haaaa 😂😂😂BC log Aaj kal modernity ke naam par khud ke body ko ek product bana dete hai.., fir kehete hai it's personal choice, toh fir sex after marriage bhi sahi Kar Dona it's also a personal choice, now a days in India people think sex before marriage with multiple people is common along with wife swapping, I was just asking to u that if a guy/ girl is virgin then he/she also have wright to reject their partners if they don't found same and can find a virgin one 😊that was my opinion and trust me doing it is not bad at all, it u can choose your partner on basis of looks, maturity, understanding, and even virginity 😀. Even I had did the same I rejected girls because of virginity and I choose a virgin one tough she is not Indian so parents were against us. Now our bond is too good... That's what I want to explain that if someone is feeling uncomfortable with non virgin then they can skip/move on,: coz life is given only once so don't try to get adjust, try to choose as u want. And I m also not saying that choosing non virgin is bad at all it also depends on think that's it..
@@seemakamble6308 it's getting practically impossible bro. Loosing virginity means vaginal sex. But never assume that a girl never had any kind of sexual encounter. I knew a girl she was virgin and belong to a Sikh family. Due to her morals she never let any of her boyfriends have vaginal sex. Rest of all dirty things you can imagine she has done it with multiple guys. Finding a virgin girl in this era is like finding fish in a dessert
The first wrong approach is to try and be friends with a girl. That lowers your value in her eyes unknowingly and she only sees you as a friend. Be direct and make it clear to her that you are attracted to her and would like to date her. If she says no, then just be polite and walk away and really mean it. Don't waste any more time on her. In my experience this has made girls wonder why I stopped paying attention to them. Sometimes it doesn't work because the girl may think too highly of herself or may be too deeply emotionally involved in someone else but most other times it gets them wondering and seeking your validation. Now here's the tricky bit. If they come back seeking your attention more often than not that's all they want. Your attention. Just don't be fooled and think she wants to date. Be polite but be firm and don't waste your valuable time on her. In any case as you mature you will regret having spent your teens and 20s pursuing girls and not success in life. In your 30s women and relationships will seem very trivial to you and just the struggle for survival will occupy your mind all the time.
Very well written and very thoughtful and more importantly it's 100 percent true ,I keep telling these tips to guys around me but they just don't listen,being fooled one time is ok but committing same mistake over and over is just insanity.
@Li'l Squeak you cant improve your facial aesthetics more than genetic potential. Improving in other fields could lead more financial stability thus may find a chance of better mate.
This video is very important for boys aged 13-21years. Women have the right to liberty and make their own choices in life. 'No' is a beautiful word. Learn to accept 'No' and say 'No'.
nones love at first place is based without physical appearance only rare 1% chance is that a human admires an other human beings heart then get into a relationship without caring anything
@@shreehari2681 that's what i told there could be many reasons to choose a partner heart wise but its very rare 90% of the times it always an attraction relationship based on looks
30 years old .....got rejected some 6-7 times since 17 .....Never had any girl in my acquaintances..... Already gave up... Only advice for teenagers and early 20s boys....Just focus on your career whatever you are indulging yourself into .... Just go on and faad do...you will get many girls ..... otherwise you'll end up a loser like me who would have nothing in hand during your late 20s or early 30s -neither girl nor money not even job...... every day of your life will be a load on on...
Bhai mujhe ek ladki 1.5 saal se pasand thi kuch mahino pehle maine usse insta maanga to usne kaha me use nhi krti aur phir meri baat sunne se mana kr diya phir kuch din pehle woh dusre shahar se wapas aayi maine use kyi bar Toka bahot baat krne ki kosis ki but har time usne ignore kiya ab woh chali gyi kya me ise uska rejection samjhu ?
Still Maine use apna love express nhi kiya h ye mera sabse bada guilt h woh jo bhi samjhe sabse sad baat ye h ham bachpan k dost the lekin ab me uske liye ek stranger hu
We should respect the decision of the person without any sorts of counter question. You can't force someone to be with you. Maintain your self respect & work on yourself rather than hating / having any grudges. There's a difference between infatuation & true love ( which seems to be timepass in majority of cases ) Expressing your feelings is also courageous act. Rejection is better than regretting. Become the best version of yourself without any sorts of revenge or taking it personally.
Pagal hai kya??? counter question karna banta hai... jab jaan payege ki kis karan se rejection hai tabhi toh sudhaar aayega uss cheez mein. .. pakka tum 15-23 ke beech ki age mein honge tabhi yeh non-mature response hai 😂
Guys, before emotionally investing/asking her out... Test her to see if she is equally interested in you. If she doesn't then move on. Not every deserves your love.😁❤️
Accept it or not, now-a-days most of the guys out there don't want to propose a girl because they are afraid of friendzone, bhaizone and rejection everytime.
@@binoyroy1112 shut up I am rejected after talking her after 2 months and bombarding her with feelings trying to make her feel loved but she loves her ex only I was trying to make her move on but she only wants him so i told her bye and blocked her ☺☺💔💔💔💔
2:58 Maine Kiya tha! Ek teacher thi Jo baar baar hamare class ke topper ko hi questions puch rahi thi, mujhe gussa aagya aur chilla ke bola - mam ek kaam karo hum sabko bahar bhejdo aur sirf isske saath class mein aaram se padhana, Teacher was like : what? What are you saying? Are you outta your mind ?? Then suddenly whole class was like: yes mam, he's right you're only asking him questions tab mam ko realize hua ki she was doing wrong
I am 17 I am a programmer (java, python, dart) I have learnt flutter, Android studio and now about to finish my first application I daily program for 3-5 hrs or more (depends on my daily aim) and also learning marketing (social media) that's it.
