@christianaayanniyi9880 Exactly!...that's what the foreign women experience...that's 7not the culture here in the diaspora. For instance, when a child turns 18, here in the USA, they don't get to live at home with mom & dad for free. He/she becomes independent to make his/her own decisions in life. Hence, he/she either moves to be on their own or pay some bill for living with mom & dad at home. This was the first culture shock I experienced upon arrival at America. So, Nigerian men are a rare breed. We just remain who we are anywhere in the world. Ladies of the diaspora can't have enough of us....
Exactly my point, familiarity breeds contempt. Only a Nigerian man will drive a lady to her house and still give her transport. For the foreign ladies this is pampering promax but our ladies here see it as nothing
These men walk as KINGS,.... I have been in a mall and seen a group of American guys and went on and saw a group of guys that were Nigerian it was like a instant CLASS SHIFT... those young Americans looked like they were about to rob the place and dirty. They looked uneducated... But those you Nigerian men first looked like CLASS, CLEAN, AND THEY WERE SO HANDSOME. SKIN Was glowing... And they had Intelligence in the tone of their speech.
100% fact. One thing a lot of these people don't know is that as a Nigeria man, we derive our joy and happiness seeing our women and children shining .
As a Nigerian, our women have so much luxury that it has become natural and unappreciative to the good things they get. We are taught to take care of family
I will never forget receiving a star treatment on a chic fil A restaurant because the African American lady recognized my accent as a Nigerian. She said she visited Nigeria with her hubby and was very well treated. My God, kindly bless that lady again and again 🙏🏿 She gave me and my family so much food
As a Nigerian woman I can say it’s true, my Nigerian takes care of a Majority of my bills in the Diaspora. A majority of Nigerian men are like this. You might see a few that are Westernized & have embraced the Western ideas of dating, however the vast Majority are still Ol Skool with it
Absolutely. Cos out there, little efforts are appreciated unlike your typical Nigerian woman who, no matter how hard you try feel there's somebody out there who can do better. I think our women can do better
I can say as a Cameroonain brother.most of us think it will be crazy expensive to date a Nigerian woman. They are beautiful. I have family that are Nigerians and when I hear them talk I just say God help us
Even if you do not have a father in Nigeria, another father go father you. Nigerian men are fathers to their children, their neighbours children, their children's friends, a stranger's kid and that one kid in the market wey dem dey use slap correct him head 😂😂
Agreed 100%. I used to drive my son to everywhere with 3 or sometimes 4 of his friends. After they all graduated from University, my son's friends started calling me their Dad
As a Nigerian man in the diaspora, I tend to believe that men are basically the same globally. There are some cultural differences but it’s not that simple to generalise about one group or the other. We Africans usually become more like the western society over time. In fact, the pace of change is alarming due to our digital age. There are good and bad African men both in the diaspora and in Africa of course!
50/50 western culture is a disgrace to any Nigeria man. We appreciate our women when they help but it is the responsibility of man to take care of His family. This make our decision final in the Family.
In my opinion Nigerian women take Nigerian men for granted. The average Nigerian men is exceptional good. The diaspora cannot just lie all of a sudden. We are what we are
I have travel to few countries around, Nigerian men has the best family life. Even our neighboring countries here in Cameron, Cameron fathers don't care about their how their family feeds. Is only mothers who takes care of their children. Every cameronian woman dreams to marry a Nigerian husband in Cameron. Of a truth, atypical Nigerian man think of his children more than himself
One thing about Nigerians is that EVERYONE in their community is a family. Everyone trains you even if you are an orphan. That family support is strong in Africa as a whole and that is why we know how to respect women and treat them right. Our leaders are the only problem we have honestly. Proudly 🇳🇬
Our men are representing the country positively. Let us all praise and admire what they are doing. Our ladies should open their eyes, pull their socks up and start appreciating the gold dust they have got for free. I can see these foreign beautiful ladies invading Nigeria, because our men are definitely special. start appreciating
As a matter of the truth, Nigeria ladies grow up with their men and have not known or tasted foreign men, both cultural and love making to their women, there is no time you will compare Nigeria men with foreign men, foreign ladies have experienced and testified that Nigeria men are number one
Yes! They take the role of a Nigerian man for granted in Nigeria. When we go overseas and be ourselves. The ladies go crazy about our hospitality. It’s just a natural orientation with us. It’s part of our culture to be like that. We derive joy in taking care of our women…
Nigerian men understand role and responsibility. They have a kinetic attachment to their family. Naija man will walk on nails to provide for his family
Unfortunately we don't know what we have still its gone 😂 As a Nigerian woman myself Having the opportunity to be with partner outside of race I prefer my fellow beloved Nigerian men From my experience which I do appreciate because it gave me the opportunity to value our beloved Nigerian men That the grass isn't greener on the interracial arena of relationship Due to the indoctrination of movies I did mistaken oyinbo to be better but its not true Not saying there are no good oyinbo people but it more to do with the individual than race or any other identity but in general Nigerian men are the best 😉😂
Wow..this is a very very interesting take. “The grass isn’t greener on the interracial arena of relationship”😂. Plus “It’s more to do with individual than race”. No lies detected.👍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. Thanks for sharing🥰
@@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr Don't spread that video of the first AA lady. She went on TikTok dissing Nigerian women, saying Nigerian guys told her they like American women more and dissed their hygiene.
