You don't know how of a great help you are to stop the obsession and not letting go of our twin flames, Kurt. I am so grateful that your channel has been recommended to me by youtube. You have helped me overcome my dark night of the soul and now I am happy and free. Nobody is triggering me now because I have moved on from him. Suddenly, I no longer long for him but I was not sure what happened to me. Hahaha Thank you thank you thank you, Kurt! Love and light! 🥰💖 I thank the Universe so much for leading me to this channel.
Hi all - I don’t usually pop on to Kurt’s channel anymore - as I’m one of his students and no longer watch the tarot readings etc as I don’t want to or need to watch them anymore. But I was guided to come here and leave a message in case it helps just one other person. I have learnt from experience that what Kurt teaches works - this journey is about yourself - finding “your true self” - not about the “other self” (your TF). I know it’s hard to hear that it’s not all about a beautiful romantic journey - I hated learning that part! Still do at times. But the reason I’m posting this today - if you don’t do this work on yourself - then yes your TF will keep coming back in (maybe) but they will also keep triggering the F#*% out of you and you’ll keep getting hurt and they will keep running. It took me quite a few years of the rollercoaster ride to finally focus on myself - like “really focus” and Kurt’s course really helped me to feel better. Now - I won’t lie - the universe is still creating triggers for me to help assist me balance - but I now have tools and skills to get me back on track to work through these triggers when they happen and they don’t last anywhere the amount of time they used to - unlike the past where I’d continually be in one. No Kurt has not asked me to post this - but his course has definitely helped. I learned if you don’t focus on yourself then the universe will push you to a point where you have no option other than focusing on yourself. Save yourself that pain and focus on you today - love to you all ❤️
Thanks for posting 👍, thats why they call it a FORCED spiritual awakening, "your" soul will drag you forcefully and painfully , to embrace this awakening,. whether you like it or not, the harder you resist it ,the deeper the pain. Save time, and take this awakening and run away with it as fast as you can, what is this Kurt student saying is true and not a joke, start watching Eckhart Tolle videos every day, meditate everyday consistently, and never look back, this is not normal addiction to your twin flame, they trigger the hell out you😭 , hope this helps to other people❤️
Is it still possible to grow on twin flame journey without coaching?(I'm broke and wanting to use free stuffs as much as possible) (I dunno if it's stupid question but I really need an answer to this)
You are so entertaining, especially when you’re describing the obsessive thinking😂 I nearly die from laughing each time you do that…bc I can totally relate🤣😩
Your videos bring me so much peace Kurt. Suffering is all in the mind. When I got blocked I had no choice but to clearly witness and experience my ego. I descended into my heart space and I found my soul there. I realized what the ego had done up to that point throughout my life, and recognized that it no longer serves me on this journey. I thanked it, and now when my mind wants control, I remind it that its presence is recognized but not useful. I can actually feel simultaneous incarnation now without the blockage. We have always been and will always be. I can live fully with or without simultaneous incarnation. It's only ego that failed to recognize our freedom to live in whatever expresses itself in the 3D. As Echkart Tolle points out, there is no lack. Thank you.
Fucking hell you are so spot on mate! I’m now in the happy if they do or don’t stage but man it took a good few months to get to here. The obsessive thinking made me drop 10kg!! Great video kurt!
I don’t want to share too much detail but I started to google what I was experiencing then I ended up on Reddit😂 I kept seeing the term “ twin flame “ appear. I knew absolutely nothing about this topic. Once I started to become more curious, I started to delve. Some facts online have been somewhat similar but the way you describe it makes a ton of sense, I’ve watched over 6 of your videos over the span of 2-3 days, and the one sign I have not heard anyone on social media mention is the PULLING! You mention dark night of the soul, exactly what I went through when he was nowhere to be found. This guy has my facial features, he has my spiral curly hair! It’s freakin insane! Shortly after locking eyes with him, and briefly speaking to him my spiritual awakening occurred. You are certainly underrated! I’m so glad I found your channel, you are one brilliant individual! You are very appreciated!
The obsessive thinking is freakin weird. I am 31, I have not ever in my whole life thought about anyone this much! I did notice the more I gravitate towards him, the more he pulled away. Once I start to let it go, I noticed he comes around me more and purposely. We do NOT TALK WHATSOEVER! Ugh the facts you provide are astounding!
The way I cried watching because of the accuracy I love this sm Kurt I felt like I was heard and understood 😭 love your tf videos they help immensely 🫶🏻
Exactly, I was insane. I must have shed 10,000 tears. Thank God I weened myself off of it. But yeah, my eyes kept dripping like a fuaset. Never weeped so much in my life. I love that girl.
This stuff didn’t make sense until I started watching you. Nothing I did worked. I started watching your free content and the Samadhi videos, and he reached out the next day. Fell back into the ego and I didn’t hear anything for a week. Went back to my soul work and he ended up coming to see me at my job. Back story, I used to be a massage therapist and he was my client. Didn’t understand the connection, just thought it was attraction. He ran like a bat out of hell and I couldn’t forget about him. When I was his MT I would spend hours working on him and not feel tired or bored. It was something different about working on him. I figured it out when I did the massage. It’s not like massaging another person. It’s like massaging my soul in a different body. I didn’t get tired doing a 3 hours massage because it was self care.🤯 He also commented that he’s gotten massage from other people and it didn’t feel the same. I now have an innerstanding. Thank you Kurt! You ARE the world’s best TF coach!
Omg you have just explained what happened to me......3 weeks of bliss literally never felt anything like it ever. We were both overwhelmed with our connection we could not eat, sleep it was out of this world. Suddenly 3 weeks later he was so overwhelmed he kept crying & ran. I literally had a breakdown 😳 I literally could not believe my reaction. I am in the dark Knight bit at the moment. Been in bed for a few days now. I have lost weight. Finding this helps explain what I am going through. I knew the minute I met him he was my twin flame. Numbers constantly 1111, 2222, Thank you for explaining this to me 💜
All 5 definitely happened to me, including the doubt! I’m happy to say though I’m finally starting to not feel that same obsessive way towards him, I even have him only cross my mind a few times a day and kind of just brush it off now. I have been working hard to focus on myself and be present! Although I have to work on being present more often and work on my ego. I had a relapse about a month ago where I pined for him again, and went straight back to listening to Eckart Tolle on audio, and am feeling better, thinking about other things in my life. The journey is painful, but I’m so happy to know the truth about my whole existence, I mean my whole life I wondered what the purpose was!
I am a true twinflame and In full union with my counterpart and you explain the whole journey accurately. I hope that true twins who are struggling to follow your guidance. You are 100 spot on with everything. I unfortunately had no help and learned on my own over the past 3 years and eventually just got it. I say my twin and I are highly favored and blessed to have overcome. I started out lost and received alot of misinformation along the way. I want all true twinflames to hopefully find you and break the code with your help.
If you go within yourself. It’s like they are still there somewhere deep. It’s like no matter how hard you try a little part of them still exist. My tf said we needed a break and to contact them in 6 months.
You are first person who is talking the truth, what really happens, not on superficial & fairy tale level. Thank You. I relate with you so much. This was most mind-spirit-heart boggling. It makes you devasted inside-out.
Everything you say I’m going through. I even talk to my soul and my brain to stop thinking. I tried to get busy and it still sneaks. I'll be hanging out with my family and I would say “stop, enough” in front of them 😂😂 feeling like a lunatic. It keeps on invading my mind. It makes me sick just thinking about it how much we go through. I guess I'm still on the dark night of the soul. What a journey!! Now, I'm detaching myself, deleting his number, and his photos, and throwing away the stuff that would remind me of him. Oh Lord, have mercy... 🙏🙏
OMG yes it's true... and now that I remember my ego death I get shivers. Thank God it's over. Apparently my DM is having a sort of ego death too... but I almost don't care anymore, I'm focused on me, which feel fabulous... ❤ much love from Italy
This seems a bit odd to me to not care anymore. I wonder if I will feel the same. This experience has already sort of messed up my life, but I am hoping for greater outcome in the end.
I knew it! lol Friends are saying he’s not the one, he doesn’t respond, he’s unreliable etc etc. But I know that he knows something weird is going on. We are at a distance, met once, boom! We have never even been together but it’s not like anything else I’ve experienced and I’m in my 50s and so is he. We talk to each other about things like we have been in a proper relationship for ages, and I think what am I saying?! Lol And he doesn’t run away when I’d think that he would, but it’s a bloody roller coaster of emotions. I lost 10kgs in the first couple of months of meeting, I felt sick all the time. Couldn’t eat. It’s bizarre indeed. Thanks for this video, it’s helping clarify.
