Wow! First time to see the Missus after being intrigued for months after discovering KD thru kulas. Subscribed to KD and now to you, nhel. Happy to view this vlog and to see you as a smart, cultured, strong woman, and a wife who loves unconditionally. Thank you for inspiring viewers and teaching a thing or two abt being a wife to KD. honest and heartfelt. Truly commendable! More power and my best wishes and prayers for your happy union and pupbabies! 🤟🙏💜
Hello, new subscriber to both of your vlogs. I'm an American expat woman in Cebu married to a Cebuano living in Cebu province. I admire your understanding and patience dealing with a loved one with mental illness. We know that there are still a lot of stigmas and misunderstandings here as with many places about mental illness.. Keeping your mental health in tact during a pandemic especially is hard for everyone, let alone someone with issues. All best wishes to you both.
Hi Nel, I’m 66 and still a RN and frontliner like you in NC! I’m a new subscriber . Thank you for representing a true Filipina faithful and strong wife! He chose well ! You and commander is in my prayers now. MayGod continue to bless you with good health , safety, joy and prosperity ! I’m glad he is back with you now.
Salute you Ma'am Nhel for putting up with Anselm, you really have a heart of a Filipina (caring and loving) no matter what challenges came into your relationship. You are truly the best half of Kumander, i should say. Take care and thanks for serving as frontliner as well. GOD BLESS you and your marriage
We love Kumander Daot here in NY. Thanks for your honesty and unconditional love for him. He needs it. Happy to see his blogs from UK and were having a blast. Good luck and one day he will be back as he promised.
You are one special lady and blessed that you and KD have each other. I wish and pray you both continue to find joy in life. Stay well and be safe always.
Hello from the USA, Nhel! I hope this finds you smiling and happy! Your deep love and care for your husband shows in your eyes. How blessed is he that he found someone who accepts his good and "bad" sides. Please keep your faith in the healing power of the Almighty - many of us are praying for Anselm's complete healing. Anselm the Docu-mander 😊. Do take care.
Nice to come across your channel. I now subscribe. It’s nice to know more about you and your unconditional love towards him as a wife. How wonderful to have the support of someone very close to you, in times of any physical or mental distress. I was also diagnosed with Manic Depression and OCD many years ago. The right Psychologist are the best to offer the best therapy. On marital issues, Its best to hear straight from the wife/husband. I always comment on KD posts but never tried to ask about your relationship or his marital status. I respect people’s privacy. Keep the videos rolling. RUclips raw videos are my entertainment, being an elderly and living alone. I stopped watching mainstream news as it triggers my anxiety attacks. I now prefer to watch wholesome and real life situations by reliable and humble Vloggers. Teddy and Bailey are very playful and happy😊 cute dogs.
Hello Nhel, thank you for your reallly faithfull and honest love to kumander D. coz we love him.. I hope we can meet him someday whe are just one town apart in South Wales.. bisaya pud ko originally from negros...
Hi Nhel. I really admire your courage and guts to validate of what’s really going to KD. I’m one of his subscribers and I like him a lot and was really surprised to learn that he has BPD. I used to work as Special Education Teacher and have encountered a lot of students with BPD in Canada 🇨🇦. I would say that one of the best ways in the treatment of BPD is environmental factor which he did as he went back to his native land. He really needs his necessary external support such as medical attention (meds, counseling and other related medical stuff), parents who have been his pillars throughout his journey of having BPD and social derivatives that will help him improve his condition. I really believe that this pandemic plays a vital role to trigger and aggravate his BPD condition. I am wishing you well and KD for his speedy recovery. Let’s face it, BPD in the Philippines is hard to get treated very well much more for a foreigner like KD. Take care and stay safe.......
I admire you being the wife of kumander D. God gave you kumander D as wife because He knows that you are the one understands his personality. God bless your marriage.
In sickness and in health, Nell, such are our marriage vows. Stay strong, stay healthy; KD will get better with the support he gets from you and his family. 🙏🏼❤️❗️
Dear Nhel ,thank you for sharing about you and your husbands life ,I know you both go through a lot and it's good that your able to share to many who have or live with someone with a mental illness ,and I'm very sure it will be of great comfort and blessings to others who listen to what you share thank you so much .Many years ago I was a nurse and worked in mental health ,I left the nursing side and went into nurse management take care always thank you again for the love and understanding you give to your husband and all others that you nurse and care for .
Kumander D I think has found a good outlet for his condition in his expression through his vlogging .But also i think he found a good possible business venture through vlogging . He has improved so much from his first vlogs. I think he maybe met his new calling. I think he will be back home with you in the Philippines more sooner than later since now the Philippines is starting to reopen. I wish you and him great happiness in the future ohhh btw your pretty good at this also . Good video have a nice day there
You explain and understand it well the condition of Kumaner D no wonder since you are a nurse. He needs it badly to go home and assess his life. He will be back for sure in Davao. He even cooks Flipino food in Wales and share it to his parents.
@Hummin Bird I don't think she said she was an RN but a frontliner so she works in the ' medical field'. Usually if you say your a frontliner your either a Dr., nurse, medical tech. or in the administrative field but some would just let you guest as to what they do as a frontliner.
