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Hi Neil. Pam here, Steve’s wife. We’re so glad you’re focusing on your health! Just a few notes. #1 You guys are kind enough to share your journey, and your learning experiences ( the good, the bad, and the ugly ). #2- Your job is not to be our source of entertainment. You are just sharing your experiences. If someone is not enjoying or learning- get off the channel! But, unfortunately, trolls just have to jump in and do or say anything to have the attention on themselves. As the advertising industry has taught us, bad attention is better than no attention. #3- If it’s not fun for you anymore, don’t feel bad about hanging it up. You don’t owe anyone anything! #4- There are other mediums, maybe you’d enjoy doing a podcast, when the moment moved you. Write an e-book about your experiences, or just enjoy your time with Sarah. Without your health, there’s nothing. Take the time and energy to take care of you. A big raspberry to the trolls and people with rude comments. Arm chair critics are always eager to tell you you’re not doing things right, but 99 out of 100 have never been brave enough to step up to the plate and try. Whatever you decide, we wish you and Sarah nothing but good health, happiness, and happy travels whether it’s to the next town over or across the globe. Hugs from Pam and Steve.
Hey Neil, this is Dre. I’m in my early 60s and I took a fall last year that damaged my rotator cuff. Got surgery and physical therapy. At the end of PT, I scheduled my final assessment appointment. Guess what! In Feb, I slipped and fell on ice injured my other rotator cuff. All I could think of is “not again”! My wife and I enjoy your content. We see ourselves in you guys. We’re not completely retired, but we look forward to it and your testimonials, advice, entertainment are well received. We watch videos from start to finish. We enjoy the journey of the content. We have patience. Many viewers lack patience and consume content quite differently than our generation. You’re not boring. You’re quality. You have the wisdom and we appreciate you sharing your life with us. As a fellow content creator, I face the same challenges as you when we’re on vacation. Balancing time to collect content vs enjoying our vacation. The beauty of all of this is that we don’t need the money from RUclips. As such, we have the power to put this thing on pause. Take all the time you need. We will be here. Cheers to you and Sarah. We completely get everything you said and are thankful for sharing unbiased content. ❤
Exactly! Well said, thank you!
Neil, and Sarah, I have loved watching your channel. It’s in my top two! I know I don’t have the patience to host a RUclips channel for all the time-consuming reasons you mentioned. I’ve really benefited from all the things you’ve shared. I often cite you when I’m talking with my partner about our own retirement plans. Thank you, both, so very much for your generosity, warmth and sincerity. I hope you feel strong and healthy soon. I’ll miss spending breakfast time with you two. ❤ Shannon
Neil and Sarah, my name is Alan, and I was recommended to watch you by my darling sister. Initially I wasn’t over enamoured by your content, but the more I watched the greater the impression I got from you two independent individuals. I respect your candour and frailties, and you carry your hearts on your sleeves. It takes guts and determination to put yourselves up for trolls to take a pop at you but you’ve maintained your dignity throughout. I can never understand why people who don’t enjoy your content, don’t just jog on to something to their taste without spitting out venom and bile. It’s not big and it’s certainly not clever.
I sincerely hope that after you regain your health, you return in whatever guise you want, as you’ve both obviously got a talent for producing and presenting. Keep doing whatever makes you both happy and do it for a long time. I wish you both good fortune and the health to enjoy life.
My sister is Dawn btw. Two go Roam for the time being, or maybe longer, Two stay at home. Best wishes.
I've watched many of your videos for some time now & enjoy them as there thought provoking so thankyou to you both.
Neil, please seek the help you need to get better & pain free, totally understand taking a break from RUclips! You'll both be back but your health comes first & foremost
In regards to the minut nay-sayers comments you mentioned, ignore them! I've learned that no matter what one says, there will always be those few who hear it in a negative way.
Personally, I very much enjoy your style & content and wish you both the very best going forward.
Cheers, Belinda from Canada 🇨🇦
Very well said! I appreciate you both very much. Dan, 59, Virginia Beach, USA
I was just telling my husband that this is my fave retirement channel. I look forward to your videos every Saturday. I enjoy your banter, your relationship, your insight (loved that spreadsheet with the Monte Carlo numbers), your adventures. But especially I love your humor and the funny comments about silly details. I tell people about “this retirement couple I follow” and the things I have learned. I understand though that health comes first, so focus on that and I hope to see you guys back (sorry for using that word), when all is well.
You were always meant to be a presenter, BBC level too. You could absolutely just riff videos with NO SCRIPT and NO EDITING and your style would make it great. Imagine just shooting a video and uploading straight away...it would be so freeing. We don't care about polish or perfection. Many RUclipsrs are better when they do this. Take a year to fix your health, nothing else matters. We love you both and your wonderful content.
We dont find you two boring at all Neil!! You and Sarah tell a wonderful story and are easy to listing to, You should consider doing a podcast! To a speedy recovery!! Cheers!!!🍻
So sorry about your health issues. It was you and another channel that introduced me to the concept of early retirement and slow travel. And because of you, I totally changed the trajectory of my retirement plans. I thank you for it. Good luck with your eventual recovery.
Wishing you a great recovery Neil, you sharing your journey should be fun and not a chore. Do what gives you energy.
Ramble on mate, it makes the video more authentic. I've been on the move for 3 years and the changing of beds and inconsistent exercising affected my back and muscles. Staying in one place for a good duration helped me a lot to get better, but now I am focused on maintaining an exercise routine that I can practice regardless of where I stay. To everyone, (mostly you over 50s) we can still have fun, but get your diet, health, and fitness in order first. Neil, wishing you a quick recovery, take (more) care.
