opening up: q&a | weight gain, loneliness, babies & future plans

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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @everythingshareable
    @everythingshareable 2 года назад +57

    I am pregnant and I have never been more lonely and isolated in my life. I moved to the UK for my husband, before I lived in Germany. My husband works, has his family and friends here, and goes out with them. He doesn’t neglect me at all, he is the sweetest and the most supportive person I have ever met. But I don’t go out because of my fatigue and morning sickness (beside other muscles pain). And I don’t have friends nor my family in here. Some days I cry and some days I remind myself to be grateful for my baby that is growing in my belly.

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад +17

      🤍🤍🤍 sending you lots of love, no chapter in life lasts forever & it sounds like you’re about to start the most exciting one very very soon 🥰

    • @cookinghealthy8049
      @cookinghealthy8049 2 года назад +11

      He love. I want to let you know that it will pass. I was in California and pregnant and now moved to Denmark for my husband and it sucks too but now I am getting to know some people. Everyday I wonder if I made the right decision because I loved living in California and I can’t wait to go back. But I realize I am not going to be in this situation forever and it will pass for the both of us

    • @louiselill1528
      @louiselill1528 2 года назад +4

      On good days try taking yourself to a park try to find mother and baby groups so you can meet people. Wishing you well for the future life won't always be lonely x

    • @ramooyeido1772
      @ramooyeido1772 2 года назад

      @@HannahAdkins
      Wow, you are too beautiful whomever sees you shall believe that God is real, and whenever I see you I am always in a dream, and when we wake up we all will realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real.
      I dont know how can atheists believe that such a beauty queen came from monkeys hahaha 😄
      عن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن شك في الله، وهو يرى خلق الله
      Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how a man-man/women-can doubt in the existence of God-/Allah-although he sees His creation.
      وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لمن أنكر النشأة الأخرى، وهو يرى النشأة الأولى
      Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one denies the second life although he/she seen the first life-this life is actually a living proof of both the existence of its creator, as well as a clear proof that indicates that another life in heaven or hell may also be a very possible chance as well-.
      وعن الإمام علي "عليه السلام": عَجِبتُ لعامر دار الفناء، وتارك دار البقاء Imam Ali, peace be upon him, said: I cant understand how any one inhabits this transient abode-and is
      so indulged in it-but ignores the everlasting hereafter abode,
      There was a teacher whom didn't believe in existence of God, He said to his students do you see God?,
      the students replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God,
      then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys do you see the teachers brain?,
      then the students replied no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said then the teacher is crazy he got no brain :0)
      ​one God for all of us, all the universe shows unity with diversity, there are different things different creatures and different materials but are all made of particles and atoms
      ​Even if we will assume that there will not be an atom left of you after death, you still have proven as a created being that there is a Creator,you proved the existence of God even if you do not believe in God.
      ​God initiated everything and he redo too and it is evident.
      ​this life is temporary while the next is forever eternal either in paradise or burning in Hell fire
      good qualities are beneficial, and bad qualities are harmful
      Be good dont be bad and refrain from sins and obey God and worship him alone in the way he wants to be worshiped and you will be saved from Hell fire and will enter paradise and be happy forever
      ​Whoever does an atom’s weight of good will see it, and whoever does an atom’s weight of evil will see it,
      ​or may not see it if God pardons him/her and has mercy on him/her if he/she fixes what he/she has spoiled, in the right time,
      ​if you be bad to others you hurt your own self, also when you don't do what you should in the right time,
      Having faith in God makes you have hope even when you are weak
      ​Drinking alcoholic beverages damage the liver and the mind,
      & adultery is not good because it is not true love it is neglect to the lady and to the fetus, and brings sexual diseases.
      ​while marriage on the other hand, ok it has sex in it, but it is a relationship in which the woman and the fetus are cared for
      ​as for sodomy-same sex marriage-its bad not part of normal human life &it brings sexual diseases, &eating pork can bring cholesterol&some parasitic worms,
      ​Not cheating, gaining trust by being trust worthy and honest, plus having good behavior, brings more money to you and is good for you in the next life too, these are some of the teaching of the prophet Mohammed
      ​The Messenger of God, Muhammad,is the most intelligent of people,his mind is the largest of mind &he is the most merciful of people his heart is the largest heart,but he is firm against every crime,
      ​&was the most just, &told people to respect &love &care for each other &for the female &elder &children, &to protect the innocent person regardless of what he/she believed,
      ​(If one of the polytheists seeks protection from you, then grant him protection) Holly Quran,
      &taught to either forgive the one who wronged you, or be just &fair when retaliating, or to shock the person and enslave his/her heart by being generous &kind.
      ​who to follow after the prophet?: Even if you may think that all the companions of the Messenger were always good and all of them are like mountains, despite everything that happened between them!!
      ​the Prophet said:“My family-daughter fatima the lady of light the lady of heaven and Imam Ali and offspring-are like the ship of Noah,whoever rode it survived, and who did not ride it drowned and died.
      ​We know that the son of Noah did not embark on the ark/ship of salvation, rather he climbed a mountain and drowned due to the very high tides and because he didnt follow God command.Don't be like him
      ​spread the light teach whats good &right its best for you and for all and better than letting the wrong things from wrong teachings or bad desires and ill mind happen, prevention is better than cure

