosampson8862 Most of these "redpill scholars" end up going full circle and re-start spreading those old, false myths in spite of knowing damn well they're the specular opposite of truth.
I suspect they do so as a way to attract symphaty from female audiences.
@@mosampson8862Enjoy your time alone.
Over a billion abortions committed worldwide since 1970...
Disrespect from my GF is an instant out.
Instant pull out
My then GF once treated my disrespectfully in front of one of her friends. I yelled back at her as I had never done before in my life, also in front of her girlfriend. She never again dared talk to me like that in public.
Right, the behavior you accept is the behavior you will get.
Yeah i think this was a fair response,. Most people would be rightfully angry if u have a partner insulting u in front of everyone either u or her knows.
You should not have lots you emotions and yelled at her but later in private you should have told her how she was wrong and that she was going to have to submit to you giving her a spanking to pay for what she did.
Young men and adult males,
Two things you should do as and when required,
1) let silence speak for you, while you regulate and be in your stoic frame,
2) walk away, as and when required, be it a short shock or permanently,
Guys we cannot always fix it,
@@kelseybelle2732Former President Theodore Roosevelt, when discussing foreign policy.
First point is so true. They hold no real power except shaming. That is how they have evolved. If you maintain a stoic demeanor then you take away their power.
That wedding dance is one of the worst things I’ve ever seen. The man needs a divorce lawyer.
Too late. As soon as he put the ring on her finger he was letting her take half his wealth.
Lots of men are not "violent, abusive criminals". Rather, we are normal, peaceful and simple.
Lots of men are like that though, look at prisons.
Lots does not mean all or most.
Not violent and criminals, still abusive in another way though
@ivann9924 Abusive these days means not allowing an open relationship......f off.
As a normal guy I can confirm most of my guy friends are normal and peaceful
@@michaeldevlin7747 Mostly the offspring of single mothers.
@10:15 What kind of argument is that? "What if he doesn't deserve respect, what if he treats me poorly, what if he is a douchebag?" I would ask, why are you with him them?
This is the same question that is being asked of men when their women don't respect them. If you truly are an upstanding, providing and loyal man, you don't need that type of woman in your life. On the other side of the coin, if your man is treating you poorly, why stay ladies?
This needs to be said much LOUDER for all to hear!
There's an old saying, " you can't make a silk purse from a sows ear"
The interesting thing is men should do the exact opposite. They should avoid speaking about their private life with their woman in private conversations with others. As far as everyone else is concerned your wife or girlfriend is a non-sexual being in your conversations.
I was raised that when we left the house, we represented my father and that we didn't dare disrespect them or make them look bad. I always took that into my marriage. My mother always worked to keep herself looking good and kept our house clean and cooked. My dad always said he couldn't live his life if he didn't have her doing everything for him. I do the same for my husband. And he makes my life wonderful. He goes to work this so that I can stay home with our kids. I don't understand how these women complain about not wanting to do something for the man they chose to spend the rest of their lives with. No one forced them. Why would you spend the rest of your life with someone that you didn't want to take care of and love? I don't understand
I think we, as a society, made it to where if a woman does something nice for her man then she's being taken advantage of. It's unfortunate that we can't even do nice things for someone because we love them.
"Fair, soft, kind, gentle creatures. "? Yea maybe in the 1800s, I haven't met a woman that's even one of those things.
Upper class hyper sheltered women have the luxury of being blissfully ignorant and thus innocent, albeit very expensive.
This is also why those men accused of things can have their careers destroyed without any evidence others than accusations. Happens every day.
The notion that women are the fairer sex is the biggest con in the history of the world.
I think they (men) were trying to condition the ladies with those types of statements. Problem with American society today is, shaming or encouraging women into good behavior is deemed unacceptable.
christian people raised their daughters to be the fairer sex. secularism, social media, and marxist teachers are all working hard to undue everything christian culture has built.
