If this is the kind of embarrassment you’re dealing with at the wedding can you imagine what you’ll have to deal with if you go through with the marriage for the rest of your life?
I don't think the mistress ruined the wedding. The groom did that when he cheated. I would want to know before I legally commit myself to someone. I would thank her for telling me and from possibly keeping me from catching and STD. I think we forget diseases are out there. He's to blame.
And Loni talking about fighting for love. Are you f*****k kidding me? Fighting for love is beyond ridiculous. You don’t have to tell me twice you don’t want me. Don’t ever let someone tell you they don’t want you more than once. A disgrace
Showing up in a wedding dress? The side chick was crazy. If he's getting married, he clearly doesn't want you to be anything more than the side chick. If she'd done what Jeannie said, along with not showing up in a wedding dress, I'd applaud that. That 1 "ruined day" could prevent the bride from making the biggest mistake of her life
But try to do it before the wedding if u gonna do it. And let the bride do with whatever she wants with that information lol. But at the wedding is to extra... 😭😭
Eeeeeewwwww, that lizard kiss was nasty! Whoever did that kisses like dead fish! No offense to Adrienne at all, but I hope Loni used some hand sanitizer after that. 😄😃😅
These older girl chat videos that The Real been releasing sir some time now.. each one just makes me miss Tamera so much. I just don’t understand why they don’t release the full girl chats with Tamar from season 1 and 2. I really miss Tam and Tay Tay on the real 😭
One thing missing from these conversations is that this situation happened in Africa where culturally, polygamy is common and side chic/mistress is real and very also common place. So, the bride feels "lucky" to be the one picked and that's why she would not be quick to leave the groom.
😳 I mean for cultures sake I see what you mean. But that’s an awful experience to have on that day with the man you’re taking vows with to be faithful... *wait* is the vow to be faithful in the vows in African culture? I really want to know, educate me sis 🤷🏾♀️
@@kailahbrown4887 if it’s a wedding in a church the vows are the standard vows where “forsaking all others” is included that part is said along with In sickness and in health but it doesn’t mean that the groom will stick to his vows. Some people are getting calls from their mistress’s on the day of the wedding and so on. It can get pretty bad. This is not all Africans of course but it happens. The brides family may even encourage her to get married so she has a title and a perceived “one up” on the mistress or mistresses and trust she will be attending social events with the cheating man on her arm and his mistresses in the room. It can get intolerable
If I was that bride..I wouldn’t be marrying that man. There is no way I will marry him after finding out he had a woman at the side while we were dating and engaged.
Thanks Adrienne for the lesson...i knew how I wanted to be kissed but didn't know how to explain it...now I will just make him watch this and Taraji' movie ofcourse
Or sitting the whole time😊🤭🥴 it’s like Loni said one time during a live show when they got back to the studio. She was like when you stand up it looks like you be sitting down 🥴🤭👀😮
I advice to people who want to feel more confident physically for their wedding to gain muscle instead of loosing weight. Working out can be a healthy habit you pick up and hold on to
Lonnie's thought process reeks of low self esteem. Not every side chick knows they are side chicks or take the "L" lying low...Those cheating men deserve the chaos at their weddings and the embarrassment they get cos they knew what they were doing...
But in my opinion she was actually standing up for the side chicks tho out there abusurd as it must seem. Saying don’t do this or embarrass yourselves like that lol😂 However in all fairness I think this one knew and was tacky as heck. I mean who shows up the day of the brides & grooms wedding in the same white wedding dress as the side chick.🤷🏽♀️ I don’t get it 🤔 I think she knew what she was doing and was petty for it. Plus this is Africa we’re talking about a big community. Where everybody seems to know everybody sadly 😊🥴 like how would you not know so and so has a wedding lmaoo! Look no offense or disrespect but I can’t believe people like you are still sticking up for the side chicks in general. Saying she didn’t know yet had the nerve to come in a wedding dress for that matter like who does that🤨😐 lol like no offense to you just saying!
