How Two Years of Solitude Changed Me!
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- Опубликовано: 28 сен 2022
- How Two Years of Solitude Changed Me!
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Obviously like so many other people I never ever had any idea of what you have been through. Haven't watched yr content 4 a few years but I'm so glad and grateful I came across yr channel today. U have definitely been blessed with wisdom which cannot be bought. Admire you and all of yr wise words. God blsss u and yr family. I'm looking forward to watching your videos xx
You know, I’m 37 and to tell you the truth, my only friends are my close family. I don’t even keep in contact with any of my relatives. Sorry, I don’t trust people any more. They gossip. Their words hurt. They don’t fulfill their word. Being in solitude is the best way to be. Sorry not sorry. 🤷♀️
I relate to this so much!
I have to agree.
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Same. I completely have not communicated with relatives because of their toxicity and backstabbing ways.
Same here
the timing of this is absolutely insane. i’m doing so much inner work right now to heal and have been feeling guilty the past few days for isolating myself to focus on improving my quality of life. thank you so much for this! it’s comforting to know though im working alone right now, im not the only one walking on this path ❤❤
First, I’d like to say it was really nice to see you again and see that you are doing well. I’m in that part of my life where my trauma throughout my life has definitely made it difficult for me to function and live a truly happy life. I don’t see myself necessarily as a victim, but I don’t trust anyone and it hurts so much. I have to constantly fight this war in my head and it’s so exhausting. It’s really hard to see my true value, I can’t explain it but I thought that I would be in a better place mentally as I got older and it feels as though it got worse. I’m trying to find a place to start this healing process because I can’t live like this anymore. I know exactly what you were saying throughout the video and I’m very happy that you’ve gotten to a place of healing and peace.
I feel exactly like this... I feel like I am alone in this world
This was a word...I identified with what you said. I will say once you get to a place of learning yourself and your ok with being alone and the holy spirit. You become more centered. I wish you the best..and pray you get all you want in your life.
Blessings 🙏🏾
I know what you mean!! But don’t worry too much about it, what helped me to change and trust others is to become the friend, sister, neighbor I would love to meet/ have. Life does get better, just live simple and find joy in everything.
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I am about to turn 24 in a couple weeks and it will once again, be a lonely birthday. I graduated college a year and a half ago, I have had basically zero friends since then (I never really felt like I had real friends, anyway) and my slightly dysfunctional family lives in another city. I went through the toughest breakup, and have been having trouble adjusting to this new era of my life.
I developed anxiety and depression and sometimes have a blast by myself but others have a breakdown when my current boyfriend does not spend time with me to focus on his hobby (video games).
I need to step up and stop feeling sorry for myself, and most importantly, understand that it is okay to be alone. The way to not feel lonely is to be at peace with myself.
THANK YOU so much for this video, I learned a lot and it was what I needed to hear! 💕Stumbling across it was a wake up call.
I hope you have the best 24th Birthday Girly!!
You’re never alone even if you only have yourself 🖤 Believe me, there are still great, real people out there who you’ll meet & become friends with & be on the same level. Hope you had an awesome 24th birthday!!
Girl you ATE with this topic, Ive been on a healing journey myself for 2yrs as well, and you can just see the growth and certainty in you! & I was able to write out affirmations for myself as you were speaking & what you were saying✨why am I barely finding your other channel now ill be binge watching all weekend lol
These past 2 and a half years have been a lesson for billions worldwide. People have either became more stronger or colder. The amount of trials and tribulations, people showing their true colors, learning news things in life.
It's good that you've kept yourself to yourself and surround yourself with the ones who matter most to you and really do care about you, because a lot of people don't even want to go near anybody and are bugged out due to covid.
And yes it's never good to be too dependent on other people because human beings will let you down but the most high never let's you down and shows you signs and signals on how to maneuver out there. Because the majority of people nowadays are full of crap...so you don't need to rely on anyone but yourself really and truly. The spiritual warfare is real and we are living in spooky times right now.
Remain on your current path and keep growing. Bless!
Lone wolf season for sure it’s been 1 year for me. It’s been the best thing for me to be honest! Once I went high in my faith and was obedient to God, everything went haywire. But I can stand the fire 🔥. It’s character building!
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This is a fresh perspective on a topic that doesn’t get discussed enough. There is beauty in self-discovery, self-awareness, and self acceptance. Patience and time allows us to foster all those pillars. Thank you for sharing your light with us on this topic.