@YouSeeMeNow966 oh wow! Had no idea. Both she and the man or men she met must be very unserious then. She’s been lied to that’s for sure. Imagine generalizing when she can’t even hold a candle to some Nigerian women. It’s the audacity for me😂
@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr women generalized most of the time. Men are always at the receiving end of these generalization, Nigeria women are mostly top tiers at doing this.
@@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr I must admit, I often find some women's attitudes to be contradictory. Many American women express frustration when men mention they're seeking love abroad, dismissing it as a quest for money. Yet, some of these same women turn around and perpetuate stereotypes about African women, suggesting that American men prefer them. This behavior can come across as insecurity. Just because some men choose to date outside their ethnicity doesn't justify treating African women as if they're undesirable. It's disheartening to see derogatory comments implying that African men don't appreciate African women due to superficial reasons like hygiene or appearance
The truth is FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT. All the tribes in Nigeria believe that men must provide for the family. So, it is more like an in-built thing. Even here in Nigeria, men derives joy when they take their women folk out for a date and pay for everything. But this is rear outside Nigeria. I think our women folk do not appreciate the little we do here on our way to much. So when we go out there and demonstrate that little we are used to, in some cases, the people appreciate it more. The lesson is let's appreciate one another.
Most Nigerian women do take Nigerian men for granted and have this entitlement mentality of xyzs. Thanks and big props to those Nigerian men who do their best to respect, nurture, value, inspire, protect, provide, and empower diverse women to be the best. To all those women who appreciate Nigerian men, you are very most appreciated. The moral and teachable moment is be grateful and not to take a person for granted.
We are not just getting these raving reviews, cos it has always been there. Check RUclips and see numerous videos, far back as several years ago, of foreign women praising Nigerian men. The Nigerian man is wired to take care of his wife, children and home no matter the cost. Its in our blood
Ahh! Is that how we are appreciates abroad.... Very proud to be a Nigerian guy... Now I am going to look for one American girl to marry ❤❤and see them appreciate my efforts. Much love ❤❤❤
When a Nigerian man falls deeping in love with you, you are so lucky, they will practical worship you. We Nigerian women know this but we just think it is a normal thing without knowing it's a big deal to some women out there.
Nigerian women always asked for to much and put you through unnecessary pressure. If you do a quarter of what you do to a Nigerian woman to a foreign woman, they appreciates, value and support you more without asking these our usual anoying questions like our mother
TheCommentator , You should have more than 4k subscribers. You're very smart and ❤️ beautiful. I'm not trying to veer away from the topic of discussion, but just impressed after listening to your analysis of the issue. I'm usually flattered that the ladies are liking Nigerian men in abroad. It has not always been that way. It used to be very difficult to date abroad and particularly as a student. I guess things have changed for the better. I enjoy your channel. Keep it up.
It's true. I notice it in France, the USA, and here in Germany. I can't say too much here because all my ladies are always watching me. All I know be say woman fine and I be dangote and I'm just trying to keep the right babe.
Few Nigerian women really know how to treat a man like a king. (Exception to Calabar women. ) What you do not value someone else will take it. Nigeria women usually lean towards a man who is already accomplished, unlike other women.
Nigerian men are raised to take leadership of their families in all respects, to the best of their abilities. Their value for family consistent with their culture is expressed in their everyday lives. Most of them are raised with tough love which translates to discipline in things that matter. While this way of living is attractive to foreign women, our sisters take us for granted and some strive to manipulate us. We come home & get married to sisters who do not consider you their first choice, only bcuz they want to go to the U.S., Europe or just abroad. As a result, they fail to appreciate your value. It is a shame.
I think another reason why Nigerian men make good partners is because they are often raised in homes where both parents are present, seeing a father take care of home can give a man a strong sense of responsibility and motivation to do the same when he has his own family.
In my formative years, incidence of divorce was rare and abhorred in my community. It was not just one thing, the presence of mother and father in the same household. In addition, there was a holistic sense of living that emphasized our connectedness. The entire community was a great role model. Any elder in the village could discipline and spank you if you were caught misbehaving. It takes a village to raise a child was a living mantra I experienced growing up. In a polygamous village setting/community, you could not stray 200 ft without running into an uncle, an aunt, cousins and some relatives you don't know exactly how you're related. I remember when I was about 5-6 years old, and a young man made me cry and I fought back while crying. I was a very feisty kid but also reasonable and wise beyond my age. Another man came up and asked me what the problem was. I recounted my story, sobbing. He reprimanded the younger man and alluded to something about us being related. When I got to my mom, I narrated my story and what the grown man had said. I followed it with a question to mom: "is there anyone in this village I am not related to?" Mom stopped briefly, took a look at me and chuckled, "no, you're related to everybody." The 2 young men that inspired that conversation were her cousins. From that day, I would not fight with anyone in the village square as I did not want to be fighting with my cousins. I became the little "adult" that negotiated peace amongst warring parties in my peer groups. Till date, I still run into people I didn't know are my blood relatives. And they all care and watch over you. Code of conduct was clear and unambiguous. You understood your responsibilities as you go thru your Rites of Passage. This is the source of our strength. It's this cultural impact that makes Nigerians stand out wherever you find them.
