You know, I wanted to ask you a question regarding relationships. A more unique one. Just get your perspective man to man, you know. I do feel lust and desire. It would be nice to have a relationship with someone that ACTUALLY LOVES AND UNDERSTANDS ME on the level that I wish for, you know. I fall in love with all kinds of people real easily, you know. I'm a very loving person. I just love loving on people and feeling their love. However, I am also have a certain responsibility. I know there is something that I must do above all other things, and a type of person that I must strive to be above all other things. If I don't do that, NO AMOUNT of love is going to take away that regret. I really need to do that. If I focus on a relationship, or even strive to have one at all, I may lose that dream forever. I can't let that happen due to desire, PERIOD. Should I buckle down and just push those feelings away to take care of what I need to? To become who I should be? I feel like I should, but that's a rather heavy sacrifice. I've constantly flipped flopped between each choice, and I personally, I can't keep doing so. I wanted your opinion. I feel like I should just be a man and accept that there are far more important out there than immediate love and lust. You know the saying. If you really love someone or something, you should keep them far away. Just waiting for love to come to me, and if it doesn't, then it doesn't. What do you think? I haven't fully watched the video yet, but I have to think that it fits with the video title; overcoming lust. I need to overcome all vices.
@@Safaiafgc I understand where you're coming from yo. You want to focus on your main purpose and priorities, but the desire to be in a relationship and experience love like that does get to you sometimes! And that's completely fine, it happens to most people, even myself at times. First off, I want to say that I am not gonna tell you exactly what you should do. Since I don't know your whole situation, life, relationships, etc. and I'm just going off of the words you've given to me. At the end of the day, you choose what you solely want to do for yourself. I appreciate that you want my input! So first I'd say to ask yourself, "Why do you desire to be in a relationship?" Like the 3 biggest reasons you can think of. Now see if those reasons are more important than the other priorities you have in your life. You said you, "may lose that dream forever" and "I can't let that happen due to desire, PERIOD." To me, that sounds like you already want to make this choice to follow your dreams and I support that for sure, and once you make that choice, there's a commitment you have to make to pursue it. We're human of course, distractions and getting off course towards the dream/goal WILL happen. That's how life goes. How you can adapt to that again and again is in your control though! Enough flip flopping, commit to your choice! If or when love comes, see if you're open to it at the time, but always remember you can get back into your goals, there's no exact time limit on things. It's almost a balance between the two. Enjoy life, pursue a goal, love what life makes for you!
@@JarelGiraffe I really appreciate you taking the time out to write this, and with such explicit detail. It means a lot. This helped me out so much. I had to take some time to think about it, but now... I've made up my mind. I will let love come to me if it does. However, what matters right now, and until it is all done, is doing what I set out to do, and being the person that I must. That has always taken priority. I've said this before to myself in the past, but like you said; I've been very flip floppy about it. Too flip floppy. Bouncing from person to person... not really sure on what I wanted when the time came to choose between desire and duty... never fully committing to anything, but saying how much I value it... I don't need to explain what this is all for to be very grateful that I can stay resolved on the path that I choose now. I know what is most important to me now. So thank you, truly and sincerely. Color me a lifelong fan! I'll watch all of your other videos and support them, show some of my friends. I think that I will be able to enjoy life to the fullest now with a clear head.
@@Safaiafgc I'm glad you found some clarity through my input! I feel like you definitely can do it and be the person you want to become! Always trust in yourself and keep goin! I appreciate you as well!
You know, I wanted to ask you a question regarding relationships. A more unique one. Just get your perspective man to man, you know.
I do feel lust and desire. It would be nice to have a relationship with someone that ACTUALLY LOVES AND UNDERSTANDS ME on the level that I wish for, you know. I fall in love with all kinds of people real easily, you know. I'm a very loving person. I just love loving on people and feeling their love.
However, I am also have a certain responsibility. I know there is something that I must do above all other things, and a type of person that I must strive to be above all other things. If I don't do that, NO AMOUNT of love is going to take away that regret. I really need to do that. If I focus on a relationship, or even strive to have one at all, I may lose that dream forever. I can't let that happen due to desire, PERIOD.
Should I buckle down and just push those feelings away to take care of what I need to? To become who I should be? I feel like I should, but that's a rather heavy sacrifice. I've constantly flipped flopped between each choice, and I personally, I can't keep doing so. I wanted your opinion. I feel like I should just be a man and accept that there are far more important out there than immediate love and lust. You know the saying. If you really love someone or something, you should keep them far away. Just waiting for love to come to me, and if it doesn't, then it doesn't.
What do you think? I haven't fully watched the video yet, but I have to think that it fits with the video title; overcoming lust. I need to overcome all vices.
@@Safaiafgc I understand where you're coming from yo. You want to focus on your main purpose and priorities, but the desire to be in a relationship and experience love like that does get to you sometimes! And that's completely fine, it happens to most people, even myself at times.
First off, I want to say that I am not gonna tell you exactly what you should do. Since I don't know your whole situation, life, relationships, etc. and I'm just going off of the words you've given to me. At the end of the day, you choose what you solely want to do for yourself. I appreciate that you want my input!
So first I'd say to ask yourself, "Why do you desire to be in a relationship?" Like the 3 biggest reasons you can think of. Now see if those reasons are more important than the other priorities you have in your life. You said you, "may lose that dream forever" and "I can't let that happen due to desire, PERIOD." To me, that sounds like you already want to make this choice to follow your dreams and I support that for sure, and once you make that choice, there's a commitment you have to make to pursue it. We're human of course, distractions and getting off course towards the dream/goal WILL happen. That's how life goes. How you can adapt to that again and again is in your control though! Enough flip flopping, commit to your choice! If or when love comes, see if you're open to it at the time, but always remember you can get back into your goals, there's no exact time limit on things. It's almost a balance between the two. Enjoy life, pursue a goal, love what life makes for you!
@@JarelGiraffe I really appreciate you taking the time out to write this, and with such explicit detail. It means a lot. This helped me out so much. I had to take some time to think about it, but now... I've made up my mind. I will let love come to me if it does. However, what matters right now, and until it is all done, is doing what I set out to do, and being the person that I must. That has always taken priority. I've said this before to myself in the past, but like you said; I've been very flip floppy about it. Too flip floppy. Bouncing from person to person... not really sure on what I wanted when the time came to choose between desire and duty... never fully committing to anything, but saying how much I value it... I don't need to explain what this is all for to be very grateful that I can stay resolved on the path that I choose now. I know what is most important to me now. So thank you, truly and sincerely. Color me a lifelong fan! I'll watch all of your other videos and support them, show some of my friends. I think that I will be able to enjoy life to the fullest now with a clear head.
@@Safaiafgc I'm glad you found some clarity through my input! I feel like you definitely can do it and be the person you want to become! Always trust in yourself and keep goin! I appreciate you as well!
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