MUST-SEE FOR EVERY MAN: Vikas Divyakirti Discusses A Hard Reality

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  • Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
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  • @vibhavsingh8874
    @vibhavsingh8874 Год назад +594

    "Beta hi gujare toh accha hai, Maa na gujare toh hi accha hai." @9:50
    RESPECT!

    • @opman4140
      @opman4140 Год назад +12

      Baat bohut sahi kaha heh vikas sir ne

    • @infinity9559
      @infinity9559 Год назад +4

    • @90skalaunda
      @90skalaunda 10 месяцев назад +11

      I guess you should elaborate this a little as Vikas sir said ki Maa ki nazro ke saamne uska beta na guzre balki bete ki nazro ke aage Maa guzre of course ek achchi lambi, khushi wali aur healthy life jee kar.

    • @SS-bx7kz
      @SS-bx7kz 7 месяцев назад +5

      Kaun ho tum kaha se aye....aise nahi kaha hai....ulta kaha hai.....maa ke samne beta na Jaye to accha ....🙏aise

    • @KingMakers333
      @KingMakers333 4 месяца назад +2

      Bhai tu exactly opposite keh Raha hai sir ne Jo kaha uske.

  • @swetatrivedi848
    @swetatrivedi848 Год назад +116

    I cried as a mom and sister and a wife for men I have in life. Thanks.😢

  • @tdbarke
    @tdbarke Год назад +1436

    What a flawless explanation of such a complex psychological behaviour , that’s why Vikas Sir is special!

    • @akashcrazyboy
      @akashcrazyboy Год назад +7

      It's flawed at multiple level

    • @ArunKumar-bv5jv
      @ArunKumar-bv5jv Год назад +2

      ​@@akashcrazyboybhai explain karoge

    • @tdbarke
      @tdbarke Год назад +6

      @@akashcrazyboy we are living in a absolute flawed world brother 😁

    • @bringingouttruth2824
      @bringingouttruth2824 Год назад

      ​@@akashcrazyboy Exactly bro, Suppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :-
      1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻??
      OR ;
      2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ??
      I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆
      P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.

    • @sumitddddd5439
      @sumitddddd5439 Год назад

      the whole world is being run by men across globe....and look up to his anti Man stand !

  • @rohanrao3203
    @rohanrao3203 9 месяцев назад +72

    Seriously man,
    The way he is explaining such a big thing with huge maturity which won't hurt anyone's emotions in simple manner and with huge practicality and perspective is really great

    • @gauravshinde3312
      @gauravshinde3312 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, I could understand each and every line he said. It made me cry. ❤

  • @krishnaupadhyay6725
    @krishnaupadhyay6725 Год назад +136

    He expressed the reality so simply.... Vikas Sir is our practical hero

  • @shoaibmohammed4114
    @shoaibmohammed4114 11 месяцев назад +63

    I wish I had a teacher in school like Mr.Vikas Divyakeerti

    • @kapilyadav80
      @kapilyadav80 9 месяцев назад

      they are present there you just litsen to them with patients

  • @PRASHANTKUMAR-ic5bz
    @PRASHANTKUMAR-ic5bz Год назад +396

    In today's world never ever get emotional in front of everyone... people will use this against you! Don't trust anyone! Never cry Never ever ! This is Kalyug..🙏🏻

  • @meraj268
    @meraj268 Год назад +58

    मैंने अपनी जिंदगी में कोई ऐसा टीचर नहीं देखा जो इतनी सहजता से इतनी गहराई से इतने सटीक एग्जांपल के साथ अपनी बात को इतनी सहजता के साथ रख पाए और साथ में ज्ञान का असीम सागर

  • @renesingh1219
    @renesingh1219 Год назад +119

    For a change I taught my son to cry out his stress, sadness, anxiety...even happiness.
    He is 25yrs n practice this crying healing n move on I life.
    Males have full rite to cry as human beings. ❤

    • @Pantheon-nu5kl
      @Pantheon-nu5kl Год назад +11

      U were not suppose to do that.
      U broke a fundamental law of nature.

    • @renesingh1219
      @renesingh1219 Год назад +8

      @@Pantheon-nu5kl lol sorry

    • @bloodeagle2445
      @bloodeagle2445 Год назад +6

      ​@@Pantheon-nu5klwhat the law of nature ,

    • @randomshots6206
      @randomshots6206 Год назад +5

      ​@@Pantheon-nu5klwhat law?

