Satyamev Jayate S1 | Episode 7 | Domestic Violence | Full episode (Subtitled)
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- For countless women, entering married life often means the beginning of a stressful, violent existence. Beating one's wife seems to be ingrained in many men's mindsets as the appropriate behaviour for a strong male, but the consequences are misery for the wife and children, and often a broken, unhappy home. The concept of domestic violence is based on the notion of patriarchy, which needs to be converted into equality.
I went thru the verbal abuse, mental and emotional abuse for 22 years, there was physical abuse quite a bit. Ultimately my 18 year old son helped me get out of this marriage,.
wow , jusy wow...may.god bless
Your son is a gentleman any woman who becomes his life partner will be blessed
Many many congratulations to you ..
More power and peace to you 🌻
It's a blessing to have son like that...
I grew up in a domestic violence family. But I’ll never be the man my father was . I love my wife and kids and will gladly give my life for them
Way to go!
Please get therapy if you feel traumatised 🥺🥺
Hurt people hurt people.
Oh man I m soo proud of u ......my thinking is same no matter how monster my father is but I will never be like him
Salute to you. 😇😇
You are a true gentleman
Late marriage or remaining unmarried is better than bad marriage, hats off to you Snehlata maam, more power to you
Remaining unmarried is far better specially for mens👍
Cool name girl
Men who raises their hands on women are cowards 😡😡😡
@@Samvid_2.0 Men ke liye kyu sehti to aurat h
@@kapilarora1081 that isn't true always thought!!!
The first lady won my heart....even after 15, 16 years of continuous torture and violence she is still smiling and facing the life with all her might! Mam, hats off to you and god bless you! And big lesson for Indian men.....I feel sorry that the whole world is spitting on Indian men and we have lost respect in everyones eyes.
It's nothing bro , some even not get divorce they just think it's their life now
My grandfather was a true feminist. He loved his daughters, daughter in laws, grand daughters too much. He never clipped their wings. So is my father. Whenever my mom and I are busy in household chores, he prepares tea for us. ❤❤
Blessing
Even my dad do so.. God bless him for what he do to us.
Lucky you
Wish we have more men like him in the world..♥️♥️
That's just so sweet 😊
There two domestic violence cases in my own relatives.... Both my sisters are now divorced and living their life happily both of them are now remarried... And with a very better person..🙃 iam proud of my cousin sisters for having guts to face those demons and move on from them ❤️
God bless you and your sisters. ❤️
Join "Unheardstoriesbyrishchat" to share your family problems on telegram.❤️❤️❤️
Good decision by both.. wishing best for them 🙏
I had enough of my father beating my maa every other day. I stepped in, shouted at him to stop, looked him in dead in the eyes and my brother pushed him to the ground. My father is a tall guy and has a rather built structure my bother with his tiny 4 feet body took him down I still can't believe where all the courage came from. I am so proud of him. And that was the day I realised that my father is a coward . I could clearly see him crumbling inside, through his eyes and that day I knew i had won a battle I didn't know I was fighting. I have been at peace ever since.
Proud of you :))
I don't know who you are but I am proud you 😊😊
@Ishita Pandey you continue to be by her side, these ppl feel nobody can stand up against them
My god corona lockdown must be hell for the women getting abused right now, prayers for you.
True.
True ;for example in Punjab there is 36 percent rise in such cases
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Aamir Sir should start this show again..This is a reflection of the society
Ya thinking same👍
Exactly aj iska zada zarurat hai
Sir plz start this show again..
agree, its complicated cause today if he will do so they will qustion his religion and say he is of a particular religion and destroying India's culture. Amir khan and his wife are doing some incredible work like paani foundation, making 900 lakes in different villages of maharashtra to conserve water and so people in villages get water to drink, for farming and addressing the future water crisis, no main stream media talks about it but when he got divorced, what not hate speech and fake narratives were spread.
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I am separated now..Just bcz my son told when he was 4 years old.. mumma we won't go to them they will beat you again..🙂 & still I won't think ever to go back..
More power to u girl
Shows like these should never end ..
unlike bigboss n rodies... jinka koi matlab nahi fir bhi chal rahe hai
Extremely tearful...I went through this for 19 years. I have finally stepped out and am living alone happily.
👍👍
Ok aunty.😂😁😝. So what should I do ? 😂😁😝
@@VM03936 Please keep laughing at someone else's life changing achievements. God bless you.
@@vaishaliskaamble8440 true aunty !! These are the one's who never achieved anything in their life and laughing on other's life achievements.