This extends into something subliminally extremely violent in preferential treatment of women at the work place (all in the name of not submitting her): as a boss you then look the jerk if when a woman fails you give her homework to make it good or suggest a new workaround or more user-friendly workflow ensuring she can do the job (she ends up sad and crying). In other words, if she fails, YOU SHOULD FEEL ASHAMED, not her, for not taking up the burden for her that she could not muster. That violence of shame flipping rejecting growing up as adults together is the worst. The only thing women are expected to do at work is to fill the "plantation-roster" of the manager to make him look good on his resume. Basically it is a slippery slope to harem type Hoedom. It gets worse in the military because the job is so brutal there that you look 10 times the jerk for asking her to help. It really is 5th column. And now add to that the trans woke movement and we are in trouble.
A lot of truth to this. I’ve seen the most toxic women coworkers get preferential treatment when at the best they do nothing. At the worst they drag the whole team down.
Modesty is simply an endearing quality in a woman that appeals to ANY man worth his salt. All these women that expose themselves online for the simps and $ are heading for a car crash. Of course they'll laugh at that while listening to advice and paying people who will tell them exactly what they want to hear. The Internet is for life baby and all that stuff you post won't fall off a cliff when the limited online shelf life has run its course.
Modesty is important for men as well. I stay away from arrogance. Repulsive.
“…my husband has not touched a dish in 10 years”
Call me old fashioned but I can’t help but think that a woman that claims to be traditional wife would .. I don’t know … wear a wedding ring?
RUclips Recommended this 24 seconds after release, nice
They all have masculine energy and past their prime.
This is where it's on us... Choose wisely!
Two words beginning with the letter "s" have a triggering effect...figuratively like in (old) movies when the hero brandishes a cross in the face of a surprised Bela Lugosi/Christopher Lee in his role as Dracula: Submissive/submissiveness and Settle/Settling. For awhile I've been considering an endeavour to request people to supplant "submit" with "cooperate," but I've reconsidered--doing so would prohibit me from enjoying witnessing a panoply of psychotics, narcissists, egomaniacs and other Cluster B babes just lose their propaganda-programmed minds over it.
If a woman can’t submit to the man she chose or feel comfortable doing so it says a lot about the woman and her choices
Women gets respected when they respect their husband.
I don't know. Never had a girlfriend who changed a tire on my car, or did a brake job, or changed the spark plugs. Never had a girl who worked construction for 14 hours while I sat at home with the kids. Never had a girl who risked her life for me on a near daily basis to support me. But I have done all of those things for the women in my life. And I did them for decades.
Thank you Dr. Alexander. I really need this.
I’ve noticed that when I moved into a new neighborhood and was knocking in doors and introducing myself to neighbors, or for any reason like picking the olives off the tree for curing, I’d always ask my wife to come with me and when she does, ALOT more doors open. Especially if you take a few big steps back from the door.
I always thought that women know this automaticaĺly. But at 74 I'm probably not with the times..
It's a fact that a man that is openly disrespected by his girlfriend/wife looses most if not all respect of the men observing it.
Just imagine a CEO of a huge international organization with big money. Now think of him being disrespected by his wife in public. You can't help but think of him being less now.
Same as when men publically disrespect their GFS. It makes people think less of the woman.
Women should never put up with disrespect from men. It should be instantly nipped in the bud or he should be dumped.
0:28 - washing a dish is a “cross to bear”? So glad I am single. Washing my own dishes is a picnic in the park compared to dealing with such psychopathy.
Mark: omagawd uguyz she doesn't nuke her reputation or live in squalor! Ima give her all my money to stay home! If I'm fortunate, she won't even use those feminist laws traditional women love! Aren't I so lucky?
It’s about cooperation with each other to make a marriage / common law relationship work. Not a comparison / contest of who does more or less. These women’s mothers, grandmothers and great grandmothers GET THIS. You treat your man like a King, and he’ll do everything he can to treat you like a Queen. You get what you give.
2:25 Women are taking this duty already seriously, just in a different way. If you say something negative about women or criticize them (even if it's true and constructive criticism), she will immediately stop sanitizing your imagine and will probably be very, very pissed.
That's why average men fear to criticize women, even when they deserve it, because then they lose access to not only their woman, but all of them.
Woman are natural emotional manipulators.