We never rest until we see all our Manly responsibilities well and fully fulfilled.we take pride in seeing our wife and kids looking and feeling nice and we stops at nothing to see it done... its ingrained right from birth as i never see my papa watching my mama taking the mantle of household leadership and charges
The thing is that Nigerian men have it in their head to take care of his family (wife and children ) . Even when dating, he believes his responsibility is to take care of his girlfriend.
I'm just seeing this video 5months after it was posted. Isn't it curious that these women have the same views about us, Nigerian men, across the world? It's not far fetched. The average Nigerian woman, in my opinion, doesn't have a basic sense of gratitude for us, Nigerian men. We're not doing anything different from what happens in Lagos, Benin, Enugu, and Kano. We believe in family; take care of our homes; we f*ck real good in the bedroom, and we have pride underpinned by our cultural experiences. So, an everyday woman, in Nigeria, experiences all of these good things. It's so good, and cultural, that its under appreciated. Hence, when we cone outside, I live in the USA, too, and show what's an everyday thing to an America, especially those that grew up without our type of cultural experience, it hits them so hard. That's the bottom line. It's jylust us, Nigerian men, being Nigerian men in another land. Let me tell u a basic fact to buttress my claim that Nigerian women just simply don't appreciate what they have in us....a very high proportion of wives we bring from Nigeria to the USA end up making our lives miserable. Particularly if they become educated. To be "nurse" is often their end goal and once that happens, she suddenly becomes this monster with horns that you never knew. My own home wife was an accountant in Nigeria when she got here. We both agreed that she would go to school to strengthen her career as an accountant. I was very happy because I can't even balance my own checkbook. So, I figured that she could handle pur finances. When she got here, I left all my previous accounts dromant...every dime I made was deposited in a joint account that she controlled. Big mistake no.1....I realized it when it was too late. Suddenly, her interest turned to nursing. She never did one s iemce subject in Nigeria all her life. As a supporting husband, I took charge. All she did, for the first 3yrs of her learning to do basic sciences at community College level, was wake up in the morning and get ready for school. By the time she came downstairs, I'd boil her tea...she just made whatever sandwich she wanted, and left for school. She didn't return until 6pm. I took care home...our children, mortgage, utilities, cars...everything. I walked around with an ATM card with her name and my surname on it. I wanted her to just be a student for sake of our future as a family. Fast forward to when she was about to graduate in "nursing"...just a semester to go. I returned from the gym one evening to meet a house that looked like a hurricane went through it. The woman left! There was no fight, no quarrel, nothing. She felt she was now big enough to live on her own. This was the beginning of the u raveling of a 6yrar marriage, divorce, and very tough life that I'm still recovering from after 10years. Early this year, I got a message from her.....she was tired of fighting and she wanted us to reconcile. In my mind, I'm like bitch, what parts do you want to reconcile after 10years? I didn't voice it out...I just o told her that I didn't have anything to reconcile with her. I asked that we just be good parents to our kid. Now, I've been with just one woman that I met since she walked out of my life.....a very well trained woman, too, with a terminal degree to booth. She's African but not Nigerian. We've been together for 9+ years. She does my laundry, cooks for me like I never experienced from any other woman, she shops for my wears. What else doesn't she do for me? Worthy of note is the fact that I'm just the same Nigerian man that married my own. I haven't changed my lifestyle...I'mstill just me! Whats's the difference?...she sees the value in me, like every other woman you have in your video. Im not saying its been 9yrs of rosy bliss...no. But we've stuck it out for 9+ years and we get stronger by our experiences. This is my story...our women have no appreciation for what they have until they...period! Here in the diaspora, they find out only when they step out and try something else. It gets too late, at that point, and they become what JD Vance calls "cat ladies."...😊.
Speechless is the word! Why are some of our women like this? She is definitely not the only one suffering the consequence of her action, the innocent children she has now denied the luxury of having both parents living together under the same roof are taking the hit no matter how good a father you may be to them. It's that emotional aspect it brings with it for children. May God show you mercy, bless you and your children. As for your wife (former wife), may she too gain God's mercy in spite of her attitude. Oh, so painful! As a Nigerian man myself, I hate divorce. It is well.
TheCommentator's Corner, you do not know what you have until it is gone abi? You are used to Nigerian man! However, that is not how foreigners treat their women! You see my sister, always say I love you to your other Nigeria half my sister! Peace!
