My son did the same thing to me. I haven't seen him close to four years. The way he specks to me, I don't think he's my son. I couldn't be bothered. I'm pray for long life hood health, and strength to enjoy my life. I currently built my retirement home in a country where I know he can not find me. I leave him to God. I leave him ras at the foot of the cross. I wouldn’t let it bother me. Life is not to be bothered. Just live, love and laugh.
Anyone who took care of me from I was a baby that person I consider to be my mother..Some birth mother never know they are going to get old and need help when they were abandoning their children.So we All have to know the full story before we start bash.......
It's written in scripture also 'parents should not provoke their children'. Some children when they grow up in a hostile home environment of maltreatment, don't always be obedient to parents as scripture say..
I don't know what happened between parents and children after parents work hard and toil for their children but I do know of mothers who NEVER care for their children and went away and Never send money to let them further their education or file for their children but when they get sick they want children to come take care of them,what do you say about those kind of mothers?????? Remember ALOT of Jamaican children grow up with grandparents and never even know how their mother look.Im talk from FACTS.......
@Jayy Progress my two cents on this topic I think most people are missing the point that you're trying to make. Most parents are not looking for a hand-out from their children because they do understand that their children have their own lives. However if its even a plate of food or a cup of tea give it freely, check in on your parents and make sure they are alright it doesn't cost a dime to do that. We also have to remember most of these old school parents don't know of love and give affection they themselves never got it from their parents so they can't give that to us if they don't know how to, we have to learn to forgive and move on. My mother had six of us all of us got beating we didn't take it personal. However the day I step foot in America and see how this place run I thanks my mother for the beating lessons, those beating makes me a better woman today I use to think she was too hard on us but now I understand clearly, not saying killing your child or children with lick or burning them is ok that's a big, big no for me. My mother went above and beyond for us so that's something I can never, never forget I would lay down my life for my mother. She never pressure us or ask for nothing but I gave without question, we only have one mother and father when they are gone that's it so love them now while they are here with us ask for forgiveness and move on things happen but we must also heal. Let God be the judge of the situation don't treat them badly because of pass mistakes you would be surprised how God can change people hearts. Keep up the good work Jayy just came across your RUclips channel today glad I did, blessings my brother. 🙏
As a single mother, I managed to raise my child with GOD's guidance. I gave her everything that I didn't get from my parents and now I'm the bad guy. I'm not surprised because the LORD showed me the signs and how human beings will turn and bite the hand that feed them. Remember that what goes around comes around and only put your trust in the Most High GOD our KING.
My oldest sister is saying the same thing. I take care of my mother by myself . My mother is 60, and my sister is 43 and am 37 . It's really sad and it hurts my mum a lot . I told my mother to forget about that daughter of yours cause she is not making any sense .
Jayy, 100% speach my brother. Is just this morning I was having that exact conversation with my 29yo daughter about how dumb and coward some parents are to invest everything In their child/children while making serious sacrifice. The children can help themselves after high school whike parents invest in house n land etc so u can secure a future for yourself and still have something to pass down when u die. I have 2 children and I did my best with them but by time the last one reach 18yo I started focusing on myself n future plans.
As children we come to terms with sayings like, you just like you damn daddy, parents use hurtful words to their children, but as adults we can understand and still honour our parents. You don't have to do everything family wants,choose what you do and ensure you have happy memories
Yes jah jah .."pickiney a nuh pension" an aunt of mine called me here in jamaica about her troubles. She and her under age son were on the verge of eviction and she have hard times due to her ex husband putting her into bankruptcy.. she still had her job but needs to move. Her daughter denied helping her. I called my cousin hrr daughter and asked her whats up. She saying she cant be bothered and dont want to deal with her. I remind her where they all coming from in the ghetto down a maxfield ave and i never ever recall her ever going hungry, not going to school or lacking anything. Her mom was even there for me too and helped her abroad before she went herself. What a damn disgrace. From the horror stories ive heard -foreign is a place wherr families can prosper off eachothers strengths because only two things in this lifetime is certain which is sickness and death. Families dont want to unite but rather war, fight and backstab eachother to be on top and have something over eachother.
@@lucitacox5170 i have an aunt who struggled with her two boys that she had with her husband all by herself. They separated and she couldnt get shit from him abd for years hold up the divorce proceedings. When the boys come of age-especially the youngest he practically cursed and backstabbed his mother just because the man chose to show up when they got to 18 and he no longer responsible. Brcause my mouth set pon spring i started to call thrm out and put them in them place. My brother is the same too. We are same mother different father and his father dont even know how him go to school or nothing..what ever my father provided thats what he got a part of too along with the fact my mom was a nurse. He hated our mom for not having him with a rich man. When dhe passed off it was solely my money from my dad taking care of us and his dad was abset till the day he got into college in the states and graduated. As soin as my brother got his papers he filed for a man who only saw his use to him as an easy way to go abroad but still to this day my brother hate our mother because she couldnt afford us a rich lifestyle.
