When a relationship is not defined, see what happens.

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  • @REETAMSHELIA
    @REETAMSHELIA 11 месяцев назад +249

    The joy I feel when I see a new video from the WINLOSSSS😂
    THANK YOU FAM!

    • @Teens-Square
      @Teens-Square 11 месяцев назад +4

      My joy is more than yours💃💃💃💃

    • @nancyneksala6571
      @nancyneksala6571 11 месяцев назад +1

      My joy is more than you both😂💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼💃🏼 sometimes when I'm walking I beg for a place and stand to watch the video immediately I get the notification😂😂😂😂
      But I'm a silent viewer though

    • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
      @ikeblessingchidimma4388 11 месяцев назад

      Yoh! Is extreme...😍

    • @priscilladella4767
      @priscilladella4767 11 месяцев назад

      Me too😂

    • @miriammoore4568
      @miriammoore4568 11 месяцев назад

      Same here. If I came on to look for something and I see a new video, that something always has to wait 😅

  • @teeyvlogs
    @teeyvlogs 11 месяцев назад +138

    The Winlos keep getting younger in my eyes..... It pays to serve God and also follow God's purpose for your life.... I appreciate your consistency and it's always a blessing 🙏🏿

  • @baronsenkwe4768
    @baronsenkwe4768 10 месяцев назад +13

    Copied: Our giving and help to others should be without expectation or receiving anything in return. Thanks,have learned a lot from this video❤❤

  • @olabodemoyinoluwa9163
    @olabodemoyinoluwa9163 11 месяцев назад +189

    Lol... I was expecting the "I picked you up from the gutter" line and I wasn't disappointed😂.

    • @durotemy8410
      @durotemy8410 11 месяцев назад +2

      me too

    • @lornasheila
      @lornasheila 11 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @princessubong8496
      @princessubong8496 10 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @NdutaEstel
      @NdutaEstel 8 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂 na spoiler you be

    • @omololuagunloye449
      @omololuagunloye449 7 месяцев назад +1

      @olabode you don forget say everybody in Nigeria now especially musicians always start from the gutter

  • @akanwuhcarine4602
    @akanwuhcarine4602 11 месяцев назад +50

    This is what brother Matthew was doing to a sister in the choir. Getting gifts and seeing this sister off after each choir rehearsals but he didn't make his intentions known. The day another brother in church proposed to this sister and she accepted his proposal. Brother Matthew passed out😂😂😂and when he became conscious he started running the sister's name left and right😅Brothers please receive sense from this short movie. God bless the Winlos for this masterpiece🙏🇨🇩

    • @PreciousAye
      @PreciousAye 9 месяцев назад

      wow am watching from Congo🇨🇩🇨🇩 too

    • @SharonMakena-fg1dk
      @SharonMakena-fg1dk 5 месяцев назад +2

      Allow me to laugh.
      It also happened to my friend the other day

    • @yarabianka8396
      @yarabianka8396 2 месяца назад

      Poor Matthew. God will probably give him a woman beyond his expectations

    • @sofiaalio8466
      @sofiaalio8466 17 дней назад

      This a counsellor cautioned and asked the boundaries to be defined

  • @godsmasterpeice5508
    @godsmasterpeice5508 11 месяцев назад +58

    This is so true, just because you trained someone doesn't mean you should marry him or her forcefully. Na wah! We see this things happen all the time.

  • @durotemy8410
    @durotemy8410 11 месяцев назад +68

    I was going to get a godly lady a valentine gift and I told her about it, but i thought she was been too serious cos she asked me about the reason why i was going to get her the gift.....but the winlos just taught me that giving of gift should be defined.....oya make i go write 100 paragraph on why i want to get her the gift....Don't ask me if i admire the lady cos i definitely admire her

    • @ehllarpearl
      @ehllarpearl 11 месяцев назад +20

      That’s a good woman😊 any other would just collect and collect

    • @durotemy8410
      @durotemy8410 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@ehllarpearl hmmm thanks ma

    • @mesganar5231
      @mesganar5231 11 месяцев назад

      ​@user-xg5rt6kk4b😂😂😂

  • @glorytv9292
    @glorytv9292 11 месяцев назад +73

    That you assisted someone should not make you think you are entitled to anything in their lives.
    Nice one 👍👌👏thank you the Winlos