Nigerian 🇳🇬 men are the best, family oriented men (values, traditions, God, family, education etc) that is why Nigerian women find it difficult to date Non Nigerian men. When we do, we find the same attributes that “our Nigerian men” have. ❤❤❤
Nigerian men don’t treat women better in foreign countries. They’re made that way. With Nigerian women too. Nigerian women are used to them and assume all Jen are like that! They know how to love and care, period.
It's seems "some" of the best of Nigerian men are not as drawn to Nigerian women as they are with non-Nigerian women. That is why many Nigerian women are surprised. They are wondering why they haven't experienced what our non-Nigerian sisters are talking about.
we Have strict fathers at home and we watch them treat our mothers as queen...why won’t I treat mine the same? If I treat mine bad,my father will probably be there to correct me with dirty slap😂
It is some Naija men though....but a vast majority of naija men, it is true. I have a mate who got married. The wife already had a house, this boy refused to stay there. They rented out the wife's house, he rented a place where they stayed together, had their kids and bought their home. The wife's house is still being rented and now they own two houses.
Nigerian men do their best, problem is the down side is they do their best whatever it is. I think the churches install something in the men cos even a false pastor still teaches gold. But what of the women? I keep hearing about how men should treat women but how about how women should treat men. But remember if u accept their praise, be wary of the shame cos some will start looking for something to complain about.
Growing up, I watched my father, uncles and older relatives deny themselves many luxuries just to ensures their wives and children are comfortable.
story of my dad, uncles and now me and we do it happily. Thats when we believe we are living life. God bless us responsible men out there.
@@efemzyekun900 Our beautiful story. It enriches our lives, mentally, spiritually and in all ramifications.
@christianaayanniyi9880
Exactly!...that's what the foreign women experience...that's 7not the culture here in the diaspora. For instance, when a child turns 18, here in the USA, they don't get to live at home with mom & dad for free. He/she becomes independent to make his/her own decisions in life. Hence, he/she either moves to be on their own or pay some bill for living with mom & dad at home.
This was the first culture shock I experienced upon arrival at America. So, Nigerian men are a rare breed. We just remain who we are anywhere in the world. Ladies of the diaspora can't have enough of us....
Am from the Caribbean but live in the USA 🇺🇸 and my boyfriend is from Benin Nigeria 🇳🇬 and he treats me so well.
Benin city to the world 🌎
Beni. Ro d 🌍 na my brother be that 🎉
Please tell my Benin brother your BF I say "Domo Sir"
normally Benin boys no dey carry last.
Dem dey fuck well too.
Nigerian men do not treat foreign women any different to Nigerian women.
Nigerian women are just used to what they have and they take it for granted
Exactly my point, familiarity breeds contempt. Only a Nigerian man will drive a lady to her house and still give her transport. For the foreign ladies this is pampering promax but our ladies here see it as nothing
@@ochukocash 😅😅 pampering pro-max my guy.
It is true…we Nigerian women need to do better and pamper our men
Exactly, they need to pamper their men. For we men are also human beings with flesh and blood@@viviennwokenta612
@@ochukocashSome women now believe it to be their right,thus the value for the men's affection is reduced
These men walk as KINGS,.... I have been in a mall and seen a group of American guys and went on and saw a group of guys that were Nigerian it was like a instant CLASS SHIFT... those young Americans looked like they were about to rob the place and dirty. They looked uneducated... But those you Nigerian men first looked like CLASS, CLEAN, AND THEY WERE SO HANDSOME. SKIN Was glowing... And they had Intelligence in the tone of their speech.
Their skin do be glowing tho lol.
Nigerian men take pride in seeing their wives and kids looking hood and well taking care of.
We are exporting our culture everything we learned from our parents.
I live here in Germany, German women loves Nigerians.
The joy of every Nigeria or Africans man it's his wife and children, our Father did it for us so will must passed it on
reflection of you and your value in society
A sensible man will go the end of the earth to make sure his family is good
100% fact. One thing a lot of these people don't know is that as a Nigeria man, we derive our joy and happiness seeing our women and children shining .
Truth be told our Nigerian men are trained to take charge of their women and privide for the family..its just a normal thing in Nigeria
So am I seeing so why are so many Nigerian women paying fir the men here.
I have seen so many it’s no true to it.
As a Nigerian, our women have so much luxury that it has become natural and unappreciative to the good things they get. We are taught to take care of family
Go, get yourself a non Nigerian woman who is not use to what you call "luxury"😂
I will never forget receiving a star treatment on a chic fil A restaurant because the African American lady recognized my accent as a Nigerian. She said she visited Nigeria with her hubby and was very well treated. My God, kindly bless that lady again and again 🙏🏿
She gave me and my family so much food
Wow! the kind of experiences I love to hear. Thanks for sharing😊❤️
As a Nigerian woman I can say it’s true, my Nigerian takes care of a Majority of my bills in the Diaspora. A majority of Nigerian men are like this. You might see a few that are Westernized & have embraced the Western ideas of dating, however the vast Majority are still Ol Skool with it
An average Nigerian woman will find it difficult dating a non-nigerian man who would probably not treat them like the Nigerian man would.
