This clip really spoke to me. All my life I've wanted to sing but had people put their limitation on me. I've lived my life believing maybe I should find an easier dream career. After watching this video I am declaring I will become an international singer. Thanks Steve!
orijinale and put work towards it , stay on it. The key is dedication and progression an hard work along with having faith in your own abilities. You just telling your self that you can do this its all about putting in the work and staying on it and making sure this is some that you really want.
This really brought tears to my eyes.. Some people have a way of stomping on other people's dreams just because it doesn't seem possible or realistic to them and truth be told, I cannot stand these kinds of people.. Turtles trying to comment on giraffes, when the giraffes worldview is at the tree top, and the turtle can't see more than the ground.. Don't ever underestimate anyone's ability to do or be something great.. And if you do not agree with them, at the least keep your discouraging comments to yourself and simply wish them the best.. God has a way of using the ones that society has ruled out, and using them beyond anything your hater's would have ever imagined.. We live in a world of followers, everyone wanting to be like what they have already seen. What they think is possible based on what they have been exposed to. But God gives you those impossible dreams and desires for a reason. Don't let the haters or crab's in the bucket pull you down, or force you to forfeit your true potential. You too were created for greatness, don't be a follower. I once heard a saying that small minded people are the ones that tell you that you cannot do something, but the greats are the ones that encourage you and tell you that you can also be great.. Isn't that the truth.. (Glad you made it Mr. Harvey :)
When I was in 6th grade, I had some free time in one of my classes so I was scribbling random things that didn't look good. My teacher saw it and commented "I hope you don't plan to be an artist" and scoffed at me. Little did she know I actually am very artistic. Im now 31 years old and sell my graphic art files every single day on etsy. People all over the country want my art for various projects they are doing... so, yeah. I wish I could find that teacher and tell her about it.
Great father for saying what he did & your mom for supporting. When you got on TV that teacher probably put her head in her hands and knew the words she told you were a big mistake. You are a wonderful person. I love listening to you. Full of food advice & very, very funny.
Oh my god, teachers have so much power over their students, either you build them or tear them down. So sad I encountered lots of teachers who did the latter as Steve experienced. And the same as Steve's dad, my dad took me out of that kind of school right away. He told me on the way to new school that no school should tear his kid's potential down. On that day, walking after my dad's footstep to the principal's room of new school I knew this man just believed in me and he would protect my dream no matter what.
I love watching Steve Harvey & listening to him for all of his REAL TALK and down to earth communication with wisdom that is so inspiring. Makes sense me too!! You go Boy!
Have you ever shared your dreams with others, and immediately felt you wish you hadn't? You shined your brightest light, and those haters turned on the dimmer switch. That is so not cool! I've learned to laugh it off now, and I know I don't need others backing to make it! Especially those who want to steal your thunder. Keep on doing you!!! Thank you Steve! I love ALL your wisdom! 1💜
If you like motivational and self help "stuff", I highly recommend reading this book. It's a wonderful read and it's an easy read with of course Steve's humor thrown in. I have created a vision board for myself this year and am obsessed with everything Steve has to say. Hoping for great things in the new year.
Thank you Steve for the words of encouragement. When you hit rock bottom that’s when you know who your family and friends are. Since 2016 is been a struggle until to today. Family has turned their back on me. I was homeless for a couple years. My Dad didn’t have much education but he was a humble man and very encouraging at all times. It was important for him to keep the family together and always put in our mind that we could be anything we want to be but my dad passed. My family has separated. The word family don’t exist. January 6, on our way to church we was rear ended by a truck and the other driver fled the scene but thank God there is still good people in this world there was people they had videotaped the accident got his tag number I guess because he rear ended us his car stop. He tried to jump in other peoples car to get away but somebody notice that and call the cops so he’s arrested as a matter fact he sitting in jail he had trial yesterday I didn’t go but they should be contacting me to let me know what did they charge him with. My daughter was the driver my son was sitting in the front seat and I was sitting in the backseat with my grandbaby my grandson. My grandson lost a tooth his face was pretty messed up and We was pinned in back seat of the car. I always think God for being alive after the accident and more grateful for life. I stay praying but I know God has to have a better plan for us. We used to live in Georgia but I move down here (Miami) after my husband passed away. It’s really hard to find a job I’ve been been to so many interviews no one he’s willing to hire me they state that I am or over qualify but for the position that I’m applying for. I’m going to continue filling application there is aJob out there for me. Thanks again Steve. God bless you and your family. Your good peoples.