It’s hard for me to feel sympathy for the mom when I don’t know the full story. Most children don’t wake up one day and start being mean to their mom for no reason, let’s be honest. Also, it is true that children don’t ask to be born and it is a parent’s responsibility to provide for that child and they shouldn’t ask for anything in return. Parents should be responsible and make preparations for old age, so they don’t burden the children who have their own lives to live. This poor Caribbean mentality needs to stop.
I was thinking the same thing. I have to get the whole story. Sadly, just providing for the child's physical needs is not enough. Their CHARACTER needs to be nurtured. So if that child was spoiled, that would explain the selfish behavior and entitlement.
Some children are definitely evil, I have seen with my own eyes of loving and caring single mothers do nothing but the best for their children and the outcome is sad to see…
Karma is real, time will reveal to this child. Her days is not going to be easy for her. 👏The Bible reminds us to honor our parents, so our days may be long.🙏
What u getting all roused up for ? Some of these mothers are wicked I feel for the kids too. You don’t think they not are traumatized too bro. They are.
No one ever heard the girl's side. No one ever asked her what happened after she left her at 16 that she cannot say. " what the girl said, indicate trauma happened to her after left behind at 16. They need counseling. The girl could said something worse.
Who knew 🤷🏾♀️ not everyone was in love with their parents the way I’m in love with mines.. not until social media did I start reading about how people felt about their mom and pop.. I thank god most days for sending me too those two people. I love and miss them EVERYDAY.. Jay Progress … keep up the fantastic works!!! Let’s Go 20K!!! 💪🏾💪🏾
I love my mother just can’t be around my mother for reason a lot daughters go through including myself but we stay silent.Blessings to all with love.🕊️🙏🏻
I don't understand why some mothers expect PAYMENT! Yes there are gr8 parents out there BUT a LOT ABUSE THEIR CHILDREN! THERE ARE 3 SIDES TO EVERY STORY. Yours, mine & the truth. Nevertheless, l believe that generational wickedness will bear fruit! Kids aren't pension pots! They have their lives to live as well. Please don't get upset... until you understand! Childhood abuse expresses itself in mysterious ways. We pray for the hurt child in her... and the Trauma that has manifested. Children aren't BANKS...Let's us CHANGE the narrative. Until you walk in another's shoes, please don't pretend to know how it fits. Much love & peace to All... THE TRUTH! WILL reveal the reason for the behaviour. ❤. God bless you.
JAY PROCESS Many parents go through this kind of behaviour with their own children. This happening all over the world. no matter what you do for them. I cherish my mother until she passes. I always felt that my mother did not like me. but I respected her I love her.
We are living in a different Time Sometimes the children have their own challenges, Maybe we have to think about pooling resources to facilitate our golden years ,
A pension fund if your still working...we do that in the UK resources are there... However it's nice to know you have children to be there when you need help. The woman concerned didn't live that far away from her mum. I think she couldn't careless 🤷🏽♀️
There’s two side of a story you should take care if your parents but a no every parents good….my mother always tell me when me young say me not coming to nothing now things change and of all her children turns out say a me have the highest ceiling she badmind against me but instead of clashing with her i just avoid her only speak to her if me have to
Hi J ,it happened more often than you think and it is so real. My son is living it now with his two daughters that he mother and father then. And as soon as them finished college them dissappear. He recently had heart surgery them never even called to say how you doing. There are some heartless cold children out there.
I can not comment from a one sided story. Two sides is always best. Not every mother had respect for their children and not every son/daughter has respect for their mother/father either. Get both sides of the story and then come back.
Some mothers who abandoned their children are expecting from children they didn't take care off. My mother abandoned her children and now she's looking for help. I help her because God's a forgiving God and forgave me and keep forgiving me of my sins. So, I forgave my mother and help when necessary but my brother and sister want nothing to do with her. I believe in the Bible that says " Honor thy father and mother that thy days be long on the land ." Hopefully, the daughter will have a change of heart and help. Karma is a bitch!! Her children will do the same thing to her.
At the end of the day, that child will get her karma because the Bible talks about honoring your father and mother that your days may be long and that it may go well with you. Things will not go well for her
Once a Jamaican or any other Caribbean person travel to those big countries they adopt the lifestyle. They don't care shit about other family members. People must remember where they came from.