Just ignore them
You are extremely powerful. Kudos to you ❤️
Each and every episode of Satyamev Jayate had always made me cry. This show was truly golden🙏🏼
Randomly watching this but by watching this I understood that even I m going through this by my husband and my mother in law and constantly told by my in-laws and my husband that it’s normal if you can’t tolerate then leave l... and now I m separated from that toxic relationship
A good move ! Wishing More power to you! ❤️
we can get divorced from husband but if your father beats you than what
@@harshada5673 if you are an adult then move out . Maintain distance .
@@Mira-pm3ni ya I m 18 now finally I can go to another city for my studies . Thank you for your kind suggestion
More power to you keep moving forward.
My mother faced the same incident for the last 25 years. I only remember him hitting her till she fell unconscious. Me and my sisters were extremely terrified by him. She earned the living, day and night yet he would hit her till she bled. I remember him strangling her in the middle of the night, while we were sleeping (i was 12), he threw an iron pan on my mother's stomach when she was 8 months pregnant and i remember seeing my born brother dead in her arms. He has never spent a penny on us. Yet my mother endured every harassment for the sake of us as were we daughter's (and she did not want our future husband and in-laws to taunt us on parents broken marriage). Not all the men are the same, but there are some demons present in the society, who are angels to the society but are monstrous to their own family. He is not at all ashamed and has no regrets for everything he has done.
SUKANYA MAHAJAN the same thing happened with me also
Just get your mom away from him! Wom
Women do not need men!
Is everything better now dear ?
Your mum needs to stand up to him with your support, children can be a great carriage to their parents.
Honestly, I never comment on any videos. But this show deserve to be praised. Even after years this shows bring the reality of today's world. It's an huge request to bring this show back on Indian television. 🙌
ThankGod... Im so blessed to have a Dad like Angel... He never said a word harsh to my mom.. even my mom is no more since 4 years ...he is still too polite and nice with all and everyone loves him.. Ya Allah Baba ko lambi Umaar dena ❤❤❤
Ameen elahi ameen
Ameen Suma Ameen
Ameen .you are lucky to have a father like him
Allahuma Ameen
Wah so sweet 🙏🙏🌈🌈
I am totally blessed to have a normal and happy family where Me and my brother are equally treated.... and now married in a family where there is no discrimination between me and my husband infact i am pampered more than him . I wish all girls get a family and in laws like that...
You are really blessed ❤
Kahi nazar na lagjai meri behen
I wish my mom had the courage to walk out...Kudos!!
I was 6 or 7 , I barely remember ,
"My mother and father had a massive fight and my grandparents home was near by ,so my mom told us to get ready to go" ,"we were ready but they kept fighting and my sister got scared and went outside , and I was sitting on the bed listening to them , that's when my father got violent and agressively went to the kitchen , I went behind him to check and he was holdin a *knife* ,I told my mother that he's coming with a knife and my mother hold me and ran outta house....."
If we didn't got out of the house that day , I don't know what what could have happened to...
And Even If was too small to remember this thing ,
I couldn't cuz it was so disturbing that I can't forgot..
But the worst part is , she is still married to this Man for 25 years !
Idk what to say anymore...hope u r fine. You r brave. But be braver and tell ur mom to come out of that hell...sry if i am forcing some ideas on you but that is just my opinion
Akeli ladies ke prati agar hamare samaj ke kuch galat logo ka nazariya badal jaye to shayad wo akeli acche se reh le
Hamare yaha ye soch hei ke ladkiyo ki dusri shadi nahi ho sakti, ye soch badal jaye to shayad bohotsi mahilaye aisi situation se bahar nikle
last statement reflects a grave mistake from your mother side
ohh to ladkiyo ki dusri shadi nahi ho sakti?
The Activist Lady is extremely good. Hats off to her ideas !
This is a powerful episode. A must watch, eye-opening narrative on what women suffer, go through in married life. 1 out of every 2 women get physically and verbally abused, just because the man wants to feel all powerful and macho to himself. The male psyche dominates and he subdues the women to his whim and will. Aamir Khan does a brilliant job in bringing out this horrifying issue to light, and this will hopefully educate families and begin a discussion on how Domestic Violence can be brought to an end.
That pain in their voices..giving me chills!!!! The problem is our own family letting our boys doing this.
The kind of television content India needs 🙌🙌 beautiful ❤
Still Need Of Session Like This To Our India In Dec 2022.
Love You Ameer Khan Sir ❣️
and Those Aunties, Sisters who all Passed This kind of violance,,,, Be Brave
My mother was a victim of domestic violence, she was physically and mentally torchered 4 out of 7 days, my father is a drunk, him family behaved bad with my mother. When me and my brother grew up, we took our mother out of that place. Today my mother is very sick, results of all the bittings, torchers, etc etc.