Thanks Kurt ! I was having a pain in my heart that I thought I was going to have a heart attack after a few weeks breakup of a 9 months relationship , I saw number 444 4x in one day and did a search on Pinterest, not sure how but you came up on a video and I signed up for your course within a few weeks after watching your free content on RUclips, it has been 6 months, I am using the tools and it is a Journey, the True Spiritual Journey
When you are able to love yourself and be your higher self your twin feels that energetically sometimes they experience it as dark night of the soul. The spiritual epiphany is that the soul can experience not only separate versions of itself but at the same time feel the soul in it's entirety. And the balance between the two varies on the split before birth. Calibrating that balance is what we know the dark night of the soul which is literally growing pains for the soul. Andddd.... I'm trying not to freak out 😭😭😭
When I met my other self online (long distance), we interacted a few times through a call (and video games) but we were still complete strangers for a couple of months. I didn't care about them until I had some spiritual dream where we were together-together, and when we hugged, i felt this burst of energy pouring out of my heart chakra opening which was a huge giveaway that this was no ordinary dream and that there was something special about this person. I woke up and was like "Huh...who is this person??" My other self and I were still complete strangers but I suddenly experienced the dark-night-of-the-soul and the obsessive thinking kicked in. Like wtf is going on?? I don't even know this person but why all of a sudden do I care so much?? She didn't want to interact with me (I guess that's when I started "chasing" and she was "running"). It was awful. Felt the lowest I've ever been in my entire life. Distracted myself by starting a tik-tok hobby - which ironically, when I was at my lowest, I was at my peak and most successful on tik tok. Gained a bunch of followers and hundreds and thousands of views - which didn't really mean much to me tbh cause I was still obsessed with this person. After 4 months, we eventually became friends - and somewhat close. This is when the "bubble phase" happened. Felt like a fairy-tale moment. She was obsessed with me and wanted my attention all the time. It was great. Till 4 weeks passed and they "disappeared" and stop interacting with me. Found out through their social-media story they were going on dates with another person. I was pretty heartbroken to see that but I had no choice but to move on. I didn't know about energy at the time but I pulled my energy back and decided to move on. That's when my other self came back the next day and wanted my attention again. I actually had this inner-knowing she was coming back the next day but didn't know how to explain it. Since we're long distance we interact online a lot through playing video games together. It's pretty funny when my other self will play the same game with their "partner/BF/situation-ship" or whatever label u wanna call it, but will leave/ditch them and choose to play with me instead. I was confused why she was doing that.... all I did at the time was pull my energy back, took the focus off of them and not care and they would message me out of the blue. Eventually came across Twin Flames. Eventually came across Kurt's RUclips channel a year later. It has changed my life for the better. Although I would say my life was pretty good before but my other self had to come into my life to shake it up and trigger my spiritual awakening. Gotta drop the narrative although it is pretty fun experiencing the story. Being present/zen is an amazing feeling. I'm getting better at it.
Were you seeing numeric synchronicities? Feeling familiar or were there noteworthy differences between the both of you? Just wondering because I'm fascinated
@@alfseca Being long distance and not even being close to friends at all, it was pretty horrible because I didn't know why I was obsessively thinking of this person. At the time I thought becoming friends with her was how I would get answers. Thought we were soulmates - since that's the term most people know of ...but I lots of doubts, and it shouldn't be that hard...? This one event stood out to me that there was definitely a connection between us. This one day I was thinking in my head of some quote... it was a really random quote too and later that night, I saw my other self use the same exact quote for their Instagram caption. It was worded just a little different but I was really shocked, like wtf?? Is this coincidence or what's going on?? Eventually we became friends. I kinda kept trying by inviting her to my lobby in an online game. She thought my friend group was cool because we joke around a lot. That's when she became interested playing with us and wanted to know more about me - always asking questions about my life. Always wanting to play online together at night (good times). I thought we were different based on what I saw on their socials, but I realized that we were VERY similar. We have a childhood bestfriend with the same name, we have similar interests in shows, we've seen the same shows, we played the same online games. We traveled to the same places in the world when we were kids. Our personalities and the way we talk is very similar - we use the same tone when we joke around...the slight differences we have is because our gender. In our calls, we would often say the same sentences at the same time. We would sometimes message each other at the same time if we ever saw each other online. It happened a few times so she pointed it out and asked why it kept happening. I mean...obviously I know why, but there's no way to explain it them without them "running" afterwards. We're a pretty good duo/tag team in this online game we play. I had communication issues with other friends, like sometimes we aren't on the same page...but sometimes that's what makes it fun. The most reliable partner I've had was my other self. We just naturally click. Our teamwork is pretty good. I'm not sure how the telepathy works between us but it seems I sometimes don't need to vocalize what I want done, I just think of it...and they just seem to know what I want to do. It's honestly fun playing with them. I've come to realize that I can't be friends with my other self (for the time being...or ever) because I need to focus on my spiritual journey. Had too many ups and downs in the last year and it was not worth it. Decided to cut off communications with my other self. Didn't tell them anything, I just started ghosting them. I've become way happier and better when I took the focus and energy off of them and back onto me. I think this affected my other self when they noticed I was ghosting them. I noticed her habits started changing (less motivated) and their physical appearance started to change within three weeks - huge weight gain (she's a small person so it was a drastic change within three weeks). So if it was my energy and obsessive thinking that was boosting her ego or whatever....well it's my energy and I need it for my self 🤷🏼♂
@@hai3448 Intriguing and yet saddening. TF share lots of love. They probably miss you a lot. I hope you both find the spiritual knowledge you have been seeking and come together one day. Love and Light, my friend.
I had a similar dream myself too 🤯 that we were together and he took my hand in his and hugged me, that touch created such a strong flow of white energy between us that 💥 in my whole body.. Felt it so powerfull that woke me up instantly.. 🤯
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your helpful videos Kurt ☺️🙏. I met my TF about 3 years ago and shortly thereafter I found myself in the dark night of the soul and obsessive thinking accompanied me. It was a long, painful process. There were phases when I thought I had overcome it and then she appeared to me in my dreams with different messages..the last one (3 days ago) was for me a beautiful dream in which she said that she loves me,but she is still fighting and can't yet..in reality I met her and she asked for my number, but I haven't heard from her yet. .I'm at the point where I know she's a part of me and always will be, no matter if it shows on the outside or not..thank you for your work and your friendly manner Kurt... 🌻🌺
Well now I know I wasn't crazy 😂 I could NOT for the life of me understand the obsession. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, snapped at everyone, cried all the time, stopped working and just went into a funk like I've never done before. I went through all the human motions without feeling anything. And I couldn't tell this to my family so I just screamed into my pillow. I was made aware very early on to our meeting that this was a twin flame relationship, before meeting him I had no clue what it was. And while I was always into astrology and tarot, I was NEVER this spiritual. I changed. I completely changed as a person. I became calmer, more centered and started to love myself, focused on my growth. I went through Ascension, suffered the physical symptoms, and just turned into a different version of myself. Your video is truly truly a great help for twin flames, for true twin flames I might add. I'm not over the obsession entirely, I still constantly think of him, I dream of him almost every night, but it's not as bad and it's not as painful (on most days). We are in contact as of now but went through a no contact phase some time back. I don't think he's spiritually awakened as me, and don't even know if he ever will. But I'm going to keep working on myself and get to a place where the need isn't this obsessive or painful
Immediate subscribe as I became speechless no joke woah!! I've always loved tarot but lately past month I've been nonstop obsessing about tarot, work(job), and staying home. My twin flame is at work. He sees me and I see him. I get frustrated when he doesn't acknowledge me and I know he does when I don't acknowledge him. I FEEL IT. body language says so. Body language, in my eyes, is understood to be the true signs because our souls can't resist completely hiding what we truly feel inside no matter what we do or say. I do suppress my soul's wants and needs when I'm around him and it's confusing though I completely resonate with it because my mental and analyticalness of me overrides my wants and needs often. This topic of twin flames has become so direct and aware more than everrr in my life. Much appreciation to you and your overall message. Prosper on 🤙❤️
i can feel your sincerity to help about this journey Kurt! hands down to you. again much blessings for you and the rest of your colleagues on this career. Maraming Salamat! 🙌🙏✨🍀from🇵🇭🤍
Thank you very much Mr. Kurt, I am really happy to hear this, the explanation so clear for me, now I understand what happen to me, keep teaching us, for the right and goodness, God bless you
This reading was so funny and true like OMG everything you said you was doing I have been doing for over 20 years in and out like why do I want you so bad.... It never goes away. They say just stay busy and you won't think about them. All day while I'm working before I go to sleep when I wake up. I'm just like this is insane and weird. Correct😂😂 not too mention him being my first and my first love.... That made it even more intensifying.
Broke up with one guy and had a mini identity crisis , didn’t see synchronicities or angel numbers until a couple months later when I met another oh and twin flames stuff popped up everywhere. Took me a year to figure out who was the twin, the first was a catalyst soulmate, we were so similiar there were a lot of syncs, bdays and such. But the second is my soul🦋
I occasionally watch your videos and enjoy your content - especially “signs” videos. I listen and by the end I remember Tolle’s books - particularly ‘A New Earth’ and his continuous use of the word ‘maybe’. It brings a smile to my face. Thanks, Kurt. ✨
I do resonate with this... my "twin flame" and I are not romantic at all... not saying we don't sort of like each other or had some level of attraction at some point... but it was never romantic, never even dated, never even kissed... and all I know I was suddely thinking so much about him to the point I felt I was going insane loooooong before hearing the term "twin flames"... like I went crazy for a full year before knowing what was going on. Thank you for speaking this truth. I could never fully believe in couples or anybody else at all... sometimes you look at those people in the eyes and there's something scary and you know something is off... so yeah, we don't know what to believe and it's painful, lonely... nobody else gets it... thank you for saying these things openly and honestly
Kurt, I’ll admit it- I stopped watching you shortly after using your videos to realize I had met my twin flame. There were moments where I was so certain he’d come back to be with me- at one point, when I’d finally met a woman who appears to be my soulmate, he even rushed back in asking me to be together, on the condition he was looking for a lifelong relationship to take slowly (we were raised in radically different homes with different beliefs about sex and marriage.) I’m back three years later and just want to tell anyone else reading this, LISTEN TO KURT. That ego death is NO JOKE. He’s the real deal, much as I hated to admit it for a while there! I believe it’s true that your twin flame is not really a lover-unbelievable synchronicities even now when we live totally separate lives. I’m in the north and he’s in the south; Our careers run parallel and even intertwine in weird ways; he will randomly call me up and tell me things that my soul recognizes from my own dreams. It’s the least romantic yet loving connection… as I ‘fell out of love’ with my twin, the dark night of the soul gave way to a new dawn. I’m noticing that his “blessings” and mine seem to come along in pairs, just as surely as the obsession and confusion once did.