Absolutely.
Cos out there, little efforts are appreciated unlike your typical Nigerian woman who, no matter how hard you try feel there's somebody out there who can do better.
I think our women can do better
I can say as a Cameroonain brother.most of us think it will be crazy expensive to date a Nigerian woman.
They are beautiful. I have family that are Nigerians and when I hear them talk I just say God help us
@@mikeboyo1406😂😂😂😂
When you don't value your own, probably others will. After all, the prophet is not honoured in his place.
Facts 💯
Abi nau
Well spoken 👍
Even if you do not have a father in Nigeria, another father go father you. Nigerian men are fathers to their children, their neighbours children, their children's friends, a stranger's kid and that one kid in the market wey dem dey use slap correct him head 😂😂
That is very true o😂🤣. “It takes a village to raise a child” is very real in Nigeria.
Agreed 100%. I used to drive my son to everywhere with 3 or sometimes 4 of his friends. After they all graduated from University, my son's friends started calling me their Dad
We cant help it. We are the most domesticated men in Africa.
The secret is that the Nigerian man is a hard working man.They know how to take care of a woman.
We've learn from our fathers, and our women have really push us to be active when it comes to taking care of women
Very true. Nigerian women definitely push their men to be better.❤️
Na see finish.... dey do our women.
100%
I'm from Nigeria why do I find this videos funny honestly 😂😂😂😂
The ladies back home see it as normal, they are used to it
That’s why they struggle dating other people in the west. Western men won’t do all that Nigerian men do for women.
@@James_150exactly and what Nigerian women do for their husbands Westerners won’t do. That’s why in dating you look for your type! Period!
@@brandnewtofood2184This one is a big cap...😂😂.
As a Nigerian man in the diaspora, I tend to believe that men are basically the same globally. There are some cultural differences but it’s not that simple to generalise about one group or the other. We Africans usually become more like the western society over time. In fact, the pace of change is alarming due to our digital age. There are good and bad African men both in the diaspora and in Africa of course!
50/50 western culture is a disgrace to any Nigeria man. We appreciate our women when they help but it is the responsibility of man to take care of His family. This make our decision final in the Family.
Exactly
In my opinion Nigerian women take Nigerian men for granted. The average Nigerian men is exceptional good. The diaspora cannot just lie all of a sudden. We are what we are
Speak for your wife and your sisters. Do not generalize.
I’m sorry that your wife is taking you for grànted. 😢
It goes both ways. Nigerian women do a lot to care for their husbands n kids…
@aeiou0123 very true👏🏼❤️👏🏼
And vice versa
@@ucheanamonye4799 it's more tilted to the men doing more that the women.
I have travel to few countries around, Nigerian men has the best family life. Even our neighboring countries here in Cameron, Cameron fathers don't care about their how their family feeds. Is only mothers who takes care of their children. Every cameronian woman dreams to marry a Nigerian husband in Cameron. Of a truth, atypical Nigerian man think of his children more than himself
Absolutely we prefer our children and wives to be in a good condition because they represent us .
Exactly we value our children😂😂😂😂😂😂
One thing about Nigerians is that EVERYONE in their community is a family. Everyone trains you even if you are an orphan. That family support is strong in Africa as a whole and that is why we know how to respect women and treat them right. Our leaders are the only problem we have honestly. Proudly 🇳🇬
Our men are representing the country positively. Let us
all praise and admire what
they are doing. Our ladies should open their eyes, pull their socks up and start appreciating the gold dust they have got for free. I can see these foreign beautiful ladies invading Nigeria, because our men are definitely special.
start appreciating
As a matter of the truth, Nigeria ladies grow up with their men and have not known or tasted foreign men, both cultural and love making to their women, there is no time you will compare Nigeria men with foreign men, foreign ladies have experienced and testified that Nigeria men are number one
Yes! They take the role of a Nigerian man for granted in Nigeria. When we go overseas and be ourselves. The ladies go crazy about our hospitality. It’s just a natural orientation with us. It’s part of our culture to be like that. We derive joy in taking care of our women…
As a Nigeria man, we derive our joy and happiness seeing our women and children shining.
We take good care of women which many others lack
Nigerian men understand role and responsibility. They have a kinetic attachment to their family. Naija man will walk on nails to provide for his family
We are trained to provide for our women and to treat them with respect.
you provide but you Nigerian men no Dey respect Nigerian women
Unfortunately we don't know what we have still its gone 😂
As a Nigerian woman myself
Having the opportunity to be with partner outside of race
I prefer my fellow beloved Nigerian men
From my experience which I do appreciate because it gave me the opportunity to value our beloved Nigerian men
That the grass isn't greener on the interracial arena of relationship
Due to the indoctrination of movies
I did mistaken oyinbo to be better but its not true
Not saying there are no good oyinbo people but it more to do with the individual than race or any other identity but in general
Nigerian men are the best 😉😂
Wow..this is a very very interesting take. “The grass isn’t greener on the interracial arena of relationship”😂. Plus “It’s more to do with individual than race”. No lies detected.👍👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼. Thanks for sharing🥰
@@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr Don't spread that video of the first AA lady. She went on TikTok dissing Nigerian women, saying Nigerian guys told her they like American women more and dissed their hygiene.
