First video of yours I've seen, and I already know you're a rare gem. Design youtubers tend to skip over important things like the practicalities of trip hazards, day to day wear and maintenance, safety of smaller housemates, and long term versatility. You're encouraging people to design for real life, not for showrooms. I love it.
What a foriegn concept! I have a family member that doesn't get it. She ends up giving away a lot of it as gifts. Some of the stuff she gives me I can use but, other stuff gets returned, sold on Craigslist, or re-gifted. (Yes, I regift because, if I don't, my house would soon look like a hoarders haven.)
*Looking at both my clear glass lampshades which I like a lot.....* Tbf, as mentioned above me, both of my clear glass lampshades have those decorative bulbs and they're hanging in places where not a lot of light is needed.
Can I say how much I love someone who uses "all for naught", "malleable" and "butt print" in the same review. You're one of three people I now subscribe to.
I have a wicker pendant in my dining room and I think the main complaint about it that people don’t realize is that they don’t actually light the space. Having a fixture with a single bulb means you need other lamps in the room to get proper light. I originally had an oversized Edison bulb in it and I had to switch it out for an LED bulb which takes away from the look of the fixture. The single bulb still isn’t enough light so I am moving it to a bedroom where I don’t need as much brightness. I have other lamps in there to offset it. They are nice to look at but aren’t practical as a single statement fixture.
Hahaha someone finally said it. I’m Asian in Malaysia, all wicker furniture tends to collect dust a lot of it. So it boggled by mind that so much that pendent wicker lights was a thing
She's the only designer that said out loud what I've been thinking since wicker pendant lights became popular. Very difficult to clean! That alone makes it a "nope" for me.
I have had wicker items, but indoors. They don’t gather much dust and dirt, maybe because I live in a colder state and air indoors is much cleaner and dust free.
Thank you for mentioning the safety issue with large heavy mirror s especially around kids. I cringe when I see you tubers with children leaning large mirrors in heavy traffic areas. You’re the one channel who has mentioned safety with mirrors.
This is the first video of yours I've ever seen, and I never comment on videos, but it was so wonderful to hear you speak both positives and negatives of items, validating people's choices to get something they love, while also emphasizing that not every beautiful thing fits for every style or is for every person. The positivity you radiate is wonderful to watch.
I love the look of a round table. There is another drawback. It’s difficult to use as a sewing table. It’s necessary to have a straight edge to run fabric through.
I found a 100 dollar world market wicker pendant lamp at a second hand store brand new for 20 bucks and I love it, but I'm that annoying boho person that most designers would say it's too much boho lol. It fits me though and brings me joy 😁
No hate. I'm the proud owner of a newly purchased ornate gilt mirror. It will be living in my neo-victorian style hallway. The hallway is dark emerald green with dark woodwork so this classic statement piece is essential for the esthetic and to bounce light around a dark space. My mirror cost me £5 from a charity shop so it was an absolute bargain. We both have very different styles but we have planned ahead, shopped intentionally and frugally. What little money we have spent has not been wasted if we value and appreciate our purchases. I'm sure we'll both love our statement pieces for years to come. 🙂
I love that you consider every day life. It seems like many designers don't think about things like dust and cleaning when styling. I live at a busy intersection in a big city and due to the dark, sticky dust that accumulates so quickly I've learned the hard way that any kind of woven texture will defeat dusters, microfiber cloths, etc. Just discovered your channel and looking forward to going through your content!
The ease of cleaning (e.g., wicker lamps) cannot be underestimated, esp when we're all so busy! Sometimes, we get caught up in the style and trend and forget about these aspects. Thanks for highlighting this along with other points.
Kiva! This is the content you excel in. Very few designers on RUclips address upkeep or geometry or the fact that one might love an item but it won't fit either their lifestyle, their aesthetic. or their pocketbook. Thank you!
I am very broke, and most of my furnature is second hand, and we have a pouff. Idk how we got it. We realized quickly it was NOT a seat. But it is a great footrest.
“You can like something and leave it at the store!” I learned this lesson a few years ago and let me tell you it is life changing. When I started putting this into practice I no longer felt guilty about liking things and then trying to work out the calculations in my head on how I would be able to afford to take it home with me. Now I just appreciate the items in the store, and go on about my business. If I really like them I go back for a visit. #dontjudgeme 😂
I agree 1000% with you. The guilty mirror is not my style AT ALL, I think it’s beautiful when I see in someone else’s house but I am a very straight clean lines person, I don’t like anything ornate. And the cloud sofa is beautiful in pictures but in person as you said it’s only nice when you fluff them all the time and I actually love a firm seating, I like support and firmness.
Welp, normally, I agree with everything you say but I have to draw the line with the round table. Yes, they are more expensive. I have a nice walnut table that I bought from Domain when it closed a local store in NJ. I’d been eyeing that sucker for more than a year. They finally reduced it to a price I could afford and threw in 4 Biedermeier style chairs. I love them but mainly because my dining rooms have always been perfect squares and they fit like they were designed for the space. PLUS, the table came with a leaf. So, I can expand the table to seat 8 in a pinch. I’ve never had large houses and the round table has always been more than enough. Finally, it’s just gorgeous. My BF is a carpenter and he lusts after it. I consider that an endorsement.
Oh, I adore round tables as well. Sure, they're not as grand, but to be honest it's a lot easier to fit extra chairs around a round table for a fun game night than it is around a rectangular one. I learned that from barbecuing with my parents: a 4-seater round table has fit 7-8 people easily when it's barbecue time! We'd just carry the round table over a bit and bring some extra chairs... made great memories that way. In my own home, I decided to go for a round table exactly because of that, and the flow around it is great (it's an apartment with dining and sitting integrated).
@@koalaeucalyptus We've got a round table. The rectangle one was just too big for the space we had. We use the family room as a combination microwave counter/dinning/fireplace seating/exercise room so the round table helps consolidate a lot of space. It's a multi purpose room. Especially as one side of the rectangle table couldn't sit a family member because it was hard to get to. The round one makes it easier to maneuver into that part near the window. I just need to crochet a table runner or table cloth for it. Or maybe just a round center piece.
@@Fickji That certainly sounds like it was the best solution for you! I also prefer the easiness of maneuvering around a round table versus a rectangular one.
@@KivaBrent I want to rearrange my living room to maximize space for guests. I also need to replace flooring in the living room and bedrooms because my husband is using a wheelchair now. Also! Looking to Re-do my bathroom for Accessibility needs. Finally, updating the basement RecRoom for our son so it's more appropriate for a teen/young adult. Sooo - a lot to do on a budget 😜
As you are an interior designer, I'm curious about your experience with homes that are aiming for a very "alternative" style? And if you've ever worked with people like that and been able to help them develop their style. :) You often cover very "normal" styles like midcentury modern, farmhouse, minimalist, etc etc. But what about things like cottagecore, french provincial, dark academia, "witchy," etc? I'd love a video from you covering more alternative styles and your opinion on making them work in a home cohesively! For example, have you seen Lulu Sapphire's home? It is VERY extra and beauty and the beast inspired with a more modern color palette!
