48 OYSTERS & CHEAP CHEESECAKE FACTORY DRAMA ! LADIES WE HAVE TO DO BETTER? |MY THOUGHTS
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- 48 OYSTERS & CHEAP CHEESECAKE FACTORY DRAMA ! LADIES WE HAVE TO DO BETTER? |MY THOUGHTS
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“EVERYTHING LOOKS LIKE A FINESSE TO POOR PEOPLE” AND THATS FACTS!!!
You guys🤦🏾♂️
@@freeindeed8416stay mad🤣
@@tamarapowell8982 Mad?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂About women who think they are more valuable than they are and expect everyone else to agree?
@@freeindeed8416you don’t have enough money, education, or life experience to determine someone’s value. Don’t forget that.
My first date we ate all the oysters and had champagne 🥂- $500 later lol
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That guy was a m0r0n. There is no man with common sense who would spend 500 on any date.
Did you pay?
Obviously not lol @@honeybadger6313
everything looks like a Finesse to poor people 😂😂😂
The gems, the gems 🤌🤌🤌
Absolutely!!
Pin worthy comment ❤❤❤
Imagine calling someone poor while trying to leech on their money. Lol.
Also, that cheesecake girl and the guy (who is a doctor btw) had a follow up interview and she was soooo desperate to get another date.
It's funny when broke people call someone poor. It's like a homeless person calling someone a bump or something.
They never wanna show black women living in luxury because then others might wake up and see they deserve more!
but you’re not living in luxury 😂
@@mr.fantastik4755Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@mr.fantastik4755 so if you have a daughter, if she’s not living in luxury, she hast to date a man who is beneath her? I’m not living in luxury, but I have my own spot, my car and a job and I’ve met men who don’t even have all three.
@@BarbieDawl.__ thats a YOU problem if all you’re attracting is DUST. the higher quality of woman the better the men she attracts. what attracts a HIGH quality men isnt
eating oysters is luxury!?! that alone says a lot about your mindset and the lack of abundance! Do you know what luxury is....?
having the best of health, even as you age
job satisfaction and fulfillment
creating and sustaining a legacy - children, service to God and community, innovation
providing your children with a solid foundation to reach their individual goals and dreams
finding a partner to walk this tough but beautiful road of life with, forever
that my dear, is luxury! not 48 goddamn oysters and crab cake! not gucci bags and fake hair! not being flown out and ran through! not bmws and mercedes! because if you make it to 65-70, the list above is what will keep you going and give you the best feeling ever!
It's not what those women did, it's HOW THEY DID IT. Rudeness and disrespect is never a way to go. The cheesecake lady was going to be taken out to an EXPENSIVE restaurant had she not made them late for the date by being an hour late. Oyster girl's date offered to take her for drinks so while she rudely recorded herself loud and disgustingly slurping down oysters while not giving her date any conversation, eye contact didn't even offer him an oyster he grew annoyed, as anyone would and left her to pay for the good time she was having that didn't include him. I applaud both men 👏 👏
Exactly and why is everything on social media
Both are skits. Fake to make the black women's image look bad. Chrissie posted proof of the cheescake factory being fake, and the comments talk about the oyster girl most likely being fake too.
@@ev6564 well at least by the entertaining video perspective it gives the lesson don't act like a jerk so at least the video aint completely useless, hell they even both went on an interview so good for them....i guess
@@Chinathomas_ 🤣🤣🤣 I ask the same question
The men complaining aren’t even in the stadium or arena 😂😂😂
A few years ago, I went out with a guy who later complained about paying $250 for our first date. Me and my girlfriends spend more than this on a regular for brunch and dinner. He was blocked, deleted and never to be mentioned again! I can’t stand a miserly whiny ass man. Thankfully I’m married to a provider now. Im tired of ppl expecting bw to settle for crumbs!!
Same it’s so regular 🤣 and congrats to your husband 💍
You are not entitled to anything and what makes you worth $250?
@@honeybadger6313 what makes you worth it to a bad bish?
@@tamarapowell8982 I wouldn’t waste my time or money on you. There is a particular name for women that give their time depending on how much a man spends. Prostitution. Cap fits you very well
@@honeybadger6313 certainly not you!!!! Peasant!!!