Your channel came up as a recommendation. You were very courageous in answering all the questions. Your husband is lucky to have somebody like you in his corner. I wish you two lovebirds a bright, long and happy future together :)
Hang in there young lady, I know what is like to be married with a foreigner, but you’ll work it out. Bless you both. My best advice is Compromise, and communication. It’s hard for him because he is not use to our culture. Spend sometime together and communicate. No, you don’t need no psychiatrist is a waste of time. Perhaps meditation would help. Best of luck to you both. And God Yahuah bless.
Hiya Nhel, good to see a new video. I love Bailey's hair. I bet Teddy and Bailey both miss their daddy. Oh, look at you both in that picture, so cute. I love it. Great you are rocking the five-thirsty t-shirt. Hopefully, this will stop people from asking you and Kumander Daot so many questions. You are a lovely couple. You must miss him very much. You're a beautiful, strong woman. You are both lucky to have each other. And I wish you both all the best. Have a good day xx
Thank you for inspiring me Nhel. I feel what you feel. Its kinda hard to be tough in front of your partner but it needs to. My fiance has a BPD also but he is in DK right now. Its very very hard about his situation. I knew his condition since the beginning of our relationship 2 years ago. I accepted him and love him so much. He is the most kindest human being. But its just really hard in this pandemic time. Also, people in there country they are neglecting him. He always hope and wish he lives here in PH bcos its differrent vibes. He is very simple person. He always watch the vlogs of Kumander Dao. Im thankful to Kumander Daot for giving my partner as inspiration.
Wow Nhel! Good job on your video. Even though going on camera can sometimes feel so intimidating, you are just like a natural. And I admire your courage in sharing a very personal aspect of your life, especially on difficult issues. I just want you to know that there are people all around this world that care and who pray for Kumander, you, and his family. God is gracious and gives His spirit abundantly to those who put their trust and faith in Him. He holds the future and knows every detail. God bless and be glad in the Lord.
Hi! I was able to watch your vlog and I was so impressed with your personality as the wife of Kumander D. You are the right person for him because in tough times you are there to support him not just in good times, that's what God commanded us to do in our vow. Pray and let the Holy Spirit guide you both in your journey as husband and wife. God bless you!🤗🙏
Good evening. I was wondering who Kumander Daot is married to after seeing him in Kulas blogs last week.So now I am your subscriber too and I also subscribe to his channel.Nice to meet you. I wish both of you well.❤️😍👍I love you both.
I loved your video..KD is lucky and BLESSED having you as his wife..JUST KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE WITH GOD AS THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP...TRUST IN HIS MIGHTY POWER TO HEAL KD'S PSYCHOLOGICAL CONDITION..GOD IS OUR HEALER..HE CAN DO THINGS BEYOND MAN'S ABILITY AND CAPACITY..TRUST IN HIS WORDS IN THE BIBLE .. MEDITATE ON ROMANS 8:28 GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE
Good answer about marriage.....marriages are not perfect. Marriage has its beauty like humans some people looks goods ome looks bad but inthe eyes of God everyone looks the same. God love us all and God has all the plans to us all. You are a nice wife of Kumander. Just put God the center of your marriage you guys will get better and better forever...God bless you both.
Love your husband no matter what? No one is perfect. I'm glad to finally meet kumander daot's wife. I'm happy to know he has a good wife. He is a good person.
Well first of all i want to thank ou for a superb video and for showing the world what a great person you are.My brother-in-law has suffered with it all of his life and i know it's not an easy thing to control you are a very loving and caring person and the commander couldn't have found a better person to share his life with.I have been watching his videos for a while now because have been following becoming filipino for years and through that i seen commander for the first ime and have followed him ever since.I've been trying to get to the philippines since March and i'm hoping to get there by the middle of the year I want to wish you and commander all the best for the future and God bless you and always take care.
I was surprised he is so young with all accomplishments in his life. Many 23 yr old Filipinos still playing around not serious how to take care of themselves. I salute KD. With that I subscribed to your channel.
You have a beautiful heart Nhel, I deeply admire the respect you have for your husband. You are so very blessed to have found one another. God bless you.
im still thinking about the kulas incident, i remember his face watching kulas talking how painful his shoulder was. and i was thinking, maybe it adds up. i mean the losses he suffered in his business ventures and kulas leaving cateel... thanks for this mam... Kumander D fan here. from GenSan.
Kumander Daot have a sense of humor. You have to think to get it. Meeting in the middle is always great. Communicate always. Understand the persons personality. The persons personality is the key in knowing how that person communicate what he feels or what he think. An introvert and Extrovert will express their minds and feelings in different ways. He is a great guy!!!
You speak about him with fondness in your voice and mannerism. I discovered KD through being a subscriber of Kulas and now I am a subscriber of KD and I watch all his posts from Wales. He has tremendous knowledge of the history of Wales and he speaks so well. I am sure his return to his homeland is cathartic for him although I am also sure he misses you and the warm Philippine weather. I wish the best for him in his quest to get mental help. Cheers from Canada.
