She SHAMED Me For Needing Help With My Doll Hobby! Reborn Baby Change And Chat

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  • Опубликовано: 2 ноя 2024

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  • @marshaslumka6328
    @marshaslumka6328 Год назад +3

    Shame on that person!
    Don’t feel bad needing any help with your sight. I am blind in one eye since birth. I’ve had to deal with sight issues.
    God Bless you❤️

  • @kathywelch8722
    @kathywelch8722 Год назад +7

    People that leave rude comments are not happy in their own lives so they want to make others miserable too. I see nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it. It doesn’t matter if you are handicapped or not. ❤️🙏🏻

  • @elizabethprouddolllover641
    @elizabethprouddolllover641 Год назад +3

    This person is clearly someone who probably wouldn't have help for themselves when they need it. You are awesome Tori

  • @vickyschnorbus4166
    @vickyschnorbus4166 Год назад +5

    The person is the one who should be ashamed. Your hobby is your business, not hers. Thank you for your great videos.

  • @minnyandme1085
    @minnyandme1085 Год назад +4

    As a totally blind person myself, I completely understand where you’re coming from. I am so sorry this happened. Like you, I too have been bullied and have had people say unkind things to me as well. I love your channel and your videos. Please don’t let her get you down. Thank you so much for sharing your dolls with us.

  • @ellierfromthebronx4531
    @ellierfromthebronx4531 Год назад +7

    I got a rude comment on my channel...I was doing a video for my doll Rylie's Gotcha/Birthday. I had a piece of birthday cake and a present for her. This person said something in the order of "why don't you get a dog or cat and dress them up instead of playing with dolls". Well, I shot back with an answer of my own and that was the end of that. People can be so rude. I think I blocked them as well.

  • @julieannemichelle
    @julieannemichelle Год назад +7

    Tori, never feel ashamed of being legally blind, please. As you know I was born legally blind due to my albinism. If your hubby is thoughtful enough to help you are very blessed. I went through major humiliation in 12 years attending a Catholic school.
    This was in the 60’s and 70’s when there was no assistance for me and I struggled with no help. They didn’t know what to do with me.
    My vision is the same. If I put a dark object on a dark surface, forget it! I can’t see it!!
    There are times that are a bit better moments and sometimes not. So I completely understand.
    I think you’re amazing!

  • @betterthinktwice9944
    @betterthinktwice9944 Год назад +2

    As the saying goes: "What u think of me is none of my business." People see thru their own experience, their own wounds, their own presuppositions... What they say, & how they say it, is more about them than you.

  • @corrinemike8185
    @corrinemike8185 Год назад +4

    No shame. I have fibromyalgia. I had to have my adult son help me slicing the eye socket inside the head...didn't have enough hand strength. You do what you can and God bless people that help us!

  • @Raych-
    @Raych- Год назад +2

    Hey I love your channel. I’m a blind mamma of 5 and I have a couple reborns too. One way I match clothes is to cut labels out of the dark items and leave the labels in the light items. I always roll socks up with onesies and if an outfit is specific to certain items, (a pair of flowery pants that has a matching top) for example, then I roll them together or safety pin them together. So yeah, the initial purchase takes a bit of effort to get the system to work, but once you’ve had that sighted help then it should work going forward. With regards to hair accessories, I hook hair ties over the hanger hook or I roll them inside the socks. I hope this helps x

  • @4444gizmo
    @4444gizmo Год назад +3

    Such a weird comment!! I am so sorry you felt "shame" for having needed help. You don't need to explain why you needed help, please don't let this person make you feel badly. Everyone needs help for something at some point. I have my hubby help me with lots of stuff!! I am banned from using glue around reborns as I dropped glue on them TWICE almost ruining them 😬 I bet you help your hubby with many things as well, we all do the best we can!! I have a Gouchin too and I agree about the whole tummy looking best in looser clothes. What is in her arms? I put armatures in mine but not sure I like them. You are AWESOME!!
    Simone xo

  • @AGShadowdancer
    @AGShadowdancer Год назад +5

    Nothing to feel ashamed of. You have an amazing husband! He is a wonderful person. God has watched over you and your family. He is a good man, father and husband. You have many talents! I am sorry about the situation with your eyes. It’s ok to ask for help. Those who love and care for you want to help you and see you happy with all you do! You are also a great mother and wife! Just remember those of us who truly care about you understand and want you to have all the help you need! God bless you! I have been here for many years and love your channel! It’s no one’s business who helps you or not! My sisters husband has been helping her with lots of things, including the children. Take care of yourself. Don’t worry about any negative remarks.

