Harry Chapin - Cats in the Cradle

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  • "My child arrived just the other day,
    He came to the world in the usual way.
    But there were planes to catch, and bills to pay.
    He learned to walk while I was away.
    And he was talking 'fore I knew it, and as he grew,
    He'd say, "I'm gonna be like you, dad.
    You know I'm gonna be like you."
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
    Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
    "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
    But we'll get together then.
    You know we'll have a good time then."
    My son turned ten just the other day.
    He said, "Thanks for the ball, dad, come on let's play.
    Can you teach me to throw?" I said, "Not today,
    I got a lot to do." He said, "That's ok."
    And he walked away, but his smile never dimmmed,
    Said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
    You know I'm gonna be like him."
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
    Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
    "When you coming home, dad?" "I don't know when,
    But we'll get together then.
    You know we'll have a good time then."
    Well, he came from college just the other day,
    So much like a man I just had to say,
    "Son, I'm proud of you. Can you sit for a while?"
    He shook his head, and he said with a smile,
    "What I'd really like, dad, is to borrow the car keys.
    See you later. Can I have them please?"
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
    Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
    "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
    But we'll get together then, dad.
    You know we'll have a good time then."
    I've long since retired and my son's moved away.
    I called him up just the other day.
    I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind."
    He said, "I'd love to, dad, if I could find the time.
    You see, my new job's a hassle, and the kid's got the flu,
    But it's sure nice talking to you, dad.
    It's been sure nice talking to you."
    And as I hung up the phone, it occurred to me,
    He'd grown up just like me.
    My boy was just like me.
    And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
    Little boy blue and the man in the moon.
    "When you coming home, son?" "I don't know when,
    But we'll get together then, dad.
    You know we'll have a good time then." "
    /Lyrics from The Harry Chapin Archive at Harrychapin.com\

Комментарии • 1,7 тыс.

  • @John-zh1ud
    @John-zh1ud 2 месяца назад +97

    The saddest part of this song is that it wasn't any one bad thing, but a bunch of little things and he missed it all. No hurt feelings, no family crisis, nothing... just the slow realization of having missed having a connection with his son.

    • @sanchoporkwiches9871
      @sanchoporkwiches9871 25 дней назад

      I feel this hard. My dad was always busy working. I kept moving on but eventually one day my dad didn't understand anything I was doing. We are total strangers. He doesn't have many years left I Really need to reconnect with him and make a couple memories before he passes on.

    • @WillWalker-xo5oq
      @WillWalker-xo5oq 11 дней назад

      I keep a tight relationship with my grandson- because this is how it is/was with my son 😢

    • @MaximusKW
      @MaximusKW 11 дней назад +1

      Correct 💯

    • @user-mv9sq5me8v
      @user-mv9sq5me8v 3 дня назад

      Way to late

  • @34stzoo
    @34stzoo 2 года назад +803

    My 6-year son was at a sporting event over a weekend. I didn't attend because I've worked all week and wanted to enjoy my weekend.
    I told my wife I didn't have a father growing up and he'll be okay. I was at work one day and this song came on, and for the first time, I really listened to it. I stopped what I was doing and started crying... I never missed any of my son's events after that! Both my boys are out of the house now and I cherish every moment, every event, and every school trip I took with them. Thank you, Harry Chapin, for making me understand how lucky I am to be a DAD!

    • @audiophileman7047
      @audiophileman7047 Год назад +35

      I had the same experience with my son. The song changed my life and my son's life. That's what great music does.

    • @russvorhees8985
      @russvorhees8985 Год назад +19

      We will never meet or get to lnow eachother, but i hage love for you and all the other fsthers in the world, i love my father desrly and as a son i love all fathers. Your comment has warmed my heart. I hope to be a great father some day. God bless you pops.

    • @brigittebeltran6701
      @brigittebeltran6701 Год назад +6

      You are awesome! 👏🌹🙏

    • @lloydchristmas1086
      @lloydchristmas1086 Год назад +23

      As a kid my Dad cheated on my Mom and moved out of state and was never around for a few years..I would hear this song and it always made me sad. He finally came back and ditched that woman and has been around and very involved and suportive since I was in high school..so maybe he heard this song too lol.

    • @TexasCat99
      @TexasCat99 Год назад +15

      ​​@@lloydchristmas1086 Great that your dad learned early that he was throwing away something he would never get back. My own father was never around. When he passed there wasn't anything to cry over.
      I caught my wife cheating and she was removed from the family home. I lose time as a single dad because I work more and it is a single parent household now.. Every time my son goes away for visitation weekends, it angers me. That it is time that is taking away from MY SON. I have primary custody for a reason.
      I recently had to spend 5 months working 70-hour weeks. I explained to the company that had to stop. I told them my son is asking for more of my time with him and it was no longer acceptable.
      I take my son to school everyday, and I do school volunteer work so I am there.
      I taught him things like riding a bike, reading, fix things and he teaches himself computers and Even though I'm in that field, he is able to show me things and I tell him I am proud of him.

  • @thomasmckenzie4584
    @thomasmckenzie4584 3 года назад +2228

    My 13 year old son and I took a 7 week fishing trip this summer and fished every morning and evening together. We must've listened and sang this song together 100 times. I never really listened to the lyrics before. It was the best summer of our lives and I'll never forget it.

    • @X1mi
      @X1mi 2 года назад +76

      best summer yet*

    • @SoullessxDream
      @SoullessxDream 2 года назад +77

      And he'll never forget it either.

    • @johnsutherland2456
      @johnsutherland2456 2 года назад +2

      @@SoullessxDream 0

    • @kenlovelady7820
      @kenlovelady7820 2 года назад +18

      This song is so true!

    • @SoullessxDream
      @SoullessxDream 2 года назад +41

      @@shootmcrunfast better than 7 weeks of working and then coming home to sit on your phone the rest of the evening. Lol

  • @EdLassley
    @EdLassley 4 месяца назад +200

    I once was listening to this song with my son and I started crying. He said dad that’s not about you and me. You’re a good dad! With God’s grace I wasn’t that man though my dad was. My son is now 28 and lives far away. We see each other and talk to each other regularly ! God bless Harry Chapin
    -Harry Lassley

    • @daepicpigeon3274
      @daepicpigeon3274 3 месяца назад +6

      You are a blessed father. I say this as a 21 year old man with a completely dysfunctional divorced family.