I don’t usually comment on things like this. But since you seem emphatically upset about this situation I think it’s useful to address the bias. You don’t know the nature of their relationship. Common sense tells us that if that mother was a real mother and not just one in title things would be different. Jamaican mothers have a gross sense of entitlement. They don’t invest in their children. They think birthing them and doing their godly duty of providing for them means all is well. From personal experience it is not all well when a mother would subject her child to ALL forms of abuse. There is nothing honourable about that. Stop spreading one-sided nonsense. If that mother was truly there and doing the best that she reasonably could then that daughter would not treat her like that. Love and respect is a two way street. And for those using scripture to protect dishonourable behaviour remember the warning that parents should NOT provoke their children to anger.
My mother in law lives with us, she is a sweet woman and it was my decision for her to stay with us. Jay progress yuh haffi mek the link pan di dawta and hear fi har side a di story because no child will just get up and abandon a parent unless sumn she do to har yuh zimmi. A lot of parents hold it over their children head, that they gave birth to them, and jay is true, no child asked to be born and it is the responsibility as parents to take care of any seed you make. Thats what i tell my wife all the time, that my children didnt ask to come here and it is our responsibility to take care of them give all they are supposed to get and send them off to make their own life. Mi nah hold that over my childs head unless them look amd seh daddy and mommy neva love me and then that is when i will pull up receipts and seh thats not true yuh zimmi. it is not a gift yuh a gi dem to gice birth to them, that gift come from the most high and even though we are told to respect our parents and obey them, parents are also told to treat their children with kindness as well and dont push them to wrath. Any gif yuh gi dem a dem inheritance . Mi tiad a hear parents a seh,a mi gi yuh life, hold it ova dem pickny head and think their children owe them.
Something must have gone Terribly wrong between mother and child over the years. But then , she did agree to bury her mother (thank God for little mercies). Sad indeed
There's always an underlying reason for a child to behave in the way as described, like the daughter did in this story to her mother. There are cruel mothers who maltreat their child/ren, and expect for the child to give support in several ways, when they are no longer a strong able body person. No one knows what goes on behind closed door, of a family home. The act of a good mother played out in front of people, behind close doors another character of a cruel mother either verbally or physically abusive. People only saw the good side, not the bad of how the mother treated and communicated with her child. When the child grows up become independent reaction can be as what was told. Describe as an ungrateful child. A mother's love shown conqueror's everything. All can be done and provided, without motherly love and affection from such can be the result of what described in the story of the daughter to her mother.
In all truth and in fact, your children are not obligated to you, it's their choice to look out for you because they are parents. We need to stop behave like children must carry all their parents burden. I have three sons and we close, but am making sure I cover my own self, because they are not my pension.
Full story needed ! no child is obligated to a parent however it nice to look after parents in old age but mother and father can do some emotional damaging things to kids trust me no kid grow up to talk like that after what seem like a loving relationship
Remember the Bible tells you not to allow your parents to suffer and so no matter what your parents did you should learn to forgive on the other hand some parents can be terrible but they are still your parent.
Regardless of what ever (except any form of sexual abuse) my parents are my parents. Weather or not I feel any great love or lack of I would fulfill my obligations to them. At some point most Jamaican have to forgive their parents for all the beating and the extra strictness our parents carried on with. Most of these parent had no idea how to properly parent mainly cause they weren’t parented either. Because of exposure and acquired knowledge hopefully we have become better parent than they were. All that said children are not investment nor pension schemes, we must actively plan for old age and sickness. Invest in two real estate dwelling properties, last last you live off the rents collected
That is true. My sister took my mom's savings, well over $100,000 and flee to another state. The estate is in the will so the court battle is on. She is a mean, ungrateful woman and I told my sister the same thing. My sister's children are selfish just like her and she has complained about them. I said, I wonder who they took that from. LOL!
Some parents really dont take care of their kids they prefer some more than some but Jayy Progress i am like you where my mother is concern when she was alive.
I take of my mother until she pass...all of us human are imperfect... the bible dont neglect your parents because she is old... 😊one day that child will get old as well
Maybe daughter doesn't realize she will be taking that same road as well , maybe sooner than her mother if she disrespect her parents. Bible says" honor mother and father that your days maybe long thats the only word with a promise attached"
Two sides to every story... some females are breeders not "mothers ". You are not being objective, your commentary is one side and not fair. What the hell do u mean she could have dash r wey???
Some parents always leave themselves last and give the children everything first all the time. These children then become entitled and believe everything is for them and nothing for the parents. And unfortunately, sometimes this is the result.
Jayy Progress the only thing I would advise this mother, Just pray for her that's all not in a bad way cause God doesn't answer bad prayers. Jayy Progress that young lady is running down the hype and the spotlight so she's going to get what every falling people get that run for the flame.