@YouSeeMeNow966 oh wow! Had no idea. Both she and the man or men she met must be very unserious then. She’s been lied to that’s for sure. Imagine generalizing when she can’t even hold a candle to some Nigerian women. It’s the audacity for me😂
@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr women generalized most of the time. Men are always at the receiving end of these generalization, Nigeria women are mostly top tiers at doing this.
@@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr I must admit, I often find some women's attitudes to be contradictory. Many American women express frustration when men mention they're seeking love abroad, dismissing it as a quest for money. Yet, some of these same women turn around and perpetuate stereotypes about African women, suggesting that American men prefer them. This behavior can come across as insecurity. Just because some men choose to date outside their ethnicity doesn't justify treating African women as if they're undesirable. It's disheartening to see derogatory comments implying that African men don't appreciate African women due to superficial reasons like hygiene or appearance
You don't appreciate what you have until you lose it.
We are born different...
We give high value to what we value not minding our comfort, and we go all in to protect, provide, and love...
We are also good in the other room they confessed
The truth is FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT. All the tribes in Nigeria believe that men must provide for the family. So, it is more like an in-built thing. Even here in Nigeria, men derives joy when they take their women folk out for a date and pay for everything. But this is rear outside Nigeria. I think our women folk do not appreciate the little we do here on our way to much. So when we go out there and demonstrate that little we are used to, in some cases, the people appreciate it more. The lesson is let's appreciate one another.
Most Nigerian women do take Nigerian men for granted and have this entitlement mentality of xyzs. Thanks and big props to those Nigerian men who do their best to respect, nurture, value, inspire, protect, provide, and empower diverse women to be the best. To all those women who appreciate Nigerian men, you are very most appreciated. The moral and teachable moment is be grateful and not to take a person for granted.
Nigerian men pay for dates, pay the rent, never mention 50/50, hardworking, take care of women and PROTECT women.
We are not just getting these raving reviews, cos it has always been there. Check RUclips and see numerous videos, far back as several years ago, of foreign women praising Nigerian men.
The Nigerian man is wired to take care of his wife, children and home no matter the cost. Its in our blood
Women simply identify with success.
Very true👍
infact they thief success, they sneak into ur skin once ur successful
Ahh! Is that how we are appreciates abroad.... Very proud to be a Nigerian guy... Now I am going to look for one American girl to marry ❤❤and see them appreciate my efforts. Much love ❤❤❤
So the Nigeria men that are not living up to their responsibilities, should just sit up now
Am so happy to hear that, ❤❤ Nigerians are the best
Nigerian men are good when it comes to taking care of their wives.
When a Nigerian man falls deeping in love with you, you are so lucky, they will practical worship you. We Nigerian women know this but we just think it is a normal thing without knowing it's a big deal to some women out there.
Nigerian women's with higher expectations
My father was very present at home IN ALL WAYS!! I never saw him aggressive and negligent to his wife at all!!
That’s good man👏🏼👏🏼
@@TheCommentatorsCorner-cn4xr Think about; he was a NIGERIAN!! Hehehehe!
This euphoria is interesting, I hope clarity does not leave the gumsucked
Nigerian women always asked for to much and put you through unnecessary pressure. If you do a quarter of what you do to a Nigerian woman to a foreign woman, they appreciates, value and support you more without asking these our usual anoying questions like our mother
Familiarity breeds contempt. Nigerian women, appreciate your men.
TheCommentator ,
You should have more than 4k subscribers. You're very smart and ❤️ beautiful. I'm not trying to veer away from the topic of discussion, but just impressed after listening to your analysis of the issue.
I'm usually flattered that the ladies are liking Nigerian men in abroad. It has not always been that way. It used to be very difficult to date abroad and particularly as a student. I guess things have changed for the better. I enjoy your channel. Keep it up.
Awww🥹..thank you so much. And thank you for watching🙏🏽🥰
We are really trying but Nigerian ladies take us for granted 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
Nigerian women should also try to make us proud, not only reproaching us
And broke shaming
My brother...
You know you don't value what you have and over familiarity also count
No matter how good you are
Ur people will not value u
Nigerian men are good ❤❤❤
And we need does that can appreciate us...
Me too oo I am a nigerian,and I love my nigerian man
"they will bow down to you" lol
I am a Nigerian and my wife is from Kenya. I treat my wife normal the way i would have also treated her if she was from Nigeria.
It's because our man believe in 50/50
We own it as a duty to make sure your woman is happy...
You don't value what you have until you lose it ?
Only in Nigeria you will give a girl 1 million Naira but you see the day you collect from her she will remind you how she fed you when you never had 😂
It's true. I notice it in France, the USA, and here in Germany. I can't say too much here because all my ladies are always watching me. All I know be say woman fine and I be dangote and I'm just trying to keep the right babe.