Thank you Dulce for this video! Today I was feeling rather down, that all of my “friends” only like me for the money or presents I give them or the rides I give them. I felt so used and this video was very validating and made me have Godly peace. May Jesus continue to bless your family!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
so happy to have you back Dulce! we’ve missed you 🫶🏼
I truly feel like we grew up together because I’ve been following you for the longest. I’m so happy for you and your growth! You’re on the right path!
This video was such amazing timing for me. I definitely needed to hear this. It’s exciting to see this community you built building their character too. God is turning us into diamonds individually but still together. Thank you for being vulnerable and open with us so we can see your growth; and see how necessary and beautiful it is to continue to grow as an adult.
DITTO !!!
Your presence and words soothed my soul 🙏🏽 missed you girl 💗
The switch from being the victim to being the survivor is #1 way I've learned to release those traumas that controlled a good portion of my life. Dulce's out here preaching and I'm here for it! Great message and you look gorgeous.
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Truly happy you are back I had been thinking recently of when you would post again. I’m so happy your sharing your knowledge your words are what I needed to hear 🌻
Amazing. You are glowing. You are definitely on the right path. So happy for you.
hi Dulceee!! I began watching you years ago when you had a fashion blog. I remember that in my core memory.
you look gorgeous
You have no idea how much I needed this. I just found you literally 10 minutes ago, watched your last video then checked for a new one like waittt… and boom. It’s so crazy. You’re incredible, prayers, and on a similar journey. Needed this
Dulce is started watching you right after I joined the Army which was right around the time I believe got out. I’ve been able to relate to some of your videos over the years but THIS ONE! Wow the timing I tell you… we are all on a journey called life. Best of luck with everything!
So happy you’re back and have so much insight to share. Life is not easy and we’re here with a purpose that sometimes is a struggle to commit to. You have a whole new aspect that I wouldn’t have thought about had I not watched this video. Thank you 😍
Girl, this resonates so much with me. I am one to always think about other people’s futures before mine. And I have so many dreams, wants, ambitions. I don’t put enough time and energy into my future. I think it’s my era to start and focus on me and my future, and my business, and my passions. Just had to share. Thank you for sharing 💚
I wish my family would understand that I need time away from them. They have been relying on me too much and they don’t understand I need time and space to heal from some traumatic experience I’ve been going through for the past few years. Also I’m currently on social media detox and this showed me who actually cares about me. Thank you for this video 💕
It’s been two years for me since I’ve had my daughter. I just feel like there are things that are important to me in regards to building the life I need for me and my daughter and I just need to focus
I love the place that your in. This is right on time for and I’m glad that you have had these experiences because as you reflecting on your time of solitude, I am entering mine. Your words are comforting.
Mijita wow! This was such a good video. You spoke to my soul with this. Can’t wait to see what other wise words you have for us. Happy to see you blooming 🌹
I missed u. we've missed u! but most importantly I'm glad u took time to take care of ur mental heath. the selfish in me would want to see more of u but the understanding part of me understands that perhaps u need more time with ur loved ones. thank u for being a part of my online life for the past 10+ years
Thank you for this Dulce, been going through hell… I needed this 🙏🏻
We missed you Dulce Candy. Please keep publishing ❤❤
There is no other video on RUclips that has resonated with my soul so much. You put my thoughts into words in the most graceful way! I needed this. Thank you, Dulce! Sending you love forever & always :)
Love this so much growth, soul and faith. I felt this and experienced it. 🙌🏼🙏🏼💖
Wow, Dulce. You're on a whole 'nother level. Thank you for reminding us to focus on developing our character through solitude, reflection and reading. I have so much to learn from you! ❤
This came at the perfect time! Thank you and congratulations on all your growth!
Miss you Dulce 🥰 Thank you for this video! Sending love!
Same, I’ve stayed away from all the alcoholics in my family. It’s lonely but it’s peaceful.
So thankful that I watched this today. I needed to hear these words. This all resonated with me so much ❤
WoW, it’s crazzzy how much I can relate to this. Even to the point where my son is also 2.5 yrs old and I haven’t seen anyone since…I’ve just needed solitude to figure myself out… I feel I’ve lost many ppl on the way but it’s sooo hard explain w/o ppl thinking it’s about them. It’s never been about them but within myself. Thank you Candy for sharing this. I understand you.
Sometimes you need to listen to and pay attention to the message life has for you and that's what just happened to me watching this video.