    • @daepicpigeon3274
      @daepicpigeon3274 3 месяца назад +4

      Please set the example for your kids...

    • @exhibitionistyogapants1220
      @exhibitionistyogapants1220 2 месяца назад +2

      same thing happened to me

    • @tristanzegethm.n7649
      @tristanzegethm.n7649 Месяц назад +2

      Same here, same here. He read my mind as I wondered if I was a ……….😢😢😢

    • @canwejustloveeachother2550
      @canwejustloveeachother2550 Месяц назад +2

      Beautiful, Mr Lassey. Great health and lots of love to you and your family❤❤❤❤

  • @iamella7001
    @iamella7001 2 года назад +1098

    Thank you to all the Dads that actually take time to spend with their kids.

    • @USA__2023
      @USA__2023 2 года назад +17

      Our children were our # 1 priority. When not working we spent time with them. Camping, road trips, the park... How could a child grow up without that? Too many do.

    • @TheTaloooly
      @TheTaloooly 2 года назад +5

      Sadly not all of them had a good father, some of them usually abuse their family and barely talk to their kids.

    • @teletuby5338
      @teletuby5338 2 года назад +9

      Exactly, this song is the a
      Opposite idk why people dont understand that. The dad never had time for the kid because too busy, when the kid grew up and the dad wanted to have a litle conversation the kid rejected the dude because he was too busy fo his dad who never gave him quality time except commodities. How fkn sad!

    • @neilmalyon8784
      @neilmalyon8784 2 года назад +5

      His wife wrote the lyrics. Brilliant song.

    • @davidprovan5650
      @davidprovan5650 Год назад +3

      I think you mean about almost all of Dads. The bad ones do not count of Dads.

  • @anthonyduell2075
    @anthonyduell2075 2 месяца назад +76

    Here I sit on fathers day! Listening to mine and my dad's song. He died almost 7 yrs ago. Balling like a baby! I miss you so much dad. Happy Father's day😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @223Michigan
      @223Michigan 2 месяца назад +2

      My father passed away24 years ago, was our song as well. Tears in my eyes when I hear this

    • @AntZvonick
      @AntZvonick 2 месяца назад

      ​I live Gypsy 😊I die Gypsy...😮@@223Michigan

    • @user-vo2iu2jh8y
      @user-vo2iu2jh8y Месяц назад +3

      I lost my father to about little less than a year and it hurts

    • @johnlord5303
      @johnlord5303 25 дней назад

      I lost my dad feb 4 2016. I completely understand how you are feeling.

    • @AntZvonick
      @AntZvonick 25 дней назад

      @@anthonyduell2075 hey nigga-I let you know the truph- you story had me sad, sad

  • @rosiegigglesestablished1969
    @rosiegigglesestablished1969 6 месяцев назад +410

    I'm a woman. I grew up without a dad and this song has always hurt. Girls just like boys need their dad's.

    • @greg2976
      @greg2976 6 месяцев назад +7

      🙏🙏❤❤

    • @mickjagger8439
      @mickjagger8439 6 месяцев назад +10

      Sorry, I was so lucky to have two good parents, but unlucky they passed away too young.
      Life isn't fair :-(

    • @sherylsocia4496
      @sherylsocia4496 6 месяцев назад

      I am sorry. I can't imagine how you feel. So sad. My dad was around, but we weren't close. Finally, we were able to patch things up before he passed

    • @sarahmathews3
      @sarahmathews3 6 месяцев назад +9

      Same. I was just telling my husband how little girls always pictured time with their dad's like tea parties and stuff. I never had that. My great uncle is the one who taught me to fish and my brother, to throw a football when I was 10. I always get envious of wishing I had a dad. I love this song but I always cry when I sing it too (my siblings are very talented in the nusic department, and I'm also talented in the artist and writing department)

    • @sarahmathews3
      @sarahmathews3 6 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@mickjagger8439so sorry for your loss, I couldn't imagine losing my mom. I lost my grams and that has been hard enough on me recently. My prayers and condolences to you ❤❤

  • @ge2623
    @ge2623 3 года назад +626

    My Mom put a quote on her fridge years ago that read: "A child comes into your home and for the next 18 yrs makes so much noise you think you can't stand it.....Then they leave, leaving your home so quiet you think you can't stand it"

    • @jorgetanchez8754
      @jorgetanchez8754 3 года назад +6

      Now that's nice sir...

    • @jp-mc2bp
      @jp-mc2bp 3 года назад +5

      God bless you my child.

    • @SUGAR_XYLER
      @SUGAR_XYLER 3 года назад +4

      😂 I wouldn't know..... *I was smart enough not to have kids*

    • @ge2623
      @ge2623 3 года назад

      @@SUGAR_XYLER I appreciate that. Me neither.

    • @cathyeason9493
      @cathyeason9493 3 года назад +2

      So true!

  • @elprado1963
    @elprado1963 3 месяца назад +54

    Any Father who listens to this song and has a young Son please take my advice and spend as much time as you can with him because all too soon it’s gone and his life no longer has you in it. It’s just the way it is the circle of life..

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 2 месяца назад +5

      Very true! My Husband abandoned his five sons! They hate him

    • @johnhamilton7797
      @johnhamilton7797 2 месяца назад +6

      “It’s too late, when we die.” The Living Years, Mike and the Mechanics.

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 2 месяца назад +2

      @@johnhamilton7797 it is

    • @kyleseabaugh6220
      @kyleseabaugh6220 Месяц назад +4

      What if the mother is keeping the good dad from the child

    • @MmM20978
      @MmM20978 Месяц назад +1

      @@kyleseabaugh6220 What if sons have had it with Dad

  • @thinkingandwondering4725
    @thinkingandwondering4725 Год назад +201

    I am a Young Man. 25 years old and now I am crying like a little girl.
    Thank you Dad.
    Thank you that you drove Home 45 Miles evry evening...
    Just for me.

