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  • @couragetiawon5331
    @couragetiawon5331 8 месяцев назад +260

    First to comment 💃💃
    Edit: Relationships should be defined from the beginning, don't accept Help from People who don't make their intentions clear from the beginning
    God bless the Winlos

    • @angelnkue5710
      @angelnkue5710 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂

    • @chiny315
      @chiny315 8 месяцев назад

      Right 💯 👏 👏

    • @tonyeidatoru611
      @tonyeidatoru611 8 месяцев назад +3

      But the thing is, sometimes the person may not have had the intention of marrying her from the beginning

    • @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191
      @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191 8 месяцев назад +7

      She asked what he wanted, and the guy said NOTHING. She has no fault whatsoever.

    • @marthangafor6414
      @marthangafor6414 8 месяцев назад +3

      Indeed. I think it should even be a written, legally binding agreement.

  • @REETAMSHELIA
    @REETAMSHELIA 8 месяцев назад +238

    The joy I feel when I see a new video from the WINLOSSSS😂
    THANK YOU FAM!

    • @EstherNwaopete
      @EstherNwaopete 8 месяцев назад +4

      My joy is more than yours💃💃💃💃

    • @nancyneksala6571
      @nancyneksala6571 8 месяцев назад +1

      My joy is more than you both😂💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 sometimes when I'm walking I beg for a place and stand to watch the video immediately I get the notification😂😂😂😂
      But I'm a silent viewer though

    • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
      @ikeblessingchidimma4388 8 месяцев назад

      Yoh! Is extreme...😍

    • @priscilladella4767
      @priscilladella4767 8 месяцев назад

      Me too😂

    • @miriammoore4568
      @miriammoore4568 8 месяцев назад

      Same here. If I came on to look for something and I see a new video, that something always has to wait 😅

  • @teeyvlogs
    @teeyvlogs 8 месяцев назад +129

    The Winlos keep getting younger in my eyes..... It pays to serve God and also follow God's purpose for your life.... I appreciate your consistency and it's always a blessing 🙏🏿

  • @olabodemoyinoluwa9163
    @olabodemoyinoluwa9163 8 месяцев назад +170

    Lol... I was expecting the "I picked you up from the gutter" line and I wasn't disappointed😂.

    • @durotemy8410
      @durotemy8410 8 месяцев назад +2

      me too

    • @lornasheila
      @lornasheila 8 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @princessubong8496
      @princessubong8496 8 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @NdutaEstel
      @NdutaEstel 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂 na spoiler you be

    • @omololuagunloye449
      @omololuagunloye449 4 месяца назад +1

      @olabode you don forget say everybody in Nigeria now especially musicians always start from the gutter

  • @akanwuhcarine4602
    @akanwuhcarine4602 8 месяцев назад +33

    This is what brother Matthew was doing to a sister in the choir. Getting gifts and seeing this sister off after each choir rehearsals but he didn't make his intentions known. The day another brother in church proposed to this sister and she accepted his proposal. Brother Matthew passed out😂😂😂and when he became conscious he started running the sister's name left and right😅Brothers please receive sense from this short movie. God bless the Winlos for this masterpiece🙏🇨🇩

    • @PreciousAye
      @PreciousAye 6 месяцев назад

      wow am watching from Congo🇨🇩🇨🇩 too

    • @SharonMakena-fg1dk
      @SharonMakena-fg1dk 2 месяца назад

      Allow me to laugh.
      It also happened to my friend the other day

  • @baronsenkwe4768
    @baronsenkwe4768 8 месяцев назад +11

    Copied: Our giving and help to others should be without expectation or receiving anything in return. Thanks,have learned a lot from this video❤❤

  • @durotemy8410
    @durotemy8410 8 месяцев назад +58

    I was going to get a godly lady a valentine gift and I told her about it, but i thought she was been too serious cos she asked me about the reason why i was going to get her the gift.....but the winlos just taught me that giving of gift should be defined.....oya make i go write 100 paragraph on why i want to get her the gift....Don't ask me if i admire the lady cos i definitely admire her

    • @ehllarpearl
      @ehllarpearl 8 месяцев назад +18

      That’s a good woman😊 any other would just collect and collect

    • @durotemy8410
      @durotemy8410 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@ehllarpearl hmmm thanks ma

    • @mesganar5231
      @mesganar5231 8 месяцев назад

      ​@user-xg5rt6kk4b😂😂😂

  • @godsmasterpeice5508
    @godsmasterpeice5508 8 месяцев назад +51

    This is so true, just because you trained someone doesn't mean you should marry him or her forcefully. Na wah! We see this things happen all the time.