    • @SAMcastrr
      @SAMcastrr Год назад

      ​@@randomshots6206relax man, he's just ranting about societal norms

  • @Sweet_Sneha_592
    @Sweet_Sneha_592 2 месяца назад +2

    This video is the complete package of boys emotional condition.... everybody should see this video atleast one time to understand their conditions

  • @randomthoughts7838
    @randomthoughts7838 Год назад +29

    Bond among brothers are harder than 💎, they will never leave how bad the situation gets

  • @rohandavidnoronha
    @rohandavidnoronha Год назад +60

    I went through same when I lost my mom. I thought I am a guy who won't be that affected on my mom's death. But first two days I blanked out. And it's very difficult to fit in this world again. This reaction of mine suprised me alot

    • @NA-vt6mz
      @NA-vt6mz Год назад +4

      Get married or have a woman life partner

    • @Drtu576
      @Drtu576 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@@NA-vt6mz😑🙄

  • @PriyankoMahanta
    @PriyankoMahanta 11 месяцев назад +23

    The way he explains things is too good. Just love it.

  • @craftlovers2624
    @craftlovers2624 Год назад +169

    Crying is NOT a weakness. Cry as much as you have to. Don't be afraid or ashamed to let your tears flow. Crying is a natural part of life. Cry makes you feel better.

    • @ariseupp8620
      @ariseupp8620 Год назад +8

      Crying is weakness only if are not harmed physically.

    • @melodytunes2204
      @melodytunes2204 Год назад +12

      Cry, but not in public

    • @ANIK-qk9mz
      @ANIK-qk9mz Год назад +6

      Crying is weakness for men

    • @akshatsharma6507
      @akshatsharma6507 Год назад +12

      U cry in front of ur girl and she will leave u. Never show ur weakness in front of ur girl

    • @VaibhavMishra13
      @VaibhavMishra13 Год назад +5

      Crying is weekness. Shivaji maharanapratp never cry because they're have mental power

  • @GulshanKumar-zf7bj
    @GulshanKumar-zf7bj Год назад +104

    During school time, one of my friends committed suicide, and the rest of us decided to participate in his last rituals. We were filled with sorrow, and one of our friends began recording his cremation video. Suddenly, he stopped recording, and we asked him what happened. He replied, "What if he turned into an evil spirit, and like in the movie '13B,' his way of communicating with me is through this smartphone video?" Surprisingly, we found ourselves laughing at the cremation. The truth is that no matter the circumstances outside, we cannot hold onto sorrowful vibes for long.

  • @ashutoshgupta5124
    @ashutoshgupta5124 Год назад +65

    Im crying rn , this man actually expressed everything which is needed , I hope my was like him or atleast my mother

  • @anushkaaaaa05
    @anushkaaaaa05 Год назад +225

    Vikas Divyakirti sir is not just a Guru to his students but for a lot of us and we’re just so glad to have him!!✨

    • @MANJEETKUMAR-ms5kb
      @MANJEETKUMAR-ms5kb Год назад +2

      Yes

    • @sumitmanhas2151
      @sumitmanhas2151 Год назад +4

      What has he done. He is a businessman playing with the emotion of youth and earning crores of money.

    • @abhishekrawat4630
      @abhishekrawat4630 Год назад +2

      ​@@sumitmanhas2151gadhe ho tm...tmhre pass sochne samjhne ki shakti nhi hai kya...tmne kya kiya society ke liye ya tmhre pitaji ne kya kiya

    • @anilpaudelsiddhi
      @anilpaudelsiddhi Год назад +2

      ​@@sumitmanhas2151 does not matter what he is doing as long as he is adding meaning to millions of life.

    • @sumitmanhas2151
      @sumitmanhas2151 Год назад

      @@abhishekrawat4630 kuch nhi Kiya but tere jase chutiyon ko kya Diya divyakirtu ne bas bhashan suno fees do aur nhi hua to ghar betho. Hahahha sale adhi janta ko to loot liya h in logo ne

  • @ekaurkahani8258
    @ekaurkahani8258 Год назад +27

    he is one of the wise men we have in india

  • @gamingtemple5731
    @gamingtemple5731 Год назад +73

    Never cry infront of others. Your emotions will be used against you

    • @rajdeepdutt625
      @rajdeepdutt625 Год назад +13

      Exactly. If you wanna cry, cry somewhere nobody's watching you and make sure your emotions don't leak in front of others.
      Being vulnerable in front of others is one of the biggest risks you can take. Becoz you never know when you're vulnerabilities will be used against you.
      Be mentally strong, and reserved. Don't be emotionally distant, but at the same time don't be emotionally vulnerable.