I’m skipping the ceremony, enjoying the food, drinks and dancing with my family, and leaving single. Not about to waste all the money spent, but I’m damn sure not marrying him lmao
My only question is so why didn't he follow what his heart really wanted & marry the mistress? ( after the bride & all of his future in-laws left the church)
They really need to take out that part "speak now or forever hold your peace". Because no one is going to stop their wedding because somebody has a problem with it. Why is that in their anyway? Makes no sense especially if you and and your fiance are fully grown and paid for your own wedding.
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No one dissing the husband for having a mistress in the first place! The wife needs to have self respect and leave that relationship. The husband needs to stay single if he cant keep it in his pants. The side chick needs to know her worth and pick a better man.
Ahaha your profile name while mentioning this fits with this exact comment. I hope she took your profile name serious and used sanitizer on her hands. Or at least washed them when she got the chance cause that was just gruesome and ridiculous. 😮🥴🤭🙀 just disgusting lmaoo!😂😄👀😧
I can't agree with the 'look good feel good' because I can look amazing, but if I don't feel good that day it won't matter how many times my husband says I look amazing... I'll feel like my clothes are to tight or my shoes aren't right or like that body dismorphia like I can be 110 and look in the mirror and see myself as I was at 150. I just won't feel right... I would continue the ceremony cause all that money is usually the brides side of the family. So yeah then they ask "Do you take him" and I'd say "obviously no" and then don't sign the marriage certificate. At least here in America that certificate is what matters.
I would rather feel than good than to look good. Feeling good satisfies me, looking good won't help me in the long run 🤷🏾♀️ If I feel good then I'll want to look good.
I know exactly what Adrienne Bailon is talking about I’m a kisser I love too kiss 💋 ... my last three relationship said they never had someone too kiss like me I’m 67 yrs now 💋💋... been married twice and a 7 year courtship
Some of these ladies are crazy… Exposing his unfaithfulness is not YOU ruining the bride’s day. HE did that when he chose to disrespect their relationship by cheating. I don’t get why people try to direct their anger at the messenger, instead of the one doing the dirt.
Jeannie had some good ideas! Adrienne...don't know if you would ever be so calm. Then again...the SHOCK of it all ...can give u that reaction! Yes Tamera know your self worth! Yes Tamera it goes both ways...feels good/look good ..vice versa!
If this is the kind of embarrassment you’re dealing with at the wedding can you imagine what you’ll have to deal with if you go through with the marriage for the rest of your life?
So true!!!!
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Exactly
And you/ she still basically thinking of marrying the guy Mmm mm mm😕😐🥴
If a side chick shows up at my wedding, I call that Divine Intervention.
Exactly 💯
True but I would be mad because of all the money that was spent u can still have a party though without the groom though 😂
🤣🤣😂😂indeed
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I agree👍🏼
I don't think the mistress ruined the wedding. The groom did that when he cheated. I would want to know before I legally commit myself to someone. I would thank her for telling me and from possibly keeping me from catching and STD. I think we forget diseases are out there. He's to blame.
EXACTLY 💯💯
Haha true...but would be nice if she told before the wedding to the bride
@@SSBMA1994 Then she probably would not have been marrying him in the first place and spare the shame & embarrassment!
🤣 🤣 JEANNIE is being honest af and Adrienne is flabbergasted 🤣
I’m with Jeanie on this 100 lol petty gang!😂
Jeannie is sis
I totally agree with Jeannie, that's badass
I forgot all about that after the example of that kiss 😂
Jeannie knows her ass would be crying if that happened to her lmao
If I was the bride, she can have him! I wouldn’t be up there had I known at all so I’d thank her for doing me a favor
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Forreal!
And Loni talking about fighting for love. Are you f*****k kidding me? Fighting for love is beyond ridiculous. You don’t have to tell me twice you don’t want me. Don’t ever let someone tell you they don’t want you more than once. A disgrace
Yes
I will NEVER fight for anyone. If he is interested in someone else also then she can have him. Have some dignity, r u serious with fighting for him!!