Thanks a lot for your authenticity and honesty around health challenges which you very seldom see on RUclips. Believe it makes us viewer’s to reflect and appreciate life even more. Big thanks🙏
Hey Twix, Thank you so much for your incredible support. We both feel totally humbled and we'll be investing this money into the Channel so that when we are back, we'll be even better. People like you make all this worthwhile. Once again, thank you. Neil & Sarah x
@Twix999S . Well done for giving this lovely couple such a generous gift❤
Hi Neil. I’m a Reg Nurse 62 (early retired) discovered Carnivore Diet… no inflammation, no arthritis, no pain, lost 20kg, sleep only 9 hrs a night. Look up Old Guy Carnivore, Dr Ken Berry, Dr Anthony Chaffee… you will get relief… try 30 days. Beef, Bacon, butter and eggs. Beef and Lamb and eggs… I live Australia and have condo in Bangkok. I travel everywhere… I love your videos, hate to see you in Pain… Mark in Brisbane
YESSS pls check out the recommendations above. They changed my life too
Yes! Yes! Yes! Carnivore Diet
I used to have a terrible bad back. I found a really good pilates teacher and had 1-1 sessions. Within a month I was off all painkillers. You'll become very body aware doing pilates and in a short time you'll be able to do exercises yourself that help support your back, ease pain and prevent recurrent bouts of pain, inflammation and stiffness. This might sound too good to be true but it does work. Good luck, back pain really is awful - all the best.
Feel better soon Neil. You're health is the number one priority.
Love watching your channel. Sorry to hear about your back. You were both extremely lovely folks. All the best.
I’m so very sorry to hear about your back issues - wishing you a speedy recovery!
Health is your wealth. You've been incredibly generous to share your journey and your commitment to producing excellent content. Take care of yourselves first and that includes enjoying your time and travels. 😊 You are not letting any of us down. Go easy on yourselves and enjoy your life.
I’m so sorry! I’ve followed you from the beginning because you are so smart and informative.Get well as your health is most important.
I’ll be 70 on May. I have not been able to walk for 20 years due to six back surgeries starting at age 33. I can somewhat manage around my home but can’t cook, clean etc any longer. That’s just the beginning. I’ve had knee and shoulder replacements. I live on serious pain meds. Please follow your Drs directions. Loose weight, strengthen your core. Most important things to do imo. Things have changed a lot over 30+ years re:backs. I live in the US and have a home in Dubrovnik. Sadly I really can’t go any longer because Europe doesn’t deal well with disabled people yet. I wish you well please listen to Dr’s. All the Best
Sadly many places are not disabled friendly given I have hip issues and went to bali not great. I would of thought with help of a carer most places would be ok sadly I am alone almost 60 and as a woman who has travelled before in my 20’s as I knew over 50 wasn’t going to be good for me always thought I would again. But is just not possible when one is alone. I also am on meds and can get around house was bed riddled many years but just had hip replacement so am moving much better now. I am so sorry to hear your story as is very hard when it happens so young. I was 20 when I got my injuries to pelvis took years then I traveled knowing it would happen again after 40 I got to almost 50 before riddled with arthritis and had my back seize once was the most unbearable pain with the hip added I couldn’t move at all. I did do travel many times by wheelchair alone was ok going there and going home but was impossible alone once I arrived without help. Lucky help I paid for and it wasn’t expensive. I hope maybe you can somehow travel again. And I wish there was a support Network to help single folk like me to travel with other disabled people who could help each other.
Neil, you and Sarah are just amazing. Thank you for your vulnerability and for your contribution to the world.
Thankful for all the information you two have shared these past few years.
We are retired nomads who have also had to put our plans on hold while I deal with similar health issues.
Rest and rehab…you are both young enough that you have plenty of time to continue your dream.
Get the food sorted for physical and mental health if you can. No inflammatory seed oils really reduce carbs if you can. Up the meat and fish eggs etc. If you can reduce the inflammation it will help your back. Plus you get slimmer too. Win win. Also give you something that you can work on without causing more pain. Love the vids. X
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Sorry for your medical issues. Simply just post once a month and enjoy! We will be here when you post! Cheers
Take care of yourselves. Hope to see you back here when you are better. ❤
Your health is very important. Take care of yourself. I enjoy your videos and can tell you both put a lot of work into them.
Sorry to hear how bad your back is...that really sucks! Please take time to get your health in order!!! We can wait until you feel better :)
Just letting you know prayers are being done for you and Sarah. Miss your videos and hope you are doing well.
I just love you both! It breaks my heart to see you in such pain 🥹 I’m so glad you found a great therapist in Spain. You need to get your back in good condition, that’s most important.
Sending prayers 🙏 that you get the best therapy possible and get back to normal. XOXO ❤
Well done. Appreciate y’all. It is very important to tend to your health!
Thank you for sharing. I know how hard it must have been to film this. Take care of your health. You are not letting anyone down. I’m sure Sara(h) will tell you the same. I just started watching your videos , as it is our dream to do what you are doing, in 2 years, moved up from 5 years. I have back issues, so I feel your pain, literally. 3 slipped discs within 2 years. Tge last two right before a SE Asia trip, which we had to cancel, and then 6 months later a day before a Peru trip that we had to cancel. Take about mental health crisis as well. Take care of yourself & be kind to yourself. We will all wait.
