I just read “those who guard their mouths and tongues keep themselves from calamity” proverbs 21:23 When it’s been done to you for so long and you have been feeling, as said here, “invisible” and all the other hurt, what are you supposed to do? You have tried everything else. “I want to talk” “That makes one of us” I know 2 wrongs don’t make a right. I’m silent because I don’t know what to say. I’m in so much pain because he’s betrayed me and abandoned me by his silence over the years. Please do a video on when silence is necessary.
when i was there...always present...trying to be part of my family....i was ignored......left out of family events....not informed of health conditions....a baby's birth etc. that was meant for everyone to know ......treated disrespectfully.....used ....then shoved to the side....when i tried to tell them....i was ignored and overlooked when i wanted to have a family meeting...my request was unacknowledged....enough is enough! i am gone!
Using silence is absolutely necessary when dealing with people on the narcissistic spectrum who constantly disturb your peace on purpose. Not everyone deserves to be in a relationship with you or even be in contact with you.
So what if the silence comes after years of emotional abuse and their drug abuse. I've forgiven, still the scars cause me to avoid them. I have been trying to heal from something called CPTSD. It is hard, I'm a Christian so I know that GOD is omnipresent and He omnipotent making Him in charge of our good times, an our worst of bad times, He is in charge of every joy and every trial. He is right there when we fall. It grevies Him when we fail to cry out Jesus save me. He is still there, waiting. No matter what comes this day is a day that the LORD has afforded me i will rejoice and be glad in it. I pray for the LORD Jesus to heal them and me. Scar tissue is painful too.
I just read “those who guard their mouths and tongues keep themselves from calamity” proverbs 21:23
When it’s been done to you for so long and you have been feeling, as said here, “invisible” and all the other hurt, what are you supposed to do? You have tried everything else.
“I want to talk”
“That makes one of us”
I know 2 wrongs don’t make a right. I’m silent because I don’t know what to say. I’m in so much pain because he’s betrayed me and abandoned me by his silence over the years.
Please do a video on when silence is necessary.
It's also a waste of time to tell someone they are being destructively toxic to you. If they don't know that, then it's their problem.
when i was there...always present...trying to be part of my family....i was ignored......left out of family events....not informed of health conditions....a baby's birth etc. that was meant for everyone to know ......treated disrespectfully.....used ....then shoved to the side....when i tried to tell them....i was ignored and overlooked when i wanted to have a family meeting...my request was unacknowledged....enough is enough! i am gone!
Using silence is absolutely necessary when dealing with people on the narcissistic spectrum who constantly disturb your peace on purpose. Not everyone deserves to be in a relationship with you or even be in contact with you.
Amen
So what if the silence comes after years of emotional abuse and their drug abuse. I've forgiven, still the scars cause me to avoid them. I have been trying to heal from something called CPTSD. It is hard, I'm a Christian so I know that GOD is omnipresent and He omnipotent making Him in charge of our good times, an our worst of bad times, He is in charge of every joy and every trial. He is right there when we fall. It grevies Him when we fail to cry out Jesus save me. He is still there, waiting. No matter what comes this day is a day that the LORD has afforded me i will rejoice and be glad in it. I pray for the LORD Jesus to heal them and me. Scar tissue is painful too.
Silence is needed when you have snakes in your life.
Amen