So all u woke people on instagram talk about loyalty, honesty, commitment but here you all are just glorifying cheating. Even if you never cheated but laughing off and not actually pointing out the wrong can also be considered wrong.
Don't know how swati is cool when she says she's cheated on her boyfriend and everybody laughs. Have I lost my sense of humor? Idk, lol anyone else feel me here?
@@kamartaj3010firstly it's not a gender thing. Cheating is wrong. Secondly I felt both of the other girls felt uncomfortable that's why they changed the conversation so fast even though it looked like she wanted to talk more. But if you want to make it a gender thing then in marriages 22%men cheat 13%woman cheat. So yeah
yeah but they acknowledged it. Cheating is wrong, and that's why they mentioned once that, the karma is catching up. Even guys admit to cheating, it's not ok but they are frank about it.
@@halseyxxxo3064 sure acknowledge it and be woke as fuck however you want but there's a way of delivering something you regret doing and that definitely wasn't expressed in the video. It sounded like a stupid/fun thing they did to someone and moved on. Youre not cool esp when you make it sound like an accident when you made a clear choice of cheating on someone you intended to cause pain.
It's just if She's not happy in a relationship there is no point of keeping it for so long that's what she mean if you read b/w the lines, it doesn't evince that Swati is glorifying infidelity. Thank You 🙂
Remember, when we used to get less marks in some test we would come home and tell our parents who else got less and also those who surprisingly got lesser than us... Because humans try to pull more and more number of people their side just to look normal among the crowd. Same here, they all know how devastating they are towards someone's life and also towards their own, but now they find no way out of this trap, so they try to portray as if this what is happening throughout the society so many others also join them thinking this to be the new normal, ultimately making them not the only black sheeps in the crowd.
Swati could have added much more to this conversation. Surbhi needs to be a better moderator. At some points, Dolly just repeated Swati's statements but just in a different way. Swati deserved more space in this conversation.
🌼🌼 Swati ... Infidelity is not a joke. The day you'll find your true love... Will be the day you'll realise , it's not a joke. Phir pata chalega... Riste ko nazar kisi aur ki nahi , apki hi lagi hai.. Hope you do. 🕊️
Thanks Surbhi, the entire idea and conversation on The Overthink Tank is so inspiring and somewhat making myself confident about who I am as a person and what I look upto for myself.
They're not glorifying anything, it's a conversation they're having about THEIR lives and how THEY feel about things they did. It's great that you have a problem with cheating, don't ever do it, simple. It's anyway not a preachy show right? that one has to religiously follow whatever comes out of their mouth ABOUT THEIR OWN LIVES. take a chill pill.
@@TaniaDey1326 Imagine if 2 men were having the same conversation and the guy were cheating , the comment section would be raging then. Moreover, the "casual" attitude that Swati had is something that's disturbing! :)
@@janhavisavla9654 babe the guys are ALWAYS having this sorta conversation. I'm not saying all of them be cheating all the time, cuz that's BS, but we girls need to realise that boys DO have a lot of liberty to talk about things, and that's not a bad thing, so do not be too quick to self censor or ask other women to do so by giving this analogy. As long as noone (boy or girl) is actively asking people to cheat, no need to get riled up
Nobody asked for it but still I feel this is where I can just write it down. . We broke up. It was , it was 6 freaking years. I'm, I'm, I can't even say anything. bas shant bethi hu idk idk how to cope with this. It's easier than said. I know it's a waste of time to keep thinking about it. But Cope up Nahi ho paa raha. Anyways, your podcasts are the best. So soothing, so captivating. So calming. Thankyou for doing what you do. This distracted me for some time. 🕊️Thanks for existing ♥️🕊️☺️
Girl if 6 yrs weren't enough then just let it go you'll get what's meant to be just for you. And no babe 6 yrs wasn't a time waste there were lessons for you to learn, there were insights, there was hope there was you as a giver with your feelings nurturing that relationship. I guess it was time and that's it.... So now you must move on with the wonderful memories on to something much more beautiful that awaits you in your life. Please know you are loved and let ur heart be. sending you hugs .💜💜💜💜💜💜
that's basically the deal with every relationship. Even the one you have with yourself. I think that's how we're wired, we need to feel our losses more than our wins in order to learn from them. Which is why we just remember the moments we are upset way more vividly than the moments we actually were happy. That's the paradox we're left to deal with. Hope you're okay and I hope my unnecessary opinion doesn't ruin your day x
jab sundar ladki hoke inko itni problem ho rahi hai pyaar milne mein, jabki demand supply ratio inke saath hai - ek average ladke ki kya hi halat hogi socho?