There are few things worse than being in so much pain you can’t sleep. i am so sorry. And I get it. I am 70 and have never been in a hospital overnight. My sense of self is that I’m a healthy person. We have been traveling for 4 years now and I am still in shock how rapidly my body and health has deteriorated in the last 18 months. Arthritis in my knees, a wacky heart arrhythmia, diabetes and frequent digestive problems. I am trying to wrap my brain around it while figuring out how to continue to travel full-time. I admire you for committing to create content-from the get-go I knew that would feel too much like work. Do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Do what YOU want. Live your life. Live your life.
I can sympathise, I had a bout of back pain about 10 years ago, and the treatment was just take pain relief pills and a 15 min session with a physio who basically said lose weight and strengthen your core muscles. I did improve my fitness after that and it did help, but I never forget the original pain and how disabilitating it is. Get well soon.
Hope you get better soon - everyone will miss you! You are NOT boring!
I'm so sorry you're in pain! I, too, have begun to experience my body betraying me with my age. It really makes one re-evaluate what they're doing and what their plan is. I have two years to retire and did not do the fire saving that you and Sarah and others have done. And I don't want to be a full-time Nomad when I retire, but I get so much from your and Sarah's perspective. I find you both to be so authentic, and I've been with you for a few years and appreciate who you are as people. I hope that you become 100% healthy so that you can enjoy your life, and if that means returning to RUclips then I'll get to visit with you and Sarah again. Thank you for sharing your journey with us! ❤
Well done, it is a smart man that knows when he needs to take time on himself and his beautiful wife. I hope your back gets better soon.
I think consultancy is a fantastic idea! It's one of the reasons we wanted to meet up with you guys in Vegas that time (when sadly your mom passed away and couldn't do it) we wanted to pick your brains! I love your videos. You are never boring! That being said, there are some things that I'm just more interested in than others. For me, it's the nuts and bolts of travel, the challenges, the little things that other people wouldn't think of. We have our finances on the right track (fingers crossed!) so that is less interesting to me. I like to see places first hand so videos of other places are somewhat interesting but don't grab my attention quite as much. I understand that you have to make content that appeals to a wide variety of folks and I just pop in and out at times, but I never fail to check in and see what you guys are up to. If you decide that you need to stop making videos I would miss you, but would totally understand. Your personal health and happiness must come first! I'm still waiting for you to come visit us here in West Virginia so we can show you around. 😊 Feel better and give Sarah our love!
Please get well. We're each 71 and love your channel. You have certainly changed our perspective on retirement. Please continue your efforts to get yourself well, but also, if you can, keep us informed. You and Sarah are true gems that deserve all that is good! Cheers from Adelaide (Oz) from Christine and Daryl.
Yours, mine, and everyone else's health is the most important thing we have, and it gets more important and harder to maintain as we get older.
Please focus on this before concerning yourself with anything else.
We all enjoy your videos; we wouldn't be watching them otherwise!
We'll enjoy them again when you feel better.
You are inspiring! Happy travels and I hope your back improves.
Always great content! Love your channel! Take care of your health first and share when you can! We'll be watching! :)
I'm sorry to hear you have been suffering. My husband and I are 6 years from retirement and enjoy your videos. Please take a break and focus on your health. I had several health issues years ago and switching to mostly a whole food plant based way of eating made a huge difference! I dropped 30 pounds and feel amazing. Walking is great, so keep that up. I've had to add some light weights to build muscle since I notice muscle loss with age. We look forward to when you and Sarah resume your videos. Take all the time you need. You are not letting anyone down by hitting pause to heal. Take care and sending love to Sarah too 😊
First I want to say I'm sorry for the pain, but I related to it. I'm a scientist and I had horrible bouts of pain in my 30s and early 40s as a single mom with 2 young kids (had to be there for them 24/7 but was incapable of moving). Doctors wanted to get me to surgery. I found dr. sarno's books - "healing back pain" (can find on amazon kindle) and "mind over back pain". I read through and was out of pain in a few days. I was very skeptic, being a scientist, and dr. Sarno saying this is all emotional stuff. But he was right. I got out of the bouts every time, and no surgery. Haven't had one in 10 years now.
We also retired early and moved abroad, and those 2 books are what I carried with me in abroad, in our minimalist set up. I would never move anywhere without them!
Dear Neil and Sarah, I am one year in Cancer remission and I’m trying to get the guts to do what you and Sarah do and your channel is fabulous. I love your talent and humor and your candid and honesty and fun presentation. It is fantastic, don’t ever change, just pause the channel when you get tired and get healthy and come back on but you have a whole world out here that love you and we appreciate all you have given us throughout all your videos, I would say don’t worry be happy, the old Bob Marley saying and just do it and take days at a time. You are not letting us down you are taking care of your health, and that is the most important thing and our generation really appreciate your honesty and humor and Letty letting it all hang out who cares what others say it’s that you’re living your life on your terms and you’re just being real how many people are out there being fake with the smiles, and saying that everything is peachy when we all know we have ups and down days that is what social media does is to create this illusion of perfection. The real world is what you show us and do the showcase of this video that you’re walking around without having a minute of sleep, showing us your most vulnerable side which most people would not have the nerve to do this on live channels and there are vicious people out there, but it doesn’t really matter as an artist. You never can please everybody all you have to worry about is doing the best you can and enjoying it and when it’s not fun, just put it away for a while, but we sure love your videos and we will miss you. God bless you, stay healthy And live life to the max!❤️🎶🥂😻
Hey guys!
I absolutely NEVER respond to RUclips videos, but I had to send something on this one.
I am 59 and getting ready to launch my own travel retirement. I have been watching 100s of videos to get acclimated and about a week ago I stumbled on one of your videos.
