Cos the children still young.. They don't know what is life after their parents age.. No retirement money.. In their era ( I am talking about this 2 girls), they will has no chance to be housewife.. Unless they marry to a very wealthy husband.. But in order to find such husbands.. U must be outstanding in their own area... In order for the rich man to consider u as wife..
No one appreciates the effort housewife put in…. Without the wife taking care of children and making a house like home, how can a man succeed in his career without the wife sacrifices?
That’s why birth rate kept getting lower here. There is not much support given to housewives who sacrifice their jobs and career to raise children. Many women couldn’t get back to a job with decent pay after the children were grown up and remain financially inadequate for retirement.
I am a full time housewife, worked for many years until i conceived my 3rd and 4th. No helper and takes care of my children’s wellbeing and studies. However, I think that being a full time working mother with no helper is harder, coz she needs to manage work, deadlines, and the same duties as a full time housewife, unless her husband takes a significant share of the load.
Sorry, being a full time housewife myself has a low status in my family, my mum in law felt that I am useless, even I excel in most areas of my duties infact beyond, when I am sick I have to still go about my daily chores, husband said it is my job, bec his mum said so, a lot of bad influence from his mum😢9.53 wrong impression dear!!
Must start doing part time job when children are older n save more money for yourself. Because later in life you don’t have CPF and getting old will be difficult for you. Don’t depend on others whether it’s husband or children. Hope you take good care of yourself as human are selfish. Only your own money, you can spend n be free. Don’t just sacrifice for others.
不过要讲清楚,以前我也是有做书记的。可是当姐姐生病时,我叫姐姐的外婆怎样给姐姐吃药💊喝水💦💦💦放一点湿的毛巾在儿头,外婆说她不懂怎么做,叫我回来自己顾孩子,从那天开始我就自己顾姐姐。姐姐多一年就有弟弟陪她玩了。大多数我在煮饭时,是姐姐帮忙照顾弟弟,她们喜欢看tele tat be 当太阳🌞升起来的,他们就会跟着😂😂😂❤❤
The bro at 1:59.. not sure if he should be sent to a communication class or EQ class or both.. surprised he's not cancelled yet. I don't know how he's going to face his SIL, he's comparing her to a maid 😅😂😢
Washing dishes now can using washing machine at F& B some hawker already using. So they needs to paid for and customer's paid more too. Now already coffee ☕ already increas by 10¢ 1.60
家庭主妇是一份很神圣的工作,真心尊敬💕
家庭主妇无论在什么地方,都不容易。 内子从十多年前开始就当全职家庭主妇,照顾两个孩子和我,她的日常很忙。
不容意的是,又要家庭,又要工作。
男人可以earn不了钱。但是家管不了。
一个时代不一样,我的时代没有现在的年轻人幸福。政府帮助她他们比较多。
我的时代不想这么多,可以加班,加。
我的时代做月,没有现在好。我的做月,家翁会煮,煮给我吃,但是我还是要照顾我的孩子,因为我的䆥婆,又要照顾大儿子的孩子,二女儿的与😊孩子。
The 2 kids are really well taught and speak so well about their mothers ❤
It goes to show full time mums have taught their children better .
Cos the children still young.. They don't know what is life after their parents age.. No retirement money.. In their era ( I am talking about this 2 girls), they will has no chance to be housewife.. Unless they marry to a very wealthy husband..
But in order to find such husbands.. U must be outstanding in their own area... In order for the rich man to consider u as wife..
我做了八年全職主婦,其中辛酸,勞累,還不被家人理解,尊重。每天做飯,洗衣,打掃衛生,送孩子上下學,送孩子補習,輔導功课,全年無休息。'沒有薪水。現在回歸職場,覺得上班比全職在家幸福多了。家庭主婦太難當了。家庭主婦,和全職太太不是一個概念。有錢有幫傭是全職太太,家庭主婦是無錢無幫傭。家里的粗活累活自己幹,還無工資。😂😂😂
免费女佣 😢
还要陪睡,舍命生孩子
你做了八年,我做了35年。
虽然我做了这了这么多年,孩子都大了,我的幸福来了,先生,孩子都有给我钱,每个几百,我觉的幸福了,还有政府给的。❤❤❤
最重要的是,自己要怎么用。不泿费。
当一个家庭主妇不是件容易的事 把家里治理的井井有条 孩子们的教育 三餐的准备 这些都是学问 家庭主妇不单单是佣人 它其实是家庭管理 home management!