    • @SomeGuyWithaPC
      @SomeGuyWithaPC Год назад +2

      W father.

    • @Taluta394
      @Taluta394 3 месяца назад

      ❤️

    • @tonylloy327
      @tonylloy327 10 дней назад

      Cherish him while you can. As a 58-yr-old man whose step-father was an absolute angel in my and my own kids' lives, I miss him every single day. Still kills me after waking up from dreams of my childhood to the fact that he's gone. Too many words of appreciation and respect that were never said.

  • @airsickemu5809
    @airsickemu5809 7 месяцев назад +130

    When I was 17, I stood at the shed with my old man. This song came on the radio and we sat and sung along, his Dad passed away before I was born and he loved him dearly. Saw him bawl his eyes out talking about the lyrics and how much he missed his Father, my grandfather. Dad passed away 3 years ago this year and I’m 23 now, I’ve got a 7 month old daughter, and I still ask “When you coming home, Dad?”.
    Miss you, Dad.
    I love you, Dad.
    Your boy still thinks about you every second of every day and how different life would be with you here. I listen to this song now and I get how much you missed Grandad. It hurts but I’ll hopefully grow old, tell my kids all about you and make you proud. You raised me and my brothers without the guidance of Grandad, so I know if you did it I know I can too.

    • @theexiled473
      @theexiled473 7 месяцев назад +4

      Beautiful 👏

    • @matthewryan7281
      @matthewryan7281 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yes you can. Great song my friend

    • @AlexLozada-pe8zf
      @AlexLozada-pe8zf 7 месяцев назад +5

      this shit got me crying at work rs

    • @argenta1933
      @argenta1933 6 месяцев назад +1

      Bless you. You were clearly a good son and are now a good dad in your own right. I feel sure both your father and grandfather would be proud xx

    • @auriannaharrell3057
      @auriannaharrell3057 6 месяцев назад +1

      My Dad passed away 7 months ago and I feel so guilty because I didn't have kids yet. But I miss him so much. Love you Dad, JWH the 2nd

  • @ValhallaBeckons
    @ValhallaBeckons 4 года назад +450

    I'm now faced with my Dad's mortality. This song now leaves me a wreck. Keep your loved ones close, peopIe. I'm nearly 35 years old, and I don't want to lose my Daddy...

    • @Flips420
      @Flips420 3 года назад +16

      I feel you ValhallaBeckons. You take care.

    • @laurenraziz3032
      @laurenraziz3032 3 года назад +21

      I’ve been struggling with my dad getting older too

    • @Makujah_
      @Makujah_ 3 года назад +15

      I've lost my dad a few years ago. He was almost 50, I was 23, my bro was 10. It still hurts regularly and I cope by means of nihilism every time so as not to lose my composure.

    • @kevinespinosa9178
      @kevinespinosa9178 3 года назад +20

      My dad passed almost a year ago and this song kills me. I try to laugh and remember the good times but it's tough....please hold your dad tight. Some of us can't

    • @vaderjones357
      @vaderjones357 3 года назад +14

      It's been 13 years since I lost my dad....it never gets easier...we just figure out how to navigate through life never being the same again...much love to everyone in the club

  • @michaelkeeble1480
    @michaelkeeble1480 3 года назад +294

    This song is gutting as I can imagine some Dads making this mistake. Im one of the few men that raised their Son alone ( since he was 2 ) Hes now 26 and a better man than I ever was. What more can a Father ask for.

    • @Psycedilla
      @Psycedilla 3 года назад +14

      the mother of my child doesnt want me around him, some fathers dont have a choice. atleast i get to see him every other week.

    • @colingeddes2172
      @colingeddes2172 3 года назад +4

      Huge respect to michael. Predictably this song reminds me of me and my son. Hes 28 now and im glad to say hes my best mate and weve always had a great relationship since the day he was born, , but i know some dads and sons havnt been so lucky.

    • @kevindisher6252
      @kevindisher6252 3 года назад +3

      could never ask for more man from a grown ass man. my dad joined the marines just to get away from his rough come up, i joined the army to pay for college but also to make my old man proud and to go through what he did and to make him proud as the youngest of his 3 sons. one day your son or daughter will see you the same way i look at my dad i promise man. Just seeing his face when i graduated basic training was all i needed to see my dad was finally proud of me and i had earned his respect. whatever you do as a dad as long as youre around the boy will turn into a stand up guy believe me youre doing the right shit.

    • @DCJUNIOR2000
      @DCJUNIOR2000 4 месяца назад

      I heard the saying the other day, When you bury your father, you bury the only man that wanted you to be better than him.

  • @SharpShooter-NLD
    @SharpShooter-NLD 2 года назад +59

    I'm a sergeant in the light mobile infantry brigade in the Netherlands. i lost my child because of a miscarriage i hope he will look at me from above and be proud of his dad.

    • @FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE
      @FrankyCpunishmentSTYLE 3 месяца назад

      Yes sir I’m sure he is god bless yall I lost my daughter three years ago, god is good and everything happens for a reason stay safe sir

    • @damianhawk3
      @damianhawk3 5 дней назад

      They are with you always

  • @cpusftwre
    @cpusftwre 4 года назад +737

    This song came out before I had kids
    and I promised myself, after hearing how Sad this song was, I wouldn’t repeat that mistake.
    40 years and two wonderful kids later.
    I cherish the time We have together.

    • @Jabermania
      @Jabermania 4 года назад

      TEKKEN

    • @BHK0000
      @BHK0000 4 года назад +14

      Nice to read one comment of a good story for once, thanks;)

    • @Black8Sun8
      @Black8Sun8 4 года назад +9

      My dad should've done the same but now my parents are getting divorced and now when I'm 16 he suddenly wants to do stuff but now I'm done with him. I want to see him as less as possible

    • @Black8Sun8
      @Black8Sun8 4 года назад +3

      I'm glad your kids have an amazing dad

    • @jerrysstories711
      @jerrysstories711 4 года назад +6

      Did you notice that at the end of the song, he whines that his son was just like himself, when that wasn't actually true? His son has come about caring about his kids. He had time for them, not for the neglectful dad he hardly knew. His claim that his son had come out just like him was one last self-absorbed indulgence in self-pity.