    • @rishabhvishwakarma5956
      @rishabhvishwakarma5956 Год назад +7

      Cry in front of God 👍

    • @lucasanderson9213
      @lucasanderson9213 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@rishabhvishwakarma5956 oh!!!!!! respect bro .....

    • @hiteshsaini1406
      @hiteshsaini1406 10 месяцев назад

      @@rajdeepdutt625 absolutely true

    • @nohandleforme511
      @nohandleforme511 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@rajdeepdutt625thank God women dont have such problem. Women can cry

  • @rajshakya8434
    @rajshakya8434 Год назад +391

    Ese hi situation ke liye is duniya main dost naam ka praadin hai sir

    • @tanishsaini4878
      @tanishsaini4878 Год назад +35

      parr bhai har kisi ke paas nahi hote hain

    • @Processing_
      @Processing_ Год назад +5

      Har kuchh share nahi ho sakta, yahan sirf apki baat nahi ho Rahi hai aur sabka situation aapke jaisa nahi hota

    • @sankalpshrivastava1103
      @sankalpshrivastava1103 Год назад +16

      Sachchi dosti aaj kal ki duniya me bachi hi nahi , sare swarth ke sambandh hain

    • @Bhuvneshvar3
      @Bhuvneshvar3 Год назад

      Yes bro❤

    • @kalashpathak563
      @kalashpathak563 Год назад

      Dost hote hai

  • @Shomnath_Das
    @Shomnath_Das Год назад +31

    Dr. Vikas Divyakriti Sir is really such a respectable personality 😊😊❤❤

  • @vinitvsankhe
    @vinitvsankhe 10 месяцев назад +7

    I only started crying when I was clinically depressed. Being Angry or Cynical was causing a lot of stress in my relationship within family, parents, wife, kids. It wasn't healthy, it wasn't getting any better. The outcome of anger or spite would make you feel awful about yourself. Guilt creeps in and fuels the depression even more.
    Only after therapy, I diverted that expression into crying, I felt so much better.
    Crying is a miracle treatment. Men should try it.

  • @devanshishsakpal2764
    @devanshishsakpal2764 11 месяцев назад +29

    This is the Greatest video not only about the motivation but also to every Students and Working men in their life to understand everyone's situation.

  • @souvikroyece5103
    @souvikroyece5103 Год назад +33

    Vikash sir is legend❤

  • @sitansusekharpanda3431
    @sitansusekharpanda3431 Год назад +31

    Same here. My father also taught me not to cry. Crying is normal. If u r upset or angry, plz cry. Be a human 1st. Emotionally n physically.

  • @hindibookshala3292
    @hindibookshala3292 Год назад +14

    भारत के सर्वश्रेष्ठ विद्वान शिक्षक हैं, सर जी आपको प्रणाम

  • @deepanshiyadav2249
    @deepanshiyadav2249 Год назад +3

    विकास सर ने पुरुषो को लेकर, उनकी भावनाओं को लेकर जो कुछ भी बाते बताई है ये सब मेरे साथ भी होता है... हम रो नही पाते हैं अपनी भावनाएं किसी से भी जाहिर नही कर पाते हैं दुःख में या फिर गंभीर परिस्थितियों मे हमे हंसी आ जाती है... समझ ही नही आता कि क्या करे क्या कहे😊

  • @nehalpradhan2229
    @nehalpradhan2229 Год назад +21

    I am probably alive because I cried a lot in past years alone. Learning about myself and my emotions and being able to handle them and actually take control of it. Rather than pushing and running away from it in the name of being strong, but in reality, you are not even facing it.
    It helped me to have empathy for myself, which led me to love myself even more, which automatically makes me stronger and keeps you away from a lot of negativity.
    Now, since couple of months I am a lot less stressed, less mental breakdowns.

    • @aksworldinfo
      @aksworldinfo Год назад +3

      you are a girl, you have time to cry. We, the men don't have time to shed tears.

    • @nehalpradhan2229
      @nehalpradhan2229 Год назад

      @@aksworldinfo lives have been lost because of people like you, people and families have suffered including myself. i am a man and the best thing i have done is knowing my emotions and controlling them and not choose the same destructive path. It has also made me stronger so that i can confront people like you, in reality it's sad that it has to be that way which i don't want to but it is a cruel world and people like you don't care. I'll be crying while i fuck you up, and even after you're dead if it goes that way. There is no other way for people like you.

