such a great insight! frame is everything, once you build a solid frame and foundation you will become fulfilled and women will naturally gravitate to you
Thank you for this thought-provoking video. I think there’s a really important point that is unsaid: the fear of being alone. I am 51yo and divorced. After our separation, when I was 49yo, I met a beautiful 29yo. We parted ways last month after a joyous 2.5yrs. But I rushed into the relationship. I didn’t believe anyone would ever be interested in me after my marriage fell apart. I have no regrets whatsoever. She rehabilitated my self-esteem and my self-confidence. We had more sex than you could shake a stick at, seriously. But I ignored so many red flags. Earlier this year, I was very seriously unwell and spent two months in ICU/acute care with sepsis. I was very close to dying, twice. She abandoned me and I realised that we had different value systems. I also think that for a young woman to see her protector so unwell was in a sense a betrayal of the roles in which we had cast ourselves. But, at core, I realised whilst I was in hospital that it wasn’t to be - and that the warning signs had been obvious and plentiful. But I was too scared of being alone to trust my gut instincts. That’s how I ended up getting married, by the way. I am working with my therapist to ensure that I do not make this type of catastrophic error ever again. I really enjoyed this video. Thank you again 🙏🏾
Those are truly wise words. We only can really learn from those experiences and do our best to find and give healthy love to ourselves and those around us. Thanks so much for sharing your story. For comments like these I get up and work hard to share good messages and inspire people to do better. I hope you recover fully and get back into the love world once again.
"Dark Love" 🌹🖤🌹 that's what iam talking about. Also to stand together as "one". A true relationship you both only have eyes for eachother. Great topic. I have so much Respect for you Justin. ❤
@@joshuaoreilly1847 he is natural for sure but he also lost track previously. Ever heard about his divorce, etc. He surrounded by game after that although he doesn’t directly study, it obviously is something that is toward the top of his mind.
Justin Waller is a Scorpio man ♏️ Nov 6 according to his profile…meaning that his way of thinking especially Love it’s coming from Dark side of Death- so it doesn’t surprise his philosophy on Love ..I would know ..I am also from Nov 6
@@artaguirre6418 hey Art I’m a triple Nov scorpio girl. Where are you? 😂 Maybe only another scorpio would get another scorpio. lol We are intense and all or nothing, while men find themselves fascinated by a scorpio woman I think there’s also a little intimidation there, personally if I’m in a committed soul maté relationship I am 1000 percent in every aspect but random encounters aren’t my thing, but I expect the same thing. And yes, they myth is true lol. And yes he’s right especially being a scorpio, we want an alpha who is stronger than us who fights our battles, provides containment without control, and has that long term deep connection and LOYALTY. ❤
Incredibly dumb to say you can have a good woman and she's in other men's DMs and cheating. LOL I get accountability for what happens in your life but that's taking accountability way too far. A good woman may break up with you if you're not in the frame, but a good woman doesn't cheat or DM another man, that my friends is a bad woman
I'm sorry, but if you cheat on someone because they can't hold frame, your a piece of work. Just leave them if they are not saying it, but women are cowards and can sleep with someone they don't respect, yet I am supposed to become my best self so I can attain their respectful side? Why justify a chameleon type of personality, acknowledge it exists yes, but what we are saying here is that if I get into an accident and lose my capacity to be ideal for her, then she'll leave. theres all this content about how to be a better man, and most of it is about how to understand women, rather than demand a better woman. As always, the men put in the work, the women stay at the finish line and get the glory - and we get our lustful ways fulfilled. Sad times man.
You have to become your best self so you value yourself and never get into a relationship with the type of woman who would cheat on you. Take full responsibility of all outcomes and you will have more control over your life.
I agree that there's a dark side to love. Life is too short to waste time on meaningless relationships. The hardest things to really know in any relationships... is to know if she'll stay with you until your death. If not then you're delusional about her love. Lot's of relationships are transactional nowadays... but it's entirely possible to have meaningful relationships. That's dark and beautiful.
Love comes in many forms and varieties. And the dark love philosophy rings true with validity but that forest isn’t for everyone to explore. Both of y’all are G’s
2:00 I don't want the woman that would cheat or reply in the DM's with guy A B C D. A woman should be who she is no matter the man if she's a loyal woman then she's a loyal woman.