Ungratefulness don’t worry her pay day is coming I’m am a father and my daughter told me worst as a father I know I do my best with the little that god blessed me with like i said her day is coming the Bible don’t lie
Jay progress am going through that situation their father went on farm work 1985 leaving me pregnant the child born 5 days after he left he was in America for 28 years and I struggle with his 4 children and after 28 years in America never send it cent he got deported after 28 years and 2 of his children look after him and don't care if I eat or drink my son now in the States and if I ask him for anything he just humiliate me and if he asked for anything he gets it
Mummy, don't worry, it's sad we all understand, but I can promise you MR CALMER is right around the corner , wait on the Lord, be of good courage Mummy pray 🙏 ❤
Wow, some of these children are heartless towards their parents Wat she is doing to her mom, mek sure she nuh hab none, it's going to back fired on I know of a young woman told her mom the same thing, the only child had
My mother never took care of me and I never live with her. I grew up take care of her until 32 years old. I am in the USA and struggle here until I become a RNurse and from I come here all my mother take me for is a money machine and never call me ask me how I am doing only when she want something. When I send money she don’t even say thank you r hear from her until she need the next . My child in Ja and she and I can’t ask my family how he is doing . So I stop giving like am a Santa Claus. More than one side to a story , some mother worthless.
God, willing she will rise you up, mom, and put daughter little down. Pray 🙏 not sick, but were she understands the 10 commandments Honor your mother and father.
Its good yo hear the daughter side because sometimes these parents dont tell the truth. Somethig must have happened for the daughter to distance herself from her mother and behaviour that eay. Yes we arent obligated to look after our parents but its the humane thing to do. Some parents have a lot to answer in yhe way theu treat their children they cant expect to be treated good when they get older. I know some parents will help you yo go to foreign, once you are there they start to treat you bad. Ive experience that with my aunt after 3 months she out me out, i manage to finished university got a good job and my own house, shhle sold her house in England and went back to Jamaica, a few years ago she got my number and ask me if she could come and stay with me when she come to England, i told her no, after the way she and her children treated me i wouldn't want her over ny threshold. She has 5 kids all born here and none of them talk to her because if her behaviour. Lets wait for the daughter to say her side.
2 Timothy 3:1-3 But know this, that in the last days critical times hard to deal with will be here. …disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal, 3 having no natural affection
Ever monder how these kids were treated?my mother treaded me like HELL when i was younger and now i have no love for her ,and its hard for me to assist her with anything.
My son did the same thing to me. I haven't seen him close to four years. The way he specks to me, I don't think he's my son. I couldn't be bothered. I'm pray for long life hood health, and strength to enjoy my life. I currently built my retirement home in a country where I know he can not find me. I leave him to God. I leave him ras at the foot of the cross. I wouldn’t let it bother me. Life is not to be bothered. Just live, love and laugh.
U JUST GET TO KNOW HIM.
@@KeLap-m3b get to know who?
Sigh, and if anything, see them at the funeral a bawl!
Just do you my dear and help who you can
You can't be bothered with your own son??🤔OK mother of the year🙄😒😒
Anyone who took care of me from I was a baby that person I consider to be my mother..Some birth mother never know they are going to get old and need help when they were abandoning their children.So we All have to know the full story before we start bash.......
Fact
Some of these mothers are liars this sounds good to you it no sound fishy unless this child is just ungrateful differently.
Sad case , jay it would be good to hear the daughter side , something else could be beneath the surface
Honour thy Mother and Father that thy days may be long upon the land.
Honour is different from being abuse and take it ,finish read the verses
It's written in scripture also 'parents should not provoke their children'. Some children when they grow up in a hostile home environment of maltreatment, don't always be obedient to parents as scripture say..
@@VINDICATED806Correctly so....
Even the evil and abusers and deserters
Amen
I don't know what happened between parents and children after parents work hard and toil for their children but I do know of mothers who NEVER care for their children and went away and Never send money to let them further their education or file for their children but when they get sick they want children to come take care of them,what do you say about those kind of mothers?????? Remember ALOT of Jamaican children grow up with grandparents and never even know how their mother look.Im talk from FACTS.......
There are always two sides to a story.
You probably the daughter. Which two sides. This is her mother you talking about here. Two sides my foot.
Very true.
The child's behaviour is judge, without knowing the background history of the parent child relationship.
@Jayy Progress my two cents on this topic I think most people are missing the point that you're trying to make. Most parents are not looking for a hand-out from their children because they do understand that their children have their own lives. However if its even a plate of food or a cup of tea give it freely, check in on your parents and make sure they are alright it doesn't cost a dime to do that. We also have to remember most of these old school parents don't know of love and give affection they themselves never got it from their parents so they can't give that to us if they don't know how to, we have to learn to forgive and move on. My mother had six of us all of us got beating we didn't take it personal. However the day I step foot in America and see how this place run I thanks my mother for the beating lessons, those beating makes me a better woman today I use to think she was too hard on us but now I understand clearly, not saying killing your child or children with lick or burning them is ok that's a big, big no for me. My mother went above and beyond for us so that's something I can never, never forget I would lay down my life for my mother. She never pressure us or ask for nothing but I gave without question, we only have one mother and father when they are gone that's it so love them now while they are here with us ask for forgiveness and move on things happen but we must also heal. Let God be the judge of the situation don't treat them badly because of pass mistakes you would be surprised how God can change people hearts. Keep up the good work Jayy just came across your RUclips channel today glad I did, blessings my brother. 🙏
Honor your mother and father so your days may be long on this earth 🙏
So true that why mi help but still save for myself.
