I am a Scorpio. You girls should know if we do love you, we will not do anything to hurt you. You will be cared for and taken care of to the full extent of our abilities. For example I often carry my wife to the bedroom before bed.
The thing is yes Scorpio men will carry us to the bed...or make a nice meal etc but when it comes to our feelings they fall short....big time. All the other stuff is great but it is hot and cold with feelings and ours only counts as long as it is about how much we love them....narcissistic in many ways. Sorry guys but if a Scorpio man can be more about feelings of others and empathy for others that would be a whole package...
I feel like the reason we cut off contact is because we're basically thinking to ourselves like.. do I really wanna commit to this girl and all. Because once we do it's extremely hard to let go
I am a Scorpio male. If I meet a girl I will really study her. Notice every single I can to see if she is worth being in a serious relationship. If I really like her then I show her. If she receives it and likes it I take it to the next level. If I can tell she's playing games or not really sparking my interest, I will slowly start to seize communication. I don't need to waste my time and cut them off.
If you are with a scorpio man, you must be willing to transform. Scorpio is all about transformation. If a scorpio men loves you, he'll go to hell and back for you if necessary. But don't hurt them or cheat on them. That is not a good idea at all. The head games is about will power and the inner power they have to weigh women and judge them to their true value. They just wanna find out if you are 'the one' they are looking for. A scorpio will turn you upside down and back, and put the fire in the stove to the extremes to find these things out. If a scorpio retreats, it is because their feelings are of the charts, and he needs time to cool off. Scorpio is the most intense astrological sign. You need to really be aware of that. From a scorpio man... :-)
You have first of all to understand the inensity of the feelings scorpio feel! They are like sitting on a volcano in a rubber boat. So you can imagine, these energies take time to understand. As well as to master. Both can best be done in their dungeon wherein they retreat.
Lol... Hilarious. All the Scorpio men I know including the one I had the ill judgement of dating are awful. Suspicious, conniving, two-faced, obsessive and will try their best for you to support them while they prance around town flirting with other women. Oh - and did I mention obsessive? They won't let go!
The Fluxy just for future reference, Scorpios have the ability to transform throughout life. we are the only sign that has the ability to elevate as we get older and experience life. once a scorpio has reached his/her full potential we are the most generous, kind, thoughtful, sensual, loyal person you will ever meet.
The Fluxy your comment was soooooo helpful !! I'm a Taurus women who just started seeing a Scoroio man and the magnetism is something I've never come across before ( my daughter's are Scorpios so I'm seeing the difference in the genders )....So thanks !!
I am a non-materialistic Scorpio, always have been, always will be. People are more important to me than money and business. I don't know what kind of Scorpios you have known and don't want to know.
Im scorpio and was thinking the same thing. Then I actually thought about it though... Every single material thing Ive ever wanted or want I have and I have obtained them VERY fast. Anytime I have a desire for something material I've gotten it relatively easy and very fast. While people are also much more important to me, I think outsiders (non scorpios) look at how fast we can achieve our material desires. To us it seems like nothing therefore material objects dont seem important to us. I think people mistake our dedication to getting what we want with materialism. I know now, after looking back, I have always gotten what I want out of life. Im 24 and already have every single material object I could ever want. In fact I have gotten everything out of life Ive ever wanted. Accept one thing of course, but thats just one thing out of thousands of others things Ive already achieved.
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There somthing about the scorpio that secretly you guys dont know about it. And u know what, I'm going to let u know. So! There is 2 type of scorpio :) Yes!. One, who Dosen't exactly know what he want. Because( He's in the process of learning to know themself) And the other one who Know exactly what he want in he's life. / That is the same reason why all scorpio's is hard to know them. If the scoprio and up leaving You, after he had you. it because sadly he's the first one, the first scorpio.... The Second scorpio normally don't quit after having her! the girl. Cus in he's mind and heart, he choose her, for a reason. ( He Is not the type of guy who is going to change he's mind easly) That is the same reason why all scorpio's wanna know all about YOU before choosing you. They wanna be100% sure that you are the one. and not a fake! ( Beware that the first 1one scopion can also do that to, but in the end... he's going to question himself alot after, cus he dosen't know exactly what hes doing x(... ) You know, don't worry about them the first 1one cus u guys my know Scorpio is all about transformation, in the end he will end up becoming the second one when he know he is ready:) (Sorry about my English) XD I hope this will help you to know them :)
Hey what would happen if the Scorpio man is divorced for two years? I mean how could he feel in that sense if the woman he felt was "the one" wasn't after all? like is it likely it was him who left her or she who left him? I found out he's scorpio by accident like all that follows. I happened to know his ex before I actually discovered he was my first ever crush when my parents moved into the villaged I've moved back to after years living abroad. Now our children are in the same class and befriending each other... and so are our parents who apparently felt comfortable enough to tell them all about their son's marriage divorce two years ago after having tried for a short period of time but not working... but still two years since they last tried to go back together and didn't work. It feels kind of weird, as if I were violating his space even though I swear I haven't done anything on purpose to do so. All these of our children playing together it's something my son kept mentioning but I wasn't willing to contact him or her, I mean, I thought about it as being the perfect excuse to get to know him or talk with him at least now that I have finally recognized him, that of my parents talking with his and our children playing together has only happened once but my son keeps talking about meeting his new friend again now he's discovered his and his classmate house's grandparents are literally round the corner. I'm trying to figure out if it's worthy getting to know him. Like... will be still totally heartbroken because of his marriage falling apart with the one he thought was the one? Will he be like I am after I got rid of my husband when I noticed he wasn't "the one" and he kept and he wouldn't let me go for so long that I eventually had to divorce him the harsh way for him to notice he wasn't respecting my decision and that he should do that when a relationship no longer works and therefore soon after my divorce I was able to move on because I had already mourned the lost relationship for years before I actually moved out?. For what I've noticed randomly she hasn't got over it, like she doesn't talk like he's her ex husband, or that his parents are his "ex-in-laws".. she still talks as if she's with him... in fact it was her I met outside his parent's house and she said "do you live here? " and I was "no, my parents do"... and she was "oh just like my...ehr "(child's name) grandparents, yes, their grandparents live here". I mean I know they are the parents of my crush, because the only thing I knew about him is where he lived. Anyway I feel like a strange energy since he decided to gaze straight into my eyes shortly after that discovery, this time he had no sunglasses on and I felt like he was reading into my soul... like trying to figure out how or who I was... but he looked angry ... like pissed off, not sure if it's because I noticed him too late and pretended I didn't as I didn't want to look desperate as to turn around, wave and make him stop his conversation. Since he had sunglasses on I thought he might not have seen him. But I felt eyes on my back for a well one or two minutes. I hate to even have to think all that much about someone I don't know. I mean, I'm a capricorn woman, I don't chase men, I only like men brave enough to not be intimidated by me.. and they are far and few. The way he approached me the other day seemed like "Hey! I'm not scared"... but brought me back to the time when I first met him and had a crush on him straight away, in fact it's the first guy ever I had a crush on at age 11, more like a limerence. I just wanted to get to know him. He's a total stranger and he disappeared. I moved away, and all sorts... now I sort of hate myself for wasting time of my life researching about him when I don't even know if I like the way he talks, his moral values, his face, his body, the way he is. I think it's the fact I liked him when I was a stupid shy teenager and with that look he sort of "I remember looking into your eyes, now... oh yes" and for me it was a quick reminder of "oh yes, now I know why did I find him interesting" it must have been that gaze. Sorry for the long story. Please it would help to know your perspective of what happens inside the mind of the two different scorpios after leaving a marriage with what they thought was "the one".
1. You can't attract us. We're either into you or we aren't. Oddly enough, we don't control it either. 2. the hot cold thing is more like we like you and can't help but try to get closer, but then we get overwhelmed with the whole "somebody's getting close to me" bit because of fear of showing our weak underbelly. We're all very much tsunderes.... Like really really really tsunderes.
This is really hard for me Sometimes even though I’m a Virgo because I do the exact same thing as Scorpio sometimes I think we both take it as you don’t like me enough we both want the chase. However we both refuse to give it but when we are together she never lets go of me we eat next to each other not across. She is so affectionate I’m great full for that
I am a Scorpio. The thing is; we are real from the inside out and want the ones that we consider friends, lovers, wives or intimate friends, to be real too. We want to know that you are an individual and want to know the real you and not that you that you show the rest of the world. To Scorpios these are the people who exist in our world. The rest are acquaintances or people that you just come across, which to Scorpios are one in the same And when we are looking into your eyes we are learning who you are, just like when we're in a social gathering; most people are there trying to impress everyone else with there clever conversation while the Scorpio, though being somewhat engaging, is analyzing every word, phrase, while his brain is translating each of those as, "lie, truth, bullshit, total bullshit, etc." Also, the reason that we don't like being chased is because we want to know the person of our affection, sliding into the relationship rather than diving haphazardly into it.
scorpio men....or me. i am not a game player. i like confident, strong women, that can be shy but also know when they need to be strong. i enjoy wealth and some power, but i do not like to control anyone. if you are a gold digger, do not even bother. i expect my mate or wife to be able to take care of herself. i do not mind giving, but i am no one's puppet or piggy bank. i expect her to be humane , kind, to others adventure seeker, i do have a temper, but it takes a bit for it to come out. i expect a lot of myself, and the same from a woman. no worries i am not a jealous man...it takes too much time, and hate others taking care of me...i can do that myself. i need my alone time. i am loyal, but i will take off for a time. if you are a woman that has a past, depending on what it is we can speak, i would rather become friends first before a relationship can happen.
