How To Raise Good Kids Without Punishment? Ft. Erum Rehman | S4EP81 | Happy Chirp

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @fatimaasghar377
    @fatimaasghar377 2 года назад +32

    The people around you in a joint family make you feel super guilty for even trying to be a positive parent, it becomes sooo hard in such circumstances but it is equally important to fight for your child's right of being treated like a respectful normal human being. Ignoring the noise around you helps you focus on the more important things, your child in this case. She's so accurate with the obsession with food and clean clothes at all times for kids. So relatable!! Best podcast for moms👍👍

  • @SyedaMuneebaKazmi
    @SyedaMuneebaKazmi 2 года назад +3

    Aaj myny ye cheez notice ki k kitni uneducated mother rahi hun my pichly 20 months sy ab mera baby hr bat py cheekhta hy sirf islye k mujht handle krna nhe aya but alhamdullilah k ab things will be better after learning so so much things from this video nd will try my best for both of my kids

  • @nabaomer5245
    @nabaomer5245 Год назад +3

    This was very nice! I feel like I have been on a similar journey and I can relate to her so much! Living here as in England, all these factors are easy, because society supports you as well. Positive parenting is done by most of the people around you, I will say 60% ❤
    But thank you again for the remainder, it’s the Implementation..

  • @urwamunawar6584
    @urwamunawar6584 2 года назад +11

    Loved it, although I'm not a mother or even married. It was just soo wholesome to learn these new concepts and about breaking generational trauma.

  • @javerianaveed264
    @javerianaveed264 Год назад +2

    Amazing ! She just explained everything in one video without exaggerating any thing

  • @kiranabdullah7472
    @kiranabdullah7472 Год назад +2

    Listening this podcast after 7 months of its release and wondering how could I miss this masterpiece ❤❤ every word of this podcast I can relate and learned so much ☺️

  • @h.skhalid7442
    @h.skhalid7442 2 года назад +6

    When my 1st kid was born I didn't know about postpartum depression, sleeplessness and weaknesses a mother body goes through, all of them happened to me as an incident that I was unaware before. I thought 9 months were nothing in front of these problems that I had to face.
    Please educate new mothers in your surroundings about all the feelings and situations they have to face after birth. Why society remains silent in this topic,?

    • @unzikarim2648
      @unzikarim2648 2 года назад +1

      New Moms atleast are now aware of these things like depression and hardships. What's not common is Husbands acknowledging these hardships. They've seen their moms somehow making it look so easy therefore postpartum Depression not recognised at all

  • @laibasadiq395
    @laibasadiq395 2 года назад +10

    Amazing conversation & i really appreciate her for such insightful talk. I would like to add here that most of the time our parents really want to adopt positive parenting but they try, they fail hard because they never worked on their own emotions, they never process the trauma they have gone through in the past, so once they became parents, they actually struggle. So kindly suggest those parents to go to therapy, self healing. Unki apni self healing hogi, emotions ko process karna ata hoga to e they can do positive parenting. Please invite any certified & qualified psychotherapist, child therapist & couple therapist as well.
    Thank you so much for bringing such good content Humna ❤️👍

  • @Sara-qp3xr
    @Sara-qp3xr 2 года назад +2

    Soon to be a mom and get myself ready. Such a positive talk.

  • @madihaanis1802
    @madihaanis1802 Год назад +3

    Saying no and setting boundaries is a biggest problem our generation is facing ...

  • @aleehamubashar4565
    @aleehamubashar4565 2 года назад +2

    WOW! A big shout out to you Humna and Erum for creating such such meaningful content!

  • @umeaiman5374
    @umeaiman5374 2 года назад +5

    THIS CONVERSATION WAS MIND BOGGLING. EVERY SECOND NEGATIVE PARENTING ASPECT IS PRESENT IN OUR CULTURE AND IT SHOOK ME, HOW DAMAGING THIS IS FOR THE KID's MENTAL HEALTH!

  • @uzmahayat5682
    @uzmahayat5682 2 года назад +4

    clinical psychologist ,listening and loving it ..Mindful parenting is the need of the time ..

    • @uzmahayat5682
      @uzmahayat5682 2 года назад

      a good talk on attachment styles

  • @Abdul_wahid509
    @Abdul_wahid509 Год назад +2

    The best podcast i had ever watch💯👌👌

  • @msa.a892
    @msa.a892 2 года назад +2

    What a beautiful conversation... May Allah help us to implement the good we heard. Ameen

  • @aishaanaab2807
    @aishaanaab2807 2 года назад +3

    I really wanted her to be at your podcast! Jazakillahu khayran for having her♥️

  • @aqsakhalid8203
    @aqsakhalid8203 2 года назад +2

    Thankyou for this. As a new mom of twins, that was needed. They're almost one year old, I will try to implement this. I could relate everything talked about in this podcast.

  • @sehrishazhar-livingupbeat
    @sehrishazhar-livingupbeat 2 года назад +2

    Loved it!!
    Great tips and tricks 👌🏻

  • @sabazia3191
    @sabazia3191 Год назад +2

    Yeh sb cheezain ya points aap tb kr skty hain jb aap seperate rehty hn . Dada ,Dadi , nana and nani apni alag hi cheezain empose krty hain

  • @sanaiqbal4469
    @sanaiqbal4469 2 года назад +2

    Such a worth listening podcast ❣️
    Although I am not a mother yet but learning soo many new amazing things through this podcast.
    It made me realize parenting is such a huge thing.