  • @savitasingh-un8dp
    @savitasingh-un8dp Год назад +289

    Thanks for bringing such a learned person to your show. He is an inspiration to millions and influencing lives of millions of students.

  • @Jinu_Nasty
    @Jinu_Nasty 11 месяцев назад +15

    Please Please Please More Videos with Vikas Divyakirti Sir..❤❤❤love the way he explains ..and his angle of looking at situations

  • @savychristopher9603
    @savychristopher9603 Год назад +33

    I don't know why but this totally felt completely true for me even when I'm a girl. Maybe because I'm the eldest and was always treated as a boy.

    • @swatipriya562
      @swatipriya562 11 месяцев назад +1

      I don't know about your house but even being a girl after growing little bit we siblings sleep together ; and mother don't have a lot of talk with daughters as well

  • @KaonMaster
    @KaonMaster 11 месяцев назад +21

    This topic is very much important mostly for young men. The way society expects so much from men yet don’t even care about us. I think men should focus on themselves rather than society. 😢

  • @abhijeetsawant567
    @abhijeetsawant567 11 месяцев назад +8

    Sometimes when u become emotional at home and feel for ur family and tears roll out still the word comes ki ye dekho emotional ho gaya ladkiyon jaisa when this is the condition at home then we only find our friends to share our feelings😢

  • @koteshyabhairab9775
    @koteshyabhairab9775 4 месяца назад +1

    when men cry they don't drop tears they drop sweat💪💪

    • @thelonewolf_2.0
      @thelonewolf_2.0 4 месяца назад +2

      Aur yahan bhi bakchodi rona normalize karne ki baat chal raha aur thu beere gym ka

  • @yogeshwaritanwaryt4732
    @yogeshwaritanwaryt4732 Год назад +97

    Being a female...and not connected to the family emotionally 😔......here's the way of sukoon which is having lot of money, a big house cars and all....and as I have a male partner who is emotionally connected with his loving family....May he have a small house with peace and love in that house with his family❤.........it's just not a male unexpressive ness.....but also female sometimes 🙂

  • @poojamitra3990
    @poojamitra3990 6 месяцев назад +2

    Ranveer you are so connected with Vikas Sir. So respectful and open.

  • @rohit.ayadav
    @rohit.ayadav Год назад +8

    Beta hi gujare toh accha hai, Maa na gujare toh hi accha hai." @ 9:50 ❤❤

  • @vimalsingh7704
    @vimalsingh7704 Год назад +8

    Victim mentality is new norm...let the man be a men... World cannot function on extreme emotion...

  • @natarajan9025
    @natarajan9025 6 месяцев назад

    Crying is one of the best feeling of comfort crying at night when no one is watching .crying allows me to express my sadness

  • @priyankasharma-hi5hg
    @priyankasharma-hi5hg Год назад +63

    Vikas Sir is a great educator and has real knowledge n experience of life..More such concepts of society should be touched with Sir thru poacasts..
    There is lot to learn from him..

  • @mjoshi45
    @mjoshi45 6 месяцев назад +1

    Superb!!! I would request you to strongly present guests like this that can highlight the silent suffering that boys and men endure throughout their lives. In the modern era where every female issue is highlighted and exaggerated -- the injustices and oppression that men and boys face remains invisible though so ubiquitous in all cultures.

  • @SahilPartab
    @SahilPartab Год назад +4

    Thanks sir
    Aj is video se mene sikha k parents ko jitna hosage utna time doonga

  • @nareshbhardwaj1413
    @nareshbhardwaj1413 10 месяцев назад +1

    Most important line Maa ki mrityu ke Baad 1 saal roya 😢😢, m bhi apni beti k Jane k baad kuch 1 saal depression Mein rha, ab bhagwan ne mujhe beti wapas krdi, 🙏 woh bhot dayalu hai

  • @06-lakkidhole76
    @06-lakkidhole76 Год назад +52

    What a podcast!!! Totally relatable with that emotional expressing fact ❤

  • @dr.vandanajerin9864
    @dr.vandanajerin9864 Год назад +4

    No one will ever live without guilt because when parents leave we always feel that they went early.....