I have to say, I laughed all the way through your video. You had me laughing out loud most of the time. I remember thinking that I'd love to cross paths out there some day and have a beer. You are both so laid back and real...my kind of people.
Neil, I hope you get your health issues addressed and are back out there soon. Take care of yourselves and each other!
Chris
Thank you Neil. I’m so sorry to hear about your back pain and health issues. Chronic pain impacts people physically, psychologically and emotionally. You need to care for yourself. You’re not letting anyone down by taking the time you need to heal and recover. My wife Robyn & I have enjoyed and learned from all your videos. You both work so hard on the content you produce, and have always been so giving of yourselves. Your honesty, hard earned knowledge and authenticity always shines through. Take care of yourselves first, then come back at 100%! David K, North Coast NSW
Im so sorry to hear about your Ménière’s disease and your back issues. I also have Ménière’s disease. I love to watch your adventures. Go rest but let us know how things are going for you guys every now and then.
We love you both!! Having seen all your videos…and quite a few of them more than once, I can assure you that you’re never boring. You’re conversational, as well as kind and helpful. We plan to retire and travel beginning in just a few months and we are SO looking forward to it. You both helped us get here. And we SO appreciate you for it!!
So sorry to hear of your pain! Take care of yourself and hopefully you’ll fully recover and then can come back and out a video out once in a while without it consuming your life. It’s your time to enjoy life with Sara!! All the best. 😊
Wishing you a speedy recovery and hope to hear from you again soon!
Nobody's boring Neil, but we all have our lives, and they can seem boring to any others who aren't interested. Personally, I'm interested in what you are doing, and clearly lots of others are too. Even your health issues, though unfortunate and painful for you, will be interesting and relatable to very many people. Best wishes with getting better for the moment.
So sorry to hear about your pain.
Hi both. You two are my inspiration for early retirement and have helped me to plan to enable me to finish next year and i can't wait! I really hope you put your health first,its more important than anything. Take care and look after yourselves. Ange x
Neil, your channel is a breath of fresh air! The content is top-notch and I love the dynamic that you and Sarah have-you are both lovely people! I really hope that you take care of the back issue as it's impossible to maintain focus when in pain - you are not letting anyone down - health is #1. Looking forward to seeing more videos when you regain your health.
Hi came across your video while in Bangkok cafe on Sumkuvhit, Bartells, and I am a 72 year old male solo traveler on the verge of returning to the US after 6 months in Thailand and grappling with a lot of similar issues. Back is one where I've had times when it goes out and I am on the ground writing in pain almost passing out and it takes weeks so I can walk well gain. Long rides on transport exacerbate it and give me a bit of a fear of traveling. I had just gotten my long term stay non o visa when I began to have numbness and pins and needles in my feet. I went to doctor here, but with her accent and mask I had trouble communicating with her. She gave me gabapentin and said come back in 90 days. Living in a foreign country, especially ones so culturally different than our own can create some psychic irritations. At first it's all novel and exciting, but after months one feels the separation more acutely without being able to communicate or have meaningful conversations. Many retirees here go the bar route or the thai girl friend way and neither one of those appealed to me. I think its good when we hearty travelers have the nerve to talk more about the real difficulties of life away from one's home country and culture, especially as it is, injuries apart, very subtle and insidious I think. It may not be what the newbies want to hear but it is real and needs to be addressed. Your last words about having failed Sarah and your followers struck me as unwarranted. I didn't accomplish the long term stay that I had aimed for but I don't want to think of that as a failure and I'm sure you wouldn't put that on me. So focus on the positive stuff you've accomplished for yourself and others and really talk back to that voice that says I've failed. I hope to see a video on that specific thing soon.
Best sandwiches on sourdough bread in Bartels.👍🏻Medical issues when one is travelling can be challenging- thankfully in Thailand the costs are far less challenging than in the West. I would suggest that if you are having problems maybe give Bumrungrad in Bangkok a visit? They cater to non Thai speaking expats v well. And if you should happen to get a doctor that you don’t understand- ask to see one that you do understand.
FYI- Hua Hin is a nice spot to explore if you are looking for a great base in Thailand. Solid medical infrastructure- 3 plus major hospitals, international and local resorts, great restaurant choices and just 3 hours drive from Bangkok.
Dont give up on your long term stay esp now you have a much better idea of the realities of expat living. Join some online expat groups - they are a wealth of information. Give yourself a break, regroup, reassesss and don’t let that non O visa go to waste😉
Great idea about the consultancy idea to share your hard won information from experiences during your travel. You will be able to do this!!!
Thank you so much for all of the time and effort you have put into developing, editing and sharing content. Best wishes for your health recovery.
Hello Neil. I've never been here before but the YT gods obviously thought I should see this. As soon as I heard you say that your health issues began once you left home; well as an astrologer that set alarm bells ringing. You may think that's crazy but please believe me that I have seen the accuracy of vedic astrology. Your birth chart is like a map of your personal landscape; how you navigate this terrain is your choice but it sure helps to know where the pleasant places are and where the rehabilitation is needed. I'm also a counsellor and it seems that you were not really ready to stop working and allow yourself to experience life as it is, and that's ok. The important thing is to acknowledge the truth of who you are and where you are at psychologically. The book, 'The Courage to be Disliked' is a simple and powerful guide to facing your life now, and living authentically.
It's also here as an audio book on YT.
Good luck,
Antonia
The book, Healing Back Pain by Dr. John Sarno, may interest you, Neil. It is about how carrying stress can sometimes settle in the back. When I reduced mine, within 3 months I was pain-free; weird, but true. Had struggled a couple of years with it (Rx, chiropractic, massage, etc) with no real improvement. I removed myself from a job that I did not realize had literally wound me up. Perhaps stepping back a bit from RUclips will loosen you more. Please know that boring is never a word I cd associate with you. Your videos are great. You have not let anyone down by living your wonderful life. Carry on, however it evolves. You contribute just being you.
