Why Would I Compete For A Man? | Dailyrapupcrew Podcast Ep 38

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  • @DailyRapUpCrew
    @DailyRapUpCrew  2 года назад +21

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    • @redstick5008
      @redstick5008 2 года назад

      @19:50... Your Both right. My guy in muddle & on far right..
      Though Timing is everything.
      >Every grown Man should have or learn the guy code of honor.
      The saying goes, "Bros before 304s".
      However, if you Real have moved on (by definition) you shouldn't have no thoughts or be emotionally tied to your so called ex. Period.
      If your friend a real friend he will not make any attempts on any of your exes...We have a name for males who back door friends. We callem *Fk Boys*.....
      Now I agree with my guy on far right when said "Do unto others".
      The only time one shouldn't an Ex is if that close friend holla some years later about it. Or if your dating his Ex already....
      As for the woman... She should know better. She should NEVER pursue your friends at any time Unless, your dating hers after the breakup... any women that'll do this right after breaking up is purely for spite and to hurt the man.

    • @redstick5008
      @redstick5008 2 года назад

      @25:00, Let shorty know that No Real Men CuCkholding there relationships.. that's what Fk boys do... ain't no way, No real men will Take you seriously (I wont) fkn multiple dudes... you definitely not getting No special treatment..ijs

    • @breaktube
      @breaktube 2 года назад +1

      You know, I like this new setup (3-Men with 2-Women).
      Also the change up on the Mens side.
      Less 'goofy' energy and more clear serious discussions.
      Everyone stayed in frame and gave both sides respect.

    • @DailyRapUpCrew
      @DailyRapUpCrew  2 года назад +2

      @@breaktube it’s was supposed to be 3 women the third flopped

    • @Jo3yblaze200
      @Jo3yblaze200 2 года назад +1

      Every girl y’all brought on be ugly af

  • @broderickcamel1701
    @broderickcamel1701 2 года назад +68

    Best backhanded compliment award for:
    "I can see, based on your personality, why you believe that "

  • @blackroyalbrand1287
    @blackroyalbrand1287 2 года назад +29

    Nothing against the LGBT community but please stop with the Bi-sexual female guests bc she took over the whole interview with a sweatshirt and a lesbian attitude 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @dasani6055
    @dasani6055 2 года назад +75

    When women say they don't compete, they mean they are not going to compete for average men. They will compete for above average men though.

    • @singingchef23
      @singingchef23 2 года назад +16

      Some, alot of women are competing with the men they want especially the HV men.

    • @justinwilliams3474
      @justinwilliams3474 2 года назад +9

      They barely do that tbh

    • @crosstudio
      @crosstudio 2 года назад +21

      not only do they compete, they share. they would rather share a man that makes $250k over having a man to themselves that makes $50k.
      but that's not new. That's why "father Abraham" had Sarah, Hagar, and Keturrah. That's why Jacob had Leah, Rachel, Bilhah and Silpah. 1 man, 4 wives.
      Look at Trump. 3 wives 5 kids. None of his wives has any kids outside of him.

    • @SirN8speare
      @SirN8speare 2 года назад +6

      And complain about it the whole time

    • @eltonjohn4239
      @eltonjohn4239 2 года назад

      @@crosstudio brother Lord Abraham and Lord Jacob did not have women competing for them....
      Abraham first wife Sarah couldn't bare children so she gave Lord Abraham her handmaid(Hagar) and she bore Ishmael..at the end Hagar was ask to leave with Ishmael because Sarah just couldn't bare Hagar throwing Ishmael in her face..He also married Keturah after Sarah Died...
      Lord Jacob was deceived by his father in law Laban, into marrying Laban's first daughter Leah whom he thought was the woman he loved Rachel( Laban's youngest daughter)
      Bilah( Rachel's handmaid) was given to Lord Jacob to conceive children with because Rachel ( like Sarah) thought she couldn't bare children..
      Zilpah was also Rachel's handmaid ,and given to Jacob( by Rachel) for the same reason...to bare children because Rachel thought she couldn't bare children... ironically the two youngest boys ,and most beloved by their father Jacob, came from Rachel's womb( lord Joseph and lord Benyamin)...
      I don't know where some of us get that have multiple wives is permitted but it's not...you have to read the scriptures in context

  • @josephmcgee6710
    @josephmcgee6710 2 года назад +217

    I’ve watched so many videos…. And on my soul, not one woman has answered the “what you bring to the table” question lol…. I’m still trying to figure out what modern women think is valuable lol.

    • @sae4493
      @sae4493 2 года назад +42

      Money is their god. They’re lost, got no desire to have a role in relationships. I’ve also never heard them say what they will do for a man and it be something a man wants.