  • @Emilydolly12345
    @Emilydolly12345 Год назад +2

    I so agree that you should never be ashamed to ask for help, we all need it sometimes! You do such a great job with this channel on top of having three little ones so of course there are going to be times when you need help! And you do all of that on top of having a vision deficit! You should get an award!

  • @lucyszoocrew6037
    @lucyszoocrew6037 Год назад +10

    We all have things we arent so good at. I can't hear most the time even with my hearing aides and I've tried to let people who watch my videos understand that I watch theirs but usually with the captions on if it's available. No reason to be ashamed at all. I'm sorry someone made you feel that way especially since this is such a beautiful hobby where we should be lifting up the sisterhood instead of condemning. This baby is on my bucket list of babies. She's so darn cute. Happy Friday

    • @allmytinywondersnursery180
      @allmytinywondersnursery180 8 месяцев назад

      My brother is deaf. We have always had caption in our house along with the tty’s. Video phone is so much nicer for you all.

  • @DollsInTheCradle
    @DollsInTheCradle Год назад +10

    I am sorry that happened to you. This person, of course, should have never even said that whether you are blind or not. Because you are blind, that makes the comment even worse, as after you explained, she went trolling through your channel until you had to block her. We all need help and there is nothing wrong with that. I need help with several things in my life. hugs.

  • @crochetcate777
    @crochetcate777 Год назад +3

    Oh my goodness!!! What does it even matter that he helped you??? Maybe some jealousy there on her part because you have a kind and supportive spouse. Regardless, I think you’re phenomenal! You’re raising living kiddos, dealing with a disability that can be pretty debilitating at times AND have an amazing dolly channel ❤
    I’m thoroughly impressed and inspired by you. You may be young enough to be my daughter, but that doesn’t mean I can’t learn from and take great inspiration from you.
    Keep on rocking your life my friend! You got this 💜

  • @leidaarley4615
    @leidaarley4615 Год назад

    PEOPLE LIKE THAT NEED TO GET A LIFE. DO NOT LET NO ONE GET YOU DOWN YOU ARE SO BLESS AND A SWEET HEART . MAY GOD BLESS YOU ALWAYS. SHE IS THE ONE TO BE ASHAMED. AND MAY GOD FOR GIVE HER AND PEOPLE LIKE HER SOME DAY .

  • @shannonstephens2301
    @shannonstephens2301 Год назад +2

    Tori, I’m proud of you for not letting it get to you as much as it did or could have. I’m legally blind as well and it’s difficult to ask for help and feeling shame for asking. Help is not a good thing. Don’t let the trolls get you down.

  • @toryberch
    @toryberch Год назад +1

    Hi Tori it's another Tory saying Hi 👋👋
    I was at the store yesterday with my daughter and a close friend who is blind. I have Parkinson's and walk slower so I was watching a blind woman at age 72 outwalk me a woman of 58 ha ha 😂🤣🤣
    We are living in a time of no natural affection. Some people get an emotional high on kicking nice people and making them feel less. Don't let them have that kind of power over you.

  • @wendymckee5230
    @wendymckee5230 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry this happened to you. This person, whether she will admit it or not, either has needed or will need help at some point in her life as well. We all do. I am so glad your husband is willing to help you with your hobby. Mine is as well. A lot of people just don’t have the same love for this hobby that some of us do, so needing help modifying a doll might seem silly to them. I enjoy your videos, so you just keep having fun with your hobby, and don’t let anyone make you feel ashamed for it.