Great video Alexander, more people need to hear this even if it's not what they want to hear, happier and more fulfilling lasting relationships will result! As a female listener, here were my key take aways. Be your best version of a kind, self respecting, high quality femenine woman a man would be honored to be with. Choose a high quality masculine man, who has integrity and good character, so you can genuinely be proud to be with him, show him off and make him look his best. The two of you will be happier and helping each other be and look your best, also serving as great examples for others to follow. Lead by example! I am grateful to have learned so much from your channel over the years, it has helped me in doing exactly this, and am happily engaged to an amazing man who I have been with for over 4 years :D
Women and Children are beholden unto Men, Men must lead by example.
Laws and policies favor women so they're in charge
@@forgottenfuryan only because men let them. That is the failing of men not leading by example. In maturity levels, generally, it is Men, Women and Children, in that order. Men teach boundaries and dispense, higher scale discipline. Men have been reduced by law, society and education to be submissive to Women. Every piece of knowledge from history, from any culture, overwhelmingly says this is a bad idea. #bringthepimphandback !
@@forgottenfuryanmaybe that's why the world is such a shitshow right now
@@liannemarie2504
Wealthy men and beautiful women are very happy. Half of generation X women are childless and marriage, sex and childbirth rates are at all time lows. I can't afford to buy a woman so the laws can be as draconian as princess pleases.
@forgottenfuryan I don't know if I call myself beautiful and I definitely agree that my husband was not wealthy when we married. I don't know if I call him wealthy now but we're doing a lot better than we were.🤷♀️
My wife has never once had to do any outside work, cars or any of the heavy lifting lol.
Fantastic episode! One of the best!!!!
This is a great guide. I'm sending this around for sure.
I used to think things like that went without saying.
I mean, if anyone criticized a woman I was hanging out with, I defended her. They weren't women who loved me or women I was dating. They weren't interested in me. But anyone criticizing them to my face was questioning my judgement, and I knew they were too foolish to do that.
When women didn't treat me well, which was usually, I presumed they weren't saying anything good about me. If they chose to spend their time with me and they didn't speak well of me, weren't they just telling others they were foolish about how they spent their time.
I would be pissed off to hear a woman I was with speak of me in a disparaging fashion.
I would tell her I didn't like her attitude, and that she disgraced herself more than me.
But women who couldn't stand the way I talked avoided me.
They were crazy if they put down the person they chose to spend time with.
I heard women say disgraceful things to and about their boyfriends all the time.
I always wondered what was wrong with them that they chose those guys.
Do women still get triggered by that.
My mother used to try to get me to pursue women who already had boyfriends.
I considered adulterous to attempt to lure someone out of a relationship.
My mother said women usually didn't like their boyfriends and were looking for another.
I said I didn't want a woman who was so weak and unsure of herself.
I used to make my mother insane with feminist rage.
It helped get me used to facing female rage and violence, which could happen all too often.
I think my mom wanted to train me to fight with women, without hurting them.
But their feelings were hurt all the time.
One more thing. I had an instinctively negative reaction when a woman talked down or talked down to any man.
There was always outrage if I judged any woman or women, so why shouldn't I resent them when they did the same.
How were they qualified to judge a man, especially when they usually showed such bad judgement in boyfriends?
At least my judgement of women was consistent across the board.
If I was the man in the white shirt at 5.30, i would have walked off, date over, goodbye, ghosted.
I recently watched a short video where three hit white girls were dancing to the margaritas song! It blew me away that these ladies at the top of the desirability pool would deliberately degrade their desirability!
0:50 they want men to be traditional and provide, and even more these days while they are doing less, not being supportive and nurturing. to heck with that when it comes to me.
That isn't true Alex, most men are not violent, vicious, savages.
@jojomama3028 I'm saying in general, most men are not violent and vicious they can be but they are not by default.
yeah but... misogynee
No where does he say 'most men'
@@Solutionsarejustcompromises he said a lot of men, but a lot of men insinuate a minority are not.
82% of child murders are committed by women.
Women can only be built up,by tearing men down.just ask Disney.