Just found out about your channel, thanks RUclips for recommending! Your videos look so pro! I'm in this 4 year LTR and got red pilled during the second year, and while it "saved" my relationship, my chick just won't support my dreams, passions, goals, hobbies. I do video editing as a side hustle, love that shit, she just won't support me, always trying to make me feel bad for doing it, constantly having to fight her over this. I don't have destructive hobbies, my only solution now is to leave because it seems impossible to reengineer this situation. I just don't have the power to leave because I know this will hurt her, yet I think someday I will snap and still walk away, just postponing the inevitable. Is this similar to why you left the marriage?
Thanks for checking out the channel. It has been a long time building up and is great to hear from people like you who enjoy it. My situation was very different to yours, but I could give you a couple tips to help with the issue you have. 1-Communication: Next time you have an argument over your side hustle, with very calm tone ask your GF what exactly bothers her about your video editing. 2- Depending on the issue she has with it communicate how you are going to address it, and if is a matter of a disagreement you have to let her know that even if she disagrees you are making a decision for your future and that you will stick with it. If you make your video editing productive, bring more money, better projects and connections there is no way she will pose that. If your video editing is just doing silly videos or nothing that is really progressing and getting you more money or exposure for business thats probably when she will call you out on it. Hope you get better, stronger and make the relationship work.
@@AxelAxe Thanks a lot for taking your time and respond! 80% of the side work I get paid, the rest I do it for my small personal RUclips channels. When I told her "hey honey, got a new cooler client, pays more, big company etc "she flipped out and got mad "why did you accept this?!? do you want to work even more? " instead of being supportive. I did communicate with her about it, she said something among the lines "you are in a relationship, you have to spend your free time with me; why do you need more money?" She always wants me to be glued to her. And I'm not even married or have kids. Imagine you, Axel, after making it big on RUclips, in your spare time you would like to watch and analyze some movies and youtube videos, read scripts, books, study thumbnails and ai, learn to code a bit, learn to fix cars, WHATEVER. You are constantly improving yourself, and you actually enjoying the process, and you are not on your couch watching TV. You take care of yourself, you are healthy, hit the gym, take care of your parents. And not only you're doing this, you are also giving her your time, take her out, travel, have activities together. What would you do if your chick would still nag you about doing this stuff that don't involve her directly? What's so wrong about doing stuff without her and doing what you like in your free time?
@@redcircuits110 I understand you 100% and I have experienced this. Sadly I don’t have high hopes that she will understand and be okay with the change. You honestly just have to say blunty: “Love from now on this is my business and I will dedicate every waking hour to it. We will put on our calendar special time for us and I will honor that, but anything outside of that time will be dedicated to my business.” Women are made to not be satisfied. No matter how much time you give them you won’t give them enough. Therefore you must prioritize accordingly and dedicate her the time that you deem appropriate. When you spend time with her make sure to be present, make it an adventure, take her out, go dancing, show her an amazing time. Then go back to work. She will respect you and appreciate your time together even more.
I don’t believe anything he says about love, “ride or die”, making her your queen, etc because he says he isn’t wired for monogamy and it’s okay for him to have multiple families.
What if you had the perfect girl that gave the passwords and gave up everything / was loyal and you still found a way to screw it up and not trust based on past traumas
Then you have work to do on yourself. Own up to your mistakes and work hard to become better. If you’re not together anymore then your job is to focus on yourself and make sure you don’t make the same mistake in the future , but there is no need to look back.
He said it because, during the course of life humans slowly grow into becoming different individuals due to all the experience and learnings they get throughout the yrs. And this happens significantly in your younger days
That’s the same thing that happened with me and my woman of 10 years. At the end we divorced because sometimes it takes a long time to come to terms with the reality that your road is ending with someone. And you don’t want to end what you invested time in. But when it all comes down to it there is a catalyst moment where you both realize y’all have reached the expiration date.
@@Hunter-ox6kh The whole idea of us men being able to fuck random women without emotion is asinine to say the least. To hurt my wife is to hurt me. Really hate how these guys harp on women's accountability but don't take any of their own.
@AxelAxe comedy is merely the observation of irony within the truth. People with successful, happy marriages (like myself) think this guy is hilarious. Not as funny as Fresh and Fit, but still hilarious.