Ok, I had lot of thing to burst on this topic: When we get rejection anywhere else other than dating, we immediately rush to find the next opportunity, but in such cases we broke out completely. The reason is simple; we abruptly begin to invest emotionally without her consent or mutual agreement. I admit sometimes girls show some interest in the beginning, so we assume that's a green signal, & then her sudden back off makes it more harder to move on, but still you can't help it. In reference to sir's old video: we have this system of fairness in our mind that everything should go fairly if the current circumstances are right, but then, we forget that anything can happen in life. Even I've been through rejection lately & that's for the first time, so I can feel that pain. Hey but it's totally wrong to abuse the girl if she declines. I mean try to put yourself in her shoes (or high heels lol) & see the situation either objectively or from her perspective. What if a girl that you totally don't have any feelings, ask you out? would you accept her even if you don't find her attractive? of course not. May be you're not that charming to her in terms of looks & other areas, so just accept that without loosing your self-esteem. You can only get the people who are equal or below of your level & that's how the life works. If you want someone who is in the upper layer of social hierarchy, then bounce yourself over there with the spring of career. I'm not postulating that wealth & powerful status can get you any person you want, but then at least you have multiple similar choices instead of compromising with your taste. *Aur padh liya bhosdike? ab kam kar.. mujhe report bharne he office ke.*
The truth is that girls always go for the best guy they can find in terms of looks ,money and status because 20-30 boys are always texting even an average girl so there is a factor of ego inflation and selecting the best mate.
@@jannavirout yeah ,even i don't want a relationship currently. I just want to focus on my career and my goals. It is not only girls who go for the best match even men do it if they are in a situation like that they will pick the hottest or most beautiful girl. Basically due to gender ratio being screwed in india women have more power over men because girls are less in number and honestly even men act like losers texting every other girl. Basically humans are superficial but ofcourse ther are exceptions to everything.
much needed video, don't take this on yourself, you ask she denies, and also don't waste time in the friendzone that will make you feel more pathetic, just move on, you will meet the right person at the right time, focus on your dreams.
Ego is the main problem which causes more problems and conflicts in one's life. If we just Re think the situation by keeping our ego aside, we will see the situation by a better vision
@@karannnnnnnnnn6895 Just by treating the other person( say your friend) as same as you treat your brother/sister or a family member if you fight at any point.
This channel works for me as a mentor, not because of his behaviour but because of his skill to think neither emotionally nor practically but logically, his book is actually one of the books i have ever read, making me think about what was i doing with my life till now I'm 16(going to be 17 this month) and I want to say this that sir please don't ever quit youtube, we the youth of India need you a lot And lots of love from my side,keep doing this work,your work inspires a lot of your viewer
i am proud of my self 😊😊 maine apni crush ko krib 6-7 saal baad propose kiya..usne reject kr diya. but i said...i respect you and i respect your decision,
Thank you so much Shwetabh Bhai 💙. Worked on building machine learning applications for like 5hrs and now I'll be switching to flutter development. But took a break for 15mins and I am here listening to your videos. Been heartbroken recently and started watching your videos. It was lockdown period and I had no one for a discussion, to seek help or even talk to. Thank you for being there (even tho it's para-social relationship).
Thank You Bhaiya..I have hardly found any person on youtube who tell you the reality of love or relationship.Everybody is just telling us all kind of bullshit and confuse us.I found you a right person who talks reality and remove this relationship bullshit from the mind of the people.1000 thanks to you
i like your introduction or bhai or behen kese kaam kar rhe h ya nhi ....bas itni si line sunke Motivation mil jaata hu or ise sunne ke baad maine kal 10 hours approx padhai kari apni life ke liye apne time ka yogdaan diya ... thanks..
Right Shwetabh, this is one place I agree with feminism, she has the right to reject you, she isn't in any obligation or the guy shouldn't feel entitled that she has to reply back or say yes to her, its her choice and if she feels she is attracted to you then she will accept you, at the same time, girls shouldn't also be feeling entitled or put any obligation towards the guy that he should like her back as well ...both have equal rights ... when someone rejects you, they don't know you completely, they reject some idea of you, not you completely....dont seek someones approval become better not bitter ..
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Exactly!! People try to vent out where they can, rejection handle krna aana chahye.. People have their own criteria, venting out mean you are weak and not good enough.. But not taking rejection on ego is being mature..
woke up at 5 started studying at sharp 530 now eating food s break for half an hour plus watching your video after this will watch the beast mode video ,abhi pora din padaa hia distractions ke ese teese ,thanks bhaii for making me a beast again
I was rejected by a boy I cried a lot But I didn't scold him Neither I like anyone else to speak anything ill about him Still I feel bad bcz I loved him for last 6 yrs he also he didn't showed respect for me
Why do you think he should respect about your one side feeling? He owns you nothing. At least he showed respect by clearly declining your feelings rather than playing with it. Move on. Honest rejections are always good. And don't expect he will come back.
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A huge Fan from Kolkata..have already read ur book 3 times..but still there is lot yet to be explored,realized..thanks a lot sir... "THE RUDEST BOOK EVER" it's just nothing but Bible for me🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Watching the video at 1:P.M, I've studied for 6.5 hours and will complete my target of 12 hours a day,still having a lot of things in Physics and Chemistry to do. Thank you
There is a line smaid by Sandeep Maheshwari : hume gussa ata ni h hum. karte h. We don't show anger on elders like our father. However, we show anger on our mother. Kamjor par gussa dikhate h karte h aur phir kahte h ki gussa ajata h ... Reality is we can control our anger easily. I have been able to do it and its now my second nature. Instead gusse wale emotion ko channelise karke nae perspective se soche to bahut maja ata h ...
I was dumped last year by a girl who was my girlfriend for 3 years.... She humiliated me to the core when she left me...... I thought ki ye sacha pyar ae..... After that I realised how much time I wasted for someone who dumped me at last. Then I saw your video .... It changed my whole perspective and I started working hard since then and now I learnt a lot of skills over an year and I am happy I found your videos which show me practical points instead of being emotional and destroying my time Now recently I also created my own youtube channel to discuss about goals and building self discipline in life ..... Wish I grow too.
Physics nhi hota vaii mere se meko bio chem acha lgta h physics interesting to lgta h but implementation k time jab solution nhi kar pata to m demotivate ho jata hu ...humse naa ho payega physics :(
You don't need to be great to START But make no mistake You have to start in order to be GREAT IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY SHOULD YOU STOP MAKING TIMETABLES YOU CAN HAVE A VISIT THANKS
M waiting for the second book from this guy .. I completed reading the rudest book ever twice & I recommend you people to read it once at least. It will definitely help you clear you mind
I think 2 years ago, i first time face breakup and after 1 day i watch your videos... And it helps me alot.....thank you and congratulations for 1 million subscribes... It help me to see others point of view...