I think taking off the lid of the Jar is surely the best description than any few man or authors had written in a book about success today & Yesterday. Lid off To You Steve!! You are a Man of Examples!! GOD BLESS YOU & WHAT A EDUCATION I GOT TODAY JUST FEW MOMENTS! MICHAEL HASSEN, FROM ADDIS ABABA ETHIOPIA
I've heard several people talk about being put down by their teachers. What a shame!!! Being a teacher is more than merely teaching a program, it's also encouraging and supporting students.
Hi Steve, Thank you for this great segment. I have my dream and I am chasing and working to get it. I recently told my family about what my dream was and they did exactly what your teacher did to you in the sixth grade. I don't have my parents anymore to tell me what your father told you but my father would have done the same. You are a great man and I thank you that I found your show here on you-tube.
This is why I love Steve Harvey....just watched this video and realized not only is my lid still on my jar, but I actually think its glued on....im 51, severe depression, anxiety and now agoraphobic and haven't been out of my house in almost 5 months, I need help getting this dam lid off.....:(
my dream is to become a fireman and nobody believe in me even my dad said i couldn't do it and i promised him in the first day in the academy he will be there with me AND i will!!! make my dream come true and nothing will stop me
Steve i stumbled across one of your videos about why you dont use mind altering substances....man, it ignited my interest in all your videos. I was shocked at how bold you were to speak the truth about it. I know they definitely destroyed about a third of my life...anyways ive been spending the last few years really trying to get my life back on track (you made a video about that too)..basically what im trying to say is i am floored with your videos and straight talk. Most of all i admire that you sincerely credit your success to God, He is the only reason im here today and has already gave me so much more than i deserve. Maybe He showed me these videos to lead me to higher things. You already know how He shows His love. Your really the best out there Steve. Ill never meet you in person but thanks to youtube i can get tons of great advice. Take it easy.
Many people have broken me down over the years from an early age which changed my life direction. As soon as I had become conscious of this and sadly it has taken years I have been trying to change and reverse that damage.
The is the most powerful message a person whose able to understand it can learn. People with authority roles in a child's life, need to be responsible with their words. They need to know the power they have in a child's life. My dream was ripped to shreds when I was a teenager. Then I spent years wondering aimlessly. By Devine intervention I found my footing and embarked on a new path. Graduated in January. Starting a new career next week. And..... That's just the first step. I'm not done. I don't listen to people who don't help me be better. No matter who. My mother and a older brother ripped my dream to shreds. They have no idea what they did to this day. Brought it up to my mother the other day, she doesn't even remember. SMH
+Solja88 YOU HAVE TO TAKE baby steps but you cant take steps without making a plan first. A plan is born out of the desires you have for yourself and what you want. If you have no plan you have no road to follow and in that scenario you might as well step anywhere and follow any path have you heard of Dave ramsey his youtube channel will tell you everything you need to know
Funny thing is, I remember watching this a while ago and thinking... "what a cute lil speech there." Really didnt think anything of it. But fast forward, I'm glad YT put this in my recommendations again. Just what I needed to hear.
#Steveharvey you're one of the most inspirational person as I've known I haven't seen your shows so much but short time I've known you. On RUclips and TV now you're giving me great expiration to succeed and become a great person to myself and my family thank you for the bottom of my heart. hopefully one day I have to great opportunity to meet with you.
I really needed to hear this. I'm always afraid to tell people what my dreams are because they make fun of me. I want to be a female rapper/songwriter. I want to have my own music videos. Put out music with meaning. Music that questions society and life in general. I want to travel the world. I want to leave the place I am currently in. I am 17 and have so many dreams I can't name everything. When I am asked what I want to do, I have to give a career that offers high levels of education.
