Praying for you! Karma is one thing but having faith and relying on God will give you all of the strength you need to get through this. I realize you may not be a believer, but I hope through this challenge you will find your higher power. Sending love . . .
Honestly you are one of my favorite youtubers. Thank you for sharing the real side of being a human. Im so sorry about all these negative things hitting you all at once but you have such a good mindset and thought process to it all, which I feel is half the battle. You are right, you will get through it. Rooting for you girl :)
Congratulations on your new job! I think a lot of people can relate to having just a real 💩 day. One thing you don’t sound like is a person that takes things lying down! You go girl 🎉 good luck on your first day.
Sometimes something superficial like a total makeover can help break your psyche - if the person in the mirror doesn’t look like the person you did when you were with him, in can jumpstart a new wire in your brain where you can think from a different direction. Good luck!
Girl I love how strong and beautiful you are!!! Also chicken piccata and get a crock pot and make big meals in that. So you can make batches for the week!!! Like crockpot meals be made on Sundays so your good for the week!! ❤
I know you will do great at your new job. I can tell you have a lot of hurt, but I can tell you are also strong willed and have a good mindset. Hang in there. It will get better. Stress and anxiety can kill you. It’s definitely a joy taker.
Amber first you must take care of yourself untill your in a happy place. Then you can move on to other things in life. You are a very strong women I am a strong believer in all things happen for a reason be it good or bad. congratulations on your new job.
I don't think you give yourself enough credit your so brave to open up to us. Life is a challenge, we all fall but get back up and move forward. My advice about comparing yourself to others is don't do it only person you can compare yourself to is you. It's seems like you're bettering yourself each day and you need to be proud of that.
@@RenewingAmber its hard to break habits but you can do this! also you should drop contact with your ex if he 'wants to see" if your the right one by seeing other women than your not. your a good genuine person you deserve better.
So sorry about your precious OG. Losing a pet is so hard especially with everything else you’re dealing with. I’m excited for you to start this new work chapter and meet new people. Keep lunches easy the first week like chicken or egg salad sandwiches or wraps, strawberries (your fav), carrot celery sticks, and yogurt. Then next week plan to make extra portions at dinner so you can take leftovers to work. Small pan of lasagna, chicken and rice, enchiladas, or sloppy joes. You got this girl, go slay!! ❤😊
I'm so sorry about your pup and just life; recently went through a life transition early this year and I have to say, I've grown as a person since & I believe energy source wants you to do the same 🫂as a fellow anxious attachment-style girlie this crap is hard. Honestly, I've tried to go non-contact with my son's dad after I broke up with him but it was impossible so it has been close to a full year and I'm still holding on to hope he'll change but yes, you do have to continue life because they always do 🥴and I'll say something super cliche, it gets better [it really does lol]
Thanks for the kind words girl, separations are so hard but unfortunately they are a part of life. I’m trying to learn how to accept it and be okay with it rather than dwell on it! I’m so glad you’re in a better headspace now 💛
Sorry, about your previous dog! It’s so hard to loose pets. Life sure is quite the journey! Following most of the live 5 and watching other shows trying to get my first live show together on Poshmark . I have done a few silent shows and even sold 3 items on my first 2 silent shows. Going to the gw bins this week need to get enough inventory. Have a good day today. Raining in Ohio today. We really needed it.
What do you eat now? I would try to prep the same food. Pack the night before. I used to be a professional organizer and this was a thing clients asked me about a lot. Everyone had ideas about what they should do and it always involved soooooo much time. If u like sweet potatoes, cook up some whatever way you like and put in a container. I like to saute cubes. The same for tofu or chicken. Container that. If you're a sandwich or roll person that takes more time. Unless your work kitchen is great. Then take your bread or tortillas to work along with your containers. You'll likely share with coworkers who admire your goodies. Think of it as a home away from home instead of a destination. And never get rid of basic good quality career wear. A pain to replace!
Agreed. Having gone through some devastating breakups myself, I learned that cutting ties completely made things easier. There just wasn't any benefit to keeping in touch. It would be a different story if you had kids together, but since you didn't then take advantage of that freedom and cut all ties. It's been a while since I've had to go through what you're going through now, but just know that it does get better.
Love doesn’t hurt this much. It shouldn’t require this much work. Release it and go forward in search of The One. ❤
Thanks I needed to hear this 💛
Praying for you! Karma is one thing but having faith and relying on God will give you all of the strength you need to get through this. I realize you may not be a believer, but I hope through this challenge you will find your higher power. Sending love . . .