Don't go into situations where you can get rejected. Simple. The women here who are saying one should handle rejection can't handle rejection themselves because they have a larger ego than men. All men should have a tad bit of self respect because rejection comes in many forms. Nowadays rejection with humiliation is the trend. As most people can handle rejection like we do in interviews but the interviewer seldom humiliate us. Women don't face such a thing because men don't humiliate. I personally never got humiliated but I have seen very good guys getting humiliated by girls for simply asking them out. If the roles were reversed I am sure we will hear/read about a suicide or something dramatic. The society has this expectation from men to handle humiliation with grace. We all have egos but only people who know how humiliation feels can weigh in on this. Dear ladies your "handle rejection" appeal is pretty flawed as you dear princess never faced any. Men face rejection every day in some form or the other. Stop comparing. You guys might be good in many things but handling rejection is something you can never understand. It's like if I tell you how having a menstrual cycle feels like. I don't have a fucking clue. Same way you have no clue how it feels. So shut the fuck up. I've heard girls say stuff like "How did he reject me ?" "he is probably gay how can he reject me ?" The sheer arrogance in these statements put everything in perspective.
While most of what you said is statistically true and toxic, there are definitely non-instagram women (fat, dark, not genetically blessed, lower class etc) who do face humiliating rejections for daring to propose to guys who are 'above their league'. Those who ask a guy out like that will also be seen as more sexually forward and easy, which is something women try to avoid, which also affects the rejection statistics :D But in traditional settings they will get rejected many times during arranged marriage match making, lol ...its such a common thing that we even have popular ads on it celebrating the idea of a girl getting matches after applying fair and lovely. >>"How did he reject me ?" "he is probably gay how can he reject me ?"
I have been rejected by a man very harshly ,he humiliated in front of everyone .He made fun of me. I was completely traumatized due to that. Even men brag about how they rejected a girl. It's both way.
i m.upsc aspirant prelims is approaching n m studying 14 hrs per day thanks to u bhaiya for motivating me now m enjoying my study alot n targetting top 50 rank 🤩🤩
@@adarshchandra_ no bro its all depend ur dedication towards ur goal and m taking break every 2 hrs of study n just for 5 months it is then if i clear the exam these 5 months burnout will give me outcomes of lifetime🤩😊
Cause', After rejection : • Girl after 1 day - 😭 • Girl at day 31 - 🙋🏽 After rejection : • Boy after 1 day - 🙂 • Boy after 2 days - 🥲 • Boy after 3 days - 😢 • Boy after 4 days till date of death - 😭
Same happened with me. She didn't rejected but she said now she is not into these things. She had past experiences and those were bad for her. And now she don't want to be in relationship
i got rejected too she said i have a boyfriend don't even think about us. i just simply replied i was sharing my feelings thanks for replying, thanks for clarifying . then i blocked her deleted our chats ready to move on
Surreal, I told a girl yesterday that I like her after 11 yrs and she declined.. This video helps. But I took it quite decently. I am going to ask again with a better version of me if I get a chance.
@@ayushgarg6069 definitely your point is correct. I am assessing the scenario, if I like someone so much for so long may be I can try again, I will take a shot I want her. But have to okay with the outcome either ways. A bit of hurting is involved but it's not a defeat in life. Will be a good experience. Some can call it chutiyapa which is people's opinion, but I can always try if not winning at every ask in life.
I was rejected by the girl who lives just in front of my 🏠 house in 2019 when I was in 12th standard but I'm still maintaining a friendship with her. Anyhow and we have to act according to the situation. That's it.
If you have feelings for her then cut off the friendship. Then you will just be a friend for the wrong reasons and your self esteem will keep getting crushed. If you have no feelings at all then it's okay but in most cases it's the former.
You can't be friends with someone whom you have felling for.. It will haunt you, hurt you more.. Don't be friend.. Don't talk.. Being friend only give you hope that someday she will like you.. But truth is she won't.. So move on.. Don't stuck in this friendship things.. Make things clear that you can't be friend with her & i guess she will understand your situation..
I just got rejected by a girl I have liked for months. I feel like I have made a complete fool out of myself. I feel like shit and dont know where to do now. I am scared of facing her again. Tonight's gonna to be hard man
It is the rule of the jungle man. Hot girls get a lot of attention,they have a lot of options so they will only go for the man who is best for them in terms of looks or money or status.
@@orion615 no u shouldn't be toxic, all i am saying is that they are not gods whose judgments on someone is final and consequential. Also looks have nothing to do with personality.
@@h34lth01 most women look beautiful. Studies prove it is infact women who have a higher standards of looks in men. While most men find almost all women attractive.
"Be alone,that is the secret of invention;
Be alone,that is when ideas are born."
-Nikola tesla
Superb bro
Everyone's mindset is different
@@aniketthepersuer2310 Only here do I get to see these type of comments. 👍
haaaa 😂😂😂BC log Aaj kal modernity ke naam par khud ke body ko ek product bana dete hai.., fir kehete hai it's personal choice, toh fir sex after marriage bhi sahi Kar Dona it's also a personal choice, now a days in India people think sex before marriage with multiple people is common along with wife swapping, I was just asking to u that if a guy/ girl is virgin then he/she also have wright to reject their partners if they don't found same and can find a virgin one 😊that was my opinion and trust me doing it is not bad at all, it u can choose your partner on basis of looks, maturity, understanding, and even virginity 😀.
Even I had did the same I rejected girls because of virginity and I choose a virgin one tough she is not Indian so parents were against us. Now our bond is too good...
That's what I want to explain that if someone is feeling uncomfortable with non virgin then they can skip/move on,: coz life is given only once so don't try to get adjust, try to choose as u want. And I m also not saying that choosing non virgin is bad at all it also depends on think that's it..
