Lessons in Couples Communication (Part 2)

Поделиться
HTML-код
  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

Комментарии • 103

  • @SaraAndreaSayon
    @SaraAndreaSayon Месяц назад +1

    Financial problems frequently serve as the basis for significant disputes in relationships, yet it is the failure in communication that intensifies these issues into major conflicts. Effective and targeted communication is essential for addressing financial matters. When partners begin to deflect or divert the conversation, the initial issue becomes obscured and remains unresolved. Eye-opening podcast!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 18 дней назад

      True! Financial stress can be overwhelming, but it's often the lack of communication that escalates tension. Encouraging open communication can help to prevent conflicts and build stronger relationships.

  • @elnmaze
    @elnmaze 7 месяцев назад +6

    I agree with this. As a person who is also in a relationship, I know how important communication is in a relationship. The "give and take" is always important. When your partner talks, you listen; when you talk, your partner listens.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 месяцев назад +1

      Great point! "Give and take" is essential in a healthy couples relationship. As well as active listening which is a crucial aspect of it. That's why I believe that effective communication is a "two way street," thats when both partners feel heard and understood.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I’ve seen this in relationships where active listening transformed communication. A couple I know greatly improved their relationship by focusing on truly listening to each other rather than just responding. This shift allowed them to understand each other better and strengthen their connection.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Fidel-b6tI guess we all can agree that active listening is a powerful tool for building stronger lasting relationships, especially for couples.

    • @HoraceWebber
      @HoraceWebber 5 месяцев назад

      [)⁰0)

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 4 месяца назад +1

      Exactly! That "give and take" is what keeps a relationship healthy. It’s all about listening, understanding, and supporting each other’s growth.

  • @generomaguera
    @generomaguera 9 месяцев назад +5

    It’s great to see that Denise Hart and Michael Hart are offering such practical tools like role plays, which can really help couples understand and practice the skills in real-time. The ability to diffuse conflicts effectively is crucial in maintaining a healthy relationship dynamic. I'm looking forward to gaining new insights and applying these proven strategies in my own relationships.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 месяцев назад +1

      Denise and Michael rock! How do you plan to use their role-playing tips to handle conflicts and strengthen your relationships?

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 8 месяцев назад

      @@romnickmepico4882 Using their role-playing tips to handle conflicts sounds like a fantastic idea. I plan to try it out by setting aside time with my partner to practice different scenarios. This could help us communicate more effectively and strengthen our relationship by fostering empathy and understanding.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 месяцев назад +2

      Man, Denise Hart and Michael Hart are really bringing the heat with those practical tools like role plays! Being able to handle conflicts like a boss is essential for keeping things smooth in any relationship.I also Can't wait to learn some new tricks and put them to the test in my own love life!

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 7 месяцев назад

      @@Fidel-b6tMastering conflict skills is crucial for smooth relationships. Let's keep spreading that positivity and encouragement!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 месяцев назад +2

      I have a curious question? Is it fair to expect your partner to change for you, or should you accept them as they are?

  • @CesarJohnServant
    @CesarJohnServant Месяц назад

    ACTIVE LISTENING is about truly tuning into your partner, not just the words but their emotions and body language. It’s the difference between hearing and truly understanding. This deeper connection builds trust and strengthens communication in any relationship. This video is ❤‍🔥💯

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад +1

    Financial issues are often the root of major conflicts in relationships, but it's the breakdown in communication that escalates these problems into big fights.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 месяца назад

      Financial issues can be a significant stress on relationships, but poor communication is often the spark that ignites major conflicts. Discussing openly and honestly about these concerns allows couples to work together and find solutions to strengthen their relationship.

  • @biancalove6883
    @biancalove6883 8 месяцев назад +3

    This episode is amazing, comprehensive and very engaging. The lessons are real, relevant and so well articulated! I always appreciate Michael Hart helping me with higher learning.

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 6 месяцев назад +1

      It’s great to hear how much you value his contributions to your learning.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 месяцев назад +1

      I agree, Michael Hart’s ability to break down intricate topics has often made complex subjects more understandable for many listeners. His engaging style keeps you hooked while delivering valuable lessons that resonate deeply. This makes his episodes both educational and enjoyable.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 месяца назад +2

      Absolutely! This podcast has the potential to be a game changer, solving many problems in couples conflicts.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 For sure, a podcast like this can offer fresh perspectives and practical tools for handling conflicts. Hearing real stories and expert advice can be a game changer for many couples. It’s like therapy on-the-go!