My father still drinks today even after his cancer operation, now he is a certified drunk. My mother stays with me, but we both brothers love our mother too much. This domestic violence left a big scar on my mother's heart and soul but she is never giving up.
Baap hai tera woh. Paida kiya hai tujhe.
@@kalpanadas45 So? He has the right to engage in violent horrible behavior? Kya kehna chahte ho aap ye kehke? Thoda Dil aur dimag laao apne andar.
@@shubhraagarwal453 right yaar...kaise mentality k log hote hein society mein,sochte hein ki aurat k sath violence karna atcha h
@@kalpanadas45 ab kiya kry sharab la k dai ousko ya ammi ko paish kry pitai k liye.
Desi aurat bachoun k baray honay ka intizar krti hai phir badla start hota hai
I too faced this n can understand her. Can't be with him nor leave him life really becomes hell. After 2 yrs I realised no one can love but you have to love n protect yourself. Society family is nothing but u r most important for yourself
@Shruti nahi yaar
I m away from him but this court etc are really emotionally draining.
This was the best show ever in my opinion. It is not only representing the sufferings of people but also creating a lot of awareness among masses. Also, just imagine how our youth watching this would have understood what they should never do. I hope such shows starts getting telecasted more rather than "gopi basu's tragedy". These serials are a big problem. They keep portraying women as good wives, mothers, daughter in law etc. Rather we should have shows showing today's women who are independent, confident, courageous and successful.
growing up in same atmosphere i know how bad this can be for a child . Dear mothers/wives don't tolerate such behaviour , don't let your love be your weakness . Take action immediately after the first assault. Don't get used to it . Women are supposed to be loved and respected and not treated like animals. Please if any of your friends mother is going through the same encourage them to take action immediately.
My cousin sister is also suffering
this. She had told me once while we were having conversation. She hides it every time. From outside they seems like a perfect couple but inside only they know the truth :(
Your sister should leave her husband and files case against him.
Why din you help her? You should do something rather than commenting on youtube.
@@debapriyasen9019 you are right. She should help her sister.
Mostly women fears about society. What society will say about her? What about their parents, will they support her or not? Relative will laugh at her, pity her, mock her. Sab lok use n usake maa baap ko tane denge. Agar divorce le liya to uska aage kya honga n all n all. Isliye most of the women don't come forward n raise their voices against domestic violence.
My humble request to all the women who is facing domestic violence. Dear women, you are the most powerful thing in this whole planet bas der hai khud ko pehchanne ki. Jo rista tumhe khushi nahi deta us riste ko chodana hi behtar hai.
@@Anonymous__07 Exactly...neither we should tolerate violence nor let it happen to anyone! And Mentality has to be changed in first place or else there is no difference between animals and us.
@@debapriyasen9019 trueeee👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
17:04 has anyone read "it ends with us", this woman's story reminds me so much of that book, lily unconditionally loved her husband nd her husband loved her too but once he hit lily out of rage, but then apologized immediately promising it won't happen again, lily forgave him cuz he seemed genuine. He did it again, he pushed her down the stairs nd then apologized again. It was the third time when he tried to rape lily, when lily finally decided to leave him even though Ryle (her husband) begged her to stay and told her he loved her the most. It's really scary how her husband manipulated her to stay everytime but lily was brave enough to leave him. This woman, just like lily is an absolute hero. She brave and bold, respect to her.
The police officer says that a woman who experiences DV cannot be evicted from her home and their are shelters she can go to if she's too afraid to live at home. But why should she? The abuser should be evicted and the victim should be allowed to reside in her own home. Thank you for raising awareness. Great topic. Great show.
You are doing a great service to our nation. You are rightly known as Mr. Perfectionist. Our country is very backward in comparison to the Western countries. May Almighty God bless you and Grant you a long life. Thanks to you and the members of your family.
l just loved kamalaji.. she is excellent with her speech.. brave and intelligent women that i have ever seen in my life..
This show needs to comeback especially in this age where almost everyone has access to internet.
Here in 2019, and nothing has changed! I have still seen highly educated people involved in domestic violence! #shame
uneducated men are also violent towards their wives but the difference is uneducared women can't raise voice against their abusive husband but educated women can raise voice against their husbands because uneducated women arenot financially secure unlike educated women
@@taniyabharadwaz6404 Agreed! But there are educated women too who live with their abusive husbands just because of societal pressure or children or not having support of their parents! There are very few who actually raise their voice!
@@manvigulati5636 right...only education and financial independence can save a woman from toxic husband
@@manvigulati5636 For these idiotic parents, worthless societal honour is more important than their child's life lol. I seriously cant comprehend how the heck they could tolerate abuse done to their daughters. And they have the audacity to not let their daughters choose whom to live with. They force a arranged marriage with some unknown guy and if he turns out to be bad, the daughter still has to tolerate it because their family name will be spoiled in the society, such pathetic people.