I totally agree with you Kurt. Everything you described happened to me,even the knowing and doubting.We've never been in a relationship.We had been sharing our feelings through a third party until he ran away for good.Healing balancing,nothing worked for me..It's definitely our spiritual journey.
you're so hilarious and relatable! Signed up months ago and been listening to all the audio books you recommended.... will come back soon for the live chats and private FB group! Been busy over the summer - had some cool shit happen which totally proves your theory. The slight backfire is that I now know it works which makes me excited and triggers the obsessive thinking again! See you soon!
ps I see repeating numbers on my clock multiple times every day, like 11:11, 12:12, 13:13, 14:14 - no idea what that means but I notice it constantly. Same with road numbers, car regs, time on videos etc.... weird!
Best explanation however you always say that it’s a handful of weeks with the twin flame but mine was 11 months and then he ran away, during the times that we kept trying we had lots of triggering going on within the relationship,, when he left it was abrupt everything else you describe is exactly correct. In fact of all the descriptions of twin flame signs ,, yours was the one that confirmed the most as far as my doubts of whether he was my twin flame or not,, so in essence, he is my twin flame. so thank you so much for what you do 💖
YUUUPPP. Met mine in June. We had a magical whole month together lol. Then he moved away… to a different country. UGHHHHH. It hurt. For so long. I even tried to convince myself that he was a soulmate not my TF. I even asked God to send me a feather if he is my TF and BOOM it happened. I’m finally almost out of the tunnel. DO SOUL STUFF. I didn’t think I could feel this good. I’ve been having kundalini experiences all the time. Now I have a date with someone else in a couple days and I have a really good feeling about it. GOOD LUCK GUYS.
I never knew about "twin flame", and why would I want to experience all these weird things and " who does he think he is trying to control and dominate ME" and I told him to leave me alone, he live in the city I live in the country when I block him he used another phone to call me and hang up, he pop up on my whattsup using someone else identity and I deleted him, i knew it was him and after months later I could not stop thinking about him. I unblock him and I told him everything I had been going through ,I ask him are you my twin flame? He answered "mirror soul " ,I ask " do you believe"? He replied "does it matter if you believe" and I understand that we are and WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL OF THIS JOURNEY GOD IS IN CONTROL.
So I'm excited to watch your other videos. Thanks so much for what you're saying and doing it's really helpful to those that have never experienced this type of energetic exchange with another human being.
I wish I had found you, Kurt, in 2009 when this "incredible" journey had hit me hard! There was no information. I was alone with this craziness. Now when I look back every time I let him go he came back and I couldn't recognize him. Like he seems familiar but it's like there is just me there is no other. So weird! Now after 10 years it's another circle, like I wasn't ready before to digest this and it almost killed me, so God paused this for me. And now here we go again. 3 tarot readers told me it was my true twin flame but I still have doubts and I think why it should be so hard with this running back and forth. What you are saying is 100% true!
I get it, I get it.. the doubt is terrible but you’ve definitely cleared that up for me in this video. I blocked your channel a while ago because your videos which end in repeat numbers were driving me even more crazy. I now realize you do that purposely 😅 Thank you for all your heartfelt help on our very difficult journey.. 🙏🏼🤗
Absolutely on the dot, have gone thru each these. I am the married part of TF pair, and its been a roller coaster, yet somehow we have survived ,18 months, after I recognised our connection. And so grateful to the Divine for giving us this opportunity to serve the planet as a team. Blessings to all who r on this journey and our wish that the greater good may unfold
It's been a crazy ass ride that's for sure. We'll see what happens now I'm just trying to disconnect and get my life back on track. The obsessive thinking has been crazy. It has softened a lot though
I always thought that i am the DF. Several years ago I met this woman i kept thinking about her but not so much anymore. I often thought that she is my TF until recently. I had all the obsessive thoughts with her. I went through the dark night of the soul about her. I detached or at least tried detaching. I enrolled in Kurt course. I ascended spiritually. I got satoris etc. but she did not come back. Then recently i met this new woman that has a life that resembles my life kind of. I didn’t fancy her. She kept calling me and chasing after me. I ran away from her. I kept wanting to avoid her. But i still likes her though deep down. I don’t know what this woman is? Twin flame or not? But she kept chasing after me and i kept running. So now i am the DM. May be i am a DM after all? The thought that i was a DF but in fact when i met this new woman I turned into DM. Why? What the hell is this? So may be the first woman that i was obsessed with was not my twin flame at all. I am not so sure now. I don’t think about the first woman much anymore. And then just now when i looked at the first woman photos the first woman whom I have always thought to be my twin flame and had great expectations and plans for in the back of my head ，well now i looked at her photos and I don’t feel anything anymore. No yearning nor anything. Just no feeling. Just an ordinary lady! So all the expectations were made up in my head! Well? Then who is my twin flame? I am not sure anymore. But all i know is now i am in DM mode trying to run away from this new woman that is i still have attachment to and felt soft hearted for but yet cautious about she coming too close. What is this? So i am actually DM ? I feel happy when this new woman approached me but i just cannot let her be too close.
At last , thank you Kurt , you affirmation described my experience that i didn’t know was my spiritual awakening when i met my Tf .. but yup to now he still laps running away from me ( hot & cold ,) all your signs are what i felt but even up to now.. Tjat bawlung and being still occurs up to now even if read the Power of NOW but he amazingly comes back to me if i detach and think about I am consciousness.. I hope i can have a stable TF UNION the way you re having now..
The universe bought us together, the magnetic energy is so intense. He’s got some 3rd party energy attached to him he’s got to shift , gambling and drinking . He doesn’t think I know , I’ am an intuitive empath nothing gets past me ❤
hi kurt half way through your course its everything u have described I believe u can coach me through this . its was amazing for 3 weeks now he has taken off again and I have experienced the dark night of the soul . I can't block him as we have our daughter . I am trying my best to go into to my soul and listening to the power of now. its hard to operate as a mum and work its pulling me to bits
Thanks Kurt I always love your explanation of the spiritual journey and twin flames are energy. There is conflicting advice being given on RUclips about twin flames. I only take info that benefits me. 😊💖☯️🙏.
Dont confuse love and attraction with a twin flame, they are way diffrent. We can have many soul mates, many karmic relationships, we can feel so in love and high ,theres a diffrence between that a twin flame, a twin flame never leaves you, there will always be a deep connection no matter whats going on in your life, even if your remarried and have a wonderful life with them, it never leaves you, because you are one. God bless everyone, lnow the diffrence. ❤
For a year I have had all this triggering with my DM with manipulation, blackmailing, my feeling guilty. As i understand these are characteristics of unawakened DM. I am breaking free, out of his control. I want to put an end to this painful addiction. Besides I've been happily married for 18 years, have a caring and loving husband, Kids, a dog. So all this dark energy must go.
Wow I am so glad to finally found you after all this time this is amazing and you are HILARIOUS! I was laughing out loud so hard at the first part of this video because it's all SO TRUE AND I LITERALLY KNOW AND FEEL EXACTLY what you explain!! You are awesome. Lol ! I KNEW I am or have been on this spiritual awakening but I didn't realize he was included but it does make sense bc even tho we are not physically together right now bc of shitty circumstances I left him... he is in Virginia and I left to come to Ohio where i thought I had a whole family I could lean on and get my shit together but I was WRONG! NO ONE would help me and my roommate was manic CRAZY so I am finding myself rebuilding my life and am in a whole new realm of people from my own family in Ohio. I came to my aunt and uncle who the rest of my mom and her other 3 sisters and family cutoff from 10 years ago this December! Come to find out I'm GLAD everyone turned their backs on me because now that I'm here with the "outcasts" I learned the TRUTH!!!! Sadly I have been lied to since I was a little girl by my own mother and she knows I know she must bc her behavior is one of guilt and she basically couldn't give any straight answers to my direct questions without getting ultra defensive and telling me I'm mean?! What? Anyway- she crossed the line when I woke up to a text she wrote to me, "You're a joke!" okay mom- I'm DONE! Deleted, blocked and guess who is still reaching out to me and LITERALLY had to do the SAME THING to his family AGAIN most recently?! Yup. It's him. Ughh but he hurt me so bad. But he is literally everything you we're saying and I didn't even know about all the bad things that were included with a twin flame until I met him is when I started learning and being introduced to the dark side of the night or whatever you called it but I'm it's crazy because I've had other boyfriends or like oh they're my twin flame but no those were just soulmates and a soulmate I believe can be your worst enemy or just someone you meet and passing it's just someone like you said that's in this life time at the same time right so it can be anyone and you're just there for the purpose and then they go but this is like oh my gosh so much pain and then just unconditional still connection it's insane so you really respond on and I was laughing pretty hard because it's just been quite the journey and I never really connected him as part of it in that sense of but yeah for sure it's if it makes sense now wow I have to tell him about you... I appreciate you and thank you!what are your thoughts on the RUclips "magnetize yourself?" Her name is Infinity and she gives readings through her channel and I have been resonating with almost everything she says but I only watch select posts to watch as I'm drawn to them. Otherwise I scroll past. Alright thanks again! I love you!