  • @couragetiawon5331
    @couragetiawon5331 11 месяцев назад +290

    First to comment 💃💃
    Edit: Relationships should be defined from the beginning, don't accept Help from People who don't make their intentions clear from the beginning
    God bless the Winlos

    • @angelnkue5710
      @angelnkue5710 11 месяцев назад +3

      😂

    • @chiny315
      @chiny315 11 месяцев назад +1

      Right 💯 👏 👏

    • @tonyeidatoru611
      @tonyeidatoru611 11 месяцев назад +4

      But the thing is, sometimes the person may not have had the intention of marrying her from the beginning

    • @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191
      @oluwabukolaoluwaseesin191 11 месяцев назад +9

      She asked what he wanted, and the guy said NOTHING. She has no fault whatsoever.

    • @marthangafor6414
      @marthangafor6414 11 месяцев назад +5

      Indeed. I think it should even be a written, legally binding agreement.

  • @victorojodu446
    @victorojodu446 11 месяцев назад +67

    I love that line..
    "So all my investment are gone"😂😂😂
    Thank you the Winlos❤

    • @barrywyze8469
      @barrywyze8469 Месяц назад

      Broooo 😭😂😂 na really investment

  • @chidinmaprecious7475
    @chidinmaprecious7475 11 месяцев назад +28

    It's not by force to pick someone up from the gutter 😮
    God bless you team! ❤

  • @Servant_David_Son
    @Servant_David_Son 11 месяцев назад +7

    This is why it's good to always know why and to be honest from the start. You say it's for nothing, then you are angry.

  • @pamdachung8733
    @pamdachung8733 11 месяцев назад +27

    Relationship definition is very important to be neglected.
    What is free-willed should be out of benevolence not with another intention.
    If there is, state and define it.
    Thanks for this message, God bless you

  • @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632
    @aniefunasopuluchukwu7632 11 месяцев назад +20

    Do good without any agenda in mind. Thank you for this Winlos.

    • @Anoah02
      @Anoah02 10 месяцев назад

      That's kinda unpredictable. You might genuinely not expect anything in return at the early stages but as time goes on, you may begin to feel the need to get something out of it. That's where communication comes in. Don't hesitate to make your intention known as soon as you make up your mind about your ROI😅.
      No assumptions, Christian brothers😂

  • @mishamandudi75
    @mishamandudi75 6 месяцев назад +4

    Mawa!!!
    This should teach us all to communicate effectively. Some people just help because they are good people and have no romantic intentions. Every helper is not our husband or wife. Some are just helpers.
    Also, don't force anyone to marry you just because you helped them. You'll cry because the love won't be real.

  • @preciouschizim5985
    @preciouschizim5985 11 месяцев назад +18

    Thank you Winlos, it is very important to define the relationship from the beginning.
    Also, there's a huge difference between showing kindness and investment. If you are investing, that's business (if possible sign agreement)and you are entitled to your Returns but if you are just being kind, do it as into the Lord, the reward usually comes from another source. Let's all Know the difference oh, it's important.
    God bless the Winlos.

  • @PreciousLartey-in8db
    @PreciousLartey-in8db 11 месяцев назад +7

    Thanks!

  • @danielleisblessed
    @danielleisblessed 11 месяцев назад +8

    Only the good salvation is free… folks give with the expectation to receive and it is so sad!!
    My soul is always blessed, more grace to the Winlos family 🙏🏾♥️

    • @a_k3730
      @a_k3730 10 месяцев назад +1

      Salvation is not free. God expects you to serve HIM.

  • @barbarawilliams527
    @barbarawilliams527 11 месяцев назад +5

    There's no right way to do a wrong thing.. This lady that the man helped in this story knew this and that's why she refused to marry him, She was honest by telling him that he was not the husband God has for her. Good she has the sense to wait on God. She'll be glad she did. Gret video. Thanks for posting it.

  • @Truths-techlife
    @Truths-techlife 11 месяцев назад +8

    Stop the friendly thing and define your relationship clearly ❤

  • @paulegharevba2874
    @paulegharevba2874 11 месяцев назад +59

    419K subscribers so far😂,.. heading towards 1M this year.

  • @OlatundeO1
    @OlatundeO1 11 месяцев назад +33

    School fees is not bride price.

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy 11 месяцев назад +100

    "Angel" demanding for ROI 😂😂

  • @ahneekasamuel3943
    @ahneekasamuel3943 11 месяцев назад +12

    I love you The Winlos...I have stopped watching other movies since I started watching you guys am really learning alout

    • @lilcourt1844
      @lilcourt1844 11 месяцев назад

      Me too, I love their movies, wish I could watch only their movies and no others.