A lot of people miss the fact that his dad told him to focus on the goal. People now would focus on getting justice to the teacher and lose sight of their goals.
i can relate to this soo much!! in first grade i said i wanted to be a superstar and the teacher also questioned it...in 4th i said i wanted to be a comedian and the teacher said that was impossible...in 6th i said i wanted to be a songwriter &i was forced to erase it off my paper...all of my dreams as a child were crushed &once i became old enough to start college i had no idea wat i could be that would please everyone :(
I know what you mean Inae. As I'm also from there w/similar upbringing. But you know what? As a living testimony myself and a Christian, I broke every ceilings/lid of anyone ever tried to put on me. It's never too late to start believing in yourself. He created you with much gifts and potentials, go and use it well.
I hope that teacher sees this. And i hope someday that teacher who said i was a depressed kid & made my grandma cry see me now becoming a successful engineer
well, as much as i love this, some dreams aren't meant to be, while others may not be well thought out, But the one thing to take from this, is DONT BE AFRAID TO TRY, especially if your afraid of other people's opinions, failure is always an option and always a possibility, but you only truely fail when ypu stop trying
My health is such that I am a shut in. I can no longer drive, I very rarely have any visitors and my husband, who also have health problems, is too exhausted to take me anywhere. If he can take me anywhere, I'm not feeling well enough to go. I have lost the ability to do all the crafts I used to do, all I have is my computer to keep my mind active. Is my lid super glued on? I don't know, but I rarely get bored...especially having Steve to brighten my days and God who keeps my heart hopeful :D
Please seek the face of God in your situation. Sickness is not a normal state of the body that you and your husband should live with. Visit the yearly Raised to Deliver conference with Apostle John Chi at the Hungry Generation Ministries in Washington state and receive your healing. Stay blessed.
This clip really spoke to me. All my life I've wanted to sing but had people put their limitation on me. I've lived my life believing maybe I should find an easier dream career. After watching this video I am declaring I will become an international singer. Thanks Steve!
I wish you all the best!
Thanks! I appreciate that.
right on!
Can you sing though? Do you have a personality?
Okay Jasmine B thats a wonderful stage name too !
You also have to believe with all your heart that your outrageous dreams will come true.
yes
Yes And Amen🙌
orijinale and put work towards it , stay on it. The key is dedication and progression an hard work along with having faith in your own abilities. You just telling your self that you can do this its all about putting in the work and staying on it and making sure this is some that you really want.
This really brought tears to my eyes.. Some people have a way of stomping on other people's dreams just because it doesn't seem possible or realistic to them and truth be told, I cannot stand these kinds of people.. Turtles trying to comment on giraffes, when the giraffes worldview is at the tree top, and the turtle can't see more than the ground..
Don't ever underestimate anyone's ability to do or be something great.. And if you do not agree with them, at the least keep your discouraging comments to yourself and simply wish them the best..
God has a way of using the ones that society has ruled out, and using them beyond anything your hater's would have ever imagined.. We live in a world of followers, everyone wanting to be like what they have already seen. What they think is possible based on what they have been exposed to. But God gives you those impossible dreams and desires for a reason.
Don't let the haters or crab's in the bucket pull you down, or force you to forfeit your true potential. You too were created for greatness, don't be a follower. I once heard a saying that small minded people are the ones that tell you that you cannot do something, but the greats are the ones that encourage you and tell you that you can also be great.. Isn't that the truth.. (Glad you made it Mr. Harvey :)
Queen Sage, your comment is so true and inspiring. I look forward into a bigger and brighter future.
Your message really moved me.
A faster beat in my heart, and tears of joy to my eyes. Thank you so much!
When I was in 6th grade, I had some free time in one of my classes so I was scribbling random things that didn't look good. My teacher saw it and commented "I hope you don't plan to be an artist" and scoffed at me. Little did she know I actually am very artistic. Im now 31 years old and sell my graphic art files every single day on etsy. People all over the country want my art for various projects they are doing... so, yeah. I wish I could find that teacher and tell her about it.
Great father for saying what he did & your mom for supporting. When you got on TV that teacher probably put her head in her hands and knew the words she told you were a big mistake. You are a wonderful person. I love listening to you. Full of food advice & very, very funny.