Idk if they are my TF or not but i am still obsessed with this person and i haven’t seen them almost 2 years. When they “ran” it was devastating. It absolutely crushed me. I had a nervous breakdown. I had to continue working with them until i quit that job. They were married too. I want this obsessed virus out of my head. A constant reminder. 😫🥴
The "just out of nowhere crying" UUGH that one is embarrassing though! Not even thinking about DM, It really does come out of nowhere and you CANNOT STOP IT!!! The sobbing, the actual physical heart pain, the chest pain, the throat chakra pain. Its absurd! 😂😂Its *extra* great when other people are around when one of these crying attacks comes on. I (do not) LOVE trying to explain that without sounding like a crazy lunatic. I usually have to go with " I just saw an animal slaughtering video by accident" or something along those lines. Nothing else even sounds sane.
The obsession is real. Dreams & fantasies all the time. Never had that before,despite being with someone else for over 30 years. He passed 2 years ago, but this guy ....it's very different. I knew that right in the beginning. I even wrote a little poem about how my life would no longer be "normal". Ours is a long distance relationship because we live on opposite sides of the country & he's a very busy person. Right now he's trying to clear his schedule so we can go on a vacation together. I find myself feeling a little (maybe alot) scared about that.
I felt disfunctional, sort of paralyzed for months… nothing mattered..so weird…and unreal… finaly after at least ten months I can let go. Our contact lastest for seven weeks. 😮The last Message was ‘ I love you’ and then… complet silence…and now… my life is upside down the last year. It’s a rollercoaster and sooooo painfull.. but as weird as it sounds… I am glad that I am going trough this proces. Thanks you Kurt for helping! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's weird how I've been having moments of sudden, very powerful "oh. that's it." epiphanies of sorts since we initially split at the end of January. This video really sort of put the final pieces of the puzzle into place for me and really does do a good job of explaining the stuff I've been going through over the last few months.
Bought your course. Didn’t commit to imyself. One year later. Here to rewatch. Again. If you know, you know. 😏 Fully dedicated this time to completion. ❤
Was like satan had me in a choke hold for months. Hit the dark night of the soul big time,face planted so bad burst the ego And recovery was brutal lol total veg mind was uncomfortable drilling me in to the dark hole 😅 That’s how it felt. Zen and staying in the moment OMG how simple eh and the only thing that worked.. thanks 😆 freedom of the mind. No anxity and depression anymore n defo changed my life in amazing ways now the comes bk which is starting again it’s cool either way I’m busy been happy n feel unstoppable best Iv ever felt!!
Kurt, Could you also please talk about the, “Karmic Relationship vs. Twinflame relationship” video. Cause I personally think thats a VEERRY crucial part of it all. Because there are Soooo Many common points within the Karmic relationship that the Twinflame relationship has too. It can Eassily get confused within eachother. Thanks a lot. 🌸🤍
Please be careful who you do talk to about this.. I finally found kurt after several dark nights because the spuritual advisor I was talking to gave me instruction that pushed a soulmate template for 7 years.. which just totally f-ed up the situation and me.. I am a student now and starting to feel so much better.. dark night is more like nightmare..can totally relate to the it makes no sense situation and more..
I was with my other self for a year and then he RAN 💀 became aware truly of what was happening and boom here i am now always in the present and my other self is ever present in this life
I've gone through all the signs that you said. I don't care if we ever unite. If these are the signs for real twin flame then he is mine. I had no idea about the twin flame concept or the the term. I'm not at all spiritual. I came across the term twin flame when I searched the internet how to stop obsessive thinking about a person. Even after 4 years i can't stop thinking and doubting if he is my twin flame. It is really weird crazy feeling. Sometimes I used to go into trance even when I m working, surrounded by people. Repetitive numbers. Before meeting this person i had an image of someone but never saw the face. So when I first saw this person it felt like , i know him. When he is around i there is a calm secure feeling that I sense. But again he makes me doubt my worh which is really really painful. We don't talk much yet we both feel a connection between us. It is a strange feeling. I won't say I love him so much blah blah blah... But there's a connection for sure.
Oh god yea the doubt and the self knowing. The twin flame information, yessss I stumbled upon this just at a specific time in my connection.. right when my DM rejected me and I started my dark night of the soul.. oh yea that was quite the experience…. 1111 444 555 1212 wow yes… and his name just everywhere, I can’t get away from it, even when I literally try and not think about him, his name just keeps showing itself.
😳 Omg !! Yup .Cry ,Cry ,Cry 🙄 Crazy intense spiritual journey I em on now . Don't get me wrong . I em very thankful for this spiritual journey I em experiencing now 💗
The book "The Power Of Now" is a Godsend. It's really starting to help... Especially since all my mind would let me think about is "Her" 😂 (😭 in secret).
My twin flame didn't come back right away when I'm in Zen mode but when I completely forget about him even for a minute while focusing on something else like watching my favorite movie boom he came texting me...😂is it just me who gone through this and does this mean he's my twin?
I love you Kurt! ❤ I bought your package a year or so ago at the beginning of my journey. It’s helped so much! It’s been a tough one for me but I followed your advice & my twinflame started talking to me out of nowhere last Xmas! In a 3D world it would make no sense for him to have to contact me after not speaking for 2 yrs! He’s married with a baby and a new one on the way but he started communicating with me. I’m still not paying much attention to him cause it feels like hes back to try and borrow my energy again. What is your thoughts on that? What do you do when a twinflame comes back but only seems to be giving you breadcrumbs. I kinda want to run now 😂 it’s so WEIRD!
I'm not Kurt, but I would ignore him and run. We can have boundaries with TF just like we would with anyone else. He is apparently feeling "safe" in his relationship. I would let him stay there and continue with my own growth.
So, I’m married and she’s going through a divorce. Everything you have said has happened to me. The connection, the run/separation and the struggle to stay away when all you want to do is be with.
I am absolutely certain that I am in a Twinflame journey. Thank you so much 💞🔥🔥💚I am learning to balance. All sign that you said here 100 percent right and accurate. Thank you so much.And yes I doubted many times . Questioning myself if this real or am I just crazy girl. I always drawn to all Twinflame messages and even Tarot reading..I am also in the dark night of soul..I can't eat. I can't sleep . I lose my mind. All I can think about is my Twinflame counter part. He's the only one who touch me my heart body mind soul. So intense, I couldn't explain the energy that flowing to my veins when I first meet him. As I held his hand there's a thunder volt that runs all over my body. And as we kiss. It seems I kissed him so many times. I keep on wondering. Did I know him ? Why his touch linger. I'm longing for him even now. We are far apart . I know and I trust. We will re unite again.Patienly waiting for the Divine timing.💚🔥🔥
What you experienced is exactly what I experienced after my Twin left.. I thought I was going crazy, I have never felt that way before and I find myself checking his social media it happens naturally and I will wonder why am I even on his profile. I miss him, I cry for no reasons, I don’t want to do anything I can’t sleep at night I have constant dreams..I had doubt and I knew that he is mine.. I found myself watching tarot, I see synchronicity number..
I am working my way through the Power Of Now. as I know I will have to read it when I sign up. I do follow Eckhart Tolle.. You have asked that we read this in many videos that I have watched!. As soon as I fill the audible book, I am signing up. @@NewWorldAllstar
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You don't know how of a great help you are to stop the obsession and not letting go of our twin flames, Kurt. I am so grateful that your channel has been recommended to me by youtube. You have helped me overcome my dark night of the soul and now I am happy and free. Nobody is triggering me now because I have moved on from him. Suddenly, I no longer long for him but I was not sure what happened to me. Hahaha Thank you thank you thank you, Kurt! Love and light! 🥰💖 I thank the Universe so much for leading me to this channel.
The most I ever learned from a relationship I didn’t have.
Best explanation ever 😂
@@stephaniewood7611 😅🤣🤣
Fantastic. ❤️
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Well said👏🏽 So weird!
Hi all - I don’t usually pop on to Kurt’s channel anymore - as I’m one of his students and no longer watch the tarot readings etc as I don’t want to or need to watch them anymore. But I was guided to come here and leave a message in case it helps just one other person. I have learnt from experience that what Kurt teaches works - this journey is about yourself - finding “your true self” - not about the “other self” (your TF). I know it’s hard to hear that it’s not all about a beautiful romantic journey - I hated learning that part! Still do at times. But the reason I’m posting this today - if you don’t do this work on yourself - then yes your TF will keep coming back in (maybe) but they will also keep triggering the F#*% out of you and you’ll keep getting hurt and they will keep running. It took me quite a few years of the rollercoaster ride to finally focus on myself - like “really focus” and Kurt’s course really helped me to feel better. Now - I won’t lie - the universe is still creating triggers for me to help assist me balance - but I now have tools and skills to get me back on track to work through these triggers when they happen and they don’t last anywhere the amount of time they used to - unlike the past where I’d continually be in one. No Kurt has not asked me to post this - but his course has definitely helped. I learned if you don’t focus on yourself then the universe will push you to a point where you have no option other than focusing on yourself. Save yourself that pain and focus on you today - love to you all ❤️
Thanks for posting 👍, thats why they call it a FORCED spiritual awakening, "your" soul will drag you forcefully and painfully , to embrace this awakening,. whether you like it or not, the harder you resist it ,the deeper the pain. Save time, and take this awakening and run away with it as fast as you can, what is this Kurt student saying is true and not a joke, start watching Eckhart Tolle videos every day, meditate everyday consistently, and never look back, this is not normal addiction to your twin flame, they trigger the hell out you😭 , hope this helps to other people❤️
so you're not in union though? seem to be so few TFs in union?! :(
Is it still possible to grow on twin flame journey without coaching?(I'm broke and wanting to use free stuffs as much as possible)
(I dunno if it's stupid question but I really need an answer to this)
The amount of psycho I went through was enough to make me consider admitting myself into psychiatric hold.... the obsession was out of this world.
omg same
Huh same here.. when the mind cracks open its the worst feeling in the world 😢😢😢
You are so entertaining, especially when you’re describing the obsessive thinking😂 I nearly die from laughing each time you do that…bc I can totally relate🤣😩
I watched it on 1.5x and it's so entertaining 💀
@@jeffhardy7628 I should try that😂
OMG me too! Everything he said is right on point 😅🤣
@@Chillelax.Voshawn I know! It’s crazy, isn’t it?🤣
😔 same
This is me. Wow my soul awakening. I've cried I'm out of tears for the moment for this man.. we didn't even have sex or kiss.