Justin is a true clueless beginner pretending he's an expert on love. He´s the blind leading the blind when it comes to love and relationships, just guessing while talking about what he thinks instead of what he knows because he doesn't know. To say a young man in his 20´s should not focus on getting women but on understanding them is useless and stupid advice. That's like saying don't focus on learning how to ride a bike but on understanding how a bike works. That's clearly stupid. You must gain practical hands on experience with women while at the same time learning to understand them. And yes, in the meantime young men should also focus on improving themselves but not avoid gaining and experiencing women on a practical level. Otherwise they're going to end up inexperienced and innocent, not having lost their emotional virginity yet and with a lot of untested red pill theory in their head. And as far as dark love and all that fancy word salad, it is more empty bullshit based on nothing. The most important factor for a romantic relationship to be successful is choosing a high quality woman to begin with. But before you get to that point, you must first become magnetic in order to naturally attract women since you're not supposed to chase them. These days red pill content and relationship advice are on high demand, which is why so many clueless content creators suddenly decide to focus on these trendy topics while barely knowing a thing or two about them. Sad!
Oh my, listening to these exchanges opinions, hope we are not as stupid as they think we are. Their understanding & definition of ‘love’ is so egocentric, dangerously dramatic & just immature.
@@AxelAxe You need to stop defending when someone else has another opinion other than what Justin says, Sometimes Justin does give good advice about self improvement but other times he talks nonsense, I'm nearly sure if Justin said take a shit in your hands and clap to get women you'd defend the idea at this stage....
@@Ginger_demi_god I literally just asked you what part specifically you were referring to so I could understand you better. I disagreed with Justin on the show on some points but you’re using a blanket statement to show your disagreement without making your position. That’s poor communication in my opinion, but I see you’re not looking to talk, just to offend others.
@@AxelAxe I read all your comments on this video not just this one and all i've seen you sucking the farts out of justin's hole, I'm not getting into keyboard arguement with you over you simping over another guy, All the best.
@AxelAxe Because the guy is fronting and entangles himself in contradictions, and people like you are riding his nuts and pretending he's some kind of guru when he's honestly just full of shit.
such a great insight! frame is everything, once you build a solid frame and foundation you will become fulfilled and women will naturally gravitate to you
Absolutely!!
Thank you for this thought-provoking video. I think there’s a really important point that is unsaid: the fear of being alone. I am 51yo and divorced. After our separation, when I was 49yo, I met a beautiful 29yo. We parted ways last month after a joyous 2.5yrs. But I rushed into the relationship. I didn’t believe anyone would ever be interested in me after my marriage fell apart.
I have no regrets whatsoever. She rehabilitated my self-esteem and my self-confidence. We had more sex than you could shake a stick at, seriously. But I ignored so many red flags. Earlier this year, I was very seriously unwell and spent two months in ICU/acute care with sepsis. I was very close to dying, twice. She abandoned me and I realised that we had different value systems. I also think that for a young woman to see her protector so unwell was in a sense a betrayal of the roles in which we had cast ourselves.
But, at core, I realised whilst I was in hospital that it wasn’t to be - and that the warning signs had been obvious and plentiful. But I was too scared of being alone to trust my gut instincts. That’s how I ended up getting married, by the way. I am working with my therapist to ensure that I do not make this type of catastrophic error ever again.
I really enjoyed this video. Thank you again 🙏🏾
Those are truly wise words. We only can really learn from those experiences and do our best to find and give healthy love to ourselves and those around us.
Thanks so much for sharing your story. For comments like these I get up and work hard to share good messages and inspire people to do better.
I hope you recover fully and get back into the love world once again.
I love this conversation... and for sure this beautiful expression : Love as "going to the dark side of moon". thank you both.
Glad you enjoyed it!
That is a very beautiful video. Big ups my guy!
Much appreciated
"Dark Love" 🌹🖤🌹 that's what iam talking about. Also to stand together as "one". A true relationship you both only have eyes for eachother. Great topic. I have so much Respect for you Justin. ❤
I’m glad you enjoyed the conversation.
Justin doesn’t need to study game he’s naturally got it. “Game in the frame”
100%
@@joshuaoreilly1847 he is natural for sure but he also lost track previously. Ever heard about his divorce, etc. He surrounded by game after that although he doesn’t directly study, it obviously is something that is toward the top of his mind.