This podcast has been becoming increasingly more relatable to me, every minute of every episode! And this episode was no exception. Thank you for overthinking it for us Surbhi! 😭 //(Tears of relatable thoughts!)✨
I agree with swati. You fall for people you least expected. I've been infatuated with some guys in the past , but when I first got to know them I didn't like them at all. I fell for someone who was nothing like them, even when one of them showed a lot of interest in me, but i had made up my mind.
I am in the States and believe me it’s so fucking hard to have a decent conversation with a person. Especially in the pandemic. Texting energy fades so quickly.. unless you are in a big city where there are lot of single Indians, it’s a nightmare.
Girl! Just understand if a guy really wants to be with you he'll tell you the second you guys meet. Even the most introverted ones do. But if they just want fun they'll keep hanging you. My ex proposed me for marriage within 2 months of dating!! Guess who dumped him, "Me".Never chase a Man. Have high self esteem & high standards & kindly don't do 50-50 that just shows he's just not that into you!! Call me primitive but that is what it is! Don't believe me! Try wasting more of your youth doing more such dates! Young women are not educated in a way that empowers them rather just makes them feel wasted. Anything other then a loud yes is a No. Actions speak louder then words. Believe his actions & please don't get fooled by his sugar coated words. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. God bless!!
@@shatabhisha8977 I'm so happy women like you do understand the pyschological & emotional aspects of it & are actively seeking to educate & empower themselves rather then just cribbing about it!!
I wanna say sthg. I have developed feelings for a guy from my clg recently, it's been around 4 yrs now since the first time we met in clg. We hang out sometimes, although clg got over last yr . He is a good frnd, but idk if he also has feelings for me. I don't want to ruin the frndship, coz it just gets awkward, if one tells stuff like this, and the other person doesn't feel the same way. What do u guys think.
This video would have been viral if more space or time have given to SWATI..... She was so so honest...... Other girl was lil fake in expressing but SWATI killed the podcast..
Hi Surbhi, I love your work ❤️ your podcasts are so calming, engaging, quirky. Can we work think work too ? I sometimes feel breaking from a relationship is like quit your job, knowing when to leave, understanding why it's not working out, having anxiety of what if the next one is not what I wanted or good for me, having the same relationship problems but with real life implications because it comes down to money which in turn is survival. I've over thought this, haven't I 🙈. Ugh.
it was nice to watch but then, also very "awkward" Swati really didn't get to speak much, not cus of Dolly but Surbhi you really missed out yaa...u just went with a flow and forgot to balance things...
Hey this was awesome ..i'll definitely use swati's advice hehe 🤭 also, please get abbas from IVM once on the overthink tank..love him and used to love dating in garbage on IVM 💛
Cheating is not fine . But despite it I took Swati for who she is as a complete person and for me I saw a different mature version of hers in the podcast. Genuine people may also need time to declutter and decide what's happening with them ..also she was the one to confess she cheated .. We don't know the complete story and hence we are no one to judge
Viewers of this channel should go and check out a RUclips channel called 'The Rational Male '.You will be able to better appreciate the dynamics in play here.
@surbhi there are many guys who real and I have had many good guys met in my past and many geniune human beings with emotional give and take with mutual respect and I feel anyone can.... And an old timer who can meet anywhere in college/office/party/social groups and events and even I am charmer and mostly people have been attracted towards me and my thoughts..... I feel you girls need more real life than virtual life bcoz that is real.... Sorry 🙏 don't want to hurt you but saying honestly....
Swati is me🤣🤣💕💕 I am in my mid 20's and all the things that Swati said, especially about cheating, it just gave me a different perspective. Dolly is queen👸
_me: downloads dating app_
*24 hours later* : _deletes the dating app_
is it just me?! 🤔
Same. Every single time!