除了每天重复繁琐的家务,更最重要的是,她们牺牲了她们的未来陪伴孩子最重要的成长阶段(3-12岁)避免更多留守儿童的社会问题。
结了婚的女人最好还是经济独立比较好,不要完全靠老公。万一有一天离婚又没钱就惨了。
向家庭主妇致敬
北欧有些国家 法律规定家庭主妇的薪金会从丈夫的薪水里扣除10巴仙 直接汇入妻子的账户里 也就平衡了男女双方的平衡点 重新认识家庭主妇的重要性
完全同意,雖然價值和價錢是不一樣的概念,但是以價錢來衡量價值是最客觀容易的事情,薪水的10%很合理
沒有一個人說 覺得陪伴小孩長大是很珍貴的事
又是自己要生的……掌握最大的生育权利 生了后又埋怨
No one appreciates the effort housewife put in…. Without the wife taking care of children and making a house like home, how can a man succeed in his career without the wife sacrifices?
That’s why birth rate kept getting lower here. There is not much support given to housewives who sacrifice their jobs and career to raise children.
Many women couldn’t get back to a job with decent pay after the children were grown up and remain financially inadequate for retirement.
最糟糕就是像我这种的,要去上班,加班还有做家务也要辅导孩子的作业,周末还要带他们上兴趣班,逛街,出外用餐还要规划旅行😅。我即是老师也是保姆,帮佣,医生,护士,园丁,助理,打杂,家里的CEO & CFO.
熬过来了😂😅😊🎉
能者多劳
不是每个母亲都适合当家庭主妇 有的女性能在职场表现得更好 有些却非常享受带小孩 喜欢烹饪 那就随遇而安吧
24小時工作沒有薪金。有這麼多人犧牲願意當家庭主婦是新加坡成功的關鍵,應該定一天家庭主婦日。
没有off day 的喔。
奉劝各位女士千万不要做傻事,nvr go jobless /no income.
沒有offday不要緊,生病還沒有的拿MC😭
如果有的选择相信没有一个女人愿意做家庭主妇 ,家庭主妇是没有办法的事
妈妈家庭主妇, 爸爸赚的钱全部妈妈管。
很多家庭主妇比女佣还可怜。没有off day,mc, leaves, 也沒有薪水,還有自己生病還得繼續照顧家庭, 24/7 standby。真的很多丈夫不給家用也不幫忙老婆。😢
You call your full time mother , Maid. ??? !!! 24/7 multi taskmaster. Very important person in the house. Keep the family together.
我小的时候都是由奶奶工人带大的。 我很羡慕朋友的妈妈在家陪孩子, 遇到困难时,都是找朋友解决。
孩子成长期间需要陪伴,再多物资上都给不了。
I am a full time housewife, worked for many years until i conceived my 3rd and 4th. No helper and takes care of my children’s wellbeing and studies. However, I think that being a full time working mother with no helper is harder, coz she needs to manage work, deadlines, and the same duties as a full time housewife, unless her husband takes a significant share of the load.
有些老公不觉得老婆做家庭主妇有什么大不了,这些工作女佣也可以代劳。 男人就是这么天真希望老婆能双收入又能做好家务又带好孩子,还会保持身材。梦到这一天才会换一张嘴脸称赞老婆。
然後那些男的可以一直不用長大,家裡就多了一個小孩那樣
@@JL_hahaha0303世界个地都有长不大男孩。
无论是家庭主妇或者家庭主夫,都是为家庭付出。无论如何可以让孩子学会帮忙做一些家务(从小开始)家务是做不完的…要不然孩子长大成人一点家务都不会做,成家后怎么办?
家庭主妇不是容易的工作,买东西要货比三家,那一天有offer, 洗衣,烫衣,折衣。.去巴刹,超级市场等等。
Sorry, being a full time housewife myself has a low status in my family, my mum in law felt that I am useless, even I excel in most areas of my duties infact beyond, when I am sick I have to still go about my daily chores, husband said it is my job, bec his mum said so, a lot of bad influence from his mum😢9.53 wrong impression dear!!
Must start doing part time job when children are older n save more money for yourself. Because later in life you don’t have CPF and getting old will be difficult for you. Don’t depend on others whether it’s husband or children. Hope you take good care of yourself as human are selfish. Only your own money, you can spend n be free. Don’t just sacrifice for others.