  • @Someyungrebel
    @Someyungrebel Год назад +239

    I’m 19. I’ve heard this song all my life, but yesterday it finally hit me how true this song is, and I bawled my eyes out as a result. I’m a splitting image of my old man, inside and out.

    • @hal-rekabi6724
      @hal-rekabi6724 Год назад +6

      Take care and give him a hug.

    • @ethanmoua49
      @ethanmoua49 Год назад

      you're a father at 19?

    • @richardladow4734
      @richardladow4734 Год назад +6

      I’m 63, and I still do.😉

    • @ritahansford8858
      @ritahansford8858 Год назад +6

      I’m crying too. It’s broken but hard my son is one of the kindest man in the whole world. Hey, what’s good every minute with me he does everything to help me if there’s never a day and he’s a grown man.
      That I’m always saying OK honey I’m sorry I’m really busy. I got to do this. I got to do that. I’ve been doing that all my life to my son all of his life. I don’t know how to make up and I will stop being busy 24 seven.

    • @ausername7470
      @ausername7470 11 месяцев назад +1

      Give old man by Neil Young a listen

  • @bluepower1177
    @bluepower1177 2 месяца назад +41

    My dad died last summer. Happy Father’s Day everyone 🤙🏼❤️

  • @user-qy1tj3ij7j
    @user-qy1tj3ij7j 6 месяцев назад +34

    I am 60 years old. When I was 17 I was a camp counselor on Long Island. On my way home during a horrific thunderstorm Harry Chapin had a heart attack in his VW bug and passed away. I will never forget the loss I felt. What a talented man. Hope you're looking down and smiling. God bless

  • @mythtree
    @mythtree 13 лет назад +950

    RIP Harry.
    Hug your kids, even if they don't hug you back; someday they will.

    • @dongvermine
      @dongvermine 4 года назад +3

      mythtree Harry was a gangster and a thief

    • @DrMantisTobboganMD
      @DrMantisTobboganMD 4 года назад +19

      Don Workman fuck you

    • @andyburns5356
      @andyburns5356 4 года назад +7

      Sorry about your dad passed away. He was a good Singer.

    • @Draven-tc3mn
      @Draven-tc3mn 3 года назад +5

      @@DrMantisTobboganMD lol

    • @Draven-tc3mn
      @Draven-tc3mn 3 года назад +5

      Also it's almost been 38yrs since he passed away damn

  • @jalapablocrypto
    @jalapablocrypto Год назад +73

    As a dad, this song never fails to gut you. My dad was never around when I grew up, and it hurt so much that I told myself I wasn't going to be like him when I had my own kids. So, for the past 15 years my wife and I have brought the grandchildren around every year, and we all get to spend a few days with him. I'm 52 now, he's got Alzheimer's, but the memories this last decade have been good. He showed me what NOT to do as a father, and for that I am thankful, and love and forgive him.

    • @ParanormalStudios.
      @ParanormalStudios. 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for sharing man my dad and I got into an argument an honestly lots of times we don’t get along or agree an I just wish we could thank you for showing me that I need to forgive him & be thankful for the things he’s shown me what not to do life’s to short to be angry or hold grudges an be upset an not forgive much love thank you

  • @kaybrewer8348
    @kaybrewer8348 3 года назад +93

    It took me to the age of 33 to understand this song...and my dad. I was always so mad at him for never being there and always working. Mom said it was because he didn't know how to love. Now I realize that he worked himself to death because he loved us so much and because he was afraid that if he didn't he wouldn't be good enough
    Dad you were good enough and I grew up just like you. I am so proud you were my dad and I miss you.

    • @JavierSanchez-zj6su
      @JavierSanchez-zj6su 3 года назад +2

      Even a 7 yo kid could understand this

    • @quackedout397
      @quackedout397 11 месяцев назад

      Ohhhh this comment hit me in my chest. Yes.

  • @michaelrosas9263
    @michaelrosas9263 Месяц назад +8

    Today’s my Dads Heavenly Birthday… this song hits hard. Trucker for over 30 years, I grew up fast while he was away. Last years of his life I was there by his side to catch up for lost time. If I had just 5 more minutes, just want to say I love you Dad, hug you and not let go. Love you Dad and God Bless all you truckers out there. Keep on Truckin’ Dad. 💔🙏🏼

    • @ltkreg
      @ltkreg Месяц назад

      😊👍

  • @josephcook9559
    @josephcook9559 7 лет назад +794

    this song really hurts me for I wasn't the father I should have been. all you parents please learn from this song. especially young parents. I was only 16 when my son was born. sure wish I knew then what I know now. 52 years ago.

    • @hunger4jsutice
      @hunger4jsutice 5 лет назад +66

      Tell him you are sorry. Tell him you live him. He needs to know.

    • @ZachVanHarrisJR
      @ZachVanHarrisJR 4 года назад +63

      It’s not too late sir. It’s never too late. As sons, we need to hear this. Peace and one love friend

    • @aaronschecter8498
      @aaronschecter8498 4 года назад +35

      I exactly where you're coming from, I was just 18 years old when my son was born, finally reunited after 42 years

    • @gandalfshakur8235
      @gandalfshakur8235 4 года назад +11

      Hugs for the daddy -son duo!

    • @nutster9000
      @nutster9000 4 года назад +12

      Just be around, talk about any old shit & just enjoy life together. Just appreciate him for who he is. I can assure you that you were & are better at being a father than mine ever was. Despite me saying that I was still proud of him.

  • @michaelrosas9263
    @michaelrosas9263 6 месяцев назад +21

    My dad took his last breath 2/26/2023 @ 14:25. This song hit very hard today because it’s true, how fast life goes. Love and miss you Dad. 🙏🏼💔

  • @gatormark
    @gatormark 3 года назад +364

    This song almost makes me cry...every time. There, I said it.