They have to feel like they Really in control at all times. Although they project a confident strong person, they are actually insecure and fear losing power. Thus the materialism. Greetings from a sag
I am Capricorn and my boyfriend is Scorpio. I love the way he loves me!! It’s so intense!!!! But if you try to control them they will stop communicating with you! Period! He is possessive and a protects his women! We both are spiritual and highly sexual beings! He is like an old soul! It’s like knew me before we even got to know each other. They are very loyal and hard workers! They are about the money for sure! His eyes are piercing like they are looking at your soul! Also they are private!
Lol I'm Sag, and my scorpio just told Mr the other day he knew me before he knew me. Said he didn't have to get to know me.also he said if he tells me he loves me it'll be a long time before I heat it again bc to him it doesn't change. Idk if he's hinting he loves me? He's hot n cold and so am. He once said I hadn't given him the assurance that I'll be there if Johnny came to sweep me off my feet. I asked what that meant and he said, will you be there no matter what is going on around us? Omg the sex is so amazing I have never in life made love the way we do...he refuses to have sex without the lights on and when we do he gazes into my eyes and sometimes kisses me so passionately lol I in turn bite his lips from time to time or try to remove his control by pulling my hands away and he softly tells me " no" and I submit immediately. I love him but I'm so scared to tell him, the last time we made love I cried as he gazed into my eyes, I never looked away and finally he lost focus, tilt his head back,, and thrust into ecstasy. I have never forgot that moment. What is he thinking?
Here’s a tip Don’t TRY to get our attention.. like don’t go out of your way being Extra and shit.. we’ll see it’s fake and we won’t even Loom at you. Be yourself. We wanna see who YOU are. Emphasise certain things sure, but also don’t reveal too much either. Just be You. If we like the Vibe, you’ll know. If we don’t like your Vibe.. we won’t be looking at you, and if we are.. you might not like the look you’re being given Girl, “Maybe he’s just not that into you”
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You really have helped me understand what is going on with this person because it is driving me crazy but thank you so much for explaining all this because I needed to hear it
we don't play head games..... we test people. we test everyone, we test both men and women, also we like to understand everything so when we find something or someone who is worth our time we take time away from everything and everyone to evaluate everything we have experience in the situation we experienced.
Henry Hua i agree! As a scorpio woman myself its the same ! We overanalyze but we are better than the most respected detectives, because we also have intuition insight 👌
9:19 we don't play games we try to see a deeper side of a person. We like to test people cuz we wanna see what you're hiding, those things you may think that if we find out we'll reject you.
I've met 5 Scorpio men online dating, trying to get to know the 5th one now... What i'm learning is in the beginning is, they are stand offish, don't open up very much, once in while he might ask you questions. but not much. In the beginning it is hard to get your foot in the front door with them lol, its like UGH *Sighes* So difficult.
I'm a libra female & attracted a scarpio male😩😩 Jesus take the wheel I don't know where we stand, one day he's in my face the next day he barely knows me. I like him but damm
I'm in the same boat with you. I'm a libra female and he's a Scorpio. Omg he's in his feelings right now about me and all shut off. It's driving me crazy. But I'm not going to push but I'm not giving up cause we have gone a long way over the last month or two. So I've brought some of the wall down but now he's stuck at the moment not talking to anyone. Trust me it's been a long process to get this far. Hang in there! I know my Scorpio and this Libra are worth it!! A lot of patience is required.
As a scorpio man with both moon and sun in that sign, I detest the manipulative part bc I've seen it too much. I just like a challenge and beauty. But unfortunately for us, beauty will always be the first thing to catch our eye and not in a normal way. It must be unique, it starts in the eyes and goes to the face then body. If that checks it still not enough, we need a mental intrest unless it's a game with our friends, which we normally win, but in something real beauty only doesn't stand. I think intellect is the sexiest thing we can notice. I'm ok with a woman trying to be better even if she absolutely is, bc like I said a challenge is always fun and I enjoy better my own smarts. But god damn are we a femnant sign. Aspiring skateboarder right here.
All these statements from these scorpio men are laughable !its a good thing we all dont like the same.i will admit the best kisser I had was a good looking scorpio.what real women would want to hook up with such a self centered egotistical man.come on woman even if you are a 5 according too these men feeling your worthiness makes you a 10.love is much more.im not vain but I know my worth ,and women i wish you to see your worth! Dont let any man decide your worth! Not a man hater I enjoy men and embrace our differences and yes being a scorpio women I feel deeply!
Oh my gosh, there's this Scorpio guy who I've known for like 3 years and he stares at me a lot and he does the head games and he will talk to me a lot then loose contact.. I'm not sure what this means but ha Yaaaa
Can’t say I agree with scorpio being primary business minded and materialistic, at least from my own perceptive. I’ve never cared to own the nicest house and cars, I’m hyper focused on my creative projects and money is a secondary concern. I don’t aimlessly spend my money on things that will increase my social status, as long as I have enough to pay for everything that I need I’m happy
Don't think Scorpios have a tendency to cheat. Being a Scorp, I think they will tend to leave a relationship that's not working out rather than stay in it. Scorps are quite frank and detest lying, which seems ironic since we tend to play games. But really we are just testing our partner to see what makes them tick and how far we can push them to get a sense of who they are. It's really the least direct thing a Scorpio would ever do.
I am a Full Scorpio woman, lesbian, but very boyish. I'm sorry for the males playing headgames, or the non contact. I am total opposite of that, maybe it's because they are men. Scorpios always get a bad rep, IDK Y, but I believe and see that we are amazing individuals. When we love, we love with unconditional love, and we are true, loyal and always faithful.
We're not that complicated but intense and DO keep to ourselves. As it goes, "If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen." Jealous? No. Possessive? No. Controlling? Yes..insomuch as we can control our OWN environment.
Yeah I've scewed a few women up with the head games, they just could not pitch & catch with me. I always let them go easy tho. This video is very accurate, looking for that soul connection.
Thing is they ask for unconditional love but cannot reciprocate...they have crazy high standard but they cannot live up to these standards themselves . they are only loyal to themselves..if they do not see you as their soulmate (no matter if you never wronged them or betrayed them) they will have no remorse to cheat on you and leave you.Every time they come to me and try their game I always tell them "if you leave the boat and withdraw..in my book you cannot be trusted" it kills them.🤣
We like flirting with people, because we like having fun, we are not intentional players, some of us are. We generally test our partners- no head games, well because they have to deal with our dark side and mood swings. We are very emotional and not really materialistic. You may want to check facts on us again- Scorpio sun here
I'm scorpio and dating one as well... so far so good... he is beautiful, super sexy, romantic and everything I am looking for a man to be with.... I'm not scared of his darkness... we are compatible... we love each other so much... and we just go from there....
I disagree with the materialistic description of scorpio. I don't thinks it's the money itself that we like. It's the process/challenge of making it that appeals more to scorpio. It's a superficial way of viewing scorpio. I agree with the head games though. Again, it's the chase that fascinates a scorpio more than anything.
Hi... I've been thinking of what to say to the scorpio man I know. He has a business car with a website written on it, I tried to do some research to actually see if I liked him ,as all I've seen it's him walking towards his car but now I know he's an old crush of mine I never got to meet back in the date, unsure as to why I find him attractive when I haven't seen him eye to eye more than twice in my life. So I wanted to see if he had an about me on his page, hopefully with a photo, also to find out about what he does for a living... and the bloody website doesn't work... lol. I feel so tempted to raise that as the topic for our first conversation if he approaches me one day outside school..Only if he approaches me and stays, as last time he approached me he walked too fast towards me, penetrated me with his piercing blue eyes, and just after I acknowledge his presence that day and nodded hi after noticing who he was... then he softened his look a bit and abruptly started walking into the direction of the school gate. Do you think it would be a good starting conversation if he came up to me? as I'm not planning to chase him around but since our children are getting to like each other since they discovered they are occassional neighbours when they stay at their grandparents... it's likely to happen sooner or later that we have to talk to each other, it seems we've been naturally drawn to do so by our parents talking to each other to the extent of me finding out he's a Scorpio to our children constantly talking about meeting each other again. I was so relieved not to be there that day he came to my parent's house... lol. I literally felt he hoped to see me there and I was glad not to be reachable or available because I was earning a living. Knowing my parents I'm sure they also told them all about my divorced situation, like I happen to know about his as they seemed to get quite along. It's a weird situation... when your ancestors and descendants are getting along and we haven't even crossed a word. But I must confess it feels sort of fun... I have felt tempted to say something to him or to ask if his child was around so our children could meet and play. But I feel like if he's interested he will do it first and if he doesn't then he's not worth my time or effort.