I hate how these average looking girls who cant get a man to buy them something basic like a McDonald's burger talking ish about Sheraseven just because they feel Shera's content is made for girls with a certain aesthetic. Like they be hating on Shera like she not for women winning. I really dislike pickmes😂
If there’s anyone I wanna hear about this topic from it would be Chanel. She’s goated out here 🙏🏾
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AS BLACK WOMEN, WE ALWAYS ACCEPT THE BARE MINIMUM AND WE SHOULD SET THE BAR HIGHER BECAUSE WE'VE BEEN CONDITIONED TO THINK THAT STRUGGLING IS PROGRESS....JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL IT'S ACCEPTABLE DOESN'T MEAN THAT THEY HAVE TO...YOU LIKE WHAT YOU LIKE AND WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH YOU NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!! I AGREE CHANEL! IT'S OK TO HAVE HIGH EXPECTATIONS AND THINK HIGHLY OF OURSELVES!
When did the cheesecake factory become bare minimum...
And is !!!!
@it's a chain restaurant akin to McDonald's or any other chain..just because they put it on a plate instead of wrappers don't make it gourmet 😂.. nothing wrong with eating there in general, if thats your taste, but it indeed is low tier, bottom shelf, low standards 🤷🏾♀️
These people who go viral are *content creators.* They’re *not interested* in getting to know the person they’re dating. They wouldn’t be *recording the entirety of the date* if they were genuinely interested in a relationship.
- If someone of any gender invites you for *drinks,* don’t order lots of food. *He was wrong for leaving without telling her,* but she was recording so maybe he didn’t want to be part of whatever drama would have happened if he spoke to her in the restaurant.
- If someone of any gender, invites you to a restaurant and you’re *an hour late,* be slightly humble that you’ve kept them waiting for an hour. Don’t start recording the date from the *moment you enter their car* without telling them, especially after you were an hour late.
Know your worth AND *Treat a potential partner or friend with the respect that you want to receive .*
You should set the bar realistically- to what you are individually and what’s out there. Plenty of white women go to the cheesecake factory on dates. The guy who was taking her himself wasn’t even black.
Stop leaving us 😢
Please! 😅
That's what I'm saying
I agree! Bums are in the comments justifying why they’re bums who do not have money to take her there.
Disgusting
Dust is an epidemicccccc!
Does anyone remember that lady on tikTok (I think her name was Koko beauty??) that got roasted for saying "Going on a walk is not a date. Going for coffee isn't a date." This really reminds me of that situation. All the broke fools in the comments was the main ones criticizing. AND this girl was palm-colored...It's just some broke ninja sh*t...IMO broke doesn't mean necessarily that you're just financially struggling. It can also be a mindset.
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palm colored had me laughing, first time I've heard that. I agree though, men try and do bare minimum on dates. I realized that it is men who date a lot of women try and do the coffee dates because they are like going on multiple dates a week
I wouldn’t even have texted him back if I had to pay…
Me either. I would have blocked him.
He asked her out for drinks. You’re not entitled to anything in life.
@@deejames1st You’re not entitled to anything in life.
@@sungexpression9093 I’m entitled to basic etiquette. Basic etiquette: whoever ASKS and invites the other on a date pays as they’ve invited that other person as their GUEST. Whoever is invited on the date is not only gracious, but has basic etiquette: don’t order anything more expensive than what the host TELLS you the budget is (I’ve been on dates where the man had NO budget as he was very affluent).
On a side note, I’d say no to a date of just drinks. I’ve honestly never been asked out for just drinks. I never meet anyone, friend or date, for drinks. Not my idea of a great pastime.
SECONDLY - you do know this scenario described in the video was a skit for publicity? It didn’t “really” happen. So…LOL
@@deejames1st drinks are not dinner.
Honestly if someone’s been ignoring tf outta you idk why you would ever think something good would come out of them finally responding.
Way to be on code beautiful sis
I love it
This is why you’re a princess and doing your thing!
Brilliant comments 👏👏👏😘
There is no such thing as a princess among American women.
@@bkstandard882neekgrow move around
Listen I thought I was crazy 😭 I’M ALWAYS WITH THE GIRLS! IDC! IDC! IDC! 😂
12:09 THEY’RE NOT EVEN IN THE GAME !! 😭
Nah you crazy
I was waiting on you to speak on this😂 I think everything is a skit these days but it’s still always positioning black women as asking for too much.