I haven't came across with a video if yours in a long time tbh and everytime I do I get the lesson I need it to had. I remember when you talked about "energy vampires" or something like that and I swear it was one of the most eye opening things I've learned in my life. Thank you for always speaking from your heart, self love and honesty.
I can imagine as a successful youtuber and someone who has wealth alot of people will want to be around you for the perks and money and maybe even family members. I think doing your inner work and centering yourself is amazing! 🙌 its not a quick fix. The fact that you took this time is so beautiful! ❤ I've been feeling alot of chaos in my life and my mental health is definitely suffering. I was in the hospital for a week this month with a bad kidney infection and I had this awakening and I want to assess every aspect of my life. I am not were I want to be and this video just gave me some more insight on my journey! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings! 🙏 I hope you get to were you want to be and keep sharing!💕
Wow! This was soooo beautiful! ❤ gracias
Thank you for sharing this .
I am currently going down this path now at 37, Finding Christ again, focusing on my husband and my children, mostly, focusing on myself, my needs, my wants, enrolled in nursing school. Following my dreams, it does take focus! You’re right!
Love this video Dulce! Please do more of this kind of video. I needed to hear this❤️
You should be a motivational speaker honestly. For me I am 37 and trying to find myself and also as you stated automatically critiquing everyone around me. I want so bad to be in this position as you are and truly exhausted trying to navigate through this journey of trying to find myself and move past what had happened in my life.
Thank you so much Dulce, you’ve helped me a lot changing my feeling and focussing only on me, my family and my true friends.
This video and topic came right on time! Thank you! 🙏🏾💕
I agree girl I’m going through the same thing txs for sharing ❤
Dulce, you are the first channel I ever followed on this platform. It’s good to see you again but it’s devine timing that you’re bringing this message. Time alone is so important and after years of trying to be everything for everybody, I’ve finally taken steps towards solitude. I’ve always craved it but was never strong enough to implement it. Guilt being the main emotion that held me back. But I have to do this. I’m not treating myself correctly and in return, I’m not treating others correctly. Blessings to everyone who’s on their own healing journeys. We got this❤️
Amen to that!
Love watching you dulce! your videos always make me feel better and always teach me something
Thank you, I definitely needed to listen to this at this point in my life. 🥰🙏🏻
I’ve been offline since 2017, not even my friends/fam know I had a second son.
Nice to see you online again 💕
I self imposed my lone wolf era after my mom died. I was forged in the fire and that's where I met myself. I survived the dark night of the soul and I feel powerful!
That's exactly what I'm going through right now, exactly what I'm doing and feeling, please share more with us! 🙏🏼❤️
*So happy to see your beautiful face! It’s funny, I was thinking about you the other day. How’s the family doing? I hope you’ll be making regular content again.* ❤
Thinking all the time i needed to have friends to do things… and when people stopped showing up for me that’s when I realized it was time to put myself first and stopped worrying about being alone, it’s okay to live the life you dream of, alone… there’s no book or rules that say that you have to achieve your goals with someone by your side (a partner, friend, family etc..) you are enough for you. Don’t loose yourself trying to find and be there for someone…
You’re a beautiful soul.💜
Wow! I can't believe I can relate to this so much! I'm glad your back.. God bless you!
For me, I would say my lone wolf era started right around when my dad died (2019) and right after the pandemic. I moved back home after finishing my masters and I was in a really dark place. When I got my current job, I realized that I had closed myself off from every man because of a heartbreak I went through in high school (Before this guy and I had our falling out which resulted in him blocking me on social media for 3 years; he told me that I was too clingy and that I came on too strong). I’m trying to trust men again but it’s hard because mostly hurt boys bullied me and I had male teachers who were emotionally abusive towards me
Thank you for this... I too did the same things with friends and it took me so long to identify why. Still learning and navigating the way of it.
I just love you, Dulce. I resonate deeply with you.
Thank you for this video ❤❤❤
loved this message dulce 👏🏽
So funny that I thought about you today, I had no idea you were out for a year. You look so mature and serious. I like it, might come back regularly. Your words resonate with me. Thank you.
You cracked the code. New life has begun
Yes! Now what … that’s something I need to let sink way down … it’s like they say … it happened, it sucks, we learned… in spite of it all ‘we move’ .
Wow this was right on time! I've always loved your chanel. Thanks for the inspiration ❤️
It’s sweet to see you back! You were one of the first channels I ever watched as a teenager!
It sounds like you’ve come to so many deep realizations through your time away. I felt led in my spirit to share this with you with love:
The law of attraction makes us out to be the sovereign party over our life. This is a burden too great for any person.