No behen we are all same 😂😂😂
@@mrudulajoshi4940 crie
Omg attac
SAMEEEEEEEEE!!!! AAJ BHI SAME KIYAAAA 😭
Cheating might appear fun when you are doing it... but surely when you get cheated it becomes serious and you understand the hurt.
Swati could never understand what damage you can do to someone in the name of cheating.
So all u woke people on instagram talk about loyalty, honesty, commitment but here you all are just glorifying cheating. Even if you never cheated but laughing off and not actually pointing out the wrong can also be considered wrong.
AGREED!!! this annoyed me
Don't know how swati is cool when she says she's cheated on her boyfriend and everybody laughs. Have I lost my sense of humor? Idk, lol anyone else feel me here?
I do
Yeah exactly! It's nothing to be proud of😌
@@kamartaj3010firstly it's not a gender thing. Cheating is wrong. Secondly I felt both of the other girls felt uncomfortable that's why they changed the conversation so fast even though it looked like she wanted to talk more. But if you want to make it a gender thing then in marriages 22%men cheat 13%woman cheat. So yeah
yeah but they acknowledged it. Cheating is wrong, and that's why they mentioned once that, the karma is catching up. Even guys admit to cheating, it's not ok but they are frank about it.
@@halseyxxxo3064 sure acknowledge it and be woke as fuck however you want but there's a way of delivering something you regret doing and that definitely wasn't expressed in the video. It sounded like a stupid/fun thing they did to someone and moved on. Youre not cool esp when you make it sound like an accident when you made a clear choice of cheating on someone you intended to cause pain.
Swati is female version of Ranbir Kapoor. 😂
I like your name
Thank you sooooooo much for having me for this Surbhi. It was so therapeutic 🥺💛
this was a delight! 🍷
The only reason I watch surbhi because she is cute... I even try to laugh at your jokes which isn't even funny that's an unconditional love😍
Can you make a video about how to find someone serious on Bumble or online dating platforms...
Dolly, you've a really nice personality 🌻
I related to you the most. Nice talk, Dolly. Very mature yet lively.
Stop romanticizing cheating guys.
She was so unapologetic about cheating, a terrible attitude to have. It's a breach of trust ffs.
I so agree with you. This is so wrong. Plus on a platform where she's responsible for reaching out to so many people, this shouldn't be advocated.
It's just if She's not happy in a relationship there is no point of keeping it for so long that's what she mean if you read b/w the lines, it doesn't evince that Swati is glorifying infidelity. Thank You 🙂
@@adityaparmar2064 should have broken up before cheating then.
@@moonlight-mm3iwI agree with you partially.... my point is, it's not cheating but then how would you say the person for a breakup, semi-wrong may be.
Wait what??.. since when did we started normalizing infedelity...???!!!!
You took it out of context. Matter of interpretation.
@@starlite7785 what was the context? Please explain
@@starlite7785 pls guve us the context in wich infedility is justified acc. to you .... :)
Remember, when we used to get less marks in some test we would come home and tell our parents who else got less and also those who surprisingly got lesser than us... Because humans try to pull more and more number of people their side just to look normal among the crowd. Same here, they all know how devastating they are towards someone's life and also towards their own, but now they find no way out of this trap, so they try to portray as if this what is happening throughout the society so many others also join them thinking this to be the new normal, ultimately making them not the only black sheeps in the crowd.
true
Can't thank Surbhi enough for her podcasts,really love your content.
Swati could have added much more to this conversation. Surbhi needs to be a better moderator. At some points, Dolly just repeated Swati's statements but just in a different way. Swati deserved more space in this conversation.
Please bring Kanan again😭
🌼🌼 Swati ... Infidelity is not a joke.
The day you'll find your true love... Will be the day you'll realise , it's not a joke.
Phir pata chalega... Riste ko nazar kisi aur ki nahi , apki hi lagi hai..
Hope you do.
🕊️
this but this ep seemed damn toxic with a general lack of empathy in the tone of the conversation no offence surabi
are bhaii aisi kuch 2-3 r*ndi ko love wuv nhi smjh ata h
Mujhe bhi yahi laga
I love talking, thanks for giving me the chance to establish that fact here. @Surbhi. Haha, lots of love 💕
You are so cool
Kahan chance diya? We could see you adding much more to this conversation.