As a single mother, I managed to raise my child with GOD's guidance. I gave her everything that I didn't get from my parents and now I'm the bad guy. I'm not surprised because the LORD showed me the signs and how human beings will turn and bite the hand that feed them. Remember that what goes around comes around and only put your trust in the Most High GOD our KING.
I could say the same about my mother aswell. Who feels it knows it
Thank you !! Some parents are their children's arch enemies. " Who feels it knows it. "
Yes, who feels it, knows it and the traumatic experience of it, can result like what was told in the mother/daughter scenario.
Exactly!!
My oldest sister is saying the same thing. I take care of my mother by myself . My mother is 60, and my sister is 43 and am 37 . It's really sad and it hurts my mum a lot . I told my mother to forget about that daughter of yours cause she is not making any sense .
Jayy, 100% speach my brother. Is just this morning I was having that exact conversation with my 29yo daughter about how dumb and coward some parents are to invest everything In their child/children while making serious sacrifice. The children can help themselves after high school whike parents invest in house n land etc so u can secure a future for yourself and still have something to pass down when u die. I have 2 children and I did my best with them but by time the last one reach 18yo I started focusing on myself n future plans.
I agree with that
As children we come to terms with sayings like, you just like you damn daddy, parents use hurtful words to their children, but as adults we can understand and still honour our parents. You don't have to do everything family wants,choose what you do and ensure you have happy memories
Yes jah jah .."pickiney a nuh pension" an aunt of mine called me here in jamaica about her troubles. She and her under age son were on the verge of eviction and she have hard times due to her ex husband putting her into bankruptcy.. she still had her job but needs to move. Her daughter denied helping her. I called my cousin hrr daughter and asked her whats up. She saying she cant be bothered and dont want to deal with her. I remind her where they all coming from in the ghetto down a maxfield ave and i never ever recall her ever going hungry, not going to school or lacking anything. Her mom was even there for me too and helped her abroad before she went herself. What a damn disgrace. From the horror stories ive heard -foreign is a place wherr families can prosper off eachothers strengths because only two things in this lifetime is certain which is sickness and death. Families dont want to unite but rather war, fight and backstab eachother to be on top and have something over eachother.
You couldn't have said this any better 💯🙏
Sometimes it might be because the father is more favoured than the mother, regardless of how providing the mot😮her duty was done.
@@lucitacox5170 i have an aunt who struggled with her two boys that she had with her husband all by herself. They separated and she couldnt get shit from him abd for years hold up the divorce proceedings. When the boys come of age-especially the youngest he practically cursed and backstabbed his mother just because the man chose to show up when they got to 18 and he no longer responsible. Brcause my mouth set pon spring i started to call thrm out and put them in them place. My brother is the same too. We are same mother different father and his father dont even know how him go to school or nothing..what ever my father provided thats what he got a part of too along with the fact my mom was a nurse. He hated our mom for not having him with a rich man. When dhe passed off it was solely my money from my dad taking care of us and his dad was abset till the day he got into college in the states and graduated. As soin as my brother got his papers he filed for a man who only saw his use to him as an easy way to go abroad but still to this day my brother hate our mother because she couldnt afford us a rich lifestyle.
It’s hard for me to feel sympathy for the mom when I don’t know the full story. Most children don’t wake up one day and start being mean to their mom for no reason, let’s be honest. Also, it is true that children don’t ask to be born and it is a parent’s responsibility to provide for that child and they shouldn’t ask for anything in return. Parents should be responsible and make preparations for old age, so they don’t burden the children who have their own lives to live. This poor Caribbean mentality needs to stop.
I was thinking the same thing. I have to get the whole story. Sadly, just providing for the child's physical needs is not enough. Their CHARACTER needs to be nurtured. So if that child was spoiled, that would explain the selfish behavior and entitlement.
@brittbratt7545 ,Well said.
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Totally agree with your comment.
Yes they do especially when they find a man or woman that put a wedge in it
Some children are definitely evil, I have seen with my own eyes of loving and caring single mothers do nothing but the best for their children and the outcome is sad to see…
Well said Jay 👏 it is so sad 😞 some of these children are cold and heartless 😢
Karma is real, time will reveal to this child. Her days is not going to be easy for her. 👏The Bible reminds us to honor our parents, so our days may be long.🙏
Real talk facts 👍
What u getting all roused up for ? Some of these mothers are wicked I feel for the kids too. You don’t think they not are traumatized too bro. They are.