@@seemakamble6308 it's getting practically impossible bro. Loosing virginity means vaginal sex. But never assume that a girl never had any kind of sexual encounter. I knew a girl she was virgin and belong to a Sikh family. Due to her morals she never let any of her boyfriends have vaginal sex. Rest of all dirty things you can imagine she has done it with multiple guys. Finding a virgin girl in this era is like finding fish in a dessert
Shwetabh doing what he does best - enlightening the masses
Agree
We should not respect those who can't take responsibility for their actions
yes
Did you mean the governments worldwide?
@amerah , bro savage😂👌👌
@@amerahhamdi5232 savage 😂👌
@@amerahhamdi5232 apni khudki government kuch nai kar pai
The first wrong approach is to try and be friends with a girl. That lowers your value in her eyes unknowingly and she only sees you as a friend. Be direct and make it clear to her that you are attracted to her and would like to date her. If she says no, then just be polite and walk away and really mean it. Don't waste any more time on her. In my experience this has made girls wonder why I stopped paying attention to them. Sometimes it doesn't work because the girl may think too highly of herself or may be too deeply emotionally involved in someone else but most other times it gets them wondering and seeking your validation.
Now here's the tricky bit. If they come back seeking your attention more often than not that's all they want. Your attention. Just don't be fooled and think she wants to date. Be polite but be firm and don't waste your valuable time on her. In any case as you mature you will regret having spent your teens and 20s pursuing girls and not success in life. In your 30s women and relationships will seem very trivial to you and just the struggle for survival will occupy your mind all the time.
Me too
100% true bro.
Well said.
Very well written and very thoughtful and more importantly it's 100 percent true ,I keep telling these tips to guys around me but they just don't listen,being fooled one time is ok but committing same mistake over and over is just insanity.
Yes cheesy it sounds honesty is the best policy! Just tell the person u like him/her and that u want to try and see if a relationship is possible
rejection in general should be normalised in the society.
True...
har koyi asa kar pata tho legends ki concept hi exist nahi karpati, only true legends can do it.
No
I wouldn't ask for a reason if she would have said yes, so why ask for reason when someone rejects you. That's their problem.
@Li'l Squeak that's for you to discover. Why should someone else review and analyse you?
@@adityyuh Bhai sabhi log sahi bolre 😂. Isiliye bolra hu KITAB PADO Bhai ki. Sare sawal khatam
It's her choice 😂😂😂😂
True bro some dudes dont understand healthy feminism.
@Li'l Squeak you cant improve your facial aesthetics more than genetic potential. Improving in other fields could lead more financial stability thus may find a chance of better mate.
This video is very important for boys aged 13-21years. Women have the right to liberty and make their own choices in life. 'No' is a beautiful word. Learn to accept 'No' and say 'No'.
That doesn't make any sense what about people above 21 ? I think u should have said 13 and beyond
No means no
@@garvmalhotra1043 Generally adolescent men lack sensibility. So that's why. Although some older men are also the same.
@@te9312 It's relevant for men of all ages
@@abhishekgore9346 Yeah 👍. Lekin bacchon ko sudharna asan hai. Buddhon ko mushkil.
If the foundation of your relationship is based on physical appearance. It will also fade away with time.
nones love at first place is based without physical appearance only rare 1% chance is that a human admires an other human beings heart then get into a relationship without caring anything
@@igt2173 - Wrong
Some Based on intelligency
@@shreehari2681 that's what i told there could be many reasons to choose a partner heart wise but its very rare 90% of the times it always an attraction relationship based on looks
@Homosapien everyone is aware of that brotha😂 if people are having option then they won't hesitate to choose the best for them...
@Homosapien offcourse never denied that fact
Kudos to the guy that asked the question, it takes guts to admit what you have done ✅
30 years old .....got rejected some 6-7 times since 17 .....Never had any girl in my acquaintances.....
Already gave up...
Only advice for teenagers and early 20s boys....Just focus on your career whatever you are indulging yourself into .... Just go on and faad do...you will get many girls ..... otherwise you'll end up a loser like me who would have nothing in hand during your late 20s or early 30s -neither girl nor money not even job...... every day of your life will be a load on on...
Badi dukh bhari kahani h😂😂😂
Bhai😢 kitna dukh hai isme
bhai 🥲
Rejection is better than regret!!
I guess many people will agree on this:
Dosti ky baad pyar ho skta hy lekin...pyar ky baad dostii..NeVer!!
Agreee 100%
1000% right brother
Bhai mujhe ek ladki 1.5 saal se pasand thi kuch mahino pehle maine usse insta maanga to usne kaha me use nhi krti aur phir meri baat sunne se mana kr diya phir kuch din pehle woh dusre shahar se wapas aayi maine use kyi bar Toka bahot baat krne ki kosis ki but har time usne ignore kiya ab woh chali gyi kya me ise uska rejection samjhu ?
Still Maine use apna love express nhi kiya h ye mera sabse bada guilt h woh jo bhi samjhe sabse sad baat ye h ham bachpan k dost the lekin ab me uske liye ek stranger hu
@@AshishSingh-nj9bi isko choro bhai
Shwetabh bhai ❤️ har topic ko kya mast samjate ho 😘 lots of love big b ❤️
Vaishnav Bro you recommended me Muustach Facewash that does not work well on me My face type is normal.It itches
@@GoodBoy-wk7cd Tell me bro what side effect is done
Are mann bhai big fan🙏😍😇
Big fan bhaiiiiiiiiiiiiii
You are the great person bhaiiiiiiiiiii your thinking is too good bhai
U won't get rejected if you don't propose.....hehehehehe....modern problem modern solution 😁
Virgin chad
@Tunir Kilikdar 😂😂😂
To all saying virgin....seh lenge thoda.....jai hanuman
Yeah rather SIMP for her lol which most dudes do in India.
@Li'l Squeak MGTOW AND NOFAP MAKES YOU ULTIMATE ALPHA.
Rejection is part of the game. Game's over if you quit. Not if you restart.
Another form of love is respect
If she respect you then at one time she will definitely love you
Otherwise leave her as if she never belongs to you.