  • @Heavenlybabies
    @Heavenlybabies Год назад +2

    Awe she’s so pretty…I have this same sculpt because I love it first off but 2 I couldn’t believe when I seen this baby on peoples channels and how much it looked identical to one of my brothers when they were a baby so I had to get my hands on one that was the perfect match hair wise and eyes that looked exactly like my brother and I found one on reborns and I just love this sculpt too. Such a beautiful baby. I named it after my brother since it looks just like him. Honey looked so pretty in her fall happy outfit ❤ I’m sorry about that mean and rude comment someone made about you needed help. It’s so sad how people are. I’ve watched so many of your videos and I love watching you. Sorry I don’t comment much but I will. Love all your babies. God bless hun ❤

  • @limabean13
    @limabean13 Год назад +1

    There's nothing wrong with needing help, we all do sometimes. I have multiple sclerosis, and so..... I love your channel, you're so awesome.
    ❤❤❤
    P.S. I also altered a Berenguer baby, giving him a cloth body, and I didn't do that well - that vinyl is really hard to cut.

  • @lindad1195
    @lindad1195 Год назад +3

    You have to ignore people and comments like that because it just isn’t worth your time and energy. Why would you do it by yourself if you have someone that can help you and make it easier? My husband used to help me all the time when I was reborning dolls. I agree you shouldn’t be using sharp tools with your vision problems. Most likely this person was just jealous that you have a husband who helps you.

  • @littlehoneybumsdollnurse4298
    @littlehoneybumsdollnurse4298 Год назад +1

    There is no reason for you to feel ashamed! That was a very ignorant comment from that person! And kudos to your hubby! 💕🌷🎁

  • @AGShadowdancer
    @AGShadowdancer Год назад +1

    I absolutely love Honey! Thanks for the video! Cute pumpkin!

  • @123SMarshall
    @123SMarshall Год назад +1

    Hi - I would just like to say that the person who posted that comment had no right to say what she said. She had no right to judge or be critical because everyone has their own challenges they deal with daily that the next person is not aware of and why it is the way it is.
    I’ve followed your channel for a few years and keep doing what you are doing as a lot of people find the videos relaxing and calming. I know I do…😊🌺

  • @khayil
    @khayil 6 месяцев назад +1

    Outfit is really cute on baby! Some ppl are just haters and you did right to block them 🥰💖

  • @anne-mayslovelyplace
    @anne-mayslovelyplace Год назад +2

    Hi Tori 🙋🏼‍♀️💜,
    I think you can be very proud of yourself (in the good way), and I'm glad that you do realize to be so thankful for your dear husband.💞
    I think such comments tell more about the other person, and defenitely nothing about you.
    Thanks for sharing. I'm proud of you!😉
    We all need help from eachother❣️💕🤗💞
    Wishing you many blessings ❗🙏🏻❤️
    With love 😘, Annette

  • @MaryWeaver-zy9tl
    @MaryWeaver-zy9tl Год назад +2

    So sorry you also get negative or rude comments. So many of the RUclips videos I watched this past week are going through the same thing! I can't believe people are so mean!! Just remember those that enjoy your work u put into your videos mean a lot to us❤❤ and we love watching your babies!! Keep being you, ❤ she looks very sweet in her new little outfit!!

  • @danasummers2817
    @danasummers2817 11 месяцев назад

    I can’t imagine someone being so unhappy that they would feel the need to criticize you for something like that! Just brush it off and know that person is probably miserable with themselves! ❤

  • @sunnysophie5065
    @sunnysophie5065 Год назад

    That is very rude and you shouldn't be ashamed! That was sweet of your husband and he seems great. That could have been dangerous and they should not have commented that. Please don't feel bad .❤❤❤

  • @annk.8563
    @annk.8563 Год назад +1

    What a sweet baby!