  • @glorytv9292
    @glorytv9292 8 месяцев назад +70

    That you assisted someone should not make you think you are entitled to anything in their lives.
    Nice one 👍👌👏thank you the Winlos

  • @victorojodu446
    @victorojodu446 8 месяцев назад +59

    I love that line..
    "So all my investment are gone"😂😂😂
    Thank you the Winlos❤

  • @chidinmaprecious7475
    @chidinmaprecious7475 8 месяцев назад +28

    It's not by force to pick someone up from the gutter 😮
    God bless you team! ❤

  • @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632
    @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632 8 месяцев назад +18

    Do good without any agenda in mind. Thank you for this Winlos.

    • @Anoah02
      @Anoah02 7 месяцев назад

      That's kinda unpredictable. You might genuinely not expect anything in return at the early stages but as time goes on, you may begin to feel the need to get something out of it. That's where communication comes in. Don't hesitate to make your intention known as soon as you make up your mind about your ROI😅.
      No assumptions, Christian brothers😂

  • @pamdachung8733
    @pamdachung8733 8 месяцев назад +26

    Relationship definition is very important to be neglected.
    What is free-willed should be out of benevolence not with another intention.
    If there is, state and define it.
    Thanks for this message, God bless you

  • @Servant_David_Son
    @Servant_David_Son 8 месяцев назад +5

    This is why it's good to always know why and to be honest from the start. You say it's for nothing, then you are angry.

  • @preciouschizim5985
    @preciouschizim5985 8 месяцев назад +16

    Thank you Winlos, it is very important to define the relationship from the beginning.
    Also, there's a huge difference between showing kindness and investment. If you are investing, that's business (if possible sign agreement)and you are entitled to your Returns but if you are just being kind, do it as into the Lord, the reward usually comes from another source. Let's all Know the difference oh, it's important.
    God bless the Winlos.

  • @paulegharevba2874
    @paulegharevba2874 8 месяцев назад +57

    419K subscribers so far😂,.. heading towards 1M this year.

  • @danielleisblessed
    @danielleisblessed 8 месяцев назад +8

    Only the good salvation is free… folks give with the expectation to receive and it is so sad!!
    My soul is always blessed, more grace to the Winlos family 🙏🏾♥️

    • @a_k3730
      @a_k3730 7 месяцев назад +1

      Salvation is not free. God expects you to serve HIM.

  • @Truths-techlife
    @Truths-techlife 8 месяцев назад +7

    Stop the friendly thing and define your relationship clearly ❤

  • @ahneekasamuel3943
    @ahneekasamuel3943 8 месяцев назад +12

    I love you The Winlos...I have stopped watching other movies since I started watching you guys am really learning alout

    • @lilcourt1844
      @lilcourt1844 8 месяцев назад

      Me too, I love their movies, wish I could watch only their movies and no others.

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy 8 месяцев назад +94

    "Angel" demanding for ROI 😂😂

  • @barbarawilliams527
    @barbarawilliams527 8 месяцев назад +4

    There's no right way to do a wrong thing.. This lady that the man helped in this story knew this and that's why she refused to marry him, She was honest by telling him that he was not the husband God has for her. Good she has the sense to wait on God. She'll be glad she did. Gret video. Thanks for posting it.

  • @Ikhuoria_Favour
    @Ikhuoria_Favour 8 месяцев назад +1

    I just love the Winlos and how they make realistic and relatable videos with high impact.... more grace to the Winlos ❤️❤️

  • @MYFATHEREMMANUEL
    @MYFATHEREMMANUEL 8 месяцев назад +12

    WELL PRESENTED... THIS IS BECOMING TOO COMMON IN OUR SOCIETY. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE IN THIS THOUGH; BE SPECIFIC FROM THE START, GIVE IN TO THE REQUEST OR ANYTHING ELSE? THIS CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS IN REAL SITUATIONS.