Vhi hote hain mostly coz highly educated cunts think marriage is a bond to create combined wealth of two families that's it daughter or son isn't even in the equation.
Parents should support their daughter who is suffering from domestic abuse..
parents should not just support, they should "teach them from Day one" that they will not tolerate any abuse.. no point in supporting them "after" they are abused.. they should be taught never to get abused.. they shoud be brought up with HIGH DIGNITY and SELF RESPECT. That is what will stop abuse in the first place.
Once daughter is married, she is no longer her parent's responsibility.. she has to fend for herself.
@@elva136 I beg to differ.. to me MY daughter will always be My daughter- My Princess.. and when she gets married ill make sure the son in law treats her like a queen or I will be his worst nightmare.. I will absolutely be with my daughter thru every thick and thin and anyone who would bring even one tear in her eyes will see his or her Death sentence in my form !!! and that is my promise to my daughter !!
A Famous dialogue:- sadi k baad pati patni me nok jhok to Hoti hi h to kya divorce deke maike Beth jaoge Apne 2-2 Bache leke ....apni khatir Nahi to Apne bachcho Ka to socho
I want to point on 1 thing. M married, my husband, in laws are also good. M engineer but still my parents put their eyes in my life, they observe how my life going on. M happy or not. My humble request to all parents , don't think daughter's marriage is done. Ur responsibility finished. Noooo Ur responsibility starts. Tats Ur daughter , u shud be alert she is happy or not after marriage
the most meaningful part is that audience are all men.sometimes the men that speaks supporting equality irrespective of gender in public does not follow it himself and act to his comfort in home to his wife..so its good that men get to hear and think what women goes through when facing domestic violence which is considered okay in many societies..
You Know what is the problem. A man thinks his wife is his property. So he tortures a woman or restricts her life. If a wife questions him he said I am possessive for you. They believe
it's their right.and you Know the rate of mental torture is much more than physical violence.
We treat men as our pride and they treat us as their property. Sad reality.😢😢😢😢
Noshin sis as to clap you need both your hand same both husband and wife are responsible for clashes in the house...
@@nilofershaikh4472 So you think the wife is responsible for getting beaten up by the husband? By this logic, if you get robbed, it's your fault too. If you get raped, it's your fault too.
Violence is never justified, madam. If your wife if troubling you, leave her or leave the house.
@@purplestripes4076 true
Even mother of those man don't stand with her bahu. 😔
@@nilofershaikh4472 i am sorry but i believe you have that kind of perception that it's ok for a man to slap her wife once a while. He did it out of rage, out of anger from work. So what he said sorry and gifted me a saree. Sister you know what is a person's main wealth? His or her self respect. Try to give yourself at least your parents a bit of respect. When a man believe he can torture you? When he take you for granted. When he feel you worth nothing. And to clear more specifically, how many times you heard women raise her hand on her husband during argument with him. Maybe once twice or rarely. If a woman tortures her husband she should be punished too. But let's ask the opposite. How many time a man raise his hand on his wife during an argument. How many times he threaten her to abandone. We have heard so many times. And he justified her action by saying i was angry. She argued with me. Get this clearly oppressor should be punished wheather it is a man or a woman. And victim should not be blamed wheather it is a man or woman. Law and justice is equal for both. You said it takes two hand to clap. I am saying it takes two legs to stand. Stand against oppressor.
27:40 thappad film's concept , a good film ,everyone should see
Well not a good film bit message was good
When we were younger, our parents would hit us in the name is discipline and say " it is to your good" ..this could be the origin of the understanding , "he loves me so he beats me"
i am watching his session in 2024 from Qatar ,,,,,,i love this show, love from Nepal
Stop domestic violence. Every woman has the right to survive. If this happens with their family then they feel the pain
and every old and fragile mother in law too... this is also hidden issue... all culprits should be nailed
Such an amazing, inspiring and insightful episode!
It's great to see that most of the fathers/husbands of the people in the comment section are nice and treat them well (as far as I've read in the comments per discriptions by multiple people) and as for the people suffering - more power and support to you, I hope you are able to get out of your situation 🙏🏼
I think that something everyone should at least once think about is that just because he (the father/husband) doesn't hit you or taunt you or isn't abusive (in any way) makes him great, I think it just makes him a decent and a normal person. It's not something extra ordinary, what he is doing, sure it's good to be respectful but that's just basic human decency. We need to treat it so and not something that should be put up on a pedestal.
i can't believe how people proudly said that they do domestic violence with their wives with their egoistic ,proudy smile . ridiculous
Shivani Singh Exactly I want to wipe their smiles with acid.