Oooh will lookup dark academia style! Mine is of the Arts & Crafts Movement (aka in a watered down version- Craftsman). Nobody on you tube covers it. 🙄
@@blackholesun3152 Dark Academia is SO unique and cool! But a lot of people consider it a subculture/lifestyle instead of just a decor. :) Keep that in mind when you're looking it up! I really love it as an aesthetic as well though. I'm somewhere in between rococo revival and light/dark academia, personally! Which a lot of designer youtubers REALLY diss on hahahha! Sometimes they use my preferred style as their "what not to do" images which I think is so funny!
@@PrettyWitchCraft i think at the end of the day you need to take everything with a grain of salt, its your house and you live there so make it what you love! It doesn’t have to fit their standards, nor are they coming in your house to rate it 😅. Have fun making your home yours ❤️
Thank you for your comments! I’ve struggled to define my style because how saturated interior design is with those “normal” design styles. You’ve given me a starting point to explore more alternative styles that fit me.
Just wanted to share that for those of you in Canada, Structube makes a exact replica of the gleaming primrose mirror in 3 ft, and it's only 299 CAD . Such a steal!
The dust issue was the first thing that came to mind when I saw the wicker pendants - you're the first design youtuber I've seen point it out. Love the attention to how it is to actually live with these!
Not just dust, but spider webs! I love living in deeply wooded, natural locations, but the higher my decor is, the more I want to limit surfaces and crevices that are attractive to 6- and 8-legged creatures.
IMHO, round tables are fine as long as they are small and have leaves so that in a rectangular room, you get the option to make it functional for a larger group. If there are only two or three people at the table the small round is fine and quite lovely. If you want to have a dinner for 6 - 10, then just throw in a leave or two and you have a rounded rectangular table that gives plenty of walking around space. Additionally, there are no sharp edges to bump into as there is with a true rectangle. Maybe that issue is just mine as I do tend to be a little clumsy at times. :)
I'd never even looked at RH's inventory before seeing your channel and I'm now totally inspired. I feel confident with attempting this esthetic thanks to all of your tips.
Another great video! I love your approach to interior design. Rather than telling people "don't get this, it isn't trendy anymore" it's more like "here's the info, make your own informed decision" 🥰
Very informative!! I am SO bad at seeing something at the store and falling in love with it and buy it with no idea where I can use it!! I have tons of brand new decor and and home items still sitting in bags that I just HAD to have and now gave nowhere to put them!! :( It's such a waste and I most definitely CANNOT afford to buy things I don't need! I need to seriously stop and think before making purchases. It's outta control 😆 Thanks for sharing and reminding me that you can love something and leave it in thee store!! I am gonna picture you saying that every time i go to make an unnecessary purchase!!! TFS!!❤
Maybe? 🤷♀️ I’m very drawn to farmhouse (grew up very rural and it feels “like home” plus I truly believe mason jars are the solution to everything) and bohemian (traveling is our passion and I adore color) and am trying to find a way to meld the two. It’s not going well right now, but I remain optimistic. The reality right now is my decor tends to shift between the two while I seek balance.
Oh not so. My old house 1950 just got a diy farmhouse kitchen redo, when I realized modern scandi would never work here unless I tore down walls. My one tiny bathroom is total funky hippy boho, so I can feel a little silly in there & ignore the upgrade needs that are too costly right now. I try to make transitions and sight lines blend, but I love having each room a little unique.
Kb i love the info that u provide but also that u seem like ur talking to a friend. Its something that. Cant be taught. U either have it or dont. U just put people at ease. N u never seem like u are lecturing or talking down to ur audience Keep up the posts . we love it
This is the first video I've seen of yours and you've won me over. I don't think you were negative at all- just very realistic and honest. I don't hear enough about things being difficult to clean and that is one of my biggest issues with many interior design trends. Thank you for bringing light into what is practical as well as stylish, while also pointing out ways these things can work in certain spaces too. Very helpful and informative content!
I'm totally boho so yes I have the pendant, the round table and the pouf, in the same room 😆 the pendant was an upgrade from a 'boob' ceiling light and it hangs low so I vacuum it, the table holds the majority of my livingroom plants and the pouf has been claimed by my cat, I made a removable cover for it. I do have a simple round mirror and my aunt's vintage couch. I've been wanting a new one but unsure about what kind. I will keep an eye out for lumpy cushions!
I love mix and matching design styles. I have a mixture of bohemian farmhouse rustic modern and Scandinavian in my home and it actually works for some reason. I think it’s bc I keep things mostly neutral so it all blends together
I grew up with an large ornate gilt mirror. It was a wall-hanging mirror, but it came with a table underneath it that was carved just as ornately and painted gold and white with a marble top. It's an antique heirloom from my great grandmother, that I've been told I'll be inheriting because my house has the walls for it and it matches my decor (I like traditional/gilded farmhouse). My parents have always put both in the formal living room (most people would turn it into an office) with the piano and the antique settee. It's just a side table my parents use to decorate seasonally or occasionally put drinks on if we're sitting in that room. It looks best at christmas, since the tree is in the large foyer next to the archway for the room, so you get it's reflection in the large mirror, but the gilded mirror also frames the classical nativity set my parents decorate the table with really nicely.
I'll never understand when people say your style has to be "unique" I just want to relax in a place that's comfortable, who cares what others are doing.
I have a large gilded mirror that I’ve had for 30 years. I’ve managed to make it work in all of my homes though agree it can be challenging. Mine is about 6.5 feet high but only about 2.5 feet wide with a nice dimensional but simple frame. I’ve always had it as a floor mirror. I do love it as it helps make my space seem endless and bright. I wouldn’t buy again as you say they’re very expensive but I’m extremely glad I have mine. It in combo with some newer round mirrors really adds some glam. My home is eclectic and would never pass a decorators checklist. I probably purchase a couple of new pieces every decade to keep things looking refreshed. Less is more so I keep things in cupboards and swap out favourite items from time to time. A girlfriend swapped out all of my cushions for new when we sold our last place. That was an amazing transformation. My home is white on white with beiges and greys with some natural woods and pops of colour. I love my space but it must continue to evolve.
@@Papervoyage Right? My mum made us use one ever since we started taking showers and it‘s so easy and almost doesn‘t take any time after showering. I‘d much rather have glass that I can additionally clean with some type of window cleaner or antibacterial stuff and a sponge/rag/brush instead of a shower curtain that collects all kinds of things in the folds and that I can‘t squeegee clean after every shower 😄
@@sweetheartx13 agree!! My grandpa made me do the same thing at his house whenever I stayed over during the summer when I was little, it's super easy. But to be honest, at my parents' house the shower is open (like there's just a wall that separates it from the rest of the bathroom) and I think I prefer those to the glass doors
@@eh5320 Okay, that‘s another step up in terms of practicality and cleanliness of course, so yes, if there‘s all three options then that one is probably the best 😄
I have to completely disagree about the round dining table. I have always had a square or rectangle table in the past but recently bought a round table and I just love it. Being round actually makes it easier to get around it when people are seated at it. Good info on the pouf. I have been looking at them but will be rethinking that.
I went 😱😱😟 when she say don't buy a round dining room table I literally just bought a 60 inch wood round dining room table for my former dining room after years at least 20 years of having a rectangle cherry wood double pedestal table formal dining table I wanted something different but it only seats four my other table seated six to eight I don't know if my dining room is rectangular or square but I'm hoping to make this round table work I was so disappointed I probably wouldn't have bought if I saw the video before
@@louisemincey7676 Don't be silly. She's completely wrong on this one. You can never achieve elegance with a rectangular table. Are they practical yes, but OMG, a round table always looks great.