  • @emmyblessed
    @emmyblessed 8 месяцев назад +17

    Angel wanting to marry his helper? 😂.... God bless the winlos

  • @promising2660
    @promising2660 8 месяцев назад +17

    I just read a comment. She was not hawking pure water because she had no taste. No condition is permanent and mighty oaks grow from little acorns. Many millionaires and billionaires in the world today starved at one point and some did all kinds of job. She asked him his intentions and he said it’s free. If he had mentioned marriage she would have refused it knowing that the downfall of a man is not the end of his life, the Lord who created her will definitely bring a true destiny helper. She has taste and that’s why she did not take to prostitution or their so called hook up. She has Taste and that is why she was not ashamed to make money the right way no matter how much she makes a day. Anyone who will take advantage of another person because of helping them will receive a curse from Heaven instead of a blessing. I am thinking she will have to locate him in the future when she is financially stable and pay him back his money as a LOAN. She has class and she sure has a taste. She is a lady of substance. Thanks The Winlos for life lessons loaded videos. Love your family 😊❤️

  • @OlatundeO1
    @OlatundeO1 8 месяцев назад +21

    School fees is not bride price.

  • @ucheadjai5557
    @ucheadjai5557 8 месяцев назад +16

    I came early😅😅🎉
    I knew it was going to turn to that😂😂....Just cause you helped someone now means they're entitled to marry and they'll now start saying fear women😂.

  • @PreciousLartey-in8db
    @PreciousLartey-in8db 8 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks!

  • @gigilove63
    @gigilove63 8 месяцев назад +1

    So true! Say what you mean and mean what you say:

  • @margaretkobusinge3148
    @margaretkobusinge3148 4 месяца назад

    I really like watching the videos from these good people of God. They really teach alot

  • @euniceabban8992
    @euniceabban8992 3 месяца назад

    I love these couple and their acting ❤❤❤

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy 8 месяцев назад +11

    We start in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit

  • @Antigen10
    @Antigen10 5 месяцев назад

    This episode is highly illuminating and apt!

  • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
    @ikeblessingchidimma4388 8 месяцев назад +7

    Very educative 💯❤
    Relationship should be defined from the beginning and the benin-ging😅

  • @mishamandudi75
    @mishamandudi75 3 месяца назад

    Mawa!!!
    This should teach us all to communicate effectively. Some people just help because they are good people and have no romantic intentions. Every helper is not our husband or wife. Some are just helpers.
    Also, don't force anyone to marry you just because you helped them. You'll cry because the love won't be real.

  • @marytublu8390
    @marytublu8390 8 месяцев назад

    Their acting is soo on pointy💯💯💯🙌❤ love you guys

  • @idhugweshulamite466
    @idhugweshulamite466 8 месяцев назад +1

    The joy of seeing a new video from the winlos🎉❤God bless you the winlos.

  • @joanaagamah6877
    @joanaagamah6877 8 месяцев назад

    Powerful ❤ more grace mummy and Daddy ❤

  • @yudellezion9615
    @yudellezion9615 8 месяцев назад

    Very nice. Define the relationship from the beginning.

  • @immanueladomgraceson2030
    @immanueladomgraceson2030 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video. It speaks the truth and it did so very well

  • @onyewuchivictoria7178
    @onyewuchivictoria7178 8 месяцев назад

    Really love you guys to the extend I don't miss any video you drop. Thank you for impacting in me

  • @matnat3844
    @matnat3844 8 месяцев назад +22

    In uganda we say ...teli alumilirwa nga talina kigendelerwa

  • @TheH42G
    @TheH42G 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wow 😳 he really should have been honest about how he truly felt!