    • @interviewwithdevin2902
      @interviewwithdevin2902 2 года назад +34

      Crazy thing is men give them the cheat sheet (Kevin Samuels). F.b.i. But you'll hear about degrees and business.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 2 года назад +14

      they arent help mates...modern feminism cant answer or put action to that question

    • @Dddherdjo
      @Dddherdjo 2 года назад +5

      You get it confused, they have alot of things i man want and need. They just dont wanna share. Big ego

    • @zoe_zucci
      @zoe_zucci 2 года назад +8

      I don’t know who is raising these wolves.

  • @TheFK8Life
    @TheFK8Life 2 года назад +29

    A woman who is unwilling to compete automatically fails

  • @the_creative70
    @the_creative70 2 года назад +41

    At about 27 mins, I do agree that BOTH should be mutually pursuing each other. It shows seriousness. Otherwise, you’re getting played.

  • @mr.culturefreedom2073
    @mr.culturefreedom2073 2 года назад +13

    BW aren't competing and they're the least married. BM would rather be alone than deal with this nonsense.

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 2 года назад +24

    Oh Lawd a Baby Mama and a wanna be actress into Astrology not wanting to compete for a man. Foolishness!

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 2 года назад +5

      This is America

    • @eq2092
      @eq2092 2 года назад +1

      @@Cahluvca I feel sorry for single dudes if this the best y'all got to pick from.

    • @sshaw1015
      @sshaw1015 2 года назад

      Lol

    • @sshaw1015
      @sshaw1015 2 года назад

      Straight Foolishness

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 2 года назад +2

      @@eq2092 😂🤣😅🤣😅🤣

  • @LOSTGPS
    @LOSTGPS 2 года назад +57

    The word of the day is “PASSPORT”, these American women through.

    • @waj4ever16
      @waj4ever16 2 года назад +17

      Haha. I don’t know how more people haven’t figured this out. I lived in Colombia for 4 years and the average Colombian chick runs circles around American chicks. It’s not even close.

    • @ImGerald
      @ImGerald 2 года назад +6

      @@waj4ever16 good. Don’t bring her back to the states 😂

    • @RealJayNice
      @RealJayNice 2 года назад +11

      @@ImGerald Never bring a foreign chick to the states people will try to turn her into the “modern woman” then next thing you know she will be a toxic feminist and what you tried to get away from.💯🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @caveman357
      @caveman357 2 года назад

      @@waj4ever16 What’s is your situation now? Married, kids?

    • @Seafarers199
      @Seafarers199 2 года назад

      💯✈️

  • @lamario
    @lamario 2 года назад +5

    "Why would I compete when I'm the prize?"... "The people that I choose are bad picks." She said this in the same breath. How are you the MVP making bad plays? Somebody make it make sense.

  • @lawrencewilliams4550
    @lawrencewilliams4550 2 года назад +86

    She’ll find out in about 10yrs why she should’ve competed for a man.

    • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
      @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 2 года назад +12

      Agreed. They still young and naive

    • @nk7925
      @nk7925 2 года назад +1

      You sound like a damsel in distress

    • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
      @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 года назад +2

      @@nk7925 curious to know why ?

    • @lawrencewilliams4550
      @lawrencewilliams4550 2 года назад +2

      @@nk7925 , how? Nothing I said was in reference to me. I’m sure my life is 1,000x’s better than yours.🤧😂🤣😂

    • @downsouthdeebo1346
      @downsouthdeebo1346 2 года назад +3

      That's true...but also they sound like they never had a man with top 10% earnings, all Pookies and Ray-Ray's which allows them to feel superior and worthy to be chased without having to compete. Also I'm curious how they'd respond to a celebrity they find attractive like a Chris Brown or athletes like Cam Newton with more resources and options 🤔

  • @DRoyale1
    @DRoyale1 2 года назад +17

    Truthfully, this all sounds juvenile to me…

    • @eq2092
      @eq2092 2 года назад +9

      FACTs. They think and behave like High School girls. What amazes me is they really believe the nonsense that comes out of they mouth is intelligent and profound. Granted this is entertaining in a Jerry Springer show sort of way. Sure they might be fun to go party with and smash but they aren't wives.

  • @TheGr8-1
    @TheGr8-1 2 года назад +37

    The first question as a man of honor, this literally happened to me in my college years. And because my friend was someone I knew my whole life, he was like my brother. And while the girl in question was a fine a$$ boricua..it wasn’t easy but I’d do the same thing every time and that is pu$$y ain’t enough for me to choose a piece of cookie over my boy for life.
    These younger cats today though, they soft and have way more feminine energy so they put ass on a pedestal and lack honor like the days of old. No man as a true friend should ever choose a piece of cookie over a day one.