    • @krismachado3038
      @krismachado3038 3 года назад +7

      That's OK!

    • @buckaroobaizuo25
      @buckaroobaizuo25 3 года назад +12

      What do you mean ‘almost’?

    • @gothfather8741
      @gothfather8741 2 года назад +8

      This song can definitely make people cry...it is one of the most depressing songs ever written.

    • @jfiyibclfjvqdcx6426
      @jfiyibclfjvqdcx6426 2 года назад +17

      @@gothfather8741 Not depressing..but the reality of life described in a beautiful way

    • @francescosalvioli
      @francescosalvioli 2 года назад +1

      Same to me!!

  • @michaelcutcher8592
    @michaelcutcher8592 3 года назад +53

    My dad died from lung cancer when I was 8 in 1976. In and out of the hospital for months. This song means so much to me!

  • @KarenBass8822
    @KarenBass8822 4 месяца назад +15

    This song reminded me of my dad and older brother. My dad was a Church of Christ Minister and he didn't give us much time. I just imagined my brother wanting his time. Always in the Word. My brother died before my father at 27 in a head on collision. I cry every time I hear this.

    • @GB-st8fp
      @GB-st8fp 3 месяца назад

      I am truly sorry.

  • @daborshy4089
    @daborshy4089 2 года назад +57

    I feel like it'd be dangerous to play this song on radios... last thing you want is a million drivers sobbing uncontrollably

    • @RightOnTheBeach-bv6zw
      @RightOnTheBeach-bv6zw 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yet it was a top 10 hit before seatbelts were mandatory.

    • @ARessler95
      @ARessler95 4 месяца назад +1

      Yep. Couldn’t agree with you any more . Me and my dad never got to reach the last verse ir the second to last for the matter . Lost him before I got the chance to show him the type of man he raised.

    • @nickdean3152
      @nickdean3152 2 месяца назад

      It gets me every time

  • @lindcobbs4615
    @lindcobbs4615 2 месяца назад +10

    I’ve been listening to this song since 1974 and it still brings out deep emotions. I’m soon to be 68 and I fully understand the meaning behind this heart felt song, which stand true today with so many of us. 😢

    • @3DModelwerks
      @3DModelwerks 2 месяца назад

      1956 was a very good year. :)

  • @michelleb1
    @michelleb1 3 года назад +25

    I lost my dad on January 20th he had dementia. I took care of him for the last 2 years my mom passed in July of 2018. I worked in the day and watched him at night and I am so glad I took the time to do all that I would not ever ever exchange that for the world. My dad knew I loved him and before he passed he thanked me for everything I did for him taking care of him.when I was a kid he would drive me around in his VW and let me put my head outside of the sunroof we had such fun. I wouldn't trade all those memories for anything. Hug your father always

    • @user-fk8mc6lq2z
      @user-fk8mc6lq2z 3 месяца назад

      Your a very kind and unique person, thank you for your comment. It is good to know there are people like you on earth.

  • @ChoppingtonOtter
    @ChoppingtonOtter 8 лет назад +290

    My dad always made time for me, and I've tried to for my child too. We have them for such a short time and they grow so fast every single minute counts.

    • @mikecory179
      @mikecory179 5 лет назад +2

      Yes

    • @bud7707
      @bud7707 4 года назад

      It’s like kid teen I gotta go

    • @nutegunray34
      @nutegunray34 4 года назад

      big brain

    • @Flips420
      @Flips420 3 года назад

      Fuck yes Choppington Otter. Fact. Ugh.

  • @rnindless
    @rnindless 4 года назад +287

    Not a father, not a son, not even a guy. This is just an awesome song. 10/10

    • @miriamanastasiavirgadaula696
      @miriamanastasiavirgadaula696 3 года назад +3

      totally agree.

    • @frlouiegoad4087
      @frlouiegoad4087 3 года назад +2

      WRONG!!!!!! I LIVED IT!!!!! I did NOT go to his funeral! He was NEVER there for me!!!!!! The night mother died! He went with his drunk duds!!!!

    • @NukesWarshipsBlitz
      @NukesWarshipsBlitz 3 года назад +9

      @@frlouiegoad4087 so? There are bad people out there. Dont have to hate in people for your past. I am sorry for you and will pray for you. Also will pray for you to have the strength to not burn your energy on being rude to people.

    • @Ha1cy0nN1gh7s
      @Ha1cy0nN1gh7s 3 года назад +3

      None of that criteria matters as long as you feel the message...

    • @RepublicConstitution
      @RepublicConstitution 3 года назад

      You can only imagine.

  • @tilico9499
    @tilico9499 4 года назад +206

    When you're dad left to get milk but actually comes back

    • @mcborris6515
      @mcborris6515 3 года назад +15

      My dad would often come back without the milk a few days later, but he would be drunk and have aquired a dog or a ferrett. At least he didnt come back empty handed!

    • @bennyblanco4696
      @bennyblanco4696 3 года назад +8

      you’re either too old to be memeing, or too young to be here 😂. Respect.

    • @a_man_of_many_screams
      @a_man_of_many_screams 3 года назад +1

      *:)*

    • @leonie5291
      @leonie5291 3 года назад

      @@bennyblanco4696 lmfaooo

  • @ericoakes-fr1cp
    @ericoakes-fr1cp 4 месяца назад +18

    I love my sons, and I'll never let this world get in the way.

  • @audiophileman7047
    @audiophileman7047 4 года назад +94

    It is so easy to get busy with life. You even think that you're taking care of your children by being away from them. I'm lucky that I heard this song when my son was still pretty young. It caused me to change course and make more time for him, even when I didn't want to do what he wanted to do. It is about me loving him rather than myself, because he needs it as a growing young man. I also discovered that he's my treasure. He's 17 years old now, and I'm now teaching him how to drive as he prepares for college. God bless you Harry Chapin for writing a song that matters so much. May you rest in peace, dear brother.

  • @michaelbond9953
    @michaelbond9953 4 месяца назад +14

    This song is truly a masterpiece and to all the fathers out there. Tell your children how much you love them and how proud you are of them.