  • @mohotsi
    @mohotsi 2 месяца назад +2

    Girls, be aware: allowing someone to court or help you without genuine interest can be considered false pretenses, potentially leading to legal consequences

  • @Ikhuoria_Favour
    @Ikhuoria_Favour 11 месяцев назад +1

    I just love the Winlos and how they make realistic and relatable videos with high impact.... more grace to the Winlos ❤️❤️

  • @emmyblessed
    @emmyblessed 11 месяцев назад +20

    Angel wanting to marry his helper? 😂.... God bless the winlos

  • @promising2660
    @promising2660 11 месяцев назад +21

    I just read a comment. She was not hawking pure water because she had no taste. No condition is permanent and mighty oaks grow from little acorns. Many millionaires and billionaires in the world today starved at one point and some did all kinds of job. She asked him his intentions and he said it’s free. If he had mentioned marriage she would have refused it knowing that the downfall of a man is not the end of his life, the Lord who created her will definitely bring a true destiny helper. She has taste and that’s why she did not take to prostitution or their so called hook up. She has Taste and that is why she was not ashamed to make money the right way no matter how much she makes a day. Anyone who will take advantage of another person because of helping them will receive a curse from Heaven instead of a blessing. I am thinking she will have to locate him in the future when she is financially stable and pay him back his money as a LOAN. She has class and she sure has a taste. She is a lady of substance. Thanks The Winlos for life lessons loaded videos. Love your family 😊❤️

  • @MYFATHEREMMANUEL
    @MYFATHEREMMANUEL 11 месяцев назад +11

    WELL PRESENTED... THIS IS BECOMING TOO COMMON IN OUR SOCIETY. WHERE DO WE DRAW THE LINE IN THIS THOUGH; BE SPECIFIC FROM THE START, GIVE IN TO THE REQUEST OR ANYTHING ELSE? THIS CAN BE VERY DANGEROUS IN REAL SITUATIONS.

  • @matnat3844
    @matnat3844 11 месяцев назад +22

    In uganda we say ...teli alumilirwa nga talina kigendelerwa

  • @ucheadjai5557
    @ucheadjai5557 11 месяцев назад +16

    I came early😅😅🎉
    I knew it was going to turn to that😂😂....Just cause you helped someone now means they're entitled to marry and they'll now start saying fear women😂.

  • @kokohkesiena4403
    @kokohkesiena4403 11 дней назад

    Thank you ❤
    Relationships should be defined

  • @margaretkobusinge3148
    @margaretkobusinge3148 7 месяцев назад

    I really like watching the videos from these good people of God. They really teach alot

  • @debbytemmyy
    @debbytemmyy 11 месяцев назад +12

    We start in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit

  • @ikeblessingchidimma4388
    @ikeblessingchidimma4388 11 месяцев назад +7

    Very educative 💯❤
    Relationship should be defined from the beginning and the benin-ging😅

  • @natayarowe4428
    @natayarowe4428 11 месяцев назад

    Truth!. And I'm learning to denounce arrogance and remind myself of this truth! Kindness without expectations of returns - Help us Jesus

  • @joanaagamah6877
    @joanaagamah6877 10 месяцев назад

    Powerful ❤ more grace mummy and Daddy ❤

  • @idhugweshulamite466
    @idhugweshulamite466 11 месяцев назад +1

    The joy of seeing a new video from the winlos🎉❤God bless you the winlos.

  • @OgbuCharles360
    @OgbuCharles360 11 месяцев назад +1

    Wow!! I love this clip.
    Interestingly, i and a friend had a great time discussing this same matter yesterday.
    More grace to the Winlos

  • @gigilove63
    @gigilove63 11 месяцев назад +1

    So true! Say what you mean and mean what you say:

  • @yudellezion9615
    @yudellezion9615 11 месяцев назад

    Very nice. Define the relationship from the beginning.

  • @marytublu8390
    @marytublu8390 11 месяцев назад

    Their acting is soo on pointy💯💯💯🙌❤ love you guys

  • @Haytithoma
    @Haytithoma 7 месяцев назад

    I do not know why people make this kind of mistake. There is nothing, absolutly nothing for free.