    • @bobbym1799
      @bobbym1799 2 года назад +1

      Respectfully I disagree because for me it's never about the woman it's always about the man that woman I broke up with her I have no allegiance to her. My brother my friend whatever he considered he does have allegiance to me and if he crosses a line that I wouldn't then it tells me that his Allegiance is fickle and I can't deal with fickle people in my circle

    • @Kyro23
      @Kyro23 2 года назад +9

      @@bobbym1799 you disagree but said the same thing?

  • @julez4002
    @julez4002 2 года назад +3

    How the women so casually talk over each other is mind-blowing. Pure chaos.

  • @Ashtray77
    @Ashtray77 2 года назад +7

    I love watching you guys. Y'all have the realest, unfiltered podcast on RUclips.

    • @sophiasmith5949
      @sophiasmith5949 2 года назад

      No such thing as a unfiltered youtube podcast.

  • @SPEIGHTS78
    @SPEIGHTS78 2 года назад +3

    When you ask " What do you bring to the table?" To a woman that question it is not designed for a relationship of love, emotions, etc.
    But moreso in terms of an actual BUSINESS RELATIONSHIP which ONLY deals with 📈 profits u sell/made together which u COULD NOT DO ON THERE OWN.
    The question that needs to be asked to women/men is
    "For the man that you desire, what value do you bring to his life as a woman, that would make him want to choose you ? "

  • @MENTALHEALTHBOXING
    @MENTALHEALTHBOXING 2 года назад +8

    Natural vs done up is what the real convo is. Shorty that’s natural look like what most of the baddies look like if they didn’t have weave and make up on.

  • @Cahluvca
    @Cahluvca 2 года назад +10

    America/western society has enabled these women to a ridiculous level....

  • @theukeconomist6518
    @theukeconomist6518 2 года назад +28

    A woman who is a 3 at best stating she doesn't have to compete for a high quality man, I think she needs to worry about all the low quality deadbeats that she attracts. 😆

    • @LeekedBeats
      @LeekedBeats 2 года назад +4

      I highly agree 🤣😭

    • @dreday9049
      @dreday9049 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @workingonmyself
      @workingonmyself 2 года назад +8

      lol! She had a tattoo sleeve and talking like she’s a supermodel. I blame the men in her dms.

    • @severussin
      @severussin 2 года назад +2

      Acne

    • @omarsall3305
      @omarsall3305 2 года назад

      why ya coming for her 💀

  • @kssofdeath9233
    @kssofdeath9233 2 года назад +14

    Women like to stunt on other women

  • @redstick5008
    @redstick5008 2 года назад +13

    The friend should get her own. But it's competition for a reason. The next Leveli up is successfully raising a family together as competent parents.

  • @hustlaus
    @hustlaus 2 года назад +5

    She dated dudes that didn't have a car but she wants 6 feet and over??? WTF???

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 2 года назад +4

      The men that they are SEXUALLY attracted to don’t have to bring anything to the table except for looks, height, and 9-10 inches ding-a-ling.
      Brothers go where you’re celebrated and not tolerated! If you gotta jump through hoops for these women run and run away fast!

  • @eon001
    @eon001 2 года назад +12

    The average woman doesn't have to compete for the average man. But if you want a man of value you're going to have to fight tooth and nail to get him, and fight even harder to keep him.
    And I'm not even talking about rich guys. Being tall and athletic already puts you in the 10% of men. All my dumb, broke, basketball team mates had there pick of women.

    • @jakethethird1584
      @jakethethird1584 2 года назад +2

      Your first sentence is not true just by the numbers. It just usually happens later on.

    • @drmattbarnes1371
      @drmattbarnes1371 2 года назад

      Until the wall comes

  • @AacaL05
    @AacaL05 Год назад

    You guys have to have these ladies back on. I saw a clip and was impressed

  • @singingchef23
    @singingchef23 2 года назад +15

    One of my closest friends has kids with a woman I loved, and it bothered me for a week, now our kids play together every weekend. Somethings arent worth holding onto

    • @AK33M
      @AK33M 2 года назад +13

      Just know your wife is next on the hit list

    • @anthonymerritt1114
      @anthonymerritt1114 2 года назад +2

      @@AK33M lol. Lol. Lol.

    • @ulquiorra3104
      @ulquiorra3104 2 года назад

      Exactly you moved on get over it. We all fucking someone's sloppy seconds

    • @lildel7698
      @lildel7698 2 года назад +2

      Well duh if you already got kids lol

    • @aplus_mvp
      @aplus_mvp 2 года назад +2

      Shit nigga I went out with a chick and her baby father was murdered and got with one of his close friends and she was cheating on him with me... Imagine being the kid growing older and learning that jeez...