Showing up in a wedding dress? The side chick was crazy. If he's getting married, he clearly doesn't want you to be anything more than the side chick. If she'd done what Jeannie said, along with not showing up in a wedding dress, I'd applaud that. That 1 "ruined day" could prevent the bride from making the biggest mistake of her life
I'm low key with Jeannie lol. "Speak now or forever hold your peace" I got some texts to show you!
But try to do it before the wedding if u gonna do it. And let the bride do with whatever she wants with that information lol. But at the wedding is to extra... 😭😭
How dare they cancel this great show?!
Right
We miss😢
The mistress that crashed the wedding has lots of guts and nerves
@@eneobande7433 ON ME SHE WOULD HAVE GOT JUMPED BY MY FAMILY! I STILL WOULDNT HAVE MARRIED HIM 🤣🤣
She did the bride a favor
It's Jeanie for ME!!! I totally agree with Jeanie
Love seeing these four together!
Adrienne kissing Loni’s hand like that was so hot!! She also had me dying with that lizard kiss 😂😂😂
Even her wack kiss was hot 🥵
Eeeeeewwwww, that lizard kiss was nasty! Whoever did that kisses like dead fish! No offense to Adrienne at all, but I hope Loni used some hand sanitizer after that. 😄😃😅
@@RTA6226 Right I hope she did too or at least maybe washed her hands after that cause that was just disgusting and out of line tbh🥴🤭😧😮😁
I feel really bad for this bride that her wedding ended up getting chaotic.
Jeanine had me cracking up
This was funny and I love Loni and Adrienne…especially together!
These older girl chat videos that The Real been releasing sir some time now.. each one just makes me miss Tamera so much. I just don’t understand why they don’t release the full girl chats with Tamar from season 1 and 2. I really miss Tam and Tay Tay on the real 😭
One thing missing from these conversations is that this situation happened in Africa where culturally, polygamy is common and side chic/mistress is real and very also common place. So, the bride feels "lucky" to be the one picked and that's why she would not be quick to leave the groom.
😳 I mean for cultures sake I see what you mean. But that’s an awful experience to have on that day with the man you’re taking vows with to be faithful... *wait* is the vow to be faithful in the vows in African culture? I really want to know, educate me sis 🤷🏾♀️
Polygamy is different from cheating. Mutually agreed upon relationship structures is not the same as lying, and cheating.
@@cheesewithxbread so u mean the bride already knows he has a mistress and is ok with it?
Thought polygamy means multiple wives and everyone is on the same page ? This isn’t the case here .
@@kailahbrown4887 if it’s a wedding in a church the vows are the standard vows where “forsaking all others” is included that part is said along with In sickness and in health but it doesn’t mean that the groom will stick to his vows. Some people are getting calls from their mistress’s on the day of the wedding and so on. It can get pretty bad. This is not all Africans of course but it happens. The brides family may even encourage her to get married so she has a title and a perceived “one up” on the mistress or mistresses and trust she will be attending social events with the cheating man on her arm and his mistresses in the room. It can get intolerable
Side chicks be like ⚰️💀☠️ he said he'll break up with her real soon. Any day now.
Adrienne in this episode is everything!
If I was that bride..I wouldn’t be marrying that man. There is no way I will marry him after finding out he had a woman at the side while we were dating and engaged.
Lonnie saving side chicks….. thanks Jeannie I can’t breathe 😂😂😂😂😂 (reading text messages)
Jeanie girl please don’t do that🤣 you gonna get somebody beat up with that advice
Thanks Adrienne for the lesson...i knew how I wanted to be kissed but didn't know how to explain it...now I will just make him watch this and Taraji' movie ofcourse
I miss them already!!! Love the kissing demo, so hilarious
Sadly, in my wedding the pastor said "You may bow to your bride." We didn't rehearse. So we just bowed to each other 😆 🤣 😂 😹
That kiss was so damn funny! 😂💖 Awe I love these girls, gonna miss them.