  • @Dileep_Champion
    @Dileep_Champion Год назад +81

    Its not about male or female, its all about their socialisation, past experiences,emotional intelligence ,priorities and value system of that person.....
    Hyper masculinity is definitely a problem, which we can't disagree..

    • @tulipbubbly3748
      @tulipbubbly3748 Год назад +16

      Masculinity and femininity is not a problem as they are natural. But the problem is people don't understand these terms. I've seen some people say stupid stuff like kindness is a feminine thing. Aggression is a masculine thing.
      Wheras, good behaviour is a good behaviour for all and bad behaviour is a bad behaviour for all.
      Our behaviour is controlled by our minds, not our male/female hormones.

    • @Dileep_Champion
      @Dileep_Champion Год назад +8

      @@tulipbubbly3748 Hyper masculinity is toxic and imposed on male children from the beginning.... Mard ko dard nahi hota hai, kind of stuff feeding to them....

    • @pratap268
      @pratap268 Год назад

      ​@@Dileep_Champion toh phr randi Rona krrr tu 😂😂😂

    • @bringingouttruth2824
      @bringingouttruth2824 Год назад

      ​@@Dileep_ChampionSuppose U r facing an enemy nation's army, invaders or maybe internal insurgents. Whom do you prefer to fight so to win, so to survive the fight, protect all those dear to you and maintain ur honour :-
      1. Hard & strong, dominant, stoic (emotionless), focused, solid, logical, objective, masculine men 💪🏻🤛🏻🤜🏻??
      OR ;
      2. Emotional, soft, vulnerable, complaining this & that, readable (non-stoic) cringe, sobbing, watery eyes, sad, sleeping with his mom, crying men cum soldiers 🤡👽🤪 ..... and virtue-signalling all - "Men - it's Ok to cry, it's Ok to be emotional" ??
      I would blindfold choose no. 2 as my enemy, invading army - to facewith !! 😆😁😄😁😆
      P.S. Whatever Sigmund Freud and his students said are basic theories, anecdotal evidence, indivigual root-cause analysis & hypothesis of 1900s. They r no scientific laws, they aren't any Gospel Truth, are mere bubbles in the oceans of human psychology and open to be outrightly rejected, replaced, negated, criticized, scrutinized and questioned.

    • @arrow2380
      @arrow2380 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@Dileep_Championanother male feminist

  • @imakr1755
    @imakr1755 Год назад +1

    Mere father bht emotional h , wo Aaj v dada-dadi k liye (Puja m) unko yaad krke baccho ki tarah ro dete h , 2004-5 m mjhe azeeb lgta tha - Mera baap ye kya kr rha h , lekin Aaj papa k sth mjhe v aansu aa jata h .

  • @TheIITian-f9p
    @TheIITian-f9p Год назад +149

    Can't explain you Ranveer how much you understand me, every favourite topic of mine is found on your channel!!

  • @OmGautam-tj8km
    @OmGautam-tj8km 11 месяцев назад +1

    Mera toh kehena hai ki Power And Control ke piche bhago.
    Sukh nai mila, Khushiya nai milli isiliye apni marzi chalao powerful bano. Uss ma behen ko bhi apne hisaab se nachao. Be King, king ki koi parva nai karta lekin uski ek awaz peh saare jhukte hai.

  • @user-ss3nw9zh3r
    @user-ss3nw9zh3r Год назад +4

    I like the way Vikas sir speak 😊😊😊😊

  • @swarnajitmukherjee4790
    @swarnajitmukherjee4790 10 месяцев назад

    Parents ek time par nahi rahenge ye baat jyada rulata hain🙂

  • @vamsiharati3206
    @vamsiharati3206 Год назад +32

    Emotional kar de rahe ho yaar.. 😢 this is a freaking heavy topic .. which boys don’t speak or don’t know what/how to speak about it .. Great Video 🙏🏼

  • @vedantsinghrajput1132
    @vedantsinghrajput1132 Год назад +13

    What a amazing guy he just revealed the gist of life, i hope my parents would have understood that. But love u sir

  • @adarshagrawal5383
    @adarshagrawal5383 Год назад +24

    What a nice conversation. Hearing to Dr Vikas is always amazing 👏

  • @aloksaxena5871
    @aloksaxena5871 Год назад

    देश के विकास में ज़रूरी है दिव्य ज्ञान
    तभी स्थापित होगा देश का विश्व में कीर्तिमान ; विकास दिव्यकीर्ति