While your comment is fair, is it reflective of this situation that the vlogger is referring?
@deegee5062👏👏👏👏
You're 💯% right, such was for me traumatically from the experience of a cruel heart mother.
No one ever heard the girl's side. No one ever asked her what happened after she left her at 16 that she cannot say.
" what the girl said, indicate trauma happened to her after left behind at 16. They need counseling. The girl could said something worse.
true business fi real. some mother& fathers are indeed wicked and the way they treat their children often comes back to them same one. xperience.
Who knew 🤷🏾♀️ not everyone was in love with their parents the way I’m in love with mines.. not until social media did I start reading about how people felt about their mom and pop.. I thank god most days for sending me too those two people. I love and miss them EVERYDAY.. Jay Progress … keep up the fantastic works!!! Let’s Go 20K!!! 💪🏾💪🏾
Do you know the mother? You should help her then! Some mothers are no good!
That's true
2 side to a story please to get the daughter side
Exactly! A mother who is a narcissist is a danger to her child. Sometimes you have to go no contact and love them from a distance.
Exactly!!!!!!!!
For all we know the mother could've treated her badly as a child. Maybe the girl suffered not having her mum when the mum decided to go to America.
I love my mother just can’t be around my mother for reason a lot daughters go through including myself but we stay silent.Blessings to all with love.🕊️🙏🏻
I don't understand why some mothers expect PAYMENT! Yes there are gr8 parents out there BUT a LOT ABUSE THEIR CHILDREN! THERE ARE 3 SIDES TO EVERY STORY. Yours, mine & the truth. Nevertheless, l believe that generational wickedness will bear fruit! Kids aren't pension pots! They have their lives to live as well. Please don't get upset... until you understand! Childhood abuse expresses itself in mysterious ways. We pray for the hurt child in her... and the Trauma that has manifested. Children aren't BANKS...Let's us CHANGE the narrative. Until you walk in another's shoes, please don't pretend to know how it fits. Much love & peace to All... THE TRUTH! WILL reveal the reason for the behaviour. ❤. God bless you.
Absolutely splendid indeed!🕊️🙏🏻
JAY PROCESS Many parents go through this kind of behaviour with their own children. This happening all over the world. no matter what you do for them. I cherish my mother until she passes. I always felt that my mother did not like me. but I respected her I love her.
So so true Sir. Thank you for the heads up
My pleasure
Yes because me is mother and father because when I got sick my husband walk out never help me with with the baby and now that baby is 18 year old now
You reap what you sow... She has to remember she will get old herself. God knows her heart...
We are living in a different Time Sometimes the children have their own challenges, Maybe we have to think about pooling resources to facilitate our golden years ,
A pension fund if your still working...we do that in the UK resources are there... However it's nice to know you have children to be there when you need help. The woman concerned didn't live that far away from her mum. I think she couldn't careless 🤷🏽♀️
They say kids are blessing bt some kids are curse
There’s two side of a story you should take care if your parents but a no every parents good….my mother always tell me when me young say me not coming to nothing now things change and of all her children turns out say a me have the highest ceiling she badmind against me but instead of clashing with her i just avoid her only speak to her if me have to
Sounds familiar...
Her day is coming just time
Mine said she never asked to be here and she owes me nothing but everytime she falls she fines me i need strength to let her go or ill.lose my mind
I need a parents abuse system in jamaica
Hi J ,it happened more often than you think and it is so real. My son is living it now with his two daughters that he mother and father then. And as soon as them finished college them dissappear. He recently had heart surgery them never even called to say how you doing. There are some heartless cold children out there.
She better know that she can dead leave mother .No one love like a mother love. No matter what she did to you.
Not all mothers love their children! Remember LOVE does not hurt. Blessings always
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Fact's fact's family, seen it all the time. , But karma is a bitch
I can not comment from a one sided story. Two sides is always best. Not every mother had respect for their children and not every son/daughter has respect for their mother/father either. Get both sides of the story and then come back.
Exactly!
Thank you so much for this topic god answer prayer
Which god. The white one, or the Arab one?
Hi everyone my son tell me the same thing 😭 am sick for 13 years now this morning my son tell me to get up out of the bed and playing like u sick
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So sad but sorry to say some children are like that.
You talk the truth
Mighty Gawd 🙏 What A Bangarang Yees So Very Very True.
Two sides to every story. Would love to hear the daughters side. There are some heartless mothers out there.
So true thank for sharing ❤
You are so welcome
The Bible speak about these children they will be lover of themselves, have a heart of a rock.