@@mybestideas1 thank you I've been thinking of how to style this round dining room table I think I might be able to get six chairs instead of four the legs are like an x I got it from Habitat ReStore for $40 and really good shape just going to go over the top sanding and put a coat of stain it is black
"You can like something and leave it at the store" 🥴🤯 ...this will be my new mantra to give my credit card a break for a few months! 😆🤣 Thanks for the reminder
Years ago I had ordered 2 custom made sofas with down feather cushions. Really expensive and beautiful, but ultimately a big regret. I still own one, but it’s in a room no one sits in. I love your “realness”. Thank you for your practical but stylish advice.
I love my cloud coach dupe from Bobs Furniture. The fluffing doesn’t bother me as it doesn’t have that bad of an indent. And when I do fluff them, it literally takes seconds. It’s the most comfortable and best purchase I ever made.
I've never liked sofas like the cloud. I just can't stand soft, sinky or squishy sofas and chairs that make you feel like you are almost laying down instead of sitting. I prefer very firm sofa cushions and tough to find.
Try European brands. Europe generally goes for the more firm sofas and they're much better quality than western (aka China made) furniture. I got my sectional sofa from Poland and it has firm orthopedic cushions and storage in the chaise. I absolutely love it!
You should check out Apt2B and see if there’s anything you like. They’re manufacturers/retailers based in the US and they’ve got 2.0 density foam core cushions that are pretty firm and seem like they’d maintain their shape well.
I agree with not having a round table. My favorite table is oval -- hard to find though. I had one that had leaves so it became round when I didn't need the extra seating. Great video as always!
I keep poufs in the family room so the kids can play games at the coffee table. It works really well for us. I totally agree with you about "You can like something and leave it at the store." That's why my home doesn't have white furniture
I just love your advice. I was raised to not waste money, but love decorating my home. Keep doing what your doing. I really think your channel will grow fast!
I have inherited several pieces of furniture, two large gilt mirrors and a 4 foot oriental vase from my aunt who had a large home. I was able to find a space for most of them since I also moved to a larger home. I gave a lot of thought to their placement because I wanted to do justice to the pieces but I understand what you are saying- everything doesn’t fit or complement every space even though we like it. One mirror was a little overwhelming for my dining room until I realized I could remove an overhanging part at the top and not ruin the lines and the mirror actually looks better to me. Now it is in proportion and fits nicely in the space above the buffet. My home is very traditional but the large vase is actually a beautiful and unexpected addition to my dining room. The other mirror is larger but goes well in the upstairs hallway just across from the bedroom suite double doors. I have kept the rest of the hallway very simple because the mirror has a real presence and would clash with other pieces. I also kept some of the paintings but replaced others more to my taste when we redecorated most of the rooms. In the end, I’m very glad to have some family heirlooms that have a little history and wonderful memories in my home.
These are all such great tips!! Growing up, I saw my mom and dad use half of these things on your list and the things you’ve said are true, especially about maintenance/cleaning being inconvenient and styles being limited. I’ve learned these things from seeing my parents go through it so I’m kinda lucky to have been able to avoid these mistakes. But now other people can do the same from watching your video!
I have a tall gilded mirror I got from my great grandmother, it's moved with me to a dozen homes and now overseas as well. It really is a piece you have to design the whole room around. And yea, very HEAVY!
I have different styles so I decorated each room with a different style/decor. I realized I like to see different colors in every space fir the most part. This concept works for me thankfully, I was worried at first but once I stop trying to follow the “rules” of home decorating I begin to love my space
Kiva, this is the first of your videos that I've seen and I'm enchanted by your excellent taste and common sense. You should have your own TV decorating show! I'm off now to check out your other uploads.
Gilded mirrors are actually easy to DIY. Most of the stuff can be found on amazon and home depot. All you need is: 1) A mirror. Preferably an arched or oval mirror. 2) Center onlay. This goes on top of the mirror. It's the statement piece. 3) A long onlay to go on the sides and maybe the bottom. *optional 4) flexible molding trim 5) A second center onlay to put on the bottom of your mirror *Optional 6) Extra strength glue (I used gorilla glue). 7) Gold spray pray paint. You can also use gold leaf paint if you like. 8) Painters tape. First, you need to arrange the onlays and trim on the mirror until you get your desired look. Glue the pieces once you are satisfied with the look. Then you tape up the mirror part so the spray paint doesn't strain the mirror. Then spray paint it gold. Voila! Pro tips: -Get a mirror from Craig's list or a thrift store. Way cheaper! -you can use wood putty to fill the gaps between the onlays and trims. This adds a smoother more customed finish -Make sure the design on the onlays and trims are cohesive so they look like one piece when you glue them, together. Take your time and compare each piece before buying. My DIY mirror cost me $250. $150 mirror and the rest of the stuff added to about $100. The mirror I wanted cost well over$1,000.
I love your advice!!! I'm starting from scratch after a flood and I will not be wasting money by planning ahead, being practical about my choices, and taking my time. So much to do but no rush.
Had the exact same thinking with the wicker pendant light - I really LOVED them for awhile and planned on getting one for my dining room. Boyfriend talked me out of it, got something more MCM/industrial and it looks better than I could've imagined. Plus it's bright, and easy to dust!
My husband would absolutely LOVE Kiva! “You can love something and LEAVE IT AT THE STORE!” 😂😂♥️ (I should get this inscribed on a necklace pendant) 😂 For the record, I also absolutely LOVE KIVA!! ♥️
omg I use to work at West Elm..... I wish this video was just on repeat at all times..... you're so right!!! especially about adding pieces that make no sense in the style of space you've created.
Ok KIVAAAAA! Babe this is by far one of your BEST vids. What I loveeed most of all, was you have given your viewer/designer, the option to reevaluate their purchase and give purpose and meaning to the items. This in turn saves money and allows smart and purposeful shopping and styling. Thanks my love. I really enjoyed this contribution. Well done.
One place you didn’t mention for round tables- open floor plans, when your kitchen, dining, and living is combined into a “great room” - I’ve found round dining tables work well in this type of space.
Why wasn't your channel in my recommended videos a year ago 😭 That said, I think the poufs can work really well when your space is designed for them! I have ADHD and I love sitting on the floor or on a beanbag. I have a super-thick shag rug and a lot of pillows, and once I have a little more room, I'm definitely getting a nice low coffee table. It also helps to be able to stack them or move them under a table when you want them out of the way. I'm curious how other countries use poufs, especially ones where sitting on the floor is a lot more common-- like Morocco or Japan. It's funny how "Scandinavian" has become such a recognizable and influential design style, but not many other regions have the same kind of representation.
Agree on the round dining table in terms of space availability. Our house had a rattan dining table that seats 6 people and because we didn’t have enough space, only 4 people can really go to and fro from their seats easily. But I loved that dining table, because you can put all the food in the middle and its equidistant to all. Also you can chat to all seated well because you’re not too far to the other person.