Im a scorpio man, all I have to say is an enigma is fascinating,mysterious and will keep you guessing, wheres the fun being with a normal guy with the simple boring mudane routines, lifes an adventure to experience and love don't take it for granted
A 10:00 What you’re talking about as Negative for Scorpio, might be a projection about yourself I’m not sure of the “head game” specifics You’re talking about here, but if you gave them a Shallow answer or just turned out not be that interesting… just saying. We will ask questions already knowing the answer. We wanna see if you’ll tell us the truth, Lie, or avoid the question etc etc. We’re figuring you out Maybe you’re scared of being figured out by a Scorpio. Maybe there’s something you don’t want to tackle and you know we’ll bring it out of you and make you confront it. Scorpio, Rebirthing. This is what we do.
Heeeeyyyy to say the least....the WORST??? MY TWIN FLAME is a Scorpio man! hahahaha I adore my Scorp and nah, not scared of his ass....I love it! Yes, there is a Crazy Ex that still wants him and he is the sexiest MoFo I have ever known but the process, oh boy, the process of not only learning about a Scorp but ALSO my Twin Flame? FML !!!
Scorpio loves to have power over others. Hence they over achieve and play phycological games and withdraw. They play these phycological games because they are highly intuitive. So they love that. They are highly manipulative as well. They do it by withdrawing and silent treatment. It's all about control and power. They live for power and if you are powerful but have humility... Sex is not casual for them its a spiritual and emotional thing for them.
Scorpio moon here. Oct 28th ruled by mars. Don't like head games. If they do that I will disappear and never to be seen again. Head games are to easy to play. ✌️
First wow you’re gorgeous. Second I’m a Scorpio. I wouldn’t say I’m materialistic. Whatever I focus on that’s my drive to finish. To me being a Scorpio is a gift an a curse. The stare is overwhelming to some women. An yes we play head games. It’s our way of getting through the bullshit, and see if the real person is someone we want to be involved in.
Oh gosh yeah I had that stare... I loved it. I want some more... he made me feel alive, precisely what I was looking for, someone who could set my heart racing in less than 4 seconds. I mean, I loved it and I hated it. It was so unexpected... so unbelievable... do you stare like that to all women or only the ones you find interesting or only the ones you're trying to make a move on... and that as the first sign?
No. I was just hoping someone would answer as soon as possible so I could kill my curiosity as soon as possible. I sometimes hyperfocus and then the next week I completely forget about it. I'm happily single by choice. I have no problem attracting men, not even the scorpio ones.
Hey zoe, it not that were players we just need to know you are really interested and genuinely want us so we test you and your resolve to see if you really love us because when we fall it 100% and why risk being broken and annihilated if she is going to flake out and run away when we expose our inner self.
My encounters with Scorpios have all been basically the same and according to many people, when they act like they don't like you, they actually do like you. Here's the thing. All of them would be extremely rude to me, then extremely nice and giving me compliments. Is that normal for them? They all showed frustration towards me, is that normal for them? Also, may I ask what your sign is? I am very curious.
Drear Perry Yes very true. And yes that is normal for them. On different days you may get the good side of scorpio and other days the dark side. all depends on the emotions kicking over inside of them. I'm a Libra sun. What's your sign?
Zoe Weeken Just as I thought, thanks! I'm an Aries. I know they say Scorpio and Aries are incompatible but my encounters with them have been very interesting.
I am a male Scorpio however I am an infinite being first which in truth means I am undefinable... This is what is truly true for all of you too however you must let go of all the definitions of what you think and believe you are as definition by definition alone is limitation and is the precursor to separation and devision. We are at a universal time frame where we must let go of all of the programs and dogma that divide us and in truth we are the Oneness that has and will always been... You are all so very beautiful... Gratitude to you Zoe...
It takes a mentally/ emotionally strong person to handle a Scorpio. I have a Libra mom and a cancer dad, so life’s been interesting lol (I’m a Scorpio sun/Pisces moon)
You right , you gotta have scorpio energy period or you’ll fall short , myself as a libra sun And mars Venus and Pluto MC in ♏️ sometimes I feel like I’ll lose my mind with them 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ my SO is scorpio sun and Venus
Zoe, first off you are magnetic! Very pretty young woman! A fully realized human doesn't play games. When we lose we gain well some of us do, in my life i have been with extreme maturity and total immature woman and learned from both! When your eyes look up that is sexy!
+ithappensthroughus Villanova thank you :) yes i agree with you. This video definitely does not apply to all scorpio men ;) i know quite a few that are extremely enlightened but they are the ones who enjoy being completely alone until they meet their soulmate. Thanks for your comment and have a good week.
No i totally disagreed with this aswell. Im a 5th house stellium scorpio and im really not sure where this materialism came from.. being materialistic just feel inauthentic and isnt that what we about?
Why do they always say we’re secretive, I’m very private and I like to keep things I value or the people I love to myself. But I also am very honest and if I trust you theirs no secrets I keep from you. I actually hate lies and secrets I view people like that as very weak and fake.
Yeah you are 100% Right I'm aries dating with a Scorpio man now for almost 2years( LDR) Scorpio man is very difficult to understand ,too much jealous ,.. 🙄
Im a Taurus having a relationship with a Scorpio at the beginning he shows lots of love however as time went on he texts very title im so confuse but whn i said im letting him go he said he loves me.. can't really figure out wht he is doing..
Gavin Smith That was the reflection of light from a passing car because it came from the front of the house, you can tell this because the backyard is behind her in the video
Cut them off if the other man offered better. Hmmm…unless I ain’t a Scorpio. But I looked in every angle and possible way not to fall to grass is greener thing. I guess the Libra ♎️ in me helps with these. Scorpio sun Libra rising according to Vedic.
Prettyyellagirl22 we gotta know that even through our downs, the partner we want will stick around and not leave while being able to handle all the intense energy we radiate . But when it’s coming from the dark sided Scorpio it’s all about manipulation but to the extreme making you focus all of your energy and time and they will cause arguments that they’ve planned already but do it to drain you. -confessions of a Scorpio man
What are your thoughts on how to deal with a scorpio when he's stressed. You did mention on how they retreat when they're dealing with intense emotions. I tend to give them their space when they do this. However, I notice that they also hate being alone. They want to be alone but they want you there too. It's so confusing on figuring out what to do. I find my scorpio man to be quite negative and pessimistic. He wasn't like that when we were just friends. Has anyone else had this experience?
Twins Jes & Ris He will tell you when he needs his space but if they are being negative the best thing you can do is to be someone that can just listen to his problems and be a shoulder to lean on. It doesn't last long when they're like that but just be there when he needs the support.
Zoe Weeken Thanks for you input. I gave my shoulder for him to lean on and that's exactly what he needed. On another note, would you say most scorpio men are flirty or have double standards? My experience has been that scorpio men have different layers of jealousy (jealous of other men and also jealous of seeing you happy when they're miserable). They don't want you entertaining any other male's flirtatiousness but they entertain flirts from other females. Perhaps they don't follow through with any of the flirts, but they play along with it nonetheless which isn't cool. Seems like a form of manipulation or head games to me which makes them look like fake people. Would you agree with this?
