How God created us to be able to Go through certain pain in life and still come back and say it is well ,I can never understand. Other people stories you listen to them and you're like I can't survive this,there won't be any come back for me. And truth of the matter is we are survivors. Healing & strength to you sir.
Continue to heal clive 🙏 only situations like this when they happen to you,thats when you will understand how strong you hav to be because thats the only choice you have to make for your own healing. And no matter how painful and tragic it may be you will overcome it. We are no taught how to grieve or how to deal with lossing of loved ones,we learn it as it happens to us,and we are never ready to let them go i promise you its sad Never a day will it pass as i think about mi baby its almost 4 months now since he is not on this earth. 😭
What made me heal from my brother passing was one video posted by Oprah where Gary Zukav who said we all are souls who brought to this earth to give gifts and when God take the soul those gifts continue to live with us. I remember connecting in my mind that my brother's way of life was unlike any I started to appreciating God to chosen to be his bigger sister. I started to realize the love, kind, gratitude and joy he use to have. He brought so much joy and peace into our family but because we so caught up in flesh we were not able to see that. The life he changed especially his friends. I remember that year his funeral was November 09 and it's would have been Xmas a month I couldn't bring myself to celebrate Xmas and new year at home because home was overwhelmed with pain from my parents and siblings because he loved those holidays we used to spend them together. I stared to appreciate his presence in my life, one thing I learn he soul live with us always. I agree with the guest that you going to be okay. I think about him everyday and I know he is in peace with the Lord. Thank you Lebo for sad and beautiful show at the same. This little soul has touch each everyone of us, created this awareness that will help other person's life. Truly grateful 🙏
Eish Nkosyam😭😭😭 this interview was so trigerring for me.....i think i need to get help too.....my heart goes out to this father,i wish somehow pain could just be washed away. This is just tragic....mina i understand the guest completely....he doesnt need to wear his emotions on his sleeves to show how badly it affected him.In fact his gives me hope that maybe of i get help then i will be ok one day too.....being religous can make one feel guilty for not getting over stuff,like maybe one has too little faith *sigh*.....anyway sending hugs to the guest.
I can imagine the pain, I just lost my dad a month ago to fire, his whole house burnt down, I have never felt so much pain in my life, I still have so many questions regarding what started the fire, I sometimes ask myself if it was really the cigarette that started the fire, but it's so hard to believe it because of how it happened, I pray that God helps me to heal and not point any fingers.
Went straight to listen Coco dreams song,, 😭😭😭😭♥️ I felt it more than he's talking here as he's trying to be a man and hold it together. He's very strong. Xoxo
In 2007, a week before my dad passes away he sent us his children, he's brothers and sisters, cousins and many other people an email about Life in general, the what and what not to-do, opportunities, work, relationships etc... it was a kind of goodbye 👋, not knowing we will lose him unexpectedly a week after. There's always signs before someone's death.
12:32 “it gives me great healing” I hope you understand what you do n give to people Lebo, by this platform you are giving people a safe space to heal❤️ God bless your hustle n I love how He’s working through you for others
Your experience is helping someone's family to prevent this kind of event, what I took from your story is that we should be aware, and reactive to things that could be of danger in our homes and general life.. As an anxious parent, thank you so much for sharing your story, God bless🤗
This guest seems very private and reserved. MS Relebo tried to get information from him. She real tried... It's hard to interview such people who are not outspoken...My views.
Let's appreciate he fact that he has been through some serious trauma. Trauma affects people differently. I am happy that he is able to at least talk about it. It is just unimaginable what he went through. I can still see pain in his face and you can hear it through his voice.
This is a sad story, i am imagining the part where he said, he was woken up by his child calling his name, and then when he got to the bedroom the child was quite. that voice will get stuck in my head everytime I try to sleep. that is traumatic hey. how do you go past something like this.
That's what I dont like about male gender when they hurting stressed they take out their frustration to their partners instead of seeking love and comfort from them. Then us females we take it out on our children specially if we not getting support from male figures or if they failing at Tha department. We really need consider therapy just after our traumas, not by going to therapy when we have ruined alot more
The thumbnail is kinda inappropriate. It doesn't sit well with me seeing Relebogile smilling whilst the topic, is one not to smile about. Her thumbnails smiling just make it seem as if she's insensitive.
How God created us to be able to Go through certain pain in life and still come back and say it is well ,I can never understand. Other people stories you listen to them and you're like I can't survive this,there won't be any come back for me. And truth of the matter is we are survivors.
Healing & strength to you sir.
This is so powerful. Thank you
You are so brave my brother. May God bless you with everything you desire, family, money, new relationship, life
One of the many reasons why I know God is real. Because how else can we explain such? Can only be God.🙏🏽
Continue to heal clive 🙏
only situations like this when they happen to you,thats when you will understand how strong you hav to be because thats the only choice you have to make for your own healing.
And no matter how painful and tragic it may be you will overcome it.
We are no taught how to grieve or how to deal with lossing of loved ones,we learn it as it happens to us,and we are never ready to let them go
i promise you its sad
Never a day will it pass as i think about mi baby its almost 4 months now since he is not on this earth.