Guneet Kaur I will also help you in doing such a wonderful thing which is welfare of our country
This is our India anything can happen here
Welcome to the incredible India
@@maipardhan Bn jao ghatiya admi jaisa aisa hoga to usme aur tume kya antrr rhega
Accepting abuse of any kind is the biggest mistake you can make...Always have zero tolerance towards abuse and Harrassment ...It's you who allow others to do, what they do...
From Pakistan.. I really like kamla bhesan and the way she discribe and summarize my subject (gender studies) in her 5 minute talk. Excellent 👌
Mjy b inki battien bht achi lagiiii..from Pakistan
Not only husband but brothers also beat their sister.
On Raksha Bandhan they promised you they will protect you but whom they will protect us.
Even after 5-6 years this topic still relatable.
Yes aunty.😂😝 You are right. Maine bhi ek baar apni sister ko peeta thaa .. And she is 7 years elder than me.. And since then, we have never talked to each other.😂😝😁..
@@VM03936 it is not a great thing that you are laughing on
May be you have some mental disorder beta ji
@@VM03936 At this point u don't even need therapy u should be sent straight to mental hospital
@@VM03936 bc isme hasne waali kya baat hain
@@VM03936😢👍
I used to watch this show when I was little I don't remember my age it was season 3 , I used to understand a very little things... I used to watch with parents ... They use to say that if u watch u can know the world better... But at that time I was so pampered and I was little after that my dad passed away I learnt many languages... I am from one of the cleanest city in the country mysuru, Karnataka. And at that time I was learning Hindi... But now I know many languages I think like an adult and I strongly believe in democracy and justice... So I have started watching "SATYAMEV JAYATE" And I have been seen these issues... But the causes and other followed by information I got this from this show... Am really thankful to u people who are speaking these types of sensitive things in the open stage , in the national TV.... I strongly request you to come with another season .... And hats off for the crew, researchers, everyone...
THANK YOU.....
Kamla ma'am deserves a lot of respect. 👏🏻👏🏻
After watching this episode I feel so blessed Nd lucky to have a perfect husband may Allah always protect him Nd give him all the happiness and success in life.
ahahahhahhaaa you feel domestic abuse means only husband beating wife & not wife beating husband ?
amit patil yeah that happens too but the cases are rare and usually men don't complain because they think its against their masculanity
ahahahaa no ur wrong . we get so many cases of wife beating husbands & abusing them. sometimes she extorts money from him by threatening him with false cases. Men must get a commission & welfare committee to take care of their grievances & issues.
amit patil i have seen wife beating husband in shinchan's family only 😂
Rashi Koranne yes true .. society hasta he un logo ke upar .. patriarchy ki wajah se male jyada problem face karte hein lekin hum ko lagta hai ki agar hum iska birodh karenge hamara so called mardangi chalijayegi
I want this show back 👍. This is one of the most meaningful and much needed show ❤️
Any relation without LOVE And Respect will not sustain.
Domestic Violence CANNOT be addressed or Eliminated by LAW Or Families Or Friend yes LAW & Family can Help Assist in counseling but it is a One to One Problem Needs to be Addressed One To One .
Love and Respect is the only key that too if retained and maintained.
Satyamev is the best talk host show ever. I really admire all the issues this pertains.
I am feeling very bad for all women who suffer through domestic violence......
Every woman should raise voice against domestic violence......
Akshaya Gandhi its not easy. Especially when u value ur family and their “honour”. Its really really hard. Takes a lot of strength
Open Minded our family's strength lies in us. So when our husband or wife harass us in any manner react to it at that moment itself. It won't hurt our family's reputation but only increases it.
Darkstroy 2099 I didn't just say only about women I have also mentioned men.
Boys are the victim of most child abuse and women (adult) faces more rape in India.
Darkstroy 2099 No. It is fine. Every rapists should be punished. Let it be men or women, whoever abuses another person especially kids in any should be given the right punishment.
Akshaya Gandhi x
9 years suffered from domastic violence..that result my child born as..mentally retired which we found after some month ..my husband got marrid with another women leaving us in my mothers home..I file the case but can't give the evidence of his marriage.samjhota karke alag hona pada muze..sab huq chhodkar kucch paise lekar...abhi mushkil se guzara chal raha hai.