Good that you say your part.He's a funny man and hopefully he can recover soon.I know here in the UK there's a full support regarding his condition.Fingers crossed 🙏🙏🙏
New subbie here. I followed Kulas way back. Kumander D was in his vlog at one time, he was so funny & down to earth. Found out he has his own channel. I became a subscriber. He’s a lucky fellow , has a supportive wife in you. Just watched his latest vlog. It was so well made. It’s like a series of documentary. Now I found you. Keep it up, thanks for your service, being a frontliners is hard. Stay safe. I’ll be watching your vlog when I can. Thanks.
Hi Nhel! New subscriber from Texas. My wife and I are subscribers for kumander and kulas’s channels. We are pulling for you in your struggles with daots condition and he being away. It’s just temporary and soon he will be back. Keep strong, safe and healthy. Thanks for sharing ups and downs of your feelings.
Just subscribed from San Diego ,CA. So happy to see that you’re not shy. Was also wondering what you were like when he would talk about you. You seem to have a beautiful soul. Hope to see you on more vlogs together in the future 😊 🙏
So good to chance upon your channel...I'm a fan of Kumander Daot. Hope he's doing well back in U.K. and probably he'll come for a visit. Miss his channel and the joys he brings to his viewers. Take care and looking forward to hearing more about you, KD, and your adorable dogs.
God bless u Nhel and I applaud u for being supportive, kind loving, patient and understanding .. actually, yan ang need ng ganyang jlase g sakit... it will come and go if triggered by devastation or hard pressures.. but they will conquer it if surrounded by loving families, friends lalo na sayu.. be strong💪 God is with u.
Hello from Virginia, USA! I enjoyed watching this video. Looking forward for more. Maybe one of these days you can also do a livestream, that would be fun. Teddy & Bailey are adorable. You are a beautiful person inside & out. Stay safe especially as a frontliner. Wishing you & Kumander D the very best.
I truly understand his condition because I have a special friend who have commander Daot have. Stay strong and be supportive of your kind and loving husband.
You are a real nurse you understand situations like that and you handle it well. God bless and continue to be an instrument of his healing and others too.
Now Mrs kumander d has a face and I just love the way you did the video. And as I have enjoyed watching his videos because of his funny antics, I will surely love to hear some updates about him here. Amping. Daot in cebu is payat. Thin.
Good to see you, good to know that your Kumander Daot wife. I been watching his vid too, also good to see his mum and dad in his vid, hopefully that he will get better soon. Watching from New Zealand
Glad to know the history and also you are opened to his situation.am happy to meet you virtually. I love watching him and Kulas and the boys from Cateel . Keep blogging.
Nhel great video. I hope you have another soon. I am 61 years old, living in Australia. I watched Kamanda's video explaining why he returned to UK. Well I had tears in my eyes as he explained all the symptoms. Because over my time I have experienced all of them, not at the same time, but at some time. I always said I was just depressed, or feeling down and it will pass, and it usually does. I have been married to a Filipina now for over 20 years, and life has been much better. But for him to make the video, must have been the hardest thing he has ever done. I could see the stress on his face, and hear the hurt in his voice. I pray he gets the help he needs. Under all these problems he is a very good man. Sometimes life is just not fair. Nhel, I take my hat off to you. As a front line worker you are there in it all, and this bloody pandemic is not going away just yet. (No holidays to PH for me for some time yet). I saw Doctor on 25 January. He had a student doctor in his office and the talk came to corona. She told us it is exactly 1 year to that day when we first had a recorded case here in Townsville. I didn't think it was that long. Stay safe and always be extra careful. Things will get better. This pandemic has to end.
Your video came up as a suggestion and I wondered if you meant the same person I saw in other videos like from BecomingFilipino. And wow, I finally got to see his wife :) And what I see is what western man likes so much from Filipina woman's. So I just wanted to leave a comment to you .... to praise your loyalty to him. You show the world what marriage is about in both good and bad times, it is noticed. I' m sure it's not easy for you either. That God may bless your effort to love and support the man you married. Believe me, in many western countries that attitude is not so common. And it gives me hope as well :)
You are a brave wife. You stand by your man through thick and thin. Lucky Kumander Daot. I watch Kumader Daot's vlogs just recently, Wales have plenty of snow during winter.
So that is the reason,thanks foe being open and with youre hinesty,love it.i never knew he is married.up to this day i'm watching all his vlog.so you are a frontliner keep safe so when kumander gets bacj its ginna be okey and happy.keep ut up.
Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts that was very generous of you. Please though in you next blog please change the music up your choice was putting me to sleep it was hard to hear you over the music - just sayin’ thanks again for sharing your personal life...
Wow! It's good I happened to see this vlog....I really wanted to see kumander's wife and i never thought his wife is a vlogger toò! and pretty as well. Have you met your parents in law in UK? Have u visited them in UK? I am one of your husband's subscriber and now I am your subscriber,too.I want to see you both living together again 'cause you 're married to him.I wish you could come to UK and be together again.