  • @deeplus777
    @deeplus777 2 года назад +5

    Stop saying I feel - Feelings are emotions it’s not the truth. Let’s normalize working off of truth & Logic!

    • @Usenabt
      @Usenabt 2 года назад

      No matter what you say it’s always based on what you feel 🤨. You just said you ‘hate’…. You can’t escape emotion and there’s no such thing as logic without emotion. That’s a circuit board.

  • @SJaxn1224
    @SJaxn1224 2 года назад +8

    I agree with son in the middle, I can careless about who my ex is dating if when I’m in a happy relationship.

    • @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671
      @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671 2 года назад +2

      But she should be off limits to those in your circle. Too many women out here to be dating your boys ex.

  • @legalizepidgin8230
    @legalizepidgin8230 2 года назад +2

    Lord knows why the tables are so single

  • @linchayes9007
    @linchayes9007 Год назад +1

    I 100% agree once I'm in a new relationship I don't care what my ex-girlfriend does....once the break up happens she's a free agent she can do whatever and I'm a Virgo

  • @Creditkae
    @Creditkae 2 года назад +35

    Best group of women I seen. And I not talking looks. They were articulate and engaging and not rude. And we’re real about shit

    • @eon001
      @eon001 2 года назад +4

      It's about time. I like this show, but the past few eps were making black women look horrible.

    • @mississippibilly_
      @mississippibilly_ 2 года назад +8

      @@eon001 lol I was thinking it made the dudes look bad too...I was like these the type joints y'all around

    • @Wanderer25
      @Wanderer25 2 года назад +7

      @@mississippibilly_ In the NY hood yea 🤣

    • @jahanghir528
      @jahanghir528 2 года назад +3

      It's the best because they are not black. Sorry but black women are aggressive, mixed race girls are more relaxed.

    • @mississippibilly_
      @mississippibilly_ 2 года назад +2

      @@jahanghir528 I'm from the home of black women I've been to NY 6x over 10 years and dealt with mixies I disagree on your generalization

  • @jussmelody6294
    @jussmelody6294 2 года назад +1

    Yo my mans thats filling in is on 1. He made some points!

  • @jackstone88
    @jackstone88 2 года назад +4

    "I'm the table!" Big 🚩🚩🚩

  • @XxxSPIKEx
    @XxxSPIKEx 2 года назад +1

    That synchronized “Awww” at 32:20 had me dead lmao 😂💀.

  • @nephewd8818
    @nephewd8818 2 года назад +1

    This gotta be one of my favorite episodes. Definitely BRING THEM BACK

  • @kouplegrand
    @kouplegrand 2 года назад +7

    Fun fact: Any time i ever liked a female & couldn’t get her, but my homie got her!!!! It’s usually hit her for me since i can’t lol
    It’s a win for all of us lol

    • @a-t5380
      @a-t5380 2 года назад +2

      Bruh.. I just told the homie this the other day.. We both saw her come in the bar... And I was like if she like me cool.. If she like you cool.. But one of us gotta get it.. He laughed.. We dapped up and approached... He pulled this time.. But plenty of times I get em... The worst thing is when nikkuns have this if I aint getting it nobody is mentality.. Bruh. If I see she feeling you bruh ima assit in whatever way.. And vice versa .. Thats wingman shit

    • @Cyber_Levi
      @Cyber_Levi 2 года назад +2

      That's a big fact!!! these females choose up sometimes. Atleast somebody in the squad got it. lol

  • @DERV0UR
    @DERV0UR 2 года назад +6

    This definitely was better than last episode

  • @vonwhitt6159
    @vonwhitt6159 2 года назад

    She got me at the what’s your sign😭🤣🤣, lmaooo. The way they was talking I was waiting on it lol

  • @JovhonteFirstOfHisName
    @JovhonteFirstOfHisName 2 года назад +8

    1st question was crazy
    My homeboy and I went to these 2 chicks crib. Within an hour of chilling with the girls they wanted to switch so they asked us could we switch. Me and my boy was "why not". Long story short the chick I switch with let me hit and the original girl I was with didn't let my boy hit cause she was mad. Dont do it even if she said yes it means no

  • @rayshonmeeks5444
    @rayshonmeeks5444 2 года назад +5

    BW need to be humbled. That's the only way to fix our culture going forward. We have to bring our ladies back to reality. Sadly BW act like they won the championship when they didn't even qualify for the playoffs.