  • @PersistentPam
    @PersistentPam 6 месяцев назад +20

    I miss my dad. This was a song he used to sing. Time is fleeting. Remembering him and having a good cry right now. RIP Dad ...I love and miss you so much. 😭

    • @captainfanta8641
      @captainfanta8641 6 месяцев назад +2

      Many of us are there with you or have been.

  • @jImMiYwOnTtObE
    @jImMiYwOnTtObE 3 года назад +133

    lost my father two years ago, still cry everytime when I listen to this song.

  • @MM-qi5mk
    @MM-qi5mk 3 месяца назад +10

    Hurts when your old man face planted randomly from a heart attack when you’re 16. Shout out to all the good dads during their best. You’re the real MVP

  • @jordanvine4988
    @jordanvine4988 4 года назад +131

    this is a master class in parenting folks. don't read the books, don't listen to anyone, just put this on repeat a few times a year.

    • @robertchflynn
      @robertchflynn 2 года назад +5

      master class in what is not parenting...

    • @mulalula
      @mulalula 2 года назад +4

      mmmmm i would still advise for parents to educate themselves lol. but it is a great, great song nonetheless

    • @Pink_gaming6171
      @Pink_gaming6171 2 года назад +2

      Didn’t work for my dad he liked this song but he abused me

    • @JDurham4635
      @JDurham4635 Год назад +1

      @@Pink_gaming6171 ha. Same. 👊

  • @FunkyDPL
    @FunkyDPL 4 года назад +61

    This song hit the radio when I was 7 years old and though time I resolved not to let this happen. 45 years pass, my sons are 20 and 22 now and we still hang out and do stuff together. Sons need their dads, especially once they hit the teenage years.

  • @Mistamistadobalina
    @Mistamistadobalina 4 года назад +45

    simply: one of the best songs of all time. All parents should listen to this regularly!

  • @ltkreg
    @ltkreg 2 года назад +24

    I'm reading all these comments and it's obvious that this song has touched more hearts than any other song that has ever been written.

  • @danucciguzman
    @danucciguzman 3 года назад +44

    The ideal Father's Day song. All we can learn from this song is to still love and honor our father and cherish the time we still have with them.

    • @joselugo5915
      @joselugo5915 3 года назад

      Breaks me.😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

  • @colemorini-topic347
    @colemorini-topic347 3 года назад +34

    My dad sung this song to me when I was little... he walked out the door and never came back... this is what he left me with

    • @docbohemian1328
      @docbohemian1328 Год назад +2

      I hope you find him and get his side of the story- there is probably much more to it than you have been told- observationally in my life, this has been true over 90% of the time.
      As for me, my dad died when I was six by my mother's hand, and she got away with it. I think of my dad often, the fond memories, and how much time he gave to my twin sister and me. He was the best.

  • @allanburton8115
    @allanburton8115 3 года назад +63

    My dad passed away in July 2009.
    The lyrics really hit home.

    • @michelleb1
      @michelleb1 3 года назад +7

      God bless.. sorry about your papa

    • @ozzied-uy6mr
      @ozzied-uy6mr 2 года назад +2

      Sorry to hear about that man

  • @arthurbishop3173
    @arthurbishop3173 5 месяцев назад +14

    An intensely sad song with timeless wisdom, along with being a cautionary tale.
    Parents and prospective parents should listen very closely to these lyrics, and decide what kind of parent they really want to be, and what kind of parent they want to be remembered as.

  • @Tabsau
    @Tabsau 2 года назад +7

    Everybody: **is talking about experience with their father or having kids**
    Me: **sips drink while going thru recommended songs**

  • @Soilyman1289
    @Soilyman1289 4 года назад +21

    I’m 27 and a father to be. This is my all time favourite song and hope my young one will like it as much as I do

  • @Rudy.843
    @Rudy.843 3 года назад +22

    I cry everytime I hear this song. Life is so short. Time flies. Love your kids unconditionally & enjoy all the small moments !!!!

  • @chuck9397
    @chuck9397 8 месяцев назад +11

    I think of my dad every time I hear this. I looked like him and proud I can say that. He died July 13 2020. Now there is a void . Rest in peace 🙏 dad miss you. You were the best dad

  • @Faltzerbeast90
    @Faltzerbeast90 2 месяца назад +5

    My pops passed away 4 years ago and this song always hits hard. We lived in different countries at the time and I regret not calling him more. "I don't know when, but we'll get together then"

  • @exhibitionistyogapants1220
    @exhibitionistyogapants1220 2 месяца назад +5

    Song gets me every time. cried when I heard it when i was little, dad was gone alot. Cry now when I hear it because I dont know if I spend enough time with my son. We did everything together when he was little, but now he is 17 and is involved with his friends.

  • @peterm1826
    @peterm1826 Месяц назад +5

    dads out there. treasure every moment you have with your children i know from experiance this song is true.

  • @classichost
    @classichost 5 лет назад +318

    You look up, and the next thing you know they are grown. Life has to be lived, needs must be provided, it all goes in a blink of a eye

    • @Mr102405
      @Mr102405 4 года назад +10

      I hate this song. It rubs catch 22 guilt in your face. You want to spend every second with your kids but you have to sacrifice time to provide for them. Then they’re grown and gone

    • @audiophileman7047
      @audiophileman7047 4 года назад +19

      @@Mr102405 This song isn't about putting you down for providing for your family. It's about spending what ever time you have with them and loving them. Even if you're on the road and away from home, isn't it possible to call every night; talk to your children; and wish them good night? It's about taking an interest in them. It's about loving them.

    • @tymen9989
      @tymen9989 4 года назад +2

      Yeah im not a dad so..... Very epic

    • @donnaodonnell290
      @donnaodonnell290 3 года назад

      Im so glad in my blink I got to see Harry like 5 times. He passed to young. Such a nice caring guy.

    • @donnaodonnell290
      @donnaodonnell290 3 года назад +1

      @@Mr102405 just think of them first after your day working. Show them live take time make it you wont regret it and I really think the bond is stronger..you think no time I had 5 from 1980 tp 1993. I gave up a lot all of them were good. No real problems all through college. I gave up alot, but it was worth it.