Definitely your husband will be back with a sound mind and body! God is good all the time! He's blessed to have you as his wife and partner in life.. God bless you both😇😍
There are good and competent psychiatrists at MMC, St. Lukes etc...you should have inquired but the peace and assurance of a loving parents back home is the best for KD
Aloha ... absolutely beautiful.. Teddy and Bailey are so cute... my dog is my best friend and companion . Thank you for being a strong supporter for Kumander...I am glad you are vlogging again..Take care and God Bless...
Thank you for sharing.. New subscriber here. You both are an inspiration for couples. I admire you both being transparent & true.. And in a good way to say upfront on how much you can share.. You both make me feel like we can be friends 😊
Kumander is strong and is getting stronger because if your understanding Nhel.. with the support of your family and friends... and now your subscribers and of course kumander Daot's subscribers!!!
Happy to see your vlog today , I find you nice & looks pretty lady & decent. I am sure you will continue to l❤️ove & support him to get better. This is Emy fr Florida🙏
Oh you're so amazing Nhel.. Despite of your husband condition still you support and love him.. Have a great day and wishing you and kumander D a beautiful and happy life together
Hi Nhel nice to meet you and see you. Did not know you had a channel but will subscribe. I can relate to what Kumander is going thru and hope he can get the help he needs. You just have to be strong and support him and let him know how you much you love him that will go a long way. He is a good guy and I am enjoying the vlogs he is doing in Wales. I can tell how much the dogs like him when he was at your house haha. I know he will be back to the Philippines as soon as he can. I think you are good for him and he needs that. Remember it is fivethirsty somewhere haha stay safe
I have a feeling he kinda blame himself with what happened to Kulas . Plus the fishpond missing the targetted harvest. Plus quarantine . Those were too much to handle. But he turned out to be the best documentary RUclipsr !!!!
Growing up in Cagayan de Oro city, Misamis Oriental, "DAOT" means bad, going bad, esp pertaining to food we say "daot na" meaning it's spoiled already.
I have same condition as Kumander D. A lot of people judging us negatively most specially there in the PH. They dont know how the mental health eating you inside out untill you'll drown and no other way out but to end your suffering... I love how you supported your husband and very understanding about it because thats what we badly need.
Hello, I am a fan and subscribe of Kumandor Daot, first time to see his beautiful wife, and also now subscibed to your channel, God bless you, Kumander Daot and your Families, will watch all of your vlogs.
That’s what marriage is all about. I can imagine you as the wife in the Oscar Awardee Best Picture, 2002, A Beautiful Mind. The ending is beautiful. I hope you and KD can watch it together. I salute you Ms Nhel
Just a little more practice taking your video you will be fine. This is my first time to see your video. You and Kumander is perfect couple life has a lot of up and down just learn how to handle it and solve the problem
matagal na po akong subscribrr ni kumander d, pero now ko lang nalaman na kayo po pla ang wife nya,ngsyon nag subscribe nadin po ako.. happy po ako na magkkaroon na kayo ng lil angel..
Both dogs are looking for KD..looks like they missed him a lot...marrying somebody with different culture can be cumbersome, but it takes two to tango...trust is the best weapon and understanding, specially when you live with someone with borderline personality disorder..one in 4 in the family has it without realising it...stay with him and love him more...bless you!
Wow! First time to see the Missus after being intrigued for months after discovering KD thru kulas. Subscribed to KD and now to you, nhel. Happy to view this vlog and to see you as a smart, cultured, strong woman, and a wife who loves unconditionally. Thank you for inspiring viewers and teaching a thing or two abt being a wife to KD. honest and heartfelt. Truly commendable! More power and my best wishes and prayers for your happy union and pupbabies! 🤟🙏💜
First time for me as well. What a lovely lady.
You are pretty,Ms Plummer.
she is guapa jud in and out.
Kumander Daot is blessed with a good loving caring supportive wife. Stay strong & stay safe always! 😁👍🏼
Hello, new subscriber to both of your vlogs. I'm an American expat woman in Cebu married to a Cebuano living in Cebu province. I admire your understanding and patience dealing with a loved one with mental illness. We know that there are still a lot of stigmas and misunderstandings here as with many places about mental illness.. Keeping your mental health in tact during a pandemic especially is hard for everyone, let alone someone with issues. All best wishes to you both.
Hi Nel, I’m 66 and still a RN and frontliner like you in NC! I’m a new subscriber .
Thank you for representing a true Filipina faithful and strong wife! He chose well !
You and commander is in my prayers now. MayGod continue to bless you with good health , safety, joy and prosperity ! I’m glad he is back with you now.
I am glad and happy to finally meet you Ms. Nhel , Mrs Kumander D!
Power on lang! Thank you for your service.
Salute you Ma'am Nhel for putting up with Anselm, you really have a heart of a Filipina (caring and loving) no matter what challenges came into your relationship. You are truly the best half of Kumander, i should say. Take care and thanks for serving as frontliner as well. GOD BLESS you and your marriage
We love Kumander Daot here in NY. Thanks for your honesty and unconditional love for him. He needs it. Happy to see his blogs from UK and were having a blast. Good luck and one day he will be back as he promised.