  • @onyewuchivictoria7178
    @onyewuchivictoria7178 11 месяцев назад

    Really love you guys to the extend I don't miss any video you drop. Thank you for impacting in me

  • @Antigen10
    @Antigen10 8 месяцев назад

    This episode is highly illuminating and apt!

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 11 месяцев назад +5

    Wow!
    This is for me 100% .
    But I stood my ground, because I know what I want in life.
    Very controlling and arrogant and I hate it,I 100% know what I want in life. And I know God's will for my life.thank you so much.

  • @joymwenya2886
    @joymwenya2886 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love the ministry God has given the winlos ❤️ I love the winlos ❤️😍🥰💋💋😃God richly bless the winlos ❤️

  • @Kylynn420
    @Kylynn420 4 месяца назад

    And that’s why my mama always used to say God bless the child that has its own as a single black mother myself I can never get no handout from a man because the minute he switches up he throwing your face or stop doing what he’s been doing for you ladies. This is 2024 gotta be a little bit more wiser and faster than that.

  • @maureenmary_mallya
    @maureenmary_mallya 11 месяцев назад +9

    All his investments have gone like that..😂😂

  • @chimarth4
    @chimarth4 11 месяцев назад +1

    Always educative as ever

  • @ayiyowinne4715
    @ayiyowinne4715 11 месяцев назад +1

    Nice lesson, I love your videos

  • @immanueladomgraceson2030
    @immanueladomgraceson2030 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love this video. It speaks the truth and it did so very well

  • @TheH42G
    @TheH42G 11 месяцев назад +2

    Wow 😳 he really should have been honest about how he truly felt!

  • @euniceabban8992
    @euniceabban8992 6 месяцев назад

    I love these couple and their acting ❤❤❤

  • @patriciapatrick4743
    @patriciapatrick4743 11 месяцев назад

    Defining relationships.,..... learning, thank you so very much

  • @prosperityfrancis4807
    @prosperityfrancis4807 11 месяцев назад

    More grace and wisdom

  • @JaneAuma-ph3xo
    @JaneAuma-ph3xo 7 месяцев назад

    When the deal is too good think twice
    May God bless you the Winlos movie

  • @ProfAbike
    @ProfAbike 8 месяцев назад +2

    You're her sponsor not her intending spouse... My chest! Lol 😂

  • @isashar7949
    @isashar7949 11 месяцев назад

    Lol at the wicked laugh when asked “what do you want from us?”

  • @topeoladimeji5288
    @topeoladimeji5288 11 месяцев назад

    The counseller i beautiful
    Message learnt
    God bless the winlows

  • @moyosorejumoke1406
    @moyosorejumoke1406 11 дней назад

    Thank You for this winlos❤

  • @divineelyon-g3g
    @divineelyon-g3g 8 месяцев назад

    I am a lady. It not only lack of definition of relationship. It's a mostly HOW HE HANDLED THEM. ACTUALLY in reality he has a fair headstart and a better chance as the benefactor if he had handled himself well. Genuine humble kindness goes a long way. After all.....even though not marriage I am sure she and her mum would have thanked him maybe prayer maybe later in life,........you never know

  • @mummytriny5204
    @mummytriny5204 11 месяцев назад +1

    Great lesson thank you The Winlos

  • @charitynosakhare3813
    @charitynosakhare3813 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing this is awesome message

  • @tola.a
    @tola.a 11 месяцев назад +1

    "Towards the university" after seeing her hawking😂😂😂

  • @rosemaryifeyinwa7017
    @rosemaryifeyinwa7017 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you for this valuable advice. Your videos are always a blessing. 📌💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💥💥🙏🙏🙌✨️

  • @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq
    @MiriamNantomah-iv8dq 5 месяцев назад

    Wow🙏 great lesson learnt

  • @francisfiamekor-g7f
    @francisfiamekor-g7f 11 месяцев назад

    Relationship should be defined from the beginning 😊

  • @ChinenyeLovina-k4y
    @ChinenyeLovina-k4y 8 месяцев назад

    Great massage

  • @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh
    @RiamatuKamara-yu9vh 11 месяцев назад +1

    I have even download it so I will stand my ground the more,thank you.....

  • @convinemukidanyi864
    @convinemukidanyi864 11 месяцев назад +4

    Relationships should be defined

  • @DivineNkama
    @DivineNkama 11 месяцев назад

    Nice one The Winlos. Keep up the good work.