  • @P11B11
    @P11B11 8 месяцев назад +2

    Fantastic teaching on good communication. This video is a HUGE encouragement. I feel tremendously blessed to be influenced by Michael Hart's Biblically based teachings!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 месяцев назад

      Right on! This lesson on communication is top-notch. It's seriously uplifting. I'm feeling super grateful for the solid guidance from Michael Hart's teachings rooted in the Bible!

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 месяца назад

      The lessons learned are truly impactful!

  • @ricardofrancis5814
    @ricardofrancis5814 9 месяцев назад +3

    A wonderful episode and role play illustration by: Michael and Denise Hart, on 'Lessons in Couples Communication Pt.2'. This is an excellent resource for helping couples overcome the most challenging aspects in their marriages.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 месяцев назад +1

      Totally agree, Michael and Denise are on point! How can we use their advice to tackle tough spots and make our relationships even stronger?

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 месяцев назад

      ​I believe that applying these lessons in couples communication illustrated by Michael and Denise Hart, we significantly improve our relationship by engaging more in open communication, strengthening our bond to build a more fulfilling connection with our partner.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814I agree.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 6 месяцев назад

      I have a tough question for you? Do you think iIs ever ok to lie to your partner, if it's to protect their feelings?​@@romnickmepico4882

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Clear and focused communication is key in resolving financial issues. If partners start deflecting or shifting the topic, the original problem gets buried and unresolved."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    When financial stress arises, it's crucial to approach the conversation with empathy and patience rather than defensiveness, to prevent a simple discussion from turning into a major conflict."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Effective communication involves staying on topic and addressing one issue at a time, especially when it comes to sensitive subjects like finances

  • @dorianbrown9944
    @dorianbrown9944 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for All the information

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 месяца назад

      This podcast exceeded my expectations, and was definitely worth listening to.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Healthy communication involves acknowledging the other person's feelings and concerns, rather than deflecting or bringing up past issues that only fuel the fire.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    The first sign of communication breakdown is when partners start deflecting the conversation instead of addressing the issue at hand, which only leads to further misunderstandings

  • @DaniloLlego
    @DaniloLlego 3 месяца назад +1

    Strong communication definitely makes or breaks a relationship. But what happens when one person is better at it than the other? Do you think it’s fair to expect both partners to always be on the same level when it comes to expressing themselves?

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 месяца назад

      That's a good question! People have different communication styles, I think what's important is that both partners are willing to learn and grow and meet each other half way, even if one partner is more articulate or expressive, the other can still contribute in their own way.

    • @DaniloLlego
      @DaniloLlego 2 месяца назад +1

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I agree, and I’d add that it’s also about recognizing that different styles don’t mean incompatibility-they can complement each other. One partner’s expressive nature might encourage the other to open up more, while the less articulate one might bring steadiness and quiet support. Growth happens when both partners value what the other brings to the table.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 2 месяца назад

      So true! Different styles can compliment each other beautifully. Thank you for sharing your insight on this.​@@DaniloLlego

    • @DaniloLlego
      @DaniloLlego 2 месяца назад

      @@ricardofrancis5814 I completely agree, and it’s true that complementary styles can bring out the best in a relationship. But for this to work, both partners need to be willing to adapt and meet each other halfway. Mutual respect and effort make those differences a source of growth rather than frustration.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 Месяц назад

      I'm always reminded by this famous quote: "A great marriage isn't about finding the perfect match; it's about two imperfect people learning to enjoy their differences and building a strong partnership through teamwork."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    t's easy for communication to spiral out of control during a heated argument, especially when emotions are high, but staying on topic can prevent further damage.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Bringing up unrelated issues during a fight is a defense mechanism that only deepens the divide between partners, making it harder to resolve the original problem.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Resolving financial disputes requires both partners to stay focused on finding a solution rather than blaming each other for past mistakes."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Big fights often happen because one partner feels unheard or invalidated, leading them to bring up past grievances instead of addressing the current issue.