If the law of attraction is true, then if anything ill befalls you, it implies that you attracted it, deserved it (karma), or failed at manifesting a better reality for yourself. It also means that the mistakes you make hinder your own ascension. What a heavy burden to bear.
Jesus said in Matthew 11, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
What he was saying is that you don’t have to be good enough to earn salvation and fellowship with God. You don’t have manifest it or be a good enough person. He was good enough for you. He lived the life we never could, died the death that we deserved, and rose again so that we might believe in His goodness to make us right with God. He took our burden away and promised that whatever comes our way isn’t a result of our manifestation or karma, but because it is ultimately for our discipline and good (Heb 12:11 and Romans 8:28-29).
Praying for your spiritual journey.
Love this ❤
Hii Dulce,
I have been a subscriber for years..TBH I haven't seen ur videos is a very long time but I'm glad I found this video. I have been going through so much. I lost both of my parents and life has truly challenge me since then. But I completely agree I had to take time to myself and I fell in love with me and im learning so much about myself.
Thank you for this video 💞
I needed this. Thank you Dulce. Sending love from afar. ❤️
Thank you soo much Dulce for Sharing this video. I really needed to hear this 🙏🏼🙏🏼 ❤
Te ves súper bonita! I love the eye makeup. I wish I knew what you’re using.
Amazingly said 👏
Thank you Dulce!!! Needed this 🫶🏽
wow i can relate to everything your saying in this video and i appreciate your vulnerability💛
I'd love to know how your husband has supported you on this healing journey? Has he gone through his own journey?
Miss u doing makeup girl!
👍 video. I am working on trying to do things different, but living with relatives for quite a while (I was living on my own beforehand boy do I miss those days) and not in my own place makes it difficult because one has to be social or put on a happy face on other people term instead of mine on top of being a 7 year breast cancer survivor it can difficult. As for friendships outside of the cancer support group; I am grateful for a couple of childhood friends, and college friends I reconnect with through social media. Prior to the pandemic we got together so a much needed reunion . Beyond that making connection with people is hard especially when I value my mental health now as a priority, and not surround myself with people that are draining one’s energy. Yes solitude at times is needed as a recharge will working in my goals to live on my own once again.
Very well said!! ❤ it.
You such an inspiration thank you
My first subscription back in 2009
Needed this❤
Wow, you have so much wisdom that only comes through life experiences.
I’ve been lone wolf for two years too omg this is a sign from god that I made right decision
literally amazing. I am in the same place as you but a a lot older. People are shit, but there are a few good ones out there. Life is such a struggle right now but by helping each other we will get there xxxx
This video has changed my life ❤️ Thank you ❤️
"The best thinking has been done in solitude." -Thomas Edison
David’s passing was so suddenly and unexpected. He was so funny and also yet so wise. He will be forever be missed. Congratulations on your break through and healing. God is so good and will never leave you. I understand exactly what you shared. I have been there.
The growth is serious. 👍❤️
LOVE
I like that “ I fade away, I don’t burn bridges “,
Bless u. It's never easy no mather what age we r. I LOVE LIFE!!!
Wow thank you for this video Dulce 😃
random question but what do you recommend to do with pictures? Like if you have tons of photos of your life and a lot of those memories are with the ex best friend who eventually hurt you, or the ex relationships that you spent a lot of your life with? Do you just delete them all?
I would day do what your hear wants to. There's nothing wrong with either.
Lol I get that a lot. I’m very picky with my friends. So when ppl 1st meet me they think I’m a bîtch just bc I didn’t talk to them. But it’s not that I usually stand back and see how people are. How they genuinely think and feel. And move accordingly. If they are genuine I show them my true self and they always say you’re so chill or cool or funny. And they didn’t think I was like that. I protect my energy. I feel alone and honestly there’s times that are harder than others. And some days I see my full potential. Please share some tips on how you started this process. I’m currently in it. Rn I’m focusing on being a better me for my kids! Being honest with myself and accepting the way I am. While working on my negative traits. I know God has a plan for me and my life. Im seeking his guidance ❤❤
When a hater is comfortable enough to talk shit about you around your "friend" its a red flag🚩🚩especially if the hater & your friend are still cool after said conversation. It means that your "friend" didn't stand up for you AND to get your hater comfortable enough to talk about you in front of them, your "friend" probably said shady shit about you too😒
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I’m 32 years old and I don’t have any friends 😢 only people I know from church . My husband is my best friend and basically my mom
you are right Dulce.