  • @CrittneyCee
    @CrittneyCee 11 месяцев назад

    this happened to me recently in a relationship we still friends but he didn’t state why he wanted to help made it seem like he cared as a friend but wanted a relationship

  • @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh
    @faisalsimbwa-bo3oh 11 месяцев назад

    Thank U for teaching us God bless U.

  • @angelamaramwidze1574
    @angelamaramwidze1574 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks the winlos love your education videos

  • @johndosa6816
    @johndosa6816 11 месяцев назад

    The problem is most people don’t ask.

    • @humblemureithi
      @humblemureithi 11 месяцев назад

      In this video, they were very clear, haven't you seen? They asked clearly what the man wanted from them but the man lied, and if not lying, he changed his mind later. So asking or not asking is not a problem.

  • @OmotolaAkingbehin
    @OmotolaAkingbehin 3 месяца назад

    Great video

  • @odongocollinceodhiambo3153
    @odongocollinceodhiambo3153 11 месяцев назад

    Lots of love from Kenya.

  • @salomeraymond
    @salomeraymond 11 месяцев назад

    Na why I no dey collect any type of gift from anybody, lol layee

  • @OyehanEsther
    @OyehanEsther 11 месяцев назад

    Wow, defining my relationship 💎

  • @OluwafunmiladeAdedokun
    @OluwafunmiladeAdedokun 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks for the message

  • @pastormoyo
    @pastormoyo 11 месяцев назад +4

    Almost did the some thing but I come out in those thoughts when I see that the girl still insist that she feels nothing about love , it hurt me but I had to except & swallow my pride , now we are still friend we are still talking , still helping her family . I learn something as Aman. When we want to help , a lady while we are searching who to marry , we should not mix

  • @spiritualeducationministri1727
    @spiritualeducationministri1727 11 месяцев назад +2

    Even using such help as a condition for a marital relationship from the beginning is wrong.

  • @Kingdomites-11
    @Kingdomites-11 11 месяцев назад

    I look forward to your videos like my life depended on them

  • @Edmondmiracle-j8c
    @Edmondmiracle-j8c 11 месяцев назад

    'All my investments has gone' off me 😅😅😂😂.

  • @afuadankwaahowusu699
    @afuadankwaahowusu699 11 месяцев назад +2

    They asked what they should do to repay you! You conveniently formed🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @jonassikaona562
    @jonassikaona562 8 месяцев назад +3

    This is very true. There was a lady I sponsored through secondary school, when I told her that I will be getting married she became mad on and said I waisted her time and she wished I married her.

  • @samueldavid9487
    @samueldavid9487 11 месяцев назад

    I just remembered oga pastor, sir pastor...😅 If you know you know
    🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️

  • @CathrineMapandiwa
    @CathrineMapandiwa 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you the Winlos

  • @olusolaemmanuel9753
    @olusolaemmanuel9753 11 месяцев назад

    I am blessed. Thanks winlos🙏

  • @epyorulinuswilliam1429
    @epyorulinuswilliam1429 11 месяцев назад

    Very amazing family ❤❤❤

  • @estherumoh200
    @estherumoh200 11 месяцев назад +1

    And Angel said he didn't want anything in the beginning

  • @Mastav2377
    @Mastav2377 11 месяцев назад

    Great Message

  • @christybala2448
    @christybala2448 11 месяцев назад

    Great message 👌🏼👍💯✅

  • @samsongloria
    @samsongloria 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you Winlos

  • @yesbossgfx9566
    @yesbossgfx9566 6 месяцев назад

    😂😂omo make person just jam me like, come tell me sey Eh go see me thru life not school o, lifeeee😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DeborahAkinlamilo
    @DeborahAkinlamilo 10 месяцев назад +1

    The adversary is a personal and powerful adversary, S@tan the devi!. He is anointed and ready to devour the empty souls. Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devi! Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual w!ckedness in high places. Therefore, stand fast and be strong in the Lord.

  • @erenestawanjiru1935
    @erenestawanjiru1935 11 месяцев назад

    Love N Support From Kenya ❤❤

  • @EketeAnnabel
    @EketeAnnabel 9 месяцев назад

    Yes o u guys nailed it this time thank u my ppl

  • @arigyenancy-pr7hx
    @arigyenancy-pr7hx 8 месяцев назад +4

    Tuition is not Bride price,its not love.

    • @testimonynews
      @testimonynews 5 месяцев назад

      Tell them oo
      This is not funny at all