  • @SharonBrown-o8z
    @SharonBrown-o8z 3 месяца назад +1

    What about when a partner been disloyal cheating . The relationship is long distant and lack communication.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 3 месяца назад

      Disloyalty in a relationship is painful, especially with distance and poor communication. Prioritize self-care, process one's own emotions with the consideration of seeking professional guidance. Remember healing is possible, and loyalty is ultimately rewarded.

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Successful communication in a relationship means being able to discuss difficult topics like money without letting the conversation devolve into unrelated arguments

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    The moment a conversation turns into a laundry list of complaints, the original issue gets lost, and both partners end up feeling frustrated and unheard."

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Financial issues can be particularly challenging, but if couples learn to communicate with respect and understanding, they can prevent these problems from causing long-term damage.

  • @ElimCounsellingServices
    @ElimCounsellingServices  9 месяцев назад +5

    Some of you have been asking for part 2 of the Lessons in Communication series; well here it is! Hope you enjoy and learn from the role play examples in this episode.

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 месяцев назад

      Part 2 is awesome! Role-playing examples are super helpful. Big thanks for this podcast-it's really helping me improve my communication skills!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 9 месяцев назад +1

      Love it! Another facet of wisdom in here! Thanks Dr. Hart

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 месяцев назад

      @@Fidel-b6t True. I can also relate😇😇

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 4 месяца назад

      This podcast was worth it, I'm thrilled I invested my time listening. The knowledge shared made it really worth my time.

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 3 месяца назад

      The role play examples really add a practical element that makes the communication tips easy to relate to and apply. Can't wait to dive in and pick up more insights from this series!

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    When couples stop listening to each other and start bringing up unrelated issues during a disagreement, it’s a sign that communication has already started to fail

  • @edralynlinaban
    @edralynlinaban 5 месяцев назад

    Couples often find themselves in endless cycles of arguments when they fail to communicate openly about their financial expectations and concerns.

  • @desrinerichards390
    @desrinerichards390 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amen thanks God bless u

    • @generomaguera
      @generomaguera 6 месяцев назад

      God bless you too ! Amen, Great video

  • @JulianEdwards-eg6ed
    @JulianEdwards-eg6ed 6 месяцев назад +3

    Unity communicate the right way justice far all only make things better🔒🎀

  • @Fidel-b6t
    @Fidel-b6t 9 месяцев назад +11

    Why does it is hard for me to always have an open ear to my partner? I think all women have this challenge of trying to stop their mouth, though 😜😄

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 9 месяцев назад +6

      Juggling talking and listening ain't easy. But recognizing this helps us vibe better and deepen connections, you know? We're all learning together in this journey.

    • @ricardofrancis5814
      @ricardofrancis5814 9 месяцев назад +1

      Let's be realistic here! No one said this would be easy. Remember, relationships involve growth and compromise. By addressing issues and working together, you can strengthen your relationship and create a more harmonious living environment.

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@romnickmepico4882 Absolutely, you're so right! It's a real balancing act, but being aware of the importance of both talking and listening can definitely help us vibe better and strengthen those connections. We're all on this journey of learning and growing together, and it's cool to know we're not alone in navigating it!

    • @romnickmepico4882
      @romnickmepico4882 8 месяцев назад

      It's about finding the right mix of chatting and listening to keep those bonds real. We're all in this together, so having each other's backs is what it's all about. Keep the good vibes flowing!

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@romnickmepico4882 Another perspective is to prioritize empathy and understanding during conversations, ensuring that everyone feels heard and valued. By fostering a supportive environment where individuals can express themselves freely, we strengthen our bonds and create a sense of unity and belonging. Thus, its a challenge accepted for me hahaha

  • @DisturbedCutely
    @DisturbedCutely 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow.

  • @JulianEdwards-eg6ed
    @JulianEdwards-eg6ed 6 месяцев назад

    Better mental health believe in God and eat well. ? A woman. Guarantee her self as the winner but think about it, not a proper mindset 🔴⭐️. 👍🏿🇯🇲

    • @Fidel-b6t
      @Fidel-b6t 5 месяцев назад

      hi Julian I did not understand your point. What are you trying to speak?