You are one special lady and blessed that you and KD have each other. I wish and pray you both continue to find joy in life. Stay well and be safe always.
Hello from the USA, Nhel! I hope this finds you smiling and happy! Your deep love and care for your husband shows in your eyes. How blessed is he that he found someone who accepts his good and "bad" sides. Please keep your faith in the healing power of the Almighty - many of us are praying for Anselm's complete healing. Anselm the Docu-mander 😊. Do take care.
Nice to come across your channel. I now subscribe. It’s nice to know more about you and your unconditional love towards him as a wife. How wonderful to have the support of someone very close to you, in times of any physical or mental distress. I was also diagnosed with Manic Depression and OCD many years ago. The right Psychologist are the best to offer the best therapy. On marital issues, Its best to hear straight from the wife/husband. I always comment on KD posts but never tried to ask about your relationship or his marital status. I respect people’s privacy. Keep the videos rolling. RUclips raw videos are my entertainment, being an elderly and living alone. I stopped watching mainstream news as it triggers my anxiety attacks. I now prefer to watch wholesome and real life situations by reliable and humble Vloggers. Teddy and Bailey are very playful and happy😊 cute dogs.
I salute you Nhel for being so understanding about KD condition
Hello Nhel, thank you for your reallly faithfull and honest love to kumander D. coz we love him.. I hope we can meet him someday whe are just one town apart in South Wales.. bisaya pud ko originally from negros...
Hi Nhel. I really admire your courage and guts to validate of what’s really going to KD. I’m one of his subscribers and I like him a lot and was really surprised to learn that he has BPD. I used to work as Special Education Teacher and have encountered a lot of students with BPD in Canada 🇨🇦. I would say that one of the best ways in the treatment of BPD is environmental factor which he did as he went back to his native land. He really needs his necessary external support such as medical attention (meds, counseling and other related medical stuff), parents who have been his pillars throughout his journey of having BPD and social derivatives that will help him improve his condition. I really believe that this pandemic plays a vital role to trigger and aggravate his BPD condition. I am wishing you well and KD for his speedy recovery. Let’s face it, BPD in the Philippines is hard to get treated very well much more for a foreigner like KD. Take care and stay safe.......
Of course, we like this video so much!!! Admire your frankness, strength; understanding and love for Kumander D...thank you!!!
I admire you being the wife of kumander D. God gave you kumander D as wife because He knows that you are the one understands his personality. God bless your marriage.
In sickness and in health, Nell, such are our marriage vows. Stay strong, stay healthy; KD will get better with the support he gets from you and his family. 🙏🏼❤️❗️
Dear Nhel ,thank you for sharing about you and your husbands life ,I know you both go through a lot and it's good that your able to share to many who have or live with someone with a mental illness ,and I'm very sure it will be of great comfort and blessings to others who listen to what you share thank you so much .Many years ago I was a nurse and worked in mental health ,I left the nursing side and went into nurse management take care always thank you again for the love and understanding you give to your husband and all others that you nurse and care for .
Kumander D I think has found a good outlet for his condition in his expression through his vlogging .But also i think he found a good possible business venture through vlogging . He has improved so much from his first vlogs. I think he maybe met his new calling. I think he will be back home with you in the Philippines more sooner than later since now the Philippines is starting to reopen. I wish you and him great happiness in the future ohhh btw your pretty good at this also . Good video have a nice day there
it's nice to hear from you, be strong, and more power to both of you, hope thinhs will be better for the best!
You explain and understand it well the condition of Kumaner D no wonder since you are a nurse. He needs it badly to go home and assess his life. He will be back for sure in Davao. He even cooks Flipino food in Wales and share it to his parents.
@Hummin Bird I don't think she said she was an RN but a frontliner so she works in the ' medical field'. Usually if you say your a frontliner your either a Dr., nurse, medical tech. or in the administrative field but some would just let you guest as to what they do as a frontliner.
Your channel came up as a recommendation. You were very courageous in answering all the questions. Your husband is lucky to have somebody like you in his corner. I wish you two lovebirds a bright, long and happy future together :)
Sending blessings to you and Kumander from Cornwall in the UK.
I have a girlfriend there in the Cavite area so I know how it feels to be apart.
He's a lucky lad and you're both very brave - I ip my hat to both of you and sincerely hope that you can resume your life together very soon.
I enjoyed hearing more about your relationship with Kumander D. Thank you for your openness and honesty!
Marriage is hard enough as it is. I hope things workout for the both of you.
Hang in there young lady, I know what is like to be married with a foreigner, but you’ll work it out. Bless you both. My best advice is Compromise, and communication. It’s hard for him because he is not use to our culture. Spend sometime together and communicate. No, you don’t need no psychiatrist is a waste of time. Perhaps meditation would help. Best of luck to you both. And God Yahuah bless.
Hiya Nhel, good to see a new video. I love Bailey's hair. I bet Teddy and Bailey both miss their daddy. Oh, look at you both in that picture, so cute. I love it. Great you are rocking the five-thirsty t-shirt. Hopefully, this will stop people from asking you and Kumander Daot so many questions. You are a lovely couple. You must miss him very much. You're a beautiful, strong woman. You are both lucky to have each other. And I wish you both all the best. Have a good day xx
Nice of you coming out your right he's a good person. Hang in there my friend I support you both.