I'm a fairly new viewer and have so enjoyed your content. I do hope you'll both be back with an occasional update. Right now you take care of you and get recharged completely. I had no idea how much effort goes into creating content. It makes me appreciate you and the others I follow that much more. Take care and wishing you a speedy recovery!
Neil, we are behind you all the way. Without your health, there is nothing! We've loved watching your channel and want nothing but the best for you and Sarah...enjoying these years are what it's all about, right? Please take good care of yourself, and don't feel bad about checking out for a while. We will be here waiting for you!!! 🙂
Neil and Sarah, I retired around the same time you did. I travel mostly solo, a few trips a year, but I've been inspired by your willingness to share your experiences. Sorry for the pain you have. But if you need time to recover health and energy, take it. You've given much to help others like me!
Your health is the most important thing. There is an old proverb ‘a man with his health has a million dreams, a man without it has only one’. Nothing else matters. Good luck x
Yoga saved my back, and a mat is easy to travel with! I feel compelled to push it on others with bad backs now. However you do it, hope you get better soon.
And I would watch a rambling update video from time to time. 😊
I was talking to a mate recently, he said being a content creator is like being a shark. You have to keep swimming, the pressure is immense to keep creating videos, new ideas etc. At some point you must question if you are doing things for yourselves, or for RUclips.
You have done all the hard work, enjoy it for yourself now, it’s been good watching but prioritise health and happiness
Get better! I enjoy all you two have done. Good luck on a speedy recovery.
Hello Neil. I followed you in the beginning of your channel because my interest is in Mexico. Your channel resonated with me because I, too, was recently retired and I appreciate that you were willing to share your newfound time to explore the world, as many of us hope to do. Watching this video, I want to assure you I do not expect professionally produced content. Quite the opposite. What you did in this video is what I want. Real life stuff. May I suggest you refocus the purpose of your RUclips channel to create a journal of your travels for your own enjoyment, to help you relive moments you truly enjoyed because you were living them for you and Sara, not for RUclips. I’d still watch.
Hi Neil and Sarah:
I stepped away from your channel for quite a while because I was concerned and upset by Neil's on-going health issues. I watch RUclips for enjoyment. so I took a break, but I have never lost interest in how you two are doing. I have great admiration with how you have organized your lives and gone about traveling with a well-defined plan. Plus, you two are really nice people!! So I am checking back in and saying HELLO, even as Neil is saying "So long for now!". Hearing you story of pain Neil, and having had some of my own, I totally endorse your decision to take a break. I wish you a speedy recovery and return to good health. You asked for comments on "consultancy". There is great value in everything you have to share! I can see consultancy as an addition to your channel. The issue will be how you how you put the two things together because I believe you will need both to succeed. And both will take time- a precious commodity. You two are the channel! It's your personalities! You are both thoughtful, informal and caring with a lot of information to share. So sorry about the trolls but that unfortunately goes with the territory. I will catch up quickly with your video releases since this one. Wishing you both well! Gordon
Lovely message Gordon, really appreciate it. Also lovely to hear from you again. We'll take your comments onboard, very thoughtful and thought provoking.
Your health comes first - you need to be healthy to live your dream! You are not letting us down. Take care of yourself
Very sorry to hear about your current health issues marring your plans currently. Having had similar in the past which eventually resolved with a podiatrist's input - literally shoe inserts to realign my posture fixed 6 months of sciatica!! I feel your pain Neil. You take as long as it takes to get well again and all your and Sarah's followers (fans?) will be pleased to see you. Best wishes.
Hi Neil,
I am 72, my house is on the market, and I am getting ready to slow travel to Mexico and the Philippines this winter after a New England summer of van life in a camper van I am just finishing a four-year build out. I tell you all this because, while it is relatively recently that I found your videos, I have scanned through many where I found the topics relevant to my already-retired situation.
This is the first or your videos that I have watched non-stop start to finish! I think it is because it was so spontaneous and authentic. I had already grown somewhat fond of you two, so I was easily drawn into the story of your current situation. Along with wishing you all the best on solving your health issues, I want you to know that you are inspiring me to rethink my planned approach to starting a RUclips channel.
I recently went on two vacation trips, Tulum and Dominica, with the intention of creating my first RUclips videos around these adventures. I discovered two things:
I quickly realized that the task of diligently shooting for travel videos while enjoying Tulum with my daughter and Dominica with old friends would greatly interfere with my enjoyment of the experience. (As an aside, I shot and edited narrated travel videos from 1985-1990 so know the amount of time involved. I shot 17 islands in the Caribbean and went swimming twice!)
In both instances, I quickly decided to simply go with the flow and captured random events and encounters along the way. Having a couple of DJI clip-on wireless mics was very helpful. I now have a bunch of footage to process and I think I am going to simply drop in intros and narrations, both scripted and spontaneous, that tie them all together. I think it will be a bit like improv theater, always a bit messy but often surprisingly brilliant.
I think the point is that your video showed me that deep authenticity and spontaneity, with a creative dash of note-assisted storytelling, can go a long way to allowing me to better enjoy the moment I am capturing while trusting that whatever I post will resonate with enough people to justify the effort.
Thank you, and wishing you all the best.