I have to say, THANK YOU for taking the time to put time stamps in the video. It made it super quick to watch. I made sure I gave you a like and followed both on IG and RUclips 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Round tables work for Asian food cultures because the food is in the centre of the table and not individually plated. I guess the houses are differently configured. And their lifestyles are different. Love your content. Thanks for the tips on the maintenance issues on trendy items. It is something essential to be considered.❤️👍
The points about the wicker pendant seem to really focus on it being trendy right now with bohemian, natural, and Scandinavian modern styles, but I grew up with a cane pendant from the early 80s above the kitchen table in our house (it matched the caning on the tubular steel frame dinette chairs!) 😂 We never were a “super clean house” family, and I don’t remember it being dirty or difficult, but I definitely think it works with more styles when you look for the shapes outside of the trendy and modern ones. They definitely had cane lampshades, including on pendants, in the 60s, 70s, and 80s and they were used in many interior styles from those decades.
I don’t feel “cooped up “ in my home. I love my home, it cost $$$$$ me a lot of money and I’m going to enjoy it. I do love your show and all your fabulous taste and advice. I just want to convey, at 73, I’ve traveled the world; did that, done that but not all seniors want to shop and travel. Some of us, love enjoying our homes from the inside. ❤
Wow! You just answered my question about should I get rectangular table for this rectangular room or round table? No more guessing and thanks for the visual-it helped me so much! No need to visit that thought anymore😄
I live in an apartment and my dining room is basically a nook extended from my living room area. I tried a square table and it just took up so space. I just purchased a round counter height table with two chairs and a settee. It fits perfect. I will also add accent chairs, especially the low sitting ones with the full gold frame. They are beautiful, but they take up a lot of space.
I agree with all your points. Given that I have a small house, my round dining table works perfectly for four seaters. Luckily, it was heavily discounted, so I easily decided on buying it. The rounded corner wall mirror that you suggested is the exact one that I actually have! I am not a fan of the pouffs and I prefer if the world switches to stools. They occupy lesser space and can be used anywhere, even at a dining table.
We’ve had the same round dining table since I was 2 in my house, and one thing I like about it is that there’s a middle attachment that can make it bigger for guests. If you have a small family like me, it can be a great solution to get a table like that.
LOVE your recommendations. I move frequently, and have lived in many different-sized dwellings with a variety of layouts. I do happen to own a round pedestal dining table (48"), but only because a) it has drop leaves that turn it into a 24x48 console, b) I don't have a large family or entertain large groups often and c) it's what worked best at the time I was making the purchase, but could also offer a different configuration to be worth the investment. What I'd rather invest in somewhere in the future is a double-pedestal oval table with inserted leaves that can stretch from a 48" round to a long oval that seats 6-8. For me, investing in pieces is about functional versatility and materials that allow me to refinish as my tastes change.
"You can like something and leave it at the store" is something I had to tell myself bc I like LOTS of stuff and I can't buy everything and put it in my room (I really like collecting random stuff). I'm glad I realized that before earning my own money and having my own Apartment. Thanks for this video as wrll. It was very informative ^^.
I'm not into trends but when the items you mentioned about you need to know before you buy is the same reasons I never bought any of the items you mentioned. It is all about the flow and preventing accidents or wasting time it keeping something clean with the feeling of 24/7.
I love that you don’t berate people you popped up in my suggestions and i thought here we go again some jumped up fashion guru telling me all my interior is shit but nope just good advice!!
Thank you for the validation on round tables running expensive! I have a pretty small dining nook but it's so frustrating when the small cute round tables are like 2-3x more expensive than the big party tables. For anyone else with the same struggle, you can also try looking at desk tables; looks like just a narrow rectangular table but less expensive.
Kiva, you are so right about the pieces you mentioned. Lots to consider especially when buying higher priced items. I bought 2 Thomasville leather loveseats for the family room in my former home. They were luxurious and great quality. However, they drove me “crazy.” The leather was so soft that every time someone sat on them, the cushions (both seat and back) would slouch and look messy. I was constantly having to fluff them back into place. When I sold my home, the buyers loved the sofas so much they bought them! So beautiful and long lasting but very high maintenance. Never again.
"You can like something and leave it at the store."...…yaaasss, once again for those of us in the back 😂😂😂😂
#word!!! Love it Kieva 👏👏👏
I'm 57 and have just recently learned this. Haven't perfected it yet though.😂
So true and especially in regards to clothing!
My hubbie would totally agree with this statement!!😃💙💙💙💙🏴🏴🏴🏴
i came to the comment section to see if someone mentioned this quote 😂😂 i feel attacked, but in a good way cuz i do this all the time 💀 overshopping
P.S. Kiva never said “don’t buy it.” She said, “think before you buy it.”
Don’t fall for it
Because she's already bought it.
First video of yours I've seen, and I already know you're a rare gem. Design youtubers tend to skip over important things like the practicalities of trip hazards, day to day wear and maintenance, safety of smaller housemates, and long term versatility. You're encouraging people to design for real life, not for showrooms. I love it.
“You can like it and leave it at the store!!!” 😂😂😂Love it!
It’s the truth!!! I have to remind myself of this every day, unfortunately 😂
A very loving draggg 😂
I need to say this 5 times while in Marshall’s and tj maxx
I'm internalising this slowly but surely.
What a foriegn concept! I have a family member that doesn't get it. She ends up giving away a lot of it as gifts. Some of the stuff she gives me I can use but, other stuff gets returned, sold on Craigslist, or re-gifted. (Yes, I regift because, if I don't, my house would soon look like a hoarders haven.)
I’ll add one: clear, glass lamp shades. They’re like looking into the sun.
Yes! The only time I'd say those could work is with those very dim edison bulbs that are more decorative than anything
*Looking at both my clear glass lampshades which I like a lot.....*
Tbf, as mentioned above me, both of my clear glass lampshades have those decorative bulbs and they're hanging in places where not a lot of light is needed.
That doesn't even count as a lamp shade.
So true
A sun that has a layer of dust hovering around it
Can I say how much I love someone who uses "all for naught", "malleable" and "butt print" in the same review. You're one of three people I now subscribe to.
I don't know why RUclips put this video in my recommendations but I loved it. So practical!
Thank you Mollie!! 💕 Welcome to my channel!
I have a wicker pendant in my dining room and I think the main complaint about it that people don’t realize is that they don’t actually light the space. Having a fixture with a single bulb means you need other lamps in the room to get proper light. I originally had an oversized Edison bulb in it and I had to switch it out for an LED bulb which takes away from the look of the fixture. The single bulb still isn’t enough light so I am moving it to a bedroom where I don’t need as much brightness. I have other lamps in there to offset it. They are nice to look at but aren’t practical as a single statement fixture.
Hahaha someone finally said it. I’m Asian in Malaysia, all wicker furniture tends to collect dust a lot of it. So it boggled by mind that so much that pendent wicker lights was a thing
She's the only designer that said out loud what I've been thinking since wicker pendant lights became popular. Very difficult to clean! That alone makes it a "nope" for me.
I have had wicker items, but indoors. They don’t gather much dust and dirt, maybe because I live in a colder state and air indoors is much cleaner and dust free.
I'm from India and same sis
I'm from PH. Glad she said the truth about wickers. Imagine putting that over your bar counter/dining table! Ohmy goodness.
I also have that lamp and where I live Sweden (if that could be a factor) it doesn’t collect so much dust.
Thank you for mentioning the safety issue with large heavy mirror s especially around kids. I cringe when I see you tubers with children leaning large mirrors in heavy traffic areas. You’re the one channel who has mentioned safety with mirrors.