Your videos bring me so much peace Kurt. Suffering is all in the mind. When I got blocked I had no choice but to clearly witness and experience my ego. I descended into my heart space and I found my soul there. I realized what the ego had done up to that point throughout my life, and recognized that it no longer serves me on this journey. I thanked it, and now when my mind wants control, I remind it that its presence is recognized but not useful. I can actually feel simultaneous incarnation now without the blockage. We have always been and will always be.
I can live fully with or without simultaneous incarnation. It's only ego that failed to recognize our freedom to live in whatever expresses itself in the 3D. As Echkart Tolle points out, there is no lack. Thank you.
Fucking hell you are so spot on mate!
I’m now in the happy if they do or don’t stage but man it took a good few months to get to here. The obsessive thinking made me drop 10kg!! Great video kurt!
Yes, same here. I lost so much hair and weight.. not cool. Thank god I'm at a much better place now. All will be well.
I don’t want to share too much detail but I started to google what I was experiencing then I ended up on Reddit😂 I kept seeing the term “ twin flame “ appear. I knew absolutely nothing about this topic. Once I started to become more curious, I started to delve. Some facts online have been somewhat similar but the way you describe it makes a ton of sense, I’ve watched over 6 of your videos over the span of 2-3 days, and the one sign I have not heard anyone on social media mention is the PULLING! You mention dark night of the soul, exactly what I went through when he was nowhere to be found. This guy has my facial features, he has my spiral curly hair! It’s freakin insane! Shortly after locking eyes with him, and briefly speaking to him my spiritual awakening occurred. You are certainly underrated! I’m so glad I found your channel, you are one brilliant individual! You are very appreciated!
The obsessive thinking is freakin weird. I am 31, I have not ever in my whole life thought about anyone this much! I did notice the more I gravitate towards him, the more he pulled away. Once I start to let it go, I noticed he comes around me more and purposely. We do NOT TALK WHATSOEVER! Ugh the facts you provide are astounding!
The way I cried watching because of the accuracy I love this sm Kurt I felt like I was heard and understood 😭 love your tf videos they help immensely 🫶🏻
Exactly, I was insane. I must have shed 10,000 tears. Thank God I weened myself off of it. But yeah, my eyes kept dripping like a fuaset. Never weeped so much in my life. I love that girl.
This stuff didn’t make sense until I started watching you. Nothing I did worked. I started watching your free content and the Samadhi videos, and he reached out the next day. Fell back into the ego and I didn’t hear anything for a week. Went back to my soul work and he ended up coming to see me at my job. Back story, I used to be a massage therapist and he was my client. Didn’t understand the connection, just thought it was attraction. He ran like a bat out of hell and I couldn’t forget about him. When I was his MT I would spend hours working on him and not feel tired or bored. It was something different about working on him. I figured it out when I did the massage. It’s not like massaging another person. It’s like massaging my soul in a different body. I didn’t get tired doing a 3 hours massage because it was self care.🤯 He also commented that he’s gotten massage from other people and it didn’t feel the same. I now have an innerstanding. Thank you Kurt! You ARE the world’s best TF coach!
I had a very simular experience.
Omg you have just explained what happened to me......3 weeks of bliss literally never felt anything like it ever. We were both overwhelmed with our connection we could not eat, sleep it was out of this world. Suddenly 3 weeks later he was so overwhelmed he kept crying & ran. I literally had a breakdown 😳 I literally could not believe my reaction. I am in the dark Knight bit at the moment. Been in bed for a few days now. I have lost weight.
Finding this helps explain what I am going through. I knew the minute I met him he was my twin flame. Numbers constantly 1111, 2222, Thank you for explaining this to me 💜
All 5 definitely happened to me, including the doubt!
I’m happy to say though I’m finally starting to not feel that same obsessive way towards him, I even have him only cross my mind a few times a day and kind of just brush it off now.
I have been working hard to focus on myself and be present! Although I have to work on being present more often and work on my ego.
I had a relapse about a month ago where I pined for him again, and went straight back to listening to Eckart Tolle on audio, and am feeling better, thinking about other things in my life.
The journey is painful, but I’m so happy to know the truth about my whole existence, I mean my whole life I wondered what the purpose was!
Amazing and 100 accurate description of everything
I am a true twinflame and In full union with my counterpart and you explain the whole journey accurately. I hope that true twins who are struggling to follow your guidance. You are 100 spot on with everything. I unfortunately had no help and learned on my own over the past 3 years and eventually just got it. I say my twin and I are highly favored and blessed to have overcome. I started out lost and received alot of misinformation along the way. I want all true twinflames to hopefully find you and break the code with your help.
If you go within yourself. It’s like they are still there somewhere deep. It’s like no matter how hard you try a little part of them still exist. My tf said we needed a break and to contact them in 6 months.
You are first person who is talking the truth, what really happens, not on superficial & fairy tale level. Thank You. I relate with you so much. This was most mind-spirit-heart boggling. It makes you devasted inside-out.
Everything you say I’m going through. I even talk to my soul and my brain to stop thinking. I tried to get busy and it still sneaks. I'll be hanging out with my family and I would say “stop, enough” in front of them 😂😂 feeling like a lunatic. It keeps on invading my mind. It makes me sick just thinking about it how much we go through. I guess I'm still on the dark night of the soul. What a journey!! Now, I'm detaching myself, deleting his number, and his photos, and throwing away the stuff that would remind me of him. Oh Lord, have mercy... 🙏🙏
OMG yes it's true... and now that I remember my ego death I get shivers.
Thank God it's over. Apparently my DM is having a sort of ego death too... but I almost don't care anymore, I'm focused on me, which feel fabulous... ❤ much love from Italy
You go girl!!🙌🏼💃
Ciao
This seems a bit odd to me to not care anymore. I wonder if I will feel the same. This experience has already sort of messed up my life, but I am hoping for greater outcome in the end.
@@calevr1648 I know it's strange but you reach a point of balance and trust in life itself that you know you are exactly where you need to be.
I knew it! lol
Friends are saying he’s not the one, he doesn’t respond, he’s unreliable etc etc.
But I know that he knows something weird is going on.
We are at a distance, met once, boom! We have never even been together but it’s not like anything else I’ve experienced and I’m in my 50s and so is he.
We talk to each other about things like we have been in a proper relationship for ages, and I think what am I saying?! Lol
And he doesn’t run away when I’d think that he would, but it’s a bloody roller coaster of emotions.
I lost 10kgs in the first couple of months of meeting, I felt sick all the time. Couldn’t eat.
It’s bizarre indeed.
Thanks for this video, it’s helping clarify.
Thanks Kurt ! I was having a pain in my heart that I thought I was going to have a heart attack after a few weeks breakup of a 9 months relationship , I saw number 444 4x in one day and did a search on Pinterest, not sure how but you came up on a video and I signed up for your course within a few weeks after watching your free content on RUclips, it has been 6 months, I am using the tools and it is a Journey, the True Spiritual Journey
😂(ik it’s not funny) but the way you explain it is great how relatable it is you understand us!
When you are able to love yourself and be your higher self your twin feels that energetically sometimes they experience it as dark night of the soul. The spiritual epiphany is that the soul can experience not only separate versions of itself but at the same time feel the soul in it's entirety. And the balance between the two varies on the split before birth. Calibrating that balance is what we know the dark night of the soul which is literally growing pains for the soul. Andddd.... I'm trying not to freak out 😭😭😭
When I met my other self online (long distance), we interacted a few times through a call (and video games) but we were still complete strangers for a couple of months. I didn't care about them until I had some spiritual dream where we were together-together, and when we hugged, i felt this burst of energy pouring out of my heart chakra opening which was a huge giveaway that this was no ordinary dream and that there was something special about this person. I woke up and was like "Huh...who is this person??"
My other self and I were still complete strangers but I suddenly experienced the dark-night-of-the-soul and the obsessive thinking kicked in. Like wtf is going on?? I don't even know this person but why all of a sudden do I care so much?? She didn't want to interact with me (I guess that's when I started "chasing" and she was "running"). It was awful. Felt the lowest I've ever been in my entire life. Distracted myself by starting a tik-tok hobby - which ironically, when I was at my lowest, I was at my peak and most successful on tik tok. Gained a bunch of followers and hundreds and thousands of views - which didn't really mean much to me tbh cause I was still obsessed with this person.
