I consider myself extreamly lucky to have 7 healthy kids now but when i lost 4 pregnancies in a row along the way (5 babies because one was twins) it was the absolute pit of despair. Allowing women and families to talk about their experience and what worked for and was right for them at the time gives them an outlet to their feelings and validates the child, hopes, dreams and expectaions that they have lost. Thankyou so much for touching on this difficult topic. Love and peace to all of you xoxo
I feel so sorry for them. I’ve had multiple miscarriages and was diagnosed with Factor II. It’s a clotting disorder that causes my body to form blood clots everywhere and not sustain a pregnancy.
Third! Since everyone else is saying it lol. But I feel so bad for women who have miscarriages. It’s such a mentally damaging thing to go through and it’s sad how many women go through it... but whenever you do have a child it makes you that much more thankful for them. ❤️
Hali Raap - Its so true. I have 2 boys that I love so much. I had a miscarriage ( twins) at 10 weeks. That doc sis not see them as babies but a cells ! Was so angry about that.
She actually has great coping skills! She was able to experience the feelings, had/has insight, can recall, and is healing and able to talk about it. You think avoiding the feelings and self-medicating (with alcohol) is healthier? That's incorrect. Although everyone grieves differently, some ways are healthier than others. Processing the feelings is a very important step to fully healing. They both seem to have coped well and continued on with their lives in a productive way. "The older lady" is parenting a child and had great insight into the role her own grief had on her parenting. That's wonderful
I consider myself extreamly lucky to have 7 healthy kids now but when i lost 4 pregnancies in a row along the way (5 babies because one was twins) it was the absolute pit of despair.
Allowing women and families to talk about their experience and what worked for and was right for them at the time gives them an outlet to their feelings and validates the child, hopes, dreams and expectaions that they have lost. Thankyou so much for touching on this difficult topic. Love and peace to all of you xoxo
I feel so sorry for them. I’ve had multiple miscarriages and was diagnosed with Factor II. It’s a clotting disorder that causes my body to form blood clots everywhere and not sustain a pregnancy.
very helpful at this difficult time
The worst thing someone said to me was my sister “you don’t have any children you can’t give me advice on mine”. I had a stillbirth at 28 weeks..
Third!
Since everyone else is saying it lol.
But I feel so bad for women who have miscarriages. It’s such a mentally damaging thing to go through and it’s sad how many women go through it... but whenever you do have a child it makes you that much more thankful for them. ❤️
Hali Raap - Its so true. I have 2 boys that I love so much.
I had a miscarriage ( twins) at 10 weeks.
That doc sis not see them as babies but a cells !
Was so angry about that.
Miscarriages prove that nature doesn’t want them to have kids , not everyone needs to populate the earth
Fourth.
I'm gonna be honest, I think it's very brave that they're having this frank discussion.
I know, incredible women.
I dont think saying that it easier if u wouldn't of know. I had no idea I was till I wasnt.
I lose my second one
The older lady needs some coping skills! The other lady has a much healthier outlook and coping skills!
Grieving is individual. There is no wrong or right way.
She actually has great coping skills! She was able to experience the feelings, had/has insight, can recall, and is healing and able to talk about it. You think avoiding the feelings and self-medicating (with alcohol) is healthier? That's incorrect. Although everyone grieves differently, some ways are healthier than others. Processing the feelings is a very important step to fully healing. They both seem to have coped well and continued on with their lives in a productive way. "The older lady" is parenting a child and had great insight into the role her own grief had on her parenting. That's wonderful
So just to be clear, these women likely are "pro choice" but sad about miscarriages? Why? If it's only losing a cluster of cells, why do disappointed?
Second!~