  • @dilafrozehussain5364
    @dilafrozehussain5364 Год назад +5

    One can listen to him all the time ....The way he explains things ..Thanks Ranveer ...grat job
    ..❤

  • @tubelearner
    @tubelearner Год назад +25

    Very well explained by sir , we never thought in this way , we should always respect mother's for what they did for us in our whole life

  • @rashmijoshi1451
    @rashmijoshi1451 Год назад +22

    Wonderful Pod cast🎉 Requesting you to make one pod cast with Sudha Murty ma'am

  • @harjitdhiman4594
    @harjitdhiman4594 5 месяцев назад

    True ....everyone should spend their time with mother 😢

  • @Bikermanic
    @Bikermanic 10 месяцев назад +2

    Vikas needs an award for the knowledge he has 🏆👍🏻

  • @rawhit007
    @rawhit007 8 месяцев назад

    Sir aapka beta jab apse baat karta hoga toh bahut sukoon milta hoga usko.

  • @KaranSirohi-kt6wv
    @KaranSirohi-kt6wv Год назад +4

    Vikas Sir One and Only Piece ❤

  • @AllinOne-mg9us
    @AllinOne-mg9us 10 месяцев назад

    Hone ka to kavi v kuchh ho sakta hai to phir present me jina chahiye. Sochana hi galat hai. Big fan Divyakirti sir❤❤❤

  • @36sudip
    @36sudip Год назад +15

    Reality! Hardcore!
    Parents ❤️

  • @mundajattvip9785
    @mundajattvip9785 Год назад

    Iska video dekha nahi bai.. fir bhi comment kr raha hu, Ranveer bhai bharat mein ache logo ki kami nahi.. unhe laya kro..❤️🇮🇳❤️

  • @dilipshanbhag8282
    @dilipshanbhag8282 Год назад +5

    When boy's go through breakups they don't get sad they get angry he is so good in human thoughts

  • @SurajVerma-co1xp
    @SurajVerma-co1xp 10 месяцев назад +1

    I believe title of this video should be " Every Woman and Parents " must watch....

  • @yashmirashi2956
    @yashmirashi2956 Год назад +49

    Thank you रणवीर भाई for having him on show!❤

  • @qwer-7y
    @qwer-7y Год назад +2

    Vikas sir ko sunke bhaut accha lagta hia thank you 🙏🏻

  • @Anjalis.Corner
    @Anjalis.Corner Год назад +16

    Being a Girl, i can also feel this pain. Dont like to expree my emotions because of past experiences 🥺🥺. It feels hard sometimes.

  • @neerajpunia2733
    @neerajpunia2733 Год назад +1

    Damn ... Aankh me aansu aa gye ... Respect sir for u

  • @anweshadey6936
    @anweshadey6936 Год назад +34

    Nice detailed discreet description about gender equality it's perspectives & emotions.😍 Please keep on streaming and showering such podcasts for a change it's delightful to hear such discussion. ☺️

  • @DurgeshKumar-dc8ld
    @DurgeshKumar-dc8ld Год назад

    aap dono ki awaj sun kar koyal bhi srma jaye

  • @t0dex
    @t0dex Год назад +5

    Exact same situation and same opinions vikas sir is legend ❤❤❤❤

  • @AnkitKumar-iq4re
    @AnkitKumar-iq4re Год назад +1

    i am a medical science student.,when i reached home after 11 months.,maine mummy ke face pe wrinkles dekha.,meri aankho m ansoo aa gye.,or ye sab chupate hue m dusre room m chala gya...that time i feel that i am doing something wrong..bcz i left my home when i was in 6th class..

  • @ashishb251
    @ashishb251 Год назад +2

    Flashback of my childhood! What a relevance.

  • @vikasverma598
    @vikasverma598 Год назад +1

    Aksar "ladke ek dusre se emotional baate ni karte".......aur iske aage ki puri baatcheet to bahut jyada emotion se bhari h lekin express ni kar paa rhe h....si m bhai

