i once had a girl cancel after we agreed on a place that was 15-20 minutes more of a drive for her, because i then offered to meet closer in the middle at another bar i liked. well, i knew it was risky because i "changed my mind" but i did it to save her drive time to a bar i liked just as much. but no, in her female brain, that equated to "i wish he would have stuck with the first bar b/c even though i would have driven farther it would have made me feel he was more masculine b/c he stuck with his first choice even though logically it makes sense to not drive as far if i dont have to." this is the type of shit guys are dealing with dating in 2024 and its no longer worth it.
Dating is a numbers game, and unfortunately, you’ll encounter people like that. The best part? It didn’t go further than the first date. That’s why I believe a coffee date is the best option. It’s affordable, short, and easy to arrange at convenient locations.
i once had a girl cancel after we agreed on a place that was 15-20 minutes more of a drive for her, because i then offered to meet closer in the middle at another bar i liked. well, i knew it was risky because i "changed my mind" but i did it to save her drive time to a bar i liked just as much. but no, in her female brain, that equated to "i wish he would have stuck with the first bar b/c even though i would have driven farther it would have made me feel he was more masculine b/c he stuck with his first choice even though logically it makes sense to not drive as far if i dont have to." this is the type of shit guys are dealing with dating in 2024 and its no longer worth it.
Dating is a numbers game, and unfortunately, you’ll encounter people like that. The best part? It didn’t go further than the first date. That’s why I believe a coffee date is the best option. It’s affordable, short, and easy to arrange at convenient locations.
If she’s demanding more than a coffee date, he already is 5 cars behind imo.
Definitely a red flag