This is the first video of yours I've ever seen, and I never comment on videos, but it was so wonderful to hear you speak both positives and negatives of items, validating people's choices to get something they love, while also emphasizing that not every beautiful thing fits for every style or is for every person. The positivity you radiate is wonderful to watch.
I came here to say the same thing but you worded it much better than I could have. 😊
I love the look of a round table. There is another drawback. It’s difficult to use as a sewing table. It’s necessary to have a straight edge to run fabric through.
YESS
My family of 5 plays games, it's too hard on a rectangle, but I also sew, thankfully I have an island.
thank u for slandering the cloud sofa i feel better for not being able to afford one
Lol, my pleasure!
same💀
My sister in law is an attorney. She says that, if it’s true, it’s not slander. lol
@@KivaBrent I would love to know a stylish sofa with toddlers, I'm stuck!
I found a 100 dollar world market wicker pendant lamp at a second hand store brand new for 20 bucks and I love it, but I'm that annoying boho person that most designers would say it's too much boho lol. It fits me though and brings me joy 😁
That's all that matters ❤️
I love boho!
No hate. I'm the proud owner of a newly purchased ornate gilt mirror. It will be living in my neo-victorian style hallway. The hallway is dark emerald green with dark woodwork so this classic statement piece is essential for the esthetic and to bounce light around a dark space. My mirror cost me £5 from a charity shop so it was an absolute bargain.
We both have very different styles but we have planned ahead, shopped intentionally and frugally. What little money we have spent has not been wasted if we value and appreciate our purchases. I'm sure we'll both love our statement pieces for years to come. 🙂
@@Draggonny so beautiful
It looks nice but seems like it would get really dusty and be a pain to clean. All those little holes and crevices!
I love that you consider every day life. It seems like many designers don't think about things like dust and cleaning when styling. I live at a busy intersection in a big city and due to the dark, sticky dust that accumulates so quickly I've learned the hard way that any kind of woven texture will defeat dusters, microfiber cloths, etc. Just discovered your channel and looking forward to going through your content!
"you can like it, but leave it at the store", words of wisdom.
I wish someone would've told me this as a kid lmao
"Glorified beanbag." KB, you're a fresh voice in the design education youtube world. Thanks, and have a good one.
I’m at the age where we call blocking the flow of traffic trip hazards!
We definitely want to prevent those!
Yup, I see myself tripping over them poufs so nope.
Same here!
The ease of cleaning (e.g., wicker lamps) cannot be underestimated, esp when we're all so busy! Sometimes, we get caught up in the style and trend and forget about these aspects. Thanks for highlighting this along with other points.
Kiva! This is the content you excel in. Very few designers on RUclips address upkeep or geometry or the fact that one might love an item but it won't fit either their lifestyle, their aesthetic. or their pocketbook. Thank you!
I am very broke, and most of my furnature is second hand, and we have a pouff. Idk how we got it. We realized quickly it was NOT a seat. But it is a great footrest.
Speak positive please. Never say “I’m broke”.
Replace broke with, my money is flowing, I have an abundance. I always have money. I am wealthy.
“You can like something and leave it at the store!” I learned this lesson a few years ago and let me tell you it is life changing. When I started putting this into practice I no longer felt guilty about liking things and then trying to work out the calculations in my head on how I would be able to afford to take it home with me. Now I just appreciate the items in the store, and go on about my business. If I really like them I go back for a visit. #dontjudgeme 😂
I agree 1000% with you. The guilty mirror is not my style AT ALL, I think it’s beautiful when I see in someone else’s house but I am a very straight clean lines person, I don’t like anything ornate. And the cloud sofa is beautiful in pictures but in person as you said it’s only nice when you fluff them all the time and I actually love a firm seating, I like support and firmness.
Cloud sofas seem like a back problem nightmare, to be honest haha
@@koalaeucalyptus agree 100%
Welp, normally, I agree with everything you say but I have to draw the line with the round table. Yes, they are more expensive. I have a nice walnut table that I bought from Domain when it closed a local store in NJ. I’d been eyeing that sucker for more than a year. They finally reduced it to a price I could afford and threw in 4 Biedermeier style chairs. I love them but mainly because my dining rooms have always been perfect squares and they fit like they were designed for the space. PLUS, the table came with a leaf. So, I can expand the table to seat 8 in a pinch. I’ve never had large houses and the round table has always been more than enough. Finally, it’s just gorgeous. My BF is a carpenter and he lusts after it. I consider that an endorsement.
Oh, I adore round tables as well. Sure, they're not as grand, but to be honest it's a lot easier to fit extra chairs around a round table for a fun game night than it is around a rectangular one. I learned that from barbecuing with my parents: a 4-seater round table has fit 7-8 people easily when it's barbecue time! We'd just carry the round table over a bit and bring some extra chairs... made great memories that way. In my own home, I decided to go for a round table exactly because of that, and the flow around it is great (it's an apartment with dining and sitting integrated).
She did say it will fit squares but not rectangles
@@koalaeucalyptus We've got a round table. The rectangle one was just too big for the space we had. We use the family room as a combination microwave counter/dinning/fireplace seating/exercise room so the round table helps consolidate a lot of space. It's a multi purpose room. Especially as one side of the rectangle table couldn't sit a family member because it was hard to get to. The round one makes it easier to maneuver into that part near the window.
I just need to crochet a table runner or table cloth for it. Or maybe just a round center piece.
@@Fickji That certainly sounds like it was the best solution for you! I also prefer the easiness of maneuvering around a round table versus a rectangular one.
@Isabel T I'm guessing that's the plate that can be turned in place? If so, then YES! Those are awesome hehe
I am updating my home, so I also love that I found this channel. You have great and practical ideas for real people. AND I love your positivity!
What updates are you making to your home? Thank you for such high praise! Interior Design is so inaccessible and it shouldn’t be!
@@KivaBrent I want to rearrange my living room to maximize space for guests. I also need to replace flooring in the living room and bedrooms because my husband is using a wheelchair now. Also! Looking to Re-do my bathroom for Accessibility needs. Finally, updating the basement RecRoom for our son so it's more appropriate for a teen/young adult. Sooo - a lot to do on a budget 😜
As you are an interior designer, I'm curious about your experience with homes that are aiming for a very "alternative" style? And if you've ever worked with people like that and been able to help them develop their style. :) You often cover very "normal" styles like midcentury modern, farmhouse, minimalist, etc etc. But what about things like cottagecore, french provincial, dark academia, "witchy," etc? I'd love a video from you covering more alternative styles and your opinion on making them work in a home cohesively! For example, have you seen Lulu Sapphire's home? It is VERY extra and beauty and the beast inspired with a more modern color palette!
Oooh will lookup dark academia style! Mine is of the Arts & Crafts Movement (aka in a watered down version- Craftsman). Nobody on you tube covers it. 🙄
@@blackholesun3152 Dark Academia is SO unique and cool! But a lot of people consider it a subculture/lifestyle instead of just a decor. :) Keep that in mind when you're looking it up! I really love it as an aesthetic as well though. I'm somewhere in between rococo revival and light/dark academia, personally! Which a lot of designer youtubers REALLY diss on hahahha! Sometimes they use my preferred style as their "what not to do" images which I think is so funny!
LuLu Sapphire's decor is so pretty. It's not really my style, but I like it. She pulls that look off so well!