A question ....is he a lier ?i met one 1 STEP: we bounded in a very deep level ..2 STEP amazing sex ....3 STEP he said you are the one because you are like me ...4 STEP He starts to detached with less communication .... 5 STEP after i told him, yes i'm ready to know you better he disappeared LOOOOOL by the way i still feel his vibes , and i must say he was a great communicator , which is strange for a scorpio
Uhm... I do feel some strange energies.. do you think it's them thinking about us? I can't get rid of the obsession for this guy I don't know at all, I only had him gazing at me but our lives are getting closer by our children and even our parents seem to get along and then it's just me and him being standoffish... ;D
@@Pzychonoir for sure, My girl usually texts me when I am feeling intense love for her. it's as if I send all of my energy directly to her, she can't handle it and texts me. I only had 2 persons who I've had this connection with, the only 2 girls I got attached to
@@hugolopez6644 thanks so much for taking time to let me know this. I thought I was going bananas... lol. ;D. In fact all that intense energies have vanished a lot. He must have found someone else. I don't bump into him as often lately and these days it seems I only do when I manage to completely forget about him. But when I notice him he's not looking so I just pretend I hadn't noticed him either. Either way, he has a way to contact me and he hasn't, so he might just not like me at all. And that's ok. ;D
@@Pzychonoir very stupid the way we think sometimes, we could be dying inside just to talk with you. we don't allow ourselves to do so 😢. about the energy banishing, it happens we release a lot of it. and we take our time to charge up, the big issue is that the void is so huge that it takes a while to fill it up, then we feel ready to let ourselves lose again. don't know what's in his head, he could be dying to be with you, or lost interest. If he really cares for you, you'll be surprised one day 😏😏. keep moving on, if life wants you together it'll happen. I always have had good control over myself, except the talking about my feelings part, but I've learned some very good things lately, I am not scared to say what I feel anymore, I would literally die for anyone I love, and I am 100% loyal. I don't care for anyone else other than my loved ones. but then I feel compassion for everyone else 😂😂😂😂 very complex but never fake or dishonest. keep moving on 😆😆 don't let the past keep you stuck in yesterday
@@hugolopez6644 Hi Hugo! Thanks, it's not like I spend my days thinking about him or anything. I'm quite busy myself with my own business, children and dating life, but when I park next to his parent's house (and I think he lives there too) or hear my son plotting to meet his son then it's impossible not to think about that strange scorpio guy. I'm currently dating someone on and off because after my divorce I just don't think I should start anything serious with anyone. I want time for myself, my children and my business. Although at one point the energies felt were so intense that I even had to stop dating the guy I am currently dating again because I felt sort of betraying him. That's how loyal or faithful I am to my feelings for someone. Like it felt unfair having my date and keep thinking about the Scorpio stranger. This only happened for a short while. It was a time when all of a sudden my son and his became friends, my parents and his engaged in long conversations whilst our children had fun together. It's through those conversations that my parents mentioned his date of birth as he's only a month or two older than my brother. I also met his parents by accident whilst picking up my son another day, as his father asked my son or my son asked if he was going to be at his grandparents that evening. Also I had met his ex, she didn't say they were divorced at all, however through that conversation I found out too he had been divorced for two years as well. So yeps. For a moment it seemed life was bringing me closer to that Scorpio stranger. But really, it turned out he wasn't such a stranger, first time I noticed him I was 11 years old and I had a crush on him. But really never actually met him. It was more like a physical crush based on the first time I looked at him. Something about his eyes ... I found attractive. But then he disappeared completely off the neighbourhood. I think he started going to a different highschool and that's it. Never saw him again. Couldn't even figure out the dad I had noticed at school collecting his kids was remotely the guy I had a crush on when I was 11. Of course... now I try to rationalize things. I don't like guys just by their looks anymore. He has to have brains, potential and fuck tons of courage... as I apparently intimidate guys and I'm not the kind of woman who chases men either. But now I'm also more unavailable than ever because I have my own business and kids to concentrate on. And really sort of fulfilled so not much he could provide me with unless we have a great connection if we actually ever get to have any kind of conversation. But I think somehow it was weird it's this year after two years our sons sharing the same class that I actually noticed him, realized who he was or all these incidents. But I think now it's all vanishing and going. So in a way it's way better. Because the energy was like too intense. And I love to be owner and ruler of my thoughts and feelings ;D
Give a glass full of love and a Scorpio will return 100 barrels of love back to you....but double cross him, and he will wake up from his grave to put it right! Be loyal to him and he will love you forever....lie to him and you will stop existing for him.😊
I'm a libra female with a Scorpio man, tbh he's exquisitely a fucking cheater(not all Scorpios) yet I forgave him so many times I actually wonder if he truly loves me more than the other females since I already meet them and at the total shock I was the only one who actually knows all of his personal problems, meet his family, and even knows side of him that they don't I'm really confused
Well I am a scorpio woman but can relate to most of the traits.. I need money n success, materialistic.. True, but I am lazy and laid back in bad way. I think itll sonehow soneday affect my career. If you can also tell things to get over that please let me know.. I am passionate about things that are of importance and other things go out of the window. Love sex, but like you said sex is very sacred and cant do one night stands n all. We seek attention from ppl we like or are attracted to and play mind games to know the persons intent. We only open ourselves to those who rly want to know us and who isnt flaky and flighty about us, thats why we play that game. Am not social and space and privacy is important. Family person, health conscious,
As a Scorpio man from my experience. I am really bad into bad relationships because of having good sex with women. I have been married twice and have suffered from it. The root cause of my two bad marriages was after marrying them that their true personalities came out. Both became truly financially irresponsible besides the first being a drug addict after. Nothing pisses me off than being financially irresponsible and getting themselves in trouble and I am the answer to their problems. First was a Leo who was manipulative and last was a Sagittarius who had no clue. Both ended in divorce. My after relationships that I ran into was most dangerous was Aires. I dated 5 of them. They are strong and could nearly destroy me in bed no shit! But I detect they want to control me and I left them quick. The last one nearly physically hurt me because she stalked me for months to ruin everything I tried to do. Aires women are dangerous crazy women.
It’s important for water sign to look at their charts to see which sign they will mesh better with earth, water, or fire. I recommend Scorpios stay far from Aries unless it’s friendship. Too much mars. All Scorpio needs is earth is you ask me if they do have a lot of earth and fire in the chart they may do better with a water sign.
These tests that we talk about .... 😂😂😂 im so bad at that😂😂😂 Sorry baby boy im a masterpiece Signed ♉🙏✨ Ngl ♏ has me 😍 but he wont ever know until I know hes feeling me
Pisces we the best better than the rest we can rap too - yo yo yo yo yo Scorpio are camels toes wassup I Anita a cup we da best I'm wearing a vest in da club sipping that bub party it out as a fart one out me be dancing yo yo dancing getting them hos I love drugs too yo-
HA!! Yeah, I have miles of women chasing after me.You should see them all lined up outside my house XD I can't even get one to like me. Like, what's really going on?
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I am a Scorpio. You girls should know if we do love you, we will not do anything to hurt you. You will be cared for and taken care of to the full extent of our abilities. For example I often carry my wife to the bedroom before bed.
that is so sweet. scorpios are so pure.
Shes a lucky girl! U should kno that thousands of women just fell in love with u ... virtually. lol
We will care for our lovers. But, we will hurt our lovers unintentionally. I will not you prick. That is why I am so secretive.
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The thing is yes Scorpio men will carry us to the bed...or make a nice meal etc but when it comes to our feelings they fall short....big time. All the other stuff is great but it is hot and cold with feelings and ours only counts as long as it is about how much we love them....narcissistic in many ways. Sorry guys but if a Scorpio man can be more about feelings of others and empathy for others that would be a whole package...
I feel like the reason we cut off contact is because we're basically thinking to ourselves like.. do I really wanna commit to this girl and all. Because once we do it's extremely hard to let go
Now I know why this guy won't meet. Thank you
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fuck im going through that rite now
Learn to let go, fool♏✔💲🌈
Mine just seem to be in deep thought of deciding …..hope he makes the right decision 😢
I am a Scorpio male. If I meet a girl I will really study her. Notice every single I can to see if she is worth being in a serious relationship. If I really like her then I show her. If she receives it and likes it I take it to the next level. If I can tell she's playing games or not really sparking my interest, I will slowly start to seize communication. I don't need to waste my time and cut them off.
If you are with a scorpio man, you must be willing to transform. Scorpio is all about transformation. If a scorpio men loves you, he'll go to hell and back for you if necessary. But don't hurt them or cheat on them. That is not a good idea at all.
The head games is about will power and the inner power they have to weigh women and judge them to their true value.
They just wanna find out if you are 'the one' they are looking for.
A scorpio will turn you upside down and back, and put the fire in the stove to the extremes to find these things out.
If a scorpio retreats, it is because their feelings are of the charts, and he needs time to cool off.
Scorpio is the most intense astrological sign. You need to really be aware of that.
From a scorpio man... :-)
Do you mean the scorpio man retreats because he has deep feelings for an individual and he has to get his feelings under control?
You have first of all to understand the inensity of the feelings scorpio feel! They are like sitting on a volcano in a rubber boat. So you can imagine, these energies take time to understand. As well as to master. Both can best be done in their dungeon wherein they retreat.
Lol... Hilarious. All the Scorpio men I know including the one I had the ill judgement of dating are awful. Suspicious, conniving, two-faced, obsessive and will try their best for you to support them while they prance around town flirting with other women. Oh - and did I mention obsessive? They won't let go!
The Fluxy just for future reference, Scorpios have the ability to transform throughout life. we are the only sign that has the ability to elevate as we get older and experience life. once a scorpio has reached his/her full potential we are the most generous, kind, thoughtful, sensual, loyal person you will ever meet.
The Fluxy your comment was soooooo helpful !! I'm a Taurus women who just started seeing a Scoroio man and the magnetism is something I've never come across before ( my daughter's are Scorpios so I'm seeing the difference in the genders )....So thanks !!
I am a non-materialistic Scorpio, always have been, always will be. People are more important to me than money and business. I don't know what kind of Scorpios you have known and don't want to know.