Honestly you are one of my favorite youtubers. Thank you for sharing the real side of being a human. Im so sorry about all these negative things hitting you all at once but you have such a good mindset and thought process to it all, which I feel is half the battle. You are right, you will get through it. Rooting for you girl :)
Aww I appreciate you saying all of that, it truly means a lot to me 💛
Very good. Very cool.
You’ve got this girl!! You are an amazing person with so much good coming your way! Hang in there! We are all rooting for you ❤🤗❤
Thanks so so much 💛
Congratulations on your new job! I think a lot of people can relate to having just a real 💩 day. One thing you don’t sound like is a person that takes things lying down! You go girl 🎉 good luck on your first day.
Thanks so much :)
Sometimes something superficial like a total makeover can help break your psyche - if the person in the mirror doesn’t look like the person you did when you were with him, in can jumpstart a new wire in your brain where you can think from a different direction. Good luck!
Girl I love how strong and beautiful you are!!!
Also chicken piccata and get a crock pot and make big meals in that. So you can make batches for the week!!! Like crockpot meals be made on Sundays so your good for the week!! ❤
Thanks so much friend
I know you will do great at your new job. I can tell you have a lot of hurt, but I can tell you are also strong willed and have a good mindset. Hang in there. It will get better. Stress and anxiety can kill you. It’s definitely a joy taker.
I agree I try and not allow my anxiety to overtake me but some days are harder than others. I will be going to therapy soon 💛
Amber first you must take care of yourself untill your in a happy place. Then you can move on to other things in life. You are a very strong women I am a strong believer in all things happen for a reason be it good or bad. congratulations on your new job.
Thanks so much 💛
I don't think you give yourself enough credit your so brave to open up to us. Life is a challenge, we all fall but get back up and move forward. My advice about comparing yourself to others is don't do it only person you can compare yourself to is you. It's seems like you're bettering yourself each day and you need to be proud of that.
I know I shouldn’t compare myself, I truly try not to but it’s hard. I’m working on it :)
@@RenewingAmber its hard to break habits but you can do this! also you should drop contact with your ex if he 'wants to see" if your the right one by seeing other women than your not. your a good genuine person you deserve better.
Hugs ❤
So sorry about your precious OG. Losing a pet is so hard especially with everything else you’re dealing with. I’m excited for you to start this new work chapter and meet new people. Keep lunches easy the first week like chicken or egg salad sandwiches or wraps, strawberries (your fav), carrot celery sticks, and yogurt. Then next week plan to make extra portions at dinner so you can take leftovers to work. Small pan of lasagna, chicken and rice, enchiladas, or sloppy joes. You got this girl, go slay!! ❤😊
Thanks for the ideas! Perfect 💛💛
I'm so sorry about your pup and just life; recently went through a life transition early this year and I have to say, I've grown as a person since & I believe energy source wants you to do the same 🫂as a fellow anxious attachment-style girlie this crap is hard. Honestly, I've tried to go non-contact with my son's dad after I broke up with him but it was impossible so it has been close to a full year and I'm still holding on to hope he'll change but yes, you do have to continue life because they always do 🥴and I'll say something super cliche, it gets better [it really does lol]
Thanks for the kind words girl, separations are so hard but unfortunately they are a part of life. I’m trying to learn how to accept it and be okay with it rather than dwell on it! I’m so glad you’re in a better headspace now 💛
Sorry, about your previous dog! It’s so hard to loose pets. Life sure is quite the journey! Following most of the live 5 and watching other shows trying to get my first live show together on Poshmark . I have done a few silent shows and even sold 3 items on my first 2 silent shows. Going to the gw bins this week need to get enough inventory. Have a good day today. Raining in Ohio today. We really needed it.
Good luck on your live selling journey :)
@@RenewingAmber tyvm! 💕
What do you eat now? I would try to prep the same food. Pack the night before. I used to be a professional organizer and this was a thing clients asked me about a lot. Everyone had ideas about what they should do and it always involved soooooo much time. If u like sweet potatoes, cook up some whatever way you like and put in a container. I like to saute cubes. The same for tofu or chicken. Container that. If you're a sandwich or roll person that takes more time. Unless your work kitchen is great. Then take your bread or tortillas to work along with your containers. You'll likely share with coworkers who admire your goodies. Think of it as a home away from home instead of a destination. And never get rid of basic good quality career wear. A pain to replace!
To be honest, you should move on and not be friends with your ex. It didn’t work out for a reason, no need to tear yourself apart.
Agreed. Having gone through some devastating breakups myself, I learned that cutting ties completely made things easier. There just wasn't any benefit to keeping in touch. It would be a different story if you had kids together, but since you didn't then take advantage of that freedom and cut all ties. It's been a while since I've had to go through what you're going through now, but just know that it does get better.