EXTREMELY GOOD ADVICE. TAKE NOTE!
yes
Russell Nelson that just shows that anything is possible if you put you're mind to it and believing in ones self and staying dedicated.
Oh my god, teachers have so much power over their students, either you build them or tear them down. So sad I encountered lots of teachers who did the latter as Steve experienced. And the same as Steve's dad, my dad took me out of that kind of school right away. He told me on the way to new school that no school should tear his kid's potential down.
On that day, walking after my dad's footstep to the principal's room of new school I knew this man just believed in me and he would protect my dream no matter what.
I love watching Steve Harvey & listening to him for all of his REAL TALK and down to earth communication with wisdom that is so inspiring. Makes sense me too!! You go Boy!
I love that story! I felt So much emotion coming from Steve.
Have you ever shared your dreams with others, and immediately felt you wish you hadn't? You shined your brightest light, and those haters turned on the dimmer switch. That is so not cool! I've learned to laugh it off now, and I know I don't need others backing to make it! Especially those who want to steal your thunder. Keep on doing you!!! Thank you Steve!
I love ALL your wisdom! 1💜
If you like motivational and self help "stuff", I highly recommend reading this book. It's a wonderful read and it's an easy read with of course Steve's humor thrown in. I have created a vision board for myself this year and am obsessed with everything Steve has to say. Hoping for great things in the new year.
Steve, you are an inspiration. Bless you. :)
Thank you Steve for the words of encouragement. When you hit rock bottom that’s when you know who your family
and friends are. Since 2016 is been a struggle until to today. Family has turned their back on me. I was homeless for a couple years. My Dad didn’t have much education but he was a humble man and very encouraging at all times. It was important for him to keep the family together and always put in our mind that we could be anything we want to be but my dad passed. My family has separated. The word family don’t exist. January 6, on our way to church we was rear ended by a truck and the other driver fled the scene but thank God there is still good people in this world there was people they had videotaped the accident got his tag number I guess because he rear ended us his car stop. He tried to jump in other peoples car to get away but somebody notice that and call the cops so he’s arrested as a matter fact he sitting in jail he had trial yesterday I didn’t go but they should be contacting me to let me know what did they charge him with. My daughter was the driver my son was sitting in the front seat and I was sitting in the backseat with my grandbaby my grandson. My grandson lost a tooth his face was pretty messed up and We was pinned in back seat of the car. I always think God for being alive after the accident and more grateful for life. I stay praying but I know God has to have a better plan for us. We used to live in Georgia but I move down here (Miami) after my husband passed away. It’s really hard to find a job I’ve been been to so many interviews no one he’s willing to hire me they state that I am or over qualify but for the position that I’m applying for. I’m going to continue filling application there is aJob out there for me. Thanks again Steve. God bless you and your family. Your good peoples.
I think taking off the lid of the Jar is surely the best description than any few man or authors had written in a book about success today & Yesterday. Lid off To You Steve!! You are a Man of Examples!! GOD BLESS YOU & WHAT A EDUCATION I GOT TODAY JUST FEW MOMENTS! MICHAEL HASSEN, FROM ADDIS ABABA ETHIOPIA
*came here to get advice on opening jars*
got life advice
ok then
lol
You have to BELIEVE you can open the jar, and not let anybody tell you that you can't :-P
I've heard several people talk about being put down by their teachers. What a shame!!! Being a teacher is more than merely teaching a program, it's also encouraging and supporting students.
Damn... This really hit me hard
yes
This Metaphor is simple but Profound!!! Love This example! Greatness just got released!!
A brilliant metaphor that we can all take something away from!
Best advice ever in the world!!!!!!!!
Hi Steve, Thank you for this great segment. I have my dream and I am chasing and working to get it. I recently told my family about what my dream was and they did exactly what your teacher did to you in the sixth grade. I don't have my parents anymore to tell me what your father told you but my father would have done the same. You are a great man and I thank you that I found your show here on you-tube.
I wonder if he attributed the story to its originator, who is, I believe, Zig Ziglar. I first heard it at least 30 years ago.