  • @kaalmanigaming4719
    @kaalmanigaming4719 Год назад +5

    एक वक्त के बाद हमें पत्थर दिल घोषित कर दिए जाते हैं।।😇💔😇

  • @OtakuChamber
    @OtakuChamber 5 месяцев назад +1

    so complex matter explained in so easy way..amazing

  • @HarpreetSingh-ox8yi
    @HarpreetSingh-ox8yi 14 дней назад +1

    Ye banda Bohat positive hai inhone jo hur ek baat boli hai Vo hum sabi Ladko ke dil ki baat boldi hai 😢mere baap ki death ho gyi c jab main 4 Saal ka tha Thoda Sa bada huya to mujhe padhayi vgera sab shodna padha ma or shoti behn or shote bhai ke liye phir mujhe kaam karna jeyada jaruri ho gya bache ke kandho par he Samjho boojh daala jaata hai to phir main dubai gya 17 saal ki umar me or phir behn ki shaadi ki bhai ko bhi padhaya or abhi bhai mera Australia 🇦🇺 me hai vahan Bheja usko or Aaj meri umar 28 saal ki hai or filhaal main abhi bhi dubai me he hu 😢😢 bus shaadi b nhi kiya tha kyunki mera pehla pyar tha Vo bhi mere haalaat dekhkar shod gyi thi or shaadi b Karli Usne lekin mera pehla pyar thi main to Aaj bhi use aapna lu ga aagar Aa jaaye yehi soch soch kar Maine shaadi b nhi ki bhi shayid vo Kabhi loot Aaaye 😥😥😥😥 Maine to aapne liye Kabhi Kapdy tak nhi liye dhang ke Aapne baare me to Kabhi Socha he nhi 😢😢 phir b mujhe sab shod kar chale gye 😥😥😥 main punjab Se hu Abhi to mera punjab Jaane ko b dil nhi karta pta nhi kya ho gya hai akela Baitha Paglo ki tarah divaaro ki taraf dekhta rehta hu
    Lekin Main phir b kisi se baat Nhi Kar Paata Na Aapne Dil Ki Baten Bol skta hu anadr he Andar ghut ghut kar jee Raha Hu or Upar Wale C Poochta Hu Waheguru ji mere sath Aaise Kyu Kiya Maine To Aapni Zindgi bhi daayo Pe Lagaadi sabke liye 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥😥

  • @piyushsinghal3330
    @piyushsinghal3330 Год назад +19

    Best Part of the Podcast & very well explained by Dby Drikas Divyakirti sir.
    thankyou

  • @ukwriter
    @ukwriter 10 месяцев назад +1

    That's called speech power. 59k+ likes... with zero dislikes. ❤❤

  • @MrNobody-dr6gp
    @MrNobody-dr6gp Год назад +31

    Literally one of the best video so far I have seen in a while ☺️

  • @user-bb3wd1qd3h
    @user-bb3wd1qd3h 9 месяцев назад +1

    Bring Divine on podcast

  • @savansanghvi3276
    @savansanghvi3276 Год назад +14

    I wouldn't agree with what Vikas Sir said exactly. Men don't cry because of multiple reasons. Crying doesn't solve anything other than loosing heaviness in your heart.
    And I have seen grown men weeping during difficult times irrespective of the occasion. The reason is quite simple. You have a problem, find a solution and execute it.

    • @shikhapandey242
      @shikhapandey242 Год назад +11

      At times, there are no solutions to real life problems especially incase you lost your loved one or they are seriously ill or lost a good relationship! It will take a hell lot of time and efforts to get over such a loss. In the meantime, its okay to be sad about it including crying. And I have seen strongest of the men crying, it doesn't make them any less of a man!

    • @savansanghvi3276
      @savansanghvi3276 Год назад +3

      @@shikhapandey242 ,
      Still, crying is not a solution. At times, you might be called cold blooded for not expressing yourself. It's not wrong to keep your sorrows aside and focus on the next point of action. It's called taking control of yourself. And to be honest, civilizations are built by men and nurtured by women. If men didn't share emotions within their family, there wouldn't be businesses that last for generations. So, I am not sure what kind of people Vikas Sir is talking about.
      It's ok to cry for men, but, alone.

    • @shikhapandey242
      @shikhapandey242 Год назад

      @@savansanghvi3276 well, from my experience most men don't share emotions( I have shining examples in my surroundings) ! It is one thing to focus on next action but other thing to feel the pain and express it!( like if your loved one is sick then you will leave no stone unturned to get them treated but yet you can be sad about it). Its about how you deal with your pain but it must be dealt is the bottom line!

    • @savansanghvi3276
      @savansanghvi3276 Год назад +3

      @@shikhapandey242 ,
      There is just one thing that can heal every man's pain. Wins, hard difficult wins. When a man wins, all of his pain starts healing, for every loss, he needs 5 wins and that's when he has enough mental stability to keep moving forward.