I didn't like Waller at first for a while but I must say he's a really solid cool cat. Much Respect.
So glad you were open minded and gave our video a shot. 🙏
This is powerful. Thanks for this information
Appreciate you taking the time to watch the episode
G you have to give us the subject’s
Great Podcast keep it up!
David what do you mean with “giving us the subject?”
@@AxelAxe8:15
@AxelAxe The journal entry subject that were to be discussed off air by Justin
@@Bucephalus84 🤫
Justin Waller is a Scorpio man ♏️ Nov 6 according to his profile…meaning that his way of thinking especially Love it’s coming from Dark side of Death- so it doesn’t surprise his philosophy on Love ..I would know ..I am also from Nov 6
🦂🦂🦂
It says he’s a saggitarius lol
@@artaguirre6418 hey Art I’m a triple Nov scorpio girl. Where are you? 😂 Maybe only another scorpio would get another scorpio. lol
We are intense and all or nothing, while men find themselves fascinated by a scorpio woman I think there’s also a little intimidation there, personally if I’m in a committed soul maté relationship I am 1000 percent in every aspect but random encounters aren’t my thing, but I expect the same thing. And yes, they myth is true lol.
And yes he’s right especially being a scorpio, we want an alpha who is stronger than us who fights our battles, provides containment without control, and has that long term deep connection and LOYALTY. ❤
Great conversation! 💯
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for your time
Incredibly dumb to say you can have a good woman and she's in other men's DMs and cheating. LOL
I get accountability for what happens in your life but that's taking accountability way too far.
A good woman may break up with you if you're not in the frame, but a good woman doesn't cheat or DM another man, that my friends is a bad woman
Agreed
Good interview
Thanks
I'm sorry, but if you cheat on someone because they can't hold frame, your a piece of work. Just leave them if they are not saying it, but women are cowards and can sleep with someone they don't respect, yet I am supposed to become my best self so I can attain their respectful side?
Why justify a chameleon type of personality, acknowledge it exists yes, but what we are saying here is that if I get into an accident and lose my capacity to be ideal for her, then she'll leave.
theres all this content about how to be a better man, and most of it is about how to understand women, rather than demand a better woman. As always, the men put in the work, the women stay at the finish line and get the glory - and we get our lustful ways fulfilled. Sad times man.
You have to become your best self so you value yourself and never get into a relationship with the type of woman who would cheat on you. Take full responsibility of all outcomes and you will have more control over your life.
I agree with the original comment. Spot on. Just about all men really live to impress and worship women. She's the only god that man has ever had.
He's the man, good stuff
What books did he reference 1:118 - rolos books ? Thanks you 🙏
I think is The Rational Male
He's right....a woman can be loyal when she feels like she's NUMBER ONE.
Hard to find that woman
Great video quality 💪🏽
Thanks 🙌
I agree that there's a dark side to love. Life is too short to waste time on meaningless relationships. The hardest things to really know in any relationships... is to know if she'll stay with you until your death. If not then you're delusional about her love. Lot's of relationships are transactional nowadays... but it's entirely possible to have meaningful relationships. That's dark and beautiful.
Dark and deep is the way
@TrishaMckillip-it7sv so glad it could help
Love comes in many forms and varieties. And the dark love philosophy rings true with validity but that forest isn’t for everyone to explore. Both of y’all are G’s
You’re spot on there. Thanks so much for taking the time to watch the show Joshua.
What books did Justin mention?
Rational Male
2:00 I don't want the woman that would cheat or reply in the DM's with guy A B C D. A woman should be who she is no matter the man if she's a loyal woman then she's a loyal woman.
That woman will only be with a top level men
The truth that nobody wanna hear. In every relationship one person likes the other person more, which one are you ?
Is a psychological dynamic. Adored and adorer
⚫️Love is the real meaning to a happy fulfilled life.
Facts
He just give out crazy game “dark love “
Respect, Justin. 👌🏻💪🏻
Thanks for watching the show 🙏
Just found out about your channel, thanks RUclips for recommending! Your videos look so pro!
I'm in this 4 year LTR and got red pilled during the second year, and while it "saved" my relationship, my chick just won't support my dreams, passions, goals, hobbies.