So motivational! Thanks Steve Harvey!
Sandra Pugh ❤️
This is why I love Steve Harvey....just watched this video and realized not only is my lid still on my jar, but I actually think its glued on....im 51, severe depression, anxiety and now agoraphobic and haven't been out of my house in almost 5 months, I need help getting this dam lid off.....:(
This was an eye opening ahhhah moment for me. Going to put into action TODAY!!!!!!
Common sense always outweighed what is taught in school. Steve's father was on point.
my dream is to become a fireman and nobody believe in me even my dad said i couldn't do it
and i promised him in the first day in the academy he will be there with me
AND i will!!! make my dream come true and nothing will stop me
That was actually really good. Makes me wanna read it and I never read these types of books.
I remember hearing this on a different world when Dwayne was trying to mentor young gang members. Thought it was great advice.
Steve i stumbled across one of your videos about why you dont use mind altering substances....man, it ignited my interest in all your videos. I was shocked at how bold you were to speak the truth about it. I know they definitely destroyed about a third of my life...anyways ive been spending the last few years really trying to get my life back on track (you made a video about that too)..basically what im trying to say is i am floored with your videos and straight talk. Most of all i admire that you sincerely credit your success to God, He is the only reason im here today and has already gave me so much more than i deserve. Maybe He showed me these videos to lead me to higher things. You already know how He shows His love. Your really the best out there Steve. Ill never meet you in person but thanks to youtube i can get tons of great advice. Take it easy.
Thank you for this story Steve. This inspires me very much. Hats of to you father. truly commendable. From India!
Many people have broken me down over the years from an early age which changed my life direction. As soon as I had become conscious of this and sadly it has taken years I have been trying to change and reverse that damage.
The is the most powerful message a person whose able to understand it can learn. People with authority roles in a child's life, need to be responsible with their words. They need to know the power they have in a child's life.
My dream was ripped to shreds when I was a teenager. Then I spent years wondering aimlessly.
By Devine intervention I found my footing and embarked on a new path. Graduated in January. Starting a new career next week. And.....
That's just the first step. I'm not done. I don't listen to people who don't help me be better. No matter who.
My mother and a older brother ripped my dream to shreds. They have no idea what they did to this day.
Brought it up to my mother the other day, she doesn't even remember. SMH
Damn I really need that book! So inspiring!
Thanks Steve, what you just said is something I was waiting to hear .
Very true!!!! You go Steve
Steve advice is phenomenal!
I am this person. Lol. Thank you for saying these words. Write it down and make it plain. Bless you.
Wise advice Steve. Will buy that book.
You know what, I took this guy for just a funny person but as I watch his videos... He inspires me a lot..
great stuff thank you sir. Fathers inspire I miss my father
This is why you are an inspiration to me Steve.
Gracias Steve Harveys Dios Te Guarde Siempre... Gracias Por Todo...
Your videos always make me happy Steve
I am inspired by your sharing. Thank Steve Harvey 😊.
OMG Steve Harvey's testimony is so awesome!
Love these stories soooo much!!! 🥹🥹🥹🥹😍😍😍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I definitely have the lid on. It needs to come off, I need help.
+Solja88 You can do it...baby steps. Where do you want to be..eventually?
+Ebong Eka Back at a full time job, I need work ASAP. I'm a test analyst that wants to progress to a BA.
+Solja88 YOU HAVE TO TAKE baby steps but you cant take steps without making a plan first. A plan is born out of the desires you have for yourself and what you want. If you have no plan you have no road to follow and in that scenario you might as well step anywhere and follow any path have you heard of Dave ramsey his youtube channel will tell you everything you need to know
I guess you should buy that book
Solja88 ❤️
I'm so in love with your motivation steve. Believe me we will meet one day and will tell you how much you influenced me. God bless you
Ohh Steve you are making me to cry and I am in a public space - your father was a great man
Steve- you are such an inspiration!!!!!!
"Outstanding Steve! ( Homeboy!)
AMEN!! YES PREACHER STEVE!
I felt that in my spirit!
Funny thing is, I remember watching this a while ago and thinking... "what a cute lil speech there." Really didnt think anything of it.