  • @shellydragoon1210
    @shellydragoon1210 Год назад

    They are just jealous of how talented you are to be able to still do this stuff even with a disability

  • @didismith7682
    @didismith7682 Год назад

    why do ppl have to say anything discouraging like that? just don't say anything and you have a choice as to what you watch so if you cant be encouraging dont watch or speak. I'm sick of negative ppl, I'm rooting them out of my life, all they do is hurt others and bring them down. I've put up with a lot of that in my life thinking well maybe they'll change but I've realized over time that they're just selfish jealous or miserable and I pray for them from afar but I don't feel bad putting them out. block them you don't need ppl like that in your life. thanks for sharing your experience, put it out of your mind and heart, you're important and loved just as you are. God loves you, He made you special. blessingsfrom Indiana ♥️

  • @maryebert3884
    @maryebert3884 Год назад

    I'm starting to get stressed and I got permission from the day hab and I have Aston Drake., a faux reborn, and now I found a reborn that fits my budget. I am in a wheelchair and suffer anxiety that worsens as I age. I'm glad you have the help you need. it gives me hope

  • @patriciasdollydreamz6569
    @patriciasdollydreamz6569 Год назад

    She’s beautiful ❤❤❤❤ Hold your head up high❤❤❤❤

  • @marymckibbin6221
    @marymckibbin6221 Год назад

    Im so sorry someone said something so horrible. Everyone needs help with something! You being legally blind makes it so much worse .you should never ever feel ashamed of anything ! People can be so rude no so ignorant! You have accomplished so much in life be proud of yourself never ashamed!

  • @Rainbowfieldbabies
    @Rainbowfieldbabies 15 дней назад

    Thats so rude to be a troll on the Internet. Tori honey dont even give that lady a thought. Honey you are a blessing to the people around you God love you!

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад +2

    I want one that eats and drinks and takes medication

  • @michellelewis5345
    @michellelewis5345 Год назад

    Hello Tori🥰, no need to be Ashamed wenn you need help! I'm on the same boat! I'm also blind with Retinis Pigmentosa! Just light perception trough a keyhole on my right eye, the left one is completely blind! So of course sometimes i need help! I used to be ashamed asking for help wenn I was starting to use awhite cane to navigate! Now I learned that I do kneed the help of sighted people sometimes! and nothing to be ashamed off! It's the way it it wenn you can't fully access the sighted world!😂, let's ask those mean people to do our every day tasks blindfolded🤣,and see how they manage?😂🥰xxx

  • @allmytinywondersnursery180
    @allmytinywondersnursery180 8 месяцев назад

    People are stupid. I am disabled. My back was fractured and now a disc sets on my sciatic nerve. No one understands unless it happens to them. I am a firm believer that everyone gets their comeuppins. I have had so many eye surgeries. Cataracts when I was 32. 3 detached retnas. 1 cryo surgery and twice my lens slipped. Once it went behind my eye. The silicone they put in had to be removed due to allergy to it. Stitches pushed their way out instead of dissolving. Once my pressure in one eye went to 52 because I was allergic to the gel they set the lenses in with. I am extremely blessed that my vision is good. Pay no attention to those people. You have a husband who loves you, beautiful children and a great hobby you enjoy. So enjoy.

  • @tinakarambelas3350
    @tinakarambelas3350 2 месяца назад

    You do such an incredible job!

  • @katarinahrling8561
    @katarinahrling8561 9 месяцев назад

    Don't ever be ashamed of something that is not your fault, what a troll to say something like that. And no no-one should ever be a shame for needing help. It just shows you how much your husband loves you and are there for you when you need him. So you should never apologise for something that isn't your fault, the person telling you that is the one who should apologise. ❤

  • @dorothygarcia2011
    @dorothygarcia2011 3 месяца назад

    Tori, your amazing and dont feel bad ialso need help iam diabetic and have neuropathy i just feel horrible for you people are mean and my hubby helps me also ! Keep shining 🌟 n

  • @bundlesofjoy83
    @bundlesofjoy83 Год назад

    That person made a very silly comment!
    I m not legally blind but i would still probably need help to cut vinyl, etc…
    Nobody should feel ashamed for needing help nor having a disability, it’s totally fine!
    I think this topic hits close to home somehow cause with Lucas having a disability and needing help for so many things, it would break my heart if anybody would make fun of him or would try to shame him for that…
    Honey is looking adorable in that outfit!