Don’t worry mom karma is coming I hope that daughter have a daughter of her own.
Some mothers who abandoned their children are expecting from children they didn't take care off. My mother abandoned her children and now she's looking for help. I help her because God's a forgiving God and forgave me and keep forgiving me of my sins. So, I forgave my mother and help when necessary but my brother and sister want nothing to do with her. I believe in the Bible that says " Honor thy father and mother that thy days be long on the land ." Hopefully, the daughter will have a change of heart and help. Karma is a bitch!! Her children will do the same thing to her.
At the end of the day, that child will get her karma because the Bible talks about honoring your father and mother that your days may be long and that it may go well with you. Things will not go well for her
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Once a Jamaican or any other Caribbean person travel to those big countries they adopt the lifestyle. They don't care shit about other family members. People must remember where they came from.
A mi fi tell you
That’s why it’s been said one child is not enough.
But in some case it’s just that a person is blessed with only one.
I have 3 right here in Jamaica going through the same thing
I don’t usually comment on things like this. But since you seem emphatically upset about this situation I think it’s useful to address the bias. You don’t know the nature of their relationship. Common sense tells us that if that mother was a real mother and not just one in title things would be different. Jamaican mothers have a gross sense of entitlement. They don’t invest in their children. They think birthing them and doing their godly duty of providing for them means all is well. From personal experience it is not all well when a mother would subject her child to ALL forms of abuse. There is nothing honourable about that. Stop spreading one-sided nonsense. If that mother was truly there and doing the best that she reasonably could then that daughter would not treat her like that. Love and respect is a two way street. And for those using scripture to protect dishonourable behaviour remember the warning that parents should NOT provoke their children to anger.
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My mother in law lives with us, she is a sweet woman and it was my decision for her to stay with us. Jay progress yuh haffi mek the link pan di dawta and hear fi har side a di story because no child will just get up and abandon a parent unless sumn she do to har yuh zimmi. A lot of parents hold it over their children head, that they gave birth to them, and jay is true, no child asked to be born and it is the responsibility as parents to take care of any seed you make. Thats what i tell my wife all the time, that my children didnt ask to come here and it is our responsibility to take care of them give all they are supposed to get and send them off to make their own life. Mi nah hold that over my childs head unless them look amd seh daddy and mommy neva love me and then that is when i will pull up receipts and seh thats not true yuh zimmi.
it is not a gift yuh a gi dem to gice birth to them, that gift come from the most high and even though we are told to respect our parents and obey them, parents are also told to treat their children with kindness as well and dont push them to wrath. Any gif yuh gi dem a dem inheritance . Mi tiad a hear parents a seh,a mi gi yuh life, hold it ova dem pickny head and think their children owe them.
Something must have gone Terribly wrong between mother and child over the years. But then , she did agree to bury her mother (thank God for little mercies).
Sad indeed
There's always an underlying reason for a child to behave in the way as described, like the daughter did in this story to her mother. There are cruel mothers who maltreat their child/ren, and expect for the child to give support in several ways, when they are no longer a strong able body person. No one knows what goes on behind closed door, of a family home. The act of a good mother played out in front of people, behind close doors another character of a cruel mother either verbally or physically abusive. People only saw the good side, not the bad of how the mother treated and communicated with her child. When the child grows up become independent reaction can be as what was told. Describe as an ungrateful child. A mother's love shown conqueror's everything. All can be done and provided, without motherly love and affection from such can be the result of what described in the story of the daughter to her mother.
REAL TALK 😢
A SON IN CANADA SAID THIS TO HIS MOTHER IN JA, 'IF ME A YOU MAN'...
In all truth and in fact, your children are not obligated to you, it's their choice to look out for you because they are parents. We need to stop behave like children must carry all their parents burden. I have three sons and we close, but am making sure I cover my own self, because they are not my pension.
Children these days are very ungrateful JP
Full story needed ! no child is obligated to a parent however it nice to look after parents in old age but mother and father can do some emotional damaging things to kids trust me no kid grow up to talk like that after what seem like a loving relationship
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Remember the Bible tells you not to allow your parents to suffer and so no matter what your parents did you should learn to forgive on the other hand some parents can be terrible but they are still your parent.
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Regardless of what ever (except any form of sexual abuse) my parents are my parents. Weather or not I feel any great love or lack of I would fulfill my obligations to them. At some point most Jamaican have to forgive their parents for all the beating and the extra strictness our parents carried on with. Most of these parent had no idea how to properly parent mainly cause they weren’t parented either. Because of exposure and acquired knowledge hopefully we have become better parent than they were. All that said children are not investment nor pension schemes, we must actively plan for old age and sickness.