  • @levimcfadden7276
    @levimcfadden7276 2 года назад +7

    Love the content. I keep life simple. Never date a friend's ex. If you feel it is "love", you will at least tell your friend before moving forward. Honor, loyalty, and respect. Always!

  • @fwhite825
    @fwhite825 2 года назад +7

    If you don’t want to compete, there is a guy at CVS overweight and you don’t have to compete for him at all

  • @daquestdh
    @daquestdh 2 года назад +2

    No cap on the friend dating the untouchable ex topic... The two dudes sounds hella snakey and disloyal to all they homies cus if you ok with going for your bro's ex that means you been wanting her the whole time we was together and unconsciously was praying on our downfall so you can have an opportunity with her ... That beta shit, weak and desperate ... Real stand up men don't go after the real homies exes. 💯💯💯 Dude's like that are untrustworthy and should be cut off 💯💯💯

  • @enohp660
    @enohp660 2 года назад +6

    This may not be news to anyone here but I’ll share a bit of my own experience. If a woman knows you have the means to do things for her, but you’re very selective about what you do for her, she’s gonna work a whole lot harder, or “compete”, to get you to do more. Any dude with a wife and a side chick will confirm that the side chick works way harder to keep him happy than his wife does.

    • @_DB.
      @_DB. 2 года назад +2

      I don’t know what kind of wife you have. Maybe that’s the problem. Lol

  • @Bettingmotion
    @Bettingmotion 2 года назад +8

    This shows women don’t understand how men think sexually 😂😂😂 gotta go into the biology detail

  • @bull6599
    @bull6599 2 года назад +13

    1st she said "I usually male bad picks"
    Then she said "I don't ask anybody to prove their worth to me"
    Well maybe that's why you keep making bad picks. Women will run head first into a point and still miss it 🤦‍♂️🤦

  • @BerdIView
    @BerdIView 2 года назад +1

    She really just said a train was some middle school ish WOW

  • @MrFaceoff188
    @MrFaceoff188 2 года назад +2

    You gotta start having these girls spell out their tags cause I barely be understanding them

  • @JamenLS
    @JamenLS 2 года назад +4

    These women are toxic af! Omgg!

  • @AP-WhatsUp
    @AP-WhatsUp 2 года назад +2

    Lil baby with the grey sweater looks like the little girl from the boondocks .

  • @eq2092
    @eq2092 2 года назад +8

    One of these ladies is an aspiring actress? Oh lawd I know we about to hear some foolishness come out of her mouth. 😂🤣

  • @Roan.bot.
    @Roan.bot. 2 года назад

    Yo i love the conversations. It’s always interesting to hear the woman’s perspective on things.

  • @MrQuincy611
    @MrQuincy611 2 года назад +2

    Once again these are kids and have no idea about anything!

  • @blackmorpheus4331
    @blackmorpheus4331 2 года назад +2

    🤣🤣😅 I CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIT UP--KEVIN SAMUELS 😂 🤣 😀

  • @mrmoe110
    @mrmoe110 2 года назад +1

    You see shorty in the white put her head down when sweatshirt talked about she couldn’t let a dude smash after one date lmao

  • @lewulfe7675
    @lewulfe7675 2 года назад +1

    I can't wait until all these videos become That didn't age well Moments...

  • @antwinejones1947
    @antwinejones1947 2 года назад +1

    Some of the best guests so far!

  • @switzjon8405
    @switzjon8405 2 года назад

    This was a legit mature discussion.

  • @TmcJordan
    @TmcJordan 2 года назад

    Dude In the bucket hat and white sweater the only one speaking with real Sense 😂😂

  • @dillon172
    @dillon172 2 года назад +26

    19:00 it’s not about being jealous it’s about the principle. Just like a guy not being a trick regardless if he has 20,000 or 20 Billion. Simple just about not being cool with things that would go against my character

    • @T0MAND3RSON
      @T0MAND3RSON 2 года назад

      Bruh it's impossible to be tricking if you got it
      It's charity at that point.
      Not having and giving it makes you a trick because you tricking off shit you can't spare. Now if youre imping well...

    • @thatnickuh
      @thatnickuh 2 года назад

      @@T0MAND3RSON stop getting your game from lil Wayne lyrics. Dude is an addict. Trickin is trickin, it doesn’t matter how much money you have. If you’ve got to break bread to get women to spend time with you then you’re a trick.

    • @T0MAND3RSON
      @T0MAND3RSON 2 года назад

      @@thatnickuh thank you for the nostalgia
      If you're going to come for me come with some facts and not projection.
      Explain to me how it's tricking of you aren't a imp. Gotta pay to play time isn't free my g. Now I'm average Joe so no I'm not directly paying for anything (not saying I wouldn't). I'm also not ignorant to how females are. Anecdotal aside what makes you think buying anything isn't tricking - when sone meb only buy certain things for the attraction of a female. Principles are subjective. Not knocking what you're saying just giving clarity in a myth.