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I have enjoyed a bunch of your videos, and have been going back through your old ones too and really enjoying them. I think you overestimate how fancy we need you to make them, and personally I think you have contributed a heap of knowledge, ideas and fun for us, and please don't feel like we are being let down. We just like to get a bit of info, and also, yes, be entertained by where you are and the things you are seeing. To put it into perspective, we also watch lawn mowing videos - entertainment is an important part of our time on youtube.
I personally like a little thumbs up or heart from a creator, it is more than enough to know a comment has been read. Don't put a burden on yourself to do long replies please.
Have you thought about making a video and splitting it over 2 or 3 weeks? Then the weekly content still ticks over and you get your stories out. Please look at enjoying life in general more and delete and block the troll messages and don't give them more thoughts.
Take care and remember when you are tense so is your back......
Love your channel…. Good luck as you work through transitions. I think the idea of consulting is great and I have no doubt it could work well for you both.
I’m a creator too in a vastly different niche, I get thousands of views & interactions per week on TikTok and the sad reality is, there is a huge underbelly of lonely, sad people. The highlight of their day is to undermine you in nasty, often personal and piercing ways. The truth is, their opinion does not matter. I’m lucky enough to have grown thick skin over many years, but even I’ve been taken aback in the past 2-3 years. That said, I always file for peace via gratitude for what I’ve got and pity for what they’ve got. Only half way through this vid. I agree that the channel has been a bit woohoo content wise; but like others have said, it’s YOUR journey. Do it your way, no pressure, don’t be hard on yourselves. Focus on health first, then purpose, freedom and contentment. I try not to use the word “happiness” anymore, it’s such a moving target and tends to be a more momentary thing. I may not be glued to all your videos, but I’m a subscriber because I like you guys and good luck to you both. Life is a funny old game, a big bunch of phases, some good some bad, just have to roll with it.
Hi Neil. I have a suggestion for you. First, I'm sorry to hear of your health challenges. I was going to write you months ago when you talked about how often you became ill. As an acupuncturist and holistic healthcare practitioner, i strongly believe that holistic care and acupuncture would make a HUGE difference in both the foundations of your health and in relieving your current discomfort. Godspeed in creating a healthy future for yourself and Sarah.
Hope your health improves soon. Most interesting podcast. I like the walking/talking format.
Anyone who cares about you and that matters will not be let down, they'll be happy you are prioritizing your health. Friends and family surely worry about your health issues and you can't enjoy your retirement or be in a good place to support them when needed if you aren't taking care of yourself. I hope you are living a pain-free life soon!
I've just recently come upon your channel and really appreciate it. I never comment but felt the compunction today. My husband and I are still a bit away from retiring but definitely taking in the advice, inspiration and planning others are sharing so hopefully our journey is sooner than later and the transition is more prepared. I want us to be doing what you're doing! From someone who has dealt with back issues from early 20's it's terrible and can truly empathize. Having tried many options over the years I would highly recommend finding someone who does fascia work (especially for shoulder) and Dr John Saurno's book Healing Back Pain was instrumental in changing issue with my back to now, I rarely have a problem. There is hope. I wish you and your wife all the best and thanks for sharing!
Hi, don't know you, just came across the channel. You're going to get tons of advice, so I'll throw in mine. First, there's something about retirement (2 years for me now) that often brings out the ills and pains that stayed at bay when I was working every day. I've had one issue after another for 1.5 years. Retirement is an adjustment, not always in the best way at first. Second, in terms of physical pain, all I can offer is, find yourself a good "osteopath" (after a session you might still be in pain for 24-48 hours, just take anti-inflamatories) but they can get you moving again. The other thing I advise is, start walking backwards and uphill if you can. We always propel forward when we walk, backward works on other muscles and serves to balance out the body and also rewires the brain. It's worth a try. I've gotten used to the looks on the street, don't care. Some people give me the thumbs up because they "know". Hope you find the right combination to manage your pain.
Neil and Sarah, please know there are a whole bunch of us who have gotten to know you as a result of your RUclips channel who will still be here if/whenever you decide to come back! But most importantly, one of the key things about early retiring is having the time and space to ensure our health is in great shape. You absolutely need to focus on that. After just going through knee replacement while juggling a load of visitors, and not being able to keep up with them, I don’t feel the same pain that you do but I certainly feel the frustration that the pain and lack of mobility can cause. I know mine is short-lived, however. So, please, focus on your health! And should you ever come back to RUclips, we are still big fans of your walk and talk travel videos. I hope those don’t take nearly as much time and energy to put together! It’s just great to see other early retired travelers around our age explore the world and get your take on a place or a country. As for the consulting business, my big question for you is - is it what would make you happy? You two have extraordinary knowledge to share, and I can imagine you being fantastic mentors. But if it’s not something that would make you happy, and you’re doing it just for other people, I wonder if that is something you will ultimately want to continue? I am still doing consulting for clients I love, but I know why I am doing it - it isn’t for the money. I am using that money to help others. My husband doesn’t totally understand that since he is enjoying being 100% retired, but I am very clear about why I’m doing it and why it makes me happy. So my advice is, just be clear as to why you are doing the consulting business. Please take care, and we will look forward to seeing you back online when you are feeling up to it. In the meantime, focus on your health and each other - and we wish you a very, very, very speedy return to a pain-free life!