    • @analea6531
      @analea6531 2 года назад +1

      I wish you a safe pregnancy and delivery. I hope it will be better. It’s totally fine to not be okay every time wish you and your growing family the best ❤️

  • @sangbyafrenchgirl7033
    @sangbyafrenchgirl7033 2 года назад +23

    it's refreshing to see someone as down-to-earth, calm and authentic as u. listening to u, talking in ur black hoodie in a minimalistic setting brought me a lot of peace, so a million thank u for that hannah

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад

      ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much xxx

  • @kirstykelly-brown2692
    @kirstykelly-brown2692 2 года назад +2

    I’m 42 with 2 teenagers, I love watching your videos, you actually make me feel very calm and also send out some very positive vibes x

  • @sabrinahall8489
    @sabrinahall8489 2 года назад +1

    You are sooo similar to me in everything you've said!! One thing i've noticed that helps me be more in the moment is my dog, when I walk her I leave my phone at home and I watch her happily run along the beach or park and think "wow this is her favourite day ever" which has given me the ability to "romanticize" my life - I literally try every day to see life through my little dogs eyes - breathe in the fresh air, appreciate natures beauty, appreciate my time with HER. That's my tip to live in the present - live as if you were a happy dog and every day is the best day ever. : )

  • @vanessa.tang_
    @vanessa.tang_ 2 года назад +27

    Loved this!! Can't wait for all the autumn and fingers crossed house content!! 💕

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад +1

      🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼❤️

  • @hol8642
    @hol8642 2 года назад +13

    If you’re looking for motivation to be present, explore what you are trying to control. If you trust that everything will unfold exactly as it should, then there is no urgency to live in a constant state of preparation by asking what’s next. Trust that your people and your environment have your back - the pressure to live an abundant life isn’t all on you.

  • @Gail-vc6xq
    @Gail-vc6xq 2 года назад +12

    I'm a 57 year old vegan who really enjoys your channel. I too need to live in the moment I miss so much because my mind is always thinking of the next thing .. I look forward to seeing if your viewers come up with some good tips 👌

  • @lizzy6970
    @lizzy6970 2 года назад +6

    Hannah I’m so happy you mentioned being more present in the moment. I am exactly like you and my partner is exactly like Kenny - and I always thought I was more right (lol) he doesn’t plan ahead enough. But tbh, I think you might be into something about being more present. How can you ever truly enjoy life if you’re not fully in the moment? I think this has given me more of an understanding and a want to meet him in the middle somewhere 🧡

  • @ioanapoiata7446
    @ioanapoiata7446 2 года назад +1

    I'm not sure if this is going to work, but when you see that you start planning or worrying about what you'll do in the future, you could try to observe your surroundings. What you see, smell, feel. As you do that, you could also take deep breaths. Hope this will help with being more present.
    Love the calm state you give me! 💕

  • @JessieRose96
    @JessieRose96 2 года назад +1

    Honestly Hannah, the more videos I watch of yours the more I adore you, your values and presence are so wholesome and I relate to so much of what you say...thank you for opening up to us

  • @LifeWithElyse
    @LifeWithElyse 2 года назад +1

    I can definable relate to the struggle of living in the moment. Crossing my fingers for everything to go smoothly with the house purchase 💕

  • @lynnelyons2330
    @lynnelyons2330 2 года назад

    Hannah, you are a beautiful soul. I hope your vision for your future becomes reality. Sending love and hugs from Norfolk xx

  • @davidthescottishvegan
    @davidthescottishvegan 2 года назад +5

    Love 🥰 this catch-up video and hearing about future plans. Hopefully the house move goes well. Have a great week and good advice not to be confined at home too much. Even though I live in a city I would prefer to live in the countryside but it's not practically at the moment. Love 💕Hannah.

  • @MyShadowM
    @MyShadowM 2 года назад

    Love your videos Hannah. Thanks for being honest and real it’s so refreshing. Good luck with your house 🤞 and your dream country house with farm animals is absolute goals 😍 x

  • @alesiar3718
    @alesiar3718 2 года назад +3

    Mindfulness techniques are great for being in the moment, using the app headspace it trains you in it step by step.