@@PrettyWitchCraft i think at the end of the day you need to take everything with a grain of salt, its your house and you live there so make it what you love! It doesn’t have to fit their standards, nor are they coming in your house to rate it 😅. Have fun making your home yours ❤️
Thank you for your comments! I’ve struggled to define my style because how saturated interior design is with those “normal” design styles. You’ve given me a starting point to explore more alternative styles that fit me.
Sis is out here saving me so much money. THANK YOU!
Just wanted to share that for those of you in Canada, Structube makes a exact replica of the gleaming primrose mirror in 3 ft, and it's only 299 CAD . Such a steal!
The dust issue was the first thing that came to mind when I saw the wicker pendants - you're the first design youtuber I've seen point it out. Love the attention to how it is to actually live with these!
Not just dust, but spider webs! I love living in deeply wooded, natural locations, but the higher my decor is, the more I want to limit surfaces and crevices that are attractive to 6- and 8-legged creatures.
“It doesn’t matter what other people think!”
Buy what brings you joy and allows you to be comfortable in YOUR home! 😊
Very good 🤔 ng you buy and have what you comfort and tell you who you are
IMHO, round tables are fine as long as they are small and have leaves so that in a rectangular room, you get the option to make it functional for a larger group. If there are only two or three people at the table the small round is fine and quite lovely. If you want to have a dinner for 6 - 10, then just throw in a leave or two and you have a rounded rectangular table that gives plenty of walking around space. Additionally, there are no sharp edges to bump into as there is with a true rectangle. Maybe that issue is just mine as I do tend to be a little clumsy at times. :)
I'd never even looked at RH's inventory before seeing your channel and I'm now totally inspired. I feel confident with attempting this esthetic thanks to all of your tips.
JD, I’m so happy to hear that! What are some of your favorite pieces from RH? I can’t wait to hear about how you craft a beautiful home 😊.
@@KivaBrent The vessels *in your voice*😊. I also love the coffee table choices and dough bowls!
Another great video! I love your approach to interior design. Rather than telling people "don't get this, it isn't trendy anymore" it's more like "here's the info, make your own informed decision" 🥰
Very informative!! I am SO bad at seeing something at the store and falling in love with it and buy it with no idea where I can use it!! I have tons of brand new decor and and home items still sitting in bags that I just HAD to have and now gave nowhere to put them!! :( It's such a waste and I most definitely CANNOT afford to buy things I don't need! I need to seriously stop and think before making purchases. It's outta control 😆
Thanks for sharing and reminding me that you can love something and leave it in thee store!! I am gonna picture you saying that every time i go to make an unnecessary purchase!!!
TFS!!❤
I don't think anyone who is truly bohemian style is ever going to change to "farmhouse "
Maybe!
Amen! True that.
I think that goes for most styles. If your style is traditional you aren't going to buy a cheap wicker pendant.
Maybe? 🤷♀️ I’m very drawn to farmhouse (grew up very rural and it feels “like home” plus I truly believe mason jars are the solution to everything) and bohemian (traveling is our passion and I adore color) and am trying to find a way to meld the two. It’s not going well right now, but I remain optimistic. The reality right now is my decor tends to shift between the two while I seek balance.
Oh not so. My old house 1950 just got a diy farmhouse kitchen redo, when I realized modern scandi would never work here unless I tore down walls. My one tiny bathroom is total funky hippy boho, so I can feel a little silly in there & ignore the upgrade needs that are too costly right now. I try to make transitions and sight lines blend, but I love having each room a little unique.
NGL thought the mirror was another room! LOVE those pieces framing the what-I-now-know-is-a-mirror.
Kb i love the info that u provide but also that u seem like ur talking to a friend. Its something that. Cant be taught. U either have it or dont. U just put people at ease. N u never seem like u are lecturing or talking down to ur audience
Keep up the posts . we love it
This is the first video I've seen of yours and you've won me over. I don't think you were negative at all- just very realistic and honest. I don't hear enough about things being difficult to clean and that is one of my biggest issues with many interior design trends. Thank you for bringing light into what is practical as well as stylish, while also pointing out ways these things can work in certain spaces too. Very helpful and informative content!
I'm totally boho so yes I have the pendant, the round table and the pouf, in the same room 😆 the pendant was an upgrade from a 'boob' ceiling light and it hangs low so I vacuum it, the table holds the majority of my livingroom plants and the pouf has been claimed by my cat, I made a removable cover for it. I do have a simple round mirror and my aunt's vintage couch. I've been wanting a new one but unsure about what kind. I will keep an eye out for lumpy cushions!
I love mix and matching design styles. I have a mixture of bohemian farmhouse rustic modern and Scandinavian in my home and it actually works for some reason. I think it’s bc I keep things mostly neutral so it all blends together
That sounds perfect!
I also have all those styles in my house which is mid century. It does all work together if you keep the colors on the neutral side.
I grew up with an large ornate gilt mirror. It was a wall-hanging mirror, but it came with a table underneath it that was carved just as ornately and painted gold and white with a marble top. It's an antique heirloom from my great grandmother, that I've been told I'll be inheriting because my house has the walls for it and it matches my decor (I like traditional/gilded farmhouse). My parents have always put both in the formal living room (most people would turn it into an office) with the piano and the antique settee. It's just a side table my parents use to decorate seasonally or occasionally put drinks on if we're sitting in that room. It looks best at christmas, since the tree is in the large foyer next to the archway for the room, so you get it's reflection in the large mirror, but the gilded mirror also frames the classical nativity set my parents decorate the table with really nicely.
I'll never understand when people say your style has to be "unique" I just want to relax in a place that's comfortable, who cares what others are doing.
Thank God! Finally someone on RUclips with practical common sense! ❤
Thank you so much Amy! 💕
I have a large gilded mirror that I’ve had for 30 years. I’ve managed to make it work in all of my homes though agree it can be challenging. Mine is about 6.5 feet high but only about 2.5 feet wide with a nice dimensional but simple frame. I’ve always had it as a floor mirror. I do love it as it helps make my space seem endless and bright. I wouldn’t buy again as you say they’re very expensive but I’m extremely glad I have mine. It in combo with some newer round mirrors really adds some glam. My home is eclectic and would never pass a decorators checklist. I probably purchase a couple of new pieces every decade to keep things looking refreshed. Less is more so I keep things in cupboards and swap out favourite items from time to time. A girlfriend swapped out all of my cushions for new when we sold our last place. That was an amazing transformation. My home is white on white with beiges and greys with some natural woods and pops of colour. I love my space but it must continue to evolve.
You're the best! I love how you put us and yourself on blast, but explain your reasoning kindly.
This made me think of shower glass doors. They look beautifull and clean, until you start showering there.
Yes, the gunky skin slime ugh 🤢🤢🤢
All it takes is using a squeegee before getting out of the shower and they’ll stay clean, no gunk or slime, you’ll barely have to clean it…
@@Papervoyage Right? My mum made us use one ever since we started taking showers and it‘s so easy and almost doesn‘t take any time after showering. I‘d much rather have glass that I can additionally clean with some type of window cleaner or antibacterial stuff and a sponge/rag/brush instead of a shower curtain that collects all kinds of things in the folds and that I can‘t squeegee clean after every shower 😄
@@sweetheartx13 agree!! My grandpa made me do the same thing at his house whenever I stayed over during the summer when I was little, it's super easy. But to be honest, at my parents' house the shower is open (like there's just a wall that separates it from the rest of the bathroom) and I think I prefer those to the glass doors
@@eh5320 Okay, that‘s another step up in terms of practicality and cleanliness of course, so yes, if there‘s all three options then that one is probably the best 😄
I have to completely disagree about the round dining table. I have always had a square or rectangle table in the past but recently bought a round table and I just love it. Being round actually makes it easier to get around it when people are seated at it. Good info on the pouf. I have been looking at them but will be rethinking that.