When he was talking at the beginning i couldn't help thinking of Lauren boebert😂
My wife and I have been married for 29 years. 24 of those years, I was in the US Air Force. She has always been my budget officer 😂 who oversaw and paid all our bills while she was working also during my many deployments for 1-2 years working 12-18 hours a day, she got the money.
To this day I don’t know if I have $100 in our bank account or $100K in our bank account but I trust her. She is still pays the bills and does research on our financial growth as we got older.
We currently own 2 houses in England and 1 in Smyrna, Georgia.
Good times.
Cheers from England! 🇺🇸🏴
Pathetic
Very insightful, I've never heard anyone bring up public perception duties before.
It's been my personal experience that women shouldn't drink to excess. Under the influence of alcohol, a woman will act in a very inappropriate manner, coming on too strong to a man. That's when I act like a gentleman and don't let them do anything that they will regret. Women Under the influence of alcohol need to be protected and respected.
It's a huge mistake to apply traditional, reasonable, values to modern whamen. They belong to the streets
He's being fleeced by a wimmins, he's blind.
The next video on my list for today is a 35 yr. old who wonders why she isn't married when all of her friends are. I would bet it has something to do with how she acts.
Is there any subject that woman' doesn't feel triggered by?
Gunfu?
I may be pissed at my hubby but would never degrade him in public! It looks bad not only on him but on me as well. I may talk to some trusted girlfriend provately but NEVER to a male friend- that is asking for trouble. Grace and etiquette are lost in this generation.
My ex wife lived to berate and emasculate me in front of people. Honest to God, I think she really got off on it. If I had any kind of defensive reaction I was the asshole.
Complaining to your Gfs is just as toxic. Keep your relationship issues to yourself.
@@gwills9337 There's a difference between complaining to gfs & seeking advice from another wife who can help you solve an issue in a positive manner. I said nothing about complaining. There is nothing wrong with seeking wise council for an unexpected challenges.
@@gwills9337 There's a difference between "complaining" & seeking advice from another wife on how to positively manage a challenge in one's marriage. I said nothing about complaining. There is nothing wrong with seeking wise council, if needed, to maintain a healthy marriage.
@@darkstar92772 I imagine that may be why she is an ex. Marriage does not give a right to abuse another. A good marriage is hard work but also rewarding. Hope you find someone who treats you with kindness and respect!
It's not nuanced at all. I was brought up to understand that family business is just that and should never be discussed with anyone outside of the family, i.e., blood relatives.
Sorry Alexander, if showing appreciation was the bare minimum,there wouldn't be a crisis...at all.
Like Doc Holliday's companion in Tombstone.
Mhh. this can only get worse if you start a family with her.... chances are this behaviour will take place infront of the kids and lead to them "being encouraged" to disrepect you. Argue in private not infront of the kids... YOU (woman or Man) are starting to distroy the family by undermining your respective parental roles and authority. Divorce just around the corner.
I just commented “a good women won’t let me touch a dish or a vacuum” in a women’s Instagram dating advice channel for men. The women in the comments are steamed.
The same as how us guys know we have to be a certain type strong protective guy, to help show off her status of being valuable because she got herself a great guy.
Why is it okay for them to tell others how to live but you tell them anything they get mad
This is a big thing in asian cultures.
This is one of your better subjects - great video.
0:13 I bear that cross...
I file washing dishes with "being a mom is the hardest job in the world".
He pays the bills and protects the family, the woman is a homemaker and care taker. Both are massively important in a strong family unit.
She lives on vacation, he works nonstop
Some food and be nice and I'm all set.
Alex, the ideal woman you speak of is a product of a bygone era. I was raised by my mom in that era and the qualities you speak of are what were instilled in me as to what to expect from a partner as a young man growing up. It's unfortunate that there has been a coarsening of values and morality the world over in the past couple of decades. But as they say about anything of utility these days, "they don't make them like they used to." The same goes for the modern woman.
This video makes me think of telling little kids not to touch the stove or play with scissors... And they ask why... Like.. sigh....