Can’t wait to see you both having little Kumander.💛
Thank you for inspiring me Nhel. I feel what you feel. Its kinda hard to be tough in front of your partner but it needs to. My fiance has a BPD also but he is in DK right now. Its very very hard about his situation. I knew his condition since the beginning of our relationship 2 years ago. I accepted him and love him so much. He is the most kindest human being. But its just really hard in this pandemic time. Also, people in there country they are neglecting him. He always hope and wish he lives here in PH bcos its differrent vibes. He is very simple person. He always watch the vlogs of Kumander Dao. Im thankful to Kumander Daot for giving my partner as inspiration.
Wow Nhel! Good job on your video. Even though going on camera can sometimes feel so intimidating, you are just like a natural. And I admire your courage in sharing a very personal aspect of your life, especially on difficult issues. I just want you to know that there are people all around this world that care and who pray for Kumander, you, and his family. God is gracious and gives His spirit abundantly to those who put their trust and faith in Him. He holds the future and knows every detail. God bless and be glad in the Lord.
Hi! I was able to watch your vlog and I was so impressed with your personality as the wife of Kumander D. You are the right person for him because in tough times you are there to support him not just in good times, that's what God commanded us to do in our vow. Pray and let the Holy Spirit guide you both in your journey as husband and wife. God bless you!🤗🙏
Good evening. I was wondering who Kumander Daot is married to after seeing him in Kulas blogs last week.So now I am your subscriber too and I also subscribe to his channel.Nice to meet you. I wish both of you well.❤️😍👍I love you both.
I loved your video..KD is lucky and BLESSED having you as his wife..JUST KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE WITH GOD AS THE CENTER OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP...TRUST IN HIS MIGHTY POWER TO HEAL KD'S PSYCHOLOGICAL CONDITION..GOD IS OUR HEALER..HE CAN DO THINGS BEYOND MAN'S ABILITY AND CAPACITY..TRUST IN HIS WORDS IN THE BIBLE ..
MEDITATE ON ROMANS 8:28
GOD BLESS YOUR MARRIAGE
Good answer about marriage.....marriages are not perfect. Marriage has its beauty like humans some people looks goods ome looks bad but inthe eyes of God everyone looks the same. God love us all and God has all the plans to us all. You are a nice wife of Kumander. Just put God the center of your marriage you guys will get better and better forever...God bless you both.
Love your husband no matter what? No one is perfect. I'm glad to finally meet kumander daot's wife. I'm happy to know he has a good wife. He is a good person.
Well first of all i want to thank ou for a superb video and for showing the world what a great person you are.My brother-in-law has suffered with it all of his life and i know it's not an easy thing to control you are a very loving and caring person and the commander couldn't have found a better person to share his life with.I have been watching his videos for a while now because have been following becoming filipino for years and through that i seen commander for the first ime and have followed him ever since.I've been trying to get to the philippines since March and i'm hoping to get there by the middle of the year I want to wish you and commander all the best for the future and God bless you and always take care.
Hope things will improved this year on this pandemic as there are so much to see in the Philippines.
GOOD MOVE TO CLEAR THINGS ABOUT KUMANDER D. NICE TO MEET YOU N HOPE TO SEE MORE VIDEOS.
I was surprised he is so young with all accomplishments in his life. Many 23 yr old Filipinos still playing around not serious how to take care of themselves. I salute KD. With that I subscribed to your channel.
You have a beautiful heart Nhel, I deeply admire the respect you have for your husband. You are so very blessed to have found one another. God bless you.
A cure for every man's problem is a loving, caring and responsible pinay👍👍👍😊😊😊. Greetings from Cavite but born in Davao City in March 1970.
im still thinking about the kulas incident, i remember his face watching kulas talking how painful his shoulder was. and i was thinking, maybe it adds up. i mean the losses he suffered in his business ventures and kulas leaving cateel... thanks for this mam... Kumander D fan here. from GenSan.
Kumander Daot have a sense of humor. You have to think to get it. Meeting in the middle is always great. Communicate always. Understand the persons personality. The persons personality is the key in knowing how that person communicate what he feels or what he think. An introvert and Extrovert will express their minds and feelings in different ways. He is a great guy!!!
Nice one! I’ll be your subscriber now and Will be always waiting for your next vlog! ..and may you and kumander Daot lives happily ever and after!
You speak about him with fondness in your voice and mannerism. I discovered KD through being a subscriber of Kulas and now I am a subscriber of KD and I watch all his posts from Wales. He has tremendous knowledge of the history of Wales and he speaks so well. I am sure his return to his homeland is cathartic for him although I am also sure he misses you and the warm Philippine weather. I wish the best for him in his quest to get mental help.
Cheers from Canada.