Love the 2 kids. How they respect and appreciate their mum's contribution. Good job for raising your girls.
家庭主妇是一份辛苦的工作,尤其是照顾孩子的生活起居,教育他们。唯一的好处是可以陪伴孩子一起度过他们的童年。如今他们已长大成人,我也回去职场上了。
长大后,我两个孩子一个读国大,一个已经南洋理工大学毕业🎓了。谁说家庭主妇没有工钱就被人看不起。她们的工劳比拿薪水请女佣顾孩子的还大。如果新加坡PAP Government 可以给家庭主妇薪水就好😂😂😂可以减轻她们丈夫的负担。会有更多人'愿意生子😂😂😂❤❤❤
在大陆 都是孩子的 姥姥 奶奶 帮忙带孩子,或者孩子 上托儿所,3岁后上 幼儿园,都可以让 当妈妈的 获得解脱 ,去工作赚钱。 如果 不工作挣钱的话,确实有 概率被 瞧不起
陪孩子长大那些快乐时光,是女佣或金钱不可以代替的。放学时我去接孩子,弟弟跑得特别快,我叫姐姐追弟弟。姐姐跑不过弟弟,突然时昏过去,幸亏一下子就醒了。然后我给姐姐喝水。喝完水。弟弟和姐姐一起去游乐场玩耍。有时我们还搭德士去west mall 的 KFC. Macdonald
House wife is no paid leave
Not only that MC also don’t have
家庭主妇还要看你有几个孩子了,一个跟三个的差别是很大的
家庭主妇就是没收入,生病沒MC,有些还要看另一半的臉色,虽然为了家庭,如果是职业,谁给薪水呢?
因f女性出外工作, 生育率,幼儿家教,家庭凝聚,都是被牺牲掉的,造成新加坡现状,得不偿失, 也扭转不了的。国家制度的错。
做家庭主妇是奢侈?? 她大概是老小姐吧!
终于有人说出了我们的心声 😢
Why would anyone say being housewife its a luxury?
🫕家庭煮妇是一份工作 很伟大的一份工🍳
🍮重点是丈夫需要承认 太太才会被肯定🍨
🎂如果放大主妇这份工 每个家庭会受益🍰
🍵家庭不出大问题的话 稳稳幸福是重点☕️
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家庭主妇在历史上任何时期都很少见啊
古代农民的老婆都是要干很多农活的,这根本不是什么现代的家庭主妇。
说白了,这是贵族规则的下放才导致了平民里出现了“家庭主妇”这样的角色。但无论何时,妻子与丈夫类似,都有着其必要的义务,劳动妇女承担得会更多。
不过要讲清楚,以前我也是有做书记的。可是当姐姐生病时,我叫姐姐的外婆怎样给姐姐吃药💊喝水💦💦💦放一点湿的毛巾在儿头,外婆说她不懂怎么做,叫我回来自己顾孩子,从那天开始我就自己顾姐姐。姐姐多一年就有弟弟陪她玩了。大多数我在煮饭时,是姐姐帮忙照顾弟弟,她们喜欢看tele tat be 当太阳🌞升起来的,他们就会跟着😂😂😂❤❤
♥️自古以来一路来都不容易的。因为是份终身职业需要全身心多方面的付出与投入。而且以前是没钱的现在好一点点偶尔有政府津贴但还是一样没有保障和感激。你家人老公可以把你抛弃掉或你会生病没有经济自由去医治。
现在在这个世道下要做全职家庭主妇也不容易,一个家需要多人赚钱才能维持。有钱不用愁你也会很难打发时间的。
这世界人生里面的一切都是选择。而每个选择都没有容易的。这就是做为人的命。
The bro at 1:59.. not sure if he should be sent to a communication class or EQ class or both.. surprised he's not cancelled yet.
I don't know how he's going to face his SIL, he's comparing her to a maid 😅😂😢
He is jealous.
Housewife definitely play a part in the family. It's not a easy work and works for almost 24Hrs.
所以还要结婚生孩子吗😂
家庭有全職太太不是每個家庭都能飬得起的?丈夫一人賺錢可以養活一家人嗎?