Right tf
I love you because you keep it refreshingly real…. I love that you’re a girls girl too! You’re not fake humble or boujie, you’re just genuine all the way. You’re an amazing role model for young adults and women of all ages frfr! I look up to you!
Her delivery was horrible, and it should have been communicated better. But I'm getting annoyed with so many people tearing this women down. I hate this women is being told she is delusional and entitled. If she has a standard then that is her standard! This is another case of lets make sure to humble black women. If this women looked like Zendaya or Margrot Robbie would she be getting this amount of smoke? Its' so refreshing to see a video not tearing this women down.
Thank you for honesty! The Oyster girl had a nasty spirit so she got what she deserved if you ask me. I’m all for finessing and being spoiled but have some big vibrations about yourself!🗣️
Same! Got me looking at her crazy.
@@cynthialashawnchannellol it’s good to know that we aren’t alone because I would have left her there with the bill too.🤷🏽♀️😂😂🤣🤣
@@numerologicatarot3333 The cheesecake girl didn't have to record and try to humiliate him. That's the issue I have. It's not about the bare minimum it's about her character and how she behaved in that situation. I didn't see the oyster video.
So the thing said 15$ for a dozen, that’s 4rounds totaling 60$; even if the entrees 25 for them both another 50$; totaling 110$.. they had 70$ worth or drinks?? My girl ordered as of thats her man & buddy said no ma’am!!! 😂😂😂
It’s wrong to run out on a bill terrible character he should of spoken up if he had a issue
I get being upset at her, but one person's actions dont define an entire race.
Yes! Im so happy to hear your opinion
Liked before I even watched the video 😂❤
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It's weird how nobody held the guy accountable. The voice alone was annoying so he was surprised that she was acting ghetto? How was the conversation prior. And the Cheesecake lady idk
Love you, girl😊 you definitely tell facts.
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Lol I agree. The only people who should be responding I will be listening to are Black female dating professionals who can teach. You don’t owe it to nobody to allow them up in your home. Now the cheesecake people are dating AGAIN as per their new interview .
The point was more so she was late by an hour then her inviting him up. He was using that as a point of obvious boundaries and respect that she clearly had no interest of showing him.
It was a skit
These 2 incidents were skits!!!it’s not real they confirmed this.
OMG Chanel you were RIGHT! It just came out that the cheescake factory situation was a skit
Girl, where did you get that beautiful hair? It looks great on you!
Honestly I have so many wigs I have no idea where this one is from 😩 I’ve had it for years though
The oyster bar chick was wrong, the dude said drinks not food, the dude was wrong for stiffing her with his bill, he should've said something before she ordered but I understand why he left.
My ex did the same thing. He told me to order whatever I want when the bill came he told me I'm paying for both of us.
@@stepha2642 I hope you didn't pay cause they would've been very simp of you. I would've paid for myself and left him.
@@ThePhoenix3712 is it bad that it was the last time we ever went out?
@@ThePhoenix3712 I only paid because he conviently had no money and I didn't want to get arrested. I made him pay me back the next day.
My current boyfriend will pay for the meal when we go to a fancy restaurant. I pay the tip because I choose to. If you're going to spend a lot of money I'm going to pay the tip or I feel guilty. Honestly I'm happy if he takes me to Burger King. If it's his birthday I will always pay for our meal.
💯 Shoo I like Cheesecake Factory 😂 but I also like 5 star…and Taco Bell. I like low pressure meeting someone 1st time..to each their own but I really dislike this attitude that Black women, fat women, (any easy targets for the morality police) are reaching when they want to be be courted properly. I drank a lot of this kool aid and never really fit into conventional beauty standards but it’s crazy how different your experience can be just by setting the bar higher for yourself..external opinions be damned 😊
The way she couldn't even look at him while talking, she's just focused on making her video
Missed youuuu..also I feel like a lot of this stuff is skits
Thank you ! You’re intelligent clearly
Great video 🥰😭
YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL
Tyyyyy
So many Men are so used to dealing with women who are money driven they feel like they have no choice but to find value in their pockets in order to be seen, respected or desired. It's sad to see when men don't appreciate or believe women who say they don't place high value on monetary and materials because after all some of us genuinely put more emphasis on things money can't buy.