We should respect the decision of the person without any sorts of counter question. You can't force someone to be with you. Maintain your self respect & work on yourself rather than hating / having any grudges. There's a difference between infatuation & true love ( which seems to be timepass in majority of cases ) Expressing your feelings is also courageous act. Rejection is better than regretting. Become the best version of yourself without any sorts of revenge or taking it personally.
Pagal hai kya??? counter question karna banta hai... jab jaan payege ki kis karan se rejection hai tabhi toh sudhaar aayega uss cheez mein. .. pakka tum 15-23 ke beech ki age mein honge tabhi yeh non-mature response hai 😂
SV, 👍👍👍👍
Nicely summarised 😘😘
I will take it as fucking revenge I will make her regret for the whole life she rejected a guy who could love her 24x7
Ur so called gyan has no value in this age so be quiet
This bollywood song build wrong perceptions in childhood
" ladki kyu na jaane kyu ladko see nhi hoti"
Guys, before emotionally investing/asking her out... Test her to see if she is equally interested in you. If she doesn't then move on. Not every deserves your love.😁❤️
Accept it or not, now-a-days most of the guys out there don't want to propose a girl because they are afraid of friendzone, bhaizone and rejection everytime.
@@greatguy9609 don't be sad bro someone far better is waiting for u
@@binoyroy1112 shut up I am rejected after talking her after 2 months and bombarding her with feelings trying to make her feel loved but she loves her ex only I was trying to make her move on but she only wants him so i told her bye and blocked her ☺☺💔💔💔💔
@@rajivsingh472😂😂😂 bhai toh ek chara bach ta hai ki zaheer khalo
I was recently rejected by a girl btw I taken it as a source of motivation and learned a lesson.
Inteqam dekhegi😂
Bhai upsc karli fir? 👽
@@Curr3nT 😂😂😂
@@Curr3nT upsc toh nhi but cds nikal li😂
And i want to know why she. Reject me
I'm an upsc aspirant and i did my mains answer writing for 3 hours and 2 hours of current affairs will resume further after this video
Pre nikal gya?
@@adityapratapsinghparihar2057 nahi bhai is bar pre dena hai
Waah bro👍
2:58 Maine Kiya tha! Ek teacher thi Jo baar baar hamare class ke topper ko hi questions puch rahi thi, mujhe gussa aagya aur chilla ke bola - mam ek kaam karo hum sabko bahar bhejdo aur sirf isske saath class mein aaram se padhana,
Teacher was like : what? What are you saying? Are you outta your mind ??
Then suddenly whole class was like: yes mam, he's right you're only asking him questions tab mam ko realize hua ki she was doing wrong
same here 😂😂
Tution padta hoga ma'am k pass. Par uska nazar toh kahi aur tha 😁😁🤩
Bc private schools me aise teachers ki kami nahi hai
@@ankushmamgain8227 Bhai Colleges me bhi aisa hi haal hai.... Teachers Ladkiyon ko kuch zyada hi bhaav dete hain
But i don't like Somebody ask me Question
Becoz i m Not so intelligent
I'm 17 I studied for 2 hrs till now but day has not ended yet
Oh wow, that's great
I'm 17 too and I'm trying to stay on track with my studies
But I'm very confused all the time😐
M 15...me online classes ke alava...book ko chhuti bhi nahi😂😂
@@chethananair8756 Malayali Unno
I am 17 I am a programmer (java, python, dart) I have learnt flutter, Android studio and now about to finish my first application I daily program for 3-5 hrs or more (depends on my daily aim) and also learning marketing (social media) that's it.
@@HarrisRexy saale tharki 😂😂😂
Ok, I had lot of thing to burst on this topic:
When we get rejection anywhere else other than dating, we immediately rush to find the next opportunity,
but in such cases we broke out completely. The reason is simple; we abruptly begin to invest emotionally without her consent or mutual agreement.
I admit sometimes girls show some interest in the beginning, so we assume that's a green signal, & then her sudden back off makes it more harder to move on, but still you can't help it.
In reference to sir's old video: we have this system of fairness in our mind that everything should go fairly if the current circumstances are right, but then, we forget that anything can happen in life.
Even I've been through rejection lately & that's for the first time, so I can feel that pain. Hey but it's totally wrong to abuse the girl if she declines. I mean try to put yourself in her shoes (or high heels lol) & see the situation either objectively or from her perspective. What if a girl that you totally don't have any feelings, ask you out? would you accept her even if you don't find her attractive? of course not.
May be you're not that charming to her in terms of looks & other areas, so just accept that without loosing your self-esteem. You can only get the people who are equal or below of your level & that's how the life works. If you want someone who is in the upper layer of social hierarchy, then bounce yourself over there with the spring of career.
I'm not postulating that wealth & powerful status can get you any person you want, but then at least you have multiple similar choices instead of compromising with your taste.
*Aur padh liya bhosdike? ab kam kar.. mujhe report bharne he office ke.*
Last mein acha plot twist kiya but paragraph mein information kaam ki thi ☺️ thanks bhai :)
The truth is that girls always go for the best guy they can find in terms of looks ,money and status because 20-30 boys are always texting even an average girl so there is a factor of ego inflation and selecting the best mate.
@Tunir Kilikdar bro I'm professional content writer, and writing such stuff takes not more than 3 minutes on laptop.
@@animeshupadhyai4057 then there are people who don't even want a relationship...that is a total different situation... Just saying ✌🏻
@@jannavirout yeah ,even i don't want a relationship currently. I just want to focus on my career and my goals. It is not only girls who go for the best match even men do it if they are in a situation like that they will pick the hottest or most beautiful girl. Basically due to gender ratio being screwed in india women have more power over men because girls are less in number and honestly even men act like losers texting every other girl. Basically humans are superficial but ofcourse ther are exceptions to everything.
much needed video, don't take this on yourself, you ask she denies, and also don't waste time in the friendzone that will make you feel more pathetic, just move on, you will meet the right person at the right time, focus on your dreams.
I asked her she said no i didnt even ask why was that no
This is not a fairytale
It's not fairytale though
Ego is the main problem which causes more problems and conflicts in one's life.