After 4 months, we eventually became friends - and somewhat close. This is when the "bubble phase" happened. Felt like a fairy-tale moment. She was obsessed with me and wanted my attention all the time. It was great. Till 4 weeks passed and they "disappeared" and stop interacting with me. Found out through their social-media story they were going on dates with another person. I was pretty heartbroken to see that but I had no choice but to move on. I didn't know about energy at the time but I pulled my energy back and decided to move on. That's when my other self came back the next day and wanted my attention again. I actually had this inner-knowing she was coming back the next day but didn't know how to explain it. Since we're long distance we interact online a lot through playing video games together. It's pretty funny when my other self will play the same game with their "partner/BF/situation-ship" or whatever label u wanna call it, but will leave/ditch them and choose to play with me instead. I was confused why she was doing that.... all I did at the time was pull my energy back, took the focus off of them and not care and they would message me out of the blue.
Eventually came across Twin Flames. Eventually came across Kurt's RUclips channel a year later. It has changed my life for the better. Although I would say my life was pretty good before but my other self had to come into my life to shake it up and trigger my spiritual awakening. Gotta drop the narrative although it is pretty fun experiencing the story. Being present/zen is an amazing feeling. I'm getting better at it.
Were you seeing numeric synchronicities? Feeling familiar or were there noteworthy differences between the both of you? Just wondering because I'm fascinated
@@alfseca Being long distance and not even being close to friends at all, it was pretty horrible because I didn't know why I was obsessively thinking of this person. At the time I thought becoming friends with her was how I would get answers. Thought we were soulmates - since that's the term most people know of ...but I lots of doubts, and it shouldn't be that hard...?
This one event stood out to me that there was definitely a connection between us. This one day I was thinking in my head of some quote... it was a really random quote too and later that night, I saw my other self use the same exact quote for their Instagram caption. It was worded just a little different but I was really shocked, like wtf?? Is this coincidence or what's going on??
Eventually we became friends. I kinda kept trying by inviting her to my lobby in an online game. She thought my friend group was cool because we joke around a lot. That's when she became interested playing with us and wanted to know more about me - always asking questions about my life. Always wanting to play online together at night (good times).
I thought we were different based on what I saw on their socials, but I realized that we were VERY similar. We have a childhood bestfriend with the same name, we have similar interests in shows, we've seen the same shows, we played the same online games. We traveled to the same places in the world when we were kids. Our personalities and the way we talk is very similar - we use the same tone when we joke around...the slight differences we have is because our gender. In our calls, we would often say the same sentences at the same time. We would sometimes message each other at the same time if we ever saw each other online. It happened a few times so she pointed it out and asked why it kept happening. I mean...obviously I know why, but there's no way to explain it them without them "running" afterwards.
We're a pretty good duo/tag team in this online game we play. I had communication issues with other friends, like sometimes we aren't on the same page...but sometimes that's what makes it fun. The most reliable partner I've had was my other self. We just naturally click. Our teamwork is pretty good. I'm not sure how the telepathy works between us but it seems I sometimes don't need to vocalize what I want done, I just think of it...and they just seem to know what I want to do. It's honestly fun playing with them.
I've come to realize that I can't be friends with my other self (for the time being...or ever) because I need to focus on my spiritual journey. Had too many ups and downs in the last year and it was not worth it. Decided to cut off communications with my other self. Didn't tell them anything, I just started ghosting them. I've become way happier and better when I took the focus and energy off of them and back onto me. I think this affected my other self when they noticed I was ghosting them. I noticed her habits started changing (less motivated) and their physical appearance started to change within three weeks - huge weight gain (she's a small person so it was a drastic change within three weeks). So if it was my energy and obsessive thinking that was boosting her ego or whatever....well it's my energy and I need it for my self 🤷🏼♂
@@hai3448 Intriguing and yet saddening. TF share lots of love. They probably miss you a lot. I hope you both find the spiritual knowledge you have been seeking and come together one day. Love and Light, my friend.
@@alfseca Thanks for reading my TF experience ♥
I had a similar dream myself too 🤯 that we were together and he took my hand in his and hugged me, that touch created such a strong flow of white energy between us that 💥 in my whole body.. Felt it so powerfull that woke me up instantly.. 🤯
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for your helpful videos Kurt ☺️🙏.
I met my TF about 3 years ago and shortly thereafter I found myself in the dark night of the soul and obsessive thinking accompanied me. It was a long, painful process. There were phases when I thought I had overcome it and then she appeared to me in my dreams with different messages..the last one (3 days ago) was for me a beautiful dream in which she said that she loves me,but she is still fighting and can't yet..in reality I met her and she asked for my number, but I haven't heard from her yet. .I'm at the point where I know she's a part of me and always will be, no matter if it shows on the outside or not..thank you for your work and your friendly manner Kurt... 🌻🌺
Well now I know I wasn't crazy 😂 I could NOT for the life of me understand the obsession. I couldn't sleep, couldn't eat, snapped at everyone, cried all the time, stopped working and just went into a funk like I've never done before. I went through all the human motions without feeling anything. And I couldn't tell this to my family so I just screamed into my pillow. I was made aware very early on to our meeting that this was a twin flame relationship, before meeting him I had no clue what it was. And while I was always into astrology and tarot, I was NEVER this spiritual. I changed. I completely changed as a person. I became calmer, more centered and started to love myself, focused on my growth. I went through Ascension, suffered the physical symptoms, and just turned into a different version of myself.
Your video is truly truly a great help for twin flames, for true twin flames I might add.
I'm not over the obsession entirely, I still constantly think of him, I dream of him almost every night, but it's not as bad and it's not as painful (on most days).
We are in contact as of now but went through a no contact phase some time back. I don't think he's spiritually awakened as me, and don't even know if he ever will. But I'm going to keep working on myself and get to a place where the need isn't this obsessive or painful
Immediate subscribe as I became speechless no joke woah!! I've always loved tarot but lately past month I've been nonstop obsessing about tarot, work(job), and staying home. My twin flame is at work. He sees me and I see him. I get frustrated when he doesn't acknowledge me and I know he does when I don't acknowledge him. I FEEL IT. body language says so. Body language, in my eyes, is understood to be the true signs because our souls can't resist completely hiding what we truly feel inside no matter what we do or say. I do suppress my soul's wants and needs when I'm around him and it's confusing though I completely resonate with it because my mental and analyticalness of me overrides my wants and needs often. This topic of twin flames has become so direct and aware more than everrr in my life. Much appreciation to you and your overall message. Prosper on 🤙❤️
You crack me up!!!🤣 Thank you for all the information!!!
The obsessive thinking was like a tornado spiralling out of my head. I had no power to contain or control it. I just had to let it be.
100000000000000% helpful content. Thank you for explaining this.
i can feel your sincerity to help about this journey Kurt! hands down to you. again much blessings for you and the rest of your colleagues on this career. Maraming Salamat! 🙌🙏✨🍀from🇵🇭🤍
OMG! THIS THE MOST INFORMATIVE VIDEO I'VE SEEN!!! By the way you're hilarious 😂 I love your channel 🙌🏿 (new here)
I love you so much Kurt lmfao I was dying laughing for a good portion of this video at how absolutely true it is 😵💫
Thank you very much Mr. Kurt, I am really happy to hear this, the explanation so clear for me, now I understand what happen to me, keep teaching us, for the right and goodness, God bless you
This reading was so funny and true like OMG everything you said you was doing I have been doing for over 20 years in and out like why do I want you so bad.... It never goes away. They say just stay busy and you won't think about them. All day while I'm working before I go to sleep when I wake up. I'm just like this is insane and weird. Correct😂😂 not too mention him being my first and my first love.... That made it even more intensifying.
Broke up with one guy and had a mini identity crisis , didn’t see synchronicities or angel numbers until a couple months later when I met another oh and twin flames stuff popped up everywhere. Took me a year to figure out who was the twin, the first was a catalyst soulmate, we were so similiar there were a lot of syncs, bdays and such. But the second is my soul🦋
I occasionally watch your videos and enjoy your content - especially “signs” videos. I listen and by the end I remember Tolle’s books - particularly ‘A New Earth’ and his continuous use of the word ‘maybe’. It brings a smile to my face. Thanks, Kurt. ✨
I do resonate with this... my "twin flame" and I are not romantic at all... not saying we don't sort of like each other or had some level of attraction at some point... but it was never romantic, never even dated, never even kissed... and all I know I was suddely thinking so much about him to the point I felt I was going insane loooooong before hearing the term "twin flames"... like I went crazy for a full year before knowing what was going on. Thank you for speaking this truth. I could never fully believe in couples or anybody else at all... sometimes you look at those people in the eyes and there's something scary and you know something is off... so yeah, we don't know what to believe and it's painful, lonely... nobody else gets it... thank you for saying these things openly and honestly
Thank you Kurt, this was really helpful. So are your other posts🙏🌌🌻💕
Kurt, I’ll admit it- I stopped watching you shortly after using your videos to realize I had met my twin flame. There were moments where I was so certain he’d come back to be with me- at one point, when I’d finally met a woman who appears to be my soulmate, he even rushed back in asking me to be together, on the condition he was looking for a lifelong relationship to take slowly (we were raised in radically different homes with different beliefs about sex and marriage.) I’m back three years later and just want to tell anyone else reading this, LISTEN TO KURT. That ego death is NO JOKE. He’s the real deal, much as I hated to admit it for a while there! I believe it’s true that your twin flame is not really a lover-unbelievable synchronicities even now when we live totally separate lives. I’m in the north and he’s in the south; Our careers run parallel and even intertwine in weird ways; he will randomly call me up and tell me things that my soul recognizes from my own dreams. It’s the least romantic yet loving connection… as I ‘fell out of love’ with my twin, the dark night of the soul gave way to a new dawn. I’m noticing that his “blessings” and mine seem to come along in pairs, just as surely as the obsession and confusion once did.