钱不够还要自己垫来维持😢不容易呀但使终都是自己的家😊把家人顾好少吃打包😮……把家人顾好一家人是很难得的因缘珍惜家人😊有时出国旅行也是幸福满满🎉❤❤❤❤❤
做久了也无聊😂
家庭主妇是个为大的工作、家务是做不完没有自己的时间等牺牲自己的时间.现在的女性懒的不做家务而给丈夫做家务.应该重示家庭主妇尊重他们
为什么突然间成為话题呢?本来就很重要
*周末愉快,哦!❤️*
没有烘干机洗碗机没有扫地机器人?没有女佣?我老婆有烦过?
其實我認識的前新加坡男友都會幫忙做家務的❤
个人观点吧,我觉得做家庭主妇真的蛮舒服的耶,看你之前从事什么工作,跟你的孩子多大吧,我现在在家休息觉得比之前做工轻松无压力多了
看你要不要鸡娃了 马来人家庭主妇都乐呵呵😂
😂😂😂没有工钱的工作。我是鼓励妈妈做工,有钱拿比较开心😄😊家务爸爸孩子都要帮忙。
家庭妇男 眼里没有很多活 所以很轻松😂
Washing dishes now can using washing machine at F& B some hawker already using. So they needs to paid for and customer's paid more too. Now already coffee ☕ already increas by 10¢ 1.60
Dishwasher. Washing machine is for clothes
我是香港人,兩夫妻有全職工作,家中有兩個孩子,因為有顧用外傭,所以生活十分輕鬆,完全沒有做家務跟做飯的壓力,每天的時間只有陪伴孩子,跟孩子玩,完全不明白有能力的家庭為什麼不請外傭,弄到自己跟太太這麼累
新加坡很多家庭都有女佣。
你是你,你能代表香港人吗?
生活好的话,为什么又没😊这么移民?
That bro called housewife a maid??? 😂 how will your mom feel lah?? Please don’t let him get a wife
所以《逃耻》的英文翻译是什么😂
一切的付出都会得到回报的。
还有Hi-5❤😂🎉
Those that complain a lot are the irresponsible ones.😂😂
一天在外辛劳工作以后回家还听家庭主妇说她怎么怎么累了 我建议年轻人不要轻易踏入婚姻
Ho Ching?
Since when housewife is a job? Its a duty
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内不还洋。😂😂😂
你还怪,😂😂😂,你是贵。廣东话。福建话。你戏贵。😂😂😂,我每😊还你妈的老豆。
你想不想回中国?回去。我支持你。回去。
工作累那里可以坐下来喝咖啡,在家才可以,当孩子睡觉的时候,这个亜姨讲倒反了。
在家可以看电视带孩子,工作如果早晚挤电车的话就很累,而且每天睡眠不够就要起身
家庭主妇在新加坡一定是不被社会尊重的 因为别的访谈都说英文 然而家庭主妇这期太多说中文的 说中文的一半社会经济地位低
问题就是出现在你这种人的身上和持有的价值观念。因为世事无绝对,社会里也是会有人尊重和了解家庭主妇的贡献和重要性。不说英文而过的富裕的也大有人在。例如一些异族同胞开个档口或在工厂包办工作的,赚钱没人知呢。
@@anglo-saxonconnor817 你一说世事无绝对我就明白你又是一个用个例反驳整体的。没什么辩论的必要,如果家庭主妇真的那么有价值,那建议按价值收费。有没有钱赚是判断价值的唯一标准。
当你说出一定这一句时同样的我也觉得没有必要跟你这种人纠缠下去。你看不到某些人所扮演的角色和价值是你自己的心智不够敏锐和有错了鉴定他人价值的条件去塑造的定义表。问题不是在别人身上而是在你自己的心眼上。
有什么样的心就会看出什么样的世界观出来。
你知道你不成熟和错在哪里吗?你把钱看成一切和太重了。你还把人的价值和社会贡献建立与金钱之上。
你若能反思你会明白我在跟你好意解释,你若不能的话你会觉得我在批评你。
人除了钱也是有情感的。有些事情在这世界上偏偏就是不能用钱解决和定义。即使再有钱的人只要不明白这个道理也不会看到这世界的全貌。
你不信的话你可以在你最难过和临终时想想你最想到谁就可以了。因为这些人是不能单纯用钱来衡量的。不信的话改次你遇到这种时刻你用钱随便找个人来充当这些角色与需求便知道自己错在哪里和区别在哪里了。
@@anglo-saxonconnor817 1你要真不纠缠 你就不回了 2你说不能拿钱衡量 没什么经历的人才信 正常人只会觉得你没钱