Relating to the clip @ 5:38. One time I went on a date w a hot Latina & we were walking through the street. Some muscular asshole guy who was also Latino tried to talk to her as we were walking, telling her to come chill w him(as in to drop me to do so). She technically had no obligation to me, as we were not dating, but she said no & we continued to walk. This made me respect her a lot & made me feel good about myself, as that other guy was bigger & better looking than me. I don’t talk to her anymore & have since got into a relation, but I think of this experience from time to time & wish her well, as she was a very genuine & nice girl.
I think we need to soften this argument so its more palatable to everyone - compromise is the path to moving forward. Men submit to the family too. Its just that our means of submission comes in the form of financial and physical security. Both parents play roles which are NOT FUN to have to live....just be accountable.
4:03 Oh great. So what the hell is a guy to do when there is NO girlfriend for that? I guess we're doomed to the assumptions made about us by onlookers.
A better word is "cooperation".
2:24 - “ this woman is vouching for this guy, I guess this must all be great ..?”
Works on every level, even to the horrific examples of Rosemary and Fred West !
it's called a PARTNERSHIP.
Basically don’t say anything about your man in public you wouldn’t say about your boss or company on social media and not expect repercussions.
Question: do u read off a script? Just curious. Luv ur videos by the way. Keep up the great work!
Interesting. I work church security every week. If there is a guy that walks in that I have never seen. The threat perception is way lower if he walks in with a woman vs by himself.
I'm the one who eyeballs you because I can smell the stink
I am struggling to understand that a church requires security?
And that a man walking in by himself to a church is perceived to be a threat?
Not that I am ever likely to be a church goer, but if I entered a church and saw that they had security, I would turn around and leave immediately as I wouldn't feel safe. And what do you do if you see a man walk in be himself, question/interrogate him as to why he is going to church?
What a messed up world.
@@IainThomson-km3hk
Boomers being paranoid.
@@IainThomson-km3hk active shooters in church. Google it.
I watch the weird unfamiliar single guy closer. Observe his dress. Is he carrying a book bag or anything that’s odd.
@@IainThomson-km3hk still struggling?
Wish I had this info when I was younger.
I am a man 55 years old and happily married for over 25 years. I recently broke my arm and my wife didn’t know how to make coffee or most of the meals we eat. I have been doing the home duties because she outearns me and we are a team. We both submit to each other to make sure we are happy. It’s great and I am proud she has never made her own coffee
I mean no disrespect but I don't think it's a good idea for a man to take on a woman's role for something as frivolous as money. Masculinity does not stem from how good a slave to society a man is. It stems from being as little a slave as possible. This is why we have the term 'beta bucks'. But that doesn't only refer to non-masculine men 'winning over' women with their money. It really refers to all men who think their masculinity is tied to money in a significant way.
Does she let you hold your own balls sometimes?
As long as She gives you the respect you deserve as a man it doesn't matter if she outearns you. Most women nowadays become so egotistical and arrogant just because they make more money than some men sometimes. If she makes more money than the man it's all well and good as long as it doesn't go to her head.
BP cursed advice
Who is deleting my comments?
2:22
It's a more than just "he's safe because a woman is with him".
The data on in-group preference shows that women's preference for other women is significantly stronger than men's preference for other men. We would approach women for a street interview in the same way that we would approach man, but they consider it differently.
As an older man, married many years, the idea that women even desire to post their nudity to random men seems simply astounding. That they would do so while married, still seems to me, simply irreconcilable with the notion of monogamy, propriety, and a serious life. O Brave New World! But, I don't have to date, marry, or pursue these women at my age, and wouldn't at any age.
Like this video overall, but disagree slightly with the idea of how a women should dress. If your girl is hot and she dresses a little sexy, that can make other men jealous, and you look like a boss. She’s not doing it for them, she’s doing it for you. If you have her locked down and you love each other, it won’t matter. The idea of controlling how a women dresses stems from weakness.
It’s sad that we all fall because of their ignorance.
Amazing, well balanced, intelligent, rational content. 👍
I like you sir. Your delivery and content is on point. 🙌🏿💯
Very good. Never really thought of this before.
She never learned to respect.
That’s right. I run the household and pay the bills.
A military officer with an unwise wife can never reach his potential, the book of Proverbs has much to say about the blessings of a wise wife.