If we just Re think the situation by keeping our ego aside, we will see the situation by a better vision
♥️♥️
How to do that?
@@karannnnnnnnnn6895 Just by treating the other person( say your friend) as same as you treat your brother/sister or a family member if you fight at any point.
@@karannnnnnnnnn6895 by looking at things objectively
Finally a guy who knows simping for female doesn't make sense :D
This channel works for me as a mentor, not because of his behaviour but because of his skill to think neither emotionally nor practically but logically, his book is actually one of the books i have ever read, making me think about what was i doing with my life till now
I'm 16(going to be 17 this month) and I want to say this that sir please don't ever quit youtube, we the youth of India need you a lot
And lots of love from my side,keep doing this work,your work inspires a lot of your viewer
G for girl friend ❌
G for Goal ✔️
i am proud of my self 😊😊 maine apni crush ko krib 6-7 saal baad propose kiya..usne reject kr diya. but i said...i respect you and i respect your decision,
Good brother 🔥
@@pulkitsingh9944 thanks bro.😊
@@jasvirsingh4071 bro today I say my crush I love you and she say look at my slippers it is horrible
Aur aj hum reject marte hai 🙏🏻🤣😂
@@IamXenorex 😂🤣
If you get rejected by someone move on don't look back there is always someone better out there who will accept you
Never propose a girl if rejected it hurts,
I always prefer to ask her out , even if rejected doesn't hurt.
Thank you so much Shwetabh Bhai 💙. Worked on building machine learning applications for like 5hrs and now I'll be switching to flutter development. But took a break for 15mins and I am here listening to your videos. Been heartbroken recently and started watching your videos. It was lockdown period and I had no one for a discussion, to seek help or even talk to. Thank you for being there (even tho it's para-social relationship).
Thank You Bhaiya..I have hardly found any person on youtube who tell you the reality of love or relationship.Everybody is just telling us all kind of bullshit and confuse us.I found you a right person who talks reality and remove this relationship bullshit from the mind of the people.1000 thanks to you
i like your introduction or bhai or behen kese kaam kar rhe h ya nhi ....bas itni si line sunke Motivation mil jaata hu or ise sunne ke baad maine kal 10 hours approx padhai kari apni life ke liye apne time ka yogdaan diya ... thanks..
Sir jab se aapka video deekhna start kiya hu tab se padhai jayada krne lge hm thanks for it...
Perfect perspective to seeing rejection 💯
This man is helping alot of women out there. Thanks man. Love you.
Men not women 😂
Right Shwetabh, this is one place I agree with feminism, she has the right to reject you, she isn't in any obligation or the guy shouldn't feel entitled that she has to reply back or say yes to her, its her choice and if she feels she is attracted to you then she will accept you, at the same time, girls shouldn't also be feeling entitled or put any obligation towards the guy that he should like her back as well ...both have equal rights ... when someone rejects you, they don't know you completely, they reject some idea of you, not you completely....dont seek someones approval become better not bitter ..
🚫I'm not a subscriber of alpha Man🚫
I'm a member of *Mensutra*🤟
alpha m is so dumb with around 6 million subscribers
sPIcY sENoRiTaS !
The real deal is Darius m. He may sound mysogynist to you but he is not. He spits some bitter truths about female nature.
I am. Actually. Just to get to know the various fashion styles😎
@@arpangupta2162 dhyan se dekhoge toh shwetabh jyada chutiya lagega.. coz he's repeating same old bs since few years
He must be prayed. He's God gifted
Aaj maine
3hr:--phy
3hr:--maths
2hr:--chem
And 1hr everyday for the rudest book ever....
Khatarnaak 👍
perfecto!
When u wake up bruh
Jungle m mor nacha kisne dekha😅
Bhai , 3 bje jag ke kaam krne lag gya tha kya
Conclusion - generalization about others and oversimplication about urself is injurious to health
TRUE.Oversimplification about urself and the world is what makes humans stupid.
Haha yes.
So true
Ladkiya toh hoti hi useless sab reject kardeti meko toh kyu na karu hate
A fan from Hyderabad..
Where in Hyderabad bro?
Mehdipatnam🙋♂️
Lingampalli
Love from India,Nepal
Me too
Studied quantum computing algo for 10hr today thanks a lot shwetabh bhai for motivating the youth and making them move in right direction.
Life is mess now but still Going to study hard just studied only for an hour..
A new day, a new beginning
everything will be fine don't worry
It's good that you're honest about the fact that you studied only for an hour. Some people lie on social platforms. Keep it up.
Just completed the Audiobook on Audible. Loved it. A must-read (or listen) for anyone who wants to add value to their life.
Did html in 2 days.. started css yesterday..goal: next javascript then complete front end web development
Then: learn python and complete backend development
Nice I was reading the comments to c if anyone has actually written wt they have done....👍
@@gagankompala8423 thats good
starting JavaScript today
*B R U H*
From where are you learning all these, even i would like to learn.
Exactly!! People try to vent out where they can, rejection handle krna aana chahye..
People have their own criteria, venting out mean you are weak and not good enough..
But not taking rejection on ego is being mature..
Simple avoid women stay away from women life will be peaceful
Somtimes the person loves you and you know that the problem is when you propose her she rejects you...and that time u will surprise of her behavior...
We are living in an imperfect world rejection is obvious in our Iives.
What if I read Bhagwat Geeta to make my self better. Is it a productive work?
Definitely
Obviously
..
Binod
Read one by sirla praphupad because it changed my life...
yes, if you understand those sentences and take it as a life lesson not as a religious one
Yeah
Treat others the way you expect them to treat you..
That's the simpler formula
Its her choice...... simple brothers😂😂😂
Aap pure emotions ke saath samjhaane ki koshish kar rahe ho... That's beautiful.. ☺
Aaj maine apne aap par kaam kiya hai maine ek jagah par apni weaknesses and strength likh li hai or me uspar work kar raha hu love your work.
1k likes in just less than 10 minutes.
this is the real power of mensutra troops
Not troops. Titans . We are an army where the troops are as dope as titans.