Good that you say your part.He's a funny man and hopefully he can recover soon.I know here in the UK there's a full support regarding his condition.Fingers crossed 🙏🙏🙏
New subbie here. I followed Kulas way back. Kumander D was in his vlog at one time, he was so funny & down to earth. Found out he has his own channel. I became a subscriber. He’s a lucky fellow , has a supportive wife in you. Just watched his latest vlog. It was so well made. It’s like a series of documentary. Now I found you. Keep it up, thanks for your service, being a frontliners is hard. Stay safe. I’ll be watching your vlog when I can. Thanks.
Hi Nhel! New subscriber from Texas. My wife and I are subscribers for kumander and kulas’s channels. We are pulling for you in your struggles with daots condition and he being away. It’s just temporary and soon he will be back. Keep strong, safe and healthy. Thanks for sharing ups and downs of your feelings.
@@nhelplummer I messaged kumander when he arrived there, too give him encouragement. Things will be fine. We are praying for you guys ❤️👍
Just subscribed from San Diego ,CA. So happy to see that you’re not shy. Was also wondering what you were like when he would talk about you. You seem to have a beautiful soul. Hope to see you on more vlogs together in the future 😊 🙏
So good to chance upon your channel...I'm a fan of Kumander Daot. Hope he's doing well back in U.K. and probably he'll come for a visit. Miss his channel and the joys he brings to his viewers. Take care and looking forward to hearing more about you, KD, and your adorable dogs.
Kumander is very lucky to have you. Keep strong, stay safe be safe.
You are an awesome woman. Daot is lucky he has you. God bless you both.
God bless u Nhel and I applaud u for being supportive, kind loving, patient and understanding .. actually, yan ang need ng ganyang jlase g sakit... it will come and go if triggered by devastation or hard pressures.. but they will conquer it if surrounded by loving families, friends lalo na sayu.. be strong💪 God is with u.
Hello from Virginia, USA! I enjoyed watching this video. Looking forward for more. Maybe one of these days you can also do a livestream, that would be fun. Teddy & Bailey are adorable. You are a beautiful person inside & out. Stay safe especially as a frontliner. Wishing you & Kumander D the very best.
God Bless Mrs D for ur unconditional and honest love to Kummander D . U are a blessing to him. I can tell that Kummander D loved u very much..
I truly understand his condition because I have a special friend who have commander Daot have. Stay strong and be supportive of your kind and loving husband.
You are a real nurse you understand situations like that and you handle it well. God bless and continue to be an instrument of his healing and others too.
Now Mrs kumander d has a face and I just love the way you did the video. And as I have enjoyed watching his videos because of his funny antics, I will surely love to hear some updates about him here. Amping. Daot in cebu is payat. Thin.
Good to see you, good to know that your Kumander Daot wife. I been watching his vid too, also good to see his mum and dad in his vid,
hopefully that he will get better soon. Watching from New Zealand
Maybe he will do a video seeing his wife for the first time since leaving her awhile back?
@Kumander Daot. You rock. You have the best woman. You should be back sooner and of course heal soon. Stay strong both of you 💗💗💗
Im here in youre channel because of Kumander D...Keep on vlogging madam and we will support you.. God Bless
Glad to know the history and also you are opened to his situation.am happy to meet you virtually. I love watching him and Kulas and the boys from Cateel . Keep blogging.
Nhel great video. I hope you have another soon.
I am 61 years old, living in Australia. I watched Kamanda's video explaining why he returned to UK. Well I had tears in my eyes as he explained all the symptoms. Because over my time I have experienced all of them, not at the same time, but at some time. I always said I was just depressed, or feeling down and it will pass, and it usually does. I have been married to a Filipina now for over 20 years, and life has been much better.
But for him to make the video, must have been the hardest thing he has ever done. I could see the stress on his face, and hear the hurt in his voice. I pray he gets the help he needs. Under all these problems he is a very good man. Sometimes life is just not fair.
Nhel, I take my hat off to you. As a front line worker you are there in it all, and this bloody pandemic is not going away just yet. (No holidays to PH for me for some time yet). I saw Doctor on 25 January. He had a student doctor in his office and the talk came to corona. She told us it is exactly 1 year to that day when we first had a recorded case here in Townsville. I didn't think it was that long. Stay safe and always be extra careful. Things will get better. This pandemic has to end.
Are you planning on asking him to bring his whole family to The Philippines
Beautiful wife of Kumander Daot. Wish u join your wonderful husband to support him on his journey and healing.
Your video came up as a suggestion and I wondered if you meant the same person I saw in other videos like from BecomingFilipino. And wow, I finally got to see his wife :)
And what I see is what western man likes so much from Filipina woman's. So I just wanted to leave a comment to you .... to praise your loyalty to him. You show the world what marriage is about in both good and bad times, it is noticed. I' m sure it's not easy for you either. That God may bless your effort to love and support the man you married. Believe me, in many western countries that attitude is not so common. And it gives me hope as well :)
Wow the mystery lady, behind KD. Greetings from Toronto. Been watching KD through Kulas. Lots of good laughs. Great finally to see you as well.
You are a brave wife. You stand by your man through thick and thin. Lucky Kumander Daot. I watch Kumader Daot's vlogs just recently, Wales have plenty of snow during winter.