  • @davidp7037
    @davidp7037 3 года назад +14

    54 now. Things changed for me quickly, I am now wishing and wanting a family of my own.
    A song of my childhood that now makes sense and hits home.

  • @danielburns987
    @danielburns987 5 лет назад +88

    this song went to #1 on the pop charts in 1974!!!

  • @chinajoenotmyprez1371
    @chinajoenotmyprez1371 4 года назад +121

    This song has always made me cry especially now that my father is dying of lung cancer. I love you dad💕

  • @mccellen
    @mccellen 4 года назад +80

    Still brings me to tears..all these years later..."when you comin' home son..?." "I don't know when, but we'll get together then Dad, you know we'll have a good time then.." I don't think it really works like that...sadly..

  • @johncapobianco2527
    @johncapobianco2527 5 месяцев назад +8

    My Dad played catch .. took us on trips .. tried to spend time with us. He was ambushed by a serious cancer diagnosis in September and died on Boxing Day that year. I miss him so much. He used to cry listening to this song. His addictions caught up with him and stole 30 years from us.

  • @stevethomas5849
    @stevethomas5849 Месяц назад +3

    Just pinged this over to my sister as we just lost our Dad at 85 it just sums up modern life.

  • @TheMrkack
    @TheMrkack 7 часов назад

    This is my Dad's favorite song. And now that I'm a father and have been for a while. It is now my favorite song. I've always loved this song but now it means so much. All Fathers need to hear this. 😭

  • @dannyfont305
    @dannyfont305 3 года назад +19

    Beautiful song. I hope to be a great father to my kids when my time comes

  • @frederick2video
    @frederick2video 7 месяцев назад +6

    This song has been making me cry each time I hear it for nearly 50 years. With each stage of my life it has a different meaning.

  • @samtron5000
    @samtron5000 2 месяца назад +4

    This song hurts.. my kids dad was a workaholic in Japan but my son absolutely worshiped his dad. He’s not with us anymore and we don’t live in Japan anymore. My son is going into high school now…

  • @kaylavillines6881
    @kaylavillines6881 Год назад +11

    I didn't understand this song as a kid growing up in the 90s I thought this was some kind of nursery rhyme. Now I do and it makes me very emotional!😥 Such a deep song with a powerful message!

  • @darriniverson9093
    @darriniverson9093 4 года назад +87

    My Dad ways said this song reminded him of him and me. He worked second shift pretty much my whole childhood. He was there when he could be, but we missed out on a lot. We lost him in 2018 at only 64 years old, but I'm proud to say that I grew up just like him. I played this song at his funeral in his memory.

    • @hollydayblues8482
      @hollydayblues8482 3 года назад +1

      Darrin Iverson, that took courage and strength to play at his funeral. Sorry for your loss. You sound like a fine man x

    • @gatormark
      @gatormark 3 года назад

      Holy cow! There's no way I could've played this at my dad's funeral. I would have never recovered.

    • @crimsonscorpiwolf8389
      @crimsonscorpiwolf8389 3 года назад

      I like your last name

  • @dontworrydehappy7104
    @dontworrydehappy7104 Год назад +12

    I'm so thankful my father always had (and still has!) the time, patience, love and kindness for having great times together and making great memories. And he'd always take me and my friends places when i was young - bowling, amusement parks, concerts, etc. I'd always assumed other kid's fathers did the same - but one time a few of my friends made a sand sculpture of my dad's face to show their appreciation for chaperoning a weekend trip to Lake Erie for my 10th birthday (we had a camper up there)...and to be funny. Dad laughed, thanked them and took a picture of it. It always makes me smile seeing that old picture. Lol.

  • @aydon1276
    @aydon1276 2 года назад +6

    We were coming home from a day at the park when this song came on the radio. My dad turned it up and told me to listen carefully. When the song finished he asked me about the song and when he was satisfied I understood he said something along the lines of "I don't want to treat you like the way my dad treated me and I always want to have you in my life." I'm not even listening to the song, I just clicked on it to add it to a playlist, but tears are already in my eyes. I love my dad so much.

  • @MrCjchamp
    @MrCjchamp 2 месяца назад +5

    Happy Father’s Day

  • @legendary6790
    @legendary6790 6 месяцев назад +7

    Possibly one of the favorite songs of my father. I don't think he will go for a while, but my uncle went two years ago, and he was the same age. One thing this song has taught me is to cherish every moment.

  • @kevinw1822
    @kevinw1822 19 дней назад +1

    This resonates not only with a son. I have a daughter I didn’t spend much time with and have lost touch with over 9 years ago. I selfish act can lose a heart of gold for a loved child that didn’t feel appreciated. And you live with that regret forever.

  • @gary1961
    @gary1961 5 лет назад +33

    A song. A story. An anthem.
    Typical of the late, great Harry Chapin.

  • @pokedude104
    @pokedude104 4 года назад +25

    This song terrified me as a kid whenever it came on the radio I didn't want to get older. Actually older now I realize how lucky i was to have a dad at all let alone one that always tried to make time for his kids.

  • @dylanpearson7735
    @dylanpearson7735 Год назад +11

    This song is a masterpiece, what a powerful story, it just makes you think how time flies and to always enjoy the little moments in life.

  • @birdofprey777
    @birdofprey777 8 месяцев назад +6

    My dad and i never had a good relationship but looking back after his death i realize, only now, how much he loved me. Id give it all just to wind back the clock and tell him that i love and respect him. If youre young, make sure to stick close to your parents.

  • @happygoluckyscamp
    @happygoluckyscamp 6 месяцев назад +5

    As someone from Northern Ireland who grew up in the 90s, my favourite past time is to put this on a Juke Box and watch the reaction.
    If you know, you know.

  • @TRIPPYHIPPIE-bc2mt
    @TRIPPYHIPPIE-bc2mt 4 года назад +17

    This song hits me heart I lost my dad to lung cancer two years ago this coming December third my heart still breaks every time I hear this😢😞💔

  • @joanjett8814
    @joanjett8814 3 года назад +15

    Definitely one of the most incredible songs ever.. love my classic Monday morning..