But fast forward, I'm glad YT put this in my recommendations again. Just what I needed to hear.
#Steveharvey you're one of the most inspirational person as I've known I haven't seen your shows so much but short time I've known you. On RUclips and TV now you're giving me great expiration to succeed and become a great person to myself and my family thank you for the bottom of my heart. hopefully one day I have to great opportunity to meet with you.
Thanks Pastor Steve
I really needed to hear this. I'm always afraid to tell people what my dreams are because they make fun of me. I want to be a female rapper/songwriter. I want to have my own music videos. Put out music with meaning. Music that questions society and life in general. I want to travel the world. I want to leave the place I am currently in. I am 17 and have so many dreams I can't name everything. When I am asked what I want to do, I have to give a career that offers high levels of education.
🙏 God bless you Steve.
Thank you, thank you, thank you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love this man
A lot of people miss the fact that his dad told him to focus on the goal. People now would focus on getting justice to the teacher and lose sight of their goals.
Clever Steve Harvey...indirect advertising for your book! 😂 Great message though!
AWESOME. I love this.
Very good book.
love this , smart man n his shows
Thank you so much Steve!!
Thanks a lot Steve.Jesus bless
Thank you Steve!!!
Perfect!
i can relate to this soo much!! in first grade i said i wanted to be a superstar and the teacher also questioned it...in 4th i said i wanted to be a comedian and the teacher said that was impossible...in 6th i said i wanted to be a songwriter &i was forced to erase it off my paper...all of my dreams as a child were crushed &once i became old enough to start college i had no idea wat i could be that would please everyone :(
I hope you're in a better place now!
Cintia Perez WOW. This is a good comment!
Great... Great Great... Greatness right there... 💪
That's what I'm talking about
YES!!! 👏👏👏👏👐
I love this man 🙌💕
Still my favorite pep talk.
Very inspirational I plan to meet this guy one day!
Very inspirational
Thank you Steve I'm learning how to take the lid off I already cracked it.
4:13 I was going to clap too but then I realise i was watching this through you tube...
This was great!!!!!
Love you for this one. 🙅
Amen Mr. Steve!!
🤗💕💕💕yes yes ! love it!
In some countries, especially East Asia, parents are lid. They choose what their children can and can't become.
I know what you mean Inae. As I'm also from there w/similar upbringing. But you know what? As a living testimony myself and a Christian, I broke every ceilings/lid of anyone ever tried to put on me. It's never too late to start believing in yourself. He created you with much gifts and potentials, go and use it well.
This was good for me to hear!!!!☺
Thanks steve 😍❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yaass!! NEEED!!!! Rewatching this!!
Steve speaking that truth!
I hope that teacher sees this.
And i hope someday that teacher who said i was a depressed kid & made my grandma cry see me now becoming a successful engineer
He started sending her a TV every Christmas until she died. He said "I didn't want her to miss one episode of me being on TV!"
well, as much as i love this, some dreams aren't meant to be, while others may not be well thought out, But the one thing to take from this, is DONT BE AFRAID TO TRY, especially if your afraid of other people's opinions, failure is always an option and always a possibility, but you only truely fail when ypu stop trying
My health is such that I am a shut in. I can no longer drive, I very rarely have any visitors and my husband, who also have health problems, is too exhausted to take me anywhere. If he can take me anywhere, I'm not feeling well enough to go. I have lost the ability to do all the crafts I used to do, all I have is my computer to keep my mind active. Is my lid super glued on? I don't know, but I rarely get bored...especially having Steve to brighten my days and God who keeps my heart hopeful :D
Please seek the face of God in your situation. Sickness is not a normal state of the body that you and your husband should live with. Visit the yearly Raised to Deliver conference with Apostle John Chi at the Hungry Generation Ministries in Washington state and receive your healing. Stay blessed.
WOW. I needed this
A 99.3% like-rate... sounds about right.
I love the contrast
I love his father! Go Mr. And Mrs. Harvey. Take the lid off your jar. And jump sun jump!
Once again, the reason I Push. Lets Go
Powerful and inspirational
Wow this amazing! This motivated me
Love this.