    • @Shellby19158
      @Shellby19158 2 года назад +2

      100% agree. Im doing an online meditation course. It’s suppose to help with mindfulness and living in the present moment instead of the past/future. It’s going well so far

  • @holidayadventures2670
    @holidayadventures2670 2 года назад +2

    We recently completed on our new home 🏡. I wish you both luck on your home journey. Its a roller coaster of emotions I tell u but well worth it!!

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад +1

      😬😬😬 the relief when we finally get our keys!!! xxx

    • @holidayadventures2670
      @holidayadventures2670 2 года назад

      @@HannahAdkins Nothing beats completion day!!

  • @MeanJeanGreens
    @MeanJeanGreens 2 года назад +2

    Payer always helps be when my thoughts are scattered, and starting the day with the best book ever the Bible. Sorry if you don’t believe I know the Bible can be boring but as far as calm in the nerves talk to God about everything you do. 💚🧡 Love the videos, thank you.

  • @maryambham3124
    @maryambham3124 2 года назад

    Yes I totally understand. ..I'm a planner too...sadly as u say it does ruin most things...especially relationships...my advice to u would be to not to plan anything while in the presence of your other half....whatever happens will happen naturally. ..trust in that ..the problem is always wanting to be in the drivers seat albeit subconsciously. ..good luck❣

  • @kyliemartineez3547
    @kyliemartineez3547 2 года назад

    Ohhh I love the curls. Definitely going darker with the brows would really make your eyes and face pop.

  • @MrMunsten
    @MrMunsten 2 года назад +2

    Best of luck with your house, Hannah - it's an awful process to go through. For spiritual development and being in the moment try Eckhart Tolle The Power of Now - he reads it on audio book or you can buy the physical book. I often listen before sleep. Love alice

  • @natalieg6727
    @natalieg6727 2 года назад +4

    Love you! I discovered your channel just recently and just love u! Feel like a friend

  • @miadelonge
    @miadelonge 2 года назад +2

    I could resonate with so much of what you said. Especially relating to staying more present and not overthink so much. I was wondering, are you a Capricorn?

  • @Gail-vc6xq
    @Gail-vc6xq 2 года назад +4

    I'm just adding a second comment because I've just started reading an amazing book called four thousand weeks it deals with the very issue of time and the need for us to not try and Control our future nor live in our past . it may help you hannah if you haven't read it

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад

      I’m definitely going to order that tonight, thank you 🥰

  • @chickenemd
    @chickenemd 2 года назад +3

    Love this video!! 🫶

  • @caralum
    @caralum 2 года назад

    If you’re a loser then I am too ✌️ I love hoodie weather! Bring on autumn! 🍁

  • @goddesschess
    @goddesschess 2 года назад +1

    Eckart Tolle- Live in the now. And of course meditation 😇 for more presence
    I am also such an autumn Person 💘 Well I was born in September so it makes sense 😄

  • @chloestanley9683
    @chloestanley9683 2 года назад +1

    Love your video, could you post the link for the book The secret? In your description the link for the secret takes me to Amazon to a different book xxx

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад

      Oh sorry! I’ve just added a link above called ‘Amazon storefront’ if you click that link and then go to non-fiction books, it’s there 🫶🏼

  • @celinefitoussi
    @celinefitoussi 2 года назад

    Your video was so interesting!!! :)

  • @gemmagarford2668
    @gemmagarford2668 2 года назад +1

    'My Life as a Turkey' - Read it, watch it. Animals teaching you to live in the now, might help gain a new perspective. Let me know if you love it.

  • @cherryberry2423
    @cherryberry2423 2 года назад

    I am new to your channel I found you through your sister. You mentioned a making a roast at the end of the video . Are you vegan? Just curious? I am looking forward to autumn as well. I just started decorating today.

  • @zaibcom
    @zaibcom 2 года назад

    Amazing Video

  • @deerosse8162
    @deerosse8162 2 года назад

    Please do a video on manifesting

  • @sophiehadkins
    @sophiehadkins 2 года назад

    That was so heartwarming. FYI I’ll definitely be moving into your house if you’re getting a pig 😩

  • @Luckygirlme111
    @Luckygirlme111 2 года назад +1

    How old are you?

  • @kathreilly7050
    @kathreilly7050 2 года назад

    💜🤞👏👏

  • @elizabethpage7234
    @elizabethpage7234 2 года назад

    You have the same taste in books as me. If you like The tattooist you will like ‘Cilka’s journey’ and ‘three sisters’ both also by Heather Morris. 🙃

    • @HannahAdkins
      @HannahAdkins  2 года назад +1

      I read Cilka’s Journey and loved it! xx

  • @GigiAvirett
    @GigiAvirett 2 года назад

    What is your MBTI type? ^_^