    • @adarshbiswas7099
      @adarshbiswas7099 Год назад +5

      @@savansanghvi3276 andrew tate ka fan hai kya🤣

  • @rekhasingh7332
    @rekhasingh7332 5 месяцев назад +1

    भविष्य का दूसरा केजरीवाल है आगे की पीढ़ी देखेगी पढ़ा के काफ़ी confident है

  • @vikramadityapaul7400
    @vikramadityapaul7400 Год назад +9

    Uff! I could relate each sentence he said.
    Feel a lot lighter.

  • @mitalimukherjee1419
    @mitalimukherjee1419 Год назад

    Jahan bhi main vikash sir ko dekti hoon unko sunti hoon !jeene he liye kuch to mil hi jata hai

  • @abhiseksahu8490
    @abhiseksahu8490 Год назад +7

    Kya Divya Vani hai sir ji dhanya ho gaya

  • @savychristopher9603
    @savychristopher9603 Год назад

    Emotional expression kam krte krte emotional hi ni reh pate ek samay ke bad... This line... Hits hard

  • @psychouncle01
    @psychouncle01 Год назад +4

    I think this is the must watch clip for every men ❤🎉

  • @pintupaswan1906
    @pintupaswan1906 Год назад +1

    VIKAS DIYYAKIRTI SIR I M NOT A IAS STUDENT, BUT I LIKE YOUR APPRICH TOWARDS THE QUESTIONS YOU ANSWERS

  • @RahulSinglaz
    @RahulSinglaz Год назад +54

    I'm father of 4 year old son. thanks for such information 🙂

    • @Familyfashion7
      @Familyfashion7 Год назад +12

      Jab vo bada hoke hilaye to marna mat.

    • @PastEventsTV
      @PastEventsTV Год назад +2

      ​@@Familyfashion7😂😂😂

    • @ishiiiiiiii406
      @ishiiiiiiii406 Год назад +1

      ​@@Familyfashion7😂😂😂

    • @zyzzz6331
      @zyzzz6331 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Familyfashion7 bhai itna bi sach nahi bolna tahh

    • @SachinSharma-in4ch
      @SachinSharma-in4ch 2 месяца назад

      ​@@Familyfashion7😂😂

  • @PawanKumar-wu8kq
    @PawanKumar-wu8kq 7 месяцев назад

    Vikas sir is a great philosopher. His observation towards life is wonderful.

  • @RahulVerma-rv1mk
    @RahulVerma-rv1mk Год назад +6

    bhai ye video dekh na hi mere liye mental peace sabit hua. vikas sir ne kitna beautifully mens ke mental health ko samzaya h. Muze laga jai se mai kisi psychiatrist se mil aya❤

    • @Doctorother-xh3ot
      @Doctorother-xh3ot Год назад

      Or mujay laga ki psychologist say.
      Aap ka comment dekh kar pata chala.
      Ki sir ji teacher hay.
      Sachi
      I am watching many videos of vikas sir ji

  • @akshatsaxena1450
    @akshatsaxena1450 Год назад +1

    OMG, His voice and explanation are top-notch!

  • @atulmakvana-wf8lr
    @atulmakvana-wf8lr Год назад +1525

    Khan sir ko leao

    • @kamaldeepsingh3988
      @kamaldeepsingh3988 Год назад +77

      Koi teacher hai wo..??? Bakwaas Godi admi... Paise aur fame ka bhukha... ❤❤

    • @studyhelper1422
      @studyhelper1422 Год назад +29

      ​@@kamaldeepsingh3988paise ka bhukha pata nahi par Godi poora hai vo

    • @arvindsinghbishnoi8967
      @arvindsinghbishnoi8967 Год назад +8

      Khan sir se kya karwayegaa be

    • @prabazeeb
      @prabazeeb Год назад

      abe lavrhe abi jo aya hai usko to sunn le

    • @vinod8621
      @vinod8621 Год назад +37

      ​@@kamaldeepsingh3988Madrasa chap spotted 🥵🤫

  • @arnabbiswas4036
    @arnabbiswas4036 Год назад +5

    After separation from mother, men don't even find the one whom he can say all his pains, yes some men get a girl who listens but after some days that also is not stable.

  • @okayfine..
    @okayfine.. Год назад +23

    Very glad to have been there for my younger brother and help him out regarding these issues ❤
    Hope he's expressive 🎉

  • @pragyagawande5830
    @pragyagawande5830 Год назад +23

    How deeply explained 🙌🙌