  • @treveroncortumil1503
    @treveroncortumil1503 4 года назад +45

    And then one day you’ll find, ten years have got behind you.

    • @Wuke04
      @Wuke04 3 года назад +4

      No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun...

    • @jakebraby7018
      @jakebraby7018 3 года назад +3

      Time, what a powerful song. Gotta love Pink Floyd!

  • @cathyeason9493
    @cathyeason9493 3 года назад +10

    He was absolutely the best storyteller.

  • @murrowboy
    @murrowboy Год назад +7

    This song prevented me from making these mistake with my son. Thank you Harry.

  • @Marcomanexists
    @Marcomanexists 2 года назад +5

    Me and my dad smoked a joint at the campfire to this song this summer. I’ll miss you when you’re gone dad, you gotta stop drinking like that 😞

  • @renatonunes2550
    @renatonunes2550 Месяц назад +2

    So many times as my son grew up I listened to this great song. It tought me some lessons and prevented me from being like the Daddy on the song. BEAUTIFUL.💖💖

  • @renaultman4230
    @renaultman4230 Год назад +12

    You know when you hate a song cause of personal relation to it but your in awe of its brilliance...

  • @dintelignt
    @dintelignt 3 месяца назад +2

    My Father passed in September. My older brother passed back in 99. He was 14. My father taught my brother to play this song on guitar and my brother then went on to preform this and got a standing ovation. Growing up, my father would regularly sing this. It's one that means a lot to me.

  • @randomsu25noises911
    @randomsu25noises911 4 года назад +35

    This song makes me cry for a hood 10 minutes

    • @adrpop123
      @adrpop123 4 года назад +4

      Me too man, me too😭😭😭

  • @user-ov8zu6bi4j
    @user-ov8zu6bi4j 3 месяца назад +2

    I remember when this song came out. I was about 13.
    It has always spoke to me. Over the years I would hear it and just go into deep thought.
    My Dad is now at end of life.
    We never got a chance to do the things together that we both thought we would.
    We truly lived the lyrics of this song😢

  • @LegitMan335
    @LegitMan335 4 года назад +115

    To all fathers and sons out there.
    Happy Father’s Day 2020

  • @raphaelsaint-saes6850
    @raphaelsaint-saes6850 4 года назад +32

    It's strange how powerful music can be.

  • @honeywest69
    @honeywest69 6 лет назад +35

    This song is so true , time fly's by . They are young one day and next , they are gone !

  • @AndrewLoukidis-jr2bp
    @AndrewLoukidis-jr2bp 7 месяцев назад +6

    I was teasing my wife singing this after we dropped our son at college
    I can say we always spent time with our son and did a lot together
    But they grow up so fast I wish we had more time where he was young

  • @jerrysstories711
    @jerrysstories711 4 года назад +16

    The week my dad died, this song seemed to be on the radio every hour...

    • @glennrichter7279
      @glennrichter7279 4 года назад +3

      July 15th 2020 he is gone. Miss you dad!

    • @jerrysstories711
      @jerrysstories711 4 года назад +1

      @@glennrichter7279 You mean your dad died just last month? So sorry to hear that. Did this song describe your relationship with him, or does your missing him mean you were you closer than that?

    • @Mr.morale969
      @Mr.morale969 3 года назад +2

      Sorry for your loss❤️

  • @SpankyDizzleD
    @SpankyDizzleD 3 года назад +26

    Man I tear up when I hear this song because I relate so much with my 4 yo daughter and 1 yo son. I work at a concrete plant 6 days a week 14-15 hours a day so I get home and it's time to hit the bed. I don't want my son to be anything like me in that aspect. I just hope he'll at least know I was doing it for them. With a mix of bad diabetes and breaking back work since I was 14 (26 now) I don't think I'll be around for my son to tell me well catch up later.

    • @dustinjef
      @dustinjef 3 года назад +4

      You sons with remember and love you.
      I am a child of divorce and my mother kept me away from my father but even I know how much work my dad did for me. And I love him.

    • @tyrone6486
      @tyrone6486 Год назад +1

      What sacrifice, you’re a better man than most. Your son will recognise it better than you ever can.

  • @brunop11
    @brunop11 3 года назад +12

    This is one of the saddest songs I've ever heard. It always made me think about how much I love my dad though.

  • @sizey8105
    @sizey8105 2 года назад +11

    My son is my best mate. We’ve travelled all over Europe together, we’ve completed the NC500 and we’ve travelled all over Africa. I also brought him up from age 3 when his mum left us. And I couldn’t wish for a better son. I love him with all my heart. He’s 30 years olds now and he has two daughters which mean I have two granddaughters. Thank you Dean. You are and always will be amazing. Love you son xxx

    • @tyrone6486
      @tyrone6486 Год назад +1

      You legend!

    • @tyrone6486
      @tyrone6486 Год назад +1

      ​@@sizey8105 I'm a new father to a an incredible boy. I feel like I've been blessed with my best friend and I love the little guy with everything I have. World needs more men like you. Mate you are a hero to men and fathers out there. Wish you and your son all the best.

  • @jackkintreski842
    @jackkintreski842 2 года назад +30

    My son passed away at the age of 10mo in 1998. This song makes me bawl knowing all the time I have lost being with him. Appreciate your children, but don’t spoil them of course. You want them to do you proud.

  • @janiceyager7897
    @janiceyager7897 2 месяца назад +1

    This song has been my husband and son’s song since forever. He wasn’t this dad-and my son has for so long how dad was always there for him and every milestone. Thank you HC for the song to make us aware!!

  • @siobhandolores
    @siobhandolores Год назад +5

    Always listened to this with my dad. Luckily we have a great relationship. Found out last week I'm having a son and the poignancy of this song is so powerful I find myself crying. Beautiful song.

  • @veronicamoreno3635
    @veronicamoreno3635 3 месяца назад +2

    I loved my dad so much he was there for me always, he is not longer with me but will be with me forever!