Actually, I remember each & every word of Chapter 2 from The Rudest Book Ever! & I'll keep that chapter in my mind forever!
#Rejections Are Normal
woke up at 5 started studying at sharp 530 now eating food s break for half an hour plus watching your video after this will watch the beast mode video ,abhi pora din padaa hia distractions ke ese teese ,thanks bhaii for making me a beast again
I was rejected by a boy
I cried a lot
But I didn't scold him
Neither I like anyone else to speak anything ill about him
Still I feel bad bcz I loved him for last 6 yrs he also he didn't showed respect for me
Why do you think he should respect about your one side feeling? He owns you nothing. At least he showed respect by clearly declining your feelings rather than playing with it. Move on. Honest rejections are always good. And don't expect he will come back.
You deserve it.
Subha 5 baje uttha workout kiya...new Video ke liye script likkha fir abhi shoot complete karke editing kar raha tha.... Fir ek green screen video liye youtube pe aya fir apka video dekha aur abhi wo dekh raha hun......
8 hours nonstop work in lab🤟🏽, you’re awesome Shwetabh 👌
I played my guitar 3hrs yesterday
Could've done more but my fingers were hurting
What did you play?
Good to see fellow guitarists on this channel as well! 🤘
@@shwetank49 I was playing demons by image dragons arranged by Gareth Evans
@Alakh Gange 🤘
@Oggy thanks that helped.
Best teachers-
1- Sandeep Maheshwari
2-Sadhguru
3-Shwetabh Gangwar
4-Salil jamdar
1.shwetabh 4. Sandeep
@@Amirsingh76 totally agreed 👍👍
A huge Fan from Kolkata..have already read ur book 3 times..but still there is lot yet to be explored,realized..thanks a lot sir...
"THE RUDEST BOOK EVER"
it's just nothing but Bible for me🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Watching the video at 1:P.M, I've studied for 6.5 hours and will complete my target of 12 hours a day,still having a lot of things in Physics and Chemistry to do.
Thank you
There is a line smaid by Sandeep Maheshwari : hume gussa ata ni h hum. karte h. We don't show anger on elders like our father. However, we show anger on our mother. Kamjor par gussa dikhate h karte h aur phir kahte h ki gussa ajata h ... Reality is we can control our anger easily. I have been able to do it and its now my second nature. Instead gusse wale emotion ko channelise karke nae perspective se soche to bahut maja ata h ...
For me... It's opposite... I don't become angry on my mom.... But i do on my father ...
I was dumped last year by a girl who was my girlfriend for 3 years.... She humiliated me to the core when she left me......
I thought ki ye sacha pyar ae..... After that I realised how much time I wasted for someone who dumped me at last.
Then I saw your video .... It changed my whole perspective and I started working hard since then and now I learnt a lot of skills over an year and I am happy I found your videos which show me practical points instead of being emotional and destroying my time
Now recently I also created my own youtube channel to discuss about goals and building self discipline in life ..... Wish I grow too.
Wish you success
@@sm0000 thanks bro .... I ll give efforts
Aaj maine
4 hrs: Phy
1 hrs: maths
but the game is still on🔥🔥🔥
Keep Hustling Dude 🔥
Awesomeee
JEE ki tayyiyari ?
Kon sa videos dekha share karo link zaroori hai
Physics nhi hota vaii mere se meko bio chem acha lgta h physics interesting to lgta h but implementation k time jab solution nhi kar pata to m demotivate ho jata hu ...humse naa ho payega physics :(
Shewtab bhai just your official virtual hearts ... makes my day among top best
Ego is love, ego is life😂😂.
❤❤bhai dil ki baat kehe di
You don't need to be great to START
But make no mistake
You have to start in order to be GREAT
IF YOU WANT TO KNOW WHY SHOULD YOU STOP MAKING TIMETABLES
YOU CAN HAVE A VISIT
THANKS
Your logical knowledge is too good bro ❤️
M waiting for the second book from this guy .. I completed reading the rudest book ever twice & I recommend you people to read it once at least. It will definitely help you clear you mind
I think 2 years ago, i first time face breakup and after 1 day i watch your videos... And it helps me alot.....thank you and congratulations for 1 million subscribes...
It help me to see others point of view...
If a person harshly rejects you & humiliates u in front of u .
Yaa it happened with me
Don't go into situations where you can get rejected. Simple.
The women here who are saying one should handle rejection can't handle rejection themselves because they have a larger ego than men. All men should have a tad bit of self respect because rejection comes in many forms. Nowadays rejection with humiliation is the trend. As most people can handle rejection like we do in interviews but the interviewer seldom humiliate us. Women don't face such a thing because men don't humiliate. I personally never got humiliated but I have seen very good guys getting humiliated by girls for simply asking them out. If the roles were reversed I am sure we will hear/read about a suicide or something dramatic. The society has this expectation from men to handle humiliation with grace. We all have egos but only people who know how humiliation feels can weigh in on this. Dear ladies your "handle rejection" appeal is pretty flawed as you dear princess never faced any. Men face rejection every day in some form or the other. Stop comparing. You guys might be good in many things but handling rejection is something you can never understand. It's like if I tell you how having a menstrual cycle feels like. I don't have a fucking clue. Same way you have no clue how it feels. So shut the fuck up. I've heard girls say stuff like "How did he reject me ?" "he is probably gay how can he reject me ?"
The sheer arrogance in these statements put everything in perspective.
While most of what you said is statistically true and toxic, there are definitely non-instagram women (fat, dark, not genetically blessed, lower class etc) who do face humiliating rejections for daring to propose to guys who are 'above their league'. Those who ask a guy out like that will also be seen as more sexually forward and easy, which is something women try to avoid, which also affects the rejection statistics :D But in traditional settings they will get rejected many times during arranged marriage match making, lol ...its such a common thing that we even have popular ads on it celebrating the idea of a girl getting matches after applying fair and lovely.
>>"How did he reject me ?" "he is probably gay how can he reject me ?"
I have been rejected by a man very harshly ,he humiliated in front of everyone .He made fun of me.
I was completely traumatized due to that.