I love your channel. It really motivated my hubby and I in our early retirement. Thank you both ❤
Hi Neil I hope you feel better soon, your health is so important. Give our regards to Sarah. Moira and Colin
You are not boring!! I've watched every video from the beginning. You have mentioned before that ratings were low in Australia.. I'm not sure why... I had learned a lot from each, entertaining video as I have from your other entertaining, real videos. As for your health, that should always come first. I would love to travel and take off to places unknown, but after a quad bypass, things have changed. I've bounced back health wise, but I can no longer get affordable travel insurance if I were to leave my job. I still plan to travel when I do retire, but for only 3 months out of the year.. and I'll pay the high travel insurance. It's still worth it, you guys have demonstrated that. I also will keep my house for several more years.. It's all paid off and I am not brave enough to sell everything that I worked many years for and would have to give away.. You guys amaze me, you did it and from what I can see, have not looked back. As you can see, I can really ramble on. So I will miss seeing your content, I look forward to my Saturday mornings with you guys.. It's like you're here in my kitchen, my family room. As for negative comments, they are usually from depressed, bitter people. Those people are many and will never go away.. Finally.. AGAIN, your health comes first! Love you guys!
Love these videos you rambling your not boring, it is real life we love them.
Just so you know , I love your channel ! I don't usually comment , but had to let you both know how much you're appreciated . My husband and I are similar to you. retired, wanting to travel before our health and mobility gets any more challenging . We get inspired and gain knowledge from lovelies like you two . Sending love from New Jersey in the United States ( and we use bad language too lol ) 🥰
Hey Neil - if you haven’t tried Pilates, I recommend it. I used to regularly out my back out and be miserable, but Pilates has made a huge difference. Thanks for your channel. I follow it closely since retiring a year ago. Once my husband retires, we’re planning to follow your and Sarah’s footsteps (sans RUclips).
My friend, I’ve never watched one of your videos. But I’m turning 60 tomorrow and retiring and so that’s probably how I found you. I hear the desperation in your voice about your back. I know that pain. I’ve Lived it. I know how all encompassing and overwhelming it is. It touches every aspect of your life. I remember asking myself out loud driving through my neighborhood not too long ago. “What the fuck am I gonna do?” Knowing that I had 25 years left on this planet. I could not bear the thought of enduring that pain for that long.
It’s taken me almost a decade to cure myself of 95% of the debilitating pain. But I did things in the wrong do these things in the order that I’m about to give them to you, if I had to do it again This is what I would do.
1. You are not obese but You carry weight around your middle. So did I Losing that weight around your mid section will do more to alleviate pain than anything else. I struggled with my weight for decades. Ironically, RUclips has the answer. Live your life like you’re a diabetic. Drop all of the carbohydrates and starchy foods Eat meat and vegetables no booze no soda sugar is your enemy Find RUclips Dr influencers that talk about becoming metabolically healthy I’m sure you don’t have diabetes you’re not fat but you carry around the middle, which is hard to lose Trust me you can exercise all day and you won’t lose your middle. Change your diet today. Restrict your eating to an eight hour window two meals a day noon to eight
After four to six months, 70% of your pain will be fixed as you drop weight around your midsection
Next Prioritize strength over cardio but try to do both Commit to strengthening your abs strengthening your legs glutes back hamstrings and quads Lift weights 2 to 3 times a week using proper format. Find the RUclipsr that has the program that inspires you the most you are not using it to lose weight but rather to strengthen the muscles that support whatever has damaged your spine.
Finally Cardio Keep walking. Just like you’re doing now as much as you can. But don’t make the mistake that I made by starting there and only walking only diet will change your fat around the middle the strength training and the cardio will definitely knock 30 to 40 percent of your pain down. All those hours of slumping in a chair behind your video editor probably wrecked your back. The exercise will fix that.
Taking midsection fat off will take care of of 70% of your problem Strengthening the muscles around your back and walking a ton to get and stay in cardio shape will take care of the other 25%
You’ll probably have 5% left, but you can deal with
There’s no condition that won’t benefit from exercise and diet changes Prioritize the diet. Treat yourself like you’re a diabetic, even though you’re not and the pounds will fall off and your pain will go away.To a great extent
I know what you’re thinking. This is generic advice that everyone gives. You think you’ve got a very specific condition requiring advanced medical treatment, and intervention. Maybe You do. But if you do what I say and fill in the gaps with knowledge about what to eat and when you’re going to be amazed. It will be life-changing.
I know it’s not a Pat donation. but I promise you if you follow this advice, it’ll be the best subscriber gift you ever got
Excellent and sound advice
Good common sense advice…. 👍🏻
I can confirm by personal experience that this sound advice. I have some disc degeneration in my lower spine which I am aware of as either a background niggle if I adhere to a very low carb, meat based diet, or as a raging disabling problem if I eat sugar or high carb foods. I’ve got to the point where I know the carb loaded treat is not worth the consequent days of pain.
Thanks! Hope it works out for you guys! ❤
Hey Larry, Thank you so much for your incredible support. We both feel totally humbled and we'll be investing this money into the Channel so that when we are back, we'll be even better. People like you make all this worthwhile. Once again, thank you. Neil & Sarah x
Neil, I am 61 years old. I was in a terrible car accident when I was 17, and have had neck and back pain since I was a teenager. People who are so lucky to never have had any back or neck issues have no idea how blessed they are. I run/walk and do lower body exercises to try to stay somewhat in shape, but cannot lift even 5 pounds over my head without ending up in pain like you are. I can relate to your situation and I pray for health and healing for you.
I have a suggestion about your channel. If you want to talk about a great place that you are living or have travelled to, why don't you take a page from what JP does on "Amelia and JP". JP just pulls out his camera and does a bit of cursory "B roll" footage of him and Amelia walking around or maybe visiting a cafe, but its not much in the way of filming" and then he and Amelia just sit down and talk to the camera and switch back and forth from them to shots of them walking around. We don't expect you guys to be "Kara and Nate" or "Ian and Ana" for goodness sakes.