Few Nigerian women really know how to treat a man like a king. (Exception to Calabar women. ) What you do not value someone else will take it. Nigeria women usually lean towards a man who is already accomplished, unlike other women.
Nigeria men re naturally born that way they look after their family.
Also here in Switzerland my sister ❤
Explain
Charlesibekwe how is swiss ladies are they loveable
@@justiceajuka4177 HI
They ladies are very loveable😍
See finish is what's wrong with Nigerian women with respect to Nigerian men.
That is how we are raised
Nigerian men are raised to take leadership of their families in all respects, to the best of their abilities. Their value for family consistent with their culture is expressed in their everyday lives. Most of them are raised with tough love which translates to discipline in things that matter.
While this way of living is attractive to foreign women, our sisters take us for granted and some strive to manipulate us. We come home & get married to sisters who do not consider you their first choice, only bcuz they want to go to the U.S., Europe or just abroad. As a result, they fail to appreciate your value. It is a shame.
I think another reason why Nigerian men make good partners is because they are often raised in homes where both parents are present, seeing a father take care of home can give a man a strong sense of responsibility and motivation to do the same when he has his own family.
In my formative years, incidence of divorce was rare and abhorred in my community. It was not just one thing, the presence of mother and father in the same household. In addition, there was a holistic sense of living that emphasized our connectedness.
The entire community was a great role model. Any elder in the village could discipline and spank you if you were caught misbehaving. It takes a village to raise a child was a living mantra I experienced growing up. In a polygamous village setting/community, you could not stray 200 ft without running into an uncle, an aunt, cousins and some relatives you don't know exactly how you're related.
I remember when I was about 5-6 years old, and a young man made me cry and I fought back while crying. I was a very feisty kid but also reasonable and wise beyond my age. Another man came up and asked me what the problem was. I recounted my story, sobbing. He reprimanded the younger man and alluded to something about us being related. When I got to my mom, I narrated my story and what the grown man had said. I followed it with a question to mom: "is there anyone in this village I am not related to?"
Mom stopped briefly, took a look at me and chuckled, "no, you're related to everybody." The 2 young men that inspired that conversation were her cousins.
From that day, I would not fight with anyone in the village square as I did not want to be fighting with my cousins. I became the little "adult" that negotiated peace amongst warring parties in my peer groups.
Till date, I still run into people I didn't know are my blood relatives.
And they all care and watch over you. Code of conduct was clear and unambiguous. You understood your responsibilities as you go thru your Rites of Passage.
This is the source of our strength. It's this cultural impact that makes Nigerians stand out wherever you find them.
We never rest until we see all our Manly responsibilities well and fully fulfilled.we take pride in seeing our wife and kids looking and feeling nice and we stops at nothing to see it done... its ingrained right from birth as i never see my papa watching my mama taking the mantle of household leadership and charges
Some of our Nigeria women are very intuitive many of the lack manner and respect....
proudly Nigerian😃
Go to Nigeria is a typical tribe is known for that, though other tribes are coming up too.👋👋
You cannot value your own naw! It is natural
Most Nigerian men can go any let to take care of their children.
The thing is that Nigerian men have it in their head to take care of his family (wife and children ) . Even when dating, he believes his responsibility is to take care of his girlfriend.
True
Whatever!!! Do not fall in love with the face and body. I fall in love with the spirit, heart and character.
Nigeria 🇳🇬 women done see us finish
I'm just seeing this video 5months after it was posted. Isn't it curious that these women have the same views about us, Nigerian men, across the world? It's not far fetched. The average Nigerian woman, in my opinion, doesn't have a basic sense of gratitude for us, Nigerian men. We're not doing anything different from what happens in Lagos, Benin, Enugu, and Kano. We believe in family; take care of our homes; we f*ck real good in the bedroom, and we have pride underpinned by our cultural experiences.
So, an everyday woman, in Nigeria, experiences all of these good things. It's so good, and cultural, that its under appreciated. Hence, when we cone outside, I live in the USA, too, and show what's an everyday thing to an America, especially those that grew up without our type of cultural experience, it hits them so hard. That's the bottom line. It's jylust us, Nigerian men, being Nigerian men in another land.
Let me tell u a basic fact to buttress my claim that Nigerian women just simply don't appreciate what they have in us....a very high proportion of wives we bring from Nigeria to the USA end up making our lives miserable. Particularly if they become educated. To be "nurse" is often their end goal and once that happens, she suddenly becomes this monster with horns that you never knew.
My own home wife was an accountant in Nigeria when she got here. We both agreed that she would go to school to strengthen her career as an accountant. I was very happy because I can't even balance my own checkbook. So, I figured that she could handle pur finances. When she got here, I left all my previous accounts dromant...every dime I made was deposited in a joint account that she controlled. Big mistake no.1....I realized it when it was too late.