So that is the reason,thanks foe being open and with youre hinesty,love it.i never knew he is married.up to this day i'm watching all his vlog.so you are a frontliner keep safe so when kumander gets bacj its ginna be okey and happy.keep ut up.
Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts that was very generous of you. Please though in you next blog please change the music up your choice was putting me to sleep it was hard to hear you over the music - just sayin’ thanks again for sharing your personal life...
Congratulations to KD...Mrs. Nhel Plummer is a gem.
Wow! You’re beautiful. Nice to meet you. Yes, I have been supported Kumander Daot from the beginning of his vlog.
Wow! It's good I happened to see this vlog....I really wanted to see kumander's wife and i never thought his wife is a vlogger toò! and pretty as well. Have you met your parents in law in UK? Have u visited them in UK? I am one of your husband's subscriber and now I am your subscriber,too.I want to see you both living together again 'cause you 're married to him.I wish you could come to UK and be together again.
I’m very impressed with your husband’s blogs! His editing and contents are amazing!!! I enjoyed them a lot.
Definitely your husband will be back with a sound mind and body! God is good all the time! He's blessed to have you as his wife and partner in life.. God bless you both😇😍
There are good and competent psychiatrists at MMC, St. Lukes etc...you should have inquired but the peace and assurance of a loving parents back home is the best for KD
Aloha ... absolutely beautiful.. Teddy and Bailey are so cute... my dog is my best friend and companion . Thank you for being a strong supporter for Kumander...I am glad you are vlogging again..Take
care and God Bless...
Thank you for sharing.. New subscriber here. You both are an inspiration for couples. I admire you both being transparent & true.. And in a good way to say upfront on how much you can share.. You both make me feel like we can be friends 😊
Kumander is strong and is getting stronger because if your understanding Nhel.. with the support of your family and friends... and now your subscribers and of course kumander Daot's subscribers!!!
Continue being a sweet wife and be prayerful Nothing is impossible with the Lord
KD was lucky because he had you and you are so very supportive, God bless po
You are natural. Happy to see you blogging again, welcome back.🤗
Happy to see your vlog today , I find you nice & looks pretty lady & decent. I am sure you will continue to l❤️ove & support him to get better. This is Emy fr Florida🙏
Oh you're so amazing Nhel.. Despite of your husband condition still you support and love him.. Have a great day and wishing you and kumander D a beautiful and happy life together
When you talk about him you still have a twinkle in your eyes and a "gigly" smile...in love.😊
Agree!
I love the story ma'am,soon kumander D come back , amping kanunay ma'am.
Hi Nhel nice to meet you and see you. Did not know you had a channel but will subscribe. I can relate to what Kumander is going thru and hope he can get the help he needs. You just have to be strong and support him and let him know how you much you love him that will go a long way. He is a good guy and I am enjoying the vlogs he is doing in Wales. I can tell how much the dogs like him when he was at your house haha. I know he will be back to the Philippines as soon as he can. I think you are good for him and he needs that. Remember it is fivethirsty somewhere haha stay safe
I have a feeling he kinda blame himself with what happened to Kulas . Plus the fishpond missing the targetted harvest. Plus quarantine . Those were too much to handle. But he turned out to be the best documentary RUclipsr !!!!
Growing up in Cagayan de Oro city, Misamis Oriental, "DAOT" means bad, going bad, esp pertaining to food we say "daot na" meaning it's spoiled already.
Hang in there you seem like a very good person and so personable loving patient god bless you both
Very well explained Mrs. Nhel. Kumander sure does have a gem (YOU). You two will be alright together.
Good to know Miss Nhel Plummer Kumander Daots wife
I have same condition as Kumander D. A lot of people judging us negatively most specially there in the PH. They dont know how the mental health eating you inside out untill you'll drown and no other way out but to end your suffering...
I love how you supported your husband and very understanding about it because thats what we badly need.
Your background music is quite loud. It's hard to understand what you're saying...but good job with the vlog. Keep safe!
Hello, I am a fan and subscribe of Kumandor Daot, first time to see his beautiful wife, and also now subscibed to your channel, God bless you, Kumander Daot and your Families, will watch all of your vlogs.
That’s what marriage is all about. I can imagine you as the wife in the Oscar Awardee Best Picture, 2002, A Beautiful Mind. The ending is beautiful. I hope you and KD can watch it together. I salute you Ms Nhel
Just a little more practice taking your video you will be fine. This is my first time to see your video. You and Kumander is perfect couple life has a lot of up and down just learn how to handle it and solve the problem
matagal na po akong subscribrr ni kumander d, pero now ko lang nalaman na kayo po pla ang wife nya,ngsyon nag subscribe nadin po ako.. happy po ako na magkkaroon na kayo ng lil angel..
guapa gyud ang asawa ni kummander daot inside out. I love kummander doat videos and happy to see you here too! God bless.
Both dogs are looking for KD..looks like they missed him a lot...marrying somebody with different culture can be cumbersome, but it takes two to tango...trust is the best weapon and understanding, specially when you live with someone with borderline personality disorder..one in 4 in the family has it without realising it...stay with him and love him more...bless you!