Yeah you have to be strong there is no other option in this society for poor mentality and girls
Be strong stand on ur own feets. Educate ur child love him....but don't let ur evil husband flee file a complaint against him let him pay for his sins. How can he clearly enjoy with another girl while ur suffering and struggling with ur child. Even he should take equal financial and all around responsibility of the child
shashi j app bohut strong hain mere behan I am facing same situation but hard time will be gone and the first and most is ur own self safety
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Badla lene k liye baacho ko taiyaar karo
After watching this video this motivated
Me that we should respect the women as they sacrifice at every step
Now people should realize that women have sacrificed enough and would get equal opportunities
No words for this double standard of men.. My father treated me like a princes and abuse my mother every day... When i stopped him and raised voice for my mother he offended...
He depend for everything on mother... Cant took a glass of water for him.. Needs amma for everything...Now he is aged n retired and living a life of an old lion with an innocent smile on his face 🙂
I stayed almost 20 years with a covert narcissist and basically ruined what should have been the best years of my life. At one point, even a few months before I was able to free myself of him, I thought I was trapped forever and would never be able to leave. Even now I can barely believe that I have managed to get out of that situation. But there's still some miles to go before I can truly say he is out of my life.
Why didnt you try to get out sooner? If you had said about it to your parents they would have helped you right? Why did it take so long?
@@poetryofcinema6957 I did try very hard to get out sooner. But life is not straightforward, nor is the human psyche. And there were many complexities in my situation. And contrary to my expectations, my parents or siblings did not help me to get out. In fact, they sometimes actively sabotaged me when I tried to break free. That is why it took so long. I am trying to document my story through my youtube channel, because obviously this is not something that can be explained in a few short paragraphs. I still spend some time every day trying to figure out why xyz person behaved a certain way, or what would have happened if in xyz moment I had done something different...
@@batteredwife It must have been really really hard for you....I was always of the belief that children were the most important thing for a parent and that they would always think, "Whatever difficulties I faced, my child should never face". That's what my parents had said to me. I guess I am too naive to believe everyone would be like that...I watched the videos on your channel, it was so touching. It is really so strong of you that you finally had the courage to do it. How are you now? you are being independent and strong?
@@poetryofcinema6957 Thank you for your kind words. I am on the road to healing. I still do have a lot of PTSD symptoms, but I can see a huge positive change in my mental health. I am hoping I will once again feel "normal" the way I used to feel before. I do feel my creativity coming back. Keeping my fingers crossed for things to get even better. :)
@@batteredwife You are for sure a very strong person. You have a really good knack for writing. The way you used your words to explain your story was very meticulous. Pretty sure you are already very much creative :)
But why is your username 'Battered Wife'? Maybe something that describes who you are or how strong you are?
Oh wow what a show amir sir
Its a Shame such shows are not popular and garbage like bigboss are trends
This show was most popular. But not gov not allow all these shows . At that time it was congress
Thappad movie is a Great Example , Pehli hi bar me Action lo , First time me aisa Example set karo, that he would never Cross the LINE , Please take help of Police & Kabhi Saho mat , No means No🙏🕉️🕉️🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💯💯💯💯💯💯🕉️🕉️🕉️🕉️🕉️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌸🌸🌸
Parents bhi to sath nhi dete ...koi to saath de kiske sahare nikle esi shadhi se
@@shapeofyou1548 khud ke sahare se
Yes thappad movie was great 🙏
India is not 🕉. It is ✝️☪️☯️☸✡🕎 and 🕉. So don't disrespect our Motherland. You moron. 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳💕❤❤❤❤ Jai Hind!!!!
@@Aditi-mb3qm You can say this by removing the word moron in your sentence.
Literally cried constantly for one hour...
Yet I see men asking for men commission for protection of men ...
Don't generalize ,,it's true that women are still suffering in india..but some men are also victims..
@@dheerendragupta6414 Yes but they are victimized by other men the ratio %age of women suffering is very very high ... If I see aman suffering I would stand for him but when I see women suffering men say ye unke ghar ka mamla hai
Again you generalized,,offcourse no of victims are very high when it comes to women.and they must be empowered..
I'm proud of my mum for the upbringing she gave me and for making me independent. May everyone gets a mother like her. Its all about upbringing, having kids is so important in India that people neglect parenting
Inspiring, they are not women or victims, they are warriors in this society .
Please get this show back ... really was one of the best shows on tv ♥️
OK,but these women!!!!!
why is nobody talking about how brave they are?