I totally agree with you Kurt. Everything you described happened to me,even the knowing and doubting.We've never been in a relationship.We had been sharing our feelings through a third party until he ran away for good.Healing balancing,nothing worked for me..It's definitely our spiritual journey.
Also, I was hanging out with my brother and he said if their was “another” me then I would wanna be best friends with them, little does he know…
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you're so hilarious and relatable! Signed up months ago and been listening to all the audio books you recommended.... will come back soon for the live chats and private FB group! Been busy over the summer - had some cool shit happen which totally proves your theory. The slight backfire is that I now know it works which makes me excited and triggers the obsessive thinking again! See you soon!
ps I see repeating numbers on my clock multiple times every day, like 11:11, 12:12, 13:13, 14:14 - no idea what that means but I notice it constantly. Same with road numbers, car regs, time on videos etc.... weird!
I know! 2 years of 1111, 2222,1221,333,111,222,… all of them😂. It started little before This.. love u all
Best explanation however you always say that it’s a handful of weeks with the twin flame but mine was 11 months and then he ran away, during the times that we kept trying we had lots of triggering going on within the relationship,, when he left it was abrupt everything else you describe is exactly correct. In fact of all the descriptions of twin flame signs ,, yours was the one that confirmed the most as far as my doubts of whether he was my twin flame or not,, so in essence, he is my twin flame. so thank you so much for what you do 💖
YUUUPPP. Met mine in June. We had a magical whole month together lol. Then he moved away… to a different country. UGHHHHH. It hurt. For so long. I even tried to convince myself that he was a soulmate not my TF. I even asked God to send me a feather if he is my TF and BOOM it happened. I’m finally almost out of the tunnel. DO SOUL STUFF. I didn’t think I could feel this good. I’ve been having kundalini experiences all the time. Now I have a date with someone else in a couple days and I have a really good feeling about it. GOOD LUCK GUYS.
I never knew about "twin flame", and why would I want to experience all these weird things and " who does he think he is trying to control and dominate ME" and I told him to leave me alone, he live in the city I live in the country when I block him he used another phone to call me and hang up, he pop up on my whattsup using someone else identity and I deleted him, i knew it was him and after months later I could not stop thinking about him. I unblock him and I told him everything I had been going through ,I ask him are you my twin flame? He answered "mirror soul " ,I ask " do you believe"? He replied "does it matter if you believe" and I understand that we are and WE ARE NOT IN CONTROL OF THIS JOURNEY GOD IS IN CONTROL.
So I'm excited to watch your other videos. Thanks so much for what you're saying and doing it's really helpful to those that have never experienced this type of energetic exchange with another human being.
I wish I had found you, Kurt, in 2009 when this "incredible" journey had hit me hard! There was no information. I was alone with this craziness. Now when I look back every time I let him go he came back and I couldn't recognize him. Like he seems familiar but it's like there is just me there is no other. So weird! Now after 10 years it's another circle, like I wasn't ready before to digest this and it almost killed me, so God paused this for me. And now here we go again. 3 tarot readers told me it was my true twin flame but I still have doubts and I think why it should be so hard with this running back and forth. What you are saying is 100% true!
I get it, I get it.. the doubt is terrible but you’ve definitely cleared that up for me in this video. I blocked your channel a while ago because your videos which end in repeat numbers were driving me even more crazy. I now realize you do that purposely 😅
Thank you for all your heartfelt help on our very difficult journey.. 🙏🏼🤗
Absolutely on the dot, have gone thru each these. I am the married part of TF pair, and its been a roller coaster, yet somehow we have survived ,18 months, after I recognised our connection. And so grateful to the Divine for giving us this opportunity to serve the planet as a team. Blessings to all who r on this journey and our wish that the greater good may unfold
It's been a crazy ass ride that's for sure. We'll see what happens now I'm just trying to disconnect and get my life back on track. The obsessive thinking has been crazy. It has softened a lot though
I always thought that i am the DF. Several years ago I met this woman i kept thinking about her but not so much anymore. I often thought that she is my TF until recently. I had all the obsessive thoughts with her. I went through the dark night of the soul about her. I detached or at least tried detaching. I enrolled in Kurt course. I ascended spiritually. I got satoris etc. but she did not come back. Then recently i met this new woman that has a life that resembles my life kind of. I didn’t fancy her. She kept calling me and chasing after me. I ran away from her. I kept wanting to avoid her. But i still likes her though deep down. I don’t know what this woman is? Twin flame or not? But she kept chasing after me and i kept running. So now i am the DM. May be i am a DM after all? The thought that i was a DF but in fact when i met this new woman I turned into DM. Why? What the hell is this? So may be the first woman that i was obsessed with was not my twin flame at all. I am not so sure now. I don’t think about the first woman much anymore. And then just now when i looked at the first woman photos the first woman whom I have always thought to be my twin flame and had great expectations and plans for in the back of my head ，well now i looked at her photos and I don’t feel anything anymore. No yearning nor anything. Just no feeling. Just an ordinary lady! So all the expectations were made up in my head! Well? Then who is my twin flame? I am not sure anymore. But all i know is now i am in DM mode trying to run away from this new woman that is i still have attachment to and felt soft hearted for but yet cautious about she coming too close. What is this? So i am actually DM ? I feel happy when this new woman approached me but i just cannot let her be too close.
At last , thank you Kurt , you affirmation described my experience that i didn’t know was my spiritual awakening when i met my Tf .. but yup to now he still laps running away from me ( hot & cold ,) all your signs are what i felt but even up to
now.. Tjat bawlung and being still occurs up to now even if read the Power of NOW but he amazingly comes back to me if i detach and think about I am consciousness.. I hope i can have a stable TF UNION the way you re having now..
Omg.... the obsessive thinking.... it doesn't bloody turn off.... 😂
The universe bought us together, the magnetic energy is so intense. He’s got some 3rd party energy attached to him he’s got to shift , gambling and drinking . He doesn’t think I know , I’ am an intuitive empath nothing gets past me ❤
hi kurt half way through your course its everything u have described I believe u can coach me through this . its was amazing for 3 weeks now he has taken off again and I have experienced the dark night of the soul . I can't block him as we have our daughter . I am trying my best to go into to my soul and listening to the power of now. its hard to operate as a mum and work its pulling me to bits
Im already mad with this twinflame 🤯😱and you turn my brain up& down 🙈😹😹😹🙈i think i leave all this complicatet .
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Ahhh yes that explains why I've been thinking about him everyday for six months now
Thanks Kurt I always love your explanation of the spiritual journey and twin flames are energy. There is conflicting advice being given on RUclips about twin flames. I only take info that benefits me. 😊💖☯️🙏.
Dont confuse love and attraction with a twin flame, they are way diffrent. We can have many soul mates, many karmic relationships, we can feel so in love and high ,theres a diffrence between that a twin flame, a twin flame never leaves you, there will always be a deep connection no matter whats going on in your life, even if your remarried and have a wonderful life with them, it never leaves you, because you are one. God bless everyone, lnow the diffrence. ❤
For a year I have had all this triggering with my DM with manipulation, blackmailing, my feeling guilty. As i understand these are characteristics of unawakened DM. I am breaking free, out of his control. I want to put an end to this painful addiction. Besides I've been happily married for 18 years, have a caring and loving husband, Kids, a dog. So all this dark energy must go.
Wow I am so glad to finally found you after all this time this is amazing and you are HILARIOUS! I was laughing out loud so hard at the first part of this video because it's all SO TRUE AND I LITERALLY KNOW AND FEEL EXACTLY what you explain!! You are awesome. Lol ! I KNEW I am or have been on this spiritual awakening but I didn't realize he was included but it does make sense bc even tho we are not physically together right now bc of shitty circumstances I left him... he is in Virginia and I left to come to Ohio where i thought I had a whole family I could lean on and get my shit together but I was WRONG! NO ONE would help me and my roommate was manic CRAZY so I am finding myself rebuilding my life and am in a whole new realm of people from my own family in Ohio. I came to my aunt and uncle who the rest of my mom and her other 3 sisters and family cutoff from 10 years ago this December! Come to find out I'm GLAD everyone turned their backs on me because now that I'm here with the "outcasts" I learned the TRUTH!!!! Sadly I have been lied to since I was a little girl by my own mother and she knows I know she must bc her behavior is one of guilt and she basically couldn't give any straight answers to my direct questions without getting ultra defensive and telling me I'm mean?! What? Anyway- she crossed the line when I woke up to a text she wrote to me, "You're a joke!" okay mom- I'm DONE! Deleted, blocked and guess who is still reaching out to me and LITERALLY had to do the SAME THING to his family AGAIN most recently?! Yup. It's him. Ughh but he hurt me so bad. But he is literally everything you we're saying and I didn't even know about all the bad things that were included with a twin flame until I met him is when I started learning and being introduced to the dark side of the night or whatever you called it but I'm it's crazy because I've had other boyfriends or like oh they're my twin flame but no those were just soulmates and a soulmate I believe can be your worst enemy or just someone you meet and passing it's just someone like you said that's in this life time at the same time right so it can be anyone and you're just there for the purpose and then they go but this is like oh my gosh so much pain and then just unconditional still connection it's insane so you really respond on and I was laughing pretty hard because it's just been quite the journey and I never really connected him as part of it in that sense of but yeah for sure it's if it makes sense now wow I have to tell him about you... I appreciate you and thank you!what are your thoughts on the RUclips "magnetize yourself?" Her name is Infinity and she gives readings through her channel and I have been resonating with almost everything she says but I only watch select posts to watch as I'm drawn to them. Otherwise I scroll past. Alright thanks again! I love you!