Now here is a comment to pass along to Sarah for me. Sarah is really cute and you are a lucky man, and anytime she is on camera is awesome.
Hi Sarah & Neil, I hope to watch you again, but if I don't, I understand. Take care of yourselves. John.
I'm a 50 year old lady, from the US. I love my country but I realize the world has a lot to offer. So I'd be down for a consultation with y'all. Take care, and focus on your health.
I enjoyed this, and I enjoy both you and Sarah. Your health is important and your recovery is key! I have followed you for several years and just retired this past Dec. 2023. We are on our first slow travel event and just spent 60 days on the coast of Spain. As it comes to an end and we head back to the states to do more divesting of our "things", I realize how truly special the past 60 days have been trsnistioning from work mindset to lifestyle mindset. I still feel like this is a vacation and so getting a routine that focuses more on overall health. I did go to the gym almost daily and took long hikes, but ate like i was on a cruise. So after rambling, my conclusions are balance. I need balance and you guys do as well, for your well being. There are 3 utubers , that made a huge difference in my life trajectory and you and Sarah were one. Thank you, get better and know you made, make a difference. ❤
I just discovered your channel today and found your videos both interesting and useful. I am a teacher who retired 6 years ago. I have always travelled a lot, mainly to walk in mountainous areas around the world. I have been very fit and health conscious but came down with a bad lung infection then broke my foot in three places several years ago. I had aches and pains until I went on the Keto diet. I found this to be quite incredible as I now have no aches and pains what so ever. This has worked for me. It may not work for everybody but I think it is worth looking at. It's a good idea to look at the science behind it. It takes about three months to kick in. I also do an easy form of tai chi every day called Shibashi which is really good if you have any health issues. I now walk fast between one and a half to three hours a day in the forest near where I live or where I take the caravan. I do not walk on concrete. I moved from the UK to Norway. I would like to wish you the very best and hope your health issues resolve themselves very soon. My warmest wishes.
Neil and Sarah
I have watched your channel since the beginning. Have loved every minute of it including all the changes you have made.
Back pain is awful. I had a back operation 7 years ago now and have never looked back. I’m not suggesting that you go in that direction but it may be an option.
Try not to take to heart what some keyboard warriors may say…easier said than done.
You both are awesome fun loving people and have sort to inform and show what it’s like to live the life you have chosen…please keep going
Good luck with your health and hope to see you fighting fit in your next video.
Btw I live in Brisbane and I really enjoyed your Australian videos xo
Neil, you guys haven't let anyone down. I certainly have enjoyed watching some of your content, life is for living and enjoying together and taking care of your health. As long as the videos you have made remain up they will be a source of insperation and imformation for years to come. If you really wanted to come back later, think of doing shorts? The 30 min videos take up so much time and energy......Thanks for all 2GoRoam has done. All the best Jon
What a wonderful honest video! Thank you for being so honest and so real! We wish you and Sarah only the best. We have been following you for a few years now and we will be here if you decide to continue with RUclips! We will also be praying for your back to heal, and let you come back to feeling 100 percent! Take care of yourself. We would love to hear any updates you feel like sharing.
You aren’t letting anyone down. You must first take care of yourself and Sarah. You are doing the right thing. We wish you wonderful healing for your back and to just enjoy the little things! Take your time-after all it is your time..it’s your life and you deserve not to be in pain.
Take care! We love you both!
Neil, I just want you and Sarah to know that I really appreciate all the information you’ve shared over the years. As my granny always said “if you don’t have your health, you have nothing”. Please take care of yourself and know we will all still be here when and if you return. Looking forward to seeing you healthy and whole in the future, take care. Cheers!
Only just started watching your videos and i think both of you are amazing, and should feel proud of what you have achieved - your dreams. My dad is 88 and has Osteoporosis and swimming has helped him a lot. So you could try that and even walking helps to strengthen your back. I hope you feel better soon and stay positive . Sending hugs from Worthing West Sussex 💜💙
Hi Neil and Sarah, thanks for your honesty, it must have been extremely tough for you to have made this video. You have not let anyone down in the slightest. As a perfectionist you are too hard on yourself. All of us that have been privileged to join you on your travels so far, just want you both to totally enjoy your adventures. Take your time and concentrate on your health, without good health, life is so restricted. Only you can heal by taking the necessary time your body needs. Putting pressure on yourself before you are fully back to health is detrimental to your dreams. We will still be here and eager to catch up with you both, if and when you are ready. Neil please relax, this is your retirement and you should be enjoying it - don’t do anything that is giving you anything less than happiness, don’t swap a job for another job! Sending you both good wishes for a great future and a return to FULL health ❤
Want you to know that whatever you folks put on youtube- i will watch it! Priority one is your health. Have watched from the start and ALWAYS enjoy your videos. Everyone has to do what is best for them. I Look forward to whatever you are able to share. You do an amazing job even when walking and talking! So talented. 😂 See you in the next one.
You have not let us down.
To your health! And thank you for everything 💖
Hey! Thank you so much for your incredible support. We both feel totally humbled and we'll be investing this money into the Channel so that when we are back, we'll be even better. People like you make all this worthwhile. Once again, thank you. Neil & Sarah x
Ahhh, snap! So sorry to hear about your health issues.
I love your videos & will continue to enjoy each one, as they appear.
Take time for a rethink & best wishes that all will be right, soon.
So sorry about your back. I really enjoy your videos and just talking and walking are great - we don’t need anything overproduced or high effort, just you and Sarah bring yourselves. Hope your back feels better soon and I’d be interested in consultancy