Im scorpio and was thinking the same thing. Then I actually thought about it though... Every single material thing Ive ever wanted or want I have and I have obtained them VERY fast. Anytime I have a desire for something material I've gotten it relatively easy and very fast. While people are also much more important to me, I think outsiders (non scorpios) look at how fast we can achieve our material desires. To us it seems like nothing therefore material objects dont seem important to us.
I think people mistake our dedication to getting what we want with materialism. I know now, after looking back, I have always gotten what I want out of life. Im 24 and already have every single material object I could ever want. In fact I have gotten everything out of life Ive ever wanted. Accept one thing of course, but thats just one thing out of thousands of others things Ive already achieved.
+lesrach3 same here, I have experience the same thing with material things
joey hernandez I agree. I have always been more about people, culture, knowledge making true friends and relations.
Me(pisces) and my taurus friend love to get laid and smoke dope:) just a random fact. Anyone getting high tonight? Btw I'm on the toilet
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There somthing about the scorpio that secretly you guys dont know about it. And u know what, I'm going to let u know. So! There is 2 type of scorpio :) Yes!. One, who Dosen't exactly know what he want. Because( He's in the process of learning to know themself) And the other one who Know exactly what he want in he's life. / That is the same reason why all scorpio's is hard to know them. If the scoprio and up leaving You, after he had you. it because sadly he's the first one, the first scorpio.... The Second scorpio normally don't quit after having her! the girl. Cus in he's mind and heart, he choose her, for a reason. ( He Is not the type of guy who is going to change he's mind easly) That is the same reason why all scorpio's wanna know all about YOU before choosing you. They wanna be100% sure that you are the one. and not a fake! ( Beware that the first 1one scopion can also do that to, but in the end... he's going to question himself alot after, cus he dosen't know exactly what hes doing x(... ) You know, don't worry about them the first 1one cus u guys my know Scorpio is all about transformation, in the end he will end up becoming the second one when he know he is ready:) (Sorry about my English) XD I hope this will help you to know them :)
Hey what would happen if the Scorpio man is divorced for two years? I mean how could he feel in that sense if the woman he felt was "the one" wasn't after all? like is it likely it was him who left her or she who left him? I found out he's scorpio by accident like all that follows. I happened to know his ex before I actually discovered he was my first ever crush when my parents moved into the villaged I've moved back to after years living abroad. Now our children are in the same class and befriending each other... and so are our parents who apparently felt comfortable enough to tell them all about their son's marriage divorce two years ago after having tried for a short period of time but not working... but still two years since they last tried to go back together and didn't work. It feels kind of weird, as if I were violating his space even though I swear I haven't done anything on purpose to do so. All these of our children playing together it's something my son kept mentioning but I wasn't willing to contact him or her, I mean, I thought about it as being the perfect excuse to get to know him or talk with him at least now that I have finally recognized him, that of my parents talking with his and our children playing together has only happened once but my son keeps talking about meeting his new friend again now he's discovered his and his classmate house's grandparents are literally round the corner. I'm trying to figure out if it's worthy getting to know him. Like... will be still totally heartbroken because of his marriage falling apart with the one he thought was the one? Will he be like I am after I got rid of my husband when I noticed he wasn't "the one" and he kept and he wouldn't let me go for so long that I eventually had to divorce him the harsh way for him to notice he wasn't respecting my decision and that he should do that when a relationship no longer works and therefore soon after my divorce I was able to move on because I had already mourned the lost relationship for years before I actually moved out?. For what I've noticed randomly she hasn't got over it, like she doesn't talk like he's her ex husband, or that his parents are his "ex-in-laws".. she still talks as if she's with him... in fact it was her I met outside his parent's house and she said "do you live here? " and I was "no, my parents do"... and she was "oh just like my...ehr "(child's name) grandparents, yes, their grandparents live here". I mean I know they are the parents of my crush, because the only thing I knew about him is where he lived. Anyway I feel like a strange energy since he decided to gaze straight into my eyes shortly after that discovery, this time he had no sunglasses on and I felt like he was reading into my soul... like trying to figure out how or who I was... but he looked angry ... like pissed off, not sure if it's because I noticed him too late and pretended I didn't as I didn't want to look desperate as to turn around, wave and make him stop his conversation. Since he had sunglasses on I thought he might not have seen him. But I felt eyes on my back for a well one or two minutes. I hate to even have to think all that much about someone I don't know. I mean, I'm a capricorn woman, I don't chase men, I only like men brave enough to not be intimidated by me.. and they are far and few. The way he approached me the other day seemed like "Hey! I'm not scared"... but brought me back to the time when I first met him and had a crush on him straight away, in fact it's the first guy ever I had a crush on at age 11, more like a limerence. I just wanted to get to know him. He's a total stranger and he disappeared. I moved away, and all sorts... now I sort of hate myself for wasting time of my life researching about him when I don't even know if I like the way he talks, his moral values, his face, his body, the way he is. I think it's the fact I liked him when I was a stupid shy teenager and with that look he sort of "I remember looking into your eyes, now... oh yes" and for me it was a quick reminder of "oh yes, now I know why did I find him interesting" it must have been that gaze. Sorry for the long story. Please it would help to know your perspective of what happens inside the mind of the two different scorpios after leaving a marriage with what they thought was "the one".
Thanks! A Scorpio has taken an interest in me 😊
1. You can't attract us. We're either into you or we aren't. Oddly enough, we don't control it either.
2. the hot cold thing is more like we like you and can't help but try to get closer, but then we get overwhelmed with the whole "somebody's getting close to me" bit because of fear of showing our weak underbelly. We're all very much tsunderes.... Like really really really tsunderes.
This is really hard for me Sometimes even though I’m a Virgo because I do the exact same thing as Scorpio sometimes I think we both take it as you don’t like me enough we both want the chase. However we both refuse to give it but when we are together she never lets go of me we eat next to each other not across. She is so affectionate I’m great full for that
"He's willing to wait for her" so true I've been thinking of the same girl for 4 years
awww very sweet!
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Don't wait forever, fool✔♏💲
Yo crunchy time to move on bro. You got maybe 70 years on earth and you just waste 4 fool
I am a Scorpio. The thing is; we are real from the inside out and want the ones that we consider friends, lovers, wives or intimate friends, to be real too. We want to know that you are an individual and want to know the real you and not that you that you show the rest of the world. To Scorpios these are the people who exist in our world. The rest are acquaintances or people that you just come across, which to Scorpios are one in the same And when we are looking into your eyes we are learning who you are, just like when we're in a social gathering; most people are there trying to impress everyone else with there clever conversation while the Scorpio, though being somewhat engaging, is analyzing every word, phrase, while his brain is translating each of those as, "lie, truth, bullshit, total bullshit, etc." Also, the reason that we don't like being chased is because we want to know the person of our affection, sliding into the relationship rather
than diving haphazardly into it.
Thank you Virgo here and I keep attracting you all now I know why. This one I think I really want this time.
scorpio men....or me. i am not a game player. i like confident, strong women, that can be shy but also know when they need to be strong. i enjoy wealth and some power, but i do not like to control anyone. if you are a gold digger, do not even bother. i expect my mate or wife to be able to take care of herself. i do not mind giving, but i am no one's puppet or piggy bank. i expect her to be humane , kind, to others
adventure seeker, i do have a temper, but it takes a bit for it to come out. i expect a lot of myself, and the same from a woman. no worries i am not a jealous man...it takes too much time, and hate others taking care of me...i can do that myself. i need my alone time. i am loyal, but i will take off for a time. if you are a woman that has a past, depending on what it is we can speak, i would rather become friends first before a relationship can happen.
They have to feel like they Really in control at all times. Although they project a confident strong person, they are actually insecure and fear losing power. Thus the materialism. Greetings from a sag
I’m a Sagittarius and you described my ex! Spot on
@@msjrene05 I attract loads of them. I keep a distance. I know them well. In all fairness there are some ok onea, but not in relationships
I am a scorpio. I had to watch this video twice. First time just how flawless your skin is and the second time actually to what you were saying...
I am Capricorn and my boyfriend is Scorpio. I love the way he loves me!! It’s so intense!!!! But if you try to control them they will stop communicating with you! Period! He is possessive and a protects his women! We both are spiritual and highly sexual beings! He is like an old soul! It’s like knew me before we even got to know each other. They are very loyal and hard workers! They are about the money for sure! His eyes are piercing like they are looking at your soul! Also they are private!