Since so many men place their value on what they have need to understand that no amount of money or status won't ever buy a woman's respect. REAL WOMEN CAN'T BE BOUGHT. If her love is not real your bag won't do you any good.
This is a good comment appreciate this sis🤝
@@cameronholmes7424lmao
This is hilarious. Your takes always tickle meeeeeee I share you with my men so they know the core of my ethic
Make up is flawless and the hair is so you. I thought I liked the super curly hair on you but this one is fire 🔥
2:44 "You can thank black men for that." That's a very 1 dimensional way of seeing things, yes there a lot of black men social spaces who stereotype and generalize bw and vice versa, but we can't sit and ignore the fact that there a plethora of bw who are industry plants and bw who embrace the stereotype that damage there image as BW, and that ain't no lie, I mean lmao what do you think sexxy redd is🤣? Its not just bm, its black ppl as a whole.
Yayyy, you’ve been missed! ❤❤❤
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I agree with the basic and poor part. It's embarrassing people arguing and mixing gold digging with food etc. At this point im over it and pit do not recommend. Good to see you Chanel you look beautiful.
Exactly we should want more 🎉MORE MORE MORE
Chilllleee meanwhile im fighting off ninja that mad because i ask for them to atleast be an adult and have a car,job,and a place to stay😑 and the one's that are adults doing adults things act like bad bihhh and expect you to chase them wtf 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ but its all about what restuarants you like me personally i don't like the cheesecake factory but that me who cares 🤷🏿♀️
I heard men say accept a coffee dates and Applebees and move on if she doesn’t want that. Most women are happy for you to move on
Exactly, they say it’s a test. I don’t have time for test or games. Goodbye sir.
I think the oyster lady lying....
Did anybody ever see the man or any proof that another person was there with her at all?
People serially date these days, date without real intentions, just wanting to get free food and block him after- it makes some men weary. Also simple dates have been a thing since the beginning of time this whole fancy or nothing thing is weird. The cheesecake guy isn’t a black man either so it’s proof that men of all races are sick of this 😂 and we shouldn’t focus on her race either. She went there for content and food, spending so much time filming while he sat there, - that’s a finesse. it’s ok to accept sometimes we’re in the wrong 😂 one of the highest viewed videos that criticised her was from another black women
we got a dusty here
@@kp-ko9wt wipe the dust of yourself, it’s ok
Chanel it's today's glam for me! 😍🥰
🖤🤗🖤 This whole video was perfection! Definitely set my head straight today. Thanks 🙏🏾🙌🏾🫡
Chanel you are gorgeous please post most often😊 and yes I believe the Cheesecake Factory thing was a skit
It is a skit. Chrissie posted proof that it's fake
it was real she said her self
Cheesecake factory is not cheap at all. What the hell?
They wouldn't post anything like this if they wasn't living in a delusional world.. Cheesecake factor girl/Oster girl really thought they was shaming the man!!!😂that's the scary part of this new day n age 😂
Can you share your hair details pls 😩been looking for curl like this for ages, you look so pretty 😍
Ty 😍So this is a straight wig that was crimped just buy you a good crimper.
Black women were conditioned to want less, accept the bare minimum, and have a high tolerance of disrespect and low standards. But ladies still have class about yourself
I like the cheesecake factory a lot. Only went there once to sit down and eat. the inside is pretty. I love their cheesecakes I get them for my dad every year for his bday. I'd love to try their whole menu, a lot of choices. I paid about 300 for horrible food only once. First and last time. Dressed up to leave hungry lol so I don't care for the expensive meals.
WHY THE FUUUUU DONT YOU HAVE MORE VIEWS AND SUBS!!!!! I hope you keep making vids ugh I’m obsessed with you I instantly subbed like you keep it REAL while having such a big bubbly and fun personality!! ❤
Those waves are so pretty 😣 is it curled or the texture ?
ty 💕its crimped
It's gorgeous 🥰
Also the funny built cheesecake factory chick got her nerve, she could've asked where they were going and said then she didn't want to go and also showed him respect being that she was late.