I do video editing as a side hustle, love that shit, she just won't support me, always trying to make me feel bad for doing it, constantly having to fight her over this. I don't have destructive hobbies, my only solution now is to leave because it seems impossible to reengineer this situation.
I just don't have the power to leave because I know this will hurt her, yet I think someday I will snap and still walk away, just postponing the inevitable.
Is this similar to why you left the marriage?
Thanks for checking out the channel. It has been a long time building up and is great to hear from people like you who enjoy it.
My situation was very different to yours, but I could give you a couple tips to help with the issue you have.
1-Communication: Next time you have an argument over your side hustle, with very calm tone ask your GF what exactly bothers her about your video editing.
2- Depending on the issue she has with it communicate how you are going to address it, and if is a matter of a disagreement you have to let her know that even if she disagrees you are making a decision for your future and that you will stick with it.
If you make your video editing productive, bring more money, better projects and connections there is no way she will pose that. If your video editing is just doing silly videos or nothing that is really progressing and getting you more money or exposure for business thats probably when she will call you out on it.
Hope you get better, stronger and make the relationship work.
@@AxelAxe Thanks a lot for taking your time and respond!
80% of the side work I get paid, the rest I do it for my small personal RUclips channels.
When I told her "hey honey, got a new cooler client, pays more, big company etc "she flipped out and got mad "why did you accept this?!? do you want to work even more? " instead of being supportive.
I did communicate with her about it, she said something among the lines "you are in a relationship, you have to spend your free time with me; why do you need more money?" She always wants me to be glued to her. And I'm not even married or have kids.
Imagine you, Axel, after making it big on RUclips, in your spare time you would like to watch and analyze some movies and youtube videos, read scripts, books, study thumbnails and ai, learn to code a bit, learn to fix cars, WHATEVER. You are constantly improving yourself, and you actually enjoying the process, and you are not on your couch watching TV. You take care of yourself, you are healthy, hit the gym, take care of your parents. And not only you're doing this, you are also giving her your time, take her out, travel, have activities together.
What would you do if your chick would still nag you about doing this stuff that don't involve her directly? What's so wrong about doing stuff without her and doing what you like in your free time?
@@redcircuits110 I understand you 100% and I have experienced this.
Sadly I don’t have high hopes that she will understand and be okay with the change. You honestly just have to say blunty: “Love from now on this is my business and I will dedicate every waking hour to it. We will put on our calendar special time for us and I will honor that, but anything outside of that time will be dedicated to my business.”
Women are made to not be satisfied. No matter how much time you give them you won’t give them enough. Therefore you must prioritize accordingly and dedicate her the time that you deem appropriate.
When you spend time with her make sure to be present, make it an adventure, take her out, go dancing, show her an amazing time.
Then go back to work. She will respect you and appreciate your time together even more.
Dark love: Yep, it takes me to dark places in my heart alright.
100% true. Sometimes is needed
Real love is light. God is love. God is light.
Real love has many forms
God is light and dark He’s out there destroying what needs to be destroyed in the Old Testament. Dark love 🖤🥀
I don’t believe anything he says about love, “ride or die”, making her your queen, etc because he says he isn’t wired for monogamy and it’s okay for him to have multiple families.
Monogamy and love are not mutually exclusive.
He’s just built different
@@Ap_twsh yes. Built as complete slave to primitive instincts, with complete lack of self control.
@@Ap_twsh yes, built with complete lack of self control 😂
Can somebody recommend me a wife?, In Philippines I'm struggling as a brokie
focus on business and growing yourself personally and the right woman will come into your life
@@AxelAxe thank you man
What if you had the perfect girl that gave the passwords and gave up everything / was loyal and you still found a way to screw it up and not trust based on past traumas
Then you have work to do on yourself. Own up to your mistakes and work hard to become better.
If you’re not together anymore then your job is to focus on yourself and make sure you don’t make the same mistake in the future , but there is no need to look back.
first song?
I can still make Cheyene
@@AxelAxe thanks bro.
oh sorry brother i meant the intro song
@@AxelAxe
@@KAMALASUPPORTER101 is a song from our music library. Not a song available out there.
@@AxelAxe Oh. It’s super G
Chad chad....in a Godless wisdom of the heRth of men.
Can you explain more? Very confused by your comment
We were completely different people, we were not aligned. Brother realized this after 10 years. I refuse to buy it.