  • @amyelyas
    @amyelyas 2 года назад +2

    It was such a good episode!! So much learning🎉😊

  • @mameenmsiddique683
    @mameenmsiddique683 Год назад +1

    Well done erum

  • @ayellagilani28
    @ayellagilani28 2 года назад +1

    Amazing and much needed.looking forward to more content like this.

  • @nimranaeem1627
    @nimranaeem1627 2 года назад +1

    Honestly, this topic is very important to know about and you have discussed it very well.

  • @namraaslam4703
    @namraaslam4703 2 года назад +1

    please add English subtitles as well.

  • @assasa-l5c
    @assasa-l5c 2 года назад +1

    This podcast is my favourite so far. I faced abusive childhood. Literally so damaged my soul. I read stuff about raising kids alot , so it won't happen to them.
    I believe this channel will be educational for mothers than discussing the journey just, in future. Because the young females m motherhood instinct khatm horahe hn. Boht career oriented hokr bachon ko neglect krdeti hn. Wo balance ni kr pati.
    Pehle zamane m maen diper b ni pehnati t. ab west m wo chez agai h. The called it EC training.
    pehle maen zyada smart hoti thi, jb k unki shadian 12 13 saal m hoti t ab 25 saal k hokr b hme ni pata hota bache kese raise karen. q k hmare ghar m role models hi ni ,jin se hm seekhte.

  • @hamnasaif5026
    @hamnasaif5026 Год назад +1

    A very informative session❤

  • @humrarubab4364
    @humrarubab4364 2 года назад +1

    I have learned so many things in ur podcast and m loving the way she is telling th things.....those things really happens to me ....and even dont know how to tackel them ......this podcast opens my mind alot about parenting....i really apprecaite ur efforts...well done and thanks...hope u make these kind of informative videos

  • @muhammadshabanijaz7354
    @muhammadshabanijaz7354 2 года назад +1

    What a beautiful podcast! Thankyou very much for this!!!!!

  • @mrsali6324
    @mrsali6324 2 года назад +2

    love this podcast helped alot🥺👍

  • @zaroabid2303
    @zaroabid2303 2 года назад +1

    LOVED this episode ❤

  • @umamasalman7021
    @umamasalman7021 Год назад

    Love love this podcast

  • @kainatashraf2944
    @kainatashraf2944 2 года назад +1

    Informative love everything about this conversation ❤❤

  • @rabeeaghulam3883
    @rabeeaghulam3883 2 года назад +1

    Really thank you for this.

  • @heyitsrafia2303
    @heyitsrafia2303 2 года назад +2

    Learn alot from this podcast ❤️

  • @natureatrescue4337
    @natureatrescue4337 2 года назад +2

    AMAZING INTERVIEW PLZ DO MORE ON CHILDREN UPBRINGING REGARDING OUR RELIGION ISLAM .PLEASE ITS A REQUEST

  • @uzmaidrees9213
    @uzmaidrees9213 2 года назад +2

    Why can't I download?

  • @fatimawaheed5894
    @fatimawaheed5894 2 года назад +2

    Much needed

  • @mehroznaveed8849
    @mehroznaveed8849 2 года назад +2

    Thanks alot for amazing vedio

  • @mominawaheed6398
    @mominawaheed6398 2 года назад +1

    zabardast

  • @zuhasaeed206
    @zuhasaeed206 6 месяцев назад

    What is for fathers?

  • @Mt-ou7bd
    @Mt-ou7bd 2 года назад +2

    Let the guest speak plssssssssssssss

  • @hirakhan8234
    @hirakhan8234 2 года назад +1

    Aoa. No doubt very insightful ! MA

  • @aishaanaab2807
    @aishaanaab2807 2 года назад +3

    btw where is urooj? has she left?

  • @drmalik-yz5mu
    @drmalik-yz5mu Год назад +1

  • @learningtimebyalizaysheikh4349
    @learningtimebyalizaysheikh4349 2 года назад +1

    mera beta har kisi pay hath uthaaa thaa how I control her...?

  • @zubariakhan2971
    @zubariakhan2971 2 года назад +2

    It was a wonderful Podcast,But Humna is soooo irritating,Don’t interrupt the Guest,Let her speak

  • @huzailashaikh
    @huzailashaikh 2 года назад +3

    Hamna don't let erum talk.Ajeeeb toxic

  • @RA-xy3rw
    @RA-xy3rw 2 года назад

    You’re saying i shouldn’t force feed my child then do I let her stay hungry because she’s not having more than 8oz of milk and she’s just 6m old

  • @faiqaadnan3463
    @faiqaadnan3463 Год назад

    ❤❤

  • @javeriajahan4812
    @javeriajahan4812 2 года назад +1

    How can I stop my son to stop hitting other kids

  • @nabihafaiz1030
    @nabihafaiz1030 Год назад

    baki tu sb theek hai but kindly small humble request, yall talk about such knowledgable things in such wise manner but constantly cutting each other off or interrupting without realising or apologising is not just a bit unsettling due to the irony but also because it makes it really hard to concentrate. One person speaks, i devote my attention there, and suddenly the other one adds while she hadn't finished yet and i shift my attention then and before ive grasped the whole dialogue, its cut again. Again. Just sharing a request to improve your podcasts. Rest assured i love and agree with the content shared and definitely respect you both educated souls. 😮‍💨

  • @haroonrashid6098
    @haroonrashid6098 2 года назад +2