    • @thatnickuh
      @thatnickuh 2 года назад +1

      @@T0MAND3RSON Not coming for you bro, just trying to keep the record straight. A trick and a simp aren’t one in the same. A trick pays a woman for her time. A simp is just a yes-man to women. It’s never ok to be a simp but tricking is subjective. Personally, I say tricking becomes a problem when that’s the only context a man can deal with women. The old saying goes “you’re not paying her to fuk, you’re paying her to leave afterwards”. But if the only way you can get women is to pay them then you’re just a lame. Tricking is always tricking it just doesn’t have to always be a bad/lame thing.

    • @T0MAND3RSON
      @T0MAND3RSON 2 года назад

      @@thatnickuh now we're on the same page. However imma respectfully disagree on tricks and imps being different. They can be one in the same
      Trick was tricked out of something
      Imp just gives rather receiving or not
      Correct me if I'm wrong though.

  • @corey22beardable
    @corey22beardable 2 года назад

    Dude in the middle is cappin until it actually happens to him

  • @irveljerome4027
    @irveljerome4027 2 года назад

    Bring these 2 women back to your show... They are entertaining and have a brain in their head

  • @jacqidollhouse
    @jacqidollhouse 2 года назад +4

    Nah my friends ex is off limits and so is mine, it’s not bitterness it’s respect.

    • @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671
      @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671 2 года назад +2

      Facts! I was over her yelling at my phone like "they can't be serious! " especially bro in the middle like man what?

    • @wordplay6665
      @wordplay6665 2 года назад +1

      Right. No conversation

  • @Will008
    @Will008 2 года назад +4

    It’s less men and more women. So it’s quite natural that a woman should compete for a man, especially if he’s high valued.

    • @donna7049
      @donna7049 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 yall wish

    • @ahegaonugget
      @ahegaonugget 2 года назад +1

      There's more women to men in the U.S. On the entire planet men outnumber women

  • @oluwatobiajayi8868
    @oluwatobiajayi8868 2 года назад +1

    Good podcast fellas as usual, ladies thank you for the education and please come back!!!

  • @lobecosc
    @lobecosc 2 года назад +10

    Great podcast. Listening to these ladies reminds me that Myron is right.

  • @tzadibazzey4191
    @tzadibazzey4191 2 года назад

    lmaooo dude said if you have multiple strong women behind you, you become Thanos #facts

  • @StryifeTheVillain
    @StryifeTheVillain 2 года назад +1

    What's ya sign.......I clock out on every girl who ask me this
    "Why would I compete when I'm the prize" by what standard? What value do you have outside of looks? Like when that shit fade what are you gonna do?
    What make me approach you ain't gonna make me want to keep you.
    Lastly friends ex's you gotta break bread with ya man's on that cause if you doing it behind my back we gotta throw hands. If you hide it makes me feel like you was scooping her when we were together.

  • @didhereally438
    @didhereally438 2 года назад

    The table is the relationship smh 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️ i hate when they say they the table

  • @BjtheLawyer_
    @BjtheLawyer_ 2 года назад +3

    I’m waiting on the decent, loving, real women to come out.

  • @lildel7698
    @lildel7698 2 года назад

    Even my conditioning has been conditioned

  • @levimcfadden7276
    @levimcfadden7276 2 года назад +1

    These women have a better demeanor than a lot of guests on some of these channels. They should come back from time to time.

  • @BHanif1996
    @BHanif1996 2 года назад +1

    The "I am the table," and the fact that she hasn't had to compete shows what guys deals with.
    Not to say that these guys are bad. But she sees herself as above them and thinks that a man approaches her because she's special.

  • @ginorusselwilliams9461
    @ginorusselwilliams9461 2 года назад

    Many men in her DM trying to take her out?
    These men must be desperate as f***!

  • @qgrandberry
    @qgrandberry 2 года назад +3

    Y'all be putting these childish azz girls in here... they elevator don't go up all the way

  • @Tj-es4fi
    @Tj-es4fi 2 года назад +1

    We need relationship class in school.

  • @chblegendary165
    @chblegendary165 2 года назад +2

    If my bro date a chick I was in love with at one point, I can’t trust that dude. I don’t care who she dating or what she doing but if it’s my bro I’m looking at him different

  • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
    @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 2 года назад +2

    "Iam the table" = I don't bring anything of substance. I'm cute and that should be enough.