I went 😱😱😟 when she say don't buy a round dining room table I literally just bought a 60 inch wood round dining room table for my former dining room after years at least 20 years of having a rectangle cherry wood double pedestal table formal dining table I wanted something different but it only seats four my other table seated six to eight I don't know if my dining room is rectangular or square but I'm hoping to make this round table work I was so disappointed I probably wouldn't have bought if I saw the video before
@@louisemincey7676 Don't be silly. She's completely wrong on this one. You can never achieve elegance with a rectangular table. Are they practical yes, but OMG, a round table always looks great.
I love a round dining table, too. It makes it so much easier to interact with everyone around it.
@@mybestideas1 thank you I've been thinking of how to style this round dining room table I think I might be able to get six chairs instead of four the legs are like an x I got it from Habitat ReStore for $40 and really good shape just going to go over the top sanding and put a coat of stain it is black
@@mybestideas1 *Never* achieve elegance with a rectangular table? That's just flat out wrong. You definitely can.
"You can like something and leave it at the store" 🥴🤯 ...this will be my new mantra to give my credit card a break for a few months! 😆🤣 Thanks for the reminder
I love your humor and how you're not judgemental. My favorite channel, hands down.
Years ago I had ordered 2 custom made sofas with down feather cushions. Really expensive and beautiful, but ultimately a big regret. I still own one, but it’s in a room no one sits in. I love your “realness”. Thank you for your practical but stylish advice.
I love my cloud coach dupe from Bobs Furniture. The fluffing doesn’t bother me as it doesn’t have that bad of an indent. And when I do fluff them, it literally takes seconds. It’s the most comfortable and best purchase I ever made.
I've never liked sofas like the cloud. I just can't stand soft, sinky or squishy sofas and chairs that make you feel like you are almost laying down instead of sitting. I prefer very firm sofa cushions and tough to find.
Try European brands. Europe generally goes for the more firm sofas and they're much better quality than western (aka China made) furniture. I got my sectional sofa from Poland and it has firm orthopedic cushions and storage in the chaise. I absolutely love it!
@@kirasgirl Good advice!
Me too sofa to keep you aware not good ng to bed
You should check out Apt2B and see if there’s anything you like. They’re manufacturers/retailers based in the US and they’ve got 2.0 density foam core cushions that are pretty firm and seem like they’d maintain their shape well.
I can't find a good mix of sofa either! I want a seat and back thats medium stiff ness .
I agree with not having a round table. My favorite table is oval -- hard to find though. I had one that had leaves so it became round when I didn't need the extra seating. Great video as always!
We had an oval table growing up and it was great cos you never whacked your hip on the corner! It had a leaf for making it longer.
I keep poufs in the family room so the kids can play games at the coffee table. It works really well for us.
I totally agree with you about "You can like something and leave it at the store." That's why my home doesn't have white furniture
I just love your advice. I was raised to not waste money, but love decorating my home. Keep doing what your doing. I really think your channel will grow fast!
I have inherited several pieces of furniture, two large gilt mirrors and a 4 foot oriental vase from my aunt who had a large home. I was able to find a space for most of them since I also moved to a larger home. I gave a lot of thought to their placement because I wanted to do justice to the pieces but I understand what you are saying- everything doesn’t fit or complement every space even though we like it. One mirror was a little overwhelming for my dining room until I realized I could remove an overhanging part at the top and not ruin the lines and the mirror actually looks better to me. Now it is in proportion and fits nicely in the space above the buffet. My home is very traditional but the large vase is actually a beautiful and unexpected addition to my dining room. The other mirror is larger but goes well in the upstairs hallway just across from the bedroom suite double doors. I have kept the rest of the hallway very simple because the mirror has a real presence and would clash with other pieces. I also kept some of the paintings but replaced others more to my taste when we redecorated most of the rooms. In the end, I’m very glad to have some family heirlooms that have a little history and wonderful memories in my home.
These are all such great tips!! Growing up, I saw my mom and dad use half of these things on your list and the things you’ve said are true, especially about maintenance/cleaning being inconvenient and styles being limited. I’ve learned these things from seeing my parents go through it so I’m kinda lucky to have been able to avoid these mistakes. But now other people can do the same from watching your video!
I have a tall gilded mirror I got from my great grandmother, it's moved with me to a dozen homes and now overseas as well. It really is a piece you have to design the whole room around. And yea, very HEAVY!
I have different styles so I decorated each room with a different style/decor. I realized I like to see different colors in every space fir the most part. This concept works for me thankfully, I was worried at first but once I stop trying to follow the “rules” of home decorating I begin to love my space
Omg. This video is fantastic!!!! I love home decore but not too many folks talk about the impractical elements of design. Subscribed!
Best quote all day. “You can like something and leave it at the store!”
That's the best quote for my life!!
@@mwoods4608 I’m going to have to use it as my mantra from now on.
Kiva, this is the first of your videos that I've seen and I'm enchanted by your excellent taste and common sense. You should have your own TV decorating show! I'm off now to check out your other uploads.
Gilded mirrors are actually easy to DIY. Most of the stuff can be found on amazon and home depot. All you need is:
1) A mirror. Preferably an arched or oval mirror.
2) Center onlay. This goes on top of the mirror. It's the statement piece.
3) A long onlay to go on the sides and maybe the bottom. *optional
4) flexible molding trim
5) A second center onlay to put on the bottom of your mirror *Optional
6) Extra strength glue (I used gorilla glue).
7) Gold spray pray paint. You can also use gold leaf paint if you like.
8) Painters tape.
First, you need to arrange the onlays and trim on the mirror until you get your desired look. Glue the pieces once you are satisfied with the look. Then you tape up the mirror part so the spray paint doesn't strain the mirror. Then spray paint it gold. Voila!
Pro tips:
-Get a mirror from Craig's list or a thrift store. Way cheaper!
-you can use wood putty to fill the gaps between the onlays and trims. This adds a smoother more customed finish
-Make sure the design on the onlays and trims are cohesive so they look like one piece when you glue them, together. Take your time and compare each piece before buying.
My DIY mirror cost me $250. $150 mirror and the rest of the stuff added to about $100. The mirror I wanted cost well over$1,000.
I’m so glad I found your channel before I bought a home 🥰
This is so kind of you to say! Thanks, Tiyya! Good luck with your house search 😊.
I love your advice!!! I'm starting from scratch after a flood and I will not be wasting money by planning ahead, being practical about my choices, and taking my time. So much to do but no rush.
This is why I LOVE this channel. Great tips and style grounded in logical and practical choices.
Had the exact same thinking with the wicker pendant light - I really LOVED them for awhile and planned on getting one for my dining room. Boyfriend talked me out of it, got something more MCM/industrial and it looks better than I could've imagined. Plus it's bright, and easy to dust!
My husband would absolutely LOVE Kiva!