So informative ! and HILARIOUS !!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Idk if they are my TF or not but i am still obsessed with this person and i haven’t seen them almost 2 years. When they “ran” it was devastating. It absolutely crushed me. I had a nervous breakdown. I had to continue working with them until i quit that job. They were married too. I want this obsessed virus out of my head. A constant reminder. 😫🥴
The "just out of nowhere crying" UUGH that one is embarrassing though! Not even thinking about DM, It really does come out of nowhere and you CANNOT STOP IT!!! The sobbing, the actual physical heart pain, the chest pain, the throat chakra pain. Its absurd! 😂😂Its *extra* great when other people are around when one of these crying attacks comes on. I (do not) LOVE trying to explain that without sounding like a crazy lunatic. I usually have to go with " I just saw an animal slaughtering video by accident" or something along those lines. Nothing else even sounds sane.
Makes total sense ! 🙃( I'm on this tf/non-duality journey since 2008 )
Learning so much from you sir and going to start my channel with what i learn from you thanks for your guidance
The obsession is real. Dreams & fantasies all the time. Never had that before,despite being with someone else for over 30 years. He passed 2 years ago, but this guy ....it's very different. I knew that right in the beginning. I even wrote a little poem about how my life would no longer be "normal".
Ours is a long distance relationship because we live on opposite sides of the country & he's a very busy person. Right now he's trying to clear his schedule so we can go on a vacation together. I find myself feeling a little (maybe alot) scared about that.
I felt disfunctional, sort of paralyzed for months… nothing mattered..so weird…and unreal… finaly after at least ten months I can let go. Our contact lastest for seven weeks. 😮The last Message was ‘ I love you’ and then… complet silence…and now… my life is upside down the last year. It’s a rollercoaster and sooooo painfull.. but as weird as it sounds… I am glad that I am going trough this proces. Thanks you Kurt for helping! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's weird how I've been having moments of sudden, very powerful "oh. that's it." epiphanies of sorts since we initially split at the end of January. This video really sort of put the final pieces of the puzzle into place for me and really does do a good job of explaining the stuff I've been going through over the last few months.
Man I experience all this I felt like I was going crazy plus being around her and watching her move as if I never existed really drove me to the edge
you should do a video on why personalities don't matter in twin flames.......and what changes in union
The number I thought I was going crazy 👀😦
Bought your course. Didn’t commit to imyself. One year later. Here to rewatch. Again. If you know, you know. 😏
Fully dedicated this time to completion. ❤
Was like satan had me in a choke hold for months. Hit the dark night of the soul big time,face planted so bad burst the ego And recovery was brutal lol total veg mind was uncomfortable drilling me in to the dark hole 😅 That’s how it felt. Zen and staying in the moment OMG how simple eh and the only thing that worked.. thanks 😆 freedom of the mind. No anxity and depression anymore n defo changed my life in amazing ways now the comes bk which is starting again it’s cool either way I’m busy been happy n feel unstoppable best Iv ever felt!!
Kurt, Could you also please talk about the, “Karmic Relationship vs. Twinflame relationship” video. Cause I personally think thats a VEERRY crucial part of it all. Because there are Soooo Many common points within the Karmic relationship that the Twinflame relationship has too. It can Eassily get confused within eachother. Thanks a lot. 🌸🤍
Please be careful who you do talk to about this.. I finally found kurt after several dark nights because the spuritual advisor I was talking to gave me instruction that pushed a soulmate template for 7 years.. which just totally f-ed up the situation and me.. I am a student now and starting to feel so much better.. dark night is more like nightmare..can totally relate to the it makes no sense situation and more..
Yay!
I was with my other self for a year and then he RAN 💀 became aware truly of what was happening and boom here i am now always in the present and my other self is ever present in this life
That knowing but also doubting....that part...
It’s the accuracy here for me. 🔥🔥
I've gone through all the signs that you said. I don't care if we ever unite. If these are the signs for real twin flame then he is mine. I had no idea about the twin flame concept or the the term. I'm not at all spiritual. I came across the term twin flame when I searched the internet how to stop obsessive thinking about a person. Even after 4 years i can't stop thinking and doubting if he is my twin flame. It is really weird crazy feeling. Sometimes I used to go into trance even when I m working, surrounded by people. Repetitive numbers. Before meeting this person i had an image of someone but never saw the face. So when I first saw this person it felt like , i know him. When he is around i there is a calm secure feeling that I sense. But again he makes me doubt my worh which is really really painful. We don't talk much yet we both feel a connection between us. It is a strange feeling. I won't say I love him so much blah blah blah... But there's a connection for sure.
I love you ♥️ thank you for coming into my space when i needed it the most
Oh by the way, I’m 50, I was married for 20 years and this is not my first time. I am just blown away by this experience.
Oh god yea the doubt and the self knowing. The twin flame information, yessss I stumbled upon this just at a specific time in my connection.. right when my DM rejected me and I started my dark night of the soul.. oh yea that was quite the experience…. 1111 444 555 1212 wow yes… and his name just everywhere, I can’t get away from it, even when I literally try and not think about him, his name just keeps showing itself.
I was like wtf is this and why is this happening. I have been married 2x and never felt like this. I believe!!
I would add Adyashanti to your list. His books are awesome when you get further along.
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Yup .Cry ,Cry ,Cry 🙄
Crazy intense spiritual journey I em on now . Don't get me wrong .
I em very thankful for this spiritual journey I em experiencing now 💗
I keep wondering why this hurts so bad in such a short time. The telepathy is crazy
😂😂😂 You are so right the obsession is crazy omg 😂😂😂
Idk but I’ve finally come to a place
Of alignment… Abraham hiks has been my life savor…. I’m looking forward to the person I’m meant to be with…
The book "The Power Of Now" is a Godsend. It's really starting to help... Especially since all my mind would let me think about is "Her" 😂 (😭 in secret).
Oh god!! F! Me, I'm not sure 😕 should I be happy or run!! After watching this vdo!! 🤯🤯🤪 Thank you for all your time 😘 🥰 👏
My twin flame didn't come back right away when I'm in Zen mode but when I completely forget about him even for a minute while focusing on something else like watching my favorite movie boom he came texting me...😂is it just me who gone through this and does this mean he's my twin?
I can relate
I love you Kurt! ❤ I bought your package a year or so ago at the beginning of my journey. It’s helped so much! It’s been a tough one for me but I followed your advice & my twinflame started talking to me out of nowhere last Xmas! In a 3D world it would make no sense for him to have to contact me after not speaking for 2 yrs!
He’s married with a baby and a new one on the way but he started communicating with me. I’m still not paying much attention to him cause it feels like hes back to try and borrow my energy again. What is your thoughts on that? What do you do when a twinflame comes back but only seems to be giving you breadcrumbs. I kinda want to run now 😂 it’s so WEIRD!
I'm not Kurt, but I would ignore him and run. We can have boundaries with TF just like we would with anyone else. He is apparently feeling "safe" in his relationship. I would let him stay there and continue with my own growth.
So, I’m married and she’s going through a divorce. Everything you have said has happened to me. The connection, the run/separation and the struggle to stay away when all you want to do is be with.
I am absolutely certain that I am in a Twinflame journey. Thank you so much 💞🔥🔥💚I am learning to balance. All sign that you said here 100 percent right and accurate. Thank you so much.And yes I doubted many times . Questioning myself if this real or am I just crazy girl. I always drawn to all Twinflame messages and even Tarot reading..I am also in the dark night of soul..I can't eat. I can't sleep . I lose my mind. All I can think about is my Twinflame counter part. He's the only one who touch me my heart body mind soul. So intense, I couldn't explain the energy that flowing to my veins when I first meet him. As I held his hand there's a thunder volt that runs all over my body. And as we kiss. It seems I kissed him so many times. I keep on wondering. Did I know him ? Why his touch linger. I'm longing for him even now. We are far apart . I know and I trust. We will re unite again.Patienly waiting for the Divine timing.💚🔥🔥
What you experienced is exactly what I experienced after my Twin left.. I thought I was going crazy, I have never felt that way before and I find myself checking his social media it happens naturally and I will wonder why am I even on his profile. I miss him, I cry for no reasons, I don’t want to do anything I can’t sleep at night I have constant dreams..I had doubt and I knew that he is mine.. I found myself watching tarot, I see synchronicity number..
convinced ! i am signing up for tie coaching
Welcome!
I am working my way through the Power Of Now. as I know I will have to read it when I sign up. I do follow Eckhart Tolle.. You have asked that we read this in many videos that I have watched!. As soon as I fill the audible book, I am signing up. @@NewWorldAllstar
I'm about to cry I can stop thinking about him
I can attest to this. Try FIVE years of this torment. We’re both in committed relationships.