Advice for Couples With Babies | Jordan Peterson
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- Jordan Peterson advice for couples who have babies.
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I know from personal experience that fathers can be jealous of a baby.
Having a baby (now 3) was traumatic. The initial lack of sleep alone is life changing. You must be prepared to be pushed beyond the limits of your capabilities. If you hang on, it yields great things for your marriage and your personal growth as a human being though. Everyday has its successes and failures. You never have a full handle on it. You must accept that and be open to coming face to face daily with your own weaknesses as a human being. Nothing makes you grow up more than being a parent. That's why it's one of the most important things we can do in this life.
While I get that it's a huge change, I wonder if we aren't suffering from lack of community. While I wouldn't say life isn't easier or simpler compared to the past, we simply don't have to worry about some of the most fundamental things our ancestors did. I don't think they could've had children successfully if they did it like we do now. More social support will be crucial if population is to be maintained.
What the heck....I was very happy that my wife spent all her time with the baby. That saved my time from doing all those tasks! Caring for a baby is hugely labor intensive.
I genuinely believe Men taking Paternity leave remedies all of this. When one parent ( mom) creates an attachment bond in early development that child will naturally go to that one parent ( mom) for every need throughout their development. I genuinely believe most dads want to participate and might feel jealous of their partner because the children seek their partner instead of them.
Let's be honest men love showing / teaching grown women things. I can't imagine they wouldn't want to do the same with their children.
Ps I am here for date nights, couples must actively choose each other and in the same breath I know Child development from 0-5yrs old is the most formational to the nature of who they are and has long-term effects either positive or negative.
I would hope most couples wait to have kids so their selfishness doesn't negatively impact the human life they choose to bring in.
( every behaviour has an effect. Every action has a reaction, "oops babies" are just juvenile parents avoiding accountability.
Jordan is unaware of the emotional oneness/separation processes and stages of development.
Emotional oneness is the precursor to emotional separation.
Before consciously experiencing emotional oneness, the human mind is innately terrified of emotional separation.
Emotional separation before emotional oneness is interpreted by the unconscious mind as synonymous with abandonment and death.
Jordan is severely trapped in a dark unconscious emotional limbo of missing emotional oneness (missing the nurture process), which, in step with his father and grandfather, he imposes on his family. Jordan like his father and grandfather, cannot emotionally tolerate emotional separation.
Jordan's missing emotional oneness process shows up as listening and speaking disconnected from actual human experiences and development.
Jordan's disconnection shows up as vicious circles of superficial articulations and compulsions replete with no resolution.
Jordan's mother was mentally unavailable for the nurture/coregulation/attachment stages.
Jordan's mother is mentally trapped in an incompetence hierarchy in which mothers and their children are preoccupied with trying to compensate for the father's incapacity to support and protect the deep connection between child and mother that is the essential foundation for emotional separation and self-regulation.
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@@LeroyDogg one step at a time Leroy.
This is your warning that you've gone down the psychobabble rabbit hole. You're in a culture dude
@@elianafreeman9891 Take the time and space you need to consciously integrate what's happening Eliana. You can do it a bit at a time by putting aside the incompetent voices and attitudes of your parents and other authority figures.
No one knows or cares what this means