You were so trueeeeee . Loved ur practical advices
Swati remained her true self and gave such practical advices. Lovvvvve her. Kudos to Dolly as well
😂😂😂😂
Bro donot be a beta
Thanks Surbhi, the entire idea and conversation on The Overthink Tank is so inspiring and somewhat making myself confident about who I am as a person and what I look upto for myself.
yay :) I'm so glad!
@@SurbhiBagga 🤗
Seriously they're glorifying cheating and laughing about it. Way to go ladies! 👏👏👏
They're not glorifying anything, it's a conversation they're having about THEIR lives and how THEY feel about things they did. It's great that you have a problem with cheating, don't ever do it, simple. It's anyway not a preachy show right? that one has to religiously follow whatever comes out of their mouth ABOUT THEIR OWN LIVES. take a chill pill.
@@TaniaDey1326 How do you think social influencing works even tho I get the point you are trying to make
@@TaniaDey1326 Imagine if 2 men were having the same conversation and the guy were cheating , the comment section would be raging then. Moreover, the "casual" attitude that Swati had is something that's disturbing! :)
@@janhavisavla9654 not disturbing but actually kind of refreshing.
@@janhavisavla9654 babe the guys are ALWAYS having this sorta conversation. I'm not saying all of them be cheating all the time, cuz that's BS, but we girls need to realise that boys DO have a lot of liberty to talk about things, and that's not a bad thing, so do not be too quick to self censor or ask other women to do so by giving this analogy. As long as noone (boy or girl) is actively asking people to cheat, no need to get riled up
Just love how straightforward Swati is 💙
Aur koi option hota kya? 😯
@@swatisachdeva95 yaas but why do you think so 😄😃
A woman’s dating standards and practices are decided by the worst boyfriend in her life..
Swati seems too cool and genuine fr. Wanted to hear more of her. ❤
She's cool, genuine, honest and a cheat. Doesn't that last adjective outshines the first 3? She's promoting infidelity in the name of honesty.
The worst part of the podcast is it ends 😭
28:30 best piece of advice from Swati ❤️
Nobody asked for it but still I feel this is where I can just write it down.
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We broke up. It was , it was 6 freaking years. I'm, I'm, I can't even say anything. bas shant bethi hu idk idk how to cope with this. It's easier than said. I know it's a waste of time to keep thinking about it. But Cope up Nahi ho paa raha.
Anyways, your podcasts are the best. So soothing, so captivating. So calming. Thankyou for doing what you do. This distracted me for some time. 🕊️Thanks for existing ♥️🕊️☺️
Oh god.. 6 years is a huge deal.. Sending you a hug sis! 💕🌼
Take care sister!
Girl if 6 yrs weren't enough then just let it go you'll get what's meant to be just for you. And no babe 6 yrs wasn't a time waste there were lessons for you to learn, there were insights, there was hope there was you as a giver with your feelings nurturing that relationship. I guess it was time and that's it.... So now you must move on with the wonderful memories on to something much more beautiful that awaits you in your life. Please know you are loved and let ur heart be. sending you hugs .💜💜💜💜💜💜
It shows a lot about u, when u can have a 6 yearsssssss long relationship. U r a brave, empathetic woman. Lots of happiness to you .
@@aishwaryapandey3454 thankyou 🥺♥️
20:03 "bohat chohti khushi ke liye bohat sara ghum" literally that was me in my past relationship
that's basically the deal with every relationship. Even the one you have with yourself. I think that's how we're wired, we need to feel our losses more than our wins in order to learn from them. Which is why we just remember the moments we are upset way more vividly than the moments we actually were happy. That's the paradox we're left to deal with.
Hope you're okay and I hope my unnecessary opinion doesn't ruin your day x
@@rishiharith but it's so unfair. It changes your whole perception over things, over love.
PLEASE GET TANMAY BHAT
In the end, Love is a good reason for everything to fall apart ☺️
Dolly singh is wearing papa ki Monte Carlo wali koti.....
jab sundar ladki hoke inko itni problem ho rahi hai pyaar milne mein, jabki demand supply ratio inke saath hai - ek average ladke ki kya hi halat hogi socho?