“You can love something and LEAVE IT AT THE STORE!” 😂😂♥️
(I should get this inscribed on a necklace pendant) 😂
For the record, I also absolutely LOVE KIVA!! ♥️
I love you too!!!! Thank you so much! We can get matching necklaces 😂.
@@KivaBrent 😂😂
Put it on your credit card
omg I use to work at West Elm..... I wish this video was just on repeat at all times..... you're so right!!! especially about adding pieces that make no sense in the style of space you've created.
Liked and subscribed! I feel like I just attended a 5 hour, $300 design class for free in these 15 minutes.
Love you KB and your channel! You always provide practical information and stylized inspiration! Fantastic examples.
Thank you, Trasee!! 💕
Ok KIVAAAAA! Babe this is by far one of your BEST vids. What I loveeed most of all, was you have given your viewer/designer, the option to reevaluate their purchase and give purpose and meaning to the items. This in turn saves money and allows smart and purposeful shopping and styling. Thanks my love. I really enjoyed this contribution. Well done.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this about the wicker pendant! Thank you!!
One place you didn’t mention for round tables- open floor plans, when your kitchen, dining, and living is combined into a “great room” - I’ve found round dining tables work well in this type of space.
I have a great room with a round table that made the move with us from our previous house with a great room. Perfect solution for these spaces.
Ma’am, you are killing it with these videos! Thank you for your tips and tricks. I learned the hard way on some of these points😒. Love, from Texas!❤️
Thank you, Mel B!!!
Why wasn't your channel in my recommended videos a year ago 😭
That said, I think the poufs can work really well when your space is designed for them! I have ADHD and I love sitting on the floor or on a beanbag. I have a super-thick shag rug and a lot of pillows, and once I have a little more room, I'm definitely getting a nice low coffee table. It also helps to be able to stack them or move them under a table when you want them out of the way.
I'm curious how other countries use poufs, especially ones where sitting on the floor is a lot more common-- like Morocco or Japan. It's funny how "Scandinavian" has become such a recognizable and influential design style, but not many other regions have the same kind of representation.
Agree on the round dining table in terms of space availability. Our house had a rattan dining table that seats 6 people and because we didn’t have enough space, only 4 people can really go to and fro from their seats easily. But I loved that dining table, because you can put all the food in the middle and its equidistant to all. Also you can chat to all seated well because you’re not too far to the other person.
I have to say, THANK YOU for taking the time to put time stamps in the video. It made it super quick to watch. I made sure I gave you a like and followed both on IG and RUclips 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Round tables work for Asian food cultures because the food is in the centre of the table and not individually plated.
I guess the houses are differently configured. And their lifestyles are different.
Love your content. Thanks for the tips on the maintenance issues on trendy items.
It is something essential to be considered.❤️👍
I so appreciate your design coaching content focuses on not going broke over design/ being practical.
The points about the wicker pendant seem to really focus on it being trendy right now with bohemian, natural, and Scandinavian modern styles, but I grew up with a cane pendant from the early 80s above the kitchen table in our house (it matched the caning on the tubular steel frame dinette chairs!) 😂 We never were a “super clean house” family, and I don’t remember it being dirty or difficult, but I definitely think it works with more styles when you look for the shapes outside of the trendy and modern ones. They definitely had cane lampshades, including on pendants, in the 60s, 70s, and 80s and they were used in many interior styles from those decades.
I don’t feel “cooped up “ in my home. I love my home, it cost $$$$$ me a lot of money and I’m going to enjoy it. I do love your show and all your fabulous taste and advice. I just want to convey, at 73, I’ve traveled the world; did that, done that but not all seniors want to shop and travel. Some of us, love enjoying our homes from the inside. ❤
I am so glad you have said this. I just figured it was cause I was older that I wasn’t a fan of all five items.
Wow! You just answered my question about should I get rectangular table for this rectangular room or round table? No more guessing and thanks for the visual-it helped me so much! No need to visit that thought anymore😄
Your little comments, the off side off hand ones, those were really funny and adorable. I also really appreciate the advice. Thank you. :)
I live in an apartment and my dining room is basically a nook extended from my living room area. I tried a square table and it just took up so space. I just purchased a round counter height table with two chairs and a settee. It fits perfect. I will also add accent chairs, especially the low sitting ones with the full gold frame. They are beautiful, but they take up a lot of space.
I agree with all your points. Given that I have a small house, my round dining table works perfectly for four seaters. Luckily, it was heavily discounted, so I easily decided on buying it. The rounded corner wall mirror that you suggested is the exact one that I actually have! I am not a fan of the pouffs and I prefer if the world switches to stools. They occupy lesser space and can be used anywhere, even at a dining table.
I had a pouf in my living room. It drove me crazy, it was always in the way. I moved it up to my office. I now sit on it to meditate up there.
I only keep mine because I need something without arms to play guitar on 😄
I worked as a merchandiser at a big box store for a while and had to clean the lighting displays. Totally agree the wicker is so hard to dust!
We’ve had the same round dining table since I was 2 in my house, and one thing I like about it is that there’s a middle attachment that can make it bigger for guests. If you have a small family like me, it can be a great solution to get a table like that.
LOVE your recommendations. I move frequently, and have lived in many different-sized dwellings with a variety of layouts. I do happen to own a round pedestal dining table (48"), but only because a) it has drop leaves that turn it into a 24x48 console, b) I don't have a large family or entertain large groups often and c) it's what worked best at the time I was making the purchase, but could also offer a different configuration to be worth the investment. What I'd rather invest in somewhere in the future is a double-pedestal oval table with inserted leaves that can stretch from a 48" round to a long oval that seats 6-8. For me, investing in pieces is about functional versatility and materials that allow me to refinish as my tastes change.
"You can like something and leave it at the store" is something I had to tell myself bc I like LOTS of stuff and I can't buy everything and put it in my room (I really like collecting random stuff). I'm glad I realized that before earning my own money and having my own Apartment.
Thanks for this video as wrll. It was very informative ^^.
Thanks for given us the downside to coveted options. Really helps in decision making.
My pleasure 😊.
I'm not into trends but when the items you mentioned about you need to know before you buy is the same reasons I never bought any of the items you mentioned. It is all about the flow and preventing accidents or wasting time it keeping something clean with the feeling of 24/7.
I love that you don’t berate people you popped up in my suggestions and i thought here we go again some jumped up fashion guru telling me all my interior is shit but nope just good advice!!
I appreciate your transparency about the couches which really makes this video a lot more valuable.
"$300 - $400 for a poof"
Me: ef that we're breaking out the sewing machine
Thank you for the validation on round tables running expensive! I have a pretty small dining nook but it's so frustrating when the small cute round tables are like 2-3x more expensive than the big party tables. For anyone else with the same struggle, you can also try looking at desk tables; looks like just a narrow rectangular table but less expensive.
Totally agree about the poufs. Love the look, never bought one yet for exactly the reasons you stated! In my home, it would be in the way.
they are beautiful, but cumbersome!
Kiva, you are so right about the pieces you mentioned. Lots to consider especially when buying higher priced items. I bought 2 Thomasville leather loveseats for the family room in my former home. They were luxurious and great quality. However, they drove me “crazy.” The leather was so soft that every time someone sat on them, the cushions (both seat and back) would slouch and look messy. I was constantly having to fluff them back into place. When I sold my home, the buyers loved the sofas so much they bought them! So beautiful and long lasting but very high maintenance. Never again.