Lol I'm Sag, and my scorpio just told Mr the other day he knew me before he knew me. Said he didn't have to get to know me.also he said if he tells me he loves me it'll be a long time before I heat it again bc to him it doesn't change. Idk if he's hinting he loves me? He's hot n cold and so am. He once said I hadn't given him the assurance that I'll be there if Johnny came to sweep me off my feet. I asked what that meant and he said, will you be there no matter what is going on around us? Omg the sex is so amazing I have never in life made love the way we do...he refuses to have sex without the lights on and when we do he gazes into my eyes and sometimes kisses me so passionately lol I in turn bite his lips from time to time or try to remove his control by pulling my hands away and he softly tells me " no" and I submit immediately. I love him but I'm so scared to tell him, the last time we made love I cried as he gazed into my eyes, I never looked away and finally he lost focus, tilt his head back,, and thrust into ecstasy. I have never forgot that moment. What is he thinking?
scorpio male. all i see are facts.
Here’s a tip
Don’t TRY to get our attention.. like don’t go out of your way being Extra and shit.. we’ll see it’s fake and we won’t even Loom at you.
Be yourself.
We wanna see who YOU are.
Emphasise certain things sure, but also don’t reveal too much either.
Just be You. If we like the Vibe, you’ll know.
If we don’t like your Vibe.. we won’t be looking at you, and if we are.. you might not like the look you’re being given
Girl, “Maybe he’s just not that into you”
I am a Pisces female and he is a Scorpio. You are 100% accurate on their character..
yeah worst texters ever LOL
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I’m finding this out now!
You really have helped me understand what is going on with this person because it is driving me crazy but thank you so much for explaining all this because I needed to hear it
we don't play head games..... we test people. we test everyone, we test both men and women, also we like to understand everything so when we find something or someone who is worth our time we take time away from everything and everyone to evaluate everything we have experience in the situation we experienced.
Henry Hua i agree! As a scorpio woman myself its the same ! We overanalyze but we are better than the most respected detectives, because we also have intuition insight 👌
The🦂 scorpio agrees too👍 Everything is a test and life is the "game And (scorpios know this)
9:19 we don't play games we try to see a deeper side of a person. We like to test people cuz we wanna see what you're hiding, those things you may think that if we find out we'll reject you.
Its not head games we play.....We are Testing you!!!!!....Always Remember That!!!!!
I've met 5 Scorpio men online dating, trying to get to know the 5th one now... What i'm learning is in the beginning is, they are stand offish, don't open up very much, once in while he might ask you questions. but not much. In the beginning it is hard to get your foot in the front door with them lol, its like UGH *Sighes* So difficult.
Commitment phobia✔♏💲🌈
I'm a libra female & attracted a scarpio male😩😩 Jesus take the wheel I don't know where we stand, one day he's in my face the next day he barely knows me. I like him but damm
I'm in the same boat with you. I'm a libra female and he's a Scorpio. Omg he's in his feelings right now about me and all shut off. It's driving me crazy. But I'm not going to push but I'm not giving up cause we have gone a long way over the last month or two. So I've brought some of the wall down but now he's stuck at the moment not talking to anyone. Trust me it's been a long process to get this far. Hang in there! I know my Scorpio and this Libra are worth it!! A lot of patience is required.
Girl don't break your head. Ignore him. You will here from him soon.
As a scorpio man with both moon and sun in that sign, I detest the manipulative part bc I've seen it too much. I just like a challenge and beauty. But unfortunately for us, beauty will always be the first thing to catch our eye and not in a normal way. It must be unique, it starts in the eyes and goes to the face then body. If that checks it still not enough, we need a mental intrest unless it's a game with our friends, which we normally win, but in something real beauty only doesn't stand. I think intellect is the sexiest thing we can notice. I'm ok with a woman trying to be better even if she absolutely is, bc like I said a challenge is always fun and I enjoy better my own smarts. But god damn are we a femnant sign. Aspiring skateboarder right here.
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All these statements from these scorpio men are laughable !its a good thing we all dont like the same.i will admit the best kisser I had was a good looking scorpio.what real women would want to hook up with such a self centered egotistical man.come on woman even if you are a 5 according too these men feeling your worthiness makes you a 10.love is much more.im not vain but I know my worth ,and women i wish you to see your worth! Dont let any man decide your worth! Not a man hater I enjoy men and embrace our differences and yes being a scorpio women I feel deeply!
You are describing the Scorpio man I love, exactly.
Oh my gosh, there's this Scorpio guy who I've known for like 3 years and he stares at me a lot and he does the head games and he will talk to me a lot then loose contact.. I'm not sure what this means but ha Yaaaa
Someone sounds like there not ready, fool✔♏💲🌈
Can’t say I agree with scorpio being primary business minded and materialistic, at least from my own perceptive. I’ve never cared to own the nicest house and cars, I’m hyper focused on my creative projects and money is a secondary concern. I don’t aimlessly spend my money on things that will increase my social status, as long as I have enough to pay for everything that I need I’m happy
Don't think Scorpios have a tendency to cheat. Being a Scorp, I think they will tend to leave a relationship that's not working out rather than stay in it. Scorps are quite frank and detest lying, which seems ironic since we tend to play games. But really we are just testing our partner to see what makes them tick and how far we can push them to get a sense of who they are. It's really the least direct thing a Scorpio would ever do.
Biggest cheaters
I am a Full Scorpio woman, lesbian, but very boyish. I'm sorry for the males playing headgames, or the non contact. I am total opposite of that, maybe it's because they are men. Scorpios always get a bad rep, IDK Y, but I believe and see that we are amazing individuals. When we love, we love with unconditional love, and we are true, loyal and always faithful.
We're not that complicated but intense and DO keep to ourselves. As it goes, "If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen." Jealous? No. Possessive? No. Controlling? Yes..insomuch as we can control our OWN environment.
Haha what ya say so true.. getting attention then lost then comeback when I lost interest 😂🤭😂
Yeah I've scewed a few women up with the head games, they just could not pitch & catch with me. I always let them go easy tho. This video is very accurate, looking for that soul connection.
Thing is they ask for unconditional love but cannot reciprocate...they have crazy high standard but they cannot live up to these standards themselves . they are only loyal to themselves..if they do not see you as their soulmate (no matter if you never wronged them or betrayed them) they will have no remorse to cheat on you and leave you.Every time they come to me and try their game I always tell them "if you leave the boat and withdraw..in my book you cannot be trusted" it kills them.🤣
They are a nightmare!!!!! never again
We like flirting with people, because we like having fun, we are not intentional players, some of us are. We generally test our partners- no head games, well because they have to deal with our dark side and mood swings. We are very emotional and not really materialistic. You may want to check facts on us again- Scorpio sun here
Sounds like they need to learn the meaning of the laws of cause and effect
I'm scorpio and dating one as well... so far so good... he is beautiful, super sexy, romantic and everything I am looking for a man to be with.... I'm not scared of his darkness... we are compatible... we love each other so much... and we just go from there....
I'm a Pisces woman and everything you said here described me....my rising sign is Aries.
I disagree with the materialistic description of scorpio. I don't thinks it's the money itself that we like. It's the process/challenge of making it that appeals more to scorpio. It's a superficial way of viewing scorpio. I agree with the head games though. Again, it's the chase that fascinates a scorpio more than anything.
Hi... I've been thinking of what to say to the scorpio man I know. He has a business car with a website written on it, I tried to do some research to actually see if I liked him ,as all I've seen it's him walking towards his car but now I know he's an old crush of mine I never got to meet back in the date, unsure as to why I find him attractive when I haven't seen him eye to eye more than twice in my life. So I wanted to see if he had an about me on his page, hopefully with a photo, also to find out about what he does for a living... and the bloody website doesn't work... lol. I feel so tempted to raise that as the topic for our first conversation if he approaches me one day outside school..Only if he approaches me and stays, as last time he approached me he walked too fast towards me, penetrated me with his piercing blue eyes, and just after I acknowledge his presence that day and nodded hi after noticing who he was... then he softened his look a bit and abruptly started walking into the direction of the school gate. Do you think it would be a good starting conversation if he came up to me? as I'm not planning to chase him around but since our children are getting to like each other since they discovered they are occassional neighbours when they stay at their grandparents... it's likely to happen sooner or later that we have to talk to each other, it seems we've been naturally drawn to do so by our parents talking to each other to the extent of me finding out he's a Scorpio to our children constantly talking about meeting each other again. I was so relieved not to be there that day he came to my parent's house... lol. I literally felt he hoped to see me there and I was glad not to be reachable or available because I was earning a living. Knowing my parents I'm sure they also told them all about my divorced situation, like I happen to know about his as they seemed to get quite along. It's a weird situation... when your ancestors and descendants are getting along and we haven't even crossed a word. But I must confess it feels sort of fun... I have felt tempted to say something to him or to ask if his child was around so our children could meet and play. But I feel like if he's interested he will do it first and if he doesn't then he's not worth my time or effort.
Im a scorpio man, all I have to say is an enigma is fascinating,mysterious and will keep you guessing, wheres the fun being with a normal guy with the simple boring mudane routines, lifes an adventure to experience and love don't take it for granted
Well done Zoe. I felt like you had found out all my dark secrets. ;)
My scorpio man is really sweet to me kind and caring to me ❤
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What you’re talking about as Negative for Scorpio, might be a projection about yourself
I’m not sure of the “head game” specifics You’re talking about here, but if you gave them a Shallow answer or just turned out not be that interesting… just saying.