We started dating at 18y/o. Got married at 21. After a decade we were completely different people. That’s the facts, you don’t need to buy it
He said it because, during the course of life humans slowly grow into becoming different individuals due to all the experience and learnings they get throughout the yrs. And this happens significantly in your younger days
Stone ladies acording to Miroljub Petrović
what Younger ages -! If you concider 12 , tha' s it
That’s the same thing that happened with me and my woman of 10 years. At the end we divorced because sometimes it takes a long time to come to terms with the reality that your road is ending with someone. And you don’t want to end what you invested time in. But when it all comes down to it there is a catalyst moment where you both realize y’all have reached the expiration date.
Is Justin monogamous with his wife?
That’s a good question
He is not monogamous. He does not truly respect the emotions of his wife, this is a distorted kind of love that pleases the man but destroys the woman
And the children too. It’s completely unhealthy for a loving relationship
She will take 50% of his crap sooner or later 😂
@@Hunter-ox6kh The whole idea of us men being able to fuck random women without emotion is asinine to say the least. To hurt my wife is to hurt me. Really hate how these guys harp on women's accountability but don't take any of their own.
His idea of love seems like it would come from a moody bad boy in a young adult romance novel...
Who is reading that novel?
He likes to pretend he's Christian Gray. His wives keep his money and cheat when he's not around. Burner phones are solid.
@@melissamailhot7640 you could be a comedian
@AxelAxe comedy is merely the observation of irony within the truth. People with successful, happy marriages (like myself) think this guy is hilarious. Not as funny as Fresh and Fit, but still hilarious.
So is homicide.... let that sink in
Is a metaphor
Justin is a true clueless beginner pretending he's an expert on love. He´s the blind leading the blind when it comes to love and relationships, just guessing while talking about what he thinks instead of what he knows because he doesn't know. To say a young man in his 20´s should not focus on getting women but on understanding them is useless and stupid advice. That's like saying don't focus on learning how to ride a bike but on understanding how a bike works. That's clearly stupid. You must gain practical hands on experience with women while at the same time learning to understand them. And yes, in the meantime young men should also focus on improving themselves but not avoid gaining and experiencing women on a practical level. Otherwise they're going to end up inexperienced and innocent, not having lost their emotional virginity yet and with a lot of untested red pill theory in their head. And as far as dark love and all that fancy word salad, it is more empty bullshit based on nothing. The most important factor for a romantic relationship to be successful is choosing a high quality woman to begin with. But before you get to that point, you must first become magnetic in order to naturally attract women since you're not supposed to chase them. These days red pill content and relationship advice are on high demand, which is why so many clueless content creators suddenly decide to focus on these trendy topics while barely knowing a thing or two about them. Sad!
You basically said the same thing we were talking about but with different words
Most eye opening 12 minutes
What was your favorite takeaway?
Hope you check out the full episode
Bro looks like neymar
The Cuban version
the cringe king!
Love your elaborate comment 🙌
Oh my, listening to these exchanges opinions, hope we are not as stupid as they think we are. Their understanding & definition of ‘love’ is so egocentric, dangerously dramatic & just immature.
What is your definition?
@@AxelAxe no reply😂
This guy is « ok » at best. If I were you, I wouldnt take advice from a narcissist.
What advice would you give? Can you be more specific to what part not to listen to? In a bit confused
@@AxelAxe You need to stop defending when someone else has another opinion other than what Justin says, Sometimes Justin does give good advice about self improvement but other times he talks nonsense, I'm nearly sure if Justin said take a shit in your hands and clap to get women you'd defend the idea at this stage....
@@Ginger_demi_god I literally just asked you what part specifically you were referring to so I could understand you better. I disagreed with Justin on the show on some points but you’re using a blanket statement to show your disagreement without making your position. That’s poor communication in my opinion, but I see you’re not looking to talk, just to offend others.
@@AxelAxe I read all your comments on this video not just this one and all i've seen you sucking the farts out of justin's hole, I'm not getting into keyboard arguement with you over you simping over another guy, All the best.
The guy is such a nerd. Who is he going to be buried next to when the guy isn't even capable of being in a relationship with one woman?
And how is that making someone a nerd?
@AxelAxe Because the guy is fronting and entangles himself in contradictions, and people like you are riding his nuts and pretending he's some kind of guru when he's honestly just full of shit.