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад +1

    I love your channel I hope to be a reborn mom

  • @SeaCheles.Love.4
    @SeaCheles.Love.4 Год назад

    I am practicing with clay babies of all sizes. I have health issues also and it’s challenging some days. Don’t let people do this to you… ignorance is everywhere.❤😊

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад +1

    I love her

  • @jamariacaston
    @jamariacaston Год назад

    I'm so sorry that happened 😢😢

  • @alanalynk8067
    @alanalynk8067 Год назад

    The person that should feel ashamed is the person who left that comment! That is a whole new level of rude! You’re lucky to have a husband that will help you decide what works well together ( he does a great job, by the way ). My husband thinks anything and everything goes together! My babies would end up looking like clowns 😂. I would ask my husband for that kind of help too! As a matter of fact, he is the one that replaces my zip ties because I’m just not confident in doing them. I’m afraid I would slip and cut the vinyl. I’m a non driver as well…the world is safer that way 😂😂

  • @SeaCheles.Love.4
    @SeaCheles.Love.4 Год назад

    Honeys a cutie pie…❤

  • @EllieNetherway-s8x
    @EllieNetherway-s8x 11 месяцев назад

    I’m so sorry if your different it doesn’t matter your special If I saw that comment I would of said if you don’t like this video then don’t watch it It doesn’t matter if your different your unique ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheBabyPatch
    @TheBabyPatch 6 месяцев назад

    I actually had an artist share my video and tried to shame me because I had to pay to have mine redone the right way, after paying thousands for it. I’m a collector. Not an artist. I had already paid good money to have it done the right way. I shouldn’t have to know how to do it myself if I’ve already paid to have it done. I’m sorry someone would say that to you. It says more about what kind of person they are and shouldn’t have anything to do with you ❤️

  • @aidamojica2275
    @aidamojica2275 Год назад

    Hi I don't have a chanal but I love seeing reborn video your baby is pretty

  • @TinaWalters-d1e
    @TinaWalters-d1e 7 месяцев назад

    I know how you feel I am not able to have kids so I love taking my reborn dolls and I have been called crazy stupid and even had people point and laugh at me and I have had people be a shamed of me for taking my dolls out and take them to the stores

  • @Auntie_Nellie
    @Auntie_Nellie Год назад

    Sounds like that was a lonely person who wished had a supportive husband. But I won’t be petty. I was not aware that you are legally blind but that makes no difference if your heart is pure. Continue sharing your light. ❤love the outfit.

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад +2

    You shouldn’t be ashamed

  • @melissaslegallyblindworld
    @melissaslegallyblindworld Месяц назад

    No Shame in requesting assistance for yourself, I too am legally blind. I can't see sharp/deep details. My acuity is 20/200 in my right eye and totally blind in my left, so I totally understand as granted you never want to put a blade 2cm from your face ever. Don't be ashamed you make the right choice in asking help. For me I'm always safety first. I may not paint dolls but I have 3, 2 human and one Avatar Na'vi baby. Just wanted to give some encouragement, legally blind to legally blind. I'm also a big Star Trek, Star Wars, and Avatar fan (the one with the blue Na'vi).

  • @bettypatrick8955
    @bettypatrick8955 Год назад

    How much are your reborns

  • @veronicaslawski7676
    @veronicaslawski7676 Год назад

    People are so rude.😢

  • @sarawilson7777
    @sarawilson7777 10 месяцев назад

    Is there a reborn site sell kits like that one I love the baby u got she so beautiful

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад

    I❤ your videos

  • @RachelMountz
    @RachelMountz Год назад

    Don’t listen to that that’s rude

  • @jamariacaston
    @jamariacaston Год назад

    🥹

  • @Chloe1670
    @Chloe1670 Год назад

    At least be more gentle😬
    No need to grab the face and push on the doll like that. There are other ways of nicely positioning them.

  • @KitstoKradlesNursery
    @KitstoKradlesNursery Год назад

    I just love the TROLLS! 🧌 That statement was definitely more of a reflection on her, than you. So sorry she triggered you. ❤

  • @belindasbabies
    @belindasbabies Год назад

    No shame is needed. The issue is with the other person - not you or your channel.