We will ask questions already knowing the answer. We wanna see if you’ll tell us the truth, Lie, or avoid the question etc etc.
We’re figuring you out
Maybe you’re scared of being figured out by a Scorpio. Maybe there’s something you don’t want to tackle and you know we’ll bring it out of you and make you confront it.
Scorpio, Rebirthing.
This is what we do.
Lmao get a grip 😩😅
Heeeeyyyy to say the least....the WORST??? MY TWIN FLAME is a Scorpio man! hahahaha I adore my Scorp and nah, not scared of his ass....I love it! Yes, there is a Crazy Ex that still wants him and he is the sexiest MoFo I have ever known but the process, oh boy, the process of not only learning about a Scorp but ALSO my Twin Flame? FML !!!
Scorpio loves to have power over others. Hence they over achieve and play phycological games and withdraw. They play these phycological games because they are highly intuitive. So they love that. They are highly manipulative as well. They do it by withdrawing and silent treatment. It's all about control and power. They live for power and if you are powerful but have humility... Sex is not casual for them its a spiritual and emotional thing for them.
You are right about the secretiveness my boyfriend is the most secretive person I ever met in my life
You haven't met your life, fool✔♏💲🌈
Scorpio moon here. Oct 28th ruled by mars. Don't like head games. If they do that I will disappear and never to be seen again. Head games are to easy to play. ✌️
First wow you’re gorgeous. Second I’m a Scorpio. I wouldn’t say I’m materialistic. Whatever I focus on that’s my drive to finish. To me being a Scorpio is a gift an a curse. The stare is overwhelming to some women.
An yes we play head games. It’s our way of getting through the bullshit, and see if the real person is someone we want to be involved in.
Oh gosh yeah I had that stare... I loved it. I want some more... he made me feel alive, precisely what I was looking for, someone who could set my heart racing in less than 4 seconds. I mean, I loved it and I hated it. It was so unexpected... so unbelievable... do you stare like that to all women or only the ones you find interesting or only the ones you're trying to make a move on... and that as the first sign?
No. I was just hoping someone would answer as soon as possible so I could kill my curiosity as soon as possible. I sometimes hyperfocus and then the next week I completely forget about it. I'm happily single by choice. I have no problem attracting men, not even the scorpio ones.
wow.. you described me to the... T... very accurate... You just exposed us.. 😇😈
Good Vid tho
Im am not a game player !!!!! I don't play head games. And I always give her the benefit of the doubt. Im looking for my virgo. :)
My scorpio man not letting me wear a dress I like unless he’s with me they really controlling and protecting
Your right about a lot of things of the Scorpio man accept this Scorpio is not materialistic. I never been a one to keep up with the Jones.
Looking fab!! 💛
Wow you hit the nail on the head. Described them perfectly.
Lmao this is accurate currently talking to one I’m a Capricorn
Hey zoe, it not that were players we just need to know you are really interested and genuinely want us so we test you and your resolve to see if you really love us because when we fall it 100% and why risk being broken and annihilated if she is going to flake out and run away when we expose our inner self.
My encounters with Scorpios have all been basically the same and according to many people, when they act like they don't like you, they actually do like you. Here's the thing. All of them would be extremely rude to me, then extremely nice and giving me compliments. Is that normal for them? They all showed frustration towards me, is that normal for them? Also, may I ask what your sign is? I am very curious.
Drear Perry Yes very true. And yes that is normal for them. On different days you may get the good side of scorpio and other days the dark side. all depends on the emotions kicking over inside of them. I'm a Libra sun. What's your sign?
Zoe Weeken Just as I thought, thanks! I'm an Aries. I know they say Scorpio and Aries are incompatible but my encounters with them have been very interesting.
mike I lived with one for months and she put me through hell. Yes, I wanted to strangle her but instead, I just ignored her.
mike Very true but check this out. Plot twist: She eventually came to her senses, let down her guard and showed some love for me.
mike I believe that, haha :)
I am a male Scorpio however I am an infinite being first which in truth means I am undefinable... This is what is truly true for all of you too however you must let go of all the definitions of what you think and believe you are as definition by definition alone is limitation and is the precursor to separation and devision. We are at a universal time frame where we must let go of all of the programs and dogma that divide us and in truth we are the Oneness that has and will always been... You are all so very beautiful... Gratitude to you Zoe...
Robert Kremar wow i like that 👍
It takes a mentally/ emotionally strong person to handle a Scorpio. I have a Libra mom and a cancer dad, so life’s been interesting lol (I’m a Scorpio sun/Pisces moon)
You right , you gotta have scorpio energy period or you’ll fall short , myself as a libra sun
And mars Venus and Pluto MC in ♏️ sometimes I feel like I’ll lose my mind with them 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ my SO is scorpio sun and Venus
Please do a video on a Scorpio woman :P thanks Zoe!
We don't need to have sex right away when we meet a girl, we'll try to see if she deserves the passion we're able to bring out of ourselves.
Geez, what's that racket going on in the background? Once it started had an effect on what you were speaking about. Scorpio, just letting you know.
Zoe, first off you are magnetic! Very pretty young woman! A fully realized human doesn't play games. When we lose we gain well some of us do, in my life i have been with extreme maturity and total immature woman and learned from both! When your eyes look up that is sexy!
+ithappensthroughus Villanova thank you :) yes i agree with you. This video definitely does not apply to all scorpio men ;) i know quite a few that are extremely enlightened but they are the ones who enjoy being completely alone until they meet their soulmate. Thanks for your comment and have a good week.
It was a good length video. Thanks for the info.
I'm not materialistic or into business lol I have 4 planets in Scorpio but my rising is Pisces so that could be why
No i totally disagreed with this aswell. Im a 5th house stellium scorpio and im really not sure where this materialism came from.. being materialistic just feel inauthentic and isnt that what we about?
Why do they always say we’re secretive, I’m very private and I like to keep things I value or the people I love to myself. But I also am very honest and if I trust you theirs no secrets I keep from you. I actually hate lies and secrets I view people like that as very weak and fake.
my ex husband was a scorpio....I wish what you said was true....mine was not evolved....oct/nov scorpio's very different:)
australka25 def agree also watch out for that libra scorp cusp
What’s the difference
What if the Scorpio i like always ends hp vip at the club
Yeah you are 100% Right
I'm aries dating with a Scorpio man now for almost 2years( LDR) Scorpio man is very difficult to understand ,too much jealous ,..
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I'm a cancer with Scorpio ascendant, and I find the best most intense sex I have is when the moon is in Scorpio. I love it.
elias phillips I’m a Taurus sun Scorpio moon I loooove Cancer men ❤️❤️❤️
Im a Taurus having a relationship with a Scorpio at the beginning he shows lots of love however as time went on he texts very title im so confuse but whn i said im letting him go he said he loves me.. can't really figure out wht he is doing..
Perth boy here 😅 I'm surprised that I'm born on the same day and month as Leo DiCaprio. 😅
But not year✔fool♏💲
I'm a scorpio. Literally nothing said in this video applies to me. lol
Good thing my Scorpio is actually my soulmate ❤🤤
It's the same with a Scorpio woman I'm a cancer i went with a Scorpio woman for 4 years they are very good in bed we are still friends for life
anyone see that weird bubble at 6:03????
Gavin Smith That was the reflection of light from a passing car because it came from the front of the house, you can tell this because the backyard is behind her in the video
Gavin Smith it was an orb!
I love your long videos!
Cut them off if the other man offered better. Hmmm…unless I ain’t a Scorpio. But I looked in every angle and possible way not to fall to grass is greener thing. I guess the Libra ♎️ in me helps with these. Scorpio sun Libra rising according to Vedic.
This is literally me 100%. Heading to the gym like right now haha 💪
Why do they come back after ghosting you tho? 🤔 dealing with this now smh
Prettyyellagirl22 we gotta know that even through our downs, the partner we want will stick around and not leave while being able to handle all the intense energy we radiate . But when it’s coming from the dark sided Scorpio it’s all about manipulation but to the extreme making you focus all of your energy and time and they will cause arguments that they’ve planned already but do it to drain you. -confessions of a Scorpio man
Look up videos on "narcissistic hoovering "
What's a fixed sign? Which others are fixed signs?
Hard yes lol but I have 4 planets in Scorpio so I understand it but I’m a Libra so it balances
Same here! Tryin to understand him
I’m a Libra sun
with sun, Venus Pluto and Uranus In the 8th…
Hope it’s not a hot 🥵 mess…
My scorpio man hasn’t cut off contact yet 😅 1 year 🥰
Thanks hun. You helped a lot
My soulmate is kurt cobain iam a sag with scorpio in pcises kurt is pcises man with mars in scorpio
scorpios are so pure
Scorpio here I love beautiful women of all races
Nov 1 Right!