😭
I love the non religious people, they are receptive of others, no too judgemental, very welcoming, very understanding
What made me heal from my brother passing was one video posted by Oprah where Gary Zukav who said we all are souls who brought to this earth to give gifts and when God take the soul those gifts continue to live with us. I remember connecting in my mind that my brother's way of life was unlike any I started to appreciating God to chosen to be his bigger sister. I started to realize the love, kind, gratitude and joy he use to have. He brought so much joy and peace into our family but because we so caught up in flesh we were not able to see that. The life he changed especially his friends. I remember that year his funeral was November 09 and it's would have been Xmas a month I couldn't bring myself to celebrate Xmas and new year at home because home was overwhelmed with pain from my parents and siblings because he loved those holidays we used to spend them together. I stared to appreciate his presence in my life, one thing I learn he soul live with us always. I agree with the guest that you going to be okay. I think about him everyday and I know he is in peace with the Lord. Thank you Lebo for sad and beautiful show at the same. This little soul has touch each everyone of us, created this awareness that will help other person's life. Truly grateful 🙏
Eish Nkosyam😭😭😭 this interview was so trigerring for me.....i think i need to get help too.....my heart goes out to this father,i wish somehow pain could just be washed away. This is just tragic....mina i understand the guest completely....he doesnt need to wear his emotions on his sleeves to show how badly it affected him.In fact his gives me hope that maybe of i get help then i will be ok one day too.....being religous can make one feel guilty for not getting over stuff,like maybe one has too little faith *sigh*.....anyway sending hugs to the guest.
He is very strong Rele and i like the way he is so open minded and humble.
Thank you my brother for being courageous and sharing this traumatic story.
I can imagine the pain, I just lost my dad a month ago to fire, his whole house burnt down, I have never felt so much pain in my life, I still have so many questions regarding what started the fire, I sometimes ask myself if it was really the cigarette that started the fire, but it's so hard to believe it because of how it happened, I pray that God helps me to heal and not point any fingers.
Hugs
"it's hard to comfort other people while you're also broken", what a horrific tragedy 💔
At this point am convinced that zambia 🇿🇲 gives the highest ratings on this show🤣 love it
I love this guy's honesty,he tells it like it is.Im taking notes.Great episode thank you so much for sharing your story.Ube right Bro
Went straight to listen Coco dreams song,, 😭😭😭😭♥️ I felt it more than he's talking here as he's trying to be a man and hold it together. He's very strong. Xoxo
Went to watch straight after when he mentioned the name of the song than came back here.its really powerful,i felt it too
In 2007, a week before my dad passes away he sent us his children, he's brothers and sisters, cousins and many other people an email about Life in general, the what and what not to-do, opportunities, work, relationships etc... it was a kind of goodbye 👋, not knowing we will lose him unexpectedly a week after.
There's always signs before someone's death.
You are so right! There are often signs that you don't notice until afterwards 😢
12:32 “it gives me great healing” I hope you understand what you do n give to people Lebo, by this platform you are giving people a safe space to heal❤️ God bless your hustle n I love how He’s working through you for others
Today's episode has made me realize what a mess I am and I don't know how I have managed to hold it for so long😢
Sending you love and light. I hope you'll be okay🌻💫
Hugs, love and light to you!
Sending love to you. Consider asking for help
Sorry TJ …sending tight hugs, May the Lord comfort you .
That's the first step to your healing journey. May God guide you 🙏
Your experience is helping someone's family to prevent this kind of event, what I took from your story is that we should be aware, and reactive to things that could be of danger in our homes and general life.. As an anxious parent, thank you so much for sharing your story, God bless🤗
Having a child is just something else😰 releasing such vulnerability into the world.
I'm so sorry 😞. May you be comforted
This guest seems very private and reserved. MS Relebo tried to get information from him. She real tried... It's hard to interview such people who are not outspoken...My views.
I think so too its like he is not telling is all
Guys remember how hard this is seriously we can't blame him it's alot
I felt the same way , he didnt want to say much
Let's appreciate he fact that he has been through some serious trauma. Trauma affects people differently. I am happy that he is able to at least talk about it. It is just unimaginable what he went through. I can still see pain in his face and you can hear it through his voice.
Guys did we want to see him break down in tears to understand him. I understood everything he said i dont feel like anything was left out.
"Motho ke motho ka batho". Painful but beautiful story. Thank you for sharing.
I just listened to Coco Dreams, so sad. May his soul rest in peace
Love is all. Love your song. Blessings.
May Jehovah continue to comfort him and his family 🫂🫂🫂
This is a sad story, i am imagining the part where he said, he was woken up by his child calling his name, and then when he got to the bedroom the child was quite. that voice will get stuck in my head everytime I try to sleep. that is traumatic hey. how do you go past something like this.
I'm praying that he continue to heal put all in the hands of God cannot imagine such pain but I believe that all is possible in God
Notification gang Zambia 🥰
We are here...
Broe 🙏 Lord is with you glad you are strong you are not alone 🥺
May his soul rest in peace and rise in Glory
just listened to Coco Dreams 💔 I feel your pain bro😓😭😭
Nice one. Wish him all the best
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Love her show. She's a great interviewer!
Yes we here
We continue
Why am i only seeing this now? Im available 😂😂😂😂, kidding!!!!!
I'm sorry for his loss
So sorry C-Live :( talk about triggers..yoooh
wow❤🕯
🖐️ family
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That's what I dont like about male gender when they hurting stressed they take out their frustration to their partners instead of seeking love and comfort from them. Then us females we take it out on our children specially if we not getting support from male figures or if they failing at Tha department. We really need consider therapy just after our traumas, not by going to therapy when we have ruined alot more
Which male gender? Be specific. Members of your family don't make up the entire male demographic.
@@nicosekano5942 specific to who?
To whomever you're addressing.
@@nicosekano5942 they got the point dont worry yourself
I'm about to be the only douchebag here, but did he ever find out what caused the fire?
An elecrtical fault surprisingly not the heater they suspected.
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Here🙋🏼♀️
The thumbnail is kinda inappropriate. It doesn't sit well with me seeing Relebogile smilling whilst the topic, is one not to smile about. Her thumbnails smiling just make it seem as if she's insensitive.
I beg to differ. She's being very emphatic. She's also trying to lighten the situation and striking a very nice balance.
Coco dreams❤😣😣
Second ❣️