😂 Adrienne stood up but she looked like she had been standing the whole time!! Lol
Or sitting the whole time😊🤭🥴 it’s like Loni said one time during a live show when they got back to the studio. She was like when you stand up it looks like you be sitting down 🥴🤭👀😮
Adriene really kissed Loni's hand... OMG❤️❤️❤️😂😂😂😂😂😂
Side chicks be like 🧟♀️ u break up with her yet?
The Adrienne Kiss I will never forget 😂😂
Why do I feel like most, if not all, the recent Girl Chat Vault uploads have been Fri-yay episodes? Maybe it's just me imagining it.
I advice to people who want to feel more confident physically for their wedding to gain muscle instead of loosing weight. Working out can be a healthy habit you pick up and hold on to
I'm with Jennie on them text messages. And if a woman feel that empowered to crash my wedding in a wedding dress, sis, keep him.
Lonnie's thought process reeks of low self esteem. Not every side chick knows they are side chicks or take the "L" lying low...Those cheating men deserve the chaos at their weddings and the embarrassment they get cos they knew what they were doing...
But in my opinion she was actually standing up for the side chicks tho out there abusurd as it must seem. Saying don’t do this or embarrass yourselves like that lol😂 However in all fairness I think this one knew and was tacky as heck. I mean who shows up the day of the brides & grooms wedding in the same white wedding dress as the side chick.🤷🏽♀️ I don’t get it 🤔 I think she knew what she was doing and was petty for it. Plus this is Africa we’re talking about a big community. Where everybody seems to know everybody sadly 😊🥴 like how would you not know so and so has a wedding lmaoo! Look no offense or disrespect but I can’t believe people like you are still sticking up for the side chicks in general. Saying she didn’t know yet had the nerve to come in a wedding dress for that matter like who does that🤨😐 lol like no offense to you just saying!
I would totally walk away and let the side chick have his @$$.
He's shown you who he is, believe it.
Lmaooooo Adrienne said give me your hand again Loni the last kiss was the worst I been kissed like that and I think now I hate kisses
Adrienne made me question my sexuality with that kiss lol
She is a bad one indeed.
I’m Adrienne. Tell the bride in private and don’t embarrass her! Also help her to save some money on that wedding
No one knows what they would do until they are in that situation.
I’m skipping the ceremony, enjoying the food, drinks and dancing with my family, and leaving single. Not about to waste all the money spent, but I’m damn sure not marrying him lmao
Love Adrienne. I’ll miss you guys on the show for sure.
Loni's hand is pregnant🤣🤣
Adrian is such a Scorpio “I feel great I feel fantastic “ lol
How you look mostly determine how you feel especially as a bride
Jeannie tho 😂
She would have got dragged if it was my family
We would have just had a party. With out the groom at the reception
He would be in court getting sued for what I spent.
My only question is so why didn't he follow what his heart really wanted & marry the mistress? ( after the bride & all of his future in-laws left the church)
Loni is hysterical.
Adrienne's top and earrings are everything 😍
We often miss the red flags but this one here ... You can't miss it!
The "side chick" looks like she is wearing a Halloween costume. I think this is made for TV and is very fake.
Sad for the wife, sad for the side chick! And the guy is like….
Bride would be humiliated have decency to tell her before wedding then she decide if she wants to go through it
They really need to take out that part "speak now or forever hold your peace". Because no one is going to stop their wedding because somebody has a problem with it.
Why is that in their anyway?
Makes no sense especially if you and and your fiance are fully grown and paid for your own wedding.
Well some people really do be having something to say and not gonna lie but sometimes that be the best part of the wedding no joke!🙀😊😁😮
I would do what Jeannie would do lmao 😂 I'm saving the bride from hell
Jeannie is not a child. She don't play!! Lol
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I would be like Bye!
Bro that groom is the problem
Oh wow lmao, i love Jeannie for cosigning on pullin receipts!!!! Lol
No one dissing the husband for having a mistress in the first place! The wife needs to have self respect and leave that relationship. The husband needs to stay single if he cant keep it in his pants. The side chick needs to know her worth and pick a better man.