  • @ayiyowinne4715
    @ayiyowinne4715 8 месяцев назад +1

    Nice lesson, I love your videos

  • @chideraodoh5727
    @chideraodoh5727 8 месяцев назад +1

    Always educative as ever

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 8 месяцев назад +5

    Wow!
    This is for me 100% .
    But I stood my ground, because I know what I want in life.
    Very controlling and arrogant and I hate it,I 100% know what I want in life. And I know God's will for my life.thank you so much.

  • @isashar7949
    @isashar7949 8 месяцев назад

    Lol at the wicked laugh when asked “what do you want from us?”

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 8 месяцев назад +1

    I have even download it so I will stand my ground the more,thank you.....

  • @ChinenyeLovina-k4y
    @ChinenyeLovina-k4y 5 месяцев назад

    Great massage

  • @OmotolaAkingbehin
    @OmotolaAkingbehin 15 дней назад

    Great video

  • @Kylynn420
    @Kylynn420 Месяц назад

    And that’s why my mama always used to say God bless the child that has its own as a single black mother myself I can never get no handout from a man because the minute he switches up he throwing your face or stop doing what he’s been doing for you ladies. This is 2024 gotta be a little bit more wiser and faster than that.

  • @JaneAuma-ph3xo
    @JaneAuma-ph3xo 4 месяца назад

    When the deal is too good think twice
    May God bless you the Winlos movie

  • @prosperityfrancis4807
    @prosperityfrancis4807 8 месяцев назад

    More grace and wisdom

  • @mummytriny5204
    @mummytriny5204 8 месяцев назад +1

    Great lesson thank you The Winlos

  • @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq
    @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq 2 месяца назад

    Wow🙏 great lesson learnt

  • @Haytithoma
    @Haytithoma 4 месяца назад

    I do not know why people make this kind of mistake. There is nothing, absolutly nothing for free.

  • @joymwenya2886
    @joymwenya2886 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love the ministry God has given the winlos ❤️ I love the winlos ❤️😍🥰💋💋😃God richly bless the winlos ❤️

  • @Kingdomites-11
    @Kingdomites-11 8 месяцев назад

    I look forward to your videos like my life depended on them

  • @CathrineMapandiwa
    @CathrineMapandiwa 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you the Winlos

  • @OgbuCharles360
    @OgbuCharles360 8 месяцев назад +1

    Wow!! I love this clip.
    Interestingly, i and a friend had a great time discussing this same matter yesterday.
    More grace to the Winlos

  • @maureenmary_mallya
    @maureenmary_mallya 8 месяцев назад +9

    All his investments have gone like that..😂😂

  • @natayarowe4428
    @natayarowe4428 8 месяцев назад

    Truth!. And I'm learning to denounce arrogance and remind myself of this truth! Kindness without expectations of returns - Help us Jesus

  • @OluwafunmiladeAdedokun
    @OluwafunmiladeAdedokun 7 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the message

  • @patriciapatrick4743
    @patriciapatrick4743 8 месяцев назад

    Defining relationships.,..... learning, thank you so very much

  • @charitynosakhare3813
    @charitynosakhare3813 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing this is awesome message

  • @johndosa6816
    @johndosa6816 8 месяцев назад

    The problem is most people don’t ask.

    • @humblemureithi
      @humblemureithi 8 месяцев назад

      In this video, they were very clear, haven't you seen? They asked clearly what the man wanted from them but the man lied, and if not lying, he changed his mind later. So asking or not asking is not a problem.

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this valuable advice. Your videos are always a blessing. 📌💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💥💥🙏🙏🙌✨️

  • @divineelyon-g3g
    @divineelyon-g3g 5 месяцев назад

    I am a lady. It not only lack of definition of relationship. It's a mostly HOW HE HANDLED THEM. ACTUALLY in reality he has a fair headstart and a better chance as the benefactor if he had handled himself well. Genuine humble kindness goes a long way. After all.....even though not marriage I am sure she and her mum would have thanked him maybe prayer maybe later in life,........you never know

  • @CrittneyCee
    @CrittneyCee 8 месяцев назад

    this happened to me recently in a relationship we still friends but he didn’t state why he wanted to help made it seem like he cared as a friend but wanted a relationship

  • @samsongloria
    @samsongloria 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you Winlos

  • @angelamaramwidze1574
    @angelamaramwidze1574 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks the winlos love your education videos

  • @francisfiamekor-g7f
    @francisfiamekor-g7f 8 месяцев назад

    Relationship should be defined from the beginning 😊

  • @convinemukidanyi864
    @convinemukidanyi864 8 месяцев назад +3

    Relationships should be defined

  • @odongocollinceodhiambo3153
    @odongocollinceodhiambo3153 8 месяцев назад

    Lots of love from Kenya.