Kyunki ladke personality pe dhyaan nahi dete
Oh god 😂😂
@@poorvideshpande any tips 😅
@@poorvideshpande jiski personality achi hogi vo ladkiyo pe apna time waste nhi karega😊
@@CockySuSMounted bhai in ladkiyo se tips mat le sanp kese pakadna he ye sanp nhi sapere se puch sanp khud nhi batata
This podcast has been becoming increasingly more relatable to me, every minute of every episode! And this episode was no exception. Thank you for overthinking it for us Surbhi! 😭 //(Tears of relatable thoughts!)✨
oooh so much cheese 🧀thanks a lot Deepti!
Such a nice warm podcast! Just needed more of Swati ♥️♥️
i can so relate to dolly's story. this podcast is so my heart talking.
Everytime I see the intro of this show, I am reminded of Rick and Morty.
Hahahahahha itna straightforward hone ki BHI kya zarurat thi ab haters aajayengey na 😂
That's what happens when you fall for ONLY looks.
Swati seems cool to everyone here but noone wants her in lyf 🤣😂
Is anyone not in love with Dolly's vest? It's so good
Yes man😍😘
You can’t sit with us
I
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@@Sonia-uh4kq jaa na
I agree with swati. You fall for people you least expected. I've been infatuated with some guys in the past , but when I first got to know them I didn't like them at all. I fell for someone who was nothing like them, even when one of them showed a lot of interest in me, but i had made up my mind.
Dolly is that person who writes 10marks answer for a 1 mark question.
Always feel like if so many people treat cheating like a big crime, why is it that it happens so often?
Hmm right..🤔
They are different ppl
because so many people laugh it off and call it "exploring themselves" like in this video
I am in the States and believe me it’s so fucking hard to have a decent conversation with a person. Especially in the pandemic. Texting energy fades so quickly.. unless you are in a big city where there are lot of single Indians, it’s a nightmare.
Ugh same. Modern dating is a gut-crushing chore 🤦♀️
I just love these podcasts❣️😭
youre so amazing, Surbhi ! thanks for making these podcasts
Dolly I love love love you!!! ❤️❤️❤️
Pure, honest, confident and awesome. You're a queen 👑
And Surbhi, you're so pretty, loving the content. 🦋
The curse was so immediate.Wish all your subscribers are married hearing this.
That intro is really really cool!
27:40 Life is a Pizza, love is your favorite topping.
- Swati Sachdeva, 2021
I really loved the art and design work in the beginning 😍 and your voice is simply great. ❤️
Ok i take back my words. By the end of the podcast i strated liking swati alot. Dolly is relatable as always 💙💙
Swati is freaking me! She is so me! ❤️
Girl! Just understand if a guy really wants to be with you he'll tell you the second you guys meet. Even the most introverted ones do. But if they just want fun they'll keep hanging you. My ex proposed me for marriage within 2 months of dating!! Guess who dumped him, "Me".Never chase a Man. Have high self esteem & high standards & kindly don't do 50-50 that just shows he's just not that into you!! Call me primitive but that is what it is! Don't believe me! Try wasting more of your youth doing more such dates! Young women are not educated in a way that empowers them rather just makes them feel wasted. Anything other then a loud yes is a No. Actions speak louder then words. Believe his actions & please don't get fooled by his sugar coated words. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. God bless!!
i stan u
FACTSS I am glad at least somebody in India understands this!
@@shatabhisha8977 I'm so happy women like you do understand the pyschological & emotional aspects of it & are actively seeking to educate & empower themselves rather then just cribbing about it!!
@@krinalimbachiya7592 ❤️
I wanna say sthg. I have developed feelings for a guy from my clg recently, it's been around 4 yrs now since the first time we met in clg. We hang out sometimes, although clg got over last yr . He is a good frnd, but idk if he also has feelings for me. I don't want to ruin the frndship, coz it just gets awkward, if one tells stuff like this, and the other person doesn't feel the same way. What do u guys think.
Swati is my spirit animal
These girls make so much sense.
Great one and wish it was a bit more longer!
This video would have been viral if more space or time have given to SWATI..... She was so so honest...... Other girl was lil fake in expressing but SWATI killed the podcast..