What are your thoughts on how to deal with a scorpio when he's stressed. You did mention on how they retreat when they're dealing with intense emotions. I tend to give them their space when they do this. However, I notice that they also hate being alone. They want to be alone but they want you there too. It's so confusing on figuring out what to do. I find my scorpio man to be quite negative and pessimistic. He wasn't like that when we were just friends. Has anyone else had this experience?
Twins Jes & Ris He will tell you when he needs his space but if they are being negative the best thing you can do is to be someone that can just listen to his problems and be a shoulder to lean on. It doesn't last long when they're like that but just be there when he needs the support.
Zoe Weeken Thanks for you input. I gave my shoulder for him to lean on and that's exactly what he needed. On another note, would you say most scorpio men are flirty or have double standards? My experience has been that scorpio men have different layers of jealousy (jealous of other men and also jealous of seeing you happy when they're miserable). They don't want you entertaining any other male's flirtatiousness but they entertain flirts from other females. Perhaps they don't follow through with any of the flirts, but they play along with it nonetheless which isn't cool. Seems like a form of manipulation or head games to me which makes them look like fake people. Would you agree with this?
Life is being cruel to Scorpio,that's why he's being pessimistic, fool✔♏💲🌈💊
@@Jackgritty28 I agree 👍
Nice vid Zoe. I am a Scorpio man and you are 'the complete babe'
Brad Dis Thanks Brad :) that's so sweet. hehe, I like to think that I'm complete ;)
A question ....is he a lier ?i met one 1 STEP: we bounded in a very deep level ..2 STEP amazing sex ....3 STEP he said you are the one because you are like me ...4 STEP He starts to detached with less communication .... 5 STEP after i told him, yes i'm ready to know you better he disappeared LOOOOOL by the way i still feel his vibes , and i must say he was a great communicator , which is strange for a scorpio
Uhm... I do feel some strange energies.. do you think it's them thinking about us? I can't get rid of the obsession for this guy I don't know at all, I only had him gazing at me but our lives are getting closer by our children and even our parents seem to get along and then it's just me and him being standoffish... ;D
@@Pzychonoir for sure, My girl usually texts me when I am feeling intense love for her. it's as if I send all of my energy directly to her, she can't handle it and texts me. I only had 2 persons who I've had this connection with, the only 2 girls I got attached to
@@hugolopez6644 thanks so much for taking time to let me know this. I thought I was going bananas... lol. ;D. In fact all that intense energies have vanished a lot. He must have found someone else. I don't bump into him as often lately and these days it seems I only do when I manage to completely forget about him. But when I notice him he's not looking so I just pretend I hadn't noticed him either. Either way, he has a way to contact me and he hasn't, so he might just not like me at all. And that's ok. ;D
@@Pzychonoir very stupid the way we think sometimes, we could be dying inside just to talk with you. we don't allow ourselves to do so 😢.
about the energy banishing, it happens we release a lot of it. and we take our time to charge up, the big issue is that the void is so huge that it takes a while to fill it up, then we feel ready to let ourselves lose again. don't know what's in his head, he could be dying to be with you, or lost interest.
If he really cares for you, you'll be surprised one day 😏😏.
keep moving on, if life wants you together it'll happen.
I always have had good control over myself, except the talking about my feelings part, but I've learned some very good things lately, I am not scared to say what I feel anymore, I would literally die for anyone I love, and I am 100% loyal. I don't care for anyone else other than my loved ones.
but then I feel compassion for everyone else 😂😂😂😂 very complex but never fake or dishonest. keep moving on 😆😆 don't let the past keep you stuck in yesterday
@@hugolopez6644 Hi Hugo! Thanks, it's not like I spend my days thinking about him or anything. I'm quite busy myself with my own business, children and dating life, but when I park next to his parent's house (and I think he lives there too) or hear my son plotting to meet his son then it's impossible not to think about that strange scorpio guy. I'm currently dating someone on and off because after my divorce I just don't think I should start anything serious with anyone. I want time for myself, my children and my business. Although at one point the energies felt were so intense that I even had to stop dating the guy I am currently dating again because I felt sort of betraying him. That's how loyal or faithful I am to my feelings for someone. Like it felt unfair having my date and keep thinking about the Scorpio stranger. This only happened for a short while. It was a time when all of a sudden my son and his became friends, my parents and his engaged in long conversations whilst our children had fun together. It's through those conversations that my parents mentioned his date of birth as he's only a month or two older than my brother. I also met his parents by accident whilst picking up my son another day, as his father asked my son or my son asked if he was going to be at his grandparents that evening. Also I had met his ex, she didn't say they were divorced at all, however through that conversation I found out too he had been divorced for two years as well. So yeps. For a moment it seemed life was bringing me closer to that Scorpio stranger. But really, it turned out he wasn't such a stranger, first time I noticed him I was 11 years old and I had a crush on him. But really never actually met him. It was more like a physical crush based on the first time I looked at him. Something about his eyes ... I found attractive. But then he disappeared completely off the neighbourhood. I think he started going to a different highschool and that's it. Never saw him again. Couldn't even figure out the dad I had noticed at school collecting his kids was remotely the guy I had a crush on when I was 11. Of course... now I try to rationalize things. I don't like guys just by their looks anymore. He has to have brains, potential and fuck tons of courage... as I apparently intimidate guys and I'm not the kind of woman who chases men either. But now I'm also more unavailable than ever because I have my own business and kids to concentrate on. And really sort of fulfilled so not much he could provide me with unless we have a great connection if we actually ever get to have any kind of conversation. But I think somehow it was weird it's this year after two years our sons sharing the same class that I actually noticed him, realized who he was or all these incidents. But I think now it's all vanishing and going. So in a way it's way better. Because the energy was like too intense. And I love to be owner and ruler of my thoughts and feelings ;D
More prominent for people with Scorpio rising with sun in it.
Give a glass full of love and a Scorpio will return 100 barrels of love back to you....but double cross him, and he will wake up from his grave to put it right! Be loyal to him and he will love you forever....lie to him and you will stop existing for him.😊
I'm a libra female with a Scorpio man, tbh he's exquisitely a fucking cheater(not all Scorpios) yet I forgave him so many times I actually wonder if he truly loves me more than the other females since I already meet them and at the total shock I was the only one who actually knows all of his personal problems, meet his family, and even knows side of him that they don't
I'm really confused
Well I am a scorpio woman but can relate to most of the traits.. I need money n success, materialistic.. True, but I am lazy and laid back in bad way. I think itll sonehow soneday affect my career. If you can also tell things to get over that please let me know.. I am passionate about things that are of importance and other things go out of the window. Love sex, but like you said sex is very sacred and cant do one night stands n all. We seek attention from ppl we like or are attracted to and play mind games to know the persons intent. We only open ourselves to those who rly want to know us and who isnt flaky and flighty about us, thats why we play that game. Am not social and space and privacy is important. Family person, health conscious,
To the T. Hot-cold, close-distant.
I love your video, very interesting to learn about scorpios men. I wish he’ll love me in the end.
Love ain't that interesting in the end, fool✔♏💲🌈
As a Scorpio man from my experience. I am really bad into bad relationships because of having good sex with women. I have been married twice and have suffered from it. The root cause of my two bad marriages was after marrying them that their true personalities came out. Both became truly financially irresponsible besides the first being a drug addict after. Nothing pisses me off than being financially irresponsible and getting themselves in trouble and I am the answer to their problems. First was a Leo who was manipulative and last was a Sagittarius who had no clue. Both ended in divorce. My after relationships that I ran into was most dangerous was Aires. I dated 5 of them. They are strong and could nearly destroy me in bed no shit! But I detect they want to control me and I left them quick. The last one nearly physically hurt me because she stalked me for months to ruin everything I tried to do. Aires women are dangerous crazy women.
It’s important for water sign to look at their charts to see which sign they will mesh better with earth, water, or fire. I recommend Scorpios stay far from Aries unless it’s friendship. Too much mars. All Scorpio needs is earth is you ask me if they do have a lot of earth and fire in the chart they may do better with a water sign.
Sounds like "all my exes are crazy" when in fact you're the problem.
@@anayarey 🤣🤣🤣🤣
These tests that we talk about .... 😂😂😂 im so bad at that😂😂😂 Sorry baby boy im a masterpiece Signed ♉🙏✨ Ngl ♏ has me 😍 but he wont ever know until I know hes feeling me
Pisces we the best better than the rest we can rap too - yo yo yo yo yo Scorpio are camels toes wassup I Anita a cup we da best I'm wearing a vest in da club sipping that bub party it out as a fart one out me be dancing yo yo dancing getting them hos I love drugs too yo-
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@@Jackgritty28 right
HA!! Yeah, I have miles of women chasing after me.You should see them all lined up outside my house XD I can't even get one to like me. Like, what's really going on?