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 8 месяцев назад +2

    They asked what they should do to repay you! You conveniently formed🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @epyorulinuswilliam1429
    @epyorulinuswilliam1429 8 месяцев назад

    Very amazing family ❤❤❤

  • @OyehanEsther
    @OyehanEsther 8 месяцев назад

    Wow, defining my relationship 💎

  • @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh
    @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh 8 месяцев назад

    Thank U for teaching us God bless U.

  • @topeoladimeji5288
    @topeoladimeji5288 8 месяцев назад

    The counseller i beautiful
    Message learnt
    God bless the winlows

  • @DivineNkama
    @DivineNkama 8 месяцев назад

    Nice one The Winlos. Keep up the good work.

  • @jonassikaona562
    @jonassikaona562 5 месяцев назад +3

    This is very true. There was a lady I sponsored through secondary school, when I told her that I will be getting married she became mad on and said I waisted her time and she wished I married her.

  • @ProfAbike
    @ProfAbike 5 месяцев назад +1

    You're her sponsor not her intending spouse... My chest! Lol 😂

  • @EketeAnnabel
    @EketeAnnabel 6 месяцев назад

    Yes o u guys nailed it this time thank u my ppl

  • @joeyannsmith5800
    @joeyannsmith5800 8 месяцев назад +3

    ❤❤❤ GOD BLESS YOU BOTH WOW ❤❤❤

  • @spiritualeducationministri1727
    @spiritualeducationministri1727 8 месяцев назад +2

    Even using such help as a condition for a marital relationship from the beginning is wrong.

  • @Preshdee04
    @Preshdee04 8 месяцев назад +1

    Deep message ❤

  • @pastormoyo
    @pastormoyo 8 месяцев назад +4

    Almost did the some thing but I come out in those thoughts when I see that the girl still insist that she feels nothing about love , it hurt me but I had to except & swallow my pride , now we are still friend we are still talking , still helping her family . I learn something as Aman. When we want to help , a lady while we are searching who to marry , we should not mix

  • @getrudekabo7030
    @getrudekabo7030 8 месяцев назад +3

    Very true 🔥 the relationship should be defined

  • @Mastav2377
    @Mastav2377 8 месяцев назад

    Great Message

  • @olusolaemmanuel9753
    @olusolaemmanuel9753 8 месяцев назад

    I am blessed. Thanks winlos🙏

  • @CarolineMose-y3e
    @CarolineMose-y3e 8 месяцев назад

    I love your videos

  • @christybala2448
    @christybala2448 8 месяцев назад

    Great message 👌🏼👍💯✅

  • @mirriamchisala7622
    @mirriamchisala7622 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you the winilos

  • @estherumoh200
    @estherumoh200 8 месяцев назад +1

    And Angel said he didn't want anything in the beginning

  • @Pastoryusufelayo
    @Pastoryusufelayo 8 месяцев назад

    Great idea

  • @tola.a
    @tola.a 8 месяцев назад

    "Towards the university" after seeing her hawking😂😂😂

  • @RhodaĶumi-c5c
    @RhodaĶumi-c5c 8 месяцев назад

    I love 💕💕💕 your videos I have been watching you for years ooo🎉🎉🎉

  • @mfarijikiza8470
    @mfarijikiza8470 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks WINLOS

  • @erenestawanjiru1935
    @erenestawanjiru1935 8 месяцев назад

    Love N Support From Kenya ❤❤

  • @Edmondmiracle-j8c
    @Edmondmiracle-j8c 8 месяцев назад

    'All my investments has gone' off me 😅😅😂😂.