  • @sonnievans7419
    @sonnievans7419 2 года назад

    When she asked him his sign already knew he was an Aquarius

  • @shawnwillis6496
    @shawnwillis6496 2 года назад

    The saying treat me like I want to be treated is B.S. treat me the way I want to be treated and we won't have a problem

  • @JamG519
    @JamG519 2 года назад +9

    It was a great show. I have to agree that anyone I’m cool with can date my ex. As much as I cared for her - I let go. When we get upset, it’s multifaceted. One, we never truly let go and should NOT be in future relationships until we learn to let go, because we’re now bringing that trauma to someone else.
    Two, it’s from a place of trauma. In urban areas, specifically when we were raised in single parent households, all many men have is their girl and at times siblings. So, sharing that (past paramours) with someone we’re cool with is where we get upset. The psyche behind it all can help us grow in many ways, not just in love relations.
    The woman on the right, with the sweater, has really good points but the perception given is she runs her relationships. I’m curious to know if she had male role models given her masculine energy. She’s a beautiful woman, who’s also easy to speak to, but she displays very dominant energy, or as she said, BPE.
    That’s where the disconnect is. She’s and many others believe that energy is what men want - and unfortunately while she still has youth, beauty and elasticity in her skin, eventually, that goes away and then all they have is their profession, pets and old stories of when they were in their 20’s. Buffy The Body is a perfect example too that.
    Homegirl on the left, though well spoken, and easy to communicate with (big plus) has past traumas as well, which is why she finds herself testing a man’s loyalty.

    • @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671
      @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671 2 года назад +4

      Man it's too many women out here to be dating the same ones. Once the homie has dated her she off limits for life.

    • @JamG519
      @JamG519 2 года назад

      @@joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671 I agree to a certain extent. You must take into account, the circle in which you’re in; the profession in which one chooses, the lifestyle etc.; that is why you see celebrities dating the same people, and CEO’s, CFO’s etc., also dating in the same circle. It’s much more complex when you look at relations as a whole and not just for short term pleasure. When you’re dating just to smash, it’s one thing, but when people are looking to grow generational wealth, they’ll often find themselves dating the same circle because those are the ones in their dating pool in which they would even give energy too.

    • @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671
      @joshwesley-maxlevelphysiqu671 2 года назад +3

      @@JamG519 I understand what you're saying but I'm talking your immediate circle. Someone you consider a true friend can find someone you haven't dated. If it's that serious I'm done with both of them.

    • @sweetwonkahallelujah7016
      @sweetwonkahallelujah7016 2 года назад +1

      the younglady on the right will be totally different when it starts takin her longer to scroll down and select her birth year…BPE has an expiration date on it once she turns 35

    • @JamG519
      @JamG519 2 года назад

      @@shayemoore Absolutely. All very valid points. I think if we BOTH, man & woman, take accountability - things shall reverse its course back to the way we are intended to be; as a whole.
      Man plays man’s role and woman plays theirs. It’s easy to conflate woman’s role to “cooking, cleaning, slaving etc.,” as many say, but there is no nexus between the two. In some cultures, man cooks, and does it very well.
      I’m not masculine just for feminine woman. Therefore, woman should not be feminine for only masculine men. Be ourselves and play our natural role and things turn out well.
      Self respect, be good to one’s self and respect nature, and most importantly, BE YOURSELFFFF.

  • @jaysonwatkins5866
    @jaysonwatkins5866 2 года назад +12

    love it when women come back to reality😂

  • @jmarcomccray700
    @jmarcomccray700 2 года назад

    Most women never answer the “What do you bring to the table?” It’s ridiculous. Most of the time they have nothing to bring. They make it seem like it’s disrespectful…

  • @jamesross1798
    @jamesross1798 2 года назад +6

    *God asks modern woman in heaven::* "Why didn't you find your soulmate during your lifetime".
    *Modern woman in heaven:* "I didn't want to compete for him".

    • @jamesross1798
      @jamesross1798 2 года назад

      @@MsTsSecretRecipes But you'll compete for a temporary job tho

    • @jamesross1798
      @jamesross1798 2 года назад

      @@MsTsSecretRecipes Like in sports, any team that don't compete will lose

    • @jamesross1798
      @jamesross1798 2 года назад

      @@MsTsSecretRecipes No y'all wanna lose so bad seems more fitting

  • @truftelar2580
    @truftelar2580 2 года назад +1

    Hell nah... if that's my ex and I moved on. I couldn't care less if one of my boys get with my ex. They don't even have to tell me until the wedding day!
    Just make sure I'm invited and get the steK plate!!!😭🤣🤣😭

  • @animelvr99
    @animelvr99 2 года назад

    She actually said what she brought to the table! I feel this is the first time I heard this IRL. Like think about that. We know men have to have all these list of qualifications. But then we don't hear what women bring besides "im the table"

  • @BLACKB0ND
    @BLACKB0ND 2 года назад +41

    These chicks have standards for everyone but Pookie and Ray Ray do continue to treat them accordingly. If they don’t want to compete cool. This is why Becky is winning because unlike Ben Simmons, Becky comes to play and isn’t afraid to shoot

    • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
      @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 2 года назад

      They are still young so they don't understand yet. Once they get older and start wanting kids and marriage, they will realize how rare a good man is.