8:40 you're preaching. Cash me outside girl, the jenner Kardashians, Woah Vickey, Lil Tae, the white LBGTs, i can go on
Dating is so scary now lol
Nothing is microwaved at Cheesecake Factory I use to be a chef there it’s very much high quality ❤❤❤❤❤
I don't understand these dusty, they get so upset about women who have certain standards when there are PLENTY of women who would gladly go 50/50 with them, damn even women who would pay for some of them.
I love this channel and this information so much.
It appears to be staged
It’s clear agenda I need the girlies to stay WOKE !
I thought so to, but she did an interview.
I was waiting on your insight. Because chileeeeeee 💅🏾
The man should've seen her huge red flag holding her mobile up constantly. Respect to him remaining so polite.
Beautiful hair as always
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Thank ya !!!
Date above caliber always!!!
I love quality dates over quantity dates
I knew you were going to speak on this 😆😆😆 my girl ❤
Oyster chick had it coming! Girl if he says drinks you say no thanks and go to the oyster place to get what you want and hunt! So ghetto
Cheesecake Factory girl where r u expecting to be taken with that hair! The importance of looking on point to be taken to fancy places!
Facts
The Gospel of Shera
Yes welcome back 🩶
So Chanel, I had thought it was fake until they were interviewed on the Kevin Wesley channel. Sadly it's real
I wanted it to be a skit sooooo bad😢😢😢 sadly I also saw the interview
It’s a hoax I’m trying tell y’all 😭
@@codenamechanelI agree with you. This has gotten her a TON of publicity. I’m sure she has a plan.
@@deejames1st she just needed a platform
It's fake. Her name is not even Alicia. She's a counselor on tiktok. She even said she wanted to open up a dialogue by putting that clip out there
I miss your channel and u looking good!
$60? Is what he is scared to spend lol
me, a whitey, lurking and learning 👀
Agreed. You look beautiful baby!
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I don’t think they made bw look bad either. I don’t even think their requests were wrong, if that’s what they prefer then that’s what they prefer. U not gonna be for everyone most ppl just need one person in life to live their days out with in a relationship. Regarding The oyster girl, a content creator went to the restaurant to ask if it was real and apparently she goes there every week and orders the same amount of oysters 😂 so this isn’t somethin she can’t do for herself and it is something she is used to which I don’t see anything wrong with. The only thing I disagree with regarding her is PURPOSELY meeting someone u don’t like to have them pay for ur meal, but hey him not paying was perfect reminder why she doesn’t need to do that anymore especially since she supplies this experience for herself already anyway.
It’s not the fact that she didn’t want to go to the Cheesecake Factory, it’s the way that she handled the situation especially with putting that guy on blast and humiliating them
Oh girlllll, this hair????😮💨❤️😍
😂😂😂 sick!
SUBSCRIBED!!🙌🙌👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Welcome back 😂👏🏿
I spend that on the regular, and tip well too 🤭🤭🤭
I mean if she wants some more, she wants some more.
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give the hair details!
Ok, background!! 😍
We losing the point I can say "aftrer spending 300$ dollars on dinner I deserve better" and shit on her on social media..females thinking they deserve better have nothing to do with them be a barbarian posting the situation that clearly you wa is one thing but posting it on social media when yall are already dulusinal?😂
Baby just call me too much!!! 😂
Can you do a review on double standards that the guy post a gurl with 4kids 3 baby dad and want the lavish life or no car but want the dude in lambo he get where da gurl was coming from and the guy know your ball park
What patreon shows that???
8:32 octaroooooon
I love you Chanel
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Thanks for letting me know how you roll and that you ONLY take the women side regardless. I exit at 2mins into your video.
Hey boo ❤❤❤
Hey 👋🏿 ❤️
You look good… beautiful ❤
Cheesecake Factory; Lmao 🤣
I wouldn’t of gotten out the car either.
Who takes a grown ass woman, anyway… lmao 🤣
Fridays
Ihop
Golden Coral
Popeyes
Taco Bell
Mc Donald’s
Lmao 🤣
Chanel did you lose weight your face looks so slim 😍
@7:30 ALL FACTS
2:55 Biggest supporters of struggle love movies are bw though? Lmao Tyler Perry?? Okay im out.
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