Suddenly, her interest turned to nursing. She never did one s iemce subject in Nigeria all her life. As a supporting husband, I took charge. All she did, for the first 3yrs of her learning to do basic sciences at community College level, was wake up in the morning and get ready for school. By the time she came downstairs, I'd boil her tea...she just made whatever sandwich she wanted, and left for school. She didn't return until 6pm.
I took care home...our children, mortgage, utilities, cars...everything. I walked around with an ATM card with her name and my surname on it. I wanted her to just be a student for sake of our future as a family.
Fast forward to when she was about to graduate in "nursing"...just a semester to go. I returned from the gym one evening to meet a house that looked like a hurricane went through it. The woman left! There was no fight, no quarrel, nothing. She felt she was now big enough to live on her own. This was the beginning of the u raveling of a 6yrar marriage, divorce, and very tough life that I'm still recovering from after 10years.
Early this year, I got a message from her.....she was tired of fighting and she wanted us to reconcile. In my mind, I'm like bitch, what parts do you want to reconcile after 10years? I didn't voice it out...I just o told her that I didn't have anything to reconcile with her. I asked that we just be good parents to our kid.
Now, I've been with just one woman that I met since she walked out of my life.....a very well trained woman, too, with a terminal degree to booth. She's African but not Nigerian. We've been together for 9+ years. She does my laundry, cooks for me like I never experienced from any other woman, she shops for my wears. What else doesn't she do for me?
Worthy of note is the fact that I'm just the same Nigerian man that married my own. I haven't changed my lifestyle...I'mstill just me! Whats's the difference?...she sees the value in me, like every other woman you have in your video. Im not saying its been 9yrs of rosy bliss...no. But we've stuck it out for 9+ years and we get stronger by our experiences. This is my story...our women have no appreciation for what they have until they...period! Here in the diaspora, they find out only when they step out and try something else. It gets too late, at that point, and they become what JD Vance calls "cat ladies."...😊.
Speechless is the word!
Why are some of our women like this?
She is definitely not the only one suffering the consequence of her action, the innocent children she has now denied the luxury of having both parents living together under the same roof are taking the hit no matter how good a father you may be to them. It's that emotional aspect it brings with it for children.
May God show you mercy, bless you and your children.
As for your wife (former wife), may she too gain God's mercy in spite of her attitude.
Oh, so painful!
As a Nigerian man myself, I hate divorce.
It is well.
@tunde6573 Thnx for your understanding and words of wisdom. It's a difficult experience for a loving father! I love my son and he loves his dad, too.
TheCommentator's Corner, you do not know what you have until it is gone abi? You are used to Nigerian man! However, that is not how foreigners treat their women! You see my sister, always say I love you to your other Nigeria half my sister! Peace!
You are correct sir 👍🏾
Na we dey na we dey here 😂😂🇳🇬🇯🇲🇺🇸🇯🇲🇳🇬🇯🇲🇺🇸🇯🇲🇳🇬😂😂
Confirm, we love you all too…..
Yes is because they see it as normal,
Nigerian 🇳🇬 men are the best, family oriented men (values, traditions, God, family, education etc) that is why Nigerian women find it difficult to date Non Nigerian men. When we do, we find the same attributes that “our Nigerian men” have. ❤❤❤
This is really a bad time now, that people do not value their men anymore,, running after Nigeria men.... Please leave our Nigeria men alone for us😮
But you don’t value us
We go to where we will feel appreciated
is deep I guess lol
Nigerian men don’t treat women better in foreign countries. They’re made that way. With Nigerian women too. Nigerian women are used to them and assume all Jen are like that! They know how to love and care, period.
Well said👏🏼❤️
True
I think some of them did not get the memo
It's seems "some" of the best of Nigerian men are not as drawn to Nigerian women as they are with non-Nigerian women.
That is why many Nigerian women are surprised.
They are wondering why they haven't experienced what our non-Nigerian sisters are talking about.
we Have strict fathers at home and we watch them treat our mothers as queen...why won’t I treat mine the same? If I treat mine bad,my father will probably be there to correct me with dirty slap😂
Please sis l need one ooooooo
Because our ladies don't treat us with respect..dat why our ladies from different countries treat our men better.
It is some Naija men though....but a vast majority of naija men, it is true. I have a mate who got married. The wife already had a house, this boy refused to stay there. They rented out the wife's house, he rented a place where they stayed together, had their kids and bought their home. The wife's house is still being rented and now they own two houses.
The good Nigerian men oooooo
Yes! Necessary distinction o😅👏🏼. We’re talking about the good/responsible ones.
Women in the Uk love Nigerian men. To be honest it the Financial intelligence and responsibility they are interested in. Save your money guys.
The foreign ladies treat Nigerian men better
Nigerian men do their best, problem is the down side is they do their best whatever it is. I think the churches install something in the men cos even a false pastor still teaches gold. But what of the women? I keep hearing about how men should treat women but how about how women should treat men. But remember if u accept their praise, be wary of the shame cos some will start looking for something to complain about.
Because they are good in everythings💯✌🏽❤️🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬❤️
they dont treat the foreing men better. Its just that Nigerian women have incentiviced relationships. its all about the money and nothing more.