I feel I was listening to a saint, Snehalata ji. Respect and loads of love to you. ❤️
Movie Thappad is what every woman should see. One slap does not stop at one slap. The public image presented by abusive husband is very carefully cultivated. Our circle of friends and relatives was stunned at my divorce. --Women wake up---
Heart wrenching...😭😭😭 its really underwhelming to see Devils like these cruel husbands and their mysterious space of mentality in which they perform this unhuman tasks... Kudos to Aamir Sir for making such a Spectacular, no nonsense show revealing some of the most required social topics to discuss and Hatss off.... Hats OFF TO THE Brave and Real heroines of our country like them shoen in episode who bravely fought the challenging times... This show is one of the best Tv has given, Perfect theme song😍, no nonsense crisp episodes with right balance of everything... Please start a new season soon...😍😍
Myen
That line man"bacche paisa nhi khate bacche Khan khate h bache paiso p ni sote bed p sote "h was rock
True men never hits women. Never be proud of this kind of manlihood.
right
Rather I say true HUMaN doesn't do violence.....
101% true.👍🙂
Absuloutly correct.No doubt..
Tru log milte nahi
Being a maharashtrian kid I can relate to that ladies story very much my mother faced the same abuse my neighbours my friends house everywhere same situation men will be drunk come to house either beat the kid or the mother or will roam around tye town shouting
Kamla mam deserves Padma Shree for her thoughts rather than that ram rahim.
Kamla man thoughts are great.
Really
Really
Mahesh kumar
Kamla mam if you have fb page please share the link
kya baat hai i love the fact that she demand share in property instead of dowry..that the most practical thing one can say..
Sir mai bhi gharelu hinsha ka shikar hu aur 10 saal maine ye sab sha aur mere pati nhi sudhare is liye mai apne pati se alg rhti hu aur unhone aaj tak apni galti nhi mani ki mai galt tha maine gaadi mangi ye galt hai ye unhe 3 bachche hone pr bhi nhi samjhe
Aapka ye pryas bahut sahi hai
Aur hamare samaj ki mahilaye ulta mujhe hi sunate hai ki mahilao ko janm bhar ye sab sahna padta hai jo sahta hai wahi rahta hai aise bolte hai yaha mahila hi mahila ki dushmn hai sir hamara samaj mere jaisi mahilao ko kabhi chain se jine nhi de gaa
This is a beautiful show. Not only you learn new things, you get a chance to see others point of views and have a better understand of life. This show opens eyes and minds. I hope this show will continue again in the near future.
Its all because our entire society focuses on teaching us to be Sita-Savitri and consider the husband as Pati Parmeshwar. What they forget are
1. Teach the women to be Sita but do not teach the Men to be Ram, except the part where they can expel the wife from home without anyfault on their part
2. Forget, or rather neglect to teach the women that they are a seperate entity and not just an extension of the men in their life.
Aunties of the colony will have hell lot of questions if a couple does not have kids but when the domestic violence happens, it suddenly becomes "pati patni ke bichh ka mamla, we should not interfere"
This show needs a new season... they should keep on continuing this work
Luckiest are those wives who get good life partners ...and Iam thankful to God that Iam one of them
This 1st 1 case is serious... Pata nai parents ko love marriage se itna prblm hai... Par jo unke khud k choice k ladke,family se sadi karke jo unki ladki ki jindagi barbaad hoti hai usse kux farak nahi padta unko...😡😡😡
Sare parents aise hi egoistic hote hai unko bhi apni ejjat apna raub dikhana hota hai ki hum zyada better hai tumse and as a child you are always wrong or have no right to your life har jagah yahi soch yahi rehen sehen hai bcoz wo khud utne successful ya intellectual ni h and wrong belief hai ki wahi sab kuch hai
Indian parents chutiya h sale sadi jruri h kyA ma bap k seva krna chahti h to kya problem h
sale ese chutiya logo s sadi krate bcc uske bad kehte k sehn kro
the way that orange shirt man started talking in the end ❤️wow sir ,thankyou so much for being a decent human being and understanding humanity and equality and fragile masculinity❤️❤️
Lets stop victim blaming and saying why don't women just leave? There are many emotional, financial, societal, issues and pressures that keep a woman staying in abusive relationships. Lets start holding men accountable. They shouldn't have blurred the faces of men who hit these victims because they deserve the shame that comes with it.
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Hi all , I never thought I would be watching these vedio a but when it happened with me I m here. I was verbally and brutally physically abused by my husband … my parents asked me to leave him but I thought let me give him one more chance however he gave me one more shock which is physical violence I was beaten till death by him I begg him to leave me or else I will dye …. He was drunk …. M now out of those toxic people and feel like I got new life though struggle increased which is for good.
The fact that a show like this is not running anymore and naagin, bigg boss, saath nibahna saathiaya and yeh rishta kya kehlata are still running. Pisses me off
ये है असली हिरो... देश मे बंदलाव ला राहा , नजरिया बद्दल ने की कोशीष कर राहा दिमाख पर मर्दागिका की धुल साफ कर राहा है... बोहत सारे हिरो देश जो घुटका खाके जुबा केशरी हो रहि बोलते .....बोहत बडीया सोच है ऐसे हिरो चाहीये देश को
Life is hell for these victims. I appreciate that these women/victims got out. Yet, there are some who never get out and are deceased as a result of it. And children live a traumatic life. What a shame. Is the new generation going to change and refrain from domestic violence happening? I hope so.