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 2 года назад +5

      @@if.i.dusse_somyself7683 that’s a weak excuse bro. Being young doesn’t excuse bad behavior and poor decision making. BM wouldn’t be afforded the same empathy for their behavior and choices.

    • @LeekedBeats
      @LeekedBeats 2 года назад +4

      @@if.i.dusse_somyself7683 nah because this same stuff has been happening for decades. The she’s young excuse is bullshit. And I’m a young woman myself.

    • @if.i.dusse_somyself7683
      @if.i.dusse_somyself7683 2 года назад

      Being naive and without wisdom is something we all once were. Young women don't tend to know what they NEED in a man until they get older. So when they are younger, they tend to choose men based on frivolous things. After their looks start to fade and they've gone thru some heartbreak, they start to want a good man. They care less about the looks and the thrill that he brings.

    • @Goldenchild325
      @Goldenchild325 2 года назад

      @@LeekedBeats much respect young lady, you actually get it. One of these women in the video is already a single mother. When are we going to start drawing the line as Black people.

  • @kcjones7735
    @kcjones7735 2 года назад

    Cali in the Building, Wmen be saying some weird stuff sometimes, Ladies you’ll always Compete ALWAYS💯💯🍻

  • @suprememedjai4433
    @suprememedjai4433 2 года назад

    See that friend thing is annoying. I have had genuine feelings for a woman and she likes me back but just because her friend knew me first and likes me she is not messing with me.

  • @joestha1
    @joestha1 2 года назад +2

    I respect the girl in the grey for actually answering the question. Had me nervous in the beginning when she said she was the table and the legs. Skip to 20:55 for the main topic.

    • @dynamicsolider102
      @dynamicsolider102 2 года назад +1

      She really didn't say much though. That's all good but that's legit the basics

  • @HumptyMcFly
    @HumptyMcFly 2 года назад

    She thinks she’s a prize 😂😂😂 Life (and The Wall) is going to hit her hard AF.

  • @kurtwagner7610
    @kurtwagner7610 2 года назад

    Proverbs 21:19
    It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.

  • @patcrowder608
    @patcrowder608 2 года назад

    They are only the prize for the men they choose. The question should be how they are the prize for the kind man that provides them with protection, provision, problem-solving and procreation. He also has discipline, integrity, ethics and morals. Who is the prize now? Would they have to compete for that type of man and not the men they choose?

  • @get470
    @get470 2 года назад

    This Ma said I heard it in a movie....What?!! Proof that girls think that drama is actually reality and that they are entitled to a Hollywood ending

  • @mwanzafitalpha9827
    @mwanzafitalpha9827 2 года назад +1

    1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
    2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
    3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
    4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
    5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
    6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
    7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
    8. Stay away from single mothers
    9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
    10. Never fully commit
    11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
    12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
    13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
    14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
    15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf🚀👀💯✅✅✅
    👀💯✅✅✅

  • @lewulfe7675
    @lewulfe7675 2 года назад +4

    Y'all keep being that Prize nobody claiming... I got a better shot at powerball then winning anything with that mindset for a collaborator in life.

  • @akashajohnson5379
    @akashajohnson5379 2 года назад

    So….they basically saying if a women is obsessed over a man, who don’t wanna be with her, who don’t value her, because she obsessed with him she got authority over who talk to him ???? He don’t wanna be with him but I’m obsessed with him so leave him alone or I’m gon be hurt or I’m gon hate you…..sometimes us females gotta learn to get the flip over stuff and stop justifying stupid things. That doesn’t make sense. Stop letting yo “friend” live inna false reality and stop letting her look crazy and dumb. He don’t want you, get over it.

  • @marcusthomas6998
    @marcusthomas6998 2 года назад +2

    Guys asking the wrong questions. These women accomplishments aren't important. What are they ages and time is never on their sides.

  • @Roan.bot.
    @Roan.bot. 2 года назад

    “What do you mean compete?” Well what do you expect from a man for you to be interested in him? What does he have to do to express his intentions?

  • @katrinalovely9017
    @katrinalovely9017 2 года назад

    Whether you know it or not you are always in competition with other woman/men ….