Hope you find a partner just like her🙌
You’re getting better with each passing show. 👍
Wow Swati really isn't vibing with both of them
Such a cute episode. Also, swati ❤️
Keep doing such episodes. :)
Just when needed 😂😂😂 thank you so much....
Happy to help! 🍷
oh can this podcast go on for an hour at least love surabhi love your love handles too
Bless RUclips algorithm for recommending this video - i used to overthink how I'm the only one feeling this lol 🕉️😂❤️
Hi Surbhi, I love your work ❤️ your podcasts are so calming, engaging, quirky. Can we work think work too ? I sometimes feel breaking from a relationship is like quit your job, knowing when to leave, understanding why it's not working out, having anxiety of what if the next one is not what I wanted or good for me, having the same relationship problems but with real life implications because it comes down to money which in turn is survival. I've over thought this, haven't I 🙈. Ugh.
Found your podcasts randomly and now my pizza toppings are these podcasts!
That's so beautiful to say❤❤ same here😌 I have perhaps watched all of them🙃
@@MonikaMonikaaD so glad to know that :D
it was nice to watch but then, also very "awkward" Swati really didn't get to speak much, not cus of Dolly but Surbhi you really missed out yaa...u just went with a flow and forgot to balance things...
Here after Swati's 1st stand up video
Arghh i really want more of swati...
Best podcast for me it was. So relaxing😍
I love these podcasts!
It would be great if you could just bring Swati next time and let her talk!
How many times do we say 100%
Surbhi - Yes
Parents are the only people who care about us the most
Very confident ladies
Swati Sachdeva ......I relate to every line she said !!!
this was really cool !!
Swati made such relevant, relatable points here!
Hey this was awesome ..i'll definitely use swati's advice hehe 🤭
also, please get abbas from IVM once on the overthink tank..love him and used to love dating in garbage on IVM 💛
nice warm podcast
Thank you for these podcasts
Swatiii The Show Stealer for sure man 🔥❣️
Here because of Swatii tbh..
Cheating is not fine .
But despite it I took Swati for who she is as a complete person and for me I saw a different mature version of hers in the podcast. Genuine people may also need time to declutter and decide what's happening with them ..also she was the one to confess she cheated ..
We don't know the complete story and hence we are no one to judge
Guys don't just don't begin a relationship with long distance ever.
Will keep in mind girl😂
Why so?
Oh....i love how Swati says it, I can really relate a lot to her.Really enjoyed the episode.
Such n eye opening episode...truly relateable👍
Viewers of this channel should go and check out a RUclips channel called 'The Rational Male '.You will be able to better appreciate the dynamics in play here.
I think surbhi is the girl who asked the question🤣
Dude this conversation where you are normalizing everything wrong. I felt like from another planet.
Empowerment en all dat is clearly reflected in the way u talk abt ur mother who too was young woman once
I want a friend like Swati!
We want more of swati please!
The world is here ! Where are you ? 😂😂 ( I hate the fact that I discovered this podcast too late ) #keepgoinggirl ❤️❤️🦋
Loveddddddd it !!
Omg, this is the first time i saw Surbhi(no simp)... I always preferred hearing it on Spotify but yeah, I'll love to watch this too
Hi Surbhi, listen to August by Taylor Swift if you haven't already, you'd relate to the lyrics
I love it. Really enjoyed
Love this podcast!!
Would it possible to add the video on spotify too.. The way rogan and some others do?
I don't understand why are people asking these women for dating/relationship advice. It's like asking broke people about money investments LMAO
@surbhi there are many guys who real and I have had many good guys met in my past and many geniune human beings with emotional give and take with mutual respect and I feel anyone can.... And an old timer who can meet anywhere in college/office/party/social groups and events and even I am charmer and mostly people have been attracted towards me and my thoughts..... I feel you girls need more real life than virtual life bcoz that is real.... Sorry 🙏 don't want to hurt you but saying honestly....
I came here for the sake of Swati only.....
When are u guys kicking off on amazon music. i m waiting for your podcasts there too
Love love love ur work surbhi ❤️👍
Swati is me🤣🤣💕💕 I am in my mid 20's and all the things that Swati said, especially about cheating, it just gave me a different perspective. Dolly is queen👸