Aamir, it's both amazing and astonishing that we are just beginning to take actions to stop domestic violence in 21st century. We also need to give equal priority to mental and emotional violations and abuse. They are equally important and essential for both men and women, i.e any human. If 50% women go through just physical domestic violence. We can imagine what would be the % for mental and emotional violence. Only then our societies and cultures will start to truly evolve. Only then our children will learn to self and co regulate. Thank you for your divine work here. ❤🙏
And what about mental torture?? Is it not included in voilence?? Sometimes physical voilence is less but mentally a woman is so much suppressed and harrassed that she loses the hope to live... and even her own blood relations keep blamming her for being unthankful blah blah... she is getting food, dresses and roof on her head and the husband is an avatar if he is providing helpers(maid , servants etc) so its ok to be suppressed and mentally tortured... yes this is also happening...😏
Zain Farmaan... i agre mental torture is worst
Torture is torture, whether physical or mental.
Yes..well said..Most Women's daily life looks happy but they are supressed to express her views..Even if husband blame her for some mistakes n she explains what happened..Than husband will be angry(without physical abuse).So better listen to him,no counter reply...n this is done by highly educated men..I guess its every Moms duty to teach their son how to respect women.But in real I have seen Moms who wants respect from their sons but they will not stop their sons misbehavior towards their wife n even encourage them telling him all the complains..
What about mental torture given by women.
Nobody said its right a life leading towards depression is not healthy you needs to do something about it instead of moaning about it. Both for boys and girls and mental toucher is both ways men and women both is capable of doing so. Fight for it try to stop it,try to understand why is it happening, if u can do something u will be blessed. #godluck to you. :)
"woman are insecure" this though has to be vanished from every girl and woman ! No more words. The abuser should be punished with rape charges...
I dont think that they explained insecurity very well, Insecure in terms of personality: means unconfident. But in this context i think it means she doesnt have support- emotional, financial, from society or otherwise. Her future is "not" "Secure"
38:10 tum jab pit ti ho tab pure hindustan ki izzat ghat ti hai.... literally got goosebumps
नामर्द है वो लोग जो अपनी पत्नी या फिर किसी भी औरत पर हाथ उठाते है।
Right
Right ✔
@@rakhisinha576 sahi kaha.
She has taken right decision.
@@rakhisinha576 Mera Pati bhi tumhare pati ki tarah hi hai.
Kamla maam
Hats of u
Very proud as a woman
Good thoughts
Before 17 yrs My family used to promote domestic violence but due to education after 17 yrs they ask others to stop domestic violence.
If my future husband raises hands on me, I'm not gonna stay quiet, instead I too am gonna smack him.. If he does it, so should I, only then he'll understand how it feels
BTW... I'm not even getting married tho 😂😂
Girl same!!!
I am curious does that apply the other way round. If you hit someone first, can he hit you back?
@@jessijane808 hmm yess
@@justinseagull6165 I don't think the people around you would agree with you(assuming the altercation happens in public) The guy would prob be beat by the public even if the girl started attacking first.
Also if the altercation happens at home the girl can call the cops and get the guy arrested, again doesn't matter who started to attack whom.
@@jessijane808 that's also true tho
Me bhi domestic violence k mahol me Pali hun, shadi se behad darti thi but now m happy bcoz my husband is so loving and caring 😊
I think that,s the bloody reason why many women don,t wanna marry when they become financially independent
Shandar episode …सभी तथाकथित ‘मर्दों’ को ये एपिसोड देखना चाहिए👍🏻
Mam you are absolutely 100% correct.Each and every Indian man has this bloody PITRA SATTA MANSIKTA.Hats of to you mam.you have a great mentality...plz aise shelters banaye .It needs badly.
The person who changed wife's like a towel is showing his care for other wifes
I am suffering from depression and these videos are inspiring me
Thank you Snehalata Mam...aapka ye video meine bar bar dekha...aur khud mein himmat paida ki..shadi k 5 saal jo sehti rahi...ussme se bahar nikal gayi...divorce file kiya...kuch nhi...ek paisa nhi liya ussase...kyu ki paise se jyada mujhe meri jindagi important thi..1 sal mein divorce ho gaya mera...ab azad hu...bhot khush hu...jindagi kya hoti hai ye mehsoos kar rahi hu...5 saal k darawane sapnese bahar hu...thank you so much mujhe meri jindagi lautane k liye...