Adrienne making out with Loni hand 😮😮 LAWD JESUS! 😂😂😂😂
Sorry Jennie. I always felt you would no get married! I was very very thankful when you moved in 💯🙏🏽👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
No one knows what the groom has been saying to either girlfriend.
15:01 Loni was Deffffff into that kissing Adrienne was doing 😂
Ahaha your profile name while mentioning this fits with this exact comment. I hope she took your profile name serious and used sanitizer on her hands. Or at least washed them when she got the chance cause that was just gruesome and ridiculous. 😮🥴🤭🙀 just disgusting lmaoo!😂😄👀😧
Adrienne is funny...she is right about the lizard kissers!!!
this happens all the time here in africa
That's crazy
If he loved and respected you enough he would have married you instead. You’re fighting for a love that doesn’t exist
Exactly that last part 👍☝️ I agree with like you won since your getting married what are you fighting for again lmaoo
I can't agree with the 'look good feel good' because I can look amazing, but if I don't feel good that day it won't matter how many times my husband says I look amazing... I'll feel like my clothes are to tight or my shoes aren't right or like that body dismorphia like I can be 110 and look in the mirror and see myself as I was at 150. I just won't feel right...
I would continue the ceremony cause all that money is usually the brides side of the family. So yeah then they ask "Do you take him" and I'd say "obviously no" and then don't sign the marriage certificate. At least here in America that certificate is what matters.
Yeah I agree with the first 3 lines of your sentence😊 true
But did he pick her tho? Why would he pick, he literally had them both. Lol
She needs to know....
Omg Loni is a vampire. No way she is that old.
I would rather feel than good than to look good. Feeling good satisfies me, looking good won't help me in the long run 🤷🏾♀️ If I feel good then I'll want to look good.
I know exactly what Adrienne Bailon is talking about I’m a kisser I love too kiss 💋 ... my last three relationship said they never had someone too kiss like me I’m 67 yrs now 💋💋... been married twice and a 7 year courtship
Very much crazy
Fighting for a bum.
😊
So who was the athlete Loni was talking about? 😅😂
Right I feel like want to know too I’m surprised she didn’t spill it like usual lol. She would usually spill everyone else’s lmaoo
One the bride may have just found out that day...
Moon 🚶♀️ lolol
Loni was eluding to Adrienne 's husband having a side chick.
@@debrajames3865 what does that have to do with the moon walk
@@hauterodanthe680 Loni was hinting that Adrienne should moon walk out of her marriage 💑. Wake up
I am judging the groom...he messed with her.
Honey Jesus already knows lol
Is that what she said lmaoo
The ushers should have stopped her
Lonnie is hilarious
She could've spoke up before that day
Weddings are a girl's best friend 💯
Some of these ladies are crazy… Exposing his unfaithfulness is not YOU ruining the bride’s day. HE did that when he chose to disrespect their relationship by cheating. I don’t get why people try to direct their anger at the messenger, instead of the one doing the dirt.
And that’s why I f.cks with Jeanie! She keeps it a buck fiddddyyyyyyy
Why lose weight for just wedding
Side chicks know your assignment ...
Ooooh you know Jeanie been a mistress haha love you j
She's trying to help the side a side chick lol
Does anyone know which athlete Loni was talking about?!
Right🤦🏾♀️
Adrienne 🤦🏻♀️
Welp, Lonnie would be the bride waiting like the one did in the video...based off of her response. Seriously I'm with Jeannie all of the way👊🏽
So J Mai said she'd do a V Williams Congratulations on the wedding.
I don’t blame her.
Why wait for a wedding to lose weight you wanna lose weight for yourself not cause of a marriage
Jeannie had some good ideas! Adrienne...don't know if you would ever be so calm. Then again...the SHOCK of it all ...can give u that reaction! Yes Tamera know your self worth! Yes Tamera it goes both ways...feels good/look good ..vice versa!