Invest in two real estate dwelling properties, last last you live off the rents collected
That is true. My sister took my mom's savings, well over $100,000 and flee to another state. The estate is in the will so the court battle is on. She is a mean, ungrateful woman and I told my sister the same thing. My sister's children are selfish just like her and she has complained about them. I said, I wonder who they took that from. LOL!
That's why suicide rate amongst the elderly is increasing
I hope u get better healing fi u mom god will help u 😱
Real talk bro.
jay progress truer words were never spoken
Some parents really dont take care of their kids they prefer some more than some but Jayy Progress i am like you where my mother is concern when she was alive.
I take of my mother until she pass...all of us human are imperfect... the bible dont neglect your parents because she is old... 😊one day that child will get old as well
Unfortunately that’s nothing new…. Especially been in the medical field…
Karma will take care of her.
Maybe daughter doesn't realize she will be taking that same road as well , maybe sooner than her mother if she disrespect her parents. Bible says" honor mother and father that your days maybe long thats the only word with a promise attached"
Two sides to every story... some females are breeders not "mothers ". You are not being objective, your commentary is one side and not fair. What the hell do u mean she could have dash r wey???
Great content. Masa, some these owadays children are very ungrateful. Love you too, son.
Some parents always leave themselves last and give the children everything first all the time. These children then become entitled and believe everything is for them and nothing for the parents. And unfortunately, sometimes this is the result.
These are the last days
Jayy Progress the only thing I would advise this mother, Just pray for her that's all not in a bad way cause God doesn't answer bad prayers. Jayy Progress that young lady is running down the hype and the spotlight so she's going to get what every falling people get that run for the flame.
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Afternoon BEAUTIFUL PEOPLE! That is why wickedness will never be done in this world! 😢😢😢
Ungratefulness don’t worry her pay day is coming I’m am a father and my daughter told me worst as a father I know I do my best with the little that god blessed me with like i said her day is coming the Bible don’t lie
Jay progress am going through that situation their father went on farm work 1985 leaving me pregnant the child born 5 days after he left he was in America for 28 years and I struggle with his 4 children and after 28 years in America never send it cent he got deported after 28 years and 2 of his children look after him and don't care if I eat or drink my son now in the States and if I ask him for anything he just humiliate me and if he asked for anything he gets it
Spirit of separation especially among Family reigns .Ingratitude
Mummy, don't worry, it's sad we all understand, but I can promise you MR CALMER is right around the corner , wait on the Lord, be of good courage Mummy pray 🙏 ❤
They ungrateful like wow pickney wicked on heartless I living my life
Wow, some of these children are heartless towards their parents
Wat she is doing to her mom, mek sure she nuh hab none, it's going to back fired on
I know of a young woman told her mom the same thing, the only child had
That is why you should have more than one child if you can they need competition.
What goes around comes back around.
So sad so true
My mother never took care of me and I never live with her. I grew up take care of her until 32 years old. I am in the USA and struggle here until I become a RNurse and from I come here all my mother take me for is a money machine and never call me ask me how I am doing only when she want something. When I send money she don’t even say thank you r hear from her until she need the next . My child in Ja and she and I can’t ask my family how he is doing . So I stop giving like am a Santa Claus. More than one side to a story , some mother worthless.
Mighty God 😢
God, willing she will rise you up, mom, and put daughter little down. Pray 🙏 not sick, but were she understands the 10 commandments Honor your mother and father.
She is not the only one that get that talk but their day is coming
Don't care what happens listen you didn't born yourself it will come back to haunt her
SAD SAD SITUATION
Something don’t sound right !! 2 side to a story we are only hearing one🤷🏽♀️
Its good yo hear the daughter side because sometimes these parents dont tell the truth. Somethig must have happened for the daughter to distance herself from her mother and behaviour that eay. Yes we arent obligated to look after our parents but its the humane thing to do. Some parents have a lot to answer in yhe way theu treat their children they cant expect to be treated good when they get older. I know some parents will help you yo go to foreign, once you are there they start to treat you bad. Ive experience that with my aunt after 3 months she out me out, i manage to finished university got a good job and my own house, shhle sold her house in England and went back to Jamaica, a few years ago she got my number and ask me if she could come and stay with me when she come to England, i told her no, after the way she and her children treated me i wouldn't want her over ny threshold. She has 5 kids all born here and none of them talk to her because if her behaviour. Lets wait for the daughter to say her side.
What a bad daughter no sahshe soon see her children going to do her the same thing
2 Timothy 3:1-3
But know this, that in the last days critical times hard to deal with will be here. …disobedient to parents, unthankful, disloyal, 3 having no natural affection
Ever monder how these kids were treated?my mother treaded me like HELL when i was younger and now i have no love for her ,and its hard for me to assist her with anything.
Its so sad
Said indeed! 🙏👏
Me a go turn the same thing boss man
Leave her to time 😢😢