Even men brag about how they rejected a girl.
It's both way.
It is a thing that I did because of ego when I was teen but then realise its wrong you should respect decision of that girl
i m.upsc aspirant prelims is approaching n m studying 14 hrs per day thanks to u bhaiya for motivating me now m enjoying my study alot n targetting top 50 rank 🤩🤩
Bhai best of luck. 👍👍👍
Bro studying 14 hours a day, you will get burnout within a week. Watch roman saini's videos. You should study 6-8 hours with focus
@@adarshchandra_ no bro its all depend ur dedication towards ur goal and m taking break every 2 hrs of study n just for 5 months it is then if i clear the exam these 5 months burnout will give me outcomes of lifetime🤩😊
Humko vi Thora tips dedo kaise maintain kr lete ho 14 hrs humko vi dedo kuch suggestions mera neet clear ho jayega :(
Best wishes!
Really helped thank you sir. I mean you're more of a bro but i want to give you the respect for the maturity.
Kaam kiya bhai maine. Ancient India and Geology ki padhai kari. Alarm wala technique with "I-111" Revision Method. Thanks Shwetabh Sir.
Nobody:
Me: trying to write a relateable comment to get likes
ye bhi copy karle, lodu
@AYANA Bhatt Aaya na Bhatt dopamine niklega Bhai ka
@@suraj7562 😂😂😂😂👌👌👌👌👌 arey Bhai Bhai Bhai Bhai
@AYANA Bhatt Aaya na Bhatt
Rukk bhatt ko bulata ayega wo.
Hey bhatt.
Dekh
ayaa na bhatt
@@chihuhahuana4863 😂😂😂😂😂
I am glad to know that I also had the same opinion in these cases for a long time even before watching you.
I got rejected today 😔
Thanks bhai, i don't care now..
Its time to move on 😊
😁 have you moved on ???
Cause',
After rejection :
• Girl after 1 day - 😭
• Girl at day 31 - 🙋🏽
After rejection :
• Boy after 1 day - 🙂
• Boy after 2 days - 🥲
• Boy after 3 days - 😢
• Boy after 4 days till date of death - 😭
Same happened with me. She didn't rejected but she said now she is not into these things. She had past experiences and those were bad for her. And now she don't want to be in relationship
Should I consider it as a rejection?
@@mihiragarwal move on bro because i did 😊, ignore her and you'll get the girl that loves you .
i got rejected too she said i have a boyfriend don't even think about us. i just simply replied i was sharing my feelings thanks for replying, thanks for clarifying . then i blocked her deleted our chats
ready to move on
You are not my Hero!
But,
You definitely are great Teacher for Me and people like Myself.
When she rejects my burden is gone
Exactly bro
Us
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Is it available in pakistan?
@@AmanKumar-wt6ne bruh🤣🤣that was not required 🤣
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Surreal, I told a girl yesterday that I like her after 11 yrs and she declined..
This video helps. But I took it quite decently. I am going to ask again with a better version of me if I get a chance.
Bro don't ask again just walk away nd have self respect . Don't beg for love 😊
@@ayushgarg6069 definitely your point is correct. I am assessing the scenario, if I like someone so much for so long may be I can try again, I will take a shot I want her.
But have to okay with the outcome either ways. A bit of hurting is involved but it's not a defeat in life. Will be a good experience.
Some can call it chutiyapa which is people's opinion, but I can always try if not winning at every ask in life.
Thanks for addressing the comment section. I have noticed in the comment section in one of your videos on friendzone. It was particularly vile.
Main v reject hua hoon but us ladki ne badi respect se naa kaha.That is important.
Mai aaj khud first time kisi ko propose kara aur usne reject kardiya, she said usko studies jyada Imp h aur in sab me ni padhna chahti
Same yaarrr😢
comments in his videos are equally as interesting as his words✌✌✌✌.....
Shwetabh Sir Congratulations for 1 million...
Ek reply se mooh mitha karado😁
@@shivamchoudhary9522 mene kab copy kiya bhai tujhe??
@@shivamchaudhary2710 you copied my name
@@shivamchaudhary2710 Han ye toh galat bat hai bhai , kisi ka name copy nhi krte ese😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rejections Create Legends
Thoda Thoda male ego ko chida raha tha par true words hai.
Or kharid k padho 🤣💥its super line
I was rejected by the girl who lives just in front of my 🏠 house in 2019 when I was in 12th standard but I'm still maintaining a friendship with her. Anyhow and we have to act according to the situation. That's it.
Damn bro...she friendzoned you
Well that's not the point, the thing is I can't run away from there.
If you have feelings for her then cut off the friendship. Then you will just be a friend for the wrong reasons and your self esteem will keep getting crushed.
If you have no feelings at all then it's okay but in most cases it's the former.
You can't be friends with someone whom you have felling for.. It will haunt you, hurt you more.. Don't be friend.. Don't talk.. Being friend only give you hope that someday she will like you.. But truth is she won't.. So move on.. Don't stuck in this friendship things.. Make things clear that you can't be friend with her & i guess she will understand your situation..
@@rohitkrishnamanandhar9361 that's truth
I just got rejected by a girl I have liked for months. I feel like I have made a complete fool out of myself. I feel like shit and dont know where to do now. I am scared of facing her again. Tonight's gonna to be hard man
Stop handing your control of self esteem to other people in a gift. Beautiful girls can be really toxic.😌
It is the rule of the jungle man. Hot girls get a lot of attention,they have a lot of options so they will only go for the man who is best for them in terms of looks or money or status.
'Can be' and does that mean u should become toxic too I guess not
@@orion615 no u shouldn't be toxic, all i am saying is that they are not gods whose judgments on someone is final and consequential. Also looks have nothing to do with personality.
And that toxic stuff is so infectious.
@@h34lth01 most women look beautiful. Studies prove it is infact women who have a higher standards of looks in men. While most men find almost all women attractive.
*Basir Badr* sir told us long ego with his writings
अभी राह में कई मोड़ हैं कोई आएगा कोई जाएगा
तुम्हें